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Author: Beatrice Kamau

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Welcome to The Self Love Fix Podcast. I’m your host, Beatrice -an embodiment coach, teacher, and mentor, and founder of The Self Love Over Codependency Program.

Are you ready to finally step into your worthiness and magnetism? Are you tired of your limiting beliefs and self-doubt affecting every aspect of your life? You deserve to live an abundant life, you deserve to desire and achieve all of your dreams, and most importantly, you deserve to embody unshakable self-confidence.

Believe it or not, I didn’t always embody self-trust. Most of my life, I lived at the mercy of what other people thought of me. It was only during a very low point I experienced during grad school where I asked myself, “Where does your need for perfectionism come from?”

This was a game-changing moment for me. For the first time in my life, I asked myself about the origins of my behavior instead of blaming myself for them.

From then on, I promised to live out my passion and mission for embodying my true essence and to teach others to do the same.

That’s exactly why I created this podcast. This podcast is all about helping you shift from shame, people-pleasing, codependency, low self-esteem, and self-doubt and into alignment, expansion, and unapologetic self-trust through spirituality and healing the inner-child.

For more information about the podcast, or other ways you can work with me, visit: www.beatricekamau.com

I would love to connect with you more on social media! You can find me at:
IG: @theselflovefix
Website: beatricekamau.com
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In this episode we chat.... Confidence vs. FAKE confidence and how to tell the difference Ways insecurity masks itself through FAKE confidence How walking in FAKE confidence is actually incredibly manipulative  WORK WITH BEATRICE:  CLICK HERE TO CATCH THE SCHOOL OF RELAXED DATING™: THE FOUNDATIONS The School of Relaxed Dating™ is a foundational, one-of-a-kind school that teaches you how to effortlessly elevate your love life through skyrocketing your confidence around men and calling forward masculine, provider men who adore, cherish, and VALUE you through their ACTIONS. Click here to join the FREE 6 day email challenge In Your Feminine Era CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were. Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!
In this episode we chat.... That feeling of OBSESSION with him wanting you back and what to do about it The surprising reason behind the OBSESSION that I guarantee you are not aware of  Leaning on God during this time for strength and the ability to LET GO WORK WITH BEATRICE:  CLICK HERE TO CATCH THE SCHOOL OF RELAXED DATING™: THE FOUNDATIONS The School of Relaxed Dating™ is a foundational, one-of-a-kind school that teaches you how to effortlessly elevate your love life through skyrocketing your confidence around men and calling forward masculine, provider men who adore, cherish, and VALUE you through their ACTIONS. CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were. Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!
In this episode we chat.... The ONE wounded feminine trait you have that keeps causing you to get FRUSTRATED and EXHAUSTED by dating The dangers of being unequally yoked mentally and emotionally with a man Why dating a man who is operating on a mental and emotional level that is underdeveloped is a destiny KILLER for YOU.... AND HIM. WORK WITH BEATRICE:  CLICK HERE TO CATCH THE SCHOOL OF RELAXED DATING™: THE FOUNDATIONS The School of Relaxed Dating™ is a foundational, one-of-a-kind school that teaches you how to effortlessly elevate your love life through skyrocketing your confidence around men and calling forward masculine, provider men who adore, cherish, and VALUE you through their ACTIONS. CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were. Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!
In this episode we chat.... The difference between a BOY and a MAN that most women MISS How to begin activating the GODLY wisdom to be able to tell the difference between a BOY and a MAN HONORING your RELAXED feminine state WORK WITH BEATRICE: CLICK HERE TO CATCH THE SCHOOL OF RELAXED DATING™: THE FOUNDATIONS PRE-SALE The School of Relaxed Dating™ is a foundational, one-of-a-kind school that teaches you how to effortlessly elevate your love life through skyrocketing your confidence around men and calling forward masculine, provider men who adore, cherish, and VALUE you through their ACTIONS. CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were. Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!
In this episode we chat.... How to navigate doubting the romantic connection you're in whether you're single or in a relationship The two types of doubt that exist in dating and relationships  Walking in God's best for you WORK WITH BEATRICE: I am running a FREE love + dating masterclass event called The Dating Confidential. This is for you if you... can barely get a text back or you don't experience the PROTECTIVE, provisional, I'm-gonna-treat-you-soft vibes from men or in your relationship Click here to sign up to the Dating Confidential for FREE CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were. Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!
In this episode we chat.... How the patriarchy has distorted your view on your relationship status + what it means about you The privilege in being single that most do not SEE How to THRIVE in your singleness WORK WITH BEATRICE: I am running a FREE love + dating masterclass event called The Dating Confidential. This is for you if you... can barely get a text back or you don't experience the PROTECTIVE, provisional, I'm-gonna-treat-you-soft vibes from men or in your relationship Click here to sign up to the Dating Confidential for FREE CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were. Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!
In this episode we chat.... How I was able to bounce back after my break up SO QUICKLY How to RESTORE your belief in love and ability to love after a break up or after someone betrayed your trust  Forgiveness after a relationship or betrayal WORK WITH BEATRICE: I am running a FREE love + dating masterclass event called The Dating Confidential. This is for you if you... can barely get a text back or you don't experience the PROTECTIVE, provisional, I'm-gonna-treat-you-soft vibes from men or in your relationship Click here to sign up to the Dating Confidential for FREE CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were. Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!
