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Learn exactly how to talk to girls, how to approach women, how to get a girlfriend, how to get out of the friend zone, how to get a girl's phone number, how to build attraction, how to master the dating apps, and how to have sex with the women you want — all while becoming the most confident, masculine, and powerful version of yourself.

Hosted by Mark Sing, an elite NLP dating coach for men, this show breaks down everything you need to master seduction, attraction, masculine frame, confidence, communication, mindset, inner game, charisma, social skills, flirting, body language, and emotional control.

Whether you're trying to meet women in real life, improve your online dating game, or finally stop being the "nice guy" and start being the man women chase, you'll discover step-by-step strategies to win with dating, relationships, sex, self-development, success, and confidence — without apology.

Each episode delivers powerful insights drawn from NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming), psychology, evolutionary biology, and social dynamics, teaching you how to command respect, ignite desire, and live like a high-value man.

If you've ever searched "how to attract women," "how to flirt," "how to be confident," or "how to get girls to like you," you've just found your new favorite podcast.
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In this powerful episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing Mark breaks down how small shifts in your words, energy, and presence can completely change how people respond to you. You'll discover how influence isn't about manipulation or control — it's about understanding human psychology so deeply that you can guide conversations, build instant trust, and make women feel magnetically drawn to you without even trying. Mark also drops a major announcement about the future of the podcast and what's coming next for the Unapologetic Man army.   Key Takeaways: - How subtle psychology shapes attraction and connection. - Why influence begins with your internal state, not what you say. - How to instantly shift a woman's mood and attention. - The difference between authentic persuasion and manipulation.   Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:00:27] – Mark's major announcement about the podcast [00:01:58] – "Door In The Face" technique [00:02:41] – Embedded Commands [00:07:30] – Mood Anchoring [00:09:25] – The Double Bind [00:10:50] – Pattern Interrupt [00:14:07] – Short Testimonial from a 3 Month Coaching Graduate [00:16:04] – Anchor Gesture [00:21:03] – Episode Recap and Next Episode Preview Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula   About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdviceForMen #MasculineEnergy #AttractionPsychology #ConfidenceWithWomen #NLPForMen #MindsetShift
In this raw episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing opens up about his personal journey — from struggling with panic attacks and agoraphobia to becoming a confident, high-value man and the top NLP-based dating coach in the world. Mark reveals the painful mistakes that shaped his transformation, the key mindset shifts that changed everything, and how any man can reprogram his thoughts and behavior to become the strongest version of himself.    Key Takeaways: - The rock-bottom moment that triggered Mark's personal transformation. - The brutal breakup that pushed Mark to confront his own weakness. - How NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) helped rewire his thoughts to completely eliminate his struggles. - How Mark built The Unapologetic Man Podcast to help other men become absolute masters with women.   Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:00:35] – What inspired Mark to share his full story [00:02:30] – Highschool, dating Crystal, and Mark's epiphany about being needy [00:09:17] – Client testimonial: John [00:10:14] – Living in Japan as an English teacher and wedding announcer [00:11:33] – Mark's experience with panic attacks and agoraphobia [00:13:07] – Being deported from Japan, discovering NLP and living in Hawaii [00:15:42] – Moving to California and getting stabbed in the back [00:16:53] – 2 years of non-stop seduction practice [00:17:49] – Moving to Colorado and pursuing a career as a seduction coach [00:22:02] – Starting The Unapologetic Man Podcast with John Anthony [00:25:09] – Email from Thomas [00:25:55] – Final thoughts and next episode preview Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula   About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdviceForMen #NLPForMen #MasculineTransformation #ConfidenceWithWomen #HighValueMan #MasculineEnergy #SelfImprovement #TheUnapologeticMan
In this fun and tactical episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing breaks down one of the most effective flirting techniques in the dating game — push/pull. Discover how to create instant attraction by playfully pushing a woman away one moment and pulling her back in the next. Mark explains why this teasing, bantering style works far better than the "just be natural" approach, and how to use it to stand out from every other guy she meets.   Key Takeaways: - 10 proven push/pull lines that build intrigue and playful tension. - The psychology behind push/pull and why it triggers attraction. - How to deliver false disqualifiers without sounding like a try-hard. - The "80/100 Rule" and how it keeps your banter perfectly balanced. - The difference between confident teasing and cringe delivery.   Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:01:04] – What push/pull really means [00:02:21] – Why "just being natural" makes most guys boring [00:03:21] – The 80/100 Rule explained [00:05:13] – What are false disqualifiers and how to use them [00:06:04] – Be playful, not logical [00:06:51] – 10 Push/Pull Lines to try in real conversations [00:13:45] – Recap of lines [00:15:51] – Final thoughts and next episode preview Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula   About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdviceForMen #PushPullTechnique #FlirtingTips #MasculineEnergy #AttractionTriggers #ConfidenceWithWomen #HighValueMan #TheUnapologeticMan
