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Hosts - Murugi Munyi and Lydia K.M.

This is a podcast about life as it is. Messy.

In love, work, money, relationships, friendships and everything in between. But we’re figuring it out and we’d love you to come along on the journey. #tmipodcastke #themessyinbetween #itsmessedup

Instagram handles - @tmipodcast_ @_lydiakm @murugi.munyi

Get in touch with us - tmipodcastke@gmail.com
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The Alpha female. Who is she? What defines her? There’s so much conversation around what it means to be an alpha female and we wanted to sit down and unpack it all. We both fit the definition of the alpha female and we invited Kitt Kiarie who is also an alpha to share our experiences walking in these shoes. Do we like it? What are the challenges? What are the misconception? It was an enlightening conversation to say the least.  Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube:  TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Instagram: TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM - https://instagram.com/_lydiakm?utm_medium=copy_link Murugi Munyi - https://instagram.com/murugi.munyi?utm_medium=copy_link
We are starting a new year and if you listened to us and left that dusty man in 2021, then you may just be ready for your first date!😁  If we are honest, a lot of our ghetto relationships were probably giving us signs from the first date. So this episode is all about the etiquette to make sure you are putting your best foot forward but also making sure you’re not being sold short!  From sex on the first date, who pays for the bill and the mentality we need to date with. We spill the tea on our first date experiences too and what we learnt in the very often ghetto first dates!    Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content!   Youtube:  TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA  Instagram: TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link  Lydia KM - https://instagram.com/_lydiakm?utm_medium=copy_link  Murugi Munyi - https://instagram.com/murugi.munyi?utm_medium=copy_link
And just like that, 2021 is coming to an end. As we start a new one we wanted to share what we are leaving in 2021. From songs, to habits to trends. We want 2022 to be fresh and new so some of things just can't come with us. Some people and places can't come with you either sis. Maybe your man can't either hun. Only you know what kind of 2022 you want so check in and see what needs to be dropped.  Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube:  TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Instagram: TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM - https://instagram.com/_lydiakm?utm_medium=copy_link Murugi Munyi - https://instagram.com/murugi.munyi?utm_medium=copy_link
One of the most overused word in 2021 but a necessary one. We have touched on boundaries before we wanted to do a full episode so we ca share our personal experiences with boundaries and the long ghetto road to learning how to enforce them. Boundaries also have a very bad reputation as most people see them as barriers. We wanted to change that narrative into a positive one. Boundaries are for you and for others in your relationships. We share examples in the workplace, family, relationships and family. We are still learning but getting better. Where do you stand with boundaries? Are you able to set them? Are you still a little apprehensive? Or you bold and confident about setting them? Wherever you stand, We hope this episode serves as support.  Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube:  TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Instagram: TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM - https://instagram.com/_lydiakm?utm_medium=copy_link Murugi Munyi - https://instagram.com/murugi.munyi?utm_medium=copy_link Produced by SEMA BOX.
Money money moooneeyyyy! We are always talking about securing the bag but what happens after the you secure it? What are our money habits and are they they helping us get and stay rich? On this week's episode we share how we are TRYING to have better money habits and the things that have helped. Major disclaimer... we are also very much students in this game so we are also learning. From learning to budget to planning purchases...many things can help us keep our money growing and working for us.  Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube:  TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Instagram: TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM - https://instagram.com/_lydiakm?utm_medium=copy_link Murugi Munyi - https://instagram.com/murugi.munyi?utm_medium=copy_link Produced by SEMA BOX.
