The Tango Banter

Real talk on tango - a podcast about the dance, the drama, and everything in between. Candid conversations that mirror the thoughts we often keep to ourselves at milongas. Sharing the highs, lows, and the downright confusing moments we encounter in the tango world. Subscribe now and be part of the ongoing tango dialogue.

Building You Tango Musicality: tools, techniques, and mindset shifts

Musicality is the heart of social tango, shaping every step and connection on the dance floor. In this episode, I explore why musicality is essential for every dancer, regardless of background, and how you can develop it—even if you feel you lack natural musical ability. I share practical strategies for strengthening your relationship to tango music as a dancer which will improve your musicality on the dance floor. Tango Playlist Library: https://imsotango.namastream.com/product/70580 El Recodo: https://www.el-recodo.com/?lang=en Online Musicality Program: https://my.marvelouspages.com/imsotango/online-school-of-musicality Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango *Music courtesy of La Santa Calavera: “Un Día Nos Veremos” https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Ekzhqyp6d4CpdNqp6Wh3W

11-20
44:55

Choosing a Dance Partner: the secret traits dancers look for

Today I dig into the subtle factors that can set you apart as a tango dancer and make your presence memorable on the dance floor. I talk about what experienced dancers pay attention to when choosing partners and how to refine your dance in ways that attract the dancers you want to connect with. Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango *Music courtesy of La Santa Calavera: “Un Día Nos Veremos” https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Ekzhqyp6d4CpdNqp6Wh3W

11-13
50:46

From Drama to Connection: tango on social media

Today I dive into social media's influence on tango culture—and the highs and lows it brings to our everyday lives as dancers. Drawing from my personal journey and experiences in the tango community, I share tips to navigate social media in a healthier, more enjoyable way. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by online drama or find yourself curious about using social media platforms differently, this discussion will give you tools to connect more meaningfully without the burnout Instagram post of my favorite accounts: https://www.instagram.com/p/DCARgJAzVi_/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango *Music courtesy of La Santa Calavera: “Un Día Nos Veremos” https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Ekzhqyp6d4CpdNqp6Wh3W

11-06
38:48

DJing Tango: what you need to know to get started

Today I share my recent experience on a DJ panel and offer insights for those curious about becoming tango DJs. I break down the basics of getting started, even if you're a complete beginner, and discuss how to curate your first playlist without needing expensive software or a mentor. Whether you're interested in DJing or simply want to deepen your understanding of musicality for your dance, this episode has valuable tips for everyone. Stay tuned until the end for a special offer! Register to access my Spotify playlist here: https://imsotango.namastream.com/product/70580 El Recodo: https://www.el-recodo.com/tanda?lang=en 1 FREE month of my online musicality program: https://my.marvelouspages.com/imsotango/online-school-of-musicality Use discount code: fresedo ‌ Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango *Music courtesy of La Santa Calavera: “Un Día Nos Veremos” https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Ekzhqyp6d4CpdNqp6Wh3W

10-30
50:16

Attending Your First Tango Festival Alone: tips for success

Today we dive into the anxiety and excitement that comes with attending your first tango festival, especially when traveling solo. Drawing from personal experiences, I discuss the nervousness of stepping into unfamiliar territory and how to navigate the insecurities that arise. From the importance of showing up early to finding the right seat and attending mixers, I share practical tips that can make your festival experience more enjoyable and rewarding. Tune in for advice on how to connect with others, make lasting tango memories, and feel more confident on the dance floor. Diving from a 10 meter tower: https://youtu.be/5QMlIjSnt_E Montana Tango Festival: https://www.montanatango.com/ Albuquerque Tango Festival: http://albuquerquetangofestival.com Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango *Music courtesy of La Santa Calavera: “Un Día Nos Veremos” https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Ekzhqyp6d4CpdNqp6Wh3W

10-23
31:30

The Dance We Don’t Talk About: power dynamics in tango

Today I dive into a difficult but important conversation about power dynamics and respect in the tango world. Prompted by a recent public incident during a performance, I explore how moments like this expose deeper issues within professional and social tango relationships. I share my personal reactions, insights from the community, and reflections on how we, as dancers, can navigate these situations. Tune in to hear what this means for tango moving forward and why it's a wake-up call for all of us. Watch the performance I was talking about here: https://fb.watch/vbFgnOduq5/ Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango *Music courtesy of La Santa Calavera: “Un Día Nos Veremos” https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Ekzhqyp6d4CpdNqp6Wh3W

10-16
38:09

Tango Performances: essential or overrated?

