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The Infinite Relating Podcast

The Infinite Relating Podcast
Author: Bez Stone & Freyja Dietrich
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Welcome to Infinite Relating, the revolutionary approach to relationships. Say goodbye to outdated relationship norms that simply don't work and embrace a new paradigm that encourages us to become trailblazers of genuine and vulnerable connections. Join us as we embark on a journey towards authentic and transformative relationships.
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For better or worse, wanting, desiring, and chasing can be such familiar energies for us to be in. What happens when we actually receive what we've been asking for? What fears or blocks might arise? What new tools can support us in being fully present with -and enjoying- the having?
Many of us try to be perfect in our connections and avoid conflicts at all costs. Allowing ourselves to be messy and real has allowed us to learn that rupture is actually an opportunity for healing and connection.
Bez and Freyja explore desire as the compass of their new relationship terrain. From solo polyamory to devotional partnership, hear how desire informs and serves their intentions for creating their most interesting and nourishing connections.
Change is inevitable in life and relationships. How do we source safety and security as our relationships grow, evolve, and transition? Bez and Freyja explore the ways that they build solid ground to hold them through the turmoil of relational expansion and contraction.
Selfishness has a bad rap in the dating and relating world. Having both just gone through a renaissance of selfhood, Bez and Freyja explore how being selfish can actually benefit everyone involved. When explored consciously, being selfish can guide us back to truth, authenticity, and greater intimacy with ourselves and others.
This week Bez and Freyja explore the many facets of desire from the outlandish to the tender, and how to move through the conditioned obstacles to our deeper truths.
In Infinite Relating, boundaries can increase connection rather than inhibit it—but the process of adjusting to each other's needs and limits can be rocky. Discover with us how to set boundaries from the inside out so we can live our truth and have the connections we crave.
When the opportunity presented itself, Bez and Freyja thought it would be so much fun to date the same guy... and it was! Until it wasn't. In this episode, we unpack our first relationship rupture and how to navigate being poly in the same community.
Nearly two years after discovering the concept of "Us Between Us," Bez and Freyja revisit the magic of the nuance in attending to You, Me, and Us.
In this episode, we dive into our fresh journeys into solopolyamory after years of partnership. We share our excitement, explore how to stay rooted in desire rather than obligation, and reflect on what it means to navigate this new chapter with openness and curiosity.
Explore how embracing change and breaking free from scripts can deepen connection, foster growth, and help you move through transitions with grace and authenticity.
Sovereignty means I have the right and responsibility to make the decisions that are best for me. Bez and Freyja share the tools to determine how to interact with the other "nations" that I share borders with, to foster connection and intimacy, to share new experiences, and to care for myself and my inner world.
Ironically, one of the most effective ways we've found to sabotage our relationships is to try to be a "good partner." By investigating these shoulds and where they came from, we give ourselves a greater chance at being in truly fulfilling relationships.
Using the podcast as a living lab, we explore some feedback we received on how our sneaky habits quietly erode our relationships without us realizing it. How can we catch the habits we don't see?
While we've come into an Infinite Relating renaissance, getting there wasn't pretty. This week we share more of our struggles of the last four months, and the ways that we got ourselves out of the darkest moments. Join us here and coming soon IRL for our Infinite Relating Community Circle on the second and 4th Thursday nights 7-9pm in Santa Cruz, starting Dec 12, location TBD. More info soon at infiniterelatingpodcast.com and on Facebook.
Bez and Freyja are back! Through many transformations, we catch up on the last several months and explore our diverse responses to relationship changes and how Infinite Relating encompasses all of it.
As we go deeper with Infinite Relating, we discover truth and reality live on a spectrum rather than at a set point. Moving along the spectrum between catastrophe and wishful thinking empowers us to appreciate what we have while also going after what we want.
From parenting to work to romantic relationships, there are infinite ways to be in connection. How do we explore this infinite gray area while having boundaries so we don't get lost?
What does it mean to be partners? Why is it different? Choosing the shared label is only the first step to being in a partnership. Here are some tools we're exploring to actively participate in this living, dynamic co-creation.
As we stretch and expand our minds in this growth work of relating, our nervous systems can still get stuck in old fear patterns and sensations. This week Bez and Freyja share some new magic spells to heal and train our nervous systems that we are safe to explore new edgey ways of connecting.