The Trig Podcast of JOY | David Trig

The truth is I'm happiest when I focus on me. This is God's will for my life. grace to you, davidTrig

I've been in the process of deconstructing my church leadership story for 15 years and I think I'm almost there, hahahah. Here's my story in case it helps you too. much grace, davidTrig

How I became a life coach (and music/media producer) after a life of pastoral ministry to feel happy, less stressed and make more money than ever before! davidTrig

A Biblical Perspective on Confidence1. Master Yourself → Renew Your MindRobert talks about mastering fears and insecurities. The Bible says true mastery begins with the renewal of the mind:“Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind…” (Romans 12:2).Instead of self-control through willpower alone, we find it by letting the Spirit guide our thoughts and emotions (Galatians 5:22-23). Biblical confidence is rooted not in self, but in God’s Spirit within us.Greene emphasizes reading people well. Scripture agrees—but frames it as wisdom and love:“The purposes of a person’s heart are deep waters, but one who has insight draws them out.” (Proverbs 20:5).True insight comes from compassion and discernment, not manipulation. Confidence grows when we choose to serve others rather than impress them (Mark 10:45).Greene says confidence comes through repeated action. The Bible calls this walking by faith, not by sight (2 Corinthians 5:7).Confidence is not the absence of fear, but taking steps forward because we trust God’s promises:“Be strong and courageous… for the Lord your God goes with you.” (Deuteronomy 31:6).Greene highlights trial-and-error. Scripture reframes this as trials producing maturity:“Consider it pure joy… whenever you face trials… because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance.” (James 1:2-4).Each failure becomes an opportunity for God to shape character. In Christ, mistakes aren’t wasted—they’re redeemed.Instead of endless reinvention through image, the Bible says our deepest transformation is being made new in Christ:“If anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!” (2 Corinthians 5:17).Dangerous confidence isn’t about ego—it’s about living boldly in our identity as sons and daughters of God.Hook: "Robert Greene says confidence is dangerous—Scripture says it’s holy when rooted in Christ."Step 1: Self-mastery → Romans 12:2 (renewed mind).Step 2: Reading people → Proverbs 20:5, Mark 10:45.Step 3: Confidence by action → Deuteronomy 31:6, 2 Corinthians 5:7.Step 4: Learning by failure → James 1:2-4.Step 5: Reinvention → 2 Corinthians 5:17.Closing: Encourage listeners that true confidence is not self-made but God-breathed boldness (Acts 4:13).Enjoy and share!davidTrigFollow me on Instagram @davidtrigEmail me at trig@davidtrig.comGet your 90 minute complementary coaching sesssion at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠davidtrig.com/coaching

Intro:"Men are more connected digitally than ever before… and yet more disconnected in real life. Studies show that male friendships have been cut in half in the last 30 years. Today, many men can’t name one person they could call in a crisis. This isn’t just a social problem — it’s a spiritual one. And the Church has an answer."Key Scripture: Proverbs 27:17 – 'As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another.'Main Points:1. Jonathan & David: A model for deep, godly friendship.2. The difference between activity friends and accountability friends.3. How brotherhood strengthens faith and resilience.Challenge: Invite a friend to coffee or lunch with the goal of deeper conversation.Enjoy and share!davidTrigFollow me on Instagram @davidtrigEmail me at trig@davidtrig.comGet your 90 minute complementary coaching sesssion at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠davidtrig.com/coaching

Have you ever felt like God is silent during your most difficult moments? In this powerful episode, we explore what it means to wait on God's timing when nothing seems to be happening. Discover how silence is not absence, and delay is not denial. Through biblical truth and real-life encouragement, you'll be reminded that God is always working—quietly, faithfully, and right on time.Enjoy and share!davidTrigThank you for listening,davidTrigFollow me on Instagram @davidtrigEmail me at trig@davidtrig.comGet your 90 minute complementary coaching sesssion at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠davidtrig.com/coaching

"Have you ever lost everything and thought it was over?In this powerful and honest video, I share what it feels like when your world falls apart — when dreams shatter, relationships break, or life suddenly takes everything away. But this isn’t the end of your story. It might just be the beginning.Whether you're facing grief, failure, or deep disappointment, there is still hope. There is still purpose. And yes — there is still a future.✨ Listen now and discover how God meets us in the ruins to build something new.You're not alone. And this is not the end."

I have a virtual friend, his name is Cliff Ravenscraft (https://www.cliffravenscraft.com). He's been my virtual mentor for the last 10 years. I've never met Cliff, never spoken to him, we emailed once, but I feel I know him very well. Recently, Cliff did a podcast episode about his financial reality, how he needs $20k/month to do his business and life, and currently has $2k/month in income. He has a full time family, business and life and a leaky roof. He said he's taking money from his house to pay his bills.AND YET, he has faith that moves mountains, he's not worried. In fact he says "I have ZERO anxiety, I have an abundance of love, peace and joy". (https://www.cliffravenscraft.com/podcasts/the-cliff-ravenscraft-show-where-strategy-meets-soul/episodes/2149060881)In a season when I am FULL of anxiety, I thank God for you Cliff. This is my thanks to Cliff and my commitment to be more like him and BELIEVE.davidTrig

In this episode of the TRIG PODCAST OF JOY, I talk about how to pay for college. How did we get three kids through college with zero debt?Enjoy and share!davidTrigThank you for listening,davidTrigFollow me on Instagram @davidtrigEmail me at trig@davidtrig.comGet your 90 minute complementary coaching sesssion at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠davidtrig.com/coaching

In this episode of the TRIG PODCAST OF JOY, I talk about how I love our kids as they grow up and transition from kids to young adults.Enjoy and share!davidTrigThank you for listening,davidTrigFollow me on Instagram @davidtrigEmail me at trig@davidtrig.comGet your 90 minute complementary coaching sesssion at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠davidtrig.com/coaching 

In this episode of the TRIG PODCAST OF JOY I hang out with with Jack and Brock, two amazing students whom I had the privilege to be their teacher, friend and mentor.Enjoy and share!davidTrig

I've been afraid to let my belly out thinking I'll look fatter than I really am. Silly, I am what I am either way, everyone knows it and accepts me no matter what as I try to lose 20lbs this year.But this has been a spiritual lesson, more than a physical one, here's what I mean.Thank you for listening,davidTrigFollow me on Instagram @davidtrigEmail me at trig@davidtrig.comGet your 90 minute complementary coaching sesssion at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠davidtrig.com/coaching

**Podcast Title:** *Advice I Give My Son on PEACE*In this heartfelt and thought-provoking episode, I share the wisdom and guidance I would pass on to my son about the importance of cultivating inner peace. From dealing with life's challenges to managing stress, I dive deep into the core principles of peace—within ourselves and in our relationships. Join me as we explore ways to nurture calm, find balance in a chaotic world, and build resilience through mindfulness, compassion, and self-awareness. Whether you're a parent or someone looking to live a more peaceful life, this episode is filled with practical insights and personal reflections.Thank you for listening,davidTrigFollow me on Instagram @davidtrigEmail me at trig@davidtrig.comGet your 90 minute complementary coaching sesssion at davidtrig.com/coaching

Sometimes we're only happy when we get what we want. But how do you find joy when you don't? Thank you for listening, davidTrig Follow me on Instagram @davidtrigEmail me at trig@davidtrig.comGet my coaching at davidtrig.com/coaching

What a start this has been to 2025, with fires in LA, cars running over people on New Year's and more. Is 2025 going to be another bad year? Thanks for listening, davidTrig Follow me on Instagram @davidtrigEmail me at trig@davidtrig.comGet my coaching at davidtrig.com/coaching