In this powerful episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing reveals how to transform life's challenges into stepping stones for growth, confidence, and unstoppable momentum. By combining mindset mastery, emotional resilience, and grounded masculine principles, Mark shows you how to shift your perspective — seeing every setback not as a wall, but as an invitation to level up. Learn how to use frustration, rejection, and resistance as fuel to push forward and unlock the version of yourself that thrives under pressure. Key Takeaways: - The mindset shift that turns failure into forward motion. - How to extract lessons from every setback and use them as leverage. - Why emotional resilience is the key to masculine confidence. - Simple, actionable strategies to reframe adversity into growth. Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:01:05] – The Pain Gap: Mark's struggles with suffering [00:03:09] – You are the cause of your own suffering [00:05:40] – Those bad things are actually blessings [00:07:55] – There's meaning behind your setbacks [00:08:51] – 95% of your suffering is a self-inflicted negative feedback loop [00:10:42] – Jocko's philosophy on problems [00:11:36] – How Mark leverages his issues to his benefit [00:14:02] – Get out of your own way [00:15:20] – It's easier than you think [00:18:22] – Opportunities are everywhere [00:19:43] – Final insights and episode wrap-up Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula   About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #MindsetShift #OvercomingAdversity #SelfImprovement #MasculineConfidence #Resilience #GrowthMindset #MotivationForMen #HighValueMan
In this hilarious episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing reveals 15 funny and creative ways to answer the classic dating question, "What do you do for a living?". By blending humor, storytelling, and playful teasing, Mark shows how to turn a simple question into a powerful tool for building attraction, intrigue, and establishing frame.   Key Takeaways: - The three-part formula that makes answering this question a breeze every time. - How to playfully accuse women of humorous occupations to create fun banter. - How vulnerability, storytelling, and confidence amplify attraction. - How to use humor to make women laugh and spark attraction instantly.   Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:00:46] – Just how well-endowed are gorillas exactly? [00:02:07] – Email to get a $500 training packet! [00:04:25] – Intro music copyright claim [00:05:14] – Why you should prepare your answer to "What do you do?" [00:06:35] – Three-part response: funny line, truth, story [00:07:36] – Funny examples you can use [00:10:52] – Telling your real story and sharing vulnerability [00:14:09] – More funny lines: Penguin Valet, Almond Milk Milker [00:19:09] – Accusing women of funny occupations: Ice Cream Man, Taco Bell Burrito Dancer [00:23:43] – Recap and episode wrap-up Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula   About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdviceForMen #FunnyPickupLines #AttractionThroughHumor #MasculineConfidence #NLP #HighValueMan #SelfImprovement #DatingTips #HumorInDating
In this powerful episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing reveals how to use the "String of Yeses" technique to trigger attraction, create compliance, and make women fall deeply invested in you. By understanding cognitive dissonance — the psychological phenomenon that makes people justify their actions by changing their beliefs — Mark explains how to get women to chase you, value you more, and feel emotionally bonded through a simple series of micro-agreements.   Key Takeaways: - How cognitive dissonance subconsciously changes how women feel about you. - Why small acts of compliance make her like you more over time. - The "String of Yeses" technique — and how to build irresistible momentum. - How to use identity statements to influence her behavior and attraction toward you.   Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:01:49] – What is cognitive dissonance and how it affects attraction [00:02:59] – How actions shape beliefs — not the other way around [00:04:21] – The Tinder example: effort equals emotional investment [00:04:56] – Getting her to comply through small "yes" moments [00:06:42] – The Cooking example: why having her cook builds attraction [00:08:20] – The "String Of Yeses" Explained [00:08:40] – The bar-movement strategy and building micro compliance [00:10:46] – Using phone number exchanges and playful framing [00:13:09] – Speaking identity into women to reinforce positive behavior [00:18:01] – Applying the same principle to yourself with NLP [00:18:26] – Why 95% of Mark's clients succeed with this mindset reprogramming [00:20:14] – Wrap-up and final advice Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula   About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdviceForMen #CognitiveDissonance #StringOfYeses #AttractionPsychology #MasculineFrame #Confidence #NLP #AlphaMindset #SelfImprovement #HighValueMan
