The UnSENsored Club Podcast

Show NotesEpisode 12 – The Uncensored UnSENsored Club - The most chaotic episode yetSponsored By Sensory Junction - https://www.sensory-junction.co.ukGrab your cuppa and connect with us:Email:- [email protected]:- 07840113994 (Voice Notes welcome) Series 1 Finale: This episode is completed unedited and unfiltered. You could say it’s “The Uncensored UnSENsored Club”. Partly because we thought it would be fun, partly because Hannah and Lisa bullied Chelle into it and partly because we run out of time to edit properly (we are SEN Mums guys, give us a break) As it’s the end of the series, we wanted to have a little bit of fun with it.If you love messy real life, the kind of humour that could get you cancelled, and conversation that feels like you’ve just walked into a room with your besities, this one is for you.The episode kicks off with zero polish and ends in utter chaos. Chelle has officially lost control of the podcast (and her dog) and the conversation spirals in the best way - into the realities of parenting, neurodivergence, family life, and the kind of roasting you can only get away with from true friends.If you are fed up with podcast perfection, you are in luck, here’s your weekly reminder that we’re all winging it.  Don’t forget to enter our end of series competition. Tell us in the comments our end-of-episode catchphrase. The winner will receive some goodies to help kick off your Christmas shopping list including some Lego and a sensory spiny chair.

Show NotesEpisode 11- Fighting for SEN SevicesSponsored By Sensory Junction - https://www.sensory-junction.co.ukGrab your cuppa and connect with us:Email:- [email protected]:- 07840113994 (Voice Notes welcome)In this episode, we explore the exhausting reality of fighting for SEND support—from CAMHS rejections and EHCP battles to direct payments, nappies, and respite. The conversation moves between serious advocacy, practical next steps, and the emotional toll of constantly having to prove a child’s needs. We reflect on masking, non-verbal communication, and the limits of current services, with lighter moments about dogs, glamping, and the everyday chaos of family life.

Bonus Episode - Tragic elopement, safety fears, and practical tips for SEND parentsEmail:- [email protected]:- 07840113994 (Voice Notes welcome)~This bonus episode is a raw conversation about the death of Noah Woods and the terrifying reality of elopement for SEND and autistic children. We share personal experiences of children getting out of the house or wandering off and the emotional impact, the guilt parents feel.Key topicsThe episode opens with a reaction to Noah Woods’ death and why it hit so hard for SEND parents.Amelia, previously escaped through a garden padlocked gate, leading to panic and intense guilt.Bobby, got out after a front door was left unlocked for just a few seconds, showing how quickly it can happen.A zoo incident is discussed as another reminder that even with multiple adults present, children can disappear in a split second.The conversation stresses that parents cannot rely only on vigilance from others and need systems in place for every possible exit.Practical safety ideas include door alarms, keeping keys out of reach, Apple tags, and putting trackers in places the child is likely to keep on them.A tip is shared about dressing children in bright, memorable clothing so responders can identify them quickly if they go missing.We stress how parents should never feel embarrassed about reins, buggies, safety beds, or any tool that helps keep a child safe.The episode ends by asking listeners to share any safety strategies that have worked for them.Timestamps00:00 - Why this bonus episode was recorded after Noah Woods’ death00:57 - The heartbreak of a child eloping near water01:26 - Why elopement is every SEND parent’s biggest fear03:09 - Amelia’s escape through a garden gate04:39 - The fear of not knowing where a child might go05:44 - Using an Apple tag scrunchie as a safety layer06:13 - Why trackers only help if the child keeps them on06:43 - Bobby getting out after a door was left unlocked07:43 - The Ring doorbell moment that still stays with them08:38 - Why safety depends on more than just parents09:38 - Door alarms, lanyards, and smart home alerts10:09 - A zoo scare that showed how fast children vanish11:07 - Why parks, ponds, and public spaces need better safety barriers11:38 - Dressing children in bright clothes for faster identification12:37 - Calling out the child’s clothing, not just their name13:37 - Why reins and buggies should never be a source of shame14:07 - What to do when your child has already escaped once15:07 - Why children become better at unlocking doors as they grow16:06 - Dealing with police when your child is autistic and non-verbal16:36 - A useful tip about pre-registering a child’s details with police17:06 - The controversial debate around microchipping or tracking19:04 - Why the conversation is serious, not sensational19:55 - Final advice for parents: use every safety tool you need20:25 - Closing thoughts and invitation for listeners to share tipsSign The Petitionhttps://c.org/4wZyZvsk4K

Episode 10 - Marriage, Parenthood, and Keeping a Relationship Alive When You’re SEND ParentsSponsored By Sensory Junction - https://www.sensory-junction.co.ukGrab your cuppa and connect with us:Email:- [email protected]:- 07840113994 (Voice Notes welcome) In this episode, we talk candidly about how difficult it is to keep a marriage going when school runs, constant caregiving, burnout, and life admin take over everything. The conversation shifts from everyday chaos to the deeper reality of resentment, communication breakdowns, and what it takes to stay connected long term.In this episode, we compare notes on the pressure of raising SEND children, the impact on relationships, and the way major life events can force a couple to confront what is and is not working. We also touch on menopause, sex, recovery after a heart attack, and the uncomfortable but honest realities of addiction and poor mental health.  We are also joined by two special guests. Clair, who made the decision to have a sperm donor to fulfil her dream of being a mum, and Chelle’s husband Gavin, who has battled with gambling addiction and mental health. Support https://gamblersanonymous.org.ukhttps://gamfam.org.ukhttps://www.mind.org.ukhttps://www.samaritans.org

EPISODE 9 – I Saw The Sign (Of Autism) Sponsored By Sensory Junction - https://www.sensory-junction.co.ukGrab your cuppa and connect with us:Email:- [email protected]:- 07840113994 (Voice Notes welcome) I Saw the Sign Trend, Autism, and Why Social Media Trends Spark DebateIn this episode, we talk about  the viral “I saw the sign” trend and why it has split opinion online within the SEN-Community and wider. We look at the tension between sharing retrospective autism-related observations and the risk of minimizing the very real challenges many families face. The main topics are the social media trend itself, how autism is represented in public, and why parents can feel caught between silence and oversharing.Key topicsWe explain the “I saw the sign” TikTok trend, where parents look back at old clips and notice early signs of autism in their children. Is it a harmless trend or is it problematic?One major concern discussed is that playful clips can seem to minimize the severity of autism for families dealing with self-harm, smearing, meltdowns, and other intense needs. However, when we show the difficult side of parenting autistic children, we are often criticized for sharing too much. We can’t win!We talk about the difference between typical childhood behaviours and autistic traits and whether these short clips may concern parents of neurotypical children unnecessarily.We share our personal experience of spotting signs (and sometimes missing them), including a childhood clip of Finn sitting fixated on the washing machine and a video of Bobby flapping while watching golf.The episode touches on how social media formats like TikTok encourage short, snappy content rather than nuanced discussion.As usual, we discuss a few lighter, personal moments, the menopausal brain farts are evident without Hannah around to keep us on track and would it even be an UnSENsored Club Podcast, without the conversation breaking down into typical chaotic, off-script carnage?