In this deeply personal episode, I’m taking you all the way back to my first love, my most toxic relationship, and the breakup that completely shattered my world… and eventually led me to booking a one-way ticket to Thailand, which completely transformed my life. I share the real story I usually “brush over” when people ask, “So what brought you to Thailand?” — the emotional rollercoaster of an 8-year codependent relationship with an avoidant partner, the red flags I ignored, the moment I finally said “enough,” and how that pain became the portal to the biggest breakthrough of my life. I share this story with those who are stuck in toxic relationships, terrified to leave, or trying to rebuild their lives after a breakup. I want you to know that you are not alone and to inspire hope in your broken heart that this painful chapter of your life is about to crack you open. In this episode, I talk about: - Meeting my first love at 15 and how our “obsessive teenage romance” slowly turned into codependency - The early red flags I ignored - How I lost myself completely and made him my whole world - The emotional abuse that chipped away my self-worth - The exact moment I knew I had to leave and how I actually found the courage to end it - The aftermath: depression, anxiety, social anxiety, and rebuilding myself piece by piece - How solo travel, self-love, and spiritual connection led me to a completely new identity -The nudge from God that led to Thailand and why I never looked back ➡️ Leave a comment below and let me your biggest takeaway from this episode! ➡️ Join my IG Lives at the end of every week where we unpack each episode & your questions Love, Samantha xx If you enjoyed the episode, It would mean the absolute world to me if you would take a second to rate & share this podcast. And don’t forget to connect with me on social media, share this podcast episode with anyone who needs to hear it and share it on your IG stories & tag me: www.instagram.com/samireedcleaver Freebies: Healing Anxious Attachment Guide: https://relationshiprehab.mykajabi.com/healing-anxious-attachment Anxious to Anchored Masterclass: https://relationshiprehab.mykajabi.com/anxious-to-anchored Workshops & Courses 1:1 Coaching Program: https://relationshiprehab.mykajabi.com/coaching Website: https://relationshiprehab.mykajabi.com SOCIAL MEDIA: Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/relationshiprehab Instagram: www.instagram.com/samireedcleaver TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@samireedcleaver
If you’re stuck in a trauma bond or a toxic/abusive relationship, and you’ve tried to leave many times but feel trapped in the cycle, this deeply personal and vulnerable episode is for you. I co-created this episode with one of my clients, Cara*, to share her story of courage, healing, and freedom. Over the past 8 weeks, I’ve had the privilege of coaching Cara as she worked to leave her abusive relationship, heal her heart, and reclaim the worthiness, love, and autonomy that had been stripped from her over the last 3 years. In this episode, you’ll hear Cara’s full journey—from the moment she came to me desperate for help, to 8 weeks later when she finally broke free from the trauma bond and discovered self-love and freedom. TRIGGER WARNING: This episode contains discussions of emotional abuse and toxic trauma bonds. For more information about the 16 week 1:1 program: To apply for the program and get a free consultation call: ➡️ Leave a comment below and let me your biggest takeaway from this episode! Love, Samantha xx *Cara is a pseudonym and not her real name. --- If you enjoyed the episode, It would mean the absolute world to me if you would take a second to rate, review & share this podcast. And don’t forget to connect with me on social media, share this podcast episode with anyone who needs to hear it and share it on your IG stories & tag me: www.instagram.com/samireedcleaver --- **Freebies:** Healing Anxious Attachment Guide: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/healing-anxious-attachment Anxious to Anchored Masterclass: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/anxious-to-anchored --------------------------------------------- **Workshops & Courses** 1:1 Coaching Program: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/coaching Website: [www.samireedcoaching.com](http://www.samireedcoaching.com/) - -------------------------------------------- **SOCIAL MEDIA:** Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/relationshiprehab Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samireedcleaver/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@samireedcleaver