In this eye-opening episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing breaks down 10 subtle signs that instantly make a man look weak, awkward, or even creepy in the eyes of women. Drawing from a shocking study where convicts picked potential victims based solely on body language, Mark reveals how the same subconscious cues that attract danger also repel attraction. He explains how posture, tone, movement, and energy silently communicate your confidence — and how to improve your presence so women feel you are the alpha male.   Key Takeaways: - Why weak posture and fast movements signal fear and low confidence. - The "reactive male" trap — and how to project calm, leader energy. - How being overly agreeable makes you look manipulative and creepy. - The deadly impact of poor hygiene, high-pitched voice, and nervous laughter. - How training and self-defense transform your presence and attraction.   Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:00:27] – The convict victim study and what it reveals about attraction [00:03:17] – Why body language determines how both men and women see you [00:04:17] – Fearful energy that signal weakness [00:06:49] – The danger of reactivity and seeking validation [00:09:56] – Agreeableness and why it backfires with women [00:12:38] – The "disclaimer laugh" and other submissive cues [00:13:31] – Fitness and your ability to fight [00:15:50] – Voice tone, posture, and taking up space [00:18:19] – Hygiene, anger, and emotional control [00:21:03] – How your eyes signal you're terrified [00:23:46] – Wrap-up and final advice Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula   About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdviceForMen #MasculineFrame #BodyLanguage #AttractionTips #Confidence #AlphaMindset #SelfImprovement #MasculineEnergy #HighValueMan
In this revealing episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing dives deep into the secret art of "the campaign" — how to play the long game with women while keeping the upper hand and bypassing the dreaded friend zone with a super effective trick. Mark explains why slow-building attraction leads to stronger, longer-lasting connections, and how to use time, confidence, and humor to make a woman truly invested in you. He shares real-life examples from his days as a bouncer, the psychology behind "multiple touches," and the four pillars of attraction that make this approach completely foolproof.   Key Takeaways: - How waiting to get her number builds intrigue and desire. - Using humor, frame control, and value to stay high-status. - How to friend-zone her first and skyrocket her interest in you. - Why slow-burn attraction often outperforms instant chemistry.   Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:02:26] – What is the long game? [00:03:07] – Why rushing kills attraction [00:05:05] – The "campaign" explained [00:09:20] – Building intrigue: controlling the frame and value [00:11:54] – Real-world example of how effective this strategy is [00:14:10] – Important signs of attraction [00:15:33] – Friend-zoning her first [00:19:18] – Recognizing her window of availability [00:22:24] – Wrap-up and final advice Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula   About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdviceForMen #MasculineFrame #AttractionTips #Confidence #LongGame #HighValueMan #FriendZoneStrategy #SeductionPsychology #MasculineEnergy
In this practical and entertaining episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing breaks down the exact step-by-step system to get a girl's phone number — and actually get her to go on a date with you. Forget about "numbers that go nowhere." This episode reveals the secrets behind phone numbers that stick and lead to real dates and real connections. Mark explains why attraction is built on a spectrum and how to hit the right amount of attraction before asking for her number. He introduces his powerful "3 in 5 Rule"— and walks you through the psychology, body language, and verbal cues that show she's into you.   Key Takeaways: - Why the first conversation is critical for getting a text back and a date. - How to use the "3 in 5" technique: three signs of attraction and five minutes of conversation. - How having her qualify herself increases her investment and attraction. - Three step-by-step ways to ask for her number that have the highest success rates. - How playful humor, phone exchanges, and follow-ups boost your chances of a date.   Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:01:15] – Why just getting the phone number isn't enough [00:01:54] – The first conversation [00:02:43] – Attraction is a spectrum [00:04:14] – The "3 in 5" technique [00:06:42] – Signs of attraction [00:07:52] – Make her qualify for you [00:10:15] – Three proven ways to ask for her number [00:14:10] – Playful banter examples [00:14:57] – If you don't know, you should still go! [00:16:36] – Episode wrap-up and next episode preview Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula   About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #AttractionRules #GameAndReal #DatingAdvice #Masculinity #ConfidenceForMen #HighValueMan #CommunicationSkills #Seduction #BodyLanguage #MasculineEnergy
