The Scratch Golfer's Mindset Podcast

In this episode of The Scratch Golfer’s Mindset Podcast, I sit down with one of Europe’s leading Performance Coaches and the Founder of Mind Caddie app, Karl Morris, to dive deep into why attention is the true currency of performance—both on the golf course and in life.  We explore how to train your focus in a world full of distractions, the power of asking better questions to guide every shot, and how to gamify your mental training so you can measure and improve it. Karl shares practical tools for shifting from threat mode to opportunity mode, building resiliency through acceptance, and closing the gap between your range game and your on-course results.  In this episode, you’ll learn: Why attention—not time—is your most valuable resource in golf How to use powerful, well-timed questions to sharpen focus instantly The “tick game” method to measure and improve your mental game How to shift from threat mode to opportunity mode on the course Practical strategies for staying present between shots Ways to bridge the gap between range performance and on-course execution How identity and intentionality shape your results and enjoyment If you’ve ever struggled to stay present, manage your thoughts, or bring your best game to the course, this conversation is packed with strategies you can start using right away. Get your pencils ready and start listening.  P.S. Curious to learn more about the results my clients are experiencing and what they say about working with me? Read more here. More About Karl Karl Morris is one of Europe’s leading performance coaches, with over 30 years of experience helping golfers at every level—from weekend players to multiple Major champions—unlock their potential. Known for his practical, no-nonsense approach, Karl specializes in mental game strategies that are easy to apply under pressure.  He has worked with six Major winners, dozens of European Tour and PGA Tour professionals, and countless elite amateurs. As the founder of The Mind Factor and creator of the Mind Caddie app, Karl is dedicated to making mental performance training accessible, actionable, and results-driven for golfers worldwide. Play to Your Potential On (and Off) the Course Schedule a Mindset Coaching Discovery Call Subscribe to the More Pars than Bogeys Newsletter Download my “Play Your Best Round” free hypnosis audio recording. High-Performance Hypnotherapy and Mindset Coaching Paul Salter - known as The Golf Hypnotherapist - is a High-Performance Hypnotherapist and Mindset Coach who leverages hypnosis and powerful subconscious reprogramming techniques to help golfers of all ages and skill levels overcome the mental hazards of their minds so they can shoot lower scores and play to their potential. He has over 16 years of coaching experience working with high performers in various industries, helping them get unstuck, out of their own way, and unlock their full potential. Click here to learn more about how high-performance hypnotherapy and mindset coaching can help you get out of your own way and play to your potential on (and off) the course.  Instagram: @thegolfhypnotherapist  Twitter: @parsoverbogeys Key Takeaways: Attention is the true currency of performance – In golf and in life, where you place your attention determines your results and your experience. Better questions create better focus – Asking “What does a good shot look like here?” can instantly direct your mind toward a clear, useful target. Gamifying your mental game builds consistency – The “tick game” creates a measurable way to track focus and commitment on every shot. Acceptance fuels resiliency – Being willing to deal with the reality of the game (good shots, okay shots, poor shots) allows you to bounce back faster. Golf is an opportunity, not a threat – Viewing each shot as a chance rather than a danger shifts physiology, mindset, and performance. Key Quotes: “Attention is the currency of performance.” “You don’t have to believe what you think; there’s a difference between having thoughts and deliberate thinking.” “The quality of your life will be determined by the quality of your questions.” “Acceptance isn’t being happy about a bad shot—it’s being willing to deal with the reality of the game.” “We’re making it all up anyway—so make up something that serves you.” Time Stamps: 00:00: Attention as the Currency of Performance 02:57: The Power of Questions in Golf 05:51: Gamifying the Mental Game 08:42: Resiliency and Acceptance in Golf 11:38: The Role of Curiosity and Observation 14:32: Framework for Mental Training 17:31: The Four Quadrants of Mental Game 25:53: Understanding the In-Between Time in Golf 26:31: The Power of Presence: Tuning into the Senses 29:19: Mental Game: Training Attention Away from the Course 31:43: The Impact of Modern Distractions on Focus 36:30: Translating Range Skills to the Course 40:33: The Importance of Identity in Golf Performance 42:55: Gratitude: The Key to Enjoying the Game 44:54: Innovative Tools for Golf Improvement

Why is it so easy to bet on your favorite team, stocks, or fantasy league—yet so hard to bet on yourself?  In this powerful solo episode of The Scratch Golfer’s Mindset Podcast, I share why most people avoid going all in on themselves and the fears, excuses, and illusions of control that keep them stuck. I open up about my own story of leaving a secure path at IMG Academy, walking away from 90% of my income at Renaissance Periodization, and investing $50,000 into a coach when I had nothing certain lined up—all because I was committed to betting on myself. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why people avoid betting on themselves and play small How illusions of control keep you stuck in fear and excuses The hidden cost of betting only on things outside your control Why responsibility, rejection, and uncertainty scare us—and how to face them How betting on yourself creates confidence, peace, and exponential growth The role of short-term sacrifice in creating long-term fulfillment Why modeling self-belief inspires and lifts everyone around you This episode is a wake-up call: stop dimming your light, stop waiting for the perfect moment, and take the risk. Because the greatest bet you’ll ever place—the one with the highest return—is the bet you place on yourself. Get your pencils ready and start listening.  P.S. Curious to learn more about the results my clients are experiencing and what they say about working with me? Read more here. Play to Your Potential On (and Off) the Course Schedule a Mindset Coaching Discovery Call Subscribe to the More Pars than Bogeys Newsletter Download my “Play Your Best Round” free hypnosis audio recording. High-Performance Hypnotherapy and Mindset Coaching Paul Salter - known as The Golf Hypnotherapist - is a High-Performance Hypnotherapist and Mindset Coach who leverages hypnosis and powerful subconscious reprogramming techniques to help golfers of all ages and skill levels overcome the mental hazards of their minds so they can shoot lower scores and play to their potential. He has over 16 years of coaching experience working with high performers in various industries, helping them get unstuck, out of their own way, and unlock their full potential. Click here to learn more about how high-performance hypnotherapy and mindset coaching can help you get out of your own way and play to your potential on (and off) the course.  Instagram: @thegolfhypnotherapist Key Takeaways: People prefer to bet on what they can’t control because it gives them an excuse when things don’t work out. Betting on yourself means full ownership—no one else to blame. Fear of judgment, rejection, and failure keeps most people from going all in. Responsibility is scary, but it’s also the path to peace and fulfillment. My leap from RP coaching and a $50,000 investment was proof of betting on myself—and it paid off. Confidence and belief are built in action, not in waiting for certainty. Betting on yourself elevates everyone around you through your example. Key Quotes: “You can’t become better unless you bet on yourself.” “When you bet on things beyond your control, you reinforce self-doubt.” “Fear and confidence can coexist—you can be scared and certain at the same time.” “The biggest risk isn’t failing. It’s never knowing what could have happened if you bet on yourself.” “Money comes and goes. Focus and attention are the true currencies of high performance.” “Stop dimming your light—you’re teaching your kids it’s okay to play small.” “Every bet you place on yourself creates a ripple effect of belief, confidence, and growth.” Time Stamps: 00:00: Why We Bet on the Wrong Things 02:00: My Early Career at IMG Academy 04:30: Cold Calls & Finding RP 06:30: Building a Coaching Business 08:40: Walking Away from 90% of My Income 10:55: The $50,000 Bet That Changed Everything 12:30: Why We Avoid Betting on Ourselves 14:40: Two Paths: Conflict vs. Fulfillment 16:15: Rewiring Belief & Confidence 18:10: Fear and Confidence Can Coexist 20:15: The Hard Truth About Sacrifice 22:05: The Ripple Effect of Self-Belief 23:45: Final Challenge: Bet on Yourself

Tournament golf will test every ounce of your discipline, patience, and emotional control—and Michael Leonard has lived it.  In this conversation, good friend and founder of Wicked Smart Golf, Michael Leonard, is back on the show to break down the real differences between the mental game and mindset training, the traits that separate consistent performers from the rest, and how to protect your energy when negativity surrounds you.  In this episode, you’ll learn: The key differences between the mental game of golf and true mindset training How to identify and eliminate self-talk that sabotages your performance Why protecting your energy is a prerequisite for tournament success The growth mindset traits every serious golfer must develop How to use your “dark side” and competitive drive as fuel for improvement Strategies for thriving in high-pressure, tournament conditions The #1 mistake golfers make when transitioning into competitive play Get your pencils ready and start listening.  P.S. Curious to learn more about the results my clients are experiencing and what they say about working with me? Read more here. More About Michael Michael is the founder of Wicked Smart Golf, a brand and podcast dedicated to helping golfers shoot lower scores without overhauling their swings.  A competitive amateur with hundreds of tournament rounds under his belt, Michael has authored a trilogy of golf improvement books covering breaking 90, breaking 80, and mastering tournament play.  Through his writing, speaking, and coaching, he simplifies the mental game, sharpens course management skills, and teaches players how to build the mindset needed to perform under pressure—on and off the course. Connect with him on Instagram. Watch him on YouTube. Purchase “Wicked Smart Golf” on Amazon. Subscribe to the Wicked Smart Golf Podcast.  Work with Michael. Play to Your Potential On (and Off) the Course Schedule a Mindset Coaching Discovery Call Subscribe to the More Pars than Bogeys Newsletter Download my “Play Your Best Round” free hypnosis audio recording. High-Performance Hypnotherapy and Mindset Coaching Paul Salter - known as The Golf Hypnotherapist - is a High-Performance Hypnotherapist and Mindset Coach who leverages hypnosis and powerful subconscious reprogramming techniques to help golfers of all ages and skill levels overcome the mental hazards of their minds so they can shoot lower scores and play to their potential. He has over 16 years of coaching experience working with high performers in various industries, helping them get unstuck, out of their own way, and unlock their full potential. Click here to learn more about how high-performance hypnotherapy and mindset coaching can help you get out of your own way and play to your potential on (and off) the course.  Instagram: @thegolfhypnotherapist  Twitter: @parsoverbogeys Key Takeaways: Mindset is how you think off the course. The mental game is how you execute on it. Self-talk, especially speaking in absolutes, directly shapes performance. Growth mindset starts with how you respond to others’ success—use it as fuel. Purpose and competition keep men emotionally engaged and focused. Mentally tough golfers have self-discipline, challenge themselves, and “just keep going.” Tournament golf requires planning, emotional regulation, and stimulus management. Stick to your routine. Under pressure, you fall to the level of your habits. The dark side—if understood—can be a powerful motivator. Complacency is the real enemy of progress. Key Quotes: If you're not training mindset daily, it won’t be there when you need it most. Self-talk isn't just words—it’s wiring your subconscious for what happens next. Tournament golf exposes the gaps between preparation and performance. You fall to the level of your habits, not rise to your expectations. I don't want to retire. I want to die with nothing in the tank. Discipline eventually becomes identity—and that's where the breakthroughs happen. Sometimes you need to create an enemy to bring out your best. Time Stamps: 00:00: Rebuilding Mindset After Loss 03:06: Understanding the Mental Game of Golf vs. Mindset 05:38: The Power of Self-Talk and Its Impact 08:50: Navigating Negative Influences in Golf 11:46: Embracing a Growth Mindset for Success 14:26: The Importance of Perseverance and Patience 17:27: Characteristics of Mentally Tough Individuals 20:18: The Role of Purpose in Motivation 24:58: The Purpose of Work and Life 26:05: Understanding Competitiveness 27:18: Defining Winning in Golf 28:14: Embracing the Dark Side 30:54: Using Enemies as Fuel 32:10: The Importance of Standing Out 33:13: Reflecting on Personal Growth 36:55: Common Misunderstandings in Tournament Golf 40:09: Staying Present in the Moment 41:26: Resources for Improvement

What do an NFL spitting incident and a sideline scuffle have to do with your scorecard?  Everything—because they expose how quickly a Destructive Mindset Program (DMP) can hijack your brain and your behavior.  In this solo episode of The Scratch Golfer’s Mindset, I break down the trigger → emotion → belief → behavior chain, discuss how it plays out on the course (and at work, and at home), and share how to dismantle these patterns so you stop self-sabotaging and finally play to your potential. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why triggers flip your brain “offline” and create tunnel vision The simple flowchart of every DMP: Trigger → Emotion → Belief → Behavior How anger, fear, or pressure quietly rewrite your self-talk mid-round Why “survive, not thrive” is your default—and how to reverse it Rapid reset tools (breathwork, presence, gratitude) you can use between shots The deeper identity-level work (mindset coaching + hypnosis) that rewires patterns Listen now if you’re done with two-steps-forward, three-steps-back rounds and ready to build beliefs and behaviors that hold under pressure. Get your pencils ready and start listening.  1-1 High-Performance Hypnotherapy and Mindset Coaching: If you’re serious about getting out of your own way and playing to your potential, click here to schedule a Mindset Coaching Discovery Call to learn how I can help you make playing to your potential a habit.  High-Performance Hypnosis Guided Audios: Ready to get a taste of hypnosis? Click here to choose from one of my unique hypnosis audios to help you accelerate improvement in a specific area of your game. Click here to read my Ultimate Guide to Golf Hypnosis. Purchase the Wicked Smart Practice Plan Formula: Click here to learn how to practice with intention and what to do to get the most out of your practice sessions to drop your scores - fast. Use the code “salter” at checkout to save 10%. Play to Your Potential On (and Off) the Course Schedule a Mindset Coaching Discovery Call Subscribe to the More Pars than Bogeys Newsletter Download my “Play Your Best Round” free hypnosis audio recording. High-Performance Hypnotherapy and Mindset Coaching Paul Salter - known as The Golf Hypnotherapist - is a High-Performance Hypnotherapist and Mindset Coach who leverages hypnosis and powerful subconscious reprogramming techniques to help golfers of all ages and skill levels overcome the mental hazards of their minds so they can shoot lower scores and play to their potential. He has over 16 years of coaching experience working with high performers in various industries, helping them get unstuck, out of their own way, and unlock their full potential. Click here to learn more about how high-performance hypnotherapy and mindset coaching can help you get out of your own way and play to your potential on (and off) the course.  Instagram: @thegolfhypnotherapist  Twitter: @parsoverbogeys Key Takeaways: It’s not “if,” it’s “when.” Triggers will happen—build a plan for them. DMPs are learned. You fall back to what kept you “safe” before, even if it costs you now. Tunnel vision = trouble. Big emotions narrow attention and drive rash decisions. Scorecard sabotage is identity-level. Close to a breakthrough? Fear of success often fires a DMP. Awareness beats willpower. Map your trigger → emotion → belief → behavior sequence in writing. Key Quotes: “When a trigger hits, an emotion hijacks the steering wheel of your decision-making.” “Every DMP follows the same chain: trigger, emotion, belief, behavior—fast and unconscious.” “Your brain is built to survive, not thrive; safety is familiar, not optimal.” “On the course, you don’t rise to your goals—you fall to your programs.” “Awareness without action is trivia; awareness with a plan is transformation.” “If you keep stopping what works right before the breakthrough, that’s a DMP, not a discipline problem.” “Success is a choice—once you retire the programs that keep choosing safety.” Time Stamps: 00:00: Introduction to Irrational Behavior 02:53: Understanding Destructive Mindset Programs 05:36: Triggers and Emotional Responses 08:18: The Role of Learned Behavior 11:18: Relating Mindset to Golf and Poker 14:13: The Impact of Pressure and Expectations 16:55: Dismantling Destructive Mindset Programs 19:41: The Importance of Coaching 22:34: Conclusion and Future Directions

What if the very “stay positive” mindset you’ve been praised for is actually keeping you stuck?  In this solo episode of The Scratch Golfer’s Mindset Podcast, I call out toxic positivity for what it is: emotional avoidance dressed up as optimism.  We dig into why the golf world has gone too soft, how repressing anger and discomfort quietly drains your energy and focus, and why elite performers train themselves to operate when conditions are far from perfect. You’ll learn how to replace false cheer with authentic optimism—the relentless belief in yourself to handle hard things—using a simple three-step framework: Acknowledge, Accept, Act. We’ll talk negativity bias, energy management, and why sitting with uncomfortable emotions turns them into teachers and fuel.  In this episode, you’ll learn: The difference between toxic positivity and authentic optimism Why “be happy all the time” backfires on the course and at work How negativity bias hardwires you to scan for threats—and what to do about it The Acknowledge → Accept → Act playbook to perform under pressure How to use anger and discomfort as focused fuel, not dead weight If you’re ready to stop plastering a smile over struggle and finally play (and live) to your potential, this one’s for you. Get your pencils ready and start listening.  1-1 High-Performance Hypnotherapy and Mindset Coaching: If you’re serious about getting out of your own way and playing to your potential, click here to schedule a Mindset Coaching Discovery Call to learn how I can help you make playing to your potential a habit.  High-Performance Hypnosis Guided Audios: Ready to get a taste of hypnosis? Click here to choose from one of my unique hypnosis audios to help you accelerate improvement in a specific area of your game. Click here to read my Ultimate Guide to Golf Hypnosis. Purchase the Wicked Smart Practice Plan Formula: Click here to learn how to practice with intention and what to do to get the most out of your practice sessions to drop your scores - fast. Use the code “salter” at checkout to save 10%. Play to Your Potential On (and Off) the Course Schedule a Mindset Coaching Discovery Call Subscribe to the More Pars than Bogeys Newsletter Download my “Play Your Best Round” free hypnosis audio recording. High-Performance Hypnotherapy and Mindset Coaching Paul Salter - known as The Golf Hypnotherapist - is a High-Performance Hypnotherapist and Mindset Coach who leverages hypnosis and powerful subconscious reprogramming techniques to help golfers of all ages and skill levels overcome the mental hazards of their minds so they can shoot lower scores and play to their potential. He has over 16 years of coaching experience working with high performers in various industries, helping them get unstuck, out of their own way, and unlock their full potential. Click here to learn more about how high-performance hypnotherapy and mindset coaching can help you get out of your own way and play to your potential on (and off) the course.  Instagram: @thegolfhypnotherapist  Twitter: @parsoverbogeys Key Takeaways: Toxic positivity = emotional avoidance. It looks noble but blocks growth, honesty, and results. Authentic optimism is belief + behavior. “This is hard—and I can handle it. Now act.” Acknowledge, Accept, Act is the reset loop that turns emotions into execution. Negativity bias is real. Your brain defaults to threat-scanning; train optimism, presence, and focus deliberately. Operate when it’s not perfect. Elite golfers perform amid discomfort, not after it disappears. Key Quotes: “At its core, toxic positivity is emotional avoidance disguised as optimism.” “Life isn’t sunshine and rainbows—and neither is golf. Train for the valleys, not just the peaks.” “Authentic optimism says: this hurts—and I can handle it. Then it moves.” “Emotion is energy. Repress it and it leaks; face it and it fuels.” “Write it down: Acknowledge. Accept. Act. That’s how you play to your potential.” Time Stamps: 00:00: Understanding Toxic Positivity 04:15: The Dangers of Emotional Avoidance 09:16: The Reality of Negative Emotions 13:44: Why We Engage in Toxic Positivity 17:34: The Cost of Seeking Approval 21:01: The Importance of Acknowledgment and Acceptance 24:51: Authentic Optimism as a Solution

#90: [Inside the Mind] Dr. Rick Sessinghaus: Resilience, Flow, Fear, and Harnessing the Dark Side In this powerful episode of The Scratch Golfer’s Mindset Podcast, I sit down with Dr. Rick Sessinghaus—longtime mental coach to Collin Morikawa and one of the leading experts in golf psychology and flow state training.  We explore the often-overlooked layers of resilience, how to avoid complacency after success, and the tools to shift from fear to flow under pressure. Rick shares actionable strategies, cutting-edge technology insights, and practical routines you can apply both on and off the course to perform your best when it matters most. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why resilience is just as important after success as it is after setbacks. The subtle difference between mental toughness and resilience—and why it matters. How to shift from a fear state to a flow state under pressure. The role of curiosity in replacing judgment and accelerating learning. How sensory triggers and breath work can prime you for peak performance. The measurable impact of technology on training focus and emotional regulation. Why outcome goals and process goals can—and should—work together. Get your pencils ready and start listening.  P.S. Curious to learn more about the results my clients are experiencing and what they say about working with me? Read more here. More About Rick Dr. Rick Sessinghaus is the Founder & CEO of Sessinghaus Performance Systems and Director of the FlowCode® Golf Academy. Holding a PhD in Applied Sports Psychology, Rick has been Collin Morikawa’s mindset coach since Collin was eight—and continues to guide the two‑time major champion’s mental game .  Working at top golf and corporate academies, Rick specializes in training flow states, resilience, and performance routines to help golfers and high performers thrive under pressure. Connect and work with Rick here.  Play to Your Potential On (and Off) the Course Schedule a Mindset Coaching Discovery Call Subscribe to the More Pars than Bogeys Newsletter Download my “Play Your Best Round” free hypnosis audio recording. High-Performance Hypnotherapy and Mindset Coaching Paul Salter - known as The Golf Hypnotherapist - is a High-Performance Hypnotherapist and Mindset Coach who leverages hypnosis and powerful subconscious reprogramming techniques to help golfers of all ages and skill levels overcome the mental hazards of their minds so they can shoot lower scores and play to their potential. He has over 16 years of coaching experience working with high performers in various industries, helping them get unstuck, out of their own way, and unlock their full potential. Click here to learn more about how high-performance hypnotherapy and mindset coaching can help you get out of your own way and play to your potential on (and off) the course.  Instagram: @thegolfhypnotherapist  Twitter: @parsoverbogeys Key Takeaways: Resilience is staying composed regardless of outcome—success can make you complacent, which requires just as much discipline to manage. Mental toughness is overrated. Emotional regulation, self-awareness, and curiosity are more sustainable mental skills. Flow happens when your perceived skill matches the challenge. Fear arises when you perceive the challenge as greater than your ability—even when it’s not. You can train flow state through breathwork, anchoring routines, and sensory cues like music, temperature, or feel. Reflection—done without judgment—is essential. Curiosity > criticism. Technology like FocusCalm and Mendi can now measure brainwave activity and train real-time focus. Cold plunges and challenges off the course build resilience you can bring onto the course. It’s okay to care about outcome—but learn to measure success through your process. You're good enough. That self-belief is the filter that colors every golf shot. Key Quotes: Resilience isn’t just about bouncing back—it’s about staying focused when things go well too. Curiosity over critical—that’s our mantra for post-shot routines. Flow follows focus. You must train your attention to stay present. You're already good enough. Most golfers don’t need more skill—they need more belief. Cold plunges aren’t about golf—but they teach you how to do hard things. That transfers. Don’t just do a routine because your coach told you to—make sure it gets you calm, confident, and committed. Time Stamps: 00:00: Understanding Resilience 02:58: The Importance of Goal Setting 05:59: Curiosity Over Judgment 07:09: Resilience vs. Mental Toughness 08:56: The Mental Game vs. Mindset 10:53: Interferences in Performance 11:52: Flow State vs. Fear State 20:46: Engaging the Senses for Flow 23:15: Embracing the Present Moment 24:41: Building Resiliency Through Challenges 26:51: The Power of Sensory Anchors 29:07: Integrating Technology in Mental Training 34:42: Balancing Process and Outcome 39:16: The Dark Side of Performance 41:26: Affirming Self-Belief

In this solo episode of The Scratch Golfer’s Mindset Podcast, I dive deep into the theme of “good enough” and how it quietly sabotages your golf game, your business, and your life.  While there are moments where good enough truly is enough, most of us fall into the trap of settling—choosing comfort over growth, validation over progress, and cruise control over chasing our true potential.  Through personal stories, practical examples, and lessons from both golf and life, I share how to break free from the “good enough” plateau and move toward being outstanding and even elite. In this podcast, you’ll learn: Why settling for “good enough” creates hidden frustration and incongruency How to recognize when you’re coasting and mistaking a plateau for a peak The critical difference between being outstanding and staying outstanding Why fear of success, imposter syndrome, and perfectionism are tied to “good enough” How to strategically choose where to accept “good enough” and where to go all in If you’re tired of settling, ready to raise your standards, and committed to stepping into the version of yourself you know you’re capable of becoming—on the course and in life—then this is the episode you need to hear. Get your pencils ready and start listening.  1-1 High-Performance Hypnotherapy and Mindset Coaching: If you’re serious about getting out of your own way and playing to your potential, click here to schedule a Mindset Coaching Discovery Call to learn how I can help you make playing to your potential a habit.  High-Performance Hypnosis Guided Audios: Ready to get a taste of hypnosis? Click here to choose from one of my unique hypnosis audios to help you accelerate improvement in a specific area of your game. Click here to read my Ultimate Guide to Golf Hypnosis. Purchase the Wicked Smart Practice Plan Formula: Click here to learn how to practice with intention and what to do to get the most out of your practice sessions to drop your scores - fast. Use the code “salter” at checkout to save 10%. Play to Your Potential On (and Off) the Course Schedule a Mindset Coaching Discovery Call Subscribe to the More Pars than Bogeys Newsletter Download my “Play Your Best Round” free hypnosis audio recording. High-Performance Hypnotherapy and Mindset Coaching Paul Salter - known as The Golf Hypnotherapist - is a High-Performance Hypnotherapist and Mindset Coach who leverages hypnosis and powerful subconscious reprogramming techniques to help golfers of all ages and skill levels overcome the mental hazards of their minds so they can shoot lower scores and play to their potential. He has over 16 years of coaching experience working with high performers in various industries, helping them get unstuck, out of their own way, and unlock their full potential. Click here to learn more about how high-performance hypnotherapy and mindset coaching can help you get out of your own way and play to your potential on (and off) the course.  Instagram: @thegolfhypnotherapist  Twitter: @parsoverbogeys Key Takeaways: Good enough is comfortable—but comfort kills growth. Settling in golf, work, or relationships keeps you stuck in mediocrity. Raising your standards is the only way forward. What once worked won’t take you to the next level. Outstanding requires imbalance. You can’t be elite in every area—decide what matters most and accept good enough elsewhere. Fear of success fuels settling. Many golfers and professionals subconsciously hold back to avoid standing out, judgment, or failure. Honesty creates congruency. Be brutally honest with yourself and with others about where you want to be outstanding and where good enough is truly enough. Key Quotes: “Good enough is comfortable, but it’s also where dreams go to die.” “If you want what the 5% have, you must be willing to do what the 95% are not.” “Outstanding requires imbalance—you can’t be elite in everything, and that’s okay.” “Scared is normal. Stuck is optional. Action is the antidote.” “You can’t talk the talk of outstanding while walking the walk of average.” Time Stamps: 00:00: Introduction to the Scratch Golfer's Mindset 01:41: The Concept of 'Good Enough' in Golf and Life 09:36: Raising Standards for Success 14:00: The Comfort of Good Enough vs. Potential 20:13: Honesty and Incongruency in Personal Growth 25:58: The Balance of Being Outstanding vs. Good Enough 34:15: Conclusion and Call to Action

#88: [Inside the Mind] Scott Fawcett: The Mental Game Blueprint for Q School Success In this episode of The Scratch Golfer’s Mindset Podcast, DECADE creator Scott Fawcett pulls back the curtain on the mental, emotional, and strategic demands of Q-School.  He shares what it really takes to perform when your season—and possibly your career—hangs in the balance, from avoiding over-grinding in the weeks before to keeping composure on the final hole.  Scott draws on decades of playing, caddying, and coaching experience to reveal the routines, mindset shifts, and course management tactics that separate those who earn their status from those who fall short. In this episode, you’ll learn… Why over-preparing before Q-School can drain your best performance How to maintain discipline and stick to your strategy under intense pressure Simple course management rules that keep big numbers off your card How to handle the financial and emotional pressures of chasing your card The role meditation and mental training play in sustaining focus over multiple rounds Why caddying can sharpen your decision-making and mental game How to replicate your best habits from great rounds when it matters most Get your pencils ready and start listening.  P.S. Curious to learn more about the results my clients are experiencing and what they say about working with me? Read more here. More About Scott Scott Fawcett created the revolutionary DECADE Golf System, a data-driven course management strategy that has transformed how golfers at all levels approach the game.  With three degrees in mathematics, a background in professional golf, and a passion for poker, Scott has combined statistical analysis with real-world performance insights to help players make smarter decisions and lower their scores.  His DECADE system has been used by top PGA Tour pros, including Bryson DeChambeau and Will Zalatoris, as well as collegiate and amateur golfers seeking a strategic edge. Scott’s journey includes playing collegiate golf at Texas A&M, competing professionally on mini-tours, and applying his deep understanding of analytics to optimize shot selection and on-course strategy.  Learn more about Scott and Decade Golf here. Connect with Scott on Instagram here. Play to Your Potential On (and Off) the Course Schedule a Mindset Coaching Discovery Call Subscribe to the More Pars than Bogeys Newsletter Download my “Play Your Best Round” free hypnosis audio recording. High-Performance Hypnotherapy and Mindset Coaching Paul Salter - known as The Golf Hypnotherapist - is a High-Performance Hypnotherapist and Mindset Coach who leverages hypnosis and powerful subconscious reprogramming techniques to help golfers of all ages and skill levels overcome the mental hazards of their minds so they can shoot lower scores and play to their potential. He has over 16 years of coaching experience working with high performers in various industries, helping them get unstuck, out of their own way, and unlock their full potential. Click here to learn more about how high-performance hypnotherapy and mindset coaching can help you get out of your own way and play to your potential on (and off) the course.  Instagram: @thegolfhypnotherapist  Twitter: @parsoverbogeys Key Takeaways: Meditation isn’t about no thoughts—it’s about catching thought loops before they spiral. Mindset training is learning why you don’t do what you know you should; mental game is learning what and how to think. Grinding before a tournament depletes your mental energy—less is more leading up to Q School. Tiger’s real edge wasn’t just skill—it was discipline, presence, and treating every shot the same. Routine > Novelty: Eat the same lunch, wear the same shirt—save mental energy for where it matters. Every shot must be attacked like your target is the flag—own your discipline and trust the process. Teaching or caddying for others sharpens your own mindset and awareness faster than anything else. Winning isn’t about score—it’s about growing through process and discipline. Key Quotes: I thought meditation was about having no thoughts—turns out it’s about recognizing your thoughts before they own you. If you abandon your strategy because of your score… you’ve quit. You didn’t walk off the course, but you quit. Your work should be done before you get to Q School. If you’re not playing great, get your mental energy right. Meditation is like losing 100 pounds without seeing progress for a year—pointless until it suddenly clicks. The best thing I ever did for my game was caddy for Will Zalatoris You don’t need more talent. You need more patience, more trust, and more discipline. No NEW-trition on game day. Don’t change a damn thing when it’s time to perform. Time Stamps: 00:00: Mindset and Meditation: The Journey Begins 02:53: The Power of Thought Patterns 05:43: Meditation in Golf: A Personal Experience 08:39: The Role of Music and Rhythm in Performance 11:40: Mindset vs. Mental Game: Understanding the Difference 14:21: Q School: The Make or Break Experience 17:29: Emotional Dynamics of Competing 20:10: Mental Preparation for Q School 23:05: The Importance of Balance and Rest 26:01: Slowing Down: The Key to Success 28:42: Practice with Purpose: Quality Over Quantity 34:49: The Importance of Pre-Shot Routines 37:18: Navigating Pressure in Golf 40:27: The Role of Money in Golf Careers 45:52: Defining Winning and Success 51:32: Key Advice for Q School Preparation

If you're the golfer who groans at the thought of stretching or scoffs at the word "yoga," this episode is especially for you. Joining me today is Lauren McMillin—founder of YoGolf Performance and a certified yoga instructor who specializes in helping golfers move better, feel better, and, yes, play better. In this episode, Lauren dismantles the common excuses and outdated beliefs that have kept so many of us (especially men) from incorporating yoga into our golf performance routines. We explore how yoga goes far beyond flexibility. You'll learn how it improves spinal rotation (hello, more shoulder turn and distance), strengthens your connection to the ground (read: more power and balance), and trains your nervous system to respond rather than react—all of which translate directly to better performance on the course and faster recovery off of it. In today’s episode, you’ll learn: Why most golfers resist yoga—and why that’s costing you distance, consistency, and recovery The most common myths and misconceptions about yoga (spoiler: you don’t need to be flexible!) How yoga improves your swing, focus, and mental resilience What “movement modality” really means—and why yoga is the ultimate one for golf Simple, golf-specific breathing and movement techniques you can start using today How barefoot balance work can actually help you hit longer, straighter shots A quick pre- and post-round routine to boost performance and prevent injury The surprising sleep benefits of yoga—and how they help your game How to build a consistent yoga routine without a studio or 60-minute commitment Get your pencils ready and start listening.  P.S. Curious to learn more about the results my clients are experiencing and what they say about working with me? Read more here. More About Lauren Lauren McMillin, yoga and movement specialist, is the founder of YoGolf Performance, golf’s online yoga studio. For nearly a decade, she has worked with yoga practitioners and golfers of all levels, using yoga, Pilates, and functional movement to help them move and feel their best.  In addition to being featured in Golf Digest and PGA.com, Lauren has been a speaker at the PGA Show, and is co-author of The Ultimate Golf Fitness Program. Learn more about and connect with Lauren here.  Play to Your Potential On (and Off) the Course Schedule a Mindset Coaching Discovery Call Subscribe to the More Pars than Bogeys Newsletter Download my “Play Your Best Round” free hypnosis audio recording. High-Performance Hypnotherapy and Mindset Coaching Paul Salter - known as The Golf Hypnotherapist - is a High-Performance Hypnotherapist and Mindset Coach who leverages hypnosis and powerful subconscious reprogramming techniques to help golfers of all ages and skill levels overcome the mental hazards of their minds so they can shoot lower scores and play to their potential. He has over 16 years of coaching experience working with high performers in various industries, helping them get unstuck, out of their own way, and unlock their full potential. Click here to learn more about how high-performance hypnotherapy and mindset coaching can help you get out of your own way and play to your potential on (and off) the course.  Instagram: @thegolfhypnotherapist  Twitter: @parsoverbogeys Key Takeaways: Yoga is not about flexibility—it's about functional movement, mobility, and breath awareness Connecting breath and movement helps calm nerves, improve swing tempo, and manage on-course stress Small, consistent doses of yoga (even 5 minutes) can transform how your body performs Your feet are a key part of your swing—train them! Post-round yoga can significantly improve recovery and sleep quality Yoga prepares your body and mind to play to your potential Key Quotes: I'm just trying to help you move better and feel better. For golfers, that means playing better. Golf is a mental sport, yet so few of our training routines address the mental side. Drop the excuses. I've heard them all—and I don't care. You don’t always have access to your coach mid-round, but you always have your breath. Time Stamps: 00:00: Introduction to Yoga for Golfers 03:05: Overcoming Misconceptions About Yoga 06:07: The Benefits of Yoga for Golf Performance 08:59: Connecting Breath and Movement in Yoga 11:52: Starting Your Yoga Journey 14:52: Yoga's Role in Injury Prevention and Recovery 18:10: Enhancing Sleep Quality Through Yoga 20:48: Pre-Round Yoga Warm-Up for Golfers 30:01: Post-Round Recovery with Yoga 33:01: The Importance of Intentionality in Yoga Practice 35:55: Final Thoughts and Resources for Golfers

In this powerhouse episode of The Scratch Golfer’s Mindset Podcast, I’m joined by LPGA professional and mindset expert Debbie O’Connell to dive deep into what mindset really means—and how it differs from the mental game of golf. If you’ve ever felt stuck, frustrated, or like you’re bringing emotional baggage from life onto the course, this episode will feel like it was made for you. Debbie and I discuss how your subconscious beliefs, emotions, and early life programming shape your identity as a golfer—and how shifting these beliefs can spark massive breakthroughs both on and off the course. From self-sabotage to self-worth, from fear to flow state, we cover it all. In today’s episode, you’ll learn: The key difference between mental game strategies and true mindset training Why emotional reactions on the course are often rooted in childhood patterns How to unearth and release limiting beliefs that create performance plateaus What it really takes to break through your “internal thermostat” and shoot lower scores How your identity shapes your results—and how to rewrite it The role of flow state, presence, and emotional regulation in consistent performance How golf is a mirror of your life—and how growth in one reflects in the other Get your pencils ready and start listening.  P.S. Curious to learn more about the results my clients are experiencing and what they say about working with me? Read more here. More About Debbie Want to attend Debbie’s three-day live event next month? Text “YES” to 727-339-0106  Then, text “FLOW” for her free flow state eBook.  Debbie is a seasoned media professional, successful entrepreneur and accomplished business leader. She is the host of Audible’s 10-lesson series “Game Time Golf Positive.” She has also had multiple appearances on the Golf Channel, and has hosted numerous golf-oriented radio shows as well as the television show “Par Fore the Course.” Debbie is the author of the bestselling book, “Golf Positive! Live Positive!” which offers insight and practical solutions to help one achieve their goals both on and off the golf course. As an advocate for teenage development and self-esteem, Debbie speaks in several local schools teaching skills to improve self-confidence and personal empowerment. Her positive energy and enthusiasm made her an easy choice to be the lead LPGA Professional for the LPGA Leadership Academy, whose mission is to teach teenage girls leadership skills and strategies through the game of golf. Debbie also co-hosted Instructional Golf Days in association with Anthony Robbins “Unleash the Power Within” programs. Debbie holds certifications in John Maxwell Speaking, Training, Coaching; Strategic Intervention; DISC Training; and a Bachelor’s of Science in Psychology with minors in broadcasting and business from Western Kentucky University. Connect with Debbie on her website. Play to Your Potential On (and Off) the Course Schedule a Mindset Coaching Discovery Call Subscribe to the More Pars than Bogeys Newsletter Download my “Play Your Best Round” free hypnosis audio recording. High-Performance Hypnotherapy and Mindset Coaching Paul Salter - known as The Golf Hypnotherapist - is a High-Performance Hypnotherapist and Mindset Coach who leverages hypnosis and powerful subconscious reprogramming techniques to help golfers of all ages and skill levels overcome the mental hazards of their minds so they can shoot lower scores and play to their potential. He has over 16 years of coaching experience working with high performers in various industries, helping them get unstuck, out of their own way, and unlock their full potential. Click here to learn more about how high-performance hypnotherapy and mindset coaching can help you get out of your own way and play to your potential on (and off) the course.  Instagram: @thegolfhypnotherapist  Twitter: @parsoverbogeys Key Takeaways: Mindset goes beyond routines. It's not just about pre-shot breathing or staying positive—it's about rewiring how you think, feel, and respond under pressure. You bring your whole self to the course. Your fears, beliefs, and emotional patterns show up in your swing, decision-making, and reactions. Fear drives self-sabotage. Fear of success, fear of failure, and fear of judgment all contribute to rushing, over-trying, and tightening up. Flow state is possible—and trainable. You can learn to access deeper focus and bypass conscious interference, creating effortless, confident swings. The subconscious is irrational. It’s like a five-year-old running the show—until you learn to reprogram it. Reactions are patterns. Responses are power. You can train yourself to respond with calm, clarity, and curiosity—even after OB or three-putts. Change your identity, change your score. If you don’t believe you’re someone who can shoot in the 60s, your subconscious will keep the score higher. Key Quotes: “We bring our whole selves to the game of golf.” “The mental game is a checklist. Mindset is who you become.” “Your subconscious doesn’t care if it makes sense. It just wants to protect you.” “The conscious mind is the goal-setter. The subconscious is the goal-getter.” “Golf is just a mirror of your personal development journey.” “You’re either in the driver’s seat of your life—or blaming someone else from the passenger side.” Time Stamps: 00:00: Introduction and Energy Exchange 01:09: Understanding the Mental Game of Golf 03:10: The Depth of Mindset in Golf 04:55: Exploring Emotional Connections in Golf 08:18: The Impact of Mindset on Performance 10:28: Overcoming Fear and Embracing Change 10:56: The Role of Fear in Personal Growth 14:02: The Importance of Identity in Performance 21:57: Building Mental Toughness 31:53: The Power of Positivity 42:25: Taking Ownership of Your Story

In this solo episode, I break down a common but costly mistake most golfers make: confusing mental game strategies with mindset training.  Though both live between your ears, they are wildly different—and both are required to break through the frustration plateau and play to your full potential. I’ll discuss how mental game strategies—like breath work, visualization, and pre-shot routines—are powerful, but only surface-level tools. If your identity is riddled with self-doubt, fear of judgment, or an “I’m not good enough” belief system, no amount of deep breathing can save your scorecard. This episode is packed with real talk, powerful analogies (like club vs. swing and the shattered mindset vase), and a surprising case for the one habit that will skyrocket your mindset faster than anything else: fitness. In this podcast, you’ll learn: The key difference between the golf mental game and mindset training Why mental game tactics are necessary but not sufficient How identity-level beliefs sabotage your performance The real reason you skip steps you know you need to take Why knowledge alone isn’t power—only action is How exercise is the ultimate mindset training tool Why lasting change requires going beneath the surface Whether you’re stuck in a cycle of two steps forward, three steps back—or ready to go beyond surface fixes—this episode will show you exactly what’s been missing from your training and how to reclaim control of your results. Get your pencils ready and start listening.  1-1 High-Performance Hypnotherapy and Mindset Coaching: If you’re serious about getting out of your own way and playing to your potential, click here to schedule a Mindset Coaching Discovery Call to learn how I can help you make playing to your potential a habit.  High-Performance Hypnosis Guided Audios: Ready to get a taste of hypnosis? Click here to choose from one of my unique hypnosis audios to help you accelerate improvement in a specific area of your game. Click here to read my Ultimate Guide to Golf Hypnosis. Purchase the Wicked Smart Practice Plan Formula: Click here to learn how to practice with intention and what to do to get the most out of your practice sessions to drop your scores - fast. Use the code “salter” at checkout to save 10%. Play to Your Potential On (and Off) the Course Schedule a Mindset Coaching Discovery Call Subscribe to the More Pars than Bogeys Newsletter Download my “Play Your Best Round” free hypnosis audio recording. High-Performance Hypnotherapy and Mindset Coaching Paul Salter - known as The Golf Hypnotherapist - is a High-Performance Hypnotherapist and Mindset Coach who leverages hypnosis and powerful subconscious reprogramming techniques to help golfers of all ages and skill levels overcome the mental hazards of their minds so they can shoot lower scores and play to their potential. He has over 16 years of coaching experience working with high performers in various industries, helping them get unstuck, out of their own way, and unlock their full potential. Click here to learn more about how high-performance hypnotherapy and mindset coaching can help you get out of your own way and play to your potential on (and off) the course.  Instagram: @thegolfhypnotherapist  Twitter: @parsoverbogeys Key Takeaways: Mental game strategies are like clubs—you need the right one for each shot. Mindset training is your swing foundation—if that’s broken, no club can help. You can’t breathe your way out of a belief that you’re not good enough. Dopamine-chasing golf hacks feel productive but keep you stuck. Your subconscious deploys sabotage when success feels unsafe. Lasting change requires addressing the root, not the symptoms. Fitness is the fastest, most effective way to train your mindset daily. Key Quotes: “You can’t breathe your way out of a belief system that’s been running your life.” “The best pre-shot routine in the world won’t fix a fractured identity.” “Mindset training answers the question: Why don’t I do what I know I need to do?” “Mental game training is like club selection. Mindset is your swing.” “Reading feels productive—but without action, it’s just dopamine.” “Fitness is intentional discomfort—it’s the gym where mental toughness is built.” “If you want to expand, you have to expand—starting with how much discomfort you can handle.” Time Stamps: 00:00: Why “Mindset” Matters More Than “Mental Game” 02:25: The Hidden Mistake Keeping You Stuck 04:52: What the Mental Game Really Is 07:09: Mental Game Tactics: Helpful but Limited 09:17: What Mindset Training Actually Targets 10:44: Why You Don’t Do What You Know You Should 13:08: Club vs. Swing: A Game-Changing Analogy 15:12: Mind Over Feelings in Life and Golf 18:01: The Dopamine Trap of Mental Game Tips 20:32: Why Affirmations Alone Won’t Save You 22:20: How Fear Sabotages You from the Inside 24:18: Using Hypnosis to Rewire Beliefs 26:25: The Vase Analogy: Rebuilding Your Identity 28:36: The #1 Way to Train Your Mindset 29:49: Discomfort Is the Gateway to Growth 32:01: Fit Body, Strong Mind: Why It Matters 34:13: Final Thoughts + Your Next Action Step

In this episode of The Scratch Golfer’s Mindset Podcast, I’m joined by elite swing coach Joe Park to demystify the path to a consistent, efficient, and powerful golf swing. Joe shares lessons from his decades of coaching—from helping high handicappers break 90 to training his sons as they pursue the PGA Tour. You’ll hear how small changes to grip, tempo, and practice structure can completely transform your swing—and why you must practice to forget. Joe breaks down his five golf swing fundamentals, explains why most golfers fail by chasing complexity, and outlines how to design and forge a swing that holds up under pressure. This episode blends mechanics, mindset, and the subtle art of self-coaching in a way that will resonate with golfers of all levels. In today’s episode, you’ll learn: The five core fundamentals Joe Park teaches to build a repeatable, powerful swing. Why grip is the most overlooked yet essential element in fixing slices and shaping shots. How to practice with intention by exaggerating drills to create long-lasting improvements. The key differences between single-digit handicaps and scratch players — and how to bridge the gap. Why “swing faster” might be the most underrated advice for gaining distance. How to balance mechanics and mindset for lasting results on the course. What most golfers get wrong on the range — and how to finally take your “range game” to the course. Get your pencils ready and start listening.  P.S. Curious to learn more about the results my clients are experiencing and what they say about working with me? Read more here. More About Joe Joe is a Master Teaching Pro with over 30 years of experience helping golfers better understand their golf swing through science, physics, and better thinking. Located in Scottsdale Arizona, Joe moved w/ his family from Minnesota so that their two sons Bobby and Joey Park could play and practice in warmer weather. They turned pro here at just 15 and 17 years old at the..WASTE MANAGEMENT PHOENIX OPEN PRE QUALIFIER and eight years later are still chasing the dream of the PGA Tour and heading to Qschool this year.  Learn more about Joe and get his newly released eBook, “Five Fundamentals: How To Make A Golf Swing” here.  Play to Your Potential On (and Off) the Course Schedule a Mindset Coaching Discovery Call Subscribe to the More Pars than Bogeys Newsletter Download my “Play Your Best Round” free hypnosis audio recording. High-Performance Hypnotherapy and Mindset Coaching Paul Salter - known as The Golf Hypnotherapist - is a High-Performance Hypnotherapist and Mindset Coach who leverages hypnosis and powerful subconscious reprogramming techniques to help golfers of all ages and skill levels overcome the mental hazards of their minds so they can shoot lower scores and play to their potential. He has over 16 years of coaching experience working with high performers in various industries, helping them get unstuck, out of their own way, and unlock their full potential. Click here to learn more about how high-performance hypnotherapy and mindset coaching can help you get out of your own way and play to your potential on (and off) the course.  Instagram: @thegolfhypnotherapist  Twitter: @parsoverbogeys Key Takeaways: A good grip isn’t natural — it’s learned. Get it right, and you instantly solve 80% of your ball flight issues. Joe’s “Five Fundamentals” begin with grip and move through takeaway, transition, impact, and follow-through. Most golfers swing too slowly in the backswing, leading to rushed transitions and reduced power. You can’t practice mechanics and performance under pressure at the same time. Structure practice around exaggeration then application. Self-awareness and honest feedback are non-negotiable if you want to improve. Distance is simple: swing faster — and give yourself permission to do so. Golfers must learn to be less risky on the course. Play smart. Avoid blow-up holes. Key Quotes: “Fundamentals never go out of style.” “We practice to forget.” “Intentional exaggeration is what changes your baseline.” “A slinky doesn’t snap unless it’s been stretched.” “You don’t need more shots — you need fewer mistakes.” Time Stamps: 00:00: Introduction to Joe Park's Golf Journey 03:10: The Five Fundamentals of Golf 06:04: Understanding the Golf Swing Mechanics 08:58: The Importance of Mental Game in Golf 11:59: Transitioning from Amateur to Professional 15:10: Mastering the Short Game 18:02: The Path to Becoming a Scratch Golfer 21:01: Developing a Pre-Shot Routine 24:00: Drills and Practice Techniques 26:57: Final Thoughts on Golf Mastery 31:00: The Art of Intentional Practice 34:08: Embracing Discomfort for Growth 36:53: Balancing Mechanics and Mindset 41:04: The Importance of a Structured Approach 44:59: Finding the Right Coach 50:00: Risk Management in Golf and Life