This episode is for anyone navigating toxic, narcissistic, or dysfunctional family systems — especially if you’ve become estranged or are considering going no contact with your family. I’m honoured to welcome Lauren Smallcomb to the podcast as she courageously shares her story of going from the golden child to the scapegoat after questioning her family’s toxic dynamics and oppressive religious and political beliefs. This is a powerful story of bravery, rejection, and self-liberation — about what it really takes to stand in your truth, even when that means walking away from the people who raised you. “Golden Child” is Lauren’s memoir that details the collapse of illusory goodness within a family system through the disruption of Christian Nationalism, ultimately leading the token golden child to walk out of her gilded golden cage. Through an arduous journey with grief and wonder, Lauren courageously unravels from fundamentalism and steps into her authentic and free self. In this episode, we talk about: ✨ Lauren’s “downfall” from the golden child to the black sheep of the family ✨ Healing from religious trauma and reclaiming spiritual freedom ✨ What it feels like to be estranged or no contact with your family ✨ Why you can’t change your parents — and what to do instead ✨ What it truly means to be the family scapegoat ✨ How to navigate and heal from narcissistic family systems ➡️ **Leave a comment below** and let me your biggest takeaway from this episode! Love, Samantha xx --- *If you enjoyed the episode, It would mean the absolute world to me if you would take a second to rate & share this podcast. And don’t forget to connect with me on social media, share this podcast episode with anyone who needs to hear it and share it on your IG stories & tag me: www.instagram.com/samireedcleaver Lauren’s Links: Instagram: www.instagram.com/@goldenchildbook Buy “Golden Child” book: https://flourishtherapy.kartra.com/page/goldenchild Freebies: Healing Anxious Attachment Guide: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/healing-anxious-attachment Anxious to Anchored Masterclass: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/anxious-to-anchored --------------------------------------------- Workshops & Courses: 1:1 Coaching Program: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/coaching Website: www.samireedcoaching.com - -------------------------------------------- SOCIAL MEDIA: Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/relationshiprehab Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samireedcleaver TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@samireedcleaver
Grab a cuppa and join me for a heart-to-heart chat about LIFE. In this episode, I’m sharing with you some of the challenges and lessons I’ve been moving through and the amazing gifts that God gives when we truly let go, surrender and detach from things we are clinging onto so tightly. For me, it was my business and the vision I had for my last relationship... In this episode, we talk about: ✨ How difficult it can be to let go of control ✨ What happens when we finally surrender it all to God ✨ Why prioritising your peace is the ultimate act of self love ✨ How to start healing from breakups and burnout ✨ … and so much more! ➡️ Leave a comment below and let me your biggest takeaway from this episode! Love, Samantha xx --- If you enjoyed the episode, It would mean the absolute world to me if you would take a second to rate & share this podcast. And don’t forget to connect with me on social media, share this podcast episode with anyone who needs to hear it and share it on your IG stories & tag me: www.instagram.com/samireedcleaver --- *Freebies:* Healing Anxious Attachment Guide: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/healing-anxious-attachment Anxious to Anchored Masterclass: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/anxious-to-anchored --------------------------------------------- *Workshops & Courses* 1:1 Coaching Program: www.samireedcoaching.com/coaching Website: www.samireedcoaching.com - -------------------------------------------- *SOCIAL MEDIA:* Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/relationshiprehab Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samireedcleaver/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@samireedcleaver
Have you been burnt in relationships in the past, worked so hard on re-building yourself and now you feel resistant, even scared to start dating again because you don’t want to lose the peace you’ve worked so hard to build? You’ve healed, you’ve found your rhythm, you finally feel good… and even though deep down, you really want a relationship, the thought of ghosting, rejection, or falling back into familiar patterns of getting too attached too fast makes you wonder: “Is it worth the risk?” If that sounds like you, this episode is going to help you get that dream relationship you desire AND protect your peace. Inside this episode, we go through: ✨ Why risk is a natural part of every meaningful reward (including love) ✨ How to build resilience so rejection doesn’t derail you ✨ Practical boundaries to avoid burnout and premature attachment ✨ The importance of reset rituals to stay grounded after disappointments ✨ The role of detachment in dating — and how it actually creates more peace, not less 💫 Ready to go deeper? Join my free workshop on September 23rd: Master the Art of Detachment. You’ll learn how to stop spiraling over mixed signals, release the anxiety that comes with dating, and open yourself to love without