In this insightful episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing reveals five hidden rules of attraction that could be silently sabotaging your success with women. Whether you're struggling to get attention, make a connection, or keep a woman interested, this episode breaks down practical, high-impact strategies you can start using immediately. Mark dives deep into subtle techniques like using eye contact to communicate desire, maintaining emotional strength to command respect, balancing gamey tactics with authenticity, leaving women on a high note, and mastering the power of downward inflection to assert authority.  Key Takeaways: - How to use eye contact, facial expressions, and body language to communicate attraction without words. - Why becoming emotionally weak or needy destroys attraction. - The power of following "gamey" techniques with real, authentic interactions to avoid being perceived as a player. - How to always leave women on a high note to increase desire and connection. - Why downward vocal inflection and authority in speech are critical for attraction.   Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:01:42] – How eye contact can seduce and dominate attention [00:04:47] – The power of acting distracted and distant [00:05:52] – 'Assess' her to get in the power position [00:06:24] – Using facial expressions without words [00:07:54] – Perks Program overview [00:09:35] – The danger of becoming emotionally weak [00:13:35] – Balancing gamey behavior with authentic conversation [00:17:24] – Leaving women on a high note: why it matters [00:18:56] – Using downward inflection to communicate authority [00:21:37] – Episode wrap-up and coaching program invitation Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula   About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #AttractionRules #GameAndReal #DatingAdvice #Masculinity #ConfidenceForMen #HighValueMan #CommunicationSkills #Seduction #BodyLanguage #MasculineEnergy
In this high-impact episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing discusses one of the most powerful frame control reversals in existence: Agree & Amplify. If you've ever been "tested" by a woman—whether she questions your confidence, mocks your shirt, or throws out a cheeky "are you gay?"—this episode teaches you how to flip that energy and instantly regain control of the interaction. Mark explains why frame control is the single most important skill in seduction and reveals how to use Agree & Amplify to disarm her tests with humor, congruence, and masculine ease.    Key Takeaways: - Why frame control is the backbone of attraction and masculine energy. - How Agree & Amplify instantly flips her challenge back on her. - Examples of exactly what to say when a woman teases, tests, or questions you. - How mastering frame control turns you into a confident, unshakable man.   Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:02:49] – The definition of frame control [00:04:28] – Why Mark's wearing that stupid shirt [00:05:43] – Frame check examples [00:06:55] – Client story: "You look like you shit manliness" [00:10:32] – What Agree & Amplify looks like in practice [00:12:23] – You can use it on guys too! [00:13:08] – More agree Agree & Amplify examples [00:15:01] – Pay attention to her tone/use social intelligence [00:17:21] – Alternate reversal technique: misinterpret [00:20:20] – Episode wrap up and coaching program invitation Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula   About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #FrameControl #AgreeAndAmplify #DatingAdvice #Masculinity #ConfidenceForMen #Attraction #HighValueMan #CommunicationSkills #MindsetShift #Seduction
In this deeply transformative episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing breaks down why learning to love yourself again isn't just about inner peace—it's the foundation of real confidence and attraction. Drawing on spiritual philosophy, psychology, and real-life coaching insights, Mark reveals how negative self-talk, old wounds, and other people's judgments have shaped the way you see yourself—and why it's time to drop that frame and reclaim your power. This episode guides you through practical mindset shifts, compassion exercises, and even a mirror challenge that will help you reconnect with the powerful soul you've always been.   Key Takeaways: - Why self-hatred is "other people's programming" that you've been printing on repeat. - How remembering your childhood innocence reveals the truth of who you are. - The spiritual purpose of forgetting who you are—and the power of waking back up. - Why women are drawn to men who unapologetically love themselves. - A mirror exercise to build instant self-respect and break negative self-talk.   Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:01:18] – The purpose of life [00:03:29] – Love yourself in spite of your flaws [00:04:56] – How childhood experiences planted the seeds of self-hate [00:06:09] – We're here to overcome the world [00:08:16] – Near death experiences [00:10:10] – Why you need to love yourself [00:12:20] – You've bought into other peoples frame [00:13:45] – You are a powerful creator: shifting belief systems [00:16:21] – You deserve love, stop mistreating yourself [00:19:13] – How NLP can help remove your negative belief systems [00:20:40] – Final thoughts and invitation to coaching Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula   About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdvice #SelfLove #ConfidenceForMen #Masculinity #Attraction #HighValueMan #SelfRespect #HealingJourney #MindsetShift #LoveYourself