In this episode we chat.... Why it is that the wrong men will waste your time for months, years even and think nothing of it. How boys-- NOT masculine men!-- will waste your time if you're not careful and how masculine men will approach you much MUCH differently.  The case for celibacy, why I'm such an advocate for it-- and why I VERY MUCH BELIEVE masculine men will gladly WAIT! WORK WITH BEATRICE: Click here to join the FREE 6 day email challenge In Your Feminine Era Click here to purchase dating apps 101 CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were. Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!
In this episode we chat.... Why your STATE of peace + rest should be HIGHLY REGARDED and why the RIGHT MAN would do anything in his power to MAINTAIN your state of rest/peace  The consequences of being around people who CONTINUALLY disturb your state of rest How to become someone that LISTENS TO ACTIONS more than words WORK WITH BEATRICE: Click here to join the FREE 6 day email challenge In Your Feminine Era Click here to purchase dating apps 101 CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were. Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!
In this episode we chat.... Why every single person on this planet has VISION + an ASSIGNMENT from God The importance of keeping the RIGHT COMPANY and knowing when to zip it when it comes to the vision you have for yourself for MORE out of life How God has a plan + a vision for you and why you should know it! WORK WITH BEATRICE: Click here to join the FREE 6 day email challenge In Your Feminine Era Click here to purchase dating apps 101 CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were. Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!
In this episode we chat.... Why MEN are providers and BOYS are not The difference between BOYS and MEN and spotting it in dating How the RIGHT man actually will invite EASE + make you 100x the woman you already ARE WORK WITH BEATRICE: Click here to join the FREE 6 day email challenge In Your Feminine Era Click here to purchase dating apps 101 CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were. Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!
In this episode we chat.... The influence of spirituality in the online and personal development space Naiveté around spirituality and my relationship to it The spirituality that WORKS WORK WITH BEATRICE: Click here to join the FREE 6 day email challenge In Your Feminine Era Click here to purchase dating apps 101 CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were. Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!
In this episode we chat.... A life update! What does it mean to be ON ASSIGNMENT/in your purpose and the impact of it on your dating life What happens to your assignment/purpose when you deal with WOUNDED masculine energy WORK WITH BEATRICE: Click here to join the FREE 6 day email challenge In Your Feminine Era Click here to purchase dating apps 101 CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were. Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!
In this episode we chat.... The 4 controversial dating beliefs I have including ONE I used to be FULLY AGAINST-- Tune in to find out what it is! WORK WITH BEATRICE: Click here to join the FREE 6 day email challenge In Your Feminine Era Click here to purchase dating apps 101 CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were. Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!
In this episode we chat.... Wounded feminine vs. Balanced feminine when it comes to what she's LOOKING FOR in dating  Why his ATTENTION shouldn't be impressive The difference between ATTENTION and being VALUED WORK WITH BEATRICE: Click here to purchase dating apps 101 If you're ready to go from SITUATIONSHIP to RELATIONSHIP, snag the FREE 5-day email bootcamp by clicking here CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were. Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!
In this episode we chat.... The difference between the WOUNDED feminine and BALANCED feminine and how BOTH impact your dating life How to shift from SCARCITY to ABUNDANCE in dating What IS relaxed dating and why dating was NEVER meant to be frantic or have you anxious and on TEN checking your phone every couple of minutes WORK WITH BEATRICE: Click here to purchase dating apps 101 If you're ready to go from SITUATIONSHIP to RELATIONSHIP, snag the FREE 5-day email bootcamp by clicking here CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were. Make sure to share this with someone who needs it!
Listen to this to.... REMEMBER who God designed you to be and to understand the VALUE of a woman  To STOP holding on for dear life for someone who doesn't put in any EFFORT TO EARN YOU To understand WHY the feminine is meant to be in a position of CHOOSING who is worthy of her heart not for her to be GIVING it to any old anybody WORK WITH BEATRICE: Click here to get access to Dating Apps 101 the masterclass shhhh it hasn't been released to the public yet but i'm quietly dropping it here (Save $10 through 4/18 ONLY) If you're ready to go from SITUATIONSHIP to RELATIONSHIP, snag the FREE 5-day email bootcamp by clicking here CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were. Make sure to share this with someone who needs it!  
It's... been a while hasn't it bestie?! Well I have an AMAZING episode for you ALL about why it's been so hard for you to "know your worth" and why you should focus on knowing your VALUE instead. Your VALUE in general AND your VALUE in dating, relationships, marriage, work, your business etc, Tell a friend to tell a friend that i'm back!! WORK WITH BEATRICE: Click here to apply for 1:1 coaching on dating/relationships If you're ready to go from SITUATIONSHIP to RELATIONSHIP, snag the FREE 5-day email bootcamp by clicking here CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.  
There's a THIN LINE between EXPECTATIONS and STANDARDS and knowing which is which is the difference between experiencing DISAPPOINTMENT in dating and actually experiencing what you WANT in dating. Listen in to this week's episode to find out more! CLICK HERE TO REGISTER FOR FREE FOR THE 4 DAY LIVE ONLINE EVENT ELEVATED IN LOVE where you learn how to go from confused about your love life to navigating love and dating with maturity and confidence WORK WITH BEATRICE: Click here to apply for 1:1 personal coaching and-- BIRTHDAY MONTH SPECIAL--enjoy BONUS month of coaching calls + voxer access when you begin coaching by January 31st! CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.
If you've found yourself landing in situationship after situationship...  Or if you've felt the need to SPEED the dating process up or have felt anxious about "where things are going" this episode is FOR YOU! CLICK HERE TO REGISTER FOR FREE FOR THE 4 DAY LIVE ONLINE EVENT ELEVATED IN LOVE where you learn how to go from confused about your love life to navigating love and dating with maturity and confidence WORK WITH BEATRICE: Click here to apply for 1:1 personal coaching and-- BIRTHDAY MONTH SPECIAL--enjoy BONUS month of coaching calls + voxer access when you begin coaching by January 31st! CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.
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Comments (41)

