Claim OwnershipThe Suzanne Venker Show
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TIRED OF THE LIES AND THE SPIN perpetuated in the culture about men and women, sex and love, marriage and motherhood? If so, get ready to hear hard-hitting truths that will make you cry out “Yes! Finally someone tells it like it is!”
In her signature no-nonsense style, author and relationship coach Suzanne Venker offers support, motivation, and countercultural guidance on how to prioritize love and family and build strong relationships at home.
In her signature no-nonsense style, author and relationship coach Suzanne Venker offers support, motivation, and countercultural guidance on how to prioritize love and family and build strong relationships at home.
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In this episode, Suzanne talks with Alex Clark of Turning Point USA about, among other things, why it’s more important than ever to raise children who do not toe the cultural line but who instead march to their own drum— whether we’re talking about health and wellness (which is Alex’s passion) or careers, or debt and lifestyle, or Suzanne’s fav: marriage and family.
Alex is the host of the formerly titled podcast The Spillover which has since been rebranded as Culture Apothecary. Alex has made it her mission to take on Big Pharma to make America healthy again.
The video interview is on youtube: https://youtu.be/ssP6bL37-rY
Do you want to increase your kids' chances of marital success? If so, this is the episode for you! Ana Samuel, a research scholar at the Witherspoon Institute in Princeton, NJ, joins Suzanne to discuss the unfortunate 2023 Pew finding that most parents today "do not consider it important” whether or not their kids marry and have children.
https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/01/24/parenting-in-america-today/
https://ifstudies.org/blog/why-we-are-doing-all-we-can-to-increase-our-kids-chances-of-marital-success
https://www.wsj.com/arts-culture/books/three-books-on-what-being-a-parent-really-means-1a83bb23
Suzanne answers an email about whether or not a family, after finally getting settled in the Midwests, should move to a big city for a higher paying job.
Suzanne reads several letters from women who've been shamed for prioritizing marriage and motherhood over career and juxtaposes this message with the reality of Barbara Walters' life, who did just that.
https://www.washingtonpost.com/books/2024/04/22/susan-page-rulebreaker-barbara-walters/
1Suzanne talks about her follow-up conversation with Alex Clark of The Spillover and the shocking reality women experience in becoming new mothers.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1zuLwSOLjZs&list=PLxx4kcMvHrwLrizrjHljVIsFqv7iLkbQa&index=4
The culture insists men and women would be happier if they pretended they're interchangeable and moved through life accordingly.
But study after study after study after study proves otherwise.
LINKS:https://news.illinois.edu/view/6367/542579https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2017/09/20/americans-see-men-as-the-financial-providers-even-as-womens-contributions-grow/https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2006/03/why-feminist-wives-are-unhappy.htmlhttps://thelibertarianrepublic.com/nyt-traditional-gender-roles-may-mean-better-marriages/
Suzanne responds to folks who suggested a new way to keep The Suzanne Venker Show going...
Suzanne makes an announcement about The Suzanne Venker Show and discusses her new book, How to Build a Better Life: A New Roadmap for Women Who Want to Prioritize Love & Family, which is now on sale at Amazon.
LINK:
https://www.suzannevenker.com/books/how-to-build-a-better-life/
Why should women (or men, for that matter) feel obligated to "change the world" when everyday life can be just as much, if not more, fulfilling?
What if staying focused on life in your own backyard brings more joy and satisfaction than trying to "disrupt the status quo"?
In this episode, Suzanne explains why women shouldn't feel pressure to live a big life when a smaller one is just as noble and gratifying.
https://www.artofmanliness.com/character/advice/podcast-962-the-case-for-minding-your-own-business/
https://www.nytimes.com/2019/04/15/opinion/cultural-revolution-meritocracy.html
Are you a single woman (or the parent of a single woman) who wants to take her foot off the gas pedal and settle down with a husband and kids? Are you a married mother who wants to quit her job and stay home with the littles, but your family and friends—even your own husband!—want you to continue to work full-time?
If so, you will NOT want to miss this episode! Suzanne has written a book just for you.
It’s called How to Build a Better Life: A New Roadmap for Women Who Want to Prioritize Love and Family, and you’ll hear all about it in this episode.
https://www.suzannevenker.com/books/how-to-build-a-better-life/
Dating in America has become an absolute mess. Men and women have no compass for how to proceed and no idea what the roles and the rules are anymore.
In this episode, Suzanne lists 7 dating rules for marriage-minded women since they have the power to get to what they ultimately want: marriage.