In this powerful episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing breaks down how your cell phone—something you already carry in your pocket—is one of the most underrated tools for building attraction and securing dates. While most guys stick to the same boring routine of endless texting, Mark reveals how voice calls, voicemails, and even voice memos can instantly set you apart from the herd. When you learn how to use your phone like the ultimate Swiss Army knife, you'll fast-track trust, create deeper connections, and boost attraction in ways texting alone never could. Mark shares real examples, attraction-building strategies, and even hilarious voicemail templates that get women calling back and asking you out.   Key Takeaways: - Why calling women in 2025–2026 is the ultimate "differentiator" from other guys. - How attraction fades after getting her number—and how to revive it with a phone call. - The "Atomic Trust Method" that builds instant comfort and trust. - Funny voicemail strategies that grab her attention and get guaranteed callbacks. - A voice-deepening exercise to instantly improve how you sound on calls and memos.   Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:02:09] – Why calling beats texting in today's dating landscape [00:04:25] – It's a competition, you need to stand out! [00:08:04] – Timing strategy: why 6pm calls work best [00:09:45] – What to do if she doesn't pick up [00:10:29] – How to build attraction on the call [00:11:49] – The "atomic trust" approach, let her feel comfortable [00:13:25] – Use Mark's templates to secure the date [00:14:41] – Hilarious voicemail templates that get women to call back [00:19:29] – How to leverage voice notes [00:20:16] – Success stories from Mark's coaching program [00:22:53] – Voice-deepening hack to sound more masculine [00:24:26] – Final thoughts and coaching invitation Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula   About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdvice #PhoneGame #SwissArmyKnife #Masculinity #ConfidenceForMen #OnlineDating #TextGame #HighValueMan #SelfImprovement #VoiceGame
In this unfiltered episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing reveals the secrets to standing out in a girl's DMs when she's getting flooded with hundreds—if not thousands—of thirsty messages every day. Drawing from data collected in his Online Dating Masterclass (over 13,000 tested messages), Mark breaks down the psychology of what actually gets a response and why most men fail before they even hit "send." From dialing in your profile photos and portraying a high-value lifestyle to crafting witty, curiosity-driven openers that spark replies, Mark gives you proven, field-tested strategies to separate yourself from the herd.   Key Takeaways: - Why your photos and follower count matter more than you think. - The importance of "pre-selection" and how to showcase it correctly. - Four powerful DM openers that consistently get replies. - Why being funny and teasing beats compliments every time. - How to avoid looking like every other "thirsty guy" in her inbox.   Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:02:21] – Announcement: Mark's answering questions on Spotify/YouTube! [00:03:38] – Why your online presence matters a LOT in 2025–2026 [00:05:14] – Instagram pictures are your no1 priority [00:06:14] – Pre-selection: why women must see you with other attractive women [00:07:57] – Follower count is important [00:11:59] – Utilize AI tools to maximize your photos [00:13:21] – Four powerful DM openers (tested across 13,000+ messages) [00:18:12] – Student success stories from the coaching program [00:20:08] – Four powerful DM openers continued [00:24:06] – Final thoughts and invitation to apply for coaching Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula   About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdvice #DMGame #InstagramGame #Masculinity #ConfidenceForMen #OnlineDating #TextGame #HighValueMan #SelfImprovement
In this brutally honest new episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing tackles one of the most confidence-destroying challenges men face: premature ejaculation. Drawing from his own raw personal experiences, Mark unpacks the psychology behind coming too quickly—what he calls the "second wolf phenomenon"—and reveals how hidden belief systems, shame, and mindset issues are sabotaging your bedroom performance. Mark shares his proven step-by-step strategies to help you last as long as you want, including unconventional but highly effective techniques you can try tonight. This episode gives you the tools to eliminate premature ejaculation and become the guy who can go round after round.   Key Takeaways: - Why premature ejaculation destroys your confidence and self-esteem. - The "second wolf phenomenon" and how your lizard brain is working against you. - How hidden belief systems about sex create performance problems. - Why "mental distractions" actually work. - The unconventional masturbation technique that lets you last indefinitely. - Why awareness of your psychology alone can sometimes cure the problem.   Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:01:15] – Mark's personal story of premature ejaculation [00:03:22] – The "second wolf phenomenon" explained [00:05:30] – How personal belief systems about sex sabotage performance [00:07:45] – Awareness alone can (sometimes) be curative [00:09:13] – Practical tips: masturbation, numbing condoms, and mental tricks [00:12:17] – Info on The Sex Masterclass with Kirsten Trammell [00:14:46] – Mark's unconventional technique to last as long as you want [00:17:49] – Explaining it to your partner and testing it solo first [00:18:46] – Final thoughts, masterclass invitation, and wrap-up   Apply for The Sex Masterclass: https://coachmarksing.com/sex-masterclass/ Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula   About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdvice #Masculinity #SexTipsForMen #ConfidenceForMen #PrematureEjaculation #SexualMastery #HighValueMan #SelfImprovement