Sexual confidence!!! Knowing you deserve pleasure, owing your right to have it and freely enjoying that right. We know that women especially are conditioned to dim this part of their identity and it's rarely talked about. On this episode we shared out journey, our obstacles and ultimately the defining factors that helped us build our sexual confidence. Where you do you feel you fall on the spectrum of sexual confidence? Do you feel shame? Are you somewhere in between? This episode is in collaboration with #formnigani and the Reproductive Health Network Kenya who advocate for positive conversation around family planning and contraception to empower men and women to have control of their sexual outcomes. That control is a huge part of what makes us sexually confident.  For more information from a reproductive health professional - WhatsApp #FormNiKujijali to 0775 533 117  Call free - 0800 211 227  #tmi #tmipodcast #tmipodcastke #kenyanpodcast #africanpodcast  Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube:  TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Instagram: TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM - https://instagram.com/_lydiakm?utm_medium=copy_link Murugi Munyi - https://instagram.com/murugi.munyi?utm_medium=copy_link Produced by SEMA BOX.
It’s here guys! Our first collaboration! And it’s with the best in the biz 🤩 If you don’t know , get out from under your rock and go check their channel out. But first watch this video so you know what to expect 😂 In this testosterone + oestrogen balanced episode, we ask each other why women/men do what they do… and the responses are.. memorable.  Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube:  TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Instagram: TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM - https://instagram.com/_lydiakm?utm_medium=copy_link Murugi Munyi - https://instagram.com/murugi.munyi?utm_medium=copy_link Youtube : Mantalk KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmBQsChFjOTcqv7D6sT8dPw Mantalk.ke -- https://www.instagram.com/mantalk.ke/ Eli Mwenda - https://www.instagram.com/elimwenda/ Oscar Koome Mbabu - https://www.instagram.com/oscar_d_koome/ Produced by SEMA BOX.
Work work work!  One thing we both stand for is the importance of hard work! We have both worked in the corporate world and in the self employment world and along the way we have picked up a lot of lessons from office politics to knowing your value!!! All workplaces are different but the principles are the same. Here as some of the things we wish we knew.  Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content!  Youtube:  TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA  Instagram: TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link  Lydia KM - https://instagram.com/_lydiakm?utm_medium=copy_link  Murugi Munyi - https://instagram.com/murugi.munyi?utm_medium=copy_link   Produced by SEMA BOX.
Episode 10!!!  Moving in with a partner whether a boyfriend or a husband comes with a lot! From making that decision, to the planning, to actually moving in... A lot!! Then there are the expectations vs reality when it comes to the day to day issues. From petty fights to getting used to their weird habits, it takes a lot of getting used to. On this episode we discuss our why we chose o move in with our partners when we did, what it's been like and what we have learnt so far.   Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content!  Youtube:  TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Instagram: TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM - https://instagram.com/_lydiakm?utm_medium=copy_link Murugi Munyi - https://instagram.com/murugi.munyi?utm_medium=copy_link  Produced by SEMA BOX.
