The Weekly Hot Spot

Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika crack open the candy bowl of taboo for this episode which is inspired by a listener question. Jen Jenn asks about sissy costume suggestions for Halloween and your Femdom hosts decide to talk about all sorts of fun, festive and naughty costumes.First though, we go off on safari about CANDY CORN. This is the perfect holiday for feminization in public. We give some specific ideas how you can be femme and get away with your sissy play at a Halloween party.Costume ideas for sissies:a Hooters Girlslutty costumescomics cosplayand more.Speaking of cosplay, a perfect blend of feminization and humiliation bondage could be a Harley Quinn costume with literal restraints!Hear what each Mistress is thinking about for her Halloween costume. We also talk about blending BDSM, kink and creativity for this fun holiday.Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressOlivia@EnchantrixEmpire.comMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyErika@EnchantrixEmpire.comDISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErikaAvailable for phone or texting sessions800-356-6169 

Ellen Ancui and Sophie Levine, hosts of the new podcast FILTHY MILFS return to have a candid conversation about sex, foreplay, power exchange, kink and more. If you’ve ever seen a group of women having a fun, lively conversation and wondered what they’re talking about then you’re in luck.This is like we’re all sitting around with cocktails and dishing about:Blow JobsHow to make cum taste goodReaction of women to sucking cockSnowballing and cum eatingSharing erotic fantasies with your partnerIntimacy and great sexSexual wellnessAging and keeping sex juicy and excitingNormalizing the conversation around all aspects of sexBeing open minded about different kinds of erotic pleasureSwingers lifestyleTaking viagra for phone sex sessions Sex work and sex workersLuxury lingerie and why it's so fun to dress up.Finally, we have a conversation about women and power. Could either or both of these ladies want to be a Femdom? We talk about myths and misconceptions about BDSM as well as the relaxation and release for the submissive.FILTHY MILFS podcast is available on all podcast platforms, YouTube, Instagram, Facebook and maybe even Linkedin.Here’s the link to FILTHY MILFS on SpotifyMistress Olivia’s blog:  Experienced MistressOlivia@EnchantrixEmpire.comMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyErika@EnchantrixEmpire.comDISCORD:  LDWOlivia and LDWErika

They say they’re FILTHY and MILFY and this is a new podcast you will thoroughly enjoy! Ellen Ancui and Sophie Levine are the FILTHY MILFS. Sophie says, “We’re just a couple of randy, curious, highly intelligent horny ladies.”  What a fun conversation!Topics include:The power of female sexualityEmbracing the SLUT labelSocial standards for the sexual behavior of womenSelf empowerment that comes with BDSM, kink, Femdom, and sex work.Sexual pleasure and agingExploring the popularity of MILFSSexually experienced women and confidence.What did family and friends think of the name of the podcast?Join us for this uncensored and intimate conversation with the FILTHY MILFS.Look for the FILTHY MILFS podcast on all the podcast platforms and Youtube!Here’s the FILTHY MILFS on SpotifyMistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressOlivia@EnchantrixEmpire.comMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyErika@EnchantrixEmpire.comDISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika

What is rough kink or BDSM pain play? What makes that different from other kinds of rough sex?  Why does a Femdom enjoy delivering pain? This episode explores pleasure and pain to answer listener questions about BDSM.Topics include:What is rough kink in the framework of BDSM pain play?How rough does it need to be to be considered BDSM?Who gets to define it?What are some of the items used in rough kink?Does someone need a spanking or CBT to be considered pain play?How do you know you’re ready to explore rough kink?How do you communicate with your partner?The role of BDSM negotiation in safe scenes.What is a safe word and how does it apply in BDSