Put down the Switch, drop the Xbox controller, and unplug your headset. This week, we’re talking adult simulation games. Lorrae chats with Pretty Ink, the anonymous creator of the College Craze role playing game.In this playfully sensual game, you’ll escape into an erotic campus that’s a choose-your-own adventure of sexy exploration – exploring themes of consent, navigating relationship decisions, and following your desires - with no unrealistic, male gaze-led characters or slut shaming!Prett...
Are you single, a little bit anxious, and exhausted with swiping on dating apps for hours at a time with no legitimate prospects? We’ve got great news for you: this week, Lorrae is joined by Allie Hoffman, creator of the IRL singles event ‘The Feels,’ and they chat all about dating app fatigue, difficulties of modern dating, and living our truth despite them.Allie and Lorrae dive deep into the tough relationship stuff - the importance of cultivating the relationship you have with yourself, he...
Non-monogamous queers, this one’s for you! This week, Lorrae is joined by polyamory educator and queer advocate Leanne Yau, who discusses the intersection of polyamory, queerness, and neurodivergence through her social media project Poly Philia. Leanne and Lorrae don’t shy away from tough topics in non-monogamy: cheating in polyamory (yes, it’s possible), effectively communicating and setting boundaries within multiple relationships, balancing your autonomy and needs within the context o...
Witches, stoners, and sluts - assemble! This week’s guest on The Pleasure Provocateur, Lorrae chats with author and journalist Sophie Saint Thomas, whose work primarily focuses on modern day magic, cannabis and CBD, and all things sex-positivity. She’s written several books about cannabis and CBD in self-care, countless articles answering all of our sex questions, and is coming out with a new book exploring the untold history of abortion, called “Reproductive Rites: The Real-Life Witches and ...
Poly queer bisexuality advocate and educator Gabrielle Noel (Gabalexa) stops by The Pleasure Provocateur to talk about all things queer, poly, and kinky. From writing about misconceptions about vaginas in womens’ magazines to joining Jada Pinkett Smith for a discussion on The Red Table, Gabby’s work covers the vast depths of sexuality.This candid conversation between Gabby and Lorrae addresses how other people’s projections of their bisexuality and being told they’re not ‘queer enough’ has in...
Witch, please! Modern day wizard and genuine delight of a human Devin Person (host of This Podcast is a Ritual) joins Lorrae to explore the everyday magic of creating more pleasure in our lives – from using ritual,intention, and sex magic to create a slightly better reality, to embracing that magic isn’t a shortcut to getting what we want - it’s the scenic route to healing. Devin and Lorrae take a deep dive into the magic inside us all, recognizing our own patterns, limitations, and the ...
Host of the Seriously Single podcast Brianne Hogan joins Lorrae to deep dive into dating – or rather, the celebrations and commiserations of staying single!Lorrae and Brianne nudge us towards the path of self-love, acceptance, and understanding in their insightful chat about prioritizing our happiness and well-being, approaching dating with openness and self-exploration, and creating a meaningful life for ourselves before a romantic partner. While celebrating their lives as single girlie...
Erotica and romance novel author Jade May guides us through fantasy and storytelling to explore the nuances of kink, and power play all while challenging the conventional perception of BDSM, relationships, and feminism. Jade intimately shares details of her past that have shaped her journey to the present moment. Amidst her battle with Crohn's disease and numerous hospital stays, she discovered the world of erotic literature as both a means of escape and to understand and explore her own...
“The way images circulate on social media has disrupted the connection to our bodies, and to one another.” Queer artist Megan Wirick joins Lorrae to explore how digital devices and spaces have changed our relationship to intimacy, sexuality, and ourselves – and how we can navigate consent and agency in the digital age.Megan’s art aims to develop new narratives on creativity, consumerism, beauty, and consent as we shape our digital personas and explore the ethics of content creation, when soci...
Imagine yourself on stage, bathed in the warm glow of the spotlight. You're feeling confident, sensual, and alive – teasing and tempting the audience. This captivating confidence, this art of seduction – is the power of burlesque.Burlesque is more than just an erotic performance art. It's a way to embrace your sensuality, connect with community, and tap into your desires - both on and off stage. In this episode, Lorrae chats with Evana De Lune, Australian burlesque performer and workshop...
