The Labia Lounge

This week in The lounge I brought back on Dr. Jae West to chat about the erotic blueprints framework, created by Miss Jaiya (as seen on Sex, Love and Goop).We cover:the superpowers and shadows of each of the five blueprints why it's important to understand your unique and specific pathways to arousalwhat to do and how to navigate it when you and a partner have very different erotic blueprints and things that turn you onand how to enhance you intimacy and experiences between the sheets with this framework as a guide/inspiration to help you explore with curiosity and creativity so that you can be having better segz!Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Check out Jae's work here: @dr.jae_west on Insta and hit her up for a 10% discount to work privately with her by mentioning this podcast!Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on The Labia Lounge I chatted with Yemi Penn, a global thought leader, engineer, author, film-maker, researcher, and keynote speaker. On top of all these incredibly impressive accolades, Yemi is also delightfully warm, deeply empathetic, and wonderfully human. Speaking with her was such an honour, and her thoughtful perspectives and raw life experience is true a gift to the podcast.We discuss things like rebellious curiosity, leadership, breaking inherited cycles and trauma in this thought-provoking episode. Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Check out Yemi's work here: www.yemipenn.comMake sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialoungeOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagrafOr at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on The Labia Lounge pod, I sit down with Conor and Xander, from Human Love Quest—a live, on-stage dating show! HLQ is a potent antidote to the monotony (and, let's face it, dehumanisation) of dating apps! We dive into the world of “dating in the wild,” exploring how to cultivate confidence, approach connections in real life, and maybe even find your own meet-cute moment.Conor and Xander pull back the curtain on what it’s really like to host their inclusive, hilarious, and surprisingly wholesome dating show, plus, we get real about how the pandemic, tech, and social shifts have transformed how we socialize and search for love in 2025.You’ll hear confessions about awkward early sex ed (shoutout to Harold the Giraffe), real-talk about social anxiety and dating app fatigue, and practical tips on how to put yourself out there without feeling like a creep—or a walking rejection waiting to happen.Highlights include:The inspo behind Human Love Quest and what actually happens at their eventsWhy we’re more anxious, less socially skilled, and lonelier than ever—and how live dating events and taking some risks with new connections IRL can bridge the gapFun (and cringe) stories from the "Ahoy There" love notes barrelPractical, modern advice for both men and women to make authentic connections in person, even if it’s terrifying!The reality of dating apps—what they help with, what they mess up, and how much they’re monetising our lonelinessIf you’re craving authentic connection, ready to ditch the apps (at least for a night), or just want to laugh and learn about love in the modern age, this episode is for you. AND I'd highly recommend attending a HLQ event at your earliest convenience - it's good shit!Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Follow HLQ: https://www.instagram.com/humanlovequest?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==Human Love Quest info & sign-upMake sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialoungeOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagrafOr at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week in The Labia Lounge we pulled up a clit cushion and wrapped our hands around a mug of hot cho-cho for an epic chat about all things relationships.My guest was Zach Brittle, host of Marriage Therapy Radio and the author of the bestselling relationship guide The Relationship Alphabet and The Marriage Therapy Journal.Zach shared loads of helpful insights and strategies for maintaining a healthy, loving, and intimate relationship, and we explored the common pitfalls of relationships, the thing that all good relationships share, and what we can be doing to get out of a rut or avoid relationship disaster in the long term!You can check out Zach/s work and podcast here: https://marriagetherapyradio.com/Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialoungeOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagrafOr at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this juicy, juicy (and loooong) episode of The Labia Lounge I got to chat with some seriously awesome folk while they attended Melbourne's largest and most deluxe play parties at Melbourne Pavilion. Virtue & Vice's 'Boudoir' event is a smorgasbord of sensory delights and performances and slowly is becoming a favourite haunt of The Lab Lounge! I've done a few episodes in the past about these amazing events and interviewed not only party goers, but the creator/organiser of V&V events for the pod. The community is a thriving, warm and welcoming bunch of people, so enjoy listening to them let us in on what they love about the lifestyle, tell stories of their first ever sex party experiences, and chat about their Fucket Lists! Check out Virtue & Vice's upcoming events here: https://www.virtueandvice.com.au/Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialoungeOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagrafOr at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week in The Labia Lounge I got to have an incredible and in-depth conversation with Shael Norris, founding executive director of SafeBAE—the only US national survivor-founded, youth-led organization working to prevent sexual violence among teens.Shael shares her journey from working in theatre on the iconic