We are officially in season 2! Thank you guys for sticking with us this long.. we promise bigger and better as we grow!   Today we start a new series... What We Wish We Knew... and today it's about our 20's. The ghettoest decade of them all. The season of life where we were trying to figure out careers, love, parenting (for Murugi). and everything in the messy in-between! Not to say that we have figured them out now that we are in our 30's but damn,  at least we're somewhere and now we're confident and comfortable with what we know and what we are learning.   So here are some things we wish we knew in our 20's! About love, about life, about sex, about ourselves.  Enjoy the watch!  Follow us for more content!  Youtube:  TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fV...  Instagram: TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?ut...  Lydia KM - https://instagram.com/_lydiakm?utm_me...  Murugi Munyi - https://instagram.com/murugi.munyi?ut...   Produced by SEMA BOX.
Hey inbetweeners! Happy New Year! Welcome to our first episode of the year! We're chatting about things we want for the new year and our resolutions to help us get there! Most resolutions are broken before February but that has never stopped us. Starting the year with intention can be very powerful in helping you clarify how you want to direct your year. We shared our love, self, health, wealth, career and family resolution. We wish you an incredible year ahead and I hope you are able to direct your year towards genuine fulfillment.  We hope you enjoyed this episode. We’d love to hear your views and engage with you on social: Youtube:  TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Instagram: TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM - https://instagram.com/_lydiakm?utm_medium=copy_link Murugi Munyi - https://instagram.com/murugi.munyi?utm_medium=copy_link
We are sorry there was no episode last week. Murugi wasn't well but she is great now. Thank you for the well wishes.   Episode 8 - end of Season 1! - The last of the "unspoken rules of.." series and we are ending with 'unspoken rules of dating!!!' Dating in this age has been said to be an extreme sport. Extreme!!! So we share some of the rules we believe can ease the process. From managing sexpectations to dating as the interviewer not the interviewee...! These rules are a result of a lot of our own personal mistakes so we hope they can help a sis out there!!  Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content!  Youtube:  TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Instagram: TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM - https://instagram.com/_lydiakm?utm_medium=copy_link Murugi Munyi - https://instagram.com/murugi.munyi?utm_medium=copy_link  Produced by SEMA BOX.
Episode 7!!🥳🥳🥳   Disclaimer - Sex should be as free and uninhibited as possible and by all means, you are not weird if you are not following ours. These are the unspoken rules that create a safe environment for us!  Because even with freedom... surely we cannot just run riot! 😄 From no farting to 'slap me but not too hard'... we all have some!  Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content!  Youtube:  TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Instagram: TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM - https://instagram.com/_lydiakm?utm_medium=copy_link Murugi Munyi - https://instagram.com/murugi.munyi?utm_medium=copy_link  Produced by SEMA BOX.
Episode 5!!! We feel like we are truly initiated in the podcast game now! Thank you for being here from the beginning!  This week we talk about a part of our lives that can be so complex… friendships! We share the unspoken rules of healthy adult friendships according to us! We all go through the ghetto… poor boundaries, back stabbing, lack of communication but as we grow, so must our friendships. From how we set boundaries with each other’s partners to projecting insecurities… a few “rules” contribute to making adult friendships healthy!  Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube:  TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Instagram: TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM - https://instagram.com/_lydiakm?utm_medium=copy_link Murugi Munyi - https://instagram.com/murugi.munyi?utm_medium=copy_link Produced by SEMA BOX.
Back with another episode and this week we are sharing things we know for sure!  From what love is, to who is cheating in Nairobi! Here are a few things we know for sure. Let us know what you know for sure in the comments! We love reading your responses.  Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content!  Youtube:  TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGAInstagram:  TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM - https://instagram.com/_lydiakm?utm_medium=copy_link Murugi Munyi - https://instagram.com/murugi.munyi?utm_medium=copy_link  Produced by SEMA BOX.
The Messy Beginning