In this episode, I explore the role of performances in tango, especially from the perspective of social dancers. While many tango enthusiasts find performances irrelevant or even off-putting, there’s a deeper conversation about how performances and social dancing intersect. I dive into the challenges of stage fright, what makes a performance engaging or cringe-worthy, and why some dancers avoid them altogether. If you've ever been curious about performing or simply want to understand what makes a good tango performance, this episode breaks it all down from both the audience’s and the dancer's viewpoint. My performance from 2019: https://youtu.be/t6Z4o4F2cS0?si=M43DQDjSZKhlkBZR Ariadna Naveira and Fernando Sanchez (example of “effortless” choreography): https://youtu.be/42hvUNVrwh8?si=LUjAJVyan-KETydr Chino Perico (master of improvisation and minimalism): https://youtu.be/u80wfkhscII?si=mE8r3hRfi5G3ILsz Southern California Tango Championship: https://socaltangochampionship.com/ Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango *Music courtesy of La Santa Calavera: “Un Día Nos Veremos” https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Ekzhqyp6d4CpdNqp6Wh3W

10-09
49:31

Beyond the Steps: the intimacy of tango connection

In this episode, I dive into one of tango's most elusive yet essential elements: connection. Inspired by a recent poll in my private Facebook group, where "connection with your partner" emerged as the top reason people love tango, I explore what this term really means. I discuss the physical, emotional, and even mystical aspects of connection in tango, how it affects our bodies, and why it’s such a profound experience for dancers. I also reflect on my own journey, the highs and lows of maintaining connection, and how it can change over time. Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango *Music courtesy of La Santa Calavera: “Un Día Nos Veremos” https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Ekzhqyp6d4CpdNqp6Wh3W

10-02
39:20

3 mindset shifts every tango follower needs

Do you feel that tango challenges your confidence and sense of self-worth? In this episode, I share three powerful mindset shifts that helped me overcome self-doubt as a tango follower. Upcoming musicality webinar: Beyond Rhythm- how to dance tango to the melody: https://my.marvelouspages.com/imsotango/how-to-dance-to-melody Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango *Music courtesy of La Santa Calavera: “Un Día Nos Veremos” https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Ekzhqyp6d4CpdNqp6Wh3W

09-18
40:16

Tango Injuries: how to keep your body healthy on the dance floor

If you’ve been dancing tango for a while, you probably know it’s not always easy on the body. In this episode, we share our own experiences with pain and injuries—especially in the upper back and feet—and how tango’s asymmetry can lead to muscle imbalances. We also share our own personal approaches to body care and maintenance. Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango *Music courtesy of La Santa Calavera: “Un Día Nos Veremos” https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Ekzhqyp6d4CpdNqp6Wh3W

09-11
41:26

Buenos Aires Tango Guide: Tips for Your First Trip

"You've decided to go to Buenos Aires—now what?" In this episode I break down everything you need to know to get the most out of your tango trip to Buenos Aires. I’ll cover the best times to visit, tips for finding the right milongas, and advice on where to stay based on your needs. Whether you’re a first-timer or a regular visitor, these tips will help you make the most of your time in the tango capital. Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld - La Maleva Hotel: https://lamaleva.com/ - Casa del Sol: https://casa-del-sol-tango-house-holiday-home.buenosaireshotelsargentina.com/en/ - Hoy Milonga Club: https://www.hoy-milonga.com/HMC.pdf - Roxana Vincelli Tango Clothes: https://www.roxanavincelli.com/?lang=en - Onel Tango Clothes: https://onel-tango.com/ - Cecilie & Cerkan Tango Shoes: https://www.instagram.com/cecilia_serkan/ Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango *Music courtesy of La Santa Calavera, "Un Día Nos Veremos": https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Ekzhqyp6d4CpdNqp6Wh3W

09-04
41:45

Tango Followers: how to dance more musically

How can you express the music as a tango follower when dancing at the milonga? How much of your musicality comes from the leader and when can you put in those embellishments you learned in class? In this episode, you'll learn what it means to be an expressive tango follower and discover practical tips to develop your musicality. Tango Simplified Learning Series: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL0iNCGBu99jcAh980gEY-P7Pdk3j3vHuY IMSO Tango Online School of Musicality: https://my.marvelouspages.com/imsotango/online-school-of-musicality Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango

08-28
38:20

Episode 42: What Every Dancer Should Know About Tango Music at the Milonga

Ready to transform your milonga experience? In this episode, I delve into the crucial role of tango music in your journey as a dancer. We explore why recognizing orchestras and understanding their distinct styles is essential for truly succeeding at the milonga. I share my personal journey of learning to identify these musical nuances and offer a simple, effective process for you to follow. By mastering the art of tango music, you'll not only enhance your dance but also unlock a deeper, more creative connection with your partner. Takeaways: - Tango music is the heart of the dance, shaping its character and style. - Recognizing orchestras can elevate your dance, allowing for richer expression. - Developing this skill takes practice, but it’s achievable with active listening. - A deep understanding of tango music fosters stronger connections and more fulfilling dance experiences. IMSO Tango Online School of Musicality: https://my.marvelouspages.com/imsotango/online-school-of-musicality Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango

08-21
39:49

Horacio Godoy on Tango’s Deep Roots and Modern Evolution

In this special episode recorded in 2021, I sit down with Horacio Godoy, one of the most influential and renowned figures in social tango today. Horacio has excelled in every tango role imaginable: performing in multiple tango companies, becoming an internationally sought-after DJ and tango music expert, and serving as a guest maestro, judge, and consultant at festivals and mundials in over 40 countries. Celebrating 31 years since he began DJing tango, Horacio shares with us how he started, what he loves most about tango, and his many artistic projects that illuminate the musical history of this dance. Horacio Godoy Workshops in LA: https://yuli-b.com/horacio-godoy-maricel-giacomini/?fbclid=IwY2xjawEozWhleHRuA2FlbQIxMAABHRRxU04GMdSnWI477ySwLghLW4gqc03b7T3FQ62_EB6CUNl1PyYWWPIGJQ_aem_rXyKxSM8AFy7dLDZbk1r1A Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango

08-14
41:49

Tango on the Silver Screen: “Scent of a Woman”

Today we dive into the world of tango as depicted in the classic film "Scent of a Woman." We explore the iconic tango scene and discuss its impact on both the tango community and popular culture. We share our insights on how the film portrays tango, and why it captivated so many viewers, inspiring many to take up the dance. We also delve into the broader themes of the movie, such as masculinity, femininity, and the complex characters portrayed by Al Pacino and Chris O'Donnell. Join us as we kick off this new series of movie reviews with a tango twist, and don't forget to share your thoughts and suggestions for future episodes! Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango

08-07
30:50

Strategies for dancing with tango beginners

Dancing with beginners can be challenging, but there are strategies to make it a more enjoyable experience. Pacing yourself and saying no when needed is important for your own well-being. Choosing the right music can also make a difference in the dance. Focusing on your own physical comfort and letting go of perfectionism can help you navigate the dance with beginners. Letting mistakes happen without judgment and reframing them as happy accidents can create a more relaxed atmosphere. Overall, it's about creating a positive experience for both you and the beginner dancer. Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango

07-31
31:45

Tango as therapy for life's changes: conversation with Caroline Tell Falk

In this episode, Caroline shares her journey into Argentine tango and how it helped her cope with the social isolation and emotional challenges of the COVID-19 pandemic. She also talks about her challenges dealing with menopause and kids growing up and moving away. She describes how tango provided a sense of connection, co-regulation, and healing through touch and music. We also discuss the different faces of tango, the importance of finding joy and mental stimulation in the dance, and the transformative power of tango in daily life. July 26 Musicality Webinar info: https://my.marvelouspages.com/imsotango/how-to-dance-to-marcato-in-2-and-4 Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango

07-24
49:29

Making the most of tango festival workshops

In this episode, we dive into our recent experience at Tangamente Immersion Weekend and share some tips on making the most of tango festival workshops. We talk about the challenges of choosing the right classes, dealing with different teaching styles, and the importance of role switching. We also reflect on how to retain new techniques and incorporate them into your dance. July 26 Musicality Webinar info: https://my.marvelouspages.com/imsotango/how-to-dance-to-marcato-in-2-and-4 Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango

07-17
43:55

Double Tango: Inside Caltech and LA Tango Marathons

In this episode, we dive into our experiences at the Caltech Tango Festival and the LA Tango Marathon. We talk about the different vibes, dancer levels, and social dynamics at each event. We also touch on our personal anxieties and the unique challenges of dancing with advanced partners. Plus, we explore how tango can be a haven for the socially awkward, providing a controlled space for connection. Finally, we discuss the competition between events and how music and DJing set the tone. Montana Tango Festiva: https://www.montanatango.com/ Get 10% off with discount code: yelizconnect Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Facebook⁣ @‌IMSO Tango⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango

06-26
48:50

Dancing Past Gender Bias: conversation with Freseda Mae

Many female tango dancers have faced gender bias and discrimination in the tango communities over the past few years. In this episode, Freseda Mae and I discuss how instances of unsolicited feedback and uncomfortable dance experiences led Mae to decide to start leading. But once she did start leading she faces other challenges of being a dual role dancer. We also talk about the impact of gender bias on women in tango, the power dynamics in the community, and the importance of supporting and empowering female leaders. Freseda Mae’s Blog: https://fresedatango.com/ Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Facebook⁣ @‌IMSO Tango⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango

06-19
38:54

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