Leadership wisdom spreads fast, but not all of it goes deep. Scroll through LinkedIn and you'll find endless "leadership memes" that sound inspiring at first glance, yet often oversimplify what it really means to lead. They make leadership look easy, but few of them invite us to look deeper, at who we are being underneath all the doing.
On this week's midweek episode of The Transformational Leader, Adam is joined by longtime friend and fellow law-school graduate, Sakeb Nazim, for a rich exploration at the intersection of law, leadership, and spiritual growth. Together they dive into the deeper philosophies behind our legal system - including the moral tension of "innocent until proven guilty," the emotional impact of practicing within a structure built on judgment and protection, and how the profession shapes the heart over time - before widening the conversation into plant medicine, spirituality, and the internal awakenings that shift how we relate to purpose and service. This is a grounded, curious, and expansive dialogue that looks beyond rules and roles to examine what it truly means to lead, evolve, and stay connected to your humanity inside systems that rarely make space for it.
Leadership is more than insight and inspiration; it's about embracing the messy, uncomfortable, deeply human parts we often want to hide. Every leader has their own "gnarly stuff"—the judgments, insecurities, and reactions that don't fit neatly into a lesson or success story.
On this week's live episode, join Adam Quiney for a grounded yet expansive conversation on leadership, completion, and taking aligned action. Adam explores the energetic nuances of transforming your life and work — including how youth intersects with transformation, the pitfalls of premature independence, and what it really looks like to complete powerfully with your coach. Adam also dives into real-time leadership - working with the energy in the room rather than forcing outcomes, and the practical (and often uncomfortable) steps required to truly move a project forward instead of spinning in planning and potential. Along the way, he touches on new ways of pitching and connecting on LinkedIn, why curiosity often trumps certainty, and the subtle leadership gaps that show up when we think we're "done." Tune in for a conversation that blends humor, rigor, and insight into what it means to create results, expand capacity, and stay in the work even when you're tempted to graduate yourself out of it.
True transformation starts when you're willing to be seen. Many people try to do the work through books, podcasts, or private reflection. These are safe spaces where vulnerability is optional. Real growth doesn't happen in isolation. It begins when you step into a relationship, risk being witnessed, and allow yourself to be known exactly as you are.
Learning isn't about getting faster; it's about getting deeper. In our rush to master new skills or achieve transformation, we often turn learning into another race against time. But true growth doesn't come from speed; it comes from surrender, patience, and staying present through the discomfort of not knowing.
On this week's live episode, join Adam Quiney for an exploration of leadership in action - and in avoidance. Adam dives into the distinctions between stage one, two, and three leadership, the intersection of compassion and condonation, and how spirituality can so easily turn into dogma. Along the way, he and guests unpack topics as wide-ranging as Ozempic, Charlie Kirk, and the discomfort of leading up when your leaders are the ones in your way. Tune in for a conversation that weaves humor, inquiry, and depth into questions of what it truly means to lead, and what happens when we optimize for the wrong things.
Dogma gives us comfort, but it also limits our growth. In leadership, it often hides behind best practices, catchy quotes, or rules about how a leader should show up. While these frameworks make decisions easier, they can quietly disconnect us from trust, intuition, and real impact.
In this episode, Adam Quiney breaks down a popular leadership post and exposes what most advice misses: the cost of real growth. He explains why true leadership isn't about rushing from control to impact but learning to face what keeps us stuck, slow down, and be present with the discomfort we avoid.
On this week's mid-week episode, join Adam Quiney along with special guest Monica Borrell for a discussion on leadership and the fine line between supporting your staff and unintentionally creating a high-maintenance culture. Together they explore what it means to "catch" an experience for your team, how coddling can sometimes hinder growth, and the challenges leaders face in balancing empathy with accountability. Adam also shares updates from his own life and his work with the Intensive before diving into this insightful conversation with Monica.
True transformation doesn't come from avoiding discomfort, it comes from facing it. In this episode, Adam Quiney unpacks the Zen idea that "you cannot leave a place until you've been there" and explores how both ontological coaching and Ayahuasca reveal the same truth: real healing happens when we stop resisting and finally touch the very thing we fear.
On this week's mid-week episode, join Adam Quiney for a discussion on Myers-briggs and other personality assessment tools, and why they limit us, how personal growth is often about avoidance of our own transformation and healing, letting go of the hypocrisy of others, and more!
Every leader has a shadow side: the parts of ourselves we'd rather hide or deny. For many, that looks like judgment, frustration, or even the thought: "People are dumb and I hate them." When we push these parts away, they don't disappear. They slip into our blind spots and leak out sideways, often in the form of sarcasm, criticism, or subtle disconnection. The harder we try to shut them down, the more power they gain.
Arrogance can be one of the biggest blind spots for leaders. It shows up subtly in judgment, in righteousness, or in the need to be right, and it can quietly damage trust and impact. In this episode, Adam Quiney shares a personal story about being called out for his arrogance and the lessons that came with it. He explores why arrogance is often a survival mechanism, how to spot it in yourself, and what it takes to hold feedback with grace instead of defensiveness.
On this week's mid-week episode, join Adam Quiney for a discussion on How We Train the World Around Us. In this episode, Adam discuss ideas such as How we train people around us to behave the way we complain about, How our training of the world at large makes our own transformation challenging, How we can train our clients and customers for a more empowering experience; and How to shift all of this. .
Leadership and transformation aren't about adding more tools to your belt; they are about seeing how you get in your own way. And that starts with learning to accept what is true about how you show up, even when it's uncomfortable. In this episode, Adam Quiney breaks down the three stages of acceptance that every leader moves through. From resisting feedback to intellectual acknowledgment, and finally fully letting the impact of your actions take hold, Adam explores how each stage unfolds and why most people get stuck before achieving real transformation.
On this week's mid-week episode, join Adam Quiney as he explores topics such as how relational patterns show up everywhere, what to do when your leader isn't leading well, and how to practice "leading up." Adam also unpacks the concept of being at choice, and why it's central to the work of both coaches and leaders.
Intellectual loneliness isn't just about craving "deep talks." It is the realization of how few people can truly tolerate complexity. It is noticeable how quickly others rush to have an answer, not to understand, but to be right. It is the silence that follows when what you say doesn't fit neatly into someone's script. In this episode, Adam Quiney dives into the experience of intellectual loneliness, why it often leaves us feeling isolated, and how the very mindset that makes us feel smarter can also deepen our disconnection. Listen and enjoy!
We often believe we are already doing the transformational work by reading books, watching videos, attending seminars, or having deep conversations with friends. These can look like transformation, but more often they skim the surface without truly shifting who we are. In this episode, Adam Quiney unpacks why our ego convinces us that we are "doing the work" when in reality, we are just reinforcing old patterns with new language. He shares how blind spots keep us stuck, why insights alone rarely lead to change, and why genuine transformation requires stepping into relationship and vulnerability.
Relationships are the foundation of powerful coaching. Yet, many clients and coaches lean heavily on methodology, certifications, or step-by-step processes, thinking that is what guarantees success. While methods can be useful, they can also become a shield that keeps real connection at arm's length. In this insightful episode, Adam Quiney shares why true transformation happens when relationship takes priority over methodology, and how trust, presence, and genuine connection create breakthroughs that no system alone can deliver. Listen and enjoy the show!