The Patros Podcast

Get free access to our series at Patros.us In this episode of the Patros Podcast, Allan and Jeff continue the Man As series with a special guest—Kam Babb, former Ohio State wide receiver and ministry leader. Together, they unpack what it means to be a Man as Servant Leader, looking to Jesus as the ultimate example of humility and service. Kam shares powerful stories from his time at Ohio State, including the revival on campus, how young men are using their platforms for the kingdom, and how servant leadership is lived out in real life—from the locker room to the home. Allan and Jeff also reflect on their own journeys of fatherhood, leadership, and how God convicts us to serve our families the way He serves us. This is a conversation full of practical wisdom, biblical truth, and encouragement for men who want to embrace healthy masculinity. 🔥 Highlights include: Why servant leadership is countercultural but essential How God used Kam Babb’s testimony to spark revival on campus The importance of intimacy with Jesus in leadership Real stories of conviction as husbands and fathers What it means to keep the “main thing the main thing” 👉 Don’t forget to grab your free membership at Patros.us to watch the full Man As series and access resources for your own discipleship journey.

Get free access to our series at patros.us. In this episode of the Patros Podcast, Allan and Jeff continue the Man As series with special guest Pastor Kirk Kirkland. Together, they unpack what it means to be a man as a husband, exploring how marriage reflects Christ’s love for the Church and why identity in Jesus is the foundation of a healthy relationship. Pastor Kirk shares openly about his own marriage, ministry, and discipleship journey, offering both practical wisdom and deep biblical insight. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why identity in Christ must come before achievement in marriage How insecurity erodes relationships and how men can find true confidence The role of discipleship, mentors, and community in sustaining a healthy marriage Why creating safety is one of the most important things a husband can offer Practical encouragement on worship, love languages, and leading at home Why every man is called to be the pastor of his own home This conversation will challenge, encourage, and equip you to love your wife faithfully and lead your family with strength and humility. 👉 Watch the full Man As series and other resources like Counter Kingdom at patros.us. Create a free account today and join a movement of men embracing healthy masculinity.  

In this Man As relaunch episode, Allan and Jeff sit down with Rev. Rudy Rubio — pastor, chaplain, and leader in South LA. Rudy’s story of grace, redemption, and gospel courage has made his episode one of the most impactful in the entire series. They talk about: How to stand for truth with boldness and humility in hostile environments Why work is more than a paycheck — it’s a calling and Kingdom witness The importance of discipling your kids at home instead of outsourcing to the church Navigating politics, immigration, and community service through a biblical lens Balancing marriage, family, and ministry without burning out Rudy also shares behind-the-scenes stories from serving in Compton, as a hospital chaplain, and even as chaplain to the LA Dodgers. 👉 Watch the Man As Worker video featuring Rudy for free at Patros.us.

Start your journey with our free resources and watch "The Man As Series" for free at https://patros.us. In this episode, Jeff Ford and Allan sit down with Erik Dellenback to explore the profound role of men as providers. They discuss the balance between work, family, and faith, highlighting the importance of intentionality and spiritual provision. Erik shares personal stories and insights from his time as a liaison for faith and community, offering a unique perspective on leadership and vulnerability. Tune in to discover how you can embrace your role as a provider in a meaningful way.

Visit https://Patros.us for FREE access to all of our men's discipleship resources. Join us in this enlightening episode of The Patros Podcast as we explore the concept of being an "Image Bearer" with Pastor Darryl Williamson from Living Faith Bible Fellowship. Dive deep into discussions about healthy masculinity, the Imago Dei, and the importance of intergenerational dialogue within the church. Discover how the principles of the Bible guide us in understanding our roles as men, fathers, and leaders in our communities. Chapters: Introduction to The Patros Podcast (0:00) Understanding the Imago Dei (5:12) Intergenerational Dialogue in the Church (15:45) The Role of Fathers and Mentorship (25:30) Embracing Identity in Christ (35:20) Closing Thoughts and Encouragement (45:00) Topics Covered: Healthy masculinity Biblical principles of manhood The Imago Dei and Imago Christi Intergenerational collaboration Fatherhood and mentorship Identity in Christ