Apply for The Sex Masterclass: https://coachmarksing.com/sex-masterclass/   In this raw and hilarious new episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing takes you deep into one of the most important skills in the bedroom: going down on a woman. With his trademark no-BS delivery, Mark breaks down his personal step-by-step approach to cunnilingus, blending practical technique with psychological insight so you can leave her shaking, screaming, and utterly addicted to you. This episode is packed with actionable tips to transform your oral game. Mark also reveals why foreplay is non-negotiable, and shares why pretending you love it (even if you don't) is crucial to helping her climax. Key Takeaways: - Learn why her ability to climax is 80% mental. - The importance of anticipation and teasing before you dive in. - Mark's go-to cunnilingus rhythm that keeps her building toward orgasm. - How to use your lips, tongue, and fingers in perfect sync. - The "hook of doom" method to hit her G-spot and take her over the edge. - Why encouraging her not to come actually helps her climax faster. Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview[00:03:30] – Why cunnilingus makes women addicted to you[00:04:00] – Act like you love it! (even if you don't)[00:05:07] – The sniff test & knowing when not to go down[00:07:25] – Talk about it first[00:08:57] – Making her feel comfortable[00:11:17] – Building anticipation with foreplay and teasing[00:13:46] – The first lick and rhythm that sets her on fire[00:17:50] – Sex Masterclass invitation[00:19:37] – The lip–tongue technique that makes girls explode[00:20:50] – Syncing tongue and fingers for maximum pleasure[00:23:09] – The "hook of doom" technique and how to find her G-spot[00:25:51] – Final tips, wrap-up, and masterclass details   About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdvice #Masculinity #SexTipsForMen #ConfidenceForMen #Cunnilingus #SexualMastery #HighValueMan #SelfImprovement  
Apply for The Sex Masterclass: https://coachmarksing.com/sex-masterclass/   In this powerful new episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing lets you behind the curtain of an actual coaching call with his clients—real men investing in themselves and learning how to master attraction. This time, the focus is on one of the most electrifying aspects of game: sexual tension. Mark breaks down his proven, step-by-step formula for sparking sexual tension in the very first conversation. You'll hear how to recognize signs of attraction, when to make the move, and how to use playful teasing and imaginative scenarios to take a girl from curious to absolutely hooked. With vivid examples—from the "bad kisser" question, to astrology-based routines, to playful "makeup fight" scenarios—you'll see exactly how to create an irresistible atmosphere that turns sparks into flames. Key Takeaways: - Why you should never hit on a girl until she's already attracted to you. - The four pillars of attraction: control, value, sexual tension, and qualifying. - Mark's three most potent ways to build sexual tension on the spot. - Why talking about intimacy—but not acting on it immediately—skyrockets her attraction. - How to confidently steer conversations into playful, sexual territory without being needy. Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode Preview[00:01:04] – The V cut protocol: attraction first, hit on her after[00:02:29] – Starting the sexual tension process[00:04:13] – Should you make out with girls at the nightclub?[00:05:33] – The "bad kisser" question that sparks instant sexual tension[00:06:29] – Play-fighting routines and astrology banter[00:08:00] – Use roleplaying to hook her emotions[00:10:31] – Mark's upcoming SEX MASTERCLASS[00:15:09] – Using hobbies and hypo stories to build sexual tension [00:17:57] – Teasing post-fight make up sex to build insane sexual attraction[00:19:22] – Episode wrap up and masterclass details About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdvice #Masculinity #SexualTension #ConfidenceForMen #AttractionTips #HighValueMan #SelfImprovement