Don’t marry the first person you fall in love with. The more relationship experience you have before getting married, the better. That way you'll really “know” yourself when you say, ‘I do.’
For decades this has been the relationship narrative passed on to the young and unattached. But my experience as a relationship coach suggests the opposite is true.
So does the data.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LQ6WXvBvwWE
https://themattwalshblog.wordpress.com/2013/09/05/heres-some-honest-dating-advice/comment-page-1/
Overachieving is defined as the unrelenting drive for high performance, and women are drowning in this phenomenon. Suzanne reads from an article in the Wall Street Journal that explains how overachieving is a form of self-protection that is harmful to our physical and mental health and outlines three strategies to help women stop overachieving.
LINK:
https://www.wsj.com/health/wellness/for-happiness-in-the-new-year-stop-overdoing-everything-6b9a4b99
MARRIAGE OR RELATIONSHIP TROUBLES? Sign up here for coaching with Suzanne: https://www.suzannevenker.com/coaching/
Boomers are out enjoying retirement, and some millennials are feeling abandoned by their parents who are too busy to help raise their kids. Suzanne offers her take on this topic.
MARRIAGE OR RELATIONSHIP TROUBLES? Sign up here for coaching with Suzanne: https://www.suzannevenker.com/coaching/
Suzanne discusses the lies women have been fed and unearths the hard truths they need to know in order to help them construct happier lives.
IN THIS EPISODE:
What happens to women around the age of 30
Why marriage is more important than career
Why women are not emboldened by providing but men are
LINK:
https://www.foxnews.com/media/woman-30s-cries-describing-finally-wanting-kids-after-swearing-off-marriage-betrayed-feminism
MARRIAGE OR RELATIONSHIP TROUBLES? Sign up here for coaching with Suzanne: https://www.suzannevenker.com/coaching/
Merry Xmas, Everyone! I'm working on lots of things for the new year and may need to skip a week or two. But I'll be back with a bang!
Dr. Scott Gordon is a relationship coach and author affiliated with the Dad Starting Over organization. He focuses on masculine polarity and maintaining a balance of the lover/provider roles in marriage. He also specializes in repairing dead or dull bedrooms. Today he and I talk about raising countercultural kids so they can become independent minded, self-sustaining adults. We discuss:
Leading by example
Raising boys and girls differently
How to avoid being helicopter parents
How to create a family that functions as a team
How to slow down
MARRIAGE OR RELATIONSHIP TROUBLES? Sign up here for coaching with Suzanne: https://www.suzannevenker.com/coaching/
Suzanne reads emails from new mothers who feel like they're not doing enough by being at home with their babies.
MARRIAGE OR RELATIONSHIP TROUBLES? Sign up here for coaching with Suzanne: https://www.suzannevenker.com/coaching/
Suzanne talks with family law attorney Bernadette Barbee about financial infidelity in marriage and what money conflicts in marriage are really about.They both then describe what financial FIDELITY looks like in a strong marriage.IN THIS EPISODE:
the damage of having "his" and "her" accounts
"girl math" vs. real math
hiding money vs. transparency
out-of-control spending
MARRIAGE OR RELATIONSHIP TROUBLES?
Sign up here for coaching with Suzanne: https://www.suzannevenker.com/coaching/
Babies need constant nurturing in the early years. They are completely helpless and utterly dependent on their mothers—and not just to feed them and change their diapers. So many people think this is all that goes on during this stage, and they could not be more wrong.
Suzanne takes listeners on a journey to see what's really going on behind the scenes when Mom is home with her baby.
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Kind of a vacuous episode. starts with a fundamentally economic premise of lack of men with jobs is the problem, then proceeds to not mention economic solutions at all. only advocates for basically media and communication solutions. What about a jobs program to build employability & skills, like under FDR's New Deal? I agree with the "don't generalize about men" point, though.
I love this show and look forward to the new episodes each week. Suzanne asks great questions of her guests and she has great insights. It's also fun hearing her husband and Andre as well. My only complaint is that I wish they were longer! I feel like they could go a bit deeper! But even so I really enjoy this podcast and it has helped my marriage a lot. Thank you Suzanne!
My wife and I first found you when you showed up on Steven Crowder's podcast, on our honeymoon! She bought the Alpha Female's Guide and we both read it. What a wonderful gift to the world your work is, thank you so much.
Andre Paradis is very interesting to listen to but I do like have a variety of guests. I was so happy to be introduced to Erica Komisar.
I am loving this podcast! It is offering material and discussions that are not happening and need to. Thank you for bringing beginning this much needed conversation about womanhood, motherhood, and relationships.