Vagina Monologues to three decades of hands-on activism, empowering young people to break cycles of abuse in their schools and communities. She gives us a run down on the birth of SafeBAE, its involvement in creating peer-to-peer resources, and the importance of centering survivors’ experiences in both healing and systemic change.We explore:Why true consent culture starts before university, and how art and activism can powerfully intersectHow rape culture is normalised, and what it really looks like among teenagersThe origins and impact of SafeBAE’s acclaimed prevention curriculum and policy toolkitsDigital safety: navigating nudes, cyberbullying, and bystander interventionInnovative approaches that seek accountability—not just punishment—for young perpetrators, and support for those harmedThe importance of embedding consent education across all subjects, not just health classWhat’s missing from traditional sex ed, and why pleasure, boundaries, and emotional skills matterSimple, actionable ways parents, teachers, and students alike can shift the culture—starting now with accessible strategies and suggestionsShael also gets real about the ongoing struggle for funding sexual violence prevention in the US, the global public health crisis of teen sexual assault, and the life-or-death stakes of this work.Tune in for hard truths, goosebump moments, and a dose of hope. Whether you’re a student, educator, parent or anyone who cares about safer schools and happier lives, this conversation is for you.Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!Resources & Links:SafeBAE website & free resourcesAudrie & Daisy documentaryMan CaveTeach Us Consent*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialoungeOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this extra special, extra juicy episode you're treated to a smorgasbord of stories from real people about their first maz experiences. We hear some pretty beautiful and entertaining stories - some quite moving, some quite shocking, some quite funny and all very human and raw. Just how we like it here in The Labia Lounge!Big shout outs to everyone who contributed and had the courage and openness to tell their story in this bumper episode! If you've got a story that you didn't get to share in this episode, send it in for the follow up Part 2 or for a future feature in the regular TMI segment!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialoungeOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Labial Lovers, buckle up! This week, I welcome back the one-and-only Justine Ang Fonte, award-winning sex educator and labial legend from @Goodbyes, for a juicy, tell-all episode about her wild ride through the fertility industry.Ever wondered if egg freezing is a golden ticket or just an empty promise of peace of mind and future babies? Why are fertility clinics minting cash while future mamas are left in the dark? What don’t they tell you about the efficacy of the process and the actual likelihood that it'll result in parenthood?Plus:• How the “insurance-policy” promises of egg freezing can backfire HARD• The brutal physical, emotional, and financial toll of the baby making biz• Social stigma, shaming trolls, and why people have so many opinions about your ovaries• How to make the biggest decision of your life (baby or new kitchen?!)And you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Check out Justine's work here: justinefonte.com@imjustineafMake sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialoungeOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on The Labia Lounge I got to chat with Micah Stover - therapist, educator and author of Healing Psychedelics.This episode will completely CHANGE the way you think about psychedelics, trauma recovery, and owning your sexual power.🔥What’s REALLY behind the psychedelic renaissance? (Hint: It’s NOT just Woodstock nostalgia.) 🔥How can mushrooms, MDMA and more actually help you heal sexual trauma—and maybe even unlock your FIRST orgasm? (Yep, you read that right.) 🔥Are we losing ancient wisdom and risking cultural appropriation in the current “trendy” psychedelic boom? 🔥Why does slowing down (in bed & in life!) matter SO much for pleasure and healing? 🔥What’s the risk most people don’t know about getting high without proper ceremony, preparation or integration?Plus some practical advice for curious souls (or your mum!) who want to dip a toe SAFELY into these healing waters.We also discuss Micah's near death birthing experience, the risks and the possible pitfalls of these medicines and how to mitigate risks as much as possible, Micah's advocacy and education around harm reduction in the psychedelic assisted therapy space, and the training involved to become a therapist who facilitates this work. Micah speaks so eloquently and with such nuance about such a misunderstood and stigmatized topic here, and there's so much gold in this interview!Her take on the matriarchal rising and shared corporeality between women and the earth are beautifully explored in her work and this chat delves into some really cool areas that I think you'll love!Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!Check out Micah's work here: https://www.micahstoverconsulting.comhttps://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/healing-psychedelics-micah-stover/1144608744IG: @micahsugarfootAnd join the FB group below for the discount code for her book and courses!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialoungeOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week in The Labia Lounge I got to chat with Clementine Morrigan, writer, activist and literary punk who doesn't shy away from talking about the controversial stuff! We tackle a couple of topics rarely given the nuance they deserve: from surviving childhood sexual abuse and incest, to living through the crushing reality of cancel culture and online shaming.Clementine shares her personal journey of healing complex trauma, the ways cancel culture impacts already marginalized survivors, and the intersection between trauma, victim-blaming, and social exile. We discuss the cycles of violence and scapegoating in queer and activist communities, the politics of trauma, and the urgent need for compassionate, non-punitive approaches to justice.Trigger warning: Topics include childhood sexual abuse, trauma, social ostracization, and sexual violence. Please take care when listening.Check out Clementine's podcast and books here: https://www.clementinemorrigan.com/ https://www.instagram.com/clementinemorrigan https://www.fuckingcancelled.com/Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialoungeOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagrafOr at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this informal chat with a friend of mine, I asked for the worst dating stories and sexual experiences she had to dish, and we discussed.From titty slapping and pussy biting, to spiritual fuckboys howling and growling their way to orgasm while telling us to "just let go and be free", we cover all sorts of ground in this eppy, including period sex and what to do when faced with erectile challenges.The audio quality isn't ideal in this one as it was an informal chat without my usual set up. But hopefully you're entertained and also find some food for thought in the deeper discussions that these funny and relatable stories elicit.Enjoy!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialoungeOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week in The Labia Lounge I invited Jessa Zimmerman back for round two!We're tackling a topic every one of us will face: how to adapt and thrive in our intimate lives as we navigate aging, sexual dysfunction, illness, and all the curveballs our bodies and relationships can throw our way. With Jessa’s decades of clinical experience you’ll hear practical tips for reframing expectations, normalizing shifts in libido and desire, grieving the changes, and, most importantly, finding opportunity and pleasure in the new normal.Whether you or someone you love is experiencing physiological shifts, relationship pressure, or just the natural ebbs and flows that come with long-term connection, this episode offers validation, guidance, and a much-needed reminder that great sex and intimacy are absolutely possible at every stage of life—sometimes, it just takes a little reinvention.So buckle up, labial legends. You’re about to get the sex ed you never had, sprinkled with plenty of laughs and the wisdom you need to take your pleasure, connection, and self-compassion to the next level.Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Check out Jessa's work here: www.intimacywithease.comwww.desirediscrepancy.comMake sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialoungeOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagrafOr at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this incredible episode of The Labia Lounge, I have a backyard hang in the sunshine with my dear and darling housemate! She's the baddest bitch I know, and has some seriously hilarious and wild stories to share so I grill her on some of my favourite ones this week.We cover everything from sex positive parenting of the little 4 year old in our household, hymens, early masturbation exploration, and the infamous "sniff and slap", as well as some recent stories that will have you cackling along as though you're lying there topless in our backyard with us.We're thinking about doing this more regularly so if you're keen on this sort of content , holler at a gal!I'll be posting another raw recording from an outrageous night we had in recent times on my Patreon and Buy Me a Coffee pages soon if you'd care to subscribe for as little as $3 a month to get access to that!I'll also pop the accompanying photos/videos from this chat in our private Facebook group for The Labia Lounge for your enjoyment!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialoungeOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on The Labia Lounge I spoke with Brett Buchert about all things PMDD - (Premenstrual Dysphoria Disorder) and how she has healed her PMDD holistically.We cover the way this condition can show up in your cycle, common symptoms, how they impact your life, self worth, and relationships, and what the mainstream medical system will offer as treatment options. Then we delve into some more natural and holistically aligned strategies and avenues for treatment and healing that have been successful for Brett and those she's worked with.Brett is the co-creator of Me v PMDD, the first-ever PMDD symptom tracking app, and Unraveling Cycles, the companion menstrual health education platform. After personally healing from PMDD, she now helps others do the same through cycle awareness, somatic practices, and holistic strategies. With ten years experience in the mental health-menstrual health field and serving on the international PMDD Community Coalition, Brett is passionate about supporting women to unravel from the pain of symptoms and reclaim the power of their cycles.Check out her work here:https://mevpmdd.comhttps://www.unravelingcycles.com/Use code LABIA for 50% off her Menstrual Cycle Awareness for PMDD Masterclasshttps://www.unravelingcycles.com/start-here-pmddPlus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialoungeOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on The Labia Lounge I invited Amy Campbell, from Bare Psychology, to come and talk about body image struggles and how to reclaim our sexual confidence in the bedroom!It was a magnificent way to round out the podcast's 150th episode and I adored this chat with Amy so I know you'll resonate with it too.We talk about how body image challenges sneak their way into the bedroom, how they sabotage our 0rgasms and intimate experiences, and how to wrangle