In this episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing dives into one of the most sought-after skills in dating: consistently getting a blowjob from a woman. This episode isn't about entitlement—it's about attraction, sexual tension, and leading with confidence. Mark explains why giving pleasure first, talking about sexual desires, and role-playing scenarios dramatically increase the chances of her wanting to please you. You'll learn how to approach women effectively, lead conversations about sex without being pushy, and reward behavior that encourages intimacy. Mark also gives practical tips for giving and receiving oral in a way that creates an unforgettable experience for both partners.    Key Takeaways: - How sexual tension and reciprocity increase the chances of oral sex. - Leading conversations about sex confidently and effectively. - Tips for giving and receiving oral like a pro. - How to boost approach confidence and become irresistible in the bedroom. - Exclusive insights into Mark's upcoming masterclass with Kirsten Trammell.   Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode Preview [00:01:05] – Blowjobs are the best! [00:02:29] – The importance of opening a LOT of women [00:03:21] – Get her talking about blowjobs & roleplaying [00:05:09] – The norm of reciprocity [00:07:48] – How to be explicit [00:08:53] – Ask her questions to turn things sexual [00:09:48] – Psychological reinforcement and rewards [00:12:43] – You must go down on her first! [00:13:36] – Announcement: Sex Masterclass with Kirsten Trammell [00:17:13] – Tips on pleasing her and personal cleanliness [00:21:10] – Episode recap & wrap-up Apply for The Sex Masterclass: https://coachmarksing.com/sex-masterclass/ About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdvice #Masculinity #ConfidenceForMen #FrameControl #AttractionTips #HighValueMan #SexTips
In this 700th special episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing reflects on what it truly means to be an Unapologetic Man in today's world. From defending your masculinity to setting unbreakable boundaries, Mark breaks down why standing tall, owning your sexuality, and commanding respect is essential in a time when men are increasingly under attack. You'll discover why being a man isn't about entitlement or aggression—it's about discipline, integrity, and living with purpose. Learn how to stop taking other people's abuse, how to act with an unwavering spine, and why teaching people how to treat you is the most powerful tool you have. Key Takeaways: - How being unapologetic about your masculinity and sexuality builds respect. - Why you teach people how to treat you—and how to stop being a victim. - The difference between discipline-driven masculinity and toxic behavior. - Why integrity, consistency, and having spine are the core traits of an unapologetic man. - The importance of setting boundaries and enforcing them without apology. Key Timestamps: [00:01:05] – Episode Preview & Listener Appreciation [00:02:03] – The impact of this podcast on Mark's life and mission [00:03:16] – Dealing with hate and criticism online [00:03:52] – Being unapologetic [00:05:29] – Why men are under attack and the Gen Z statistic [00:06:21] – Toxic masculinity explained and debunked [00:07:46] – The overswung pendulum: Sexuality and the attack on masculinity [00:09:55] – Discipline, integrity, and acting with spine [00:10:59] – Setting boundaries: teaching people how to treat you [00:12:24] – Masculinity within the parameters of morality, a force for good [00:15:34] – The unapologetic man in relationships and life [00:18:04] – Closing reflections & next episode teaser   Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula   About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdvice #Masculinity #ConfidenceForMen #FrameControl #AttractionTips #HighValueMan #SelfImprovement
In this episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing breaks down the truth behind why women sometimes just don't get attracted — even if you thought you were doing everything right. From frame control to emotional impact, outcome dependence, and even simply "not being her type," Mark unpacks the hidden blind spots that sabotage attraction. You'll discover why attraction has less to do with your resume and more to do with how you make her feel in the moment. As well as the super important four pillars of attraction, you'll learn both what they are and how to apply them when talking to women. 3 Powerful Episodes to Listen To: 1: 3 Secret "MP Gambits" to Tell Girls to Get Them Attracted to You (POWERFUL STUFF!) https://open.spotify.com/episode/4HLEQrkKzyDGowewH4yYwD?si=05b1d7dc0fa1406d 2: Attraction Building Technique: How to Read a Woman's Mind (SOOOO GOOD!!!!) https://open.spotify.com/episode/4oPEYOOet3FimFe6o7iBI0?si=79642438cd584dcb 3: 3 Attraction Building Conversation Mind Reads to SEDUCE A HOT CHICK FAST  https://open.spotify.com/episode/3oKAnWXSFd7dMW25oCdrHc?si=c3223281d7544042 Key Takeaways: - Why controlling the frame is the single most important factor in attraction. - The role of emotions: women don't care about your resume, they care about how you make them feel. - How outcome dependence secretly kills attraction. - The four pillars of attraction and how to leverage them for success. - Why being too nervous or "nerdy" in your mannerisms makes you lose the masculine role.   Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode Preview [00:01:27] – Podcast video upgrades! [00:02:05] – The #1 reason she didn't get attracted: lack of frame control [00:04:37] – You didn't elicit enough emotions from her [00:06:37] – Outcome dependence and being too needy [00:09:17] – Being uncomfortable, nerd mannerisms, and why exposure matters [00:11:22] – Pre-selection explained [00:13:19] – The Four Pillars of Attraction: frame control, value, sexual tension, qualifying [00:17:15] – Sometimes, you're just not her type [00:20:28] – Recap & coaching program invitation   Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula   About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdvice #Masculinity #ConfidenceForMen #FrameControl #AttractionTips #SeductionStrategy #HighValueMan
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Wyandotte

