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Nick and Amy are the creators and owners of the Ultimate Intimacy App and brand. They dive into all the tough topics regarding sexual and emotional intimacy, and discuss the things that most couples deal with regularly in marriage, that are seldom talked about on other podcasts. They are raw, unscripted, personal, and Nick will most likely say things he will regret ;)
They have been married over 22 years and have 4 kids, 3 dogs, and share their own life experiences and trials that have helped them transform their own relationship. They are on a mission to help couples not just survive in marriage, but thrive in marriage.
Their podcast is focused on helping you find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your relationship both in and out of the bedroom. Also, for a great resource to help transform your relationship, check out the Ultimate Intimacy App at ultimateintimacy.com
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In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we’re diving into a topic we honestly never expected to cover, but It’s one of the most vulnerable, painful, and confusing issues couples face, yet it’s far more common than most people realize. Over the past year, we’ve received countless messages from both husbands and wives who feel distressed, ashamed, or completely lost because their attraction toward their spouse has changed, or they say they aren't attracted to them anymore and don't kn...
In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy sit down with Kevin Johnson for an open and relatable conversation about anxiety, a topic that touches nearly everyone in one form or another. Anxiety is a normal function of life, and it shows up differently for each of us. It might surface when we’re speaking in front of a crowd, navigating unfamiliar places, facing personal pressures, or simply trying to keep up with life. For some people, it’s a manageable background hum; for ...
In this eye-opening episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy have an amazing interview with an expert discussing perimenopause and menopause—a stage that will affect over 1 billion women worldwide in the coming years. Did you know that around 47 million women enter menopause every year, yet many feel unprepared for the changes in their bodies, hormones, and intimate relationships? Nick and Amy and their guest Jesse dive into the physical, emotional, and relational shifts that co...
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Amy and Nick turn the tables to talk about what wives really want in the bedroom, and it’s probably not just what you think. Drawing from listener feedback, polls, and real conversations, we uncover the deeper desires that make intimacy meaningful for women. Join us for an open, encouraging, and funny discussion that might just change the way you think about connection in your marriage. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimac...
In this candid episode, Amy and Nick share 5 things about each other that you probably didn't know about them, before diving into the “other” things that husbands secretly crave in the bedroom .. and no, it’s not what you might think! Based on polls, real listener feedback, and honest conversations, we’re unpacking the other desires that often go unspoken. From deeper connection and affirmation to playfulness, curiosity, and feeling pursued, this episode goes beyond the physical to expl...
In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss the things that should just be "normal" in a healthy marriage. That doesn't mean we are all doing them, but we should be! Whether your relationship is thriving or you feel like roommates just trying to survive, this conversation will help you understand what strong couples do differently, and how to apply it in your own marriage starting today. Nick & Amy break down the pillars that every healthy marriage needs in their opinion: Open, Judgment-Free Co...
In life, none of us are perfect, we stumble, fall short, and make mistakes. As Christians (Nick and Amy), we believe in the incredible gift of grace through Jesus Christ, who forgives us despite our flaws. But when it comes to our marriages, are we offering that same grace to our spouse? Or are we holding onto disappointments, expecting perfection, and being too hard on offering grace to not only ourselves, but also the one we love most? In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast,...
In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy uncover the hidden “superpowers” we all wish our spouses had! Not talking about flying or X-ray vision... although we would also love that. Amy recently ran a poll asking husbands and wives what superpowers they secretly wish their spouse could wield in marriage, and the results spot on! Curious what your spouse secretly wishes for in your marriage? Tune in and find out, you might discover a few superpowers you didn’t even know yo...
Are you tired of arguments that spiral out of control, or do you find yourself having the same arguments over and over again? Do you wish there was a better way to navigate conflict in your marriage without resentment, frustration, or toxicity? In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy share the transformative advice they wish they had known earlier in their own marriage with insights that can change the way you have conflict/disagreements, communicate, and reconnect with...
In our last episode, we sat down with Monica Tanner to explore the bad marriage advice many of us have been given, advice that can quietly undermine even the strongest relationships. This week, Nick and Amy dive deeper into the topic in The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, sharing more examples of the misguided guidance that couples often hear and the real impact it can have on a marriage. Tune in as Nick and Amy break down the myths, the mistakes, and the bad advice we’ve all encountered, so you c...
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive deep into the often overlooked and sometimes misguided world of marriage advice with Monica Tanner, the brilliant mind behind the eye-opening new book, Bad Marriage Advice. Monica pulls back the curtain on the most common pieces of advice we’ve all heard, and sometimes blindly followed, and she explains why these “tips” could actually be hurting your marriage. We explore the advice we think is helpful but is secretly harmful, the myths...
Have you ever felt like you and your spouse speak completely different love languages? Maybe you crave words of affirmation while they’re all about acts of service. Or perhaps your need for physical touch feels invisible while they’re busy showing love in ways that don’t resonate with you. In this episode, we dive deep into the reality of opposite love languages in marriage, why they happen, why they can feel frustrating, and most importantly, how they can become a powerful opportunity for em...
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into a fun and eye-opening discussion: what counts as bare minimum in marriage, and what truly deserves princess or prince treatment? We go through real-life examples, giving flowers, planning surprise date nights, foot rubs, sending appreciation texts, initiating intimacy, cooking meals just because, and more, and ask each other whether each action is bare minimum or truly going above and beyond. You might be shocked by our answers! T...
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive into one of the most common struggles couples face: keeping score in marriage. So many couples reach out to us feeling overwhelmed and frustrated because things don’t feel “50/50. in their marriage. One spouse feels like they’re doing more, and resentment begins to creep in. The harder they try to keep score, and keep things equal, the more discouraged and disconnected they become. When you keep score, you are competing again...
Mathew 6:28 "But I say unto you, That Whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in is heart." We have got a ton of people contacting us about this subject so we decided we needed to share our thoughts on this with you. In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive into the tough but important topic of lusting after someone other than your spouse. We open up about why wandering eyes can quietly erode trust, intimacy, and conne...
Emotional safety is the foundation of lasting intimacy and trust in marriage. In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into what it really means to feel safe with your spouse, and being able to share thoughts, feelings, and vulnerabilities without fear of judgment or rejection. We’ll explore the signs of emotional safety, the common behaviors that destroy it, and practical ways to create a safe space where both spouses feel understood, respected, and supported. From breaking ...
Do You Love Me as Much as the Kids? A Conversation Every Couple Needs One of our friends recently asked his wife, “Do you love me as much as the kids?” and it sparked a powerful conversation about love, priorities, and intimacy in marriage. Many husbands have shared with us, through messages or emails, that sometimes they feel like they come after everything else, especially the kids. And yes, this can go both ways, of course. Instead of quickly answering, “Of course not! Duh!”, take a ...
In this episode, we dive into a topic that’s often whispered about but rarely discussed openly—sexual intimacy aids and the powerful role they can play in relationships. Far from being just “toys,” these tools can help couples communicate better, deepen emotional connection, and reignite passion that may have faded into routine. We explore ten key ways intimacy aids can strengthen partnerships—from boosting confidence and balancing different desire levels, to helping couples explore new sensa...
When most people think about sexual libido, the first thought often goes straight to the physical aspect of things such as “Why doesn’t my spouse have any sex drive?” or “Something must be wrong with them physically.” But what if a spouses desire to be sexual (libido) really isn't physical, but is tied to how they feel emotionally connected? In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive into the surprising reality that libido is not just about the physical desire, it’s m...
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we (Nick and Amy) dive into a common concern we hear from many husbands: “Intimate Time Feels Like a Moving Target!" For some couples, intimacy seems to come with a long checklist such as chores finished, the house spotless, kids taken care of, emotional connection felt, and the right mood set... before intimate time is even an option. While those things can all be important, they can also leave one spouse feeling rejected, frustrated, or like...
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Being that me and my wife didn't kiss until the altar we are 100% kissing more now than when we were dating but I won't say it's a ton. After listening to this I think I will be adding to the quota lol