The Ope Podcast

Abby opens up about her struggles during the holiday season. She spend her first day of Christmas break at home aka thinking which everyone knows is a dangerous place to be. Abby deeps dives her thoughts and feelings on this week’s episode. She opens up about how she’s not sure if there’s ever been a romantic partner that has taken the time to truly get to know the “real” her. Abby’s Ope Story involves licking and biting in public and almost getting arrested.

TW: Nicki and Abby briefly discuss the Supreme Court’s decision to overturn Roe v Wade (01:50 - 10:15). Nicki tells the listeners if she’s planning on proposing to her boyfriend. Abby discusses her hopes and dreams of becoming a rock star. Nicki and Abby deep dive their astrology charts and their experiences with tarot cards. Abby may or may not have major relationship changes over the next 7 months. Nicki’s Ope story includes 7 oopsie babies.

Abby has Felicia York, founder of Fort Wayne Social Club, on the podcast. Felicia opens the podcast up by explaining what FWSC is. The girls give advice on how to make friends. Felicia has moved to multiple states, so she gives advice on moving and making friends in new places. She discusses the importance of building your own life when you move to a new city with a partner. They discuss confidence and being seen. Abby thinks this is the funniest episode to date. Instagram & Facebook: @fortwaynesocialclub**Follow to stay up to date on future social club eventsIG:@theopepod@abbymccarvilleTikTok:@abbyjeanmccarville

Abby has Madison Eshelman founder of Groundwork Coaching and co-founder of Self Seeking School back on the podcast. This episode is an extension of Madison's previous episodes 60 & 61. Abby opens the episode up explaining how Groundwork Coaching has positively impacted her life. Madison give an overview of Self Seeking School. The ladies discuss mental health topics such as your window of tolerance, the importance of slowing down, anxious attachment, Madison's Rolodex Theory, deconstruction religion, law of detachment and manifesting, feeling your anger, and the importance of self love. Websites:https://selfseekingschool.com/https://madisonshea.com/Socials:@madison.shae_coaching@selfseekingschool@theopepod@abbymccarvilleTikTok:abbyjeanmccarville

Abby has her number one reoccurring guest on the podcast this week, Saige. The girls opened the podcast by catching up on what's new in Saige's life since the last time they recorded almost 2 years prior. They joke about the money they would be saving if weddings didn't exist and their proposal to replace bridal showers. This week the girls deep dive into the topic of red flags in relationships and the lessons they've learned by going through heartbreak in your 30s. Abby discusses her current contemplation of "what is love?" They end the podcast doing a would you rather segment and discuss their excitement for the release of Reputation (Taylor's Version). IG:theopepodabbymccarvilleTikTok:abbyjeanmccarville

Abby has Jessica Bunch on the podcast. The girls discuss the beauty of starting a friendship in your 30s. Jess goes through her painful medical journey including difficult doctors, advocating for herself, and an endometriosis diagnosis. She explains how she’s open to having a child without a partner. The girls discuss exploring sexuality and where they’re currently at with dating. Jessica gives the listeners an overview of her experience working with Planned Parenthood, losing a job due to budget cuts, and the current project she’s working on now. We end the episode with an inspiring story about the time Jess met VP Kamala Harris. Important links & socials referenced in the episode: 2025 Session Project Overview: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1OihhwCZtbmsQE7Zgw8HSdfUmfyYz8uC6EU9svX7FIjs/edit?usp=sharingIGA List of all recordings & transcripts: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1iuT3qS1AFkfqnt8iGG62f6j6ZF_IkCUZ9TymNje92Y0/edit?usp=sharingMADVoters Bill Tracker:https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1-ZDP8XmrXSRTQe4Hy_nixzdaTYpwx5KgzvRhaLBFBRM/edit?usp=sharingMADVoters IG:madvoters Jessica’s creations IG:starlit.loopstherealjessica__Abby’s IG:theopepodabbymccarville TikTok: abbyjeanmccarville

Abby has her previous co-host, Nicki, back on the podcast this week for a little reunion episode. The ladies breakdown what’s changed since the last time they recorded together. They discuss the movie, Babygirl, and how they loved the overall theme of the movie. Nicki and Abby deep dive their thoughts on the men in the movie, the shame that was depicted in it, and the overall sex positive message it portrayed. The girls talk a little pop culture and give their thoughts on the Blake Lively and Justin Baldoni scandal. The girls disagree on their takes. Abby explains why she may be projecting her feelings toward the emotional abuse that was shown in the movie. Nicki tells the listener a few things that she’s currently struggling with and gives the listeners some really exciting news. The ladies end the episode discussing Timothee Chalamet’s appearance on SNL, what radicalized their politics, and Nicki Glaser.IG:theopepodabbymccarvilleTok:abbyjeanmccarville