Elaheh Amini

Good job 👏 I absolutely love the way you talk about trauma and sth like that ,It makes me feel free and glad and be comfortable at the same time, you speak friendly and I appreciate that thank you sis🙏😘

Oct 17th
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Ami Blue

so.... this was an ad for your paid programming. I think that was a first for you since I've been listening. not a fan.

Jun 9th
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Noluthando Khumalo

I relate to all 3 types of negative attachment styles. Is that possible and what does it mean about me?

Jan 30th
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Whitechic Whitechic

what happened to the previous episodes?! ps strong cover!

Jan 12th
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mahzad fh

the best ever

Sep 7th
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mahzad fh

i enjoy your podcasts

Sep 2nd
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Tejaswini Anand

i thought I put myself first, love myself the most. but here I am listening to you, thinking where I stand.

Jul 2nd
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Cocos FitnessLife

I'm so excited to Bing this whole podcast! self love journey here we come!!

Apr 19th
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Zahra Yousefi

you're great

Feb 28th
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Val Maina

Just found out about this podcast and God I'm in love. I've listened to 4 episodes just today and I'm learning so much 🙌🏽🙌🏽

Jan 17th
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Reyhan Kian

Hi ...I think ,Ihave abandonment issue please make more padcast about abandonment ❤and help us to heal🍀❤love u❤

Jan 15th
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Jeremiah Ben Israel

So basically no one cares about the mentality of our black men? This is Self Love Fix for Women. Men go through these things as well. In all respect, Black Men go through these things as well and I haven't found one podcast that focuses on that. It's like society just labels all Black men this way. How can we build a a people with our own not trying to build up our natural protectors?

Dec 30th
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SOGOL

🤍🤍🤍

Nov 17th
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Sheila McReynolds

I love this episode and would love to share with my profoundly deaf friend. Is there a CC version of your podcasts? TIA

Oct 26th
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Courtney Young

Im only on my 2nd podcast. I wish I would have found you sooner. your voice and words are really speaking to me so far. I can't wait to get through all your podcasts. I even told my 17 yro daughter to listen to you. 💙

Sep 29th
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Negin Najafi

I love this!!

Sep 19th
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Reyhan Kian

l love your voice girl❤💗its so energetic🤗

Sep 19th
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Racheal Sikes

the first 7 minutes is her promiting her online course. wish the episodes were longer

Sep 15th
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Helia Alinezhad

wow I really love this podcast and I really love your voice and you talking style . so much happy to find this thanks alot

Sep 11th
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Sadaf Sinambari

❤💫

Aug 28th
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