The Messy Beginning

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Our first episode! Aaaaaaah! Could we be any more excited?! In this episode, we are answering some intimate and some not-so-intimate questions to help you get to know us better. This is the beginning of our journey with you. It's messy, but we're here.  Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube:  TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Instagram: TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM - https://instagram.com/_lydiakm?utm_medium=copy_link Murugi Munyi - https://instagram.com/murugi.munyi?utm_medium=copy_link Produced by SEMA BOX. 
Episode One Trailer

Episode One Trailer

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Hosts - Murugi Munyi & Lydia K.M.  The Messy Inbetween podcast episode 1 promo. Welcome to our space!  This is a podcast about life as it is. Messy. In love, work, money, relationships, friendships and everything in between. But we’re figuring it out and we’d love you to come along on the journey ❤️ New episodes out every Wednesday at 12pm!!!!! Produced by SEMA BOX. 
Being a woman is definitely NOT for the weak 🤣🤣 can we all agree that ? On todays episode we will be talking about some things we don’t get enough credit for as women and boy it really is EVERYTHING 🤣🤣 as women we think we should get credit for just existing, yes ? 🤭 Grab your TMI watching buddy and let’s enjoy this episode, also don’t be shy to tell us your thoughts in the comment section. Enjooooy 😍😍😍 YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA INSTAGRAM TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM - https://instagram.com/_lydiakm?utm_medium=copy_link Murugi Munyi - https://instagram.com/murugi.munyi?utm_medium=copy_link TIKTOK TMI Podcast KE - https://www.tiktok.com/@UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Lydia KM - https://www.tiktok.com/@UCuuTRxZ1bUjg6daywCC6hPA Murugi Munyi - https://www.tiktok.com/@murugimunyi
The one where we deep dive into the world of masculinity yep you heard that 👀👀 We believe that being a man isn’t about conforming to the outdated stereotypes. For this episode we’re joined by Rix Poet, a mental, sexual and reproductive health activist and guys everything about masculinity we thought we knew …OUT THE WINDOW !!! 🤣🤣 We’ll be diving into how we can create a culture that celebrates men for who they truly are, not who society tells them to be… Let’s be open enough as we enjoy this ep cause it’s definitely not like any other WARNING ‼️ This episode may challenge you a bit TOO much 🫡 Find Rix Poet through the link below https://www.instagram.com/rixpoet?igsh=MXN6aTRzOHlwYnhlMw== YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA INSTAGRAM TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM - https://instagram.com/_lydiakm?utm_medium=copy_link Murugi Munyi - https://instagram.com/murugi.munyi?utm_medium=copy_link TIKTOK TMI Podcast KE - https://www.tiktok.com/@UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Lydia KM - https://www.tiktok.com/@UCuuTRxZ1bUjg6daywCC6hPA Murugi Munyi - https://www.tiktok.com/@murugimunyi
Get 50% off your annual subscription on Beducated until the end of April ! Discount is locked for life 😍 LINK TO THE DISCOUNT: https://beducate.me/bg2405-tmipodcast Coupon code: TMIPODCAST Busting common sex myths, are you ready to say goodbye to those wild sex stories you normally think are true ?😆😆 We’ll be honest some of them actually shocked us guys….🤣 get ready to laugh, learn and EMBRACE THE FACTS ! 🤫 YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA INSTAGRAM TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM - https://instagram.com/_lydiakm?utm_medium=copy_link Murugi Munyi - https://instagram.com/murugi.munyi?utm_medium=copy_link TIKTOK TMI Podcast KE - https://www.tiktok.com/@UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Lydia KM - https://www.tiktok.com/@UCuuTRxZ1bUjg6daywCC6hPA Murugi Munyi - https://www.tiktok.com/@murugimunyi
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BRIAN MARS

I love you ladies. I have learnt a lot from your discussions.

May 8th
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muriuki meshack

I might start mentioning projects I like the look of, or projects I think suck. No mention is an endorsement or financial advice. But staying TOTALLY silent is keeping me out of loads of interesting threads and conversations.

Apr 10th
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BRIAN MARS

Sending love from Uganda. since the day I got to hear your show, I fell in love and have been glued. I am a guy by the way and ashamedly share with bae some of the advice you give during the show to improve our relationship. More love from here. ❤️🤗🙏

Feb 15th
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zee

oh wow, great piece.

Nov 18th
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Racheal Nzatu

i knew the friendship was over when they didnt show up for my events but expected me to be part of all their events. They had all sorts of excuses. I just figured i was less important to them and just left the whatsapp group

May 11th
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Maureen Msaky

loved this topic 😃

Feb 16th
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Maureen Msaky

loved this..so inspiring 💕💕

Jan 11th
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Enny Ngunju

I find it interesting how men will think their thought processes and actions are simple in comparison to their women counterparts and vice versa (pretty sure both groups refer to each other as complicated as a collective). But my take away from this has been that at the core of it all it's as simple as it seems. Stop trying to justify or find hidden meanings, just take the hint, cut your losses and move on. Otherwise, I'm enjoying the synergy you guys have

Dec 1st
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ID26230258

I love this podcast is amazing

Jul 13th
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roselyne kinyua

just discovered the podcast and it is amazing. binging on all the episodes. and each one feels so relatable as a girl in her mid 20s going through adulting. you are doing an amazing job.

Mar 1st
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FAITH NDANU

I am actually surprised that no one left a comment here,,, how?? Why🙄🙄. This episode was bomb💥💥💥

Nov 11th
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Cynthia Wanjiru

❤ I love the conversations that you guys are having it's so educative... I'm learning from your you wish you knew😊

Sep 24th
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joycathy wanjiku

this episode was so much fun...

Sep 19th
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Sella Wasikenda

Aaaaah,I loved this🤣🤣.

Aug 25th
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Mumbi Chegeh

I love love this podcast 💜💜💜it's definitely TMI👌👌👌

Aug 6th
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Mercy Kulemo

Good stuff definitely coming back for more❤️

Jul 10th
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Shiru Wainainah

This is one podcast I will always enjoy listening. Good job ladies

Jul 7th
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