The Queer Stuff Pod

23: What does it take to build some of the most talked-about hotels in the world — and do it while proudly representing the LGBTQ+ community at the top levels of corporate leadership? Blake Danner, COO of aka Hotels and Hotel Residences, joins us to share his journey from nightclub-loving hotel rookie to the executive suite, shaping brands like NoMad, The Line, and Freehand along the way. Blake opens up about the risks that shaped his career, the power of mentorship, and what it means to lead authentically — even in industries not always known for diversity. Whether you’re chasing a career in hospitality or just love bold leadership stories, this episode is packed with real talk and hard-earned advice. Topics Discussed: Breaking into hospitality Lessons from building iconic hotel brands Being out in corporate America Mentorship & diversity in leadership Leading teams through crisis Career advice for young professionals Timestamps:  00:00:00 - Introduction 00:01:36 - Who the Hell Are You? 00:05:57 - Why Work in Hotels? 00:08:31 - Blake’s First Job 00:11:33 - Risk-Taking & Delano Hotels 00:13:56 - Dallas vs. New York Nightlife in the 90s 00:15:59 - Coming Out in Corporate America 00:19:59 - Max & Blake’s Friendship 00:22:30 - Leading People in the Corporate World 00:25:06 - Being a Visible Queer Leader 00:29:58 - Advice for Young Professionals 00:33:37 - Biggest Mistakes in Corporate America 00:35:27 - Managing Hotels Through COVID 00:38:24 - Keeping Employees Happy and Motivated 00:40:15 - Why Blake Joined AKA Hotels 00:43:42 - Mentoring & Fostering Growth in Others 00:45:36 - Fight Me! New York vs LA  Sponsored By:  Scandinavian Bio-Labs | Start today with 20% off the Hair Activation Routine and any other products from Scandinavian Biolabs using code MAXEMERSON. Go to ScandinavianBiolab.com Max’s Patreon | Join today and make the internet more colorful Puori | Go to Puori.com/maxemerson and use code maxemerson Sparkle Club | https://maxismsmedia.com/the-sparkle-club Check Out Blake:  Instagram  Website Check Out Max:  Instagram YouTube TikTok Thank you to all my patreon subscribers!  Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson

22: Chris Colfer is a Golden Globe-winning actor, bestselling author, screenwriter, and producer, known for his role as Kurt Hummel on Glee, for which he earned numerous accolades, including a Golden Globe and two Emmy nominations. He is the author of the Land of Stories series, which has sold millions of copies worldwide and spent over 100 weeks on the New York Times bestseller list. In 2024, he launched a new middle grade series, Roswell Johnson Saves the World!, which became an instant bestseller. Colfer is also an award-winning audio narrator and has narrated all of his books, including the bestselling Stranger than Fanfiction. His other projects include Netflix's Ridley Jones and the upcoming animated musical feature The Potters. Based in Los Angeles, Colfer's work spans television, film, and literature, with a unique blend of humor, heart, and imagination. Sponsored By: CLEARSTEM Discover the CLEARSTEM difference and experience clear, healthy skin for life. Go to CLEARSTEM.com/MAX and use code MAX at checkout for 15% off your first order. Max’s Patreon  Join today and make the internet more colorful Puori  Go to Puori.com/maxemerson and use code maxemerson Timestamps: 00:00:00 - Introduction  00:02:11 - Who The Hell Are You 00:08:24 - Being a baby gay and becoming an actor 00:10:43 - Breaking into television and booking Glee 00:16:20 - Self tapes and auditioning 00:17:32 - Glee and coming out on Chelsea Handler 00:19:53 - Getting outed in a magazine 00:21:14 - Being closeted on television 00:24:47 - Challenges that come with activism 00:28:20 - SNL and bucket list career moments 00:29:18 - Best parts of Glee 00:30:46 - Dating as an out actor 00:34:29 - Slash Fiction 00:36:33 - “The Land of Stories” 00:39:38 - How writing saved his life 00:41:00 - Creative energy and writing strategy 00:44:46 - Most challenging writing project 00:46:50 - Advice regarding social anxiety 00:48:34 - Fight Me! Check Out Chris: https://thelandofstories.com/ Check Out Max:  Instagram YouTube TikTok

