The RTWV Podcast

Different name.Different face.Same story.You promised yourself it would be different this time — but somehow, you found yourself back in the same kind of heartbreak.If that sounds familiar, this episode is for you.In When You Keep Attracting the Same Kind of Hurt, we uncover why cycles repeat — emotionally, spiritually, and relationally. You’ll learn how old wounds can shape your choices, why familiar pain feels safer than healthy love, and how to finally break free from patterns that keep leading you back to the same kind of hurt.It’s not punishment — it’s a pattern.And once you see it, you can heal it.00:00 – Intro | The feeling of living the same heartbreak over and over01:10 – How unhealed wounds keep drawing you to familiar pain02:40 – Why unhealthy love can feel like “home”03:25 – The truth: it’s not punishment, it’s a pattern04:10 – A prayer to break the cycle and let God rewrite your story04:50 – Next episode preview: “They Said They Loved Me… Then Left”🎧 Listen to this short episode when you need a quick reminder that God doesn’t repeat pain — He reveals it so you can he

They lied.They ignored you.They manipulated you.They didn’t choose you.And yet… your heart still misses them.Why?In this deep, Spirit-led episode, we uncover why our souls often cling to the very people who hurt us most. From trauma bonds to unmet needs to confusing pain with love, this conversation will help you make sense of the ache — and begin to break free from it.You are not crazy. You are not weak. You’re just healing — and God is with you through it all.00:00 – Welcome back to Love, Heartbreak & Healing02:20 – The paradox of missing someone who mistreated you06:00 – Trauma bonds explained in simple language10:45 – Why “sometimes good moments” keep us hooked13:30 – Familiar pain vs healthy love — why we choose dysfunction17:15 – “Do I miss them… or do I miss how they made me feel?”20:10 – Practical steps to untangle from toxic attachments23:45 – Honest prayers to pray when you still feel tied to them27:00 – God’s heart for your healing and freedom29:30 – Outro + preview of Episode 3: “When You Keep Attracting the Same Kind of Hurt”🎙️ Healing is possible. Freedom is real.Click the link in bio to listen now.

You prayed.You cried.You fasted.You even blocked them…But your heart still misses them.In this honest episode, we explore what it really means when you can’t stop thinking about someone God already asked you to release. If you’ve ever wondered why you’re still holding on, this is for you.Whether it’s soul ties, grief, memory triggers, or unfinished feelings, we go deep — without judgment. You’re not crazy. You’re not weak. You’re healing.00:00 – Welcome to the Love, Heartbreak & Healing series01:50 – “God, why am I still thinking about them?”04:30 – The emotional confusion of praying but still missing them07:45 – When memories become triggers10:20 – What to do when they keep showing up in your dreams or feed14:15 – The difference between grieving and idolizing17:00 – Soul ties: What they really are (not just emotional hype)21:40 – “Is it because I haven’t fully healed?” Let’s talk.24:10 – How to stop romanticizing someone God removed27:05 – A raw prayer for letting go and moving on29:30 – What’s coming next in Episode 2…🎙️ New episodes every week. Healing is not just possible — it’s promised.

This episode isn’t for the faint-hearted — it’s for the honest-hearted.What if the common pattern in all your failed relationships… is you?Not in a way that brings shame, but in a way that brings healing and growth.In this episode of Relationship Talks with Vikkie, we unpack the courage it takes to look inward, how to identify harmful behaviors, and most importantly — how to break the cycle and become emotionally healthy for real love.🎧 Timestamps:⏱️ 00:00 – IntroductionA heart-to-heart moment. Why this topic matters more than we admit.⏱️ 02:40 – Facing Yourself Without Shame​ God isn’t condemning you — He’s inviting you to grow​ Self-awareness is a gift, not a punishment📖 Romans 8:1 — “There is therefore now no condemnation…”⏱️ 06:20 – Signs You Might Be the Common Denominator​ Constant miscommunication?​ Fear of vulnerability?​ Quick to walk away or shut down emotionally?​ Attracted to brokenness?⏱️ 11:50 – The Power of Accountability​ Who checks you when you’re out of line?​ Do you have safe people who help you see what you can’t?📖 Proverbs 27:6 — “Wounds from a friend can be trusted…”⏱️ 16:40 – Healing the Root, Not Just the Fruit​ Your triggers are telling a story​ Addressing childhood wounds, abandonment issues, and pride⏱️ 22:15 – Practical Steps to Grow & Heal​ Get therapy, get discipled, get honest​ Journal patterns from your past relationships​ Invite God into your blind spots📖 Psalm 139:23–24 — “Search me, God, and know my heart…”⏱️ 27:00 – Final Encouragement​ You are not doomed to repeat the same story​ If you’re willing to confront the truth, you’re already on the road to change​ Don’t let pride block your breakthrough✨ Don’t forget to subscribe, rate the podcast, leave a comment, and share someone who needs this episode.