back our sexual confidence so that we can enjoy a relaxed, fully present, and pleasure-filled times with lovers.We give lots of practical tips and some great insights and perspectives for those who battle with body image and self esteem issues when it comes to intimacy, and those who get caught in their heads instead of being present to the pleasure they're meant to be feeling. when they hit the sheets.This one's a ripper and you can get a discount code to Amy's new book by joining the Labia Lounge FB group!Follow Amy's work or work with her here: www.barepyschology.auInsta @bare.byamyBook pre-sale link _ https://catalog.pesi.com/item/the-mindful-sex-guide-146609Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialoungeOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on The Labia Lounge I got to discuss death with Caroline Lee, a death doula and somatic psychologist who supports those who are dying and their family members through this transition.In this chat we discuss the discomfort around mortality and death, how to normalise death and dying, why our society struggles so much with death and aging, and the mystery of the death portal that Caroline has an intimate insight into.We cover some taboo topics in this one and Caroline offers some helpful tips and reflections to give us tools for navigating death in our lives. How to talk about it, what to do if you have aging parents, how to support a loved one who's going through grief and what to do to prepare for death.Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Follow Caroline's work here: https://deathed.thinkific.comwww.instagram.com/howcarolinecarolineswww.instagram.com/death.ed_www.agencyindying.comMake sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialoungeOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagrafOr at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week in The Labia Lounge I did another informal Tub Talks yarn with a dear friend of mine by the river in Warby. We chat about everything from his experience growing up and figuring himself out as a gay man, gay dating and how tricky the scene can be, gender conditioning and neurodivergence, Web 3 and the Metaverse. We also delve into some strong opinions on beauty labour and how we can resist conforming to the beauty standards expected of us, how not getting all the cosmetic procedures like Botox, that're becoming so normalised now, is activism and feminist advocacy in action. And we talk about the societal obsession with youth and how to age gracefully without being overtaken by pressures to resist this natural process with injectable interventions.There's loads in here and it's a frank discussion that I think many will relate to.Back to normal episodes next week!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialoungeOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagrafOr at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on The Labia Lounge I chatted with a friend and legend on screen, Jackson Tozer.Jackson's a multi-award winning Actor, Writer and Director based in Melbourne. Jackson has played a multitude of characters on both Australian and international screens. Beyond his on-screen achievements, Jackson has earned acclaim for his openness in discussing personal struggles as a guest on The Imperfects Podcast. His episode resonated widely, reaching #3 on the Australian Apple charts upon release. Inspired by this experience, Jackson debuted his first solo live comedy show, Jackson Tozer's Assemble, to a completely sold out run and finished in the top 3 highest rated shows at the 2024 Melbourne Fringe Festival.In this eppy we cover a lot of ground so I encourage you to stick with it cos it’s a long one and we really get into the meatier stuff towards the second half. We chat about Jackson’s struggles with mental health, grief, drug addiction, and handling rejection, both in the film and TV industry as well as in his dating life. We get stuck into some realness when we traverse the vulnerable territory around consent, sexuality, performance anxiety and masculinity. And we unpack what it means to be a healthy man, the importance of asking for help, how to improve emotional literacy, and ways to be a good role model for other men and boys. Mental health and being a role model of healthy masculinity and authenticity is something close to Jackson’s heart and at the centre of everything he does, but this hasn’t always been the case, so I hope you gather some helpful insights along the way as we talk about his journey to get here. (TRIGGER WARNING: WE TALK ABOUT SUICIDE)Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Check Jackson out here: https://www.instagram.com/jacksontozer/?hl=en and https://www.imdb.com/name/nm5557090/Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialoungeOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagrafOr at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week in The Labia Lounge I'm re-releasing an oldie but a goodie - an epic episode about menopause with Jane Hardwicke Collings!Everyone should know this stuff about menopause whether they've got a uterus or not and I think there's some valuable wisdom in here for all folks of all genders and ages!Check out Jane's awesome work here: https://janehardwickecollings.com/Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialoungeOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagrafOr at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week in The Labia Lounge we've got the second part of a larger conversation about neurodiversity and intimacy. This time Hannah and I chat about ADHD and it's a fascinating glimpse into the ways in which this effects people's lives and especially their time in the bedroom.Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialoungeOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagrafOr at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.