21: Today, I’m joined by none other than Joey Graceffa. With over 2.9 billion views and a career spanning back to 2007, Joey has built an empire of engaging content, from gaming and vlogs to his hit web series Escape the Night. Joey shares his experience coming out online, his creative inspirations, and his journey as a writer.   Episode Highlights: Joey’s rise to YouTube fame & Escape the Night Coming out online & the “Are You Gay” quiz Writing In Real Life & Children of Eden Mental health, self-care & online fame Vlogging, breakups & digital legacy Sponsored By: Scandinavian Bio Labs Start today with 20% off the Hair Activation Routine and any other products from Scandinavian Biolabs using code MAXEMERSON. Go to ScandinavianBiolabs.com. Max’s Patreon  Join today and make the internet more colorful Puori  Go to Puori.com/maxemerson and use code maxemerson Timestamps:  00:00:00 - Introduction 00:02:09 - Who The Hell Are You? 00:08:04 - Starting youtube  00:09:41 - Escape the night  00:11:59 - How to start a youtube channel  00:13:57 - Coming out on youtube  00:14:51 - Creative inspiration  00:18:57 - Joey’s memoir  00:20:43 - Children Of Eden  00:21:44 - Special Ed & Gifted classes  00:23:41 - The BIG 3 zodiac signs  00:24:16 - Mental health & self care 00:26:51 - Are you gay quiz 00:30:01 - Joey’s coming out journey 00:31:45 - Vlogging & the break up video 00:34:47 - Dream collabs & legacy  00:36:04 - Take doggie supplements  00:37:31 - Fight Me!  Check Out Joey: Books Youtube Instagram Tale Pets  Check Out Max: Instagram YouTube TikTok Special thank you to the following:  Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson

20: In today’s episode, I'm joined by Roberto, a Tampa native and fellow Florida man. Roberto’s journey is nothing short of incredible—he's a West Point grad, a former Army Officer, and a leader in counterintelligence. After his time in the military, he dove into the fitness world, even launching his own app to help others get in shape. These days, he works as an IT Services Client Executive for a global tech company (and yes, he’s still in incredible shape, ready to flex at any moment). When he’s not working or hitting the gym, Roberto also dabbles in acting for commercials, TV, and film. Today, we're talking about everything from military life to body-building, and everything in between. Tune in for some great insights and a whole lot of fun! Sponsored By: Scandinavian Biolabs Start today with 20% off the Hair Activation Routine and any other products from ScandinavianBiolabs.com using code MAXEMERSON.. Patreon  Join today and make the internet more colorful Puori  Go to Puori.com/maxemerson and use code maxemerson Timestamps: 00:00:00 - Introduction 00:01:30 - Who the Hell Are You?! 00:06:12 - West Point Experience 00:10:55 - Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell 00:12:06 - West Point vs Naval Academy 00:13:33 - Key Takeaways from Army Life 00:14:44 - Transitioning to Civilian Life 00:18:30 - Command Time vs Staff Time 00:21:03 - Corporate Speak & Military Skills Crossover 00:22:46 - Veteran Hiring Insights 00:23:22 - Struggles Finding Work After the Military 00:26:58 - Getting Into Bodybuilding 00:31:34 - The Role of Performance Enhancers 00:35:41 - Crafting Your Ideal Workout Routine 00:40:57 - Workout Splits & Gym Playlist 00:42:26 - Nutrition, Meal Prep & Staying on Track 00:43:07 - Chest Training & Building Muscle 00:46:58 - Fight Me! Check Out Roberto: Instagram Linktree Check Out Max: Instagram YouTube TikTok Special thank you to the following:  Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson

In today’s episode, I’m talking all about travel! You’ve asked about everything from the logistics of frequent flying to how I maintain some sense of stability while constantly on the go. This episode is all about practical tips and how I manage to make travel work—both for my career and my personal life. We’ll discuss: How I balance work and travel  The best ways to handle turbulence My approach to booking flights Who watches Sarge when I’m away How I pack for long trips Sponsored By: CLEARSTEM Discover the CLEARSTEM difference and experience clear, healthy skin for life. Go to CLEARSTEM.com/MAX and use code MAX at checkout for 15% off your first order. Timestamps:  00:00:00 - Introduction  00:01:21 - Window vs aisle seat  00:02:03 - Travel with me? + booking  00:03:03 - Travel nonnegotiables  00:03:54 - Who watches Sarge?  00:06:30 - Which airline is the best?  00:07:06 - Mexico and New Zealand  00:07:30 - Turbulence & staying hydrated  00:09:40 - Travel itinerary  00:11:05 - Work vs vacation  00:12:14 - Rainbow surf & gay bars  00:13:08 - Underwear & threesomes?  00:13:59 - Hawaii  00:15:37 - Working internationally  00:16:04 - First class is a scam + packing  00:17:02 - Travel wish list  00:18:01 - How to pack a suitcase  Show Links:  Kindred | Go to https://livekindred.com/ and use code MAX.ISMS to skip the waitlist.  OGIO Luggage  Check Out Max: Instagram YouTube TikTok  Special thank you to the following:  Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson

In this episode, I chat with Brian Sims, a pioneering LGBTQ+ advocate and former Pennsylvania state legislator, who continues the fight for equality as the CEO of Agenda PAC. Brian shares his experiences as the first openly LGBTQ+ member of the Pennsylvania General Assembly, and as the only NCAA football captain to come out publicly while still active. We discuss his journey through politics, the importance of staying true to your values, and navigating challenges like discrimination and anti-queer legislation. Brian also reflects on the significance of intersectionality, the need for genuine allyship, and his advice for those wanting to get into politics. Highlights: Breaking barriers as an LGBTQ+ leader in politics and sports The challenges of being openly queer in traditionally conservative spaces Intersectionality and its role in advocacy How to engage with anti-equality politicians Staying grounded while leading a movement Advice for aspiring political activists Listen now for a powerful conversation on leadership, equality, and making change in the world. Sponsored By: Scandinavian Biolabs  Go to Scandinavianbiolabs.com and start today with 20% off the Hair Activation Routine and any other products from Scandinavian Biolabs using code MAXEMERSON.  Kindred Go to livekindred.com/ and:Use code MAX.ISMS to skip the waitlist.  Max’s Patreon  Join today and make the internet more colorful Timestamps: 00:00:00 - Introduction  00:02:46 - Who The Hell Are You?  00:09:15 - Closeted legislatures  00:11:14 - Choosing to stay closeted  00:12:13 - Discrimination and representation  00:15:25 - Challenges of getting elected  00:20:57 - Staying calm when debating  00:22:06 - Brain’s campaign  00:23:53 - Sticking to the issues, not being defined by your queerness/identity  00:25:30 - Intersectionality  00:28:08 - Allyship & avoiding white savior complex 00:29:47 - Handling antiqueer legislators  00:36:11 -  Staying grounded - reword  00:38:30 - Leaving office  00:40:58 - Marriage equalities  00:43:46 - Post election advice  00:47:02 - Advice for getting into politics  00:48:44 - Fight Me!!!  Show Links:  Chris Colfer Episode coming soon!  Check Out Brian Sims: Instagram  X  Check Out Max: Instagram YouTube TikTok Special thank you to the following:  Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson

In this episode, I’m joined by Danielle Gronich and Kayleigh Christina, the co-founders of CLEARSTEM Skincare, to talk about everything from acne myths and skincare scams to gut health and the importance of clean, effective ingredients. Danielle, a licensed clinical esthetician, and Kayleigh, an integrative health practitioner, share their expert insights on managing acne, debunking common skincare misconceptions, and why it’s so important to be mindful of what’s in the products we use. We also discuss the impact of diet on skin health and how they approach both acne and anti-aging without using pore-clogging ingredients. Sponsored By:  CLEARSTEM Discover the CLEARSTEM difference and experience clear, healthy skin for life. Go to CLEARSTEM.com/MAX and use code MAX at checkout for 15% off your first order. Timestamps:  00:00:00 - Introduction  00:02:23 - Who The Hell Are You?  00:07:58 - What kids today know about skincare  00:09:51 - Acne commercials & sharing bathrooms  00:10:57 - Sharing bathrooms  00:11:45 - Educating about acne  00:16:28 - Acne myths and social media  00:19:02 - Skincare scams and red flags  00:21:27 - What is acne?  00:23:44 - The future of clean skincare  00:26:48 - Why CLEARSTEM?  00:29:23 - Voting with your dollar 00:30:27 - Issues with acne prescriptions  00:33:43 - Managing cystic acne  00:35:09 - Acne education  00:35:18 - Gut health, sugar, and skin  00:37:50 - Skin health musts  00:40:19 - Antiaging skincare at a young age  00:45:21 - HOT PEOPLE GET ACNE  00:47:20 - Fight Me! Check Out CLEARSTEM: Website  Check Out Max Emerson: Instagram YouTube TikTok Special thank you to the following:  Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson

In this episode, stand-up comedian Zach Noe Towers opens up about his bold and unapologetic approach to comedy, podcasting, and life. Zach, co-host of Confidently Insecure, shares insights into his journey from musical theater to comedy, how sobriety has influenced his career, and his unfiltered takes on sex, relationships, and personal growth. He also talks about what it’s like to push boundaries on stage, work with big names like Taylor Tomlinson and Bob The Drag Queen, and offers advice to aspiring comedians. Sponsored By:  Scandinavian Biolabs Start today with 20% off the Hair Activation Routine and any other products from Scandinavian Biolabs using code MAXEMERSON. Go to ScandinavianBiolabs.com Nutrisense Click here and use code MAXEMERSON for $50 off of your first month Puori Go to Puori.com/maxemerson and use code MAXEMERSON for 20% off  Max’s Patreon  Join today and make the internet more colorful Timestamps:  00:00:00 - Introduction  00:02:40 - Who The Hell Are You?  00:10:58 - Deciding to work in entertainment  00:12:13 - Sobriety  00:13:02 - Musical Theatre Degree and experimentation  00:17:21 - Getting into show business  00:19:18 - Writing for different genres and platforms  00:24:19 - Hosting different red carpets  00:29:24 - Unapologetic and raw comedy  00:31:48 - Overstepping and pushing boundaries  00:33:43 - Comedy idols  00:34:43 - Podcasting 00:36:33 - Fetishes and plague  00:40:25 - Advice for inspiring comedians  00:41:57 - Where to find Zach Check Out ZNT:  Instagram Linktree Website Check Out Max:  Instagram YouTube TikTok Special Thank You To The Following: Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson

In this episode, we’re joined by Braden Summers, a commercial photographer renowned for his cinematic style and thought-provoking visual storytelling. Braden shares his journey of capturing queer relationships, particularly through his iconic All Love is Equal series, which reimagines classic romantic imagery with LGBTQ+ couples. He discusses the intersection of high-fashion aesthetics, inclusivity, and emotional resonance, and how he’s pushing the boundaries of representation in both commercial and creative photography. Plus, we explore his creative process, challenges, and the stories behind his most impactful projects. Tune in for a conversation about art, identity, and the power of visual storytelling. Sponsored By:  Puori Go to Puori.com/maxemerson and use code MAXEMERSON for 20% off  Nutrisense Click here and use code MAXEMERSON for $50 off of your first month Shilajit Use code: max for 15% off your first order at blacklotusshilajit.com Timestamps: 00:00:00 - Introduction  00:01:12 - Who The Hell Are You? 00:05:59 - San Francisco, diversity, and creative vision  00:07:44 - Art school takeaways  00:10:40 - Artistic vision and inspiration  00:12:30 - Mistakes and experimentation  00:14:47 - First job  00:17:12 - All Love Is Equal campaign  00:21:53 - Viralty, The Advocate, and Buzzfeed 00:23:34 - Crowd sourcing  00:28:20 - Casting difficulties  00:32:25 - Creating dreamlike images and feedback 00:35:21 - Creating moments of intimacy  00:38:35 - Real couples vs models  00:40:59 - Composing images  00:43:57 - Creative control  00:48:05 - Braden’s new projects  00:49:10 - Fight Me!  Check out  Braden: Website  Instagram Check Out Max:  Instagram YouTube TikTok Thank you to all my patreon subscribers!  Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson

In today’s episode, I’m joined by my partner, Andrés, to talk about our adoption journey. We’ll share where we are in the process, the challenges we’ve faced, and answer some of your questions about what it’s really like. From navigating agencies to dealing with the emotional ups and downs, we’re giving you an honest look at the highs, lows, and everything in between. Sponsored By:  Puori Go to Puori.com/maxemerson and use code MAXEMERSON for 20% off  Nutrisense Click here and use code MAXEMERSON for $50 off of your first month Shilajit Use code: max for 15% off your first order at blacklotusshilajit.com Max’s Patreon  Join today and make the internet more colorful Timestamps: 00:00:00 - Introduction  00:01:44 - Where we are in the adoption process  00:02:24 - Adoption process length and where we are  00:03:16 - Hardest part of the process  00:08:06 - Deciding to adopt  00:10:06 - Infant newborn domestic adoption  00:12:25 - Our expectations  00:16:59 - Adoption agencies vs consultants  00:19:35 - Adoption cost  00:20:55 - Public & private adoption, age, and other preferences   00:24:33 - Adoption challenges 00:31:30 - Going back to phase one  00:35:42 - Vetting as a same sex couple  00:38:45 - Motivation  00:41:48 - Fight me Check out  Andrés:  Linktree Art Instagram Tik Tok Patreon Check Out Max:  Instagram YouTube TikTok  Thank you to all my patreon subscribers!  Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson

In this episode, Matthew Dempsey, a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, gives us a behind-the-scenes look at therapy and mental health. With years of experience, he talks about creating a safe space for clients, how to approach therapy, and why finding a supportive community matters. He also discusses the misuse of therapeutic terms, the ever-evolving nature of psychology, and beating the stigma around therapy. It’s a real, down-to-earth conversation about building better connections and taking care of your mental well-being. Sponsored By: Shilajit Use code: max for 15% off your first order at blacklotusshilajit.com Nutrisense Click here and use code MAXEMERSON for $50 off of your first month Puori Go to Puori.com/maxemerson and use code MAXEMERSON for 20% off  Sparkle Club Get your limited edition hard copy today Timestamps:  00:00:00 - Introduction  00:01:22 - Who The Hell Are You?  00:09:13 - Becoming a counselor  00:11:51 - Working with LGBTQ 00:13:31 - Identity, therapeutic practice, bullying  00:15:26 - Creating a safe space  00:19:00 - Finding a therapist and communicating with others  00:23:44 - Dark humor and direct communication  00:29:37 - Social media as a resource  00:31:54 - Beyond coming out 00:35:57 - Misusing therapeutic terms  00:40:05 - Finding queer community  00:43:12 - Changes in psychology  00:45:26 - Stigma around therapy and other resources  00:49:18 - FIGHT ME!  Show Links:  The Book Of Queer  Queer American History, Gay Villains, History of Pride Parades + Representation | Dr. Eric Cervini Check Out Matthew:  Website Facebook Instagram Youtube Check Out Max:  Instagram YouTube TikTok  Special thank you to the following: Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson

Ever wondered how a young talent from Miami makes a leap to the grandeur of Broadway? Join us as we explore Dexter Carr’s remarkable journey from his early days dancing with entertainment icons like Chris Brown, Beyonce and Janet Jackson to gracing Broadway stages in "Bring it On" and "In the Heights." Dexter shares invaluable insights into the transformative shift from the exhilarating world of professional dance to the theatrical demands of Broadway. His story is a vibrant testament to the resilience and creativity needed to thrive in the arts, providing a unique perspective on the supportive nature of the dance community versus the competitiveness of the entertainment industry.  Dexter opens up about the highs and lows of his career, including the challenges of imposter syndrome and the ever-evolving landscape of auditions and networking. He reflects on his experiences choreographing for megastars like Janet Jackson and Nicki Minaj, and how social media has become a critical tool for building connections and sustaining a career. With a focus on empowerment, Dexter delves into his role in projects like Megan Thee Stallion's reality series "Playground," which gives dancers a voice beyond being background performers. His insights encourage aspiring dancers to embrace their uniqueness and find strength in community and collaboration. Sponsored By: BIOptimizers Go to bioptimizers.com/maxemerson and use code MAXEMERSON for 10% off Nutrisense Click here and use code MAXEMERSON for $50 off of your first month Puori Go to Puori.com/maxemerson and use code MAXEMERSON for 20% off  Max’s Patreon  Join today and make the internet more colorful Check Out Dexter: Instagram  Link Tree Timestamps: 00:00:00 - Introduction 00:01:56 - Who The Hell Are You: Rapid Fire Questions  00:07:30 - What Drew Dexter to Dance? 00:08:09 - Male Cheerleading as a Cover Up For Being in the Closet 00:08:43 - Auditioning for Chris Brown as a Dancer 00:10:00 - Being Chris Browns Body Double 00:10:37 - Dexter Transitioning from Pop Music to Broadway and Musical Theatre 00:12:52 - Learning How to Tour and Not Party on the Road 00:14:06 - How Does Dexter’s Personality Influence His Work and Creative Process 00:15:05 - Most Memorable Moments in Dexters Career 00:15:48 - Advice from Lin Manuel during “In the Heights” 00:19:34 - Dexter’s New Hulu Series, “Playground” Produced by Megan Thee Stallion 00:22:11 - What Impact Will the Playground Have on Aspiring Dancers? 00:23:12 - How To FInd Your Voice as a Dancer 00:23:50 - How to Adapt to Working with Different Artists  00:25:22 - Choreographing for The Nicki Minaj Tour 00:28:03 - How to Stay In the Game  00:29:00 - When Did Dexter Parents Stop Making Him Get a Real Job? 00:30:37 - Behind the Scenes with Janet Jackson 00:33:12 - How Do You Adapt Choreography To Each Project? 00:34:44 - Max’s Episode of Glee 00:35:20 - Current Projects that Dexter is Excited About 00:37:30 - Kaos 00:38:44 - What is Outlet By Dexter? 00:39:51 - TikTok Advice and How To Get TikTok Fame? 00:41:00 - How to Not Get Burnout on TikTok 00:42:11 - Nike App 00:43:40 - Dexter’s Advice for Other Dancers Special thank you to the following: Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson

In this episode, I’m answering your questions about wellness and fitness. From workout routines and diet tips to those tough days when motivation is low, I’m sharing how I stay on track with my health. I’ll talk about everything from strength training and cardio to dealing with cravings and finding balance between exercise, diet, and mental well-being. Plus, get ready for some forbidden food confessions and the real talk on how I maintain my fitness and self-care routine. Sponsored By:  BIOptimizers Go to bioptimizers.com/maxemerson and use codeMAXEMERSON for 10% off Nutrisense Click here and use code MAXEMERSON for $50 off of your first month Shilajit Use code: max for 15% off your first order at blacklotusshilajit.com Show Links: Shred Timestamps: 00:00:00 - Introductions   00:03:26 - Keeping It Simple   00:03:51 - Weight   00:04:19 - Simone Biles   00:04:39 - Workout Routine   00:05:07 - Starting a Wellness Routine   00:05:37 - Strength Training   00:06:46 - Cardio Tips   00:07:36 - Recovering from Sickness   00:08:08 - Nutrition for Running   00:08:49 - Belly Fat   00:10:04 - Staying Motivated   00:10:33 - Advice for Fitness Beginners and Building Abs   00:10:55 - Diet Tips for Bottoming   00:11:40 - Calorie Counting and a Typical Dinner   00:15:18 - Eating the Rainbow   00:16:32 - Healthy Desserts   00:17:15 - Healthy Recipes   00:17:58 - Calorie Restriction and Foods to Avoid   00:18:39 - Changing Your Diet and Eating Before Bed   00:19:19 - Gaining Weight and Self-Care   00:20:27 - Forbidden Foods   00:21:54 - Calorie Deficit   00:22:50 - Alcohol & Sobriety   00:24:50 - Objectification   00:25:24 - Sleep Routine   00:27:46 - Diet, Exercise, Mental Health, and Sleep   Check Out Max: Instagram YouTube TikTok Thank you to all my patreon subscribers!  Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson

Welcome to Stuff Every Queer Kid Should Know! Today, I’m super excited to chat with H. Alan Scott, a talented writer, comedian, and podcaster you might know from Newsweek's The Parting Shot and *Out on the Lanai. We’ll explore the world of podcasting, talking about how to find your voice and connect with your audience. H. Alan will share his journey from writing to comedy and how he uses humor to tackle some pretty serious stuff. So, tune in for a fun and inspiring conversation that might just spark your own creative journey! Sponsored By: BIOptimizers Go to bioptimizers.com/maxemerson and use codeMAXEMERSON for 10% off Shilajit Use code: max for 15% off your first order at blacklotusshilajit.com Puori Go to Puori.com/maxemerson and use code MAXEMERSON for 20% off  Sparkle Club Get your limited edition hard copy today Timestamps: 00:00:00 - Introduction   00:02:04 - Who The Hell Are You?   00:10:26 - Starting Out as a Writer   00:11:16 - Tackling Serious Topics 00:17:03 - Finding Inspiration   00:19:30 - Connecting with Your Audience 00:21:13 - Navigating Social Media 00:23:26 - Hate Watching 00:25:49 - Owning Mistakes and Knowing When You're Wrong   00:26:15 - Finding Laughter and Humor in Everything  00:28:15 - The Internet's Impact on Perception   00:30:57 - Understanding the Neurospicy Spectrum   00:33:51 - Navigating Mental Health: Depression & Anxiety   00:34:40 - Comedy & Mental Health, Punching Down vs. Up   00:39:28 - Waiting Tables at the Improv   00:41:06 - You Don’t Need To Speak To Everyone  00:43:12 - Out On The Lanai   00:44:07 - Live Shows and Which Golden Girl Are You?   00:48:51 - Tips for Aspiring Podcasters   00:51:53 - Confronting Imposter Syndrome   00:52:46 - Structuring Your Podcast 00:56:57 - Engaging with Trolls 00:01:02 - Fight Me Show Links: Max on You’re Making It Worse Check Out H Alan: Instagram Website Check Out Max Emerson: Instagram YouTube TikTok Thank you to all my patreon subscribers!  Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson

Welcome back to Stuff Every Queer Kid Should Know! Today we’re joined by the fabulous Betsy Volk, a model and adventurer whose journey is as inspiring as it is exciting. At just 27, Betsy has been navigating the modeling world since she was 16, moving from the Midwest to Los Angeles and traveling the globe while embracing her authentic self as a member of the LGBTQ+ community. Join us as we explore her experiences in the fashion industry, her adventurous lifestyle, and her journey of self-discovery—from her early days with Abercrombie to her candid reflections on coming out and personal growth. Whether you're a budding model or just seeking connection and inspiration, this episode is packed with insights and real talk you won't want to miss! Sponsored By: Nutrisense Click here and use code MAXEMERSON for $50 off of your first month Puori Go to Puori.com/maxemerson and use code MAXEMERSON for 20% off  Shilajit Use code: max for 15% off your first order at blacklotusshilajit.com Max’s Patreon  Join today and make the internet more colorful Timestamps: 00:00:00 - Introduction  00:01:40 - Who the Hell Are You?  00:07:37 - Starting Out in the Modeling Industry  00:08:33 - Abercrombie Modeling  00:09:25 - How Agencies Work  00:10:40 - The Abercrombie Campus  00:14:59 - Betsy & Max's Adventures  00:15:47 - Max’s Crashpads & Bicoastal Living  00:20:02 - Betsy's LA Move  00:24:35 - International Travel  00:28:05 - Promoter Dinners  00:30:41 - Coming Out  00:31:44 - Pride Campaign  00:35:15 - Living in London  00:37:36 - Model Housing and Drama  00:39:47 - Advice for Young Models  00:41:37 - Social Media and Modeling  00:42:44 - Staying Grounded  00:44:01 - TikTok  00:46:28 - Betsy’s F*ckboy Era  00:48:25 - Room Raiders  00:49:39 - FIGHT ME! Check Out Betsy: Instagram Check Out Max:  Instagram YouTube TikTok Thank you to all my patreon subscribers!  Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson