In today’s video, I’m unpacking The Boy Crisis by Dr. Warren Farrell — and more importantly, how it’s impacting modern dating and relationships for good-hearted men like you. So many men are quietly struggling with fatherlessness, lack of healthy role models, confusion about masculinity, and a loss of purpose. These challenges show up in dating as over-investing, pedestalizing women, struggling to lead confidently, and feeling discouraged when good women pull away. I’ll share the key lessons Farrell outlines and along the way, I’ll also share real client stories and strategies that will help you break free from old patterns and step into the type of man women truly want to connect with.P.S. If you're a man navigating dating after divorce, don't go it alone. My free masterclass was made for you—learn how to rebuild confidence, attract the right women, and avoid common post-divorce mistakes. Watch it here.Ready for tailored support? Book your 1:1 dating strategy call with me here and let’s map out your next steps.If you’ve ever wished you could just relax and enjoy conversations with women, this is your invitation here.Need honest feedback on your dating profile so you can start attracting quality matches? Look here.And as always, subscribe, leave your comments, and join the conversation—this is a space for growth, insight, and connection. See you next week,<3 Kimberly
Most guys assume women are only motivated by attraction or money. Sure, that matters to some. But if you ask good-hearted women who are looking for real, long-term love… the truth is, what makes a man irresistible are his habits. It’s how you live your life. It’s how you treat yourself. It’s the unseen things you do daily that shape your energy, your confidence, and the way women feel when they’re with you. In this podcast, I share the 5 unseen habits that make men magnetic, and I tell real client stories that prove why these habits work. If you’ve been worried that women only care about looks, status, or money, this video will reframe everything. These habits don’t just make you attractive, they make you a stronger, happier man in every part of your lifeP.S. If you're a man navigating dating after divorce, don't go it alone. My free masterclass was made for you—learn how to rebuild confidence, attract the right women, and avoid common post-divorce mistakes. Watch it here.Ready for tailored support? Book your 1:1 dating strategy call with me here and let’s map out your next steps.If you’ve ever wished you could just relax and enjoy conversations with women, this is your invitation here.Need honest feedback on your dating profile so you can start attracting quality matches? Look here.And as always, subscribe, leave your comments, and join the conversation—this is a space for growth, insight, and connection. See you next week,<3 Kimberly
When you see a man walk into a room and effortlessly talk to anyone, especially women who lean in and gravitate toward him, it can seem like magic. But here’s the truth: that magnetic pull isn’t luck, and it’s not something you’re born with. It’s called conversational charisma, and it’s a skill anyone can learn. In this video, I’m breaking down four practical tips (plus a few secret hacks) that will help you build conversational charisma both online and offline. P.S. If you're a man navigating dating after divorce, don't go it alone. My free masterclass was made for you—learn how to rebuild confidence, attract the right women, and avoid common post-divorce mistakes. Watch it here.Ready for tailored support? Book your 1:1 dating strategy call with me here and let’s map out your next steps.If you’ve ever wished you could just relax and enjoy conversations with women, this is your invitation here.Need honest feedback on your dating profile so you can start attracting quality matches? Look here.And as always, subscribe, leave your comments, and join the conversation—this is a space for growth, insight, and connection. See you next week,<3 Kimberly
In today’s episode, I’m revealing the secret hack divorced men know about dating, and why it can actually give you an advantage most men overlook. If you’re divorced and worried your past holds you back, I’ll show you how to flip that story. By reflecting on your past relationship and owning the lessons, you can become more attractive, confident, and grounded in the eyes of women. I’ll also share 5 powerful statements that instantly show women you’ve matured (phrases that spark respect, connection, and even attraction.) Divorce doesn’t have to be the end of love. It can be the turning point that makes you wiser, more compassionate, and ready to build the kind of fulfilling relationship you actually deserve. Watch until the end to discover how to turn your story of divorce into your greatest strength in dating. Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more videos that help good men find real, lasting love.P.S. If you're a man navigating dating after divorce, don't go it alone. My free masterclass was made for you—learn how to rebuild confidence, attract the right women, and avoid common post-divorce mistakes. Watch it here.Ready for tailored support? Book your 1:1 dating strategy call with me here and let’s map out your next steps.If you’ve ever wished you could just relax and enjoy conversations with women, this is your invitation here.Need honest feedback on your dating profile so you can start attracting quality matches? Look here.And as always, subscribe, leave your comments, and join the conversation—this is a space for growth, insight, and connection. See you next week,<3 Kimberly
In today’s episode of The Self-Confidence Project, I’m revealing how to spot an emotionally immature woman in just two dates or less. You’ll learn the subtle red flags and behaviors that signal emotional immaturity, discover how the Big Five Personality Traits shape dating and attraction, and understand why self-awareness is essential for avoiding relationships that drain you. Backed by decades of psychological research, this episode gives you practical tools to recognize these traits quickly so you can invest your time and energy in emotionally mature, high-quality partners. P.S. If you're a man navigating dating after divorce, don't go it alone. My free masterclass was made for you—learn how to rebuild confidence, attract the right women, and avoid common post-divorce mistakes. Watch it here.Ready for tailored support? Book your 1:1 dating strategy call with me here and let’s map out your next steps.If you’ve ever wished you could just relax and enjoy conversations with women, this is your invitation here.Need honest feedback on your dating profile so you can start attracting quality matches? Look here.And as always, subscribe, leave your comments, and join the conversation—this is a space for growth, insight, and connection. See you next week,<3 Kimberly
Welcome back to The Self-Confidence Project. In today’s video, I’m sharing four clear and effective ways women show they’re interested in you. These insights come from my own personal experiences and observations, designed to clear up common misunderstandings about flirting signals. If you’re navigating the world of modern dating, especially if you’re in your 40s, 50s, or 60s, I’ve got practical advice to help you recognize these signs and build your confidence.P.S. If you're a man navigating dating after divorce, don't go it alone. My free masterclass was made for you—learn how to rebuild confidence, attract the right women, and avoid common post-divorce mistakes. Watch it here.Ready for tailored support? Book your 1:1 dating strategy call with me here and let’s map out your next steps.If you’ve ever wished you could just relax and enjoy conversations with women, this is your invitation here.Need honest feedback on your dating profile so you can start attracting quality matches? Look here.And as always, subscribe, leave your comments, and join the conversation—this is a space for growth, insight, and connection. See you next week,<3 Kimberly
In this episode of The Self-Confidence Project, I’m diving into the five personality types of women you’ll want to avoid when dating. If you’re newly back in the dating scene after a tough breakup or divorce, it’s so important to recognize these red flags early. I’ll break down each type — from the avoidant dream girl to the love bomber — and share tips on how to spot them fast. If you’re a good-hearted man looking for a deeply loving, meaningful relationship, you don’t want to miss this one.P.S. If you're a man navigating dating after divorce, don't go it alone. My free masterclass was made for you—learn how to rebuild confidence, attract the right women, and avoid common post-divorce mistakes. Watch it here.Ready for tailored support? Book your 1:1 dating strategy call with me here and let’s map out your next steps.If you’ve ever wished you could just relax and enjoy conversations with women, this is your invitation here.Need honest feedback on your dating profile so you can start attracting quality matches? Look here.And as always, subscribe, leave your comments, and join the conversation—this is a space for growth, insight, and connection. See you next week,<3 Kimberly
In this episode of The Self-Confidence Project, I dive into one of the most frustrating aspects of modern dating: mixed signals. I start by setting the scene with a familiar scenario, that moment when a man begins to overthink everything after what felt like a promising first date. I break down why mixed signals happen, how to read them accurately, and how to respond with confidence without compromising your self-worth. I share key insights on how to spot genuine interest versus polite disinterest, how to navigate inconsistent communication, and why maintaining your self-respect and clear boundaries is essential. P.S. If you're a man navigating dating after divorce, don't go it alone. My free masterclass was made for you—learn how to rebuild confidence, attract the right women, and avoid common post-divorce mistakes. Watch it here.Ready for tailored support? Book your 1:1 dating strategy call with me here and let’s map out your next steps.If you’ve ever wished you could just relax and enjoy conversations with women, this is your invitation here.And as always, subscribe, leave your comments, and join the conversation—this is a space for growth, insight, and connection. See you next week,<3 Kimberly
In this episode, I’m diving into the truth about why younger women are often drawn to older men—and the critical mindset shift you need to make if you're one of those men looking to date younger. I’ll break down the common mistakes older men make, including chasing youth or trying to impress rather than attract. I’ll share real-life client stories, unpack the deeper psychology behind attraction, and explain why purpose, grounded confidence, and emotional maturity matter far more than looks or status. You’ll walk away with a fresh, honest perspective, and practical steps, to help you stop chasing a fantasy and start building a life that naturally draws in the right kind of woman.P.S. If you're a man navigating dating after divorce, don't go it alone. My free masterclass was made for you—learn how to rebuild confidence, attract the right women, and avoid common post-divorce mistakes. Watch it here.Ready for tailored support? Book your 1:1 dating strategy call with me here and let’s map out your next steps.And as always, subscribe, leave your comments, and join the conversation—this is a space for growth, insight, and connection. See you next week,<3 Kimberly
In this episode of The Self-Confidence Project, I’m diving deep into something many men over 40 quietly struggle with, what I call The Invisible Man Effect. You’ve worked hard, you’re a good guy, and yet… when it comes to dating, it can feel like women just don’t see you. In this video, I break down why that happens, including outdated dating habits, unprocessed emotional baggage, and subtle mindset traps that push connection away. But more importantly, I share what you can do to shift it. You'll learn how to build authentic presence, deepen your confidence, and create the kind of energy that naturally draws women in. If you're ready to stop feeling overlooked and start showing up as the magnetic, grounded man you actually are, this episode is for you.P.S. If you're a man navigating dating after divorce, don't go it alone. My free masterclass was made for you—learn how to rebuild confidence, attract the right women, and avoid common post-divorce mistakes. Watch it here.Ready for tailored support? Book your 1:1 dating strategy call with me here and let’s map out your next steps.And as always, subscribe, leave your comments, and join the conversation—this is a space for growth, insight, and connection. See you next week,<3 Kimberly
In this episode of The Self-Confidence Project, I’m diving into what makes men truly attractive in today’s dating world. I talk about how modern dating requires us to shift away from traditional rules and roles, and how men can redefine what it means to lead in relationships. It’s not about dominance—it’s about self-awareness, emotional stability, and leading with clarity. I also unpack the confusion and frustration that so many men are feeling in today’s dating landscape, and I offer practical guidance on how to adapt and thrive.P.S. If you're a man navigating dating after divorce, don't go it alone. My free masterclass was made for you—learn how to rebuild confidence, attract the right women, and avoid common post-divorce mistakes. Watch it here.Ready for tailored support? Book your 1:1 dating strategy call with me here and let’s map out your next steps.And as always, subscribe, leave your comments, and join the conversation—this is a space for growth, insight, and connection. See you next week,<3 Kimberly
In this episode of The Self-Confidence Project, Kimberly dives deeper into relationship advice by discussing five valuable lessons from great philosophers like Marcus Aurelius, Epictetus, Confucius, Nietzsche, and Seneca. She explores how their ancient wisdom is still relevant in today's chaotic dating culture, emphasizing self-mastery, emotional maturity, integrity in actions, seeking meaningful connections, and learning from difficulties. Perfect for anyone wanting to navigate modern relationships with more clarity and courage. P.S. If you're a man navigating dating after divorce, don't go it alone. My free masterclass was made for you—learn how to rebuild confidence, attract the right women, and avoid common post-divorce mistakes. Watch it here.Ready for tailored support? Book your 1:1 dating strategy call with me here and let’s map out your next steps.And as always, subscribe, leave your comments, and join the conversation—this is a space for growth, insight, and connection. See you next week,<3 Kimberly
Hey guys, welcome back to The Self-Confidence Project. In this episode, I'm diving deep into the concerning impact of artificial intelligence (AI) on modern dating. While AI can assist with crafting perfect messages and conversations, have you pondered the consequences of relying on it too much? I'll discuss how this may lead to increased disconnection, insecurity, and emotional avoidance. I'll also identify red flags signaling that your online match might be using AI to impress you. If you're serious about finding genuine connection in dating, stick around to understand why navigating AI carefully is crucial. P.S. If you're a man navigating dating after divorce, don't go it alone. My free masterclass was made for you—learn how to rebuild confidence, attract the right women, and avoid common post-divorce mistakes. Watch it here.Ready for tailored support? Book your 1:1 dating strategy call with me here and let’s map out your next steps.And as always, subscribe, leave your comments, and join the conversation—this is a space for growth, insight, and connection. See you next week,<3 Kimberly
Welcome to another episode of The Self-Confidence Project. Today, we're diving into why cold approaches and pickup lines often fail with women (especially in modern dating) and exploring what actually works if you're looking for a genuine connection. Discover the flaws in traditional pickup tactics and learn about the mere exposure effect, a genuine and effective way to build attraction. P.S. If you're a man navigating dating after divorce, don't go it alone. My free masterclass was made for you—learn how to rebuild confidence, attract the right women, and avoid common post-divorce mistakes. Watch it here.Ready for tailored support? Book your 1:1 dating strategy call with me here and let’s map out your next steps.And as always, subscribe, leave your comments, and join the conversation—this is a space for growth, insight, and connection. See you next week,<3 Kimberly