In this launch episode of the Man As series, Allan and Jeff confront the growing crisis of fatherlessness—and the Church’s role in responding. With over 25 million children in the U.S. growing up without a dad, this isn’t just a cultural issue—it’s a spiritual one. You’ll hear a preview of The Mandate film and a real conversation about: The deep connection between fatherlessness and discipleship Why men often feel aimless or spiritually unfulfilled God’s call to defend the fatherless (Isaiah 1:17, James 1:27) What it means to live out biblical masculinity in today’s world Whether you're a father, mentor, single man, or leader, this episode is a challenge to step into your God-given role. This is more than a podcast it's a call to action. Explore the full Man As series at patros.us Learn more about our mission at manupandgo.org Scriptures: Isaiah 1, Matthew 25, James 1:27, Micah 6:8

Putting Faith into Action (Part 4 of 4 in the G.A.P. Series) Ezekiel 22:30 says God looked for a man to stand in the gap—and found none. In part three of our What is a Patros? series, we explore the “P” in G.A.P.: Putting Faith into Action. Allan, Jeff, and guest Josh Weaver unpack what it means for a man to move beyond belief into living faith with intention and integrity—in his home, his church, and his community. 🎧 In this episode: Why your private faith shapes your public life How fatherhood awakens deeper spiritual responsibility The challenge of spiritual leadership in marriage Loving and discipling children you didn’t birth The call to care for the widow, the orphan, and the overlooked What real sacrifice looks like—and why it matters This is a heartfelt, practical, and convicting episode for any man wanting to walk the talk. Whether you're married, single, a father, or not—if you want to live out your faith, this one’s for you. 💬 Share it with a friend. And don’t forget to subscribe to catch the final episode in the G.A.P. series.

🎙️ What Is a Patros? | Anchored in Brotherhood w/ Daniel Grossman Welcome to the Patros Podcast, where we’re embracing healthy masculinity and calling men to stand in the gap for their families, churches, and communities. In this episode, we dive into the “A” in G.A.P.—Anchored in Brotherhood—with special guest Daniel Grossman, Men’s Discipleship Leader at Man Up & Go. Together, we explore what it means to be a Patros—a spiritual father—not just in your home, but to the fatherless. We talk mentorship, spiritual maturity, accountability, and the value of godly male friendships in today’s culture. 🧠 In this episode: Why every man needs brotherhood—and how to find it How to humbly seek a mentor and become one Why isolation is dangerous and brotherhood is essential Lessons from Scripture on spiritual community (Ezekiel 22:30, Proverbs 27:17, Romans 14) Real stories of forging relationships that sharpen us 🔥 Big idea: A Patros doesn’t walk alone—he’s anchored in brotherhood, being poured into, pouring into others, and living in authentic community. 🔗 Join the movement: 👉 Learn more: https://www.patros.us 👉 Follow us on Instagram: @patros.us 👉 Subscribe and hit the 🔔 to stay updated 🙌 We believe every man has a purpose and potential—and we’re building a brotherhood to help men live that out. #PatrosPodcast #HealthyMasculinity #Brotherhood #Mentorship #Manhood #ChristianMen

In Episode 2 of the Patros GAP series, Jeff, Allan, and Taylor Jackson unpack the foundational call for every man to grow spiritually. They dive deep into what keeps men from reading their Bibles, why rest is spiritual warfare, and how to develop a real prayer life that sustains you beyond hype or habit. This is more than a “how-to” episode it’s a convicting look at the spiritual disciplines that make or break a man’s legacy.