losing your peace: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/secure-woman-era ➡️ Leave a comment on this podcast and let me your biggest takeaway from this episode! Love, Samantha xx If you enjoyed the episode, It would mean the absolute world to me if you would take a second to rate & share this podcast. And don’t forget to connect with me on social media, share this podcast episode with anyone who needs to hear it and share it on your IG stories & tag me: www.instagram.com/samireedcleaver Freebies: Healing Anxious Attachment Guide: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/healing-anxious-attachment FREE live ‘Master the Art of Detachment’ Masterclass on Sept 23rd: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/secure-woman-era Workshops & Courses 1:1 Coaching Program: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/coaching Website: www.samireedcoaching.com SOCIAL MEDIA: Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/relationshiprehab Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samireedcleaver/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@samireedcleaver
What if love isn’t magic at all—but math? In today’s conversation with Zoe Charif, we explore how to redefine love as something we can actually calculate. Zoe challenges the romanticized idea that love is about soulmates and destiny, and instead gives us the code for choosing a relationship that truly lasts. We dive into attachment styles, modern dating complexities, and whether compatibility can be created—not just found. If you’ve ever wondered if there’s a smarter way to approach love, you’ll want to hear this. In this episode, we talk about: ✨ How we can figure out if our relationship will last using Zoe’s formula ✨ Why relationships are not as ‘spiritual’ as we think ✨ How to use the tool to stop falling into unhealthy relationships ✨ How to use the tool to help you overcome a breakup ✨ Whether we can create compatibility or is it just ‘found’ in our perfect match? ✨ …and so much more! ➡️ Leave a comment below and let me your biggest takeaway from this episode! Love, Samantha xx If you enjoyed the episode, It would mean the absolute world to me if you would take a second to rate & share this podcast. And don’t forget to connect with me on social media, share this podcast episode with anyone who needs to hear it and share it on your IG stories & tag me: www.instagram.com/samireedcleaver Freebies: Healing Anxious Attachment Guide: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/healing-anxious-attachment FREE live ‘Master the Art of Detachment’ Masterclass on Sept 23rd: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/secure-woman-era Workshops & Courses 1:1 Coaching Program: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/coaching Website: www.samireedcoaching.com SOCIAL MEDIA: Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/relationshiprehab Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samireedcleaver/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@samireedcleaver Zoe’s Links: Zoey Charif – Author, Entrepreneur, Coach Love Can In Fact, Be Calculated Book: Amazon Barnes & Noble IngramSpark Website: https://www.lovecaninfactbecalculated.com/ Instagram: @zoeycharif TikTok:@zoeycharif
We’ve all been there: replaying texts, analyzing his mixed signals, and wondering… Is he avoidant, or does he just not like me that much? In this episode, I’m breaking down the difference anxious women need to know. I’ll share the truth about avoidant attachment (hint: it’s not as obvious on day one as the internet makes it seem) and why chasing someone who’s inconsistent is really about your own attachment wounds — not about fixing him. If you’ve ever felt stuck in the cycle of overanalyzing, self‑abandoning, and trying to “win back” the early version of a guy who seemed so invested… this episode is your wake‑up call. The honest answer will set you free — so you can stop spinning in anxiety and start raising your standards. 👉 Ready to break the cycle of overthinking and chasing? Grab my free guide The High‑Achiever’s Heart’s Guide to Healing Anxious Attachment below to start calming your nervous system and attracting secure love. ➡️ Leave a comment below and let me your biggest takeaway from this episode! Love, Samantha xx If you enjoyed the episode, It would mean the absolute world to me if you would take a second to rate & share this podcast. And don’t forget to connect with me on social media, share this podcast episode with anyone who needs to hear it and share it on your IG stories & tag me: www.instagram.com/samireedcleaver Freebies: Healing Anxious Attachment Guide: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/healing-anxious-attachment Master the Art of Detachment Masterclass: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/secure-woman-era Workshops & Courses 1:1 Coaching Program: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/coaching Website: www.samireedcoaching.com SOCIAL MEDIA: Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/relationshiprehab Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samireedcleaver/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@samireedcleaver