Hey man. I’m grateful for you. You have the most people-smart wisdom I have ever seen (heard). I believe that this is the single greatest podcast to ever exist, and I thank God for it. I’m a Christian but my faith is strong enough that listening to this “controversial” podcast doesn’t hurt me. I even agree with most of what you say, because I believe it. I have done my own research, and had been in a relationship with a girl that taught me a lot. I love you brother. Thanks

Feb 22nd
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Wyandotte

Hey man. I’m grateful for you. You have the most people-smart wisdom I have ever seen (heard). I believe that this is the single greatest podcast to ever exist, and I thank God for it. I’m a Christian but my faith is strong enough that listening to this “controversial” podcast doesn’t hurt me. I even agree with most of what you say, because I believe it. I have done my own research, and had been in a relationship with a girl that taught me a lot. I love you brother. Thanks

Feb 22nd
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Jay Miller

Awesome content

Jan 7th
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Jonathan Roseland

Great listening (even for married guys). Married guys like myself also need to keep our relationship game on point. This is one of the few seduction podcasts I’ve found that DOESN’T suck. I really appreciate that Mark drops practical stuff, as opposed to endless theory circle jerk.

Sep 29th
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ID26583981

Karate chop that… Awesome.

May 11th
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jagraj singh

Hi Mark! Every since I started listening to you podcast, I could not even describe how much my confidence level elevated like I used to think I could not do this as I am not capable of this but you have changed my life and I have become very optimistic and every new thing which I try like getting a new job or approaching girls, I get very excited and feel amazing. Thank to you. Keep up with amazing work!!

May 25th
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Tiger (NoahArkwright)

Hypergamy: the theory men desperately want to be true, but simply isn't the phenomenon they insist it is.

Dec 9th
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Matthew McKibben

hahaha I hope his family member listens to this podcast lol.

Nov 8th
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Matthew McKibben

IDK if you will see this on Castbox but how the hell can I actually get your book The Approach Formula. I was able to find Johns Tinder book but i cant find yours. i signed up for the email but i got a request email that i opened and then the next email from you was saying "now that i read The Approach Formula i can sign up for coaching. i want to get 1 on 1 but inwould like to work on the formula first.

Aug 30th
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Matthew Benedetti

Mark is an absolute beast. He speaks in such a way that's entertaining and unlike anyone I've ever listened to. I usually listen on long drives and it feels like he's right in the car with me. When he says his purpose is to help men in this area of life, I 110% believe him, and you can tell just by how passionate he is that this is true. I could come up with many words to summarize the UMP, but if I were limited to 3, they would be empowering, intelligent, and inspirational. Thank you for all you do for us Mark, you've definitely made a positive impact on my life and I know you will continue to do so. OK now I need to get back to work... these baskets aren't going to weave themselves.

Jul 19th
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Danny Foley

My new favorite Podcast, I find myself listening over and over because the information is good. Coach Mark sing is super funny and gets right to the point. Such practical advice to improve your life in all aspects. Be a man and listen to this podcast, no need to apologize for it. After episode I listen to I see how relevant all of the material is in real life.

Jul 13th
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Jeremy Westblade

No doubt my favourite podcast. So jam packed with good funny content. Most podcasts mumble and can be difficult to hear, but not Mark's voice as I can understand what he's saying over my 1990 6cy john deere engine whilst spreading lime💪💪 This bloke is a spartan 🤜 All the best from 🇦🇺

Jan 23rd
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Anton Novikov

The best episode! Greetings from Russia🤙🏽

Oct 11th
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mostafa khalili

it was great, liied it.

Sep 24th
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Zach Galemore

I love this podcast! learning how to improve my habits and mental well being everyday!! keep it up man!!

Jun 15th
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Simon Fleras

Coach Mark delivers a fun, energetic podcast featuring great content for men committed to becoming their best selves. He offers concrete action steps to test and practice his ideas and techniques in the real world. Recommended.

Apr 13th
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