What is a Patros? More than just a Greek word for “father,” Patros is a calling—a deep, spiritual identity that reflects the strength, sacrifice, and tenderness of God Himself. In this kickoff episode of our 4-part series, we explore what it truly means to be a Patros in today’s world. We break down the origin and biblical use of the word, the role of fatherhood in human flourishing, and the tension every man faces: the need to be strong, yet gentle; seen, yet unseen; present, yet sacrificial. This episode is not just theological—it’s personal. Through raw and honest conversation between brothers, we unpack how our relationship with our earthly fathers shapes us, how father wounds carry into adulthood, and how Jesus reframed everything we thought we knew about what it means to be a son and a father. In This Episode: What the Bible means by Patros and how Jesus used it Why fatherhood is spiritual warfare and emotional discipleship How childhood experiences shape your adult relationships The difference between performance-driven fathering and gospel-driven identity Why “being seen” matters to dads—and what to do when you aren’t Three traits of a Patros: Growing spiritually, Anchored in brotherhood, Putting faith into action.

In this powerful episode of the Patros Podcast, we sit down with Vince Miller—founder of Resolute and trusted voice in men’s discipleship—to explore what it means to be a spiritual leader in the home. We dive into how to raise children in today’s culture, break cycles of fatherlessness, and embrace your role as a follower of Christ first—before trying to lead others. Vince unpacks the identity battle every man faces, the myth of perfection in fatherhood, and how to become the kind of man your children want to follow—because you're following Christ. Whether you're raising toddlers or teenagers, this episode delivers timeless truth and practical wisdom for men committed to building legacy. 🔔 Subscribe for more on biblical masculinity and fatherhood 📲 Connect with Vince at VinceMiller.com 🎧 Listen on all podcast platforms #Fatherhood #BiblicalManhood #VinceMiller #HealthyMasculinity #Discipleship #PatrosPodcast #ChristianFatherhood #IdentityInChrist #SpiritualLeadership

In this powerful episode of the Patros Podcast, Pastor Chuck Ramsey from Restoration Church joins Allan and Jeff to explore why fatherhood is at the core of the universe. From his deeply personal family history to the biblical foundations of fatherhood, Pastor Chuck unpacks what it means to lead with sacrificial responsibility, speak life over our children, and reclaim godly masculinity in a culture of confusion. Whether you're a dad, mentor, or future father, this episode will challenge, inspire, and equip you to live out your role with purpose.

Every dad is a disciple-maker—whether he knows it or not. In this powerful and practical episode of the Patros Podcast, Kent Evans (founder of Manhood Journey) joins Jeff Ford and Allan to tackle the most urgent topics facing Christian fathers today: discipleship, masculinity, teenage transitions, spiritual warfare, and the dangers of unchecked technology. Kent drops wisdom from decades of experience raising five boys (biological and adopted), building a ministry for fathers, and navigating the real-life pressures men face. From modeling healthy masculinity to setting digital boundaries and understanding your child’s unique developmental needs, this conversation is loaded with insight, humor, and conviction. Whether you're a dad of toddlers or teens, this episode is for you. 🎯 Key Takeaways: Every man is discipling—question is where he’s leading. Jesus is the ultimate model for manhood. Teen transitions require discernment: childishness vs. foolishness. Asking questions builds connection better than giving commands. Tech isn’t neutral—dads must act as watchmen at the gates. Your marriage is a gospel model for your children. Wisdom starts with the Word—dads, open your Bible. 📘 Get Kent’s book, "Don’t Bench Yourself": https://www.manhoodjourney.org

