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The REALationship Method is a comedic podcast about dating, relationships, and advice, blending tips with plenty of tangents. With stories and experiences shared by the cast and guests, it offers cautionary tales to help you avoid making the same mistakes. So sit back, relax, and maybe learn a thing or ten!
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Send us a text Ever wonder how a new model goes from posting beach shots to landing paid shoots and brand trips without losing herself? Kace joins us for a candid, funny, and grounded conversation about building a modeling career from scratch in Hawaii—no agencies, no shortcuts, just consistent posting, smart tagging, and a clear sense of purpose. She walks us through what “pose with a purpose” actually means, how she vets photographers with her mom‑manager, and why not every gig needs to be ...
Send us a text A single compliment in a dish pit changed everything. Kitty Pine walked us through the moment a chef called them the “best dishwasher” he’d ever seen—and how that flipped a switch from surviving to building a life in comedy. What followed wasn’t a straight shot to the spotlight, but a messy, hilarious path across Hawaii, Colorado, and Vegas, with brutal early bombs, a sudden first win, and the slow, stubborn craft of shaping ten minutes that work anywhere. We dig into how “Kit...
Send us a text A model, mom, and photographer walks into our studio and refuses to give the safe, surface version of her story. Shyla takes us from beachside test shoots to real castings, through a tough pregnancy and a three‑minute delivery, and into the uneasy middle where postpartum emotions, body changes, and the pressure to “bounce back” collide with the need to create. She opens up about breastfeeding and weight loss, hair regrowth, and how stepping into a bikini casting after birth dem...
Send us a text A cool studio, a hotter island, and a conversation that doesn’t flinch. We kick off with jokes about heat and Spam musubi, then Vicky takes us right into the heart of a marriage that never should’ve made it to the aisle—family pressure, fairytale scripts, and the quiet truth that commitment only works when two people are actually ready. From there we tear into modern dating: why “dumpster fire” might be generous, how ego and old-school gender roles still haunt good people, and ...
Send us a text What does it really mean to be the "alpha" in your relationships? Alexis Renae, CEO of Role Models 808, brings her unique perspective as both a professional model and dog trainer to this captivating conversation about boundaries, communication, and authenticity. Our discussion takes an unexpected turn when we discover the fascinating parallels between training dogs and maintaining healthy human relationships. Alexis shares how establishing clear boundaries and understanding no...
Send us a text What happens when old friends reconnect to discuss the messy, complicated world of modern relationships? In this raw and unfiltered conversation, Chris welcomes his longtime friend Karen (aka "Kare Bear") to explore relationship dynamics that rarely get discussed openly. The episode dives deep into age-gap relationships and the curious double standard that exists - why is it celebrated when older women date younger men but often criticized when older men date younger women? Ka...
Send us a text Ever wondered what it's like to be a professional Tahitian dancer who's also navigating the modern dating scene? Hokulani joins Chris on the REALationship Method podcast for her first-ever podcast interview, pulling back the curtain on her life beyond the dance performances you see on social media. Born into a family of Polynesian dancers, Hokulani began competing at just six years old and has since transformed her passion into a thriving content creation career. She candidly ...
Send us a text Ever wonder what your partner is really doing when they're "with the boys"? Or how a healthy relationship can suddenly turn toxic? Singer Kaylee Brooke Shimizu brings refreshing honesty to these questions and more in our pajama-themed heart-to-heart. From the moment we start chatting about real-life sleepwear versus movie pajamas (spoiler: most of us just wear oversized t-shirts), the conversation flows with authenticity. Kaylee shares wisdom beyond her years about friendship ...
Send us a text What if your failed relationships were actually preparing you for your greatest transformation? Maelene joins Chris on The Realationship Method podcast to share her powerful journey through three defining relationships that ultimately led to her personal awakening. Growing up in a traditional Filipino household where "I love you" was rarely spoken, Maelene found herself repeating toxic patterns until one heartbreak finally forced her to confront her deepest wounds. The ...
Send us a text Actress, dancer, and bartender Stacey joins Chris for a captivating conversation about navigating creative careers and personal relationships with authenticity and resilience. Their discussion weaves between professional insights and deeply personal revelations, creating an episode that's both entertaining and profoundly relatable. Stacey's multifaceted career offers a unique lens on human behavior. Behind the bar, she's developed an uncanny talent for reading people within se...
Send us a text What happens when you need to break up with someone you love, but nothing's wrong? How do you communicate effectively with a partner who processes information differently than you do? And why is the relationship between a man and his barber so sacred? Kamaka Dias, host of Keep it Aloha podcast, brings refreshing honesty and wisdom to these questions and more as he sits down with Chris for a conversation that weaves through relationship dynamics, communication styles, and tough...
Send us a text What happens when a driven Hawaiian model with dreams of becoming a pediatric oncologist opens up about love, cultural identity, and finding her match? Mailani Kekkuewa brings refreshing honesty to this conversation about navigating the modern dating world while maintaining ambitious career goals. From representing indigenous women through pageantry to appearing in Disney+ and Amazon Prime productions, Mailani's multifaceted life offers unique perspectives on what truly matter...
Send us a text What happens when science and relationships collide? Lovina, a PhD student specializing in anti-aging biology, joins Chris to explore this fascinating intersection while sharing her unique journey from Indonesia to Hawaii. Born in Indonesia and having left at age 14 for Seattle before eventually settling in Hawaii, Lovina immediately felt at home in the islands. "Hawaii is a lot like Indonesia," she explains, noting the similarities in climate, culture, and friendly people tha...
Send us a text Meet Brev, the Filipino-Chinese content creator who's mastered the delicate art of balancing a 9-to-5 corporate job with a thriving social media presence. With his authentic storytelling and relatable content, Brev has captured the attention of thousands while maintaining his day job in human resources at a financial institution. Brev's journey into content creation began unexpectedly. After taking marketing classes from Google and LinkedIn, he decided to put his new skills to...
Send us a text When content creator Mia first received an invitation to appear on the Relationship Method podcast, she thought it might be a scam. Having heard stories of other creators losing their social media accounts to hackers posing as podcast hosts, she approached with caution. That wariness quickly dissolved into laughter and genuine connection as she and host Chris discovered their shared Filipino heritage and similar life experiences. From the humidity of Washington state to the dr...
Send us a text Delve into the fascinating world of social media influence through the eyes of Faith, an entrepreneur who defies expectations at every turn. This candid conversation reveals the powerful contradictions that have shaped her remarkable journey from shy middle-schooler to successful content creator, model, athlete, and Playboy Bunny. Faith's story begins with a young girl convinced her parents to buy her first camera, setting her on a path that would lead to a thriving career in ...
Send us a text What happens when airline industry insights collide with modern dating adventures? In this candid conversation, Chris welcomes Lex from the Sidebar Pod to share her journey through both professional challenges and romantic explorations in Hawaii. Lex pulls back the curtain on her seven-year career with Hawaiian Airlines, from her beginnings as a guest service agent to her current management role. Her stories range from hilarious to jaw-dropping—including an unforgettable encou...
Send us a text Thirty years after breaking barriers as one of the first Filipino-Americans to chart on Billboard, freestyle music icon Jocelyn Enriquez sits down for an intimate conversation about her remarkable journey through the music industry and beyond. The conversation begins with nostalgic reflections on how her music impacted a generation of fans, particularly in the Filipino-American community where representation was scarce in the 90s mainstream music scene. With warmth and humor, ...
Send us a text The beauty of unexpected connections reveals itself in this conversation with dancer and instructor Aggie, where cultural touchpoints create an immediate bond that transforms what could have been a simple interview into a rich exploration of shared experiences. When two Filipino-Americans get together, certain topics inevitably emerge - the struggle to maintain language skills, childhood memories of rice with sabaw, and the universal annoyance of having your sock mysteriously ...
Send us a text A creative soul finds her voice through adversity. That's the story of Ashley Abbott, model, singer, and mother who joins us for an intimate conversation about finding your path despite the noise of critics. Having known each other since their dancing days, Chris and Ashley dive into her recent engagement (breaking news!) and upcoming Cancun vacation before exploring her dual creative journey through modeling and music. What started as photoshoots has evolved into a pattern of...
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