In today’s episode, I get raw and unfiltered about the last 90 days of my mission to lower my handicap to a 5.0.  I’ll share the mindset evolutions, swing changes, and deliberate practice that have fueled my progress—and the mental battles that nearly derailed it. I’ll open up about embracing the darker side of performance, using frustration and anger as fuel, and challenging the stories we tell ourselves about who we are as golfers. Plus, you’ll hear about exciting upcoming guests and why true transformation requires killing off the old version of yourself. In this podcast, you’ll learn: How to use deliberate practice to create breakthrough improvements Why confronting the dark side of your mindset can unlock new performance levels The role of identity shifts in sustaining progress How fitness and exercise build mental resilience Strategies to stay present when you start a round hot Why “creating fuel from nothing” can give you a competitive edge The importance of embracing discomfort to accelerate your growth If you’re tired of surface-level pep talks and ready to confront what’s really holding you back, this episode will challenge you to dig deeper, play bolder, and evolve faster. Get your pencils ready and start listening.  1-1 High-Performance Hypnotherapy and Mindset Coaching: If you’re serious about getting out of your own way and playing to your potential, click here to schedule a Mindset Coaching Discovery Call to learn how I can help you make playing to your potential a habit.  High-Performance Hypnosis Guided Audios: Ready to get a taste of hypnosis? Click here to choose from one of my unique hypnosis audios to help you accelerate improvement in a specific area of your game. Click here to read my Ultimate Guide to Golf Hypnosis. Purchase the Wicked Smart Practice Plan Formula: Click here to learn how to practice with intention and what to do to get the most out of your practice sessions to drop your scores - fast. Use the code “salter” at checkout to save 10%. Play to Your Potential On (and Off) the Course Schedule a Mindset Coaching Discovery Call Subscribe to the More Pars than Bogeys Newsletter Download my “Play Your Best Round” free hypnosis audio recording. High-Performance Hypnotherapy and Mindset Coaching Paul Salter - known as The Golf Hypnotherapist - is a High-Performance Hypnotherapist and Mindset Coach who leverages hypnosis and powerful subconscious reprogramming techniques to help golfers of all ages and skill levels overcome the mental hazards of their minds so they can shoot lower scores and play to their potential. He has over 16 years of coaching experience working with high performers in various industries, helping them get unstuck, out of their own way, and unlock their full potential. Click here to learn more about how high-performance hypnotherapy and mindset coaching can help you get out of your own way and play to your potential on (and off) the course.  Instagram: @thegolfhypnotherapist  Twitter: @parsoverbogeys Key Takeaways: The stories you tell yourself about why you play—fun, camaraderie, no expectations—can become convenient excuses that hold you back from real growth. Reconnecting with your competitive fire and embracing your “dark side” can be the catalyst to break through plateaus and fuel consistent focus. Identity transformation isn’t optional; you must let go of old patterns and self-perceptions to unlock the next level of performance. Structured, deliberate practice—short game reps, pre-shot routine work, and focused time under tension—creates the foundation for sustainable improvement. Overconfidence and mental time travel after early success in a round often lead to mistakes; learning to stay present shot by shot is crucial. Your fitness routine is a training ground for mental resilience—building the discipline to confront discomfort in the gym directly translates to composure on the course. Creating internal narratives, rivalries, and micro-competitions can sharpen your edge and help you maintain a higher level of intensity and accountability. Key Quotes: “You can’t change unless you change.” “To achieve the light, you have to be able to handle the darkness.” “Winning is so addictive—and I’m finally giving myself permission to crave it again.” “Reps on reps on reps. That’s how you rewire your identity.” “Fitness is the gateway to mental toughness. You can’t build grit without confronting discomfort.” “I had to kill the Q1 version of me to evolve into the Q2 version—and I’ll do it again.” “What you’re doing now isn’t working. If you want to change, you need to change.” Time Stamps: 00:00: Introduction and Updates 02:49: Reflections on Personal Growth and Mindset 05:40: The Journey of Q2: Performance and Challenges 08:45: Mindset Evolution and Competitive Spirit 11:24: Technical Adjustments and Coaching Changes 14:24: Equipment Upgrades and Fitness Regimen 17:08: Looking Ahead: Goals for Q3

In this episode of The Scratch Golfer’s Mindset Podcast, I’m joined once again by mental game coach and friend, Josh Nichols, for a deep and powerful conversation on the emotional and mental toll competitive golf can take—and how to overcome it. Josh opens up about the burnout he experienced during the peak of his competitive career, the pivotal mindset shift that helped him release control, and why the addition of one important relationship completely changed how he viewed golf—and life.  We explore the roots of golf burnout, the dangers of mismanaged expectations, and how learning to “see things as they are” is the gateway to emotional resiliency and freedom on the course. In today’s episode, you’ll learn: What golf burnout really looks and feels like—and how to spot the signs early Why “letting go” is one of the most powerful performance enhancers The true meaning of mental toughness (and what it’s not) How focusing on the wrong metrics keeps you stuck and frustrated The role of coaching in creating clarity, saving energy, and accelerating growth How to build mindfulness into your day without a 60-minute ritual The danger of letting one hole define your entire round If you’ve been pushing, forcing, and death-gripping your game into submission with little to show for it, this conversation is for you. Get your pencils ready and start listening.  P.S. Curious to learn more about the results my clients are experiencing and what they say about working with me? Read more here. More About Josh Nichols Josh Nichols is a Golf Psychology Coach, and has been playing competitive amateur golfer for over 20 years. Josh run’s his own business, Foundations Mental Performance, where he works with individuals all over the world on their golf psychology as a way to help them play better golf and get more enjoyment out of the game. Host of The Mental Golf Show Author of The Mental Regrip Newsletter Twitter/X: @joshlukenichols Instagram: joshlukenichols Play to Your Potential On (and Off) the Course Schedule a Mindset Coaching Discovery Call Subscribe to the More Pars than Bogeys Newsletter Download my “Play Your Best Round” free hypnosis audio recording. High-Performance Hypnotherapy and Mindset Coaching Paul Salter - known as The Golf Hypnotherapist - is a High-Performance Hypnotherapist and Mindset Coach who leverages hypnosis and powerful subconscious reprogramming techniques to help golfers of all ages and skill levels overcome the mental hazards of their minds so they can shoot lower scores and play to their potential. He has over 16 years of coaching experience working with high performers in various industries, helping them get unstuck, out of their own way, and unlock their full potential. Click here to learn more about how high-performance hypnotherapy and mindset coaching can help you get out of your own way and play to your potential on (and off) the course.  Instagram: @thegolfhypnotherapist  Twitter: @parsoverbogeys Key Takeaways: Golf burnout stems from repeatedly falling short of unrealistic expectations. Adding meaningful relationships can bring balance and unexpectedly improve your game. Letting go of control frees up the energy and mindset needed to perform at your best. Most golfers wait too long to hire a coach—and pay for it in time, energy, and results. True mental toughness means staying neutral and grounded when chaos arises. The need to start strong often leads to unnecessary pressure and energy drain. Mindfulness doesn’t require an hour—just five intentional minutes and presence throughout your day. Key Quotes: “As you let go, you’re more okay to let the game go—while you’re playing better.” “Burnout is not meeting your expectations over and over again.” “You're not working on golf psychology—you're working on yourself.” “Blind optimism is not toughness. Acceptance of reality is.” “Hiring a coach frees you up to do your best work—and shortens your timeline to success.” “The word ‘need’ always hides fear behind it.” “See things as they are—that’s the mindset that grounds everything.” Time Stamps: 00:00: Introduction and Background 03:12: The Psychology of Golf and Coaching Philosophy 06:10: The Importance of Balance in Life and Golf 08:52: Understanding Golf Burnout 11:57: The Role of Coaching in Overcoming Challenges 15:00: The Impact of Relationships on Performance 18:07: Proactive vs. Reactive Coaching Decisions 24:06: The Value of Expert Guidance 27:02: Understanding Mental Toughness 30:35: The Importance of Focus 32:57: Mindfulness Practices for Golfers 38:18: Common Mental Mistakes in Golf 44:18: Seeing Things as They Are

Fear is the most common force keeping golfers—and people—stuck.  But here's the truth: you're not actually afraid of missing the putt, chunking the chip, or topping your drive.  You're afraid of what it means about you.  Of being judged.  Rejected.  No longer welcome.  In this solo episode, I break down the hidden cost of living in fear and the subtle yet life-changing difference between feeling scared and being fearful. I also discuss timeless wisdom from the Stoics, actionable tools to diffuse fear, and a powerful exercise to help you move forward, on and off the course. In this episode, you’ll learn… Why “fear” is a survival state—and why it’s keeping you stuck The difference between being scared and being afraid The 3 primal fears that still drive modern-day self-sabotage How fear hijacks your imagination and narrows your focus Why standing out—even in a Saturday foursome—can trigger intense fear How to use action as a tool to break free from fear’s grip What Tim Ferriss’ “Fear-Setting” exercise can teach you about worst-case scenarios Get your pencils ready and start listening.  Resources Mentioned: Dissecting Fear: Understanding the Invisible Force That Shapes Your Game Nerves or Readiness? How to Reframe Your Body’s Physical Reaction on (and off) the Golf Course 1-1 High-Performance Hypnotherapy and Mindset Coaching: If you’re serious about getting out of your own way and playing to your potential, click here to schedule a Mindset Coaching Discovery Call to learn how I can help you make playing to your potential a habit.  High-Performance Hypnosis Guided Audios: Ready to get a taste of hypnosis? Click here to choose from one of my unique hypnosis audios to help you accelerate improvement in a specific area of your game. Click here to read my Ultimate Guide to Golf Hypnosis. Purchase the Wicked Smart Practice Plan Formula: Click here to learn how to practice with intention and what to do to get the most out of your practice sessions to drop your scores - fast. Use the code “salter” at checkout to save 10%. Play to Your Potential On (and Off) the Course Schedule a Mindset Coaching Discovery Call Subscribe to the More Pars than Bogeys Newsletter Download my “Play Your Best Round” free hypnosis audio recording. High-Performance Hypnotherapy and Mindset Coaching Paul Salter - known as The Golf Hypnotherapist - is a High-Performance Hypnotherapist and Mindset Coach who leverages hypnosis and powerful subconscious reprogramming techniques to help golfers of all ages and skill levels overcome the mental hazards of their minds so they can shoot lower scores and play to their potential. He has over 16 years of coaching experience working with high performers in various industries, helping them get unstuck, out of their own way, and unlock their full potential. Click here to learn more about how high-performance hypnotherapy and mindset coaching can help you get out of your own way and play to your potential on (and off) the course.  Instagram: @thegolfhypnotherapist  Twitter: @parsoverbogeys Key Takeaways: Fear is a state of being; scared is a temporary emotion. Understanding this distinction can unlock courageous action. All fear traces back to three primal drivers: judgment, abandonment, and rejection. Fear hijacks your nervous system and narrows your focus to the worst-case scenario. You don’t fear the shot—you fear what it might mean about your worth or belonging. Action is the antidote to fear—it interrupts paralysis and builds self-trust. Avoiding fear feels safe, but it keeps you stuck and drains your energy. Hypnotherapy can help uncover and release the root causes of irrational fear. Key Quotes: “Be scared. You can’t help that. But don’t be afraid.” – William Faulkner “Fear is a choice. It does not serve you.” “Feeling scared is normal—it means you care.” “Golf is a mirror of your personal development journey.” “Standing out is scary because it threatens your sense of belonging.” “Suffer more often in imagination than in reality.” – Seneca “Avoiding fear keeps you safe. Leaning into fear helps you grow.” Time Stamps: 00:00: Understanding Fear: The Core of Our Challenges 08:14: Types of Fear: The Fear Jar Explained 14:34: The Cost of Fear: Stagnation vs. Growth 23:04: Action Over Fear: Strategies for Overcoming 28:49: Conclusion: Embracing Fear for Personal Growth