For all the women who were told that they are ‘too much’ and are ready to own her truth and authority in her love life AND career - buckle up for this amazing, inspiring conversation with Confidence Coach Kate House! In this episode, we talk about: ✨ What it means to own your truth and authority ✨ How to let go of things we’ve already ‘invested’ so much time and energy in ✨ How to be brave and courageous in the face of rejection ✨ What it means to listen to your intuition and take up space ✨ The importance of a female community ✨ …and so much more! ➡️ Leave a comment below and let me your biggest takeaway from this episode! Love, Samantha xx ---------------------------------------------------------------- If you enjoyed the episode, It would mean the absolute world to me if you would take a second to rate & share this podcast.* And don’t forget to connect with me on social media, share this podcast episode with anyone who needs to hear it and share it on your IG stories & tag me: @samireedcleaver **Freebies:** Healing Anxious Attachment Guide: www.samireedcoaching.com/healing-anxious-attachment Master the Art of Detachment Masterclass: www.samireedcoaching.com/secure-woman-era --------------------------------------------- **Workshops & Courses** 1:1 Coaching Program: www.samireedcoaching.com/coaching Website: www.samireedcoaching.com -------------------------------------------- **SOCIAL MEDIA:** Facebook Group: www.facebook.com/groups/relationshiprehab Instagram: www.instagram.com/samireedcleaver/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@samireedcleaver -------------------------------------------- **KATE'S LINKS:** Website -- https://mskatehouse.com/ Instagram -- https://www.instagram.com/mskatehouse/
Let’s talk about the number one source of anxiety I see in dating right now — messaging anxiety. You send a message, he doesn’t reply, you obsessively checking your phone, analyze emojis, and wonder if he’s losing interest. He replies, and the cycle repeats. Exhausting right? In this episode, I’m going to break down why messaging anxiety and waiting on his reply wrecks your nervous system, how this ties back to your attachment style, and what you can do instead.” ➡️ **Leave a comment below** and let me your biggest takeaway from this episode! Love, Samantha xx --- *If you enjoyed the episode, It would mean the absolute world to me if you would take a second to rate & share this podcast.* And don’t forget to connect with me on social media, share this podcast episode with anyone who needs to hear it and share it on your IG stories & tag me: [*www.instagram.com/samireedcleaver*](https://www.instagram.com/samireedcleaver/) --- **Freebies:** Healing Anxious Attachment Guide: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/healing-anxious-attachment Master The Art of Detachment Masterclass: [**https://www.samireedcoaching.com/secure-woman-era**](https://www.samireedcoaching.com/secure-woman-era) --------------------------------------------- **Workshops & Courses** 1:1 Coaching Program: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/coaching Website: [www.samireedcoaching.com](http://www.samireedcoaching.com/) - -------------------------------------------- **SOCIAL MEDIA:** Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/relationshiprehab Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samireedcleaver/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@samireedcleaver
Stonewalling can feel like torture — and it’s NOT okay. Let’s sit down with a cuppa and unpack this together. This episode is a replay of a powerful training I originally taught in one of my group programs — and it’s a conversation every human needs to hear if they have ever been shut out, blocked, or emotionally abandoned in a relationship. In this episode, we explore: ✨ What stonewalling really is — and how it differs from the silent treatment ✨ Why people stonewall in relationships (it’s often a trauma response) ✨ How to repair and navigate it together — if both partners are willing ✨ What to do when they block you or disappear ✨ How to stay grounded when your partner takes space ✨ When it’s time to walk away — for your own peace ✨ …and so much more. 👉 Leave a comment below the episode and let me know your biggest takeaway. I’d love to hear how this landed for you. With love, Samantha xx If you enjoyed the episode, It would mean the absolute world to me if you would take a second to rate & share this podcast. And don’t forget to connect with me on social media, share this podcast episode with anyone who needs to hear it and share it on your IG stories & tag me: www.instagram.com/samireedcleaver Freebies: Healing Anxious Attachment Guide: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/healing-anxious-attachment Anxious to Anchored Masterclass: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/anxious-to-anchored Workshops & Courses 1:1 Coaching Program: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/coaching Website: www.samireedcoaching.com SOCIAL MEDIA: Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/relationshiprehab Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samireedcleaver/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@samireedcleaver
Have you ever wondered why you keep attracting the same type of partner — or why you become someone else entirely in love? Maybe you’re noticing a lot of self-sabotage in your relationships that’s “not you” or shaming yourself for certain behaviour traits that are driving partners away. In today’s episode, we’re going to play with the concept of archetypes - the parts of us that show up unconsciously that shape your relationships — the parts of yourself you’ve disowned, hidden, or rejected… and how they might be choosing your relationships for you.” I break down the 4 anxious attachment archetypes I saw in myself when I anxious attached and I see in my most of my clients: The martyr, the mother, the chameleon and the performer. I share how these patterns develop, the unconscious fears driving them, and how they sabotage your ability to feel truly loved, safe, and chosen in your relationships. ✨ If you’re ready to break free from these patterns and reconnect with your Secure Woman self — this episode is your starting point. ➡️ Download my brand new eBook "The Anxious Heart’s Guide to Healing Anxious Attachment” to learn my 3-step roadmap to go from anxious to secure — for FREE. ➡️ DM me and let me your biggest takeaway from this episode! Love, Samantha xx If you enjoyed the episode, It would mean the absolute world to me if you would take a second to rate & share this podcast. And don’t forget to connect with me on social media, share this podcast episode with anyone who needs to hear it and share it on your IG stories & tag me: https://www.instagram.com/samireedcleaver/ Freebies: Healing Anxious Attachment Guide: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/healing-anxious-attachment Live Anxious Attachment Workshop on July 30th: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/anxious-attachment-workshop Workshops & Courses 6 month Securely Attached Program: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/securelyattached 1:1 Coaching Program: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/coaching Website: www.samireedcoaching.com SOCIAL MEDIA: Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/relationshiprehab Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samireedcleaver/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@samireedcleaver Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC48h4HsihUqzE_lsMjHDRkw
If you’re a yogi or want to start practicing yoga to help you heal relationship anxiety and become more confident, secure and at peace with your mind, body and soul — this episode is for you! I’m joined by the lovely Lizzy Bedder who takes us on a journey through her experience using yoga to heal her relationship with herself, her body and her partners. In this episode, we talk about: ✨ Lizzy’s journey using yoga to heal ✨ How it helped her with relationship anxiety ✨ Lizzy’s experience with a fearful avoidant attachment style ✨ How yoga can help with negative body image ✨ How to use yoga to build self worth and confidence ✨ Using yoga to connect with God ✨ …and so much more! ➡️ DM me with your biggest takeaway— I’d love to hear from you! With love, Samantha xx If you enjoyed the episode, It would mean the absolute world to me if you would take a second to rate & share this podcast. And don’t forget to connect with me on social media, share this podcast episode with anyone who needs to hear it and share it on your IG stories & tag me: https://www.instagram.com/samireedcleaver/ ___________________________________________________________________________________ Lizzy is a holistic health and healing practitioner with a background in science education, yoga, Ayurveda, and somatic therapies. She specialises in nervous system regulation, trauma recovery, and supporting mental wellbeing through a body-based, integrative approach. Drawing from her personal healing journey and over a decade of teaching and facilitation, Lizzy offers classes, retreats, and 1:1 mentoring programmes designed to restore balance and awaken the body’s natural capacity to heal from chronic anxiety. Lizzy’s Links: Lizzy’s Instagram Bedder Wellness Website ___________________________________________________________________________________ Freebies: Healing Anxious Attachment Guide: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/healing-anxious-attachment Anxious to Anchored Masterclass: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/anxious-to-anchored Workshops, Courses & Coaching 6 month Securely Attached Program: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/securelyattached 1:1 Coaching Program: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/coaching For mini courses, check out the website: www.samireedcoaching.com SOCIAL MEDIA: Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/relationshiprehab Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samireedcleaver/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@samireedcleaver Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC48h4HsihUqzE_lsMjHDRkw