After taking a year off from the podcast, Abby is finally back to doing her favorite thing. Yap! She has her sister, Jessica, on the podcast this week to discuss their celebrity crushes. For anyone that doesn’t know, spoiler alert, Abby’s crush is Timothee Chalamet and Jess keeps hers a mystery. Abby tells the listeners what’s changed in her life since the last time she recorded from her relationship status, therapy, and hygiene. Abby provides some insight as to why she stopped recording podcast episodes and now why she’s finally bringing it back. Jess talks about her nerves with the TikTok ban (recorded prior to the 12 hour ban) and how much she loves her BookTok community. The girls deep dive the concept of Decentering men. Thank you for checking out the episode! Love you all. IG: theopepod abbymccarville Tok: abbyjeanmccarville Guest socials :jessica_joan_reads

This is part 1 of Abby’s interview with Tyler. They start out the episode discussing if they’re friends or acquaintances. Tyler reveals that he has made advances towards Abby, so he confirms they are in fact friends. Abby makes a few confessions to Tyler which include the first time they met and an event they both attended. Tyler gives the listeners a confusing answer to his relationship status. Abby deep dives her feelings about her ex boyfriend telling Tyler that she is off limits to him. He opens up about an unfiltered question he’d ask one of his exes.

This is part 2 of Abby's conversation with Darby. They discuss how "Ope" and ope sound different in their heads. The ladies deep dive The Walking Dead, binge worthy second watches like Buffy The Vampire Slayer, Veronica Mars, and Gilmore Girls. Abby has a theory on Saltburn. Darby closes the episode out with one of the funniest Ope Stories.

Abby has Darby on the podcast this week - part 1 of their conversation. The ladies open the episode up by discussing the drama with Darby's almost released podcast. Abby makes a confession on the podcast that she's never opened up about publicly. They discuss being confident at work and how to ask your boss for a raise. Abby opens up about her midlife crisis and the girls deep dive their thoughts on being creative as a career. They reveal their age when discussing the social media platforms they had when they were in high school (myspace). They close the episode out discussing their future musical plans together.

Abby has Jose on the podcast again this week for part 2 of their interview. They open the episode by discussing how they've learned to treat people no matter what their status is. They discuss their upbringings and what it's taught them. Jose and Abby deep dive a few of their favorite comedian and podcasts that they listen to and random fact they've learned from them. Abby tells a story about how birth control affected who she's attracted to.

Abby has Jose on the podcast this week (part 1). They open the episode up by discussing how they became friends. Abby thanks Jose for being a true platonic guy friend. The two deep dive how to not be creepy as a male friend to women and their thoughts on losing male friends after a woman gets into a relationship. They discuss parts of Jose's relationship. Jose and Abby open up about not wanting to parent the way their parents did.

Abby has Omar back on the podcast for part 2 of her interview with him. They ask each other several questions about their relationships. Abby opens up about the things she had to do to be ready for a healthy relationship with Omar. He deep dives his thoughts on her childhood trauma and gives advise on how to deal with being in a relationship with someone who has gone through childhood trauma. Omar reveals the ways Abby has impacted his life for the better. They both deep dive the toxic cycles they were in when they were single. Omar's "Ope Story" is a two part-er; including the gym and his driving.

Abby has her boyfriend, Omar, on the podcast for the very first time. She opens the episode up with a confession to the listeners. In part one, Abby asks Omar several very serious questions we've all been wonder. Omar answers the listener's questions regarding his trip to Egypt, his favorite thing about Abby, and how he feels loved. They deep dive when they first knew they were madly in love with each other. Stay tuned for part two where they reveal even more intimate details about their relationship.

TW: Suicide / Ketamine Abby finishes her interview with Lavendelle in part 2 of the podcast. The ladies get into more personal topics in this episode. Lavendelle opens up about her relationship, personal struggles with mental health, and how ketamine infusion therapy has positively impacted her life. The ladies play a rapid fire question and answer segment. They end the episode with an Ope Story that includes a wardrobe malfunction. Resources discussed in the episode: https://dancesafe.org/ Socials: @lavendelleburlesque  @abbymccarville @theopepod

Abby has Lavendelle, burlesque artist, also known as The Purple Princess on the podcast this week. She explains how she created Lavendelle and the difference between her two personas. The ladies discuss trusting your intuition and following your gut. Abby and Lavendelle deep dive social media including the amazing community that comes with it. In addition, they talk about the scary parts of the internet. The ladies wrap up the episode discussing Lavendelle's confidence on stage.

Despite this being the 69th episode, it has nothing to do with the position. Abby has Mads on the podcast again this week. The girls deep dive Abby’s love coma. She explains how she’s learning to trust that some people stick around. Maddie deep dives her thoughts on vowing to be with someone forever. The ladies discuss what it’s like to watch your partner to have a relationship with your parents.

Abby has Maddie Gerrity on the podcast this week. Abby opens the pod by explaining how the girls became instant work besties several years ago. They discuss Maddie's confidence from a young age, their thoughts on bachelorette parties, and owing people money. Abby closes the episode with a story about being in the same room with Shaq.

Abby discusses how her predictions came true and she got tickets for the 2nd US leg of the Eras Tour. She goes on a side rant about weird behavior on a Zoom call. Abby reveals how she truly feels at concerts. She gives an update on her gluten free journey. She deep dives the celebs that have responded to her DMs. Abby's Ope Story included a Morgan Wallen concerts and the drunkest fans alive.