In this special Fatherhood Month episode of the Patros Podcast, Man Up CEO Jeff Ford and co-host Allan Pereira sit down with Kyle Rodgers, founder of Dads Matter, performance coach, and speaker passionate about helping men gain confidence in the daily reps of fatherhood. Kyle reminds us: Fatherhood isn’t a side hustle—it’s a legacy in motion. This conversation is real, raw, and packed with practical wisdom for dads who want to grow in courage, clarity, and consistency. Whether you’re trying to overcome a history of bad decisions or just looking to sharpen your approach, this episode will meet you right where you are. You’ll hear Kyle’s thoughts on: - Asking the right questions about who you’re becoming - Developing the discipline fatherhood demands - Discerning who gets to speak into your life - Why you are the most qualified to have tough conversations with your kids - Taking nothing off the table—including “the sex talk” - How the Bible anchors your parenting - Fighting for unity in your marriage through prayer, therapy, and teamwork If you're ready to own your role as a patros—a spiritual father—this episode will challenge and encourage you to lead with intentionality and love. What is Patros? Patros is a one-of-a-kind discipleship tool that challenges men to confront fatherlessness by embracing God's view of masculinity. Our latest series, "Counter Kingdom," features members of the Ohio State Football team in conversations with Christian leaders about living a counter-cultural life for Christ. The "Man As..." video discipleship series, hosted by Kamryn Babb, brings godly men like NFL champion coach Tony Dungy and rapper/author KB together to practically discuss what it means to be a godly man. These resources are perfect for your church, men’s Bible study, leadership team, or personal growth. Patros offers coaching tools, trauma resources, and more to help men rise to the challenge. 👉 Become a subscriber today and access these free resources at patros.us Follow us on social media: @everymanpatros Patros is a ministry of Man Up & Go.

In this episode of the Patros Podcast, Man Up CEO Jeff Ford and co-host Allan Pereira sit down with Jeff Zaugg, founder of Dad Awesome, to talk about intentional fatherhood and the challenges dads face today. Jeff shares what he’s learned from years of encouraging dads to engage with purpose—breaking down passivity in parenting, building brotherhood, and leveraging tools like AI to stay present and connected in a distracted world. You’ll hear practical insights on: How to overcome passivity in parenting The importance of focused attention Building brotherhood and community Using AI to support your role as a dad Why it’s never too late to be an intentional father Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Healthy Masculinity and Fatherhood 01:37 The Heart of Dad Awesome 04:04 Celebrating Fatherhood Month 06:05 Overcoming Passivity in Parenting 10:36 The Importance of Brotherhood 18:40 Building Community and Connection 22:33 The Call to Brotherhood and Leadership 27:49 Navigating Parenting Dynamics with a Spouse 33:39 Focused Attention in a Distracted World 41:47 Leveraging AI in Parenting 49:46 Future Collaborations and Community Engagement As a patros—a spiritual father—this episode will help you lead your family with clarity, connection, and courage. What is Patros? Patros is a one-of-a-kind discipleship tool that challenges men to confront fatherlessness by embracing God's view of masculinity. Our latest series, "Counter Kingdom," features members of the Ohio State Football team in conversations with Christian leaders about living a counter-cultural life for Christ. The "Man As..." video discipleship series, hosted by Kamryn Babb, brings godly men like NFL champion coach Tony Dungy and rapper/author KB together to practically discuss what it means to be a godly man. These resources are perfect for your church, men’s Bible study, leadership team, or personal growth. Patros offers coaching tools, trauma resources, and more to help men rise to the challenge. 👉 Become a subscriber today and access these free resources at patros.us Follow us on social media: @everymanpatros Patros is a ministry of Man Up & Go.

In this episode of the Patros Podcast, Man Up CEO Jeff Ford and co-host Allan Pereira sit down with Tom Onley, a Mental Health First Aid instructor committed to helping churches respond wisely to the growing mental health crisis. Tom shares what he’s learned from working closely with churches and individuals—clarifying common misconceptions about mental health, explaining the real challenges people face, and offering practical steps for how Christians can respond with wisdom and care. You’ll hear practical insights on: - How the church can better understand and address mental health - Whether Christians can take antidepressants - What panic attacks feel like and how to respond - Signs someone may be in crisis - How to support others without compromising biblical truth As a patros—a spiritual father—this episode will help you lead with greater empathy, wisdom, and biblical conviction in a world that desperately needs men willing to step into brokenness with the hope of Christ. This is your chance to be a steady presence in someone’s storm. What is Patros? Patros is a one-of-a-kind discipleship tool that challenges men to confront fatherlessness by embracing God's view of masculinity. Our latest series, "Counter Kingdom," features members of the Ohio State Football team in conversations with Christian leaders about living a counter-cultural life for Christ. The "Man As..." video discipleship series, hosted by Kamryn Babb, brings godly men like NFL champion coach Tony Dungy and rapper/author KB together to practically discuss what it means to be a godly man. These resources are perfect for your church, men’s Bible study, leadership team, or personal growth. Patros offers coaching tools, trauma resources, and more to help men rise to the challenge. 👉 Become a subscriber today and access these free resources at patros.us Follow us on social media: @everymanpatros Patros is a ministry of Man Up & Go.

