The Muse's Lab

One might say I’m finally talking about pleasure in detail…Inspired by a podcast clip on sex magic, the category of pleasure came to me and wouldn’t let me go. In this episode, I go back to the beginning of what brought me into the category of pleasure from the Say It With Sex era to The Muse’s Lab evolution. I also share how I define pleasure beyond penetration—a core theme within The Lab—as well as three ways I define the category of pleasure itself. Additionally, I sprinkle in some distinctions and open the door to discuss a key framework in The Lab, The Five Stages of Pleasure.This is a quick trip, but grab a notebook if you’re a notetaker, along with your fave drink and a little snack. Let’s ride!_________00:00 What Pleasure Means01:16 Welcome and Origin Story03:41 Beyond Penetration07:06 Three Pillars of Pleasure08:15 Pleasure as a Praxis10:07 Pleasure Mapping Rituals12:08 Pleasure as Values14:13 Why This Topic Now14:54 Sex Magic Context17:31 DNA Consent and Ethics22:39 Binding Spells Warning26:19 Practical Daily Pleasure29:21 Oracle Deck and Closing

It’s been a minute, but I’m back and inspired by a social media trend that had me rehash my days as an Indie Author. The community's outrage pushed me to finally talk about my experience of being unpublished twice by faux friends who, at the time, had small followings. I share my journey to becoming TheAuthorLT aka L.T. Robinson, what I learned in the face of being unpublished, and how I chose to move forward (and possibly republish my work). Be prepared for this adventure with a stress ball, a good cuppa tea, and an open mind.Video Chapters00:00 Welcome to Muse's Lab00:35 Podcast Goes Video02:07 Netflix Trend Setup04:44 Author Origin Story05:24 Early Writing Roots08:50 Fast Forward to 201212:31 Turning Script Into Novel18:08 Publishing Lessons Learned26:19 Royalties Reality Check27:26 Book Two Roadblock30:48 New Imprint New Hope34:07 Unpublished Again38:05 Reclaiming My Name41:49 Closing Thanks and Next Steps______________________________For more information or to collab, email [email protected] Learn more about my work hereSign up for weekly musingsJoin the conversation Instagram | Threads

By now, if you're on social media, you've heard about Megan Thee Stallion’s breakup. Adjacent to that, there's a lot of chatter about parasocial relationships (cause we always ride for Meg) and the risk of putting your relationship on display. In this adventure, I explore why so many of us were invested in Meg’s happiness, the infinite disdain of men playing in women's faces, and a reframe on loving loud and feverishly. Can you embrace your "lover girl era" bravely? Deep dive with me. Key Episode Chapters:00:00 Welcome to Muse's Lab00:35 Meg Breakup Context02:49 Parasocial Relationships Defined05:48 Influencer Perspective08:25 Why We Rooted13:32 Nonmonogamy Fallout15:15 Men Defend Men20:25 Manifesting Fear Loop25:08 Misled Not Wrong31:51 Reframing Embarrassment35:23 Why Men Cheat Down39:55 Dating for Social Currency48:48 Parasocial Relationships as Inspiration58:21 Stop Policing Your Happiness01:00:24 Closing ______________________________For more information or to collab, email [email protected] Learn more about my work hereSign up for weekly musingsJoin the conversation Instagram | Threads

Welcome back to another adventure at The Muse's Lab Pod. This episode was inspired by two posts, one from Farha Khalidi and Elianne the @tiwtchy.witch who, in their own way, brought up key points about heauxism as a derogatory label and the push for modesty through the privatization of sex. Both posts highlight Queen Jezebel and led me down a path of exploration. In this podcast, you'll find references to the following: "Divesting from Sexual Liberation""The Devil is the Lie to Keep You Unaccountable""Can Women be Misogynistic?""Finding Pleasure" - Soul Chat with Ebony M. Tutora (start at 20:50 for the reframe of coincidence)Chapters in this episode00:00 Welcome and Trigger Warning01:36 OnlyFans Debate and Jezebel Label04:46 Jezebel as Queen Reframed08:42 Patriarchy and Biblical Propaganda11:21 Good Girl Rules and Resentment13:54 Sex Energy and Celibacy Myths21:51 Wise Woman Witch Rebrand25:14 Access Entitlement and Sovereignty29:03 Reclaiming Jezebel as Power34:36 Closing and Final Takeaway____________________For more information or to collab, email [email protected] Learn more about my work hereSign up for weekly musingsJoin the conversation Instagram | Threads

Shout out to consistency!In this episode, I take a look at love, romance, and safety from the perspective of an ADHDer, who’s been out of the dating scene for some years. Inspired by ADHD content creator Brittany Elizabeth, I challenged the old adage of love feeling like “butterflies” and called flag on the play. Tying those butterflies to some of my most harmful experiences, I share my journey to how I’m reframing dating, what good feels like in a potential partner, and how certain friendships serve as a great foundation to write a new intimate path. Chapters and Timestamps00:00 Welcome to Muse Lab00:41 Consistency and Creativity02:05 ADHD Brain Downloads09:24 Dating as a Challenge14:54 Butterflies Are a Red Flag16:44 Family Roots and Cycles24:24 Transactional Love Lessons31:15 Toxic Relationships and Safety38:00 Rewriting Dating Patterns41:06 Words Create Reality42:58 Quantum Leap Through Speech44:22 Dating Prophecies Come True47:04 ADHD Reframing Identity54:43 Butterflies Versus Safety55:29 Defining Safe Love01:04:52 Raising the Bar Saying No01:11:01 Butterflies Are Moths01:13:57 Onward to the Next Adventure___________________________________________________For more information or to collab, email [email protected] Learn more about my work hereSign up for weekly musingsJoin the conversation Instagram | Threads