What if the question you’ve been asking — “Are they the one?” — is actually limiting your clarity? In this episode of Relationship Talks with Vikkie, we flip the script and dive into better, wiser questions that lead to real peace in godly relationships.⏱️ 00:00 – IntroductionWhy this conversation matters. Letting go of pressure, confusion, and false expectations.⏱️ 02:30 – Why “Are They the One?” Isn’t Always Helpful • Where the question comes from • Why it creates pressure and anxiety • How it leads people to ignore red flags⏱️ 07:00 – What to Ask Instead: “Does This Relationship Reflect God’s Character?” • Spiritual fruit vs. feelings • The difference between peace and emotional attachment📖 Matthew 7:16⏱️ 12:30 – God Doesn’t Always Drop “The One”—He Teaches Us to Choose • Free will and divine wisdom • Ruth & Boaz: no loud prophecy, just clear alignment📖 Proverbs 19:21⏱️ 17:00 – Questions That Bring Clarity (Instead of Confusion) • Are we equally yoked? • Do they push me toward Christ or away? • Am I more myself or more anxious around them?⏱️ 23:30 – What If You Thought They Were “The One”… But Now You’re Not Sure? • Discerning between emotion and instruction • How to surrender that person to God and find peace again⏱️ 28:00 – Final Encouragement • God’s peace is better than your fantasy • It’s okay to ask better questions — clarity lives there📖 Isaiah 55:8-9🎧 Click the link in bio to listen now.Tag someone who needs to hear this kind of relationship wisdom today.#RelationshipTalksWithVikkie #ChristianDating #GodlyRelationships #ClarityOverConfusion #FaithBeforeFeelings #ChristianSingles

What do you do when you truly believe God told you someone is your spouse… but now they’re engaged to someone else?In this episode of Relationship Talks with Vikkie, we dive deep into this often unspoken struggle and explore how to discern between divine direction and emotional attachment. We talk about what to do with that belief, how to heal if you’re wrong, and how to move forward in peace and truth.🎧 Timestamps:⏱️ 00:00 – IntroductionA real conversation for a real situation. Why this topic matters and how many believers silently wrestle with it.⏱️ 02:50 – Can God Actually Tell You Who to Marry?Yes, God speaks—but not always how we expect. How to discern between desire and divine instruction.⏱️ 07:35 – Red Flag: They’re Already EngagedWhy God won’t contradict Himself. What to do when someone is already taken.⏱️ 12:10 – Are You Projecting Your Own Desires?The truth about obsession, fantasy, and emotional prophecy. And how your heart can deceive you.⏱️ 18:05 – The Danger of Holding On to Prophetic ObsessionBitterness, delay, jealousy, and spiritual confusion — the fruit of misaligned hope.⏱️ 23:20 – What to Do Instead: How to Let Go & HealPractical steps to move forward with wisdom, surrender, and grace.⏱️ 28:15 – Final Words of EncouragementGod has not forgotten you. You don’t have to fight for someone who was never yours. Let go and trust His better plan.🎧 Listen now — and share this with a friend who needs truth and clarity.#RelationshipTalksWithVikkie #ChristianDating #LetGoAndLetGod #GodlyRelationships #PropheticWisdom #NewEpisodeAlert

You’ve done everything right — prayed, waited, stayed faithful — but you’re still single. In this episode, we get real about the struggles of waiting on God for love.Why is it taking so long?What should you be doing while you wait?Is God silent or is He preparing you?Let’s talk about the delays, the doubts, and the deep lessons in the waiting season. This is for every single person who feels like God is taking too long. You’re not alone, and you’re not forgotten.

In this episode, we dive deep into a tough but important question: What if the one you love isn’t the one God chose for you?You’ll learn why feelings alone aren’t enough to confirm a relationship, how to recognize when God’s peace is missing, and why God sees what we often can’t—the true heart of the person we love. We’ll talk about how disobeying God in relationships can delay your purpose and why surrendering your love to God can bring healing and clarity.If you’re confused about a relationship or feeling torn between love and God’s will, this episode will help you find peace and direction.This is a heart-to-heart episode filled with wisdom, truth, and clarity for anyone struggling between love and God’s will.

Dealing with Arguments in RelationshipsIn this episode, we’re diving into one of the most common challenges couples face—arguments. Disagreements are normal, but how you handle them can either strengthen or weaken your relationship. We’ll talk about healthy ways to approach conflict, how to communicate without hurting each other, and the importance of seeking resolution instead of “winning.” Tune in to learn practical tips for turning arguments into opportunities for growth and deeper connection. Let’s build stronger, more loving relationships, one conversation at a time!Don’t forget to subscribe, share, and leave a review!

