The Strong Life Project Podcast

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EP 3555 Low standards ruin high potential

Most people don’t fail because they lack talent. They fail because they tolerate standards that are too low. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman cuts through the excuses and exposes how average habits quietly destroy high potential. If you say you want more from life but accept mediocrity in your daily actions, this episode will confront that gap fast. High performers are not special. They are strict. They hold the line when it would be easier to let things slide. This conversation challenges you to take an honest look at where you have lowered your standards in your thinking, behaviour, relationships, health, and leadership. Because potential without discipline is nothing more than wishful thinking. Key Takeaways: Why talent means nothing without non-negotiable standards How small compromises create long-term failure The link between self-respect and personal standards Why consistency beats motivation every time How raising standards instantly raises performance and confidence If you are serious about becoming who you are capable of being, this episode will push you to stop negotiating with mediocrity and start demanding more from yourself. Listen on: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube The post EP 3555 Low standards ruin high potential appeared first on The Strong Life Project.

12-08
09:23

EP 3554 When their actions show they don’t love you, believe them

Words are cheap. Behaviour never lies. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman delivers a blunt reality check about relationships, self respect, and emotional honesty. If someone says they care but consistently shows you otherwise, the problem is not confusion. The problem is denial. High performers stop negotiating with reality and start making decisions that protect their standards, energy, and mental health. This episode cuts through excuses, false hope, and emotional bargaining. It challenges you to stop chasing validation, stop rewriting people’s behaviour to feel safe, and start believing what is right in front of you. Respect is demonstrated. Love is consistent. Anything else is noise. Key Takeaways: Why actions always matter more than words How ignoring behaviour erodes self respect and confidence The cost of staying where you are not valued How to detach from false hope without becoming bitter What emotional maturity and healthy boundaries actually look like If you are stuck waiting for someone to change, this episode is the wake up call you need. Listen now and choose clarity, self respect, and strength over comfort. Listen on: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube The post EP 3554 When their actions show they don’t love you, believe them appeared first on The Strong Life Project.

12-07
09:35

EP 3553 Tough circumstances don’t excuse shit behaviour

Life will hit you hard. Stress, loss, pressure, fatigue, unfair situations. None of it gives you a free pass to treat people poorly or abandon your standards. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman delivers a blunt reminder that character is revealed under pressure, not in comfort. High performers and strong leaders take responsibility for their behaviour regardless of circumstances. Excuses weaken trust, damage relationships, and destroy credibility. Key Takeaways: Why difficult circumstances reveal true character The danger of justifying poor behaviour with stress or hardship How personal accountability separates strong leaders from victims The long-term cost of emotional reactivity and excuses Practical ways to regulate emotions and uphold standards under pressure If you want respect, trust, and impact in your life and leadership, this episode is required listening. Tough times are not the problem. How you behave in them is. Listen on: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube The post EP 3553 Tough circumstances don’t excuse shit behaviour appeared first on The Strong Life Project.

12-06
09:51

EP 3552 Be so busy loving life you don’t have time to hate

Hate, resentment, and bitterness are distractions that drain your energy and sabotage your performance. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman challenges you to take responsibility for where your focus goes. High performers don’t waste time replaying grudges or feeding anger. They put their energy into building a life that actually matters to them. This episode cuts through the noise and reminds you that your attention is one of your most valuable assets. What you focus on grows. When you choose purpose, connection, growth, and gratitude, there is simply no room left for hate. Key Takeaways: Why hate and resentment cost you more than the person you’re angry at How emotional energy directly impacts performance and wellbeing The discipline of choosing focus over fixation How building a meaningful life naturally crowds out negativity Practical ways to redirect your energy toward what actually matters If you’ve been stuck in anger, frustration, or resentment, this episode is a wake-up call. Listen now and start investing your time and energy into living fully, not carrying emotional dead weight. Listen on: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube The post EP 3552 Be so busy loving life you don’t have time to hate appeared first on The Strong Life Project.

12-06
09:52

EP 3551 Putting yourself out there is like standing in a spotlight

Stepping into the arena of life exposes you. When you put yourself out there, it feels like standing under a spotlight where everyone can see your flaws, doubts and imperfections. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman unpacks why visibility is uncomfortable and why it’s also essential for growth. High performers do not hide. They take the risk of being seen because they understand that feedback, criticism and vulnerability are the price of impact. Key Takeaways: Why visibility triggers self doubt and fear of judgment How hiding protects your ego but destroys your potential The mindset shift required to embrace being seen Why criticism is a sign you are playing bigger, not failing How to build resilience by choosing action over avoidance If you want to lead, influence or grow, you must be willing to step into the light. Listen now and learn how to show up with confidence, strength and purpose. Listen on: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube Follow Shaun O’Gorman for more high performance insights. The post EP 3551 Putting yourself out there is like standing in a spotlight appeared first on The Strong Life Project.

12-04
10:02

EP 3550 Be yourself, everyone else is taken

Perfection is the ultimate handbrake on progress. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman dismantles the belief that you need everything flawless before you take action. High performers don’t wait for the perfect time, the perfect plan, or the perfect conditions. They execute, learn, adapt, and build momentum while everyone else is still overthinking. Key Takeaways: Why perfectionism is just fear dressed up as “standards” How waiting for perfect kills opportunity, confidence, and growth The performance advantages of taking imperfect action consistently Practical ways to lower the barrier to starting and increase follow-through How leaders and high achievers create results by embracing execution over hesitation If you want to achieve more, start now, refine later, and let action be your competitive edge. Listen now and break the paralysis of perfectionism. Listen on: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube Follow Shaun O’Gorman for more high-performance insights. The post EP 3550 Be yourself, everyone else is taken appeared first on The Strong Life Project.

12-03
09:51

EP 3549 Done is better than perfect

Perfection is the ultimate handbrake on progress. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman dismantles the belief that you need everything flawless before you take action. High performers don’t wait for the perfect time, the perfect plan, or the perfect conditions. They execute, learn, adapt, and build momentum while everyone else is still overthinking. Key Takeaways: Why perfectionism is just fear dressed up as “standards” How waiting for perfect kills opportunity, confidence, and growth The performance advantages of taking imperfect action consistently Practical ways to lower the barrier to starting and increase follow-through How leaders and high achievers create results by embracing execution over hesitation If you want to achieve more, start now, refine later, and let action be your competitive edge. Listen now and break the paralysis of perfectionism. Listen on: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube Follow Shaun O’Gorman for more high-performance insights. The post EP 3549 Done is better than perfect appeared first on The Strong Life Project.

12-02
09:47

EP 3548 Eat your vegetables first

Your mindset is the ceiling on your performance. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman breaks down the undeniable truth that your results, behaviours, and outcomes will never exceed the quality of your thinking. High-performance living starts in your head long before it shows up in your actions. If you think small, you act small. If you think powerfully, you create powerful results. Shaun unpacks why mental programming, self-belief, and internal dialogue determine whether you rise, plateau, or break down under pressure. Leaders, athletes, and driven individuals must learn to challenge their thinking, upgrade their internal narrative, and consciously choose thoughts that support the life they want to build. Key Takeaways: Why your mindset sets the limits on your performance How negative self-talk sabotages results before you even begin The connection between beliefs, behaviour, and high performance How to identify and interrupt unhelpful thinking patterns Practical tools to build a stronger, more resilient inner dialogue If you want stronger outcomes, start with stronger thinking. Listen now and learn how to create a mindset that matches the life and impact you want. Listen on: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube The post EP 3548 Eat your vegetables first appeared first on The Strong Life Project.

12-01
09:31

EP 3547 You can’t outperform how you think

Your mindset is the ceiling on your performance. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman breaks down the undeniable truth that your results, behaviours, and outcomes will never exceed the quality of your thinking. High-performance living starts in your head long before it shows up in your actions. If you think small, you act small. If you think powerfully, you create powerful results. Shaun unpacks why mental programming, self-belief, and internal dialogue determine whether you rise, plateau, or break down under pressure. Leaders, athletes, and driven individuals must learn to challenge their thinking, upgrade their internal narrative, and consciously choose thoughts that support the life they want to build. Key Takeaways: Why your mindset sets the limits on your performance How negative self-talk sabotages results before you even begin The connection between beliefs, behaviour, and high performance How to identify and interrupt unhelpful thinking patterns Practical tools to build a stronger, more resilient inner dialogue If you want stronger outcomes, start with stronger thinking. Listen now and learn how to create a mindset that matches the life and impact you want. Listen on: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube The post EP 3547 You can’t outperform how you think  appeared first on The Strong Life Project.

11-30
10:30

EP 3546 The breakdown comes just before the breakthrough

When everything feels like it is falling apart, it is often a sign that you are closer to your next level than you realise. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman unpacks why breakdown moments are not failures but signals that growth is happening. High performers understand that pressure, uncertainty, and emotional intensity often precede major transformation. The question is whether you collapse under the weight or rise because of it. Key Takeaways: Why breakdowns are a natural part of high performance and personal evolution How extreme pressure exposes what needs to change The mindset shift required to move from overwhelm to opportunity How to use adversity as a catalyst for strength, clarity, and purpose Why staying committed during hard times leads to your biggest breakthroughs If you are in a tough season, this episode will help you reframe the struggle and stay focused on the transformation that is waiting on the other side. Listen now and take the next step toward your breakthrough. Listen on: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube The post EP 3546 The breakdown comes just before the breakthrough appeared first on The Strong Life Project.

11-29
09:57

EP 3545 You can’t win if you’re not in the game

Too many people sit on the sidelines of their own lives, waiting for the perfect moment, the perfect plan, or the perfect level of confidence. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman breaks down the truth that high performers already live by: success only happens when you step up and take action. Playing it safe means staying stuck. Growth, opportunity, and impact only come to those who are willing to get in the arena. Key Takeaways: Why hesitation kills more dreams than failure ever will How action creates clarity, confidence, and momentum The power of imperfect progress over waiting for perfection Why risk is necessary if you want to achieve anything meaningful How to build a mindset that pushes you into the arena instead of away from it If you want to win, you have to be willing to show up, take risks, and back yourself. Listen now and start putting yourself in the game where real success is built. Listen on: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube Follow Shaun O’Gorman for more high-performance insights. The post EP 3545 You can’t win if you’re not in the game appeared first on The Strong Life Project.

11-28
09:58

EP 3544 If you want peace, you cannot participate in chaos”

Peace is not something you stumble into. It is something you create through deliberate choices and disciplined boundaries. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman breaks down the hard truth that you cannot live a peaceful life while engaging in drama, conflict, or chaotic environments. High performers understand that protecting their mental and emotional space is essential for clarity, leadership, and long-term success. Key Takeaways: Why true peace requires intentional decisions, not wishful thinking How engaging in chaos destroys focus, composure, and performance The power of boundaries in protecting your mental well-being How to step out of reactive behaviour and operate with purpose Why leaders must choose calm over conflict to stay effective Your peace is your responsibility. If you want a stronger mind, better relationships, and sharper performance, you must remove yourself from the environments and behaviours that create chaos. Listen now and learn how to build a life that supports clarity, strength, and resilience. Listen on: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube Follow Shaun O’Gorman for more high-performance insights. The post EP 3544 If you want peace, you cannot participate in chaos” appeared first on The Strong Life Project.

11-27
10:04

EP 3543 You have to be comfortable they won’t understand

If you are committed to growth, resilience, and high performance, there will be people who simply do not understand your decisions, your standards, or your mission. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman unpacks why the path to excellence often requires standing alone. The higher you climb, the fewer people will relate to your mindset, your discipline, and your choices — and that’s exactly how it’s meant to be. Key Takeaways: Why high performers must detach from needing external approval How to handle criticism, confusion, or judgment from others The importance of backing your own decisions even when you stand alone Why choosing growth often means leaving comfort and familiarity behind How to stay focused on your purpose when others can’t see your vision If you want to live a strong, bold, purpose-driven life, you must stop expecting the world to understand your standards. Listen now and learn how to lead yourself with conviction and clarity. Listen on: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube The post EP 3543 You have to be comfortable they won’t understand appeared first on The Strong Life Project.

11-26
09:50

EP 3542 Don’t forget to sing in the life boats

When life hits hard, most people go straight into survival mode. But high performers know that even in the chaos, stress, and uncertainty, you must find moments of gratitude and perspective. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman explores why you can’t wait for life to calm down before you start living it. The lifeboats are where resilience is forged, and your ability to stay present, grounded, and grateful during the hard times determines who you become afterward. Key Takeaways: Why waiting for the “perfect moment” keeps you stuck How to find perspective and meaning during adversity The role gratitude plays in building resilience and emotional strength Why your mindset in the toughest seasons decides your future success How to stay connected to what matters when everything feels uncertain Life doesn’t stop because you’re struggling. This episode shows you how to reclaim joy, focus, and purpose—even while rowing through the storm. Listen on: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube Follow Shaun O’Gorman for more high-performance insights. The post EP 3542 Don’t forget to sing in the life boats appeared first on The Strong Life Project.

11-25
10:32

EP 3541 Take the risk or lose the chance

Every great breakthrough in life comes down to one decision: take the risk or stay exactly where you are. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman challenges you to stop playing small and start backing yourself. High performers understand that opportunity doesn’t wait—you have to move, decide, and take calculated risks before the moment passes. This episode dives deep into what holds people back from taking bold action, why fear of failure keeps you stuck, and how stepping into uncertainty is the only path to growth, fulfilment, and success. If you want to lead, grow, and create a life you’re proud of, you must be willing to bet on yourself. Key Takeaways: Why waiting for the “perfect time” is the biggest trap How fear creates hesitation and kills opportunity The mindset shift required to take bold action Why calculated risks lead to confidence and momentum How high performers build trust in themselves through action Your next level requires courage. Listen now and learn how to seize opportunities before they disappear. Listen on: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube Follow Shaun O’Gorman for more high-performance insights. The post EP 3541 Take the risk or lose the chance appeared first on The Strong Life Project.

11-24
10:17

EP 3540 No pressure. No diamonds

Pressure isn’t the enemy. In fact, it’s the birthplace of growth, excellence, and high performance. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman breaks down why the challenges you face are exactly what shape you into someone capable of more. Without pressure, you stay comfortable. And comfort is where potential goes to die. High performers don’t run from pressure—they learn how to use it. This episode will help you reframe stress, adversity, and discomfort as the catalysts that turn you into the strongest, most capable version of yourself. Key Takeaways: Why pressure is essential for high performance and personal growth How adversity builds resilience, confidence, and mental toughness The difference between destructive pressure and performance pressure How to choose challenge over comfort to unlock your full potential Practical ways to embrace pressure and grow through it instead of avoiding it If you want to become someone extraordinary, you need the kind of pressure that forces transformation. Listen now and learn how to turn challenges into your greatest advantage. Listen on: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube The post EP 3540 No pressure. No diamonds appeared first on The Strong Life Project.

11-23
09:40

EP 3539 Entitlement reigns supreme

We live in a world where entitlement is becoming the default setting. People expect rewards without effort, praise without performance, and comfort without challenge. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman calls out the entitlement mentality that weakens resilience, destroys work ethic, and keeps people from achieving real success. High performers know that nothing great is owed to them. They earn it. They grind for it. They take responsibility for their outcomes. This episode is a wake-up call for anyone slipping into excuses, victim thinking, or waiting for life to hand them what they haven’t worked for. Key Takeaways: Why entitlement is the enemy of growth and high performance How society reinforces comfort over accountability The mindset shift that separates achievers from excuse-makers Why resilience comes from ownership, not expectation How to reclaim discipline, responsibility, and personal standards If you want to lead, perform, and live at your highest level, entitlement has no place in your life. Listen now and learn how to choose responsibility, discipline, and action over excuses. Listen on: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube Follow Shaun O’Gorman for more high-performance insights. The post EP 3539 Entitlement reigns supreme appeared first on The Strong Life Project.

11-22
10:28

EP 3538 The fear is telling you it’s the right thing

When you feel fear showing up before a big decision, a bold move, or a life-changing opportunity, it’s usually a sign you’re headed in the right direction. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman breaks down why fear is often a compass pointing directly toward your growth. High performers know that the biggest breakthroughs live on the other side of discomfort, and avoiding fear is the fastest way to stay stuck where you are. Key Takeaways: Why fear shows up when you’re about to level up How your brain tries to protect you from change and risk The difference between instinctive danger and psychological fear How leaning into fear builds confidence and resilience Why the actions you resist the most are often the ones you need the most If you want a bigger life, you have to stop running from fear and start reading it as a signal to move. Listen now and learn how to turn fear into fuel for growth, success, and high performance. Listen on: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube The post EP 3538 The fear is telling you it’s the right thing appeared first on The Strong Life Project.

11-22
10:32

EP 3537 Public success vs private sacrifice

Everyone sees the wins, the status, the achievements—but almost no one sees what it costs. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman exposes the truth behind high performance: every public success is built on private sacrifice. Whether you are a leader, athlete, business owner, or someone striving for more, the price you pay behind the scenes determines how far you go. Key Takeaways: Why high performers must embrace sacrifice instead of avoiding it The difference between healthy discipline and destructive self-neglect How to balance ambition with self-care, relationships, and mental health The real cost of excellence and how to make sure it’s worth it Why comparison is dangerous when you only see others’ highlight reels Success isn’t accidental—it’s the result of choosing the hard path when no one is watching. Listen now to understand the real game behind performance and how to pursue greatness without destroying your life in the process. Listen on: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube Follow Shaun O’Gorman for more high-performance insights. The post EP 3537 Public success vs private sacrifice appeared first on The Strong Life Project.

11-20
09:50

EP 3536 Thinking won’t overcome fear. Action does

Overthinking is the silent trap that keeps people stuck. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman breaks down why fear doesn’t disappear through planning, analysing, or waiting for the perfect moment. The only thing that destroys fear is action. High performers understand that courage is built through movement, not thought. If you want to transform your business, relationships, or personal life, you cannot think your way into confidence—you must act your way into it. Key Takeaways: • Why overthinking keeps you paralysed and trapped in fear • How taking small, consistent actions builds real confidence • The difference between preparation and procrastination • Why high performers prioritise action even when they feel uncertain • Practical steps to override fear with momentum If fear is limiting your potential, this episode will teach you how to break the cycle and create unstoppable progress. Listen now and start building the courage you’ve been waiting for. Listen on: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube Follow Shaun O’Gorman for more high-performance insights. The post EP 3536 Thinking won’t overcome fear. Action does appeared first on The Strong Life Project.

11-19
09:37

Stoic Spaceman

This is one of the best podcasts i’ve ever come across! You’ve given me much clarity on a lot of topics, I am grateful. 🙏

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Youmin An

I love him!

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Deeana Rowland

thanks for this podcast Shaun. I don't believe in feeding the fear in our current situation. it's good to see others have a similar approach

03-28 Reply

Lee Fulton

great talk so true, being in the job i here those stories and comments so much. Really rings home.

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Joshua Ashkar

i absolutely needed this today

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