In this high-energy and value-packed episode of The Scratch Golfer’s Mindset Podcast, I sit down with Shaun Diachkoff, founder of Fairway Performance, to dive deep into how golf-specific fitness transforms not just your physical game, but your mental edge as well. Shaun’s background in the Australian military, paired with his deep experience in strength and conditioning, offers a no-BS, high-accountability approach to training that’s rooted in discipline, structure, and personalization.  In today’s episode, you’ll learn: How discipline and daily structure from Shaun’s military background translate to golf and business success The difference between mobility, flexibility, and stability—and why most golfers get it wrong What golf fitness really means, and how to tailor your workouts to your specific swing, body type, and performance goals Why strength is your ultimate insurance policy against injury The critical importance of power and speed training—and how to implement them safely and effectively How better fitness directly fuels your mental stamina, clarity, and confidence during every round Whether you’re recovering from injury, struggling to break 80, or want to future-proof your body for decades of better golf, this episode lays out the exact roadmap to do so. Shaun delivers clear, actionable insight on how to train smarter, not harder—and how your body is your greatest golf asset when properly trained. Get your pencils ready and start listening.  P.S. Curious to learn more about the results my clients are experiencing and what they say about working with me? Read more here. More About Shaun Shaun is a golf fitness coach with over 15 years of personal training experience, including nearly a decade as a gym owner and the past five years specialising in coaching golfers. He believes in assessing, not guessing, to create personalised programs tailored to each golfer’s unique needs and goals.  His expertise lies in improving strength, mobility, and performance on the course, helping clients eliminate back pain, hit longer drives, and build consistent training habits. Known for his no-nonsense approach, Shaun delivers results by cutting through the fluff and focusing on what works so clients spend the least amount of time in the gym possible for the best results on course! Work with Shaun Follow Shaun on Instagram - @shaun.diachkoff  Play to Your Potential On (and Off) the Course Schedule a Mindset Coaching Discovery Call Subscribe to the More Pars than Bogeys Newsletter Download my “Play Your Best Round” free hypnosis audio recording. High-Performance Hypnotherapy and Mindset Coaching Paul Salter - known as The Golf Hypnotherapist - is a High-Performance Hypnotherapist and Mindset Coach who leverages hypnosis and powerful subconscious reprogramming techniques to help golfers of all ages and skill levels overcome the mental hazards of their minds so they can shoot lower scores and play to their potential. He has over 16 years of coaching experience working with high performers in various industries, helping them get unstuck, out of their own way, and unlock their full potential. Click here to learn more about how high-performance hypnotherapy and mindset coaching can help you get out of your own way and play to your potential on (and off) the course.  Instagram: @thegolfhypnotherapist  Twitter: @parsoverbogeys Key Takeaways: Discipline creates identity. Shaun shares how military habits like structure and routine create consistency, build momentum, and ultimately forge a new identity—on or off the course. Mobility vs. flexibility. Know the difference. Flexibility is muscle length. Mobility is joint function. Most golfers confuse the two. Stability is strength. You can’t build power without stability. Unilateral work like split squats and lunges balances your body and reduces swing faults. Power vs. speed training. Power is potential. Speed is expression. Both require different protocols in the gym—and both matter to golf. Low back pain? Look elsewhere. Most back pain isn’t from the back itself—it’s a consequence of limited mobility in the hips or thoracic spine. Fitness fuels mental energy. A fitter body reduces fatigue, improves focus, and boosts resilience—so you don’t fall apart late in your round. Key Quotes: What was once impossible becomes inevitable. Small hinges swing big doors. Fitness is the gateway to personal development. Stability is strength. And strength is injury prevention. You can’t outscore your body. Time Stamps: 00:00 The Impact of Military Discipline on Life 02:57 Building Momentum Through Daily Habits 06:02 The Importance of Morning Routines 09:00 Understanding Golf Fitness 12:02 Common Misconceptions in Golf Training 14:58 The Role of Mobility, Flexibility, and Stability 17:50 The Connection Between Fitness and Golf Performance 26:50 Balancing Strength and Stability in Golf 32:51 The Importance of Mobility and Range of Motion 33:11 Understanding Speed vs. Power Training 40:14 Mental Benefits of Speed and Power Training 45:17 Addressing Chronic Back Pain in Golfers

In this powerful and enlightening episode of The Scratch Golfer’s Mindset Podcast, I’m joined by Steven Yellin, creator of the Fluid Motion Factor and one of the leading voices in understanding the neuroscience of performance in golf.  Together, we dive deep into the mind-body connection, the neurophysiological conditions required for a fluid golf swing, and why most golfers unknowingly sabotage their own performance—especially when it matters most. In today’s episode, you’ll learn: Why your prefrontal cortex (the CEO of your brain) needs to go offline during the swing What it really means to have a quiet mind before pulling the trigger How to check your “threshold of wholeness” with a simple shoulder test The truth about consistency and how to stop recreating what you already own What the “rules of the bank” are—and how violating them leads to inconsistent performance How to train like a pro by focusing on quality of space, not quantity of reps How the depth of your thoughts determines access to the body’s deepest intelligence Whether you’re an elite amateur or a weekend warrior, this episode will radically reshape how you think about practice, performance, and pressure. Steven's insights are a masterclass in mastering the mind-body connection and unlocking the swing you already have—on command. Get your pencils ready and start listening.  P.S. Curious to learn more about the results my clients are experiencing and what they say about working with me? Read more here. More About Steven Steve Yellin is a renowned golf instructor, author, and the creator of the Fluid Motion Factor, a revolutionary approach to optimizing performance in golf and other sports. With a background in both competitive golf and deep studies into the mechanics of peak performance, Yellin’s work bridges the gap between technical training and the ability to access one's best swing under pressure. His Fluid Motion Factor system has helped elite golfers, including PGA and LPGA Tour players, unlock their natural ability by eliminating interference in their mind-body connection. Instead of relying on mechanical swing thoughts, Yellin teaches golfers how to tap into a fluid state of motion, leading to greater consistency and confidence on the course. Purchase his book, “Simplicity: The Fluid Motion Factor Program” Follow Steven on Instagram - @steven_yellin Play to Your Potential On (and Off) the Course Schedule a Mindset Coaching Discovery Call Subscribe to the More Pars than Bogeys Newsletter Download my “Play Your Best Round” free hypnosis audio recording. High-Performance Hypnotherapy and Mindset Coaching Paul Salter - known as The Golf Hypnotherapist - is a High-Performance Hypnotherapist and Mindset Coach who leverages hypnosis and powerful subconscious reprogramming techniques to help golfers of all ages and skill levels overcome the mental hazards of their minds so they can shoot lower scores and play to their potential. He has over 16 years of coaching experience working with high performers in various industries, helping them get unstuck, out of their own way, and unlock their full potential. Click here to learn more about how high-performance hypnotherapy and mindset coaching can help you get out of your own way and play to your potential on (and off) the course.  Instagram: @thegolfhypnotherapist  Twitter: @parsoverbogeys Key Takeaways: The quality of the space before the swing determines the quality of the swing. You’re not broken—you’re just violating the rules of the bank. Wholeness is a threshold state of mind where motion flows without interference. You don’t need new swing thoughts—you need a new relationship with the ones you already have. Practicing the swing isn’t as powerful as practicing access to your best swings. Key Quotes: You’re not recreating the swing—you’re trying to access what you already own. When the prefrontal cortex goes offline, the swing goes online. Do less. The most powerful message I can give any golfer. It’s not what you’re thinking. It’s how you're thinking it. Fear is the killer in a golf swing. Time Stamps: 00:00 Understanding the Golf Swing Mechanics 03:06 Achieving a Quiet Mind for Fluid Motion 07:26 Accessing Muscle Memory and Wholeness 13:33 Quality of Space Before the Swing 20:41 The Role of Experience and Fear in Performance 24:08 Mind-Body Connection in Golf 31:50 Maintaining Consistency During a Round 39:18 Building a Strong Foundation for Improvement 42:06 The Power of Simplicity in Golf