In this episode, I talked about confusion in relationships. Listen, subscribe and share with your loved ones! Introduction to Confusion in Relationships (00:00:00)Viki introduces the topic of confusion in relationships and welcomes listeners.Spiritual Guidance in Relationships (00:00:53)Vikkie emphasizes the podcast's focus on God-centered relationships.Understanding Confusion (00:01:03)Vikkie defines confusion in relationships and its manifestations.Causes of Relationship Confusion (00:01:24)Discussion on different expectations, lack of communication, and misinterpretation as confusion sources.Impact of External Stress (00:04:00)She explains how stress from life can affect relationships.Influence of Past Experiences (00:05:28)She discusses how past experiences shape reactions and perceptions in current relationships.Story 1: The Unanswered Text (00:05:28)A scenario illustrating miscommunication over a text message and the importance of discussing feelings.Story 2: The Forgotten Anniversary (00:07:49)A story about a forgotten anniversary and the significance of calm communication.Key Lessons from the Stories (00:08:53)Vikkie emphasizes the importance of addressing issues directly and taking accountability.Tips for Dealing with Confusion (00:10:07)Practical advice on communication, active listening, and addressing issues early.Encouragement for Patience (00:11:20)Vikkie stresses the need for patience in building healthy relationships.Seeking External Help (00:12:32)Advice on seeking professional help if relationship confusion persists.

Hey Fam, this is the last episode on why trust matters. In this episode we discussed how to build and maintain trust in a Godly relationship. We also looked at how to heal from a broken trust in a Godly relationship.

In this episode, vikkie talks about why trust matters focusing on just the importance of trust in Godly relationships. Introduction (00:00:00) Vikkie introduces her podcast, emphasizes its availability on different platforms, thanks listeners for listening and sharing the last episode and urges listeners to subscribe. The importance of trust in godly relationships (00:00:44) Vikkie explains the focus on the importance of trust in godly relationships. Foundation of love and intimacy (00:01:15) Vikkie talks about trust as the foundation for love, intimacy, and creating a safe space for sharing thoughts and feelings. Encouraging forgiveness and grace (00:02:23) Vikkie discusses the power of trust in fostering forgiveness, extending grace, and promoting growth in relationships. Honest communication (00:03:37) Vikkie talks about the role of trust in promoting honest communication, resolving conflicts, and building understanding in relationships. Transforming commitment into joy (00:05:54) Vikkie shares how trust changes the mindset about commitment, turning it from duty into a heartfelt desire to journey through life together. Reflecting God's love (00:05:54) Vikkie talks on the reflection of God's steadfast love in relationships through trust and creating a beacon of love and faith. Conclusion and Call to Action (00:06:38) Vikkie concludes the episode, encourages forgiveness in relationships, and invites listeners to watch out for the next episode and subscribe to her channels.

In this Episode Vikkie talks about why trust matters. The episode focuses on the definition of trust and its foundation. Introduction (00:00:00) Vikkie introduces her podcast, emphasizes its availability on different platforms, thanks listeners for listening to her previous episodes and urges listeners to subscribe. Trust in a Relationship (00:00:46) Vikkie defines trust, talks about its dimensions, and the biblical perspective on trust in relationships. The Role of Trust in Building a Strong Relationship (00:04:09) Vikkie talks about the role of trust in stability, communication, intimacy, and conflict resolution in a godly relationship. Mutual Submission and Respect in Building Trust (00:08:42) Vikkie discusses the significance of mutual submission and respect in creating an environment where trust can flourish in a relationship. Conclusion and Call to Action (00:09:45) Vikkie concludes the episode, and invites listeners to watch out for the next episode and subscribe to her channels.

In this episode, vikkie talks about the true meaning love and what it truly encompasses. Introduction (00:00:00) Vikkie introduces her podcast, emphasizes its availability on different platforms, and urges listeners to subscribe. Defining Love (00:00:42) Vikkie discusses the diverse meanings of love, emphasizing its significance from a Christian perspective and contrasting it with the contemporary view of love as merely a feeling. Understanding Love (00:02:14) Vikkie explains her viral video on the true meaning of love, highlighting the difference between loving based on attributes and loving based on conditions. Christian Concept of Love (00:04:26) Vikkie delves into the profound concept of love as taught by Christ, emphasizing the unconditional and sacrificial nature of love and its significance in relationships. Christ's Teaching on Love (00:05:46) Vikkie discusses Christ's teachings on love, emphasizing loving unconditionally and sacrificially, as well as forgiving others as expressions of true love. Conclusion and Call to Action (00:08:05) Vikkie concludes the episode, encourages forgiveness in relationships, and invites listeners to watch out for the next episode and subscribe to her channels.

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