Welcome back to another episode of The Self-Confidence Project. Today we're diving into some of the worst modern dating advice that's keeping you from genuine connections. We'll unpack five harmful myths, including the idea that confidence is everything and the dreaded three-day text rule. Through relatable examples, I'll explain why these myths are detrimental and how you can navigate modern dating with clarity, self-awareness, and genuine presence. If you're tired of bad dates and ghosting, this episode is for you. P.S. If you're a man navigating dating after divorce, don't go it alone. My free masterclass was made for you—learn how to rebuild confidence, attract the right women, and avoid common post-divorce mistakes. Watch it here.Ready for tailored support? Book your 1:1 dating strategy call with me here and let’s map out your next steps.And as always, subscribe, leave your comments, and join the conversation—this is a space for growth, insight, and connection. See you next week,<3 Kimberly
In this episode of The Self-Confidence Project, Kimberly explores the impact of stoicism in modern dating. Learn why your understanding or application of stoicism might be sabotaging your chances of deeply connecting with women and forming the relationships you desire. Kimberly delves into how misinterpreting stoicism as emotional suppression can lead to women perceiving you as emotionally unavailable. Discover how to balance stoic composure with emotional openness and create genuine connections without losing yourself. P.S. If you're a man navigating dating after divorce, don't go it alone. My free masterclass was made for you—learn how to rebuild confidence, attract the right women, and avoid common post-divorce mistakes. Watch it here.Ready for tailored support? Book your 1:1 dating strategy call with me here and let’s map out your next steps.And as always, subscribe, leave your comments, and join the conversation—this is a space for growth, insight, and connection.See you next week,<3 Kimberly
In this episode of The Self-Confidence Project, Kimberly discusses a psychological hack that hugely impacts dating. This psychological principle explains why unfinished or interrupted tasks are remembered more vividly, a technique that can create curiosity and intrigue in dating. Learn practical applications of this for dating and how to leave a lasting impression and foster genuine connections with women. P.S. If you're a man navigating dating after divorce, don't go it alone. My free masterclass was made for you—learn how to rebuild confidence, attract the right women, and avoid common post-divorce mistakes. Watch it here.Ready for tailored support? Book your 1:1 dating strategy call with me here and let’s map out your next steps.And as always, subscribe, leave your comments, and join the conversation—this is a space for growth, insight, and connection.See you next week,<3 Kimberly
In this episode of The Self-Confidence Project, host Kimberly is joined by renowned somatic sex therapist Susan Morgan Taylor to challenge your views on sex, pleasure, and connection. Whether you're in a relationship, dating after divorce, or seeking deeper connections, this conversation is for you. Susan shares her journey and how her personal experiences led her to become a leading voice in somatic sex therapy. With 25 years of experience, she provides insights on reigniting intimacy and overcoming internal blocks. Learn about the Pleasure Keys Process, communication techniques, and how to connect with your own sexuality. Discover the significance of self-responsibility in pleasure and practical tips for both men and women to enhance their intimate lives. Join us for an eye-opening discussion on achieving true pleasure and lasting connection. P.S. If you're a man navigating dating after divorce, don't go it alone. My free masterclass was made for you—learn how to rebuild confidence, attract the right women, and avoid common post-divorce mistakes. Watch it here.Ready for tailored support? Book your 1:1 dating strategy call with me here and let’s map out your next steps.And as always, subscribe, leave your comments, and join the conversation—this is a space for growth, insight, and connection.See you next week,<3 Kimberly
In this episode of The Self-Confidence Project, Kimberly delves into the real challenges men face when dating after a divorce, especially those in their 50's, 60's, 70's. Kimberly outlines common obstacles such as insecurities around age and attractiveness, the complexities of feeling attracted to younger women, and dealing with a shrinking social circle. She offers actionable steps on how to move forward with confidence by redefining one's value, clarifying relationship goals, and enhancing connecting skills. She emphasizes the importance of having a meaningful life outside of dating and provides strategies for men to build rewarding, deeply connected relationships. P.S. If you're a man navigating dating after divorce, don't go it alone. My free masterclass was made for you—learn how to rebuild confidence, attract the right women, and avoid common post-divorce mistakes. Watch it here.Ready for tailored support? Book your 1:1 dating strategy call with me here and let’s map out your next steps.And as always, subscribe, leave your comments, and join the conversation—this is a space for growth, insight, and connection.See you next week,<3 Kimberly
In this episode of The Self-Confidence Project, I'll discuss the reasons why sexual intimacy often declines in long-term relationships and share practical advice on how to TRULY revive it. I'll talk about actionable steps to rebuild connection and intimacy without begging, pressuring, or pretending. The episode also emphasizes the importance of open communication and shared emotional support to maintain a healthy, passionate relationships. Don't forget to check out the audio masterclass, '10 Must-Know Tips for Talking and Texting with Women,' which offers deeper insights into effective communication with women.p.s. don't forget to subscribe, leave your comments, and let’s create a positive forum to discuss your thoughts! See you next week!Book your dating strategy call with me today by clicking here or watch my free masterclass here.<3 Kimberly