The Shanny Pants Show

In this conversation, Lisa Kohn shares her profound journey growing up in the Unification Church, detailing the complexities of her childhood, the impact of her family dynamics, and her path to healing and self-discovery after leaving the cult. She reflects on the duality of her life, navigating between the cult's teachings and her father's contrasting lifestyle, and how these experiences shaped her understanding of self-worth and personal growth. In this conversation, Shanny Payton and Lisa Kohn delve into the complexities of growing up in a cult, the impact of codependency, and the long-lasting effects on mental health and relationships. They explore the challenges of navigating identity, acceptance, and the struggle to break free from the ingrained beliefs of their upbringing. The discussion highlights the emotional trauma associated with cult dynamics and the journey towards self-discovery and healing. In this conversation, Lisa Kohn shares her experiences growing up in a cult, the complexities of her family's legacy, and her journey towards healing and self-discovery. She discusses the impact of her upbringing on her life, the challenges she faced after leaving the cult, and the therapeutic processes that helped her navigate her trauma. Lisa emphasizes the importance of self-love and the ongoing nature of recovery, highlighting that it's never too late to change and grow.Lisa Kohn grew up in the Unification Church, known as the Moonies.Her childhood was marked by a stark contrast between her mother's cult and her father's lifestyle.Kohn's mother joined the cult when she was 10, leading to a tumultuous family dynamic.She often felt terrified and clung to her mother for security.Ultimately, she believes in the importance of self-acceptance and understanding that others' opinions are not her responsibility. Codependency is a deeply ingrained issue that can affect relationships.Cult upbringing can lead to significant mental health challenges.Realizing the impact of past experiences is a continuous journey.The struggle for identity often stems from childhood experiences in a cult.Understanding the beliefs of the Moonies provides insight into their cult dynamics.Healing from cult experiences requires addressing feelings of shame and guilt. The Moon family has a complex and troubling legacy.Growing up in a cult can lead to deep psychological scars.Find out more about LISA hereConnect with Us:- Follow 〰️〰️Shanny 👖〰️〰️YouTubeFacebookInstagramTikTokwww.ShannyPantsShow.com-Subscribe to our podcast for more stories of hope and healingIf you or someone you know is struggling with similar experiences, don’t hesitate to reach out for support. Healing is possible, and you are not alone. Visit Living Cult Free to find some amazing resources. I am so happy to be a board director of this wonderful non-profit.Thank you for listening! Your support helps us share these important stories with the world. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of the Shanny Pants Show, host Shanny Payton welcomes Katrina Ford, a religious abuse life coach and author, to share her journey of overcoming religious trauma and facing stage three breast cancer. The conversation explores themes of vulnerability, community support, and the importance of maintaining faith amidst adversity. Katrina's story highlights the challenges of navigating life after leaving a cult, the power of love and kindness from unexpected sources, and the ongoing quest for authenticity in her faith. The episode concludes with reflections on the importance of creating space for vulnerability and the healing power of community.The journey of recovery from religious trauma is ongoing.Vulnerability is essential for healing and connection.Community support can come from unexpected places.Faith can coexist with doubt and struggle.Katrina emphasizes the importance of authenticity in faith.Love is a central theme in overcoming trauma.Facing cancer brings new challenges and insights.The importance of creating space for vulnerability in communities.Katrina's story is a testament to resilience and hope.Connect with KatrinaIG @katrinaford_speakerConnect with Us:- Follow 〰️〰️Shanny 👖〰️〰️YouTubeFacebookInstagramTikTokwww.ShannyPantsShow.com-Subscribe to our podcast for more stories of hope and healingIf you or someone you know is struggling with similar experiences, don’t hesitate to reach out for support. Healing is possible, and you are not alone. Visit Living Cult Free to find some amazing resources. I am so happy to be a board director of this wonderful non-profit.Thank you for listening! Your support helps us share these important stories with the world. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this conversation, Shanny Payton interviews Katrina Ford, a life coach specializing in religious abuse, academic sabotage, and the 'good girl syndrome.' Katrina shares her journey, including her recent book project titled 'Religious Black Sheep.' The discussion delves into the complexities of religious trauma and the diverse paths individuals take after experiencing high control backgrounds.Katrina Ford is a multifaceted life coach.She specializes in religious abuse and academic sabotage.Katrina has written a book titled 'Religious Black Sheep.'The book is currently in the publishing process.Katrina emphasizes the importance of diverse perspectives on trauma.High control backgrounds can lead to various outcomes in faith.Shanny appreciates the different viewpoints of her guests.Katrina's recent book cover photo shoot was a significant milestone.The conversation highlights the challenges of religious trauma recovery.Katrina's coaching focuses on empowering individuals to reclaim their narratives.Connect with KatrinaIG @katrinaford_speakerConnect with Us:- Follow 〰️〰️Shanny 👖〰️〰️YouTubeFacebookInstagramTikTokwww.ShannyPantsShow.com-Subscribe to our podcast for more stories of hope and healingIf you or someone you know is struggling with similar experiences, don’t hesitate to reach out for support. Healing is possible, and you are not alone. Visit Living Cult Free to find some amazing resources. I am so happy to be a board director of this wonderful non-profit.Thank you for listening! Your support helps us share these important stories with the world. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of the Shanny Pants Show, Shanny and her guest Carrie Bowin delve into their experiences growing up in a cult, discussing the challenges of leaving, the humor found in their past, and the impact of their upbringing on their current lives. They share personal stories, reflect on childhood memories, and explore the complexities of relationships formed in a cult environment. The conversation is filled with laughter, nostalgia, and a deep understanding of resilience and recovery.The importance of community and shared experiences in recovery.Humor plays a significant role in processing past trauma.Childhood memories are often tied to the cult experience.The concept of 'Christian poof' highlights the absurdity of their past.Skating rinks were a place of both fun and strict rules.Singing in church was a serious affair, devoid of joy.The pressure to conform created a culture of pretending.Women in the cult had specific roles and expectations.Reflecting on the past helps in understanding present relationships.- Follow 〰️〰️Shanny 👖〰️〰️YouTubeFacebookInstagramTikTokwww.ShannyPantsShow.com-Subscribe to our podcast for more stories of hope and healingIf you or someone you know is struggling with similar experiences, don’t hesitate to reach out for support. Healing is possible, and you are not alone. Visit Living Cult Free to find some amazing resources. I am so happy to be a board director of this wonderful non-profit.Thank you for listening! Your support helps us share these important stories with the world. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this conversation, Shanny Payton and Carrie Bowin delve into their experiences growing up in a cult, discussing the challenges of recovery, the impact of strict dress codes, and the journey towards self-discovery and authenticity. They reflect on the shame associated with their upbringing, the importance of family dynamics, and the power of forgiveness and change. The conversation highlights the struggles of navigating childhood and adolescence within a high-control environment and emphasizes the potential for personal growth and transformation.The importance of sharing stories from the cult experience.Shame should not be a part of anyone's childhood experience.The impact of strict dress codes on self-image and confidence.Navigating family relationships post-cult can be challenging.Forgiveness is possible, even after years of hurt.People can change, regardless of age or past actions.Authenticity is crucial for personal growth and self-acceptance.The conversation emphasizes the need for open discussions about cult experiences.It's important to acknowledge the trauma caused by cults. - Follow 〰️〰️Shanny 👖〰️〰️YouTubeFacebookInstagramTikTokwww.ShannyPantsShow.com-Subscribe to our podcast for more stories of hope and healingIf you or someone you know is struggling with similar experiences, don’t hesitate to reach out for support. Healing is possible, and you are not alone. Visit Living Cult Free to find some amazing resources. I am so happy to be a board director of this wonderful non-profit.Thank you for listening! Your support helps us share these important stories with the world. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Lyn Smith GregoryIn this conversation, Lynn Smith Gregory shares her profound journey of leaving the Mormon Church, exploring the impact of her upbringing, the challenges of navigating life outside a high-control group, and the complexities of maintaining family relationships. She discusses her spiritual awakening, the role of women in the church, and the ongoing struggles faced by those who leave. The conversation highlights the importance of communication, the crisis of faith among younger generations, and the need for healing and understanding in the aftermath of religious trauma.TakeawaysLynn's family has a long history with the Mormon Church.Leaving the church can lead to feelings of shame and isolation.Spiritual awakening can occur after leaving a high-control group.Maintaining family connections can be challenging after leaving.Women in the Mormon Church often face restrictive roles.Toxic positivity is prevalent in high-control religions.Younger generations are leaving the church in record numbers.Communication barriers exist between those who leave and their families.The church's teachings can lead to internalized sexism.Healing from religious trauma is a complex process.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Lynn's Journey03:10 The Impact of Leaving the Mormon Church05:46 Navigating Life After Leaving09:03 Spiritual Awakening and Exploration11:59 Family Dynamics and Relationships15:00 The Role of Women in Mormon Culture17:58 The Struggles of Leaving a High-Control Group21:00 The Challenge of Maintaining Family Connections24:07 The Hypocrisy of Mormon Culture26:45 The Impact of Toxic Positivity30:08 The Crisis of Faith in the Younger Generation32:50 The Role of Communication in Family Dynamics36:02 The Future of the Mormon Church39:04 Conclusion and Reflections on HealingFind LynWebsiteInstagram-Follow 〰️〰️Shanny 👖〰️〰️YouTubeFacebookInstagramTikTokwww.ShannyPantsShow.com-Subscribe to our podcast for more stories of hope and healingIf you or someone you know is struggling with similar experiences, don’t hesitate to reach out for support. Healing is possible, and you are not alone. Visit Living Cult Free to find some amazing resources. I am so happy to be a board director of this wonderful non-profit.Thank you for listening! Your support helps us share these important stories with the world. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The Shanny Pants Show Podcast: Kacey Episode Title: Cults, Survivors, and Storytelling with KaceyGuest: Kacey- Background: Creator and host of *The Cult Vault* podcast- Podcast Origin: Launched during the COVID-19 lockdown- Initial Focus: Researching and presenting historical cult cases- Evolution: Transitioned to a platform for survivors to share their personal stories Podcast Overview: - Theme: Focuses on cults and the experiences of cult survivors - Interviews with survivors and experts in the field - Coverage of current events related to cults- Production: Kacey handles all aspects—planning, research, scripting, editing, and uploading- Mission: Raise awareness about cults and provide support to survivorsKacey's Vision- Financial Viability: Aims to make *The Cult Vault* sustainable to support survivor charities- Support for Cult Victims: Interested in developing more resources and initiatives for those affected by cults Key Discussion Points- The importance of storytelling in healing for survivors- How *The Cult Vault* has evolved since its inception- Challenges and triumphs in creating a survivor-centered platform- Current events that highlight the ongoing issues surrounding cults- Future plans for *The Cult Vault* and collaborations with survivor organizationsTakeaways- The significance of raising awareness about cults and their impact on individuals- Encouragement for survivors to share their stories and seek support- The potential of podcasts as a medium for education and advocacy Where to Find Kacey- Listen to *The Cult Vault* wherever you get your podcasts- Follow Kacey on social media for updates and insights I thank Kacey for her invaluable insights and contributions to the conversation on cults and survivor support.I encourage listeners to share the episode and support Kacey's mission.Find out more about Kacey and The Cult Vault Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of The Shanny Pants Show, Shanny Payton engages in a heartfelt conversation with Jerald, who shares his journey from growing up in a strict Baptist church to navigating life after leaving the ministry. They discuss the challenges of childhood experiences in a cult, the impact of religious trauma, and the importance of breaking the cycle for their children. The conversation also touches on evolving beliefs, the complexities of family relationships, and the journey towards personal growth and healing.TakeawaysJerald's upbringing in a strict Baptist church influenced his life choices.Leaving the church led to a significant personal transformation for Jerald.The importance of addressing childhood trauma in adulthood.Parenting styles have evolved to break the cycle of trauma.The significance of open communication in family relationships.Navigating the complexities of in-law relationships post-cult.The struggle of reconciling past beliefs with current values.The journey of self-discovery is ongoing and necessary.Spirituality can evolve and change over time.Connect with Us:〰️〰️Shanny 👖〰️〰️YouTubeFacebookInstagramTikTokwww.ShannyPantsShow.com-Subscribe to our podcast for more stories of hope and healingIf you or someone you know is struggling with similar experiences, don’t hesitate to reach out for support. Healing is possible, and you are not alone. Visit Living Cult Free to find some amazing resources. I am so happy to be a board director of this wonderful non-profit.Thank you for listening! Your support helps us share these important stories with the world.The views, thoughts, and opinions expressed are the speaker’s own and do not represent the views, thoughts, and opinions of the host. The material and information presented here is for general information purposes only. The Shanny Pants Show name and all forms and abbreviations are the property of its owner and its use does not imply endorsement of or opposition to any specific organization, product, or service. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this engaging podcast episode, Shanny Payton interviews Shelly Snow Pordea, a novelist and screenwriter, about her journey of writing a new book that explores themes of abuse, control, and the role of the church in personal narratives. They discuss the emotional process of writing, the importance of storytelling in healing, and the target audience for the book. Shelly shares insights on the complexities of her characters and the societal issues they represent, while also providing resources for cult survivors. The conversation highlights the significance of asking questions and sparking discussions around difficult topics.Shelly's book aims to empower women who have experienced manipulation and control.The church plays a significant role in shaping societal views on women and relationships.Writing can be a therapeutic process that aids in personal healing.It's important to address the complexities of abuse and not oversimplify the narrative.Shelly hopes her book will spark conversations about difficult topics.The target audience for the book includes women in conservative circles who have faced abuse.Validation from others can help in recognizing past trauma and abuse.Exploring different therapeutic methods can aid in healing from cult experiences.The importance of storytelling in processing personal experiences and trauma.Shelly emphasizes the need for open discussions about the impact of cults and abusive relationships.Connect with Shelly:InstagramFacebookThe Cheating WifeWebsiteConnect with Us:- Follow 〰️〰️Shanny 👖〰️〰️YouTubeFacebookInstagramTikTokwww.ShannyPantsShow.com-Subscribe to our podcast for more stories of hope and healingIf you or someone you know is struggling with similar experiences, don’t hesitate to reach out for support. Healing is possible, and you are not alone. Visit Living Cult Free to find some amazing resources. I am so happy to be a board member of this wonderful non-profit.Thank you for listening! Your support helps us share these important stories with the world. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode with Ryan GeorgeHost: Shanny  Guest:Ryan George  Episode Title: Hurt and healed by the Church: Ryan George's Journey of HopeIn this powerful episode, host Shanny sits down with Ryan George, author and survivor of an abusive childhood rooted in religious trauma. Ryan shares his deeply personal story of resilience after facing unimaginable challenges, including the shocking revelation of his father's predatory behavior as a pastor.What would you do if you learned from a podcast that your dad—a pastor—was a serial sexual abuser? For Ryan, this wasn’t a hypothetical scenario; it was a painful reality that forced him to confront the faces behind the stories he had heard. As he delved into the dysfunction and abuse within the cult of his youth, Ryan recognized that such predatory behavior was often woven into the very fabric of his former faith.Rather than allowing this trauma to destroy his spirit, Ryan found solace in a different understanding of Jesus—one that is tender and redemptive. In his new book, *Hurt and Healed by the Church*, he recounts how he separated his faith from the harmful doctrines of American fundamentalism. Through candid reflections, Ryan illustrates the mental shifts and restorative relationships that guided him toward healing from church trauma and spiritual manipulation.If you've experienced church hurt or are grappling with your faith in light of past abuse, Ryan’s insights offer a path to rebuild your faith without feeling like you’re abandoning it. His story serves as a beacon of hope and inspiration, demonstrating that unorthodox redemption is possible.Key Takeaways:- Understanding the reality of abuse within religious institutions- The journey of separating faith from harmful beliefs- Finding healing and restoration after church trauma- The importance of community and supportive relationships in recovery- How rebuilding faith can lead to a more compassionate and loving understanding of spiritualityResources Mentioned:- Ryan George’s new book: *Hurt and Healed by the Church*See Book HereFind out more about Ryan HereConnect with Us:- Follow 〰️〰️Shanny 👖〰️〰️YouTubeFacebookInstagramTikTokwww.ShannyPantsShow.com-Subscribe to our podcast for more stories of hope and healingCall to Action:If you or someone you know is struggling with similar experiences, don’t hesitate to reach out for support. Healing is possible, and you are not alone. Visit Living Cult Free to find some amazing resources. I am so happy to be a board member of this wonderful non-profit.Thank you for listening! Your support helps us share these important stories with the world.YouTube audio codes: WKUPCL5WQNESFGSW RXVBMJG5WCAJUYES Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

My sister Carrie and I laugh so much during this episode. We talk about the ridiculous rules that we put up with growing up in a cult. 〰️〰️Shanny 👖〰️〰️LinkTreeInstagram TikTokYouTube Facebook www.ShannyPantsShow.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Katherine Spearing MA, CTRC is the founder of Tears of Eden, a nonprofit supporting survivors of spiritual abuse, and the host of Tears' affiliate podcast Uncertain. She also hosts the podcast Trauma & Pop Culture and is a Certified Trauma Recovery Coach working primarily with clients who have survived cults, high-control environments, spiritual abuse, and sexual abuse. She also provides specialized trauma informed career coaching, as folks with trauma often need extra support for interviewing and networking. Katherine is the author of a historical romantic comedy, Hartfords, a novel that challenges gender roles in a patriarchal society that will appeal to fans of Jane Austen. She has been a guest on a number of podcasts, including IndoctriNation and That’s So Fcked Up, is the author of several nonfiction articles, and writes regularly at katherinespearing.com and tearsofeden.org-〰️〰️Shanny 👖〰️〰️YouTubeFacebookInstagramTikTokwww.ShannyPantsShow.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Cait was such a lovely guest! We have so much in common and I had to edit our talk down a ton because we chatted for such a long time. If you were a part of my cult/group, you will see lots of similarities in Cait's story. From Cait:When I left home at the age of twenty-five, I had no idea what my path would look like. I had no story to tell. I had spent my entire life in the Christian Patriarchy and Stay-at-Home-Daughter Movements, only to realize that I didn’t belong. My story had always been written for me, and now I was taking over the pen for the first time.In the words of Maya Angelou, “There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you.”I used to think I could rewrite my whole life, come clean somehow, and pretend I never had a past of oppression and abuse. I didn’t want to be the victim, the pitied, the weak. But the years have taught me that there is no easy way to delete bitter memories or old scars. I can’t separate the good from the bad. So, I’m moving forward, not chained to the past, but liberated from it, carrying with me the old stories, if only as a preface to the new.After I got out, I studied creative writing and publishing at Michigan State University and served on the editorial team for Fourth Genre: Explorations in Nonfiction. My work has been featured in 3288 Review, Dunes Review, Fourth Genre, Hawai`i Pacific Review, The Revealer, and Religion Dispatches.I work full time as a book editor, and I also serve on the editorial board for Tears of Eden, a nonprofit providing resources for survivors of spiritual abuse, and cohost the podcast Survivors Discuss.My debut memoir, Rift: A Memoir of Breaking Away from Christian Patriarchy, will be available on April 30, 2024.www.caitwest.com〰️〰️Shanny 👖〰️〰️YouTubeFacebookInstagramTikTokwww.ShannyPantsShow.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Eric Skwarczynski Featured in Let us Prey Documentary Host, Preacher Boys PodcastEXPOSINGThe Preacher Boys podcast exists to shed a bright spotlight on the very real subject of mental, physical, and sexual abuse within Independent Fundamental Baptist (IFB) churches.While IFB churches do not have a monopoly on abuse – it is an undeniable problem within the movement and must be addressed.ENGAGINGThe Preacher Boys podcast exists to engage thoughtfully on the subject of abuse.The Preacher Boys podcast is not a satire site, nor is it a reflection of a personal vendetta against all who identify with the movement.We must look objectively at the issues at hand, using relevant data and dialoguing with survivors to better understand and deconstruct the religious sub-cultures that lend themselves to abuse.Every survivor's story is worthy to be told, and every survivor has equal value, regardless of their gender, ethnicity, current religious affiliation, sexual orientation, age, or any other factor.EQUIPPINGThe Preacher Boys Podcast exists not only to rally not only survivors and advocates now outside the movement, but also to spark a fire of change within – leading current congregants, leaders, and pastors to effect change in their own churches.Through interviews and contributed resources from trauma therapists, mental health experts, law enforcement, clergy, and other specialists, the Preacher Boys podcast should be a growing library of information for the pastor hoping to strengthen the security of their church, their capacity to minister to the hurting, and their ability to be what the church should have been – a place of refuge and safety.Find Eric HereInstagramFacebookPodcast〰️〰️Shanny 👖〰️〰️YouTubeFacebookInstagramTikTokwww.ShannyPantsShow.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

ABOUT Jon Jon Snow is an actor and writer, but he is first and foremost the survivor of both a cult, and of sexual abuse. Raised primarily in St. Louis, Missouri, Jon ran away from home and the cult when he was just 17 years old, between his junior and senior year of high school. The cult, the sexual assault, and the physical abuse endured from his mother, left Jon feeling powerless. A young man without a voice. Not long after running away, acting came calling in the form of a mostly paid for tuition at Southern Methodist University in Dallas, Texas. But even that was no walk in the park. He promptly failed out of college during his freshman year, after which he sheepishly returned to St. Louis.  Through hustle and hard work, Jon was able to find a coveted position as a reader for multiple casting offices around Los Angeles. And now, having been a participant in over 10,000 auditions to date, he has started teaching other actors the insights he has gleaned during his time as a reader.​Today, Jon's larger mission is to continue to find ways to deepen the connection to his voice, and to reach back out to those who feel powerless, voiceless, alone and afraid. Having walked that path, Jon can think of no better way than to shine a light in the darkness for others to follow. Even if it's just a single person, he knows it's all well worth the effort. ALL ABOUT JONAbout ShellyShelly Snow Pordea is a dynamic figure, renowned as a speaker, publishing consultant, and author of the captivating Tracing Time trilogy. This trilogy, a compelling narrative of women navigating the complexities of life while endeavoring to protect themselves and their loved ones, has consistently ranked among the top one hundred Time Travel Romance books on Amazon Kindle, attesting to its widespread popularity.​Beyond her literary achievements, Shelly is a courageous advocate for survivors of spiritual, sexual, and institutional abuse. Drawing from her own experiences as a cult survivor and victim of childhood sexual abuse, she utilizes the power of storytelling to effect change. Her forthcoming memoir and screenplay shed light on her journey, amplifying the voices of those who have faced similar challenges.​As a screenwriter, Shelly collaborates with her brother, actor Jon Snow, in the production of a fictional adaptation for a series drama based on her personal story. Shelly Snow Pordea invites you to join her journey on social media, where she shares her insights and creative endeavors. Follow her @shellysnowpordea for a glimpse into the world of a multifaceted storyteller and advocate. ALL ABOUT SHELLY〰️〰️Shanny 👖〰️〰️Instagram TikTokYouTube www.ShannyPantsShow.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

ABOUT Jon Jon Snow is an actor and writer, but he is first and foremost the survivor of both a cult, and of sexual abuse. Raised primarily in St. Louis, Missouri, Jon ran away from home and the cult when he was just 17 years old, between his junior and senior year of high school. The cult, the sexual assault, and the physical abuse endured from his mother, left Jon feeling powerless. A young man without a voice. Not long after running away, acting came calling in the form of a mostly paid for tuition at Southern Methodist University in Dallas, Texas. But even that was no walk in the park. He promptly failed out of college during his freshman year, after which he sheepishly returned to St. Louis.  Through hustle and hard work, Jon was able to find a coveted position as a reader for multiple casting offices around Los Angeles. And now, having been a participant in over 10,000 auditions to date, he has started teaching other actors the insights he has gleaned during his time as a reader.​Today, Jon's larger mission is to continue to find ways to deepen the connection to his voice, and to reach back out to those who feel powerless, voiceless, alone and afraid. Having walked that path, Jon can think of no better way than to shine a light in the darkness for others to follow. Even if it's just a single person, he knows it's all well worth the effort. ALL ABOUT JONAbout ShellyShelly Snow Pordea is a dynamic figure, renowned as a speaker, publishing consultant, and author of the captivating Tracing Time trilogy. This trilogy, a compelling narrative of women navigating the complexities of life while endeavoring to protect themselves and their loved ones, has consistently ranked among the top one hundred Time Travel Romance books on Amazon Kindle, attesting to its widespread popularity.​Beyond her literary achievements, Shelly is a courageous advocate for survivors of spiritual, sexual, and institutional abuse. Drawing from her own experiences as a cult survivor and victim of childhood sexual abuse, she utilizes the power of storytelling to effect change. Her forthcoming memoir and screenplay shed light on her journey, amplifying the voices of those who have faced similar challenges.​As a screenwriter, Shelly collaborates with her brother, actor Jon Snow, in the production of a fictional adaptation for a series drama based on her personal story. Shelly Snow Pordea invites you to join her journey on social media, where she shares her insights and creative endeavors. Follow her @shellysnowpordea for a glimpse into the world of a multifaceted storyteller and advocate. ALL ABOUT SHELLY〰️〰️Shanny 👖〰️〰️Instagram TikTokYouTube www.ShannyPantsShow.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Shanny and sister Carrie discuss how they were never allowed to Celebrate Christmas until they left the cult they were raised in. Ready for some laughs. We have them for you! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jessica Willis Fisher is a singer/songwriter, performing artist, speaker, and author who believes that sharing our stories with one another will change the world. Growing up the eldest daughter in a controlling and abusive household, she performed with her family band, The Willis Clan, until her departure in 2016 at the age of 23. Her first book, Unspeakable, narrates her harrowing struggle to both articulate her childhood experience and find her true voice on the other side of emotional, physical, and sexual abuse. A passionate advocate for survivors, Jessica lives in Nashville, TN.UNSPEAKABLE:Surviving My Childhood and Finding My VoiceBrought up under the strange philosophies of her controlling father, young Jessica Willis was curious about the outside world. She wondered if other girls were forbidden to disagree with their elders. If other mothers feared their husbands. If other daddies came into their daughters’ bedrooms at night. In Unspeakable, her debut memoir, Jessica Willis Fisher gives a lacerating portrait of a girl who was famous yet unknown, dreaming of freedom and terrified of finding it. Stunning in its detailed, poetic prose, Unspeakable takes us on a journey through a chaotic and crowded childhood, first kisses and first love, an electrifying court case that brings new losses to the surface, and a tumultuous journey of a faith so different from the one Jessica first knew.WebsiteYOUTUBE〰️〰️Shanny 👖〰️〰️LinkTreeTikTokYouTube www.ShannyPantsShow.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

SummaryIn this episode of the Shanny Pants Show, Shanny interviews Mike Boyd, a former cult member, about his experiences and recovery. Mike shares how he joined the cult and the challenges he faced within it, including the amplification of destructive behavior and struggles with love, value, and acceptance. He discusses his journey of anger and healing, including his experience with therapy and the importance of community in the recovery process. Mike also talks about writing a book on cult recovery and offers advice for those still in the cult.TakeawaysJoining a cult can lead to amplified destructive behavior and struggles with love, value, and acceptance.Recovery from cult experiences may require addressing anger and seeking healing through therapy and community support.Writing and sharing personal stories can help others in their own recovery journeys.It is important to find trusted individuals and communities who can provide support and understanding during the recovery process.As many people begin their quest of seeking God, they all too often can overlook the destructive force of a church or religion that may not be readily visible. These destructive forces can sometimes be overshadowed by the things that are positive about their newly found religious journey. These destructive forces can sometimes come in the form of physical abuse but can oftentimes come through emotional abuse. These disturbances can overpower a person's life and they can also feel all alone with their religiously oppressive experience. With the author's own personal experience of being a part of an abusive cult church for 26 years, he offers understanding, hope, healing, and a way through the trauma through a twelve-step process. -CULT CANDYCult Candy-Youtube Links:Introduction https://youtu.be/PIhJcggFqa8?si=BNpj33whC-4M8_CzElitismhttps://youtu.be/12fxb3LCsdo?si=JE2nY1iInimL6lIUIsolationismhttps://youtu.be/sGUq43Ovde0?si=Nl7Z2P2CdEgt-2pjTotalismhttps://youtu.be/Th8WNlsprlw?si=Wvr7yqtafQJneN_ULegalismhttps://youtu.be/EBILT1h7ffc?si=H3dg4dR4M8yuwT3DFace Book Linkhttps://www.facebook.com/cultcandyinfo Contact Mike cult.candi@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

For over two decades, Rebekah has held a global presence through devoting her efforts to various nonprofits and organizations.  Her background is diverse, including educational and mental health content development, international relations, and public speaking.Currently, Rebekah is the Interim Chief Executive Officer of NPE Friends Fellowship, an international non-profit organization which assists individuals, and their families, who have received unexpected results from an at-home DNA test.Rebekah is also a consultant, writer, and advocate at RebekahDrumsta.com with the mission of supporting survivors of spiritual abuse and religious trauma by providing resources to educate and equip not only survivors, but the public as well. Sharing her own story to help others who have had similar life experiences is at the heart of Rebekah’s purpose. She is a board member with two non-profit organizations The Vashti Initiative and the Attachment and Trauma Network. Rebekah’s hobbies include binge watching riveting shows, thrifting with her family, international travel, and dabbling in all things creative and artistic. Rebekah and her family reside in Texas.   Rebekah holds undergraduate and advanced degrees in: Urban Ministry and Family Crisis, Counseling, and Religious Education and is also a Certified Professional Life Coach. She has made appearances on and consulted with sources including BBC, NBC and ABC, and a variety of other platforms such as podcasts and film projects. Rebekah’s book, When Family Hurts: 30 Days to Finding Healing and Clarity, was released in December of 2021. She is a co-author of the research paper, Percentage of U.S. Adults Suffering from Religious Trauma: A Sociological Study, as well as an author in the 2023 collaborative book, Hope in the 2020s: Encouragement for our time.Credit: www.rebekahdrumsta.com/aboutInstagram: rebekahdrumstaFacebook: DrumstaRebekahTwitter: DrumstaRebekahWebsite: rebekahdrumsta.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.