Today, I’m joined by Justin Tang - one of THE distinguished golf instructors you should be following and learning from. In today’s episode, you’ll learn: How elite golfers cultivate focus, confidence, and a mastery mindset. Why acceptance and emotional flexibility are key to playing your best. How peripheral vision affects brain waves and performance. Why most golfers practice the wrong way—and how to fix it. The one-ball challenge—a mental toughness test that will change how you play. How to detach from expectations and emotional reactions on the course. Why playing golf should be a celebration of relationships and experiences. Get your pencils ready and start listening.  P.S. Curious to learn more about the results my clients are experiencing and what they say about working with me? Read more here. More About Justin Justin Tang is a distinguished golf instructor based in Singapore, renowned for his holistic approach to golf coaching that integrates technical proficiency with mental and physical conditioning.  He began his professional teaching career in 2005 at Keppel Club, Singapore's oldest golf course, and currently serves as a club professional at Tanah Merah Country Club, one of Singapore's premier golf establishments. He’s also the co-host of The Flag Hunters Podcast with our good friend Jesse Perryman. Learn more about Justin here. Play to Your Potential On (and Off) the Course Schedule a Mindset Coaching Discovery Call Subscribe to the More Pars than Bogeys Newsletter Download my “Play Your Best Round” free hypnosis audio recording. High-Performance Hypnotherapy and Mindset Coaching Paul Salter - known as The Golf Hypnotherapist - is a High-Performance Hypnotherapist and Mindset Coach who leverages hypnosis and powerful subconscious reprogramming techniques to help golfers of all ages and skill levels overcome the mental hazards of their minds so they can shoot lower scores and play to their potential. He has over 15 years of coaching experience working with high performers in various industries, helping them get unstuck, out of their own way, and unlock their full potential. Click here to learn more about how high-performance hypnotherapy and mindset coaching can help you get out of your own way and play to your potential on (and off) the course.  Instagram: @thegolfhypnotherapist  Twitter: @parsoverbogeys Key Takeaways: Train Your Mind Like You Train Your Swing: The mental game isn’t optional. It’s the foundation for success. What You Consume Shapes Your Thoughts: Social media, negativity, and poor influences affect your game more than you realize. Practice Must Simulate Pressure: If your practice isn’t harder than competition, you’re not preparing properly. Detach from Outcomes, Stay Present: Golf is unpredictable—accept it, embrace it, and play freely. Success is Built on Objectivity, Not Emotion: Learn to evaluate your shots with facts, not feelings. Play More, Practice Smarter: A perfect swing isn’t the answer—playing in real conditions builds skill and adaptability. Your Why Matters More Than Your How: Understand why you play, and your path to success becomes clearer. Key Quotes: "You think the thoughts you consume—be careful what you feed your mind."  "The best players don’t beat themselves; they stay present, focused, and in control."  "To gain control, you have to lose control. You can’t force success."  "Every round has setbacks. The difference between great and average players is how they respond."  "Golf is not black and white—it’s 50 shades of green."  "The scorecard only has a box for a number, not a narrative. Stop trying to control the story."  "The more we sweat in peace, the less we bleed in war."  Time Stamps: 00:00 The Power of Early Mornings 02:57 Introspection Amidst Chaos 05:59 The Impact of Social Media on Focus 08:56 Understanding Self 1 and Self 2 11:58 The Journey of Continuous Learning 14:57 Embracing Challenges with Curiosity 18:04 The Importance of Acceptance in Golf 20:56 Practicing Mindset for Performance 23:54 Training for Real-World Scenarios 31:07 The Commonality Among Tour Golfers 34:43 The Mental Game of Golf 37:24 Surrendering to the Process 40:10 Objective Evaluation of Performance 42:50 The Joy of Golf and Relationships 46:55 The Balance of Practice and Play

In this solo episode, I discuss how unaddressed emotional energy leaks quietly sabotage your golf game—and your life. Using a powerful analogy of driving with a leaky fuel tank, I’ll help you connect the dots between repressed emotions, mental fatigue, poor performance, and inconsistent results. In this episode, you'll learn... Why repressed emotions like guilt, shame, and frustration silently drain your energy The difference between small vs. large and conscious vs. unconscious energy leaks How poor energy management prevents habit formation and consistent play Why vague effort and indecision are subtle but costly forms of sabotage What your body and performance are telling you about your emotional state How breathwork, journaling, and hypnosis help release stored emotional tension Why managing your energy is the foundation for success in golf—and in life Get your pencils ready and start listening.  Click here to read my Ultimate Guide to Golf Hypnosis. Purchase the Wicked Smart Practice Plan Formula: Click here to learn how to practice with intention and what to do to get the most out of your practice sessions to drop your scores - fast. Use the code “salter” at checkout to save 10%. 1-1 High-Performance Hypnotherapy and Mindset Coaching: If you’re serious about getting out of your own way and playing to your potential, click here to schedule a Mindset Coaching Discovery Call to learn how I can help you make playing to your potential a habit.  Ready to get a taste of hypnosis? Click here to choose from one of my unique hypnosis audios to help you accelerate improvement in a specific area of your game. Play to Your Potential On (and Off) the Course Schedule a Mindset Coaching Discovery Call Subscribe to the More Pars than Bogeys Newsletter Download my “Play Your Best Round” free hypnosis audio recording. High-Performance Hypnotherapy and Mindset Coaching Paul Salter - known as The Golf Hypnotherapist - is a High-Performance Hypnotherapist and Mindset Coach who leverages hypnosis and powerful subconscious reprogramming techniques to help golfers of all ages and skill levels overcome the mental hazards of their minds so they can shoot lower scores and play to their potential. He has over 16 years of coaching experience working with high performers in various industries, helping them get unstuck, out of their own way, and unlock their full potential. Click here to learn more about how high-performance hypnotherapy and mindset coaching can help you get out of your own way and play to your potential on (and off) the course.  Instagram: @thegolfhypnotherapist  Twitter: @parsoverbogeys Key Takeaways: Emotion is energy in motion; repressed emotions silently drain your fuel tank before you even reach the first tee. You can’t outperform your energetic budget—when you’re depleted, you fall back on old habits, not rise to your goals. Small energy leaks (like skipping warmups or doom scrolling) compound into massive performance drops over time. Large emotional leaks stem from unresolved trauma, guilt, grief, or shame that often go unnoticed but massively impact performance. Most golfers don’t lack information—they lack energy and emotional regulation to follow through. Behavior change and habit formation require a large upfront energy investment—impossible when you’re already drained. Protecting your energy isn’t optional—it’s the foundation for becoming the golfer and person you’re capable of being. Key Quotes: “Emotion is energy in motion. And if you don’t process it, it doesn’t disappear—it just quietly drains you.” “You don’t have a mindset problem. You have an energy problem.” “When you’re running on empty, you don’t rise to the occasion—you fall back to your habits.” “Lack of intentionality and unresolved emotion are two of the biggest fuel leaks in your game and your life.” “The version of you that plays to your potential needs energy to come online. Protect your energy like your life depends on it.” Time Stamps: 00:00: The Energy Leak Analogy 05:02: Understanding Emotional Energy 10:05: The Impact of Repressed Emotions 14:49: Identifying Energy Leaks 20:00: Strategies for Energy Management 25:03: The Importance of Intentionality 30:05: Conclusion and Call to Action

#76: [Inside the Mind] Dr. Bob Winters (The Confidence Doctor): Building Confidence and Playing Mistake-Free Golf In this powerful episode, I sit down with renowned sports psychologist Dr. Bob Winters - affectionately known as The Confidence Doctor - to explore how true confidence is built, sustained, and reclaimed after setbacks. Dr. Winters explains why confidence isn’t something you’re born with - it’s something you build through competence, commitment, and mental resilience. He breaks down the difference between confidence, arrogance, and false bravado, and why confidence without skill is just noise.  In today’s episode, you'll learn: Why confidence is earned—not inherited The difference between real confidence, arrogance, and bravado How to recover from slumps, setbacks, and embarrassing mistakes Why your physiology changes your psychology (and your performance) The two mindset trophies you must win before every round How to stop hitting “anyway” shots and start committing with clarity What Hakuna Matata and I can handle this have in common If you want to win your club championship, break 80, or just stop getting in your own way, this episode is a must-listen (and re-listen). Get your pencils ready and start listening.  P.S. Curious to learn more about the results my clients are experiencing and what they say about working with me? Read more here. More About Dr. Bob Dr. Robert K. Winters, affectionately known as "Dr. Bob," is an internationally renowned sports psychologist, author, and professional speaker with over 45 years of experience in the field of sports performance.  He holds a Ph.D. in Sport Psychology from the University of Virginia, along with Bachelor's and Master's degrees from Ball State University. Dr. Winters has dedicated his career to understanding the psychological components of athletic excellence, focusing on confidence development and mental toughness.  He has worked with a diverse range of athletes, including PGA and LPGA Tour professionals, collegiate teams, and junior athletes Purchase “The 10 Commandments of Mindpower Golf” Connect on Instagram - @dr.bobwinters  Play to Your Potential On (and Off) the Course Schedule a Mindset Coaching Discovery Call Subscribe to the More Pars than Bogeys Newsletter Download my “Play Your Best Round” free hypnosis audio recording. High-Performance Hypnotherapy and Mindset Coaching Paul Salter - known as The Golf Hypnotherapist - is a High-Performance Hypnotherapist and Mindset Coach who leverages hypnosis and powerful subconscious reprogramming techniques to help golfers of all ages and skill levels overcome the mental hazards of their minds so they can shoot lower scores and play to their potential. He has over 16 years of coaching experience working with high performers in various industries, helping them get unstuck, out of their own way, and unlock their full potential. Click here to learn more about how high-performance hypnotherapy and mindset coaching can help you get out of your own way and play to your potential on (and off) the course.  Instagram: @thegolfhypnotherapist  Twitter: @parsoverbogeys Key Takeaways: Confidence is not arrogance—it’s earned through competence and repetition Your environment, not your DNA, builds early confidence Commit 100% to your plan—especially when it matters most Real confidence doesn’t need external validation Your body language influences your brain: walk like a winner Persistence > talent. Confidence is a self-fulfilling prophecy Key Quotes: Confidence is the mental and emotional strength to resist doubt, worry, and anxiety—and still move forward. The moment you change your mind, you change your game If you're always looking for others’ approval, you'll always be searching. You don’t fake it ‘til you make it. You do it until you become it. Average is a crowded place. Greatness is lonely—and worth it. Time Stamps: 00:00 The Journey to Confidence 06:05 Defining Confidence vs. Arrogance 12:04 The Importance of Standing Out 15:57 Cultivating Confidence 24:08 Bouncing Back from Mistakes 29:02 Hakuna Matata: Embracing a Positive Mindset 31:14 The Connection Between Fitness and Confidence 38:11 Commitment: The Foundation of Confidence 44:47 Quality Over Quantity: The Right Practice 52:40 Creating Confidence Through Commitment