If you’re feeling overwhelmed by all the things — career confusion, relationships, identity shifts, or just a deep sense that something’s gotta change… but you’re not sure if you can go through with the big scary decisions... I’ve got you. In this episode, I’m peeling back the curtain to share some personal updates and how I am trusting myself through the unknown. In this episode, we talk about: ✨ The breakdowns and breakthroughs I’ve been moving through lately ✨ Burnout in business and craving deeper alignment ✨ Leaving a “good” relationship that no longer felt right ✨ Navigating uncertainty in career, finances, love, and life ✨ Why intuition feels so hard to hear when fear is loud ✨ How we block our own clarity by resisting what’s true ✨ The difference between certainty and safety ✨ …and how nervous system regulation can help us stay steady in the in-between ➡️ DM me and tell me your biggest takeaway or what season you’re currently navigating — I’d love to hold space for you. And if you’re craving more inner calm and clarity, watch my FREE Anxious to Anchored Masterclass — and implement the self soothing tools I do when life feels chaotic. With love, Samantha xx If you enjoyed the episode, It would mean the absolute world to me if you would take a second to rate & share this podcast. And don’t forget to connect with me on social media, share this podcast episode with anyone who needs to hear it and share it on your IG stories & tag me: https://www.instagram.com/samireedcleaver/ ___________________________________________________________________________________ Freebies: Healing Anxious Attachment Guide: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/healing-anxious-attachment Anxious to Anchored Masterclass: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/anxious-to-anchored Workshops, Courses & Coaching 6 month Securely Attached Program: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/securelyattached 1:1 Coaching Program: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/coaching For mini courses, check out the website: www.samireedcoaching.com SOCIAL MEDIA: Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/relationshiprehab Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samireedcleaver/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@samireedcleaver Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC48h4HsihUqzE_lsMjHDRkw
Calling all my single ladies!! 💃🏼 If you’re single and feeling lonely and incomplete without a relationship — You NEED to watch this one with Lucy Meggeson, the host and producer of the podcast, Thrive Solo. She is a woman on a mission to flip the script on what it means to be child-free and single in today’s society! In this episode, we talk about: ✨ Her journey as a thriving 49 year single woman ✨ Whether her past relationships has influenced her decision to be single ✨ Why people are triggered by women who choose to be single and child-free ✨ The judgement and comments we get from concerned family members ✨ How to thrive being single ✨ How she feels about dating in today’s society ✨ …and so much more! ➡️ As always, I love to hear from you and what you think! DM me and let me your biggest takeaway from this episode! Love, Samantha xx ______________________________________________________________________ If you enjoyed the episode, It would mean the absolute world to me if you would take a second to rate & share this podcast with someone who needs to hear today’s message. And don’t forget to connect with me on social media, share this podcast episode with anyone who needs to hear it and share it on your IG stories & tag me: https://www.instagram.com/samireedcleaver/ ______________________________________________________________________ Lucy’s Links: Thrive Solo Podcast Lucy’s Instagram Buy the ‘Thrive Solo’ Book! ___________________________________________________________________________________ Freebies: Healing Anxious Attachment Guide: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/healing-anxious-attachment Anxious to Anchored Masterclass: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/anxious-to-anchored Workshops, Courses & Coaching 6 month Securely Attached Program: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/securelyattached 1:1 Coaching Program: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/coaching For mini courses, check out the website: www.samireedcoaching.com SOCIAL MEDIA: Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/relationshiprehab Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samireedcleaver/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@samireedcleaver Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC48h4HsihUqzE_lsMjHDRkw