Where sensuality and creativity flourish, inhibitions fade, and self-expression takes center stage – meet artist Julie Mollo, who creates a lively world of playful and provocative art that reclaims words and celebrates our empowered erotic selves.With a mission to bring smiles through her designs, Julie underscores the role of humor and “winky” nods to erotic innuendos. Sparked by a love for fun, flirty, retro rock 'n' roll aesthetics, Julie's playful creations indulge in subtle eroticism and...
Where mental health entwines with sexual expression, desire, and identity - Erika Moen of Oh Joy Sex Toy and Lorrae have a candid conversation about self-acceptance, embracing our quirks and differences, and complexities of navigating pain in a world where we seek to build more pleasure.Self-acceptance and community support are often vital elements in cultivating self-compassion and coming back home to ourselves. In this episode, we shed light on the challenges of learning to see ourselves mo...
Where art meets pleasure, inhibitions fade, and self-discovery reigns supreme – join us on a captivating journey with Erika Moen, the brilliant mind behind Oh Joy Sex Toy, in an intimate conversation as we unravel the tapestry of sex-positive art and it’s intersection with our own self-expression.Erika is a trailblazer in the realm of sex positivity and a champion of pleasure, inclusivity, and unapologetic self-expression. We explore the inspirations that ignited the creation of Erika’s Oh Jo...
We explore the transformative journey at the crossroads of pleasure, data, and self-discovery with Danielle Bezalel (DB), a renowned sex educator and the host of the "Sex Ed with DB" podcast!In this episode, we delve deep into DB's groundbreaking masturbation study, which explores the intriguing impact of daily Magic Wand use on a variety of data points - from happiness and stress, to strength of orgasms and overall horniness. DB meticulously traced data points encompassing the impact of...
Explore behind-the-scenes of building a sex-positive career, and overcoming the challenges of marketing within the adult industry, when social media limitations and censorship have taken over. Casey Murphy, sex toy industry veteran of 18 years and digital marketing strategist for sexual wellness brands + sex-positive entrepreneurs, shares invaluable guidance on navigating the field and building a thriving sex-positive business. Casey's unique path from the music industry to the intimate ...
Art, desire, and the pursuit of pleasure. Join us as we delve into the captivating intersection of craftwork and sexuality, exploring boundaries and igniting sultry conversation starters that stir the senses and spark intriguing discussions.Intimately connect with Nicole Ortiz, the enchanting artist and visionary behind GrlPwrArt, your ultimate online destination for mini Magic-Wand earrings and cute kewpie accessories. In this captivating conversation, we go deep into Nicole's firsthand expe...
Instagram recently deactivated hundreds of sex-positive creators' accounts, including my own personal (@Lorraejo). The impact is far-reaching, extending beyond creators to society as a whole, diminishing access to sex-positive content, community, activism, and empowerment for all, and limiting our personal expression of our identities. This censorship and suppression also impacts creators (and their teams) livelihoods, and has wider implications for marginalized groups, limiting their ab...
Join us on a journey of self-discovery, sensuality, and creative expression. In this episode, we unveil the power of self-expression and authenticity, explore the transformative strength inherent in artistic expression, and delve into art’s capacity to serve as a catalyst for healing, self-love, and liberation. Immerse yourself in conversations and enchanting stories with Alex Simon, extraordinary artist and founder of Make Good Choices, a one-stop-shop for all things ceramic, sparkly, a...
Embark on an exploration of pleasure and presence as we dive into the visionary world of Frank Lawrence and his creation, the Vibrating Tarot deck. This unique twist on the timeless practice of tarot takes us on a pleasure-forward journey like no other. In this episode, Lorrae engages in a mesmerizing conversation with Frank, where they venture into a realm where spirituality, divination, sex, and love intersect.Drawing upon the rich concepts of symbolism, sexuality, and self-discovery, Lorra...
Step into the raw realities of the rebirth journey and discover new tools to navigate big shifts in your life, as you transform your relationships, set boundaries, and follow your intuition. In this episode, Lorrae unveils personal experiences and offers insights on navigating toxic relationships, setting boundaries, and following your intuition as you embark on the challenging yet ultimately rewarding process of rebirth. Lorrae illuminates the transformation process, as we build our bir...