In this episode of the Patros Podcast, Man Up CEO Jeff Ford and co-host Allan Pereira sit down with former pastor and counselor Xavier Small, who followed God’s call to earn his doctorate and launch a counseling ministry now focused on training Christian counselors. Xavier shares how strong male mentors helped him grow up fatherless, what it means to submit to authority as a man, and how faith and mental health connect in a practical way. He also discusses how Christians can wisely engage with psychology and medical advice without compromising their beliefs. You’ll hear practical insights on: - How mentoring shaped Xavier’s growth as a young man and counselor - The challenges and blessings of submitting to authority as a Christian man - Why submission to Christ is foundational to mental and spiritual wellness - How to integrate biblical truth with psychological knowledge and medical advice Whether you’re a counselor, church leader, or simply a man of God curious about the intersection of faith and mental health, this episode offers encouragement and clarity on how to live out a Christ-centered calling in today’s world. What is Patros? Patros is a one-of-a-kind discipleship tool that challenges men to confront fatherlessness by embracing God's view of masculinity. Our latest series, "Counter Kingdom," features members of the Ohio State Football team in conversations with Christian leaders about living a counter-cultural life for Christ. The "Man As..." video discipleship series, hosted by Kamryn Babb, brings godly men like NFL champion coach Tony Dungy and rapper/author KB together to practically discuss what it means to be a godly man. These resources are perfect for your church, men’s Bible study, leadership team, or personal growth. Patros offers coaching tools, trauma resources, and more to help men rise to the challenge. 👉 Become a subscriber today and access these free resources at patros.us Follow us on social media: @everymanpatros Patros is a ministry of Man Up & Go.

In this episode of the Patros Podcast, Man Up CEO Jeff Ford and co-host Allan Pereira sit down with Jenna and David Shaffer, the husband-and-wife duo behind Christian Millennial Marriages, to talk about relationships, mental health, and what it really means to glorify God in both. Jenna, a licensed therapist, and David, her husband and ministry partner, share their personal story and the heart behind their work equipping millennial couples for Christ-centered marriages. Together, they tackle common myths, cultural pressures, and practical challenges couples face when pursuing a biblical view of marriage. What You’ll Learn: - Why marriage is designed to glorify God, not just bring happiness - The truth about the “one person will fix me” myth - Practical ways couples can communicate and grow together - How to protect your marriage with healthy boundaries in opposite-sex friendships - Why effort is key to building a strong, lasting marriage Whether you’re dating, engaged, newly married, or have been together for years, this episode will inspire you to see marriage as a lifelong opportunity to grow, love, and reflect Christ more fully. Learn more about Jenna & David’s work at https://christianmillennialmarriages.com/ Learn more about Jenna's therapy and coaching at https://christianmillennialtherapist.com/ You can also follow them on Instagram @christianmillennialmarriages for more biblical resources on marriage, mental health, and communication. What is Patros? Patros is a one-of-a-kind discipleship tool that challenges men to confront fatherlessness by embracing God's view of masculinity. Our latest series, "Counter Kingdom," features members of the Ohio State Football team in conversations with Christian leaders about living a counter-cultural life for Christ. The "Man As..." video discipleship series, hosted by Kamryn Babb, brings godly men like NFL champion coach Tony Dungy and rapper/author KB together to practically discuss what it means to be a godly man. These resources are perfect for your church, men’s Bible study, leadership team, or personal growth. Patros offers coaching tools, trauma resources, and more to help men rise to the challenge. 👉 Become a subscriber today and access these free resources at patros.us Follow us on social media: @everymanpatros Patros is a ministry of Man Up & Go.