Healing anxious attachment is a life-changing journey — but it’s not always easy. While becoming securely attached can bring more calm, confidence, and healthier relationships, it also means going on that confronting journey and facing some uncomfortable truths along the way. In this episode, we’re unpacking five hard truths about healing anxious attachment wounds: ✨ Why healing isn’t always comfortable ✨ The myth of waking up one day as "fully secure" (and what real progress looks like) ✨ How healing might disrupt your relationships ✨ Why you won’t stop getting triggered ✨ The surprising truth no-one will admit ✨ …and so much more! ➡️ DM me and let me your biggest takeaway from this episode! Love, Samantha xx ______________________________________________________________________ If you enjoyed the episode, It would mean the absolute world to me if you would take a second to rate & share this podcast. And don’t forget to connect with me on social media, share this podcast episode with anyone who needs to hear it and share it on your IG stories & tag me: https://www.instagram.com/samireedcleaver/ ______________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________ Freebies: Healing Anxious Attachment Guide: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/healing-anxious-attachment Anxious to Anchored Masterclass: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/anxious-to-anchored Workshops, Courses & Coaching 6 month Securely Attached Program: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/securelyattached 1:1 Coaching Program: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/coaching For mini courses, check out the website: www.samireedcoaching.com SOCIAL MEDIA: Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/relationshiprehab Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samireedcleaver/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@samireedcleaver Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC48h4HsihUqzE_lsMjHDRkw
Save this one for anyone going through or contemplating a divorce, especially if there are issues such as cheating, children and co-parenting involved! In this episode, I'm joined by the lovely Arabella Paul who is a divorce survival coach as we talk about the complexities of break-up and divorce. In this episode, we talk about: ✨ Arabella's Personal Divorce Journey ✨ Infidelity Challenges & Divorce ✨ Rebuilding Trust and Self-Worth ✨ Navigating Divorce with Children ✨ Navigating Difficult Emotions During Divorce ✨ Co-Parenting and Step-Families ✨ Life After Divorce: New Beginnings ✨ …and so much more! ➡️ DM me and let me your biggest takeaway from this episode! Love, Samantha xx _________________________________________________________________________ If you enjoyed the episode, It would mean the absolute world to me if you would take a second to rate & share this podcast. And don’t forget to connect with me on social media, share this podcast episode with anyone who needs to hear it and share it on your IG stories & tag me: https://www.instagram.com/samireedcleaver/ _________________________________________________________________________ Arabella's Links: >> Website: www.thedivorcesurvivalcoach.com >> Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thedivorcesurvivalcoach/ ___________________________________________________________________________________ Freebies: Healing Anxious Attachment Guide: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/healing-anxious-attachment Anxious to Anchored Masterclass: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/anxious-to-anchored Workshops, Courses & Coaching 6 month Securely Attached Program: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/securelyattached 1:1 Coaching Program: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/coaching For mini courses, check out the website: www.samireedcoaching.com SOCIAL MEDIA: Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/relationshiprehab Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samireedcleaver/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@samireedcleaver Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC48h4HsihUqzE_lsMjHDRkw
Let’s talk long distance relationships! My partner and I are currently in a phase of long-distance and it feels SO different to the one I did years ago with an ex-partner. But I know how triggering they can be when we also have an anxious attachment style. It’s my intention to provide some insight into what’s happening for you and how to better cope with a LDR. In this episode, we talk about: ✨ My personal story in LDR - both anxious and securely attached ✨ WHY long distance is so triggering ✨ What you need to make it work ✨ What to do if your partner is avoidantly attached ✨ …and so much more! ➡️ DM me and let me your biggest takeaway from this episode! Love, Samantha xx _________________________________________________________________________ If you enjoyed the episode, It would mean the absolute world to me if you would take a second to rate & share this podcast. And don’t forget to connect with me on social media, share this podcast episode with anyone who needs to hear it and share it on your IG stories & tag me: https://www.instagram.com/samireedcleaver/ _________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________ Freebies: Healing Anxious Attachment Guide: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/healing-anxious-attachment Anxious to Anchored Masterclass: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/anxious-to-anchored Workshops, Courses & Coaching 6 month Securely Attached Program: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/securelyattached 1:1 Coaching Program: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/coaching For mini courses, check out the website: www.samireedcoaching.com SOCIAL MEDIA: Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/relationshiprehab Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samireedcleaver/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@samireedcleaver Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC48h4HsihUqzE_lsMjHDRkw
Join the next round of the Securely Attached Program: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/securelyattached if you’ve ever had someone tell you: “I’m just not ready for a relationship right now…” only to see them dating someone else, like, a week later — this episode is for you. In this episode, I’m breaking down the real reasons why this happens, what it means about them, what it doesn’t mean about you, and how to move through it without questioning your worth. I want to speak directly to your heart. Not the part of you trying to analyze, or figure out where you went wrong… So let’s talk about it. ➡️ DM me and let me your biggest takeaway from this episode! Love, Samantha xx ________________________________________________________________ If you enjoyed the episode, It would mean the absolute world to me if you would take a second to rate & share this podcast. And don’t forget to connect with me on social media, share this podcast episode with anyone who needs to hear it and share it on your IG stories & tag me: https://www.instagram.com/samireedcleaver/ ________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________ Freebies: Healing Anxious Attachment Guide: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/healing-anxious-attachment Anxious to Anchored Masterclass: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/anxious-to-anchored Workshops, Courses & Coaching 6 month Securely Attached Program: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/securelyattached 1:1 Coaching Program: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/coaching For mini courses, check out the website: www.samireedcoaching.com SOCIAL MEDIA: Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/relationshiprehab Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samireedcleaver/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@samireedcleaver Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC48h4HsihUqzE_lsMjHDRkw
Listen to Leanne’s story of how she went from feeling anxious & chasing avoidants to feeling confident, secure and IN LOVE with her dream partner! She achieved all of this while in my 16 week 1:1 coaching program. It was so special for her to share her story and experience with us — and it felt like a Love Island reunion between us 😍 In this episode, we talk about: ✨ The challenges and struggles Leanne faced with an anxious attachment style ✨ The moment she decided to commit to level up her love life ✨ The major breakthroughs and subtle shifts she experienced ✨ Where she’s at now - a loving relationship and thriving business! ✨ …and so much more! 💗 Find out more about the anxious attachment > securely attached process and the programs on offer to start YOUR journey by joining this FREE 3-day masterclass series: “3 Steps to Secure Attachment” starting on April 21st. ➡️ CLICK HERE TO JOIN!! Love, Samantha xx ________________________________________________________________ If you enjoyed the episode, It would mean the absolute world to me if you would take a second to rate & share this podcast. And don’t forget to connect with me on social media, share this podcast episode with anyone who needs to hear it and share it on your IG stories & tag me: https://www.instagram.com/samireedcleaver/ ________________________________________________________________ Leanne’s Links: Follow her on Instagram Listen to Behind the Label Podcast Browse her Jewellery Collection ___________________________________________________________________________________ Freebies: Healing Anxious Attachment Guide: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/healing-anxious-attachment Anxious to Anchored Masterclass: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/anxious-to-anchored Workshops, Courses & Coaching 6 month Securely Attached Program: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/securelyattached 1:1 Coaching Program: https://www.samireedcoaching.com/coaching For mini courses, check out the website: www.samireedcoaching.com SOCIAL MEDIA: Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/relationshiprehab Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samireedcleaver/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@samireedcleaver Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC48h4HsihUqzE_lsMjHDRkw