In this episode of the Patros Podcast, Man Up CEO Jeff Ford and co-host Allan Pereira sit down with mental health advocate and Cope Notes founder Johnny Crowder to kick off the Men’s Mental Health Series. Johnny shares his powerful story of growing up with severe mental illness, finding healing through faith and therapy, and transforming his struggles into a mission to help others. From studying psychology to working in behavioral health and being in a metal band, Johnny has used every part of his journey to create real change—most notably through Cope Notes, a text-based mental health platform that sends daily support to young adults and adults across the globe. He also opens up about how science continues to affirm God’s design for mental wellness, and why his life mission is simple: "I want to make stuff that helps people feel better." What You’ll Learn: Why mental health recovery is a daily process, not a one-time breakthrough How hard experiences can shape a purposeful life The value of faith and psychology working together in healing Why it’s often easier to pour into others than yourself How to start building internal health, even when your world feels broken Learn more about Johnny and his work at johnnycrowder.com. You can try Cope Notes for free at https://copenotes.com/. Find Johnny's metal band (for some good pump up gym jams) called Prison. The newest song is entitled "Splitting Black." https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUPzdZMb-f-VUuL-8AgC87A You can find Johnny on Instagram @johnnycrowderlovesyou. What is Patros? Patros is a one-of-a-kind discipleship tool that challenges men to confront fatherlessness by embracing God's view of masculinity. Our latest series, "Counter Kingdom," features members of the Ohio State Football team in conversations with Christian leaders about living a counter-cultural life for Christ. The "Man As..." video discipleship series, hosted by Kamryn Babb, brings godly men like NFL champion coach Tony Dungy and rapper/author KB together to practically discuss what it means to be a godly man. These resources are perfect for your church, men’s Bible study, leadership team, or personal growth. Patros offers coaching tools, trauma resources, and more to help men rise to the challenge. 👉 Become a subscriber today and access these free resources at patros.us Follow us on social media: @everymanpatros Patros is a ministry of Man Up & Go.

In this episode of the Patros Podcast, Man Up CEO Jeff Ford and co-host Allan Pereira are joined by Jason and Kylie, Raul and Atlas, and Jeff’s son Asher to reflect on the 2025 Kilimanjaro trip, which included several father-child pairs. Together, they share powerful insights on fatherhood, intentionality, and what happens when dads carve out time to invest deeply in their kids—even in the midst of a challenging group adventure. What You’ll Learn: - How healthy fathering at home builds courageous, secure children - The beauty and simplicity of modeling faith and character through everyday life - How affirmation and presence make a lasting impact - Why being self-aware makes you a better husband and father - How to know if the next Kilimanjaro trip in 2027 is right for you Don’t miss this heartfelt conversation about mentoring, mountains, and the quiet strength of a faithful dad. What is Patros? Patros is a one-of-a-kind discipleship tool that challenges men to confront fatherlessness by embracing God's view of masculinity. Our latest series, "Counter Kingdom," features members of the Ohio State Football team in conversations with Christian leaders about living a counter-cultural life for Christ. The "Man As..." video discipleship series, hosted by Kamryn Babb, brings godly men like NFL champion coach Tony Dungy and rapper/author KB together to practically discuss what it means to be a godly man. These resources are perfect for your church, men’s Bible study, leadership team, or personal growth. Patros offers coaching tools, trauma resources, and more to help men rise to the challenge. 👉 Become a subscriber today and access these free resources at patros.us Follow us on social media: @everymanpatros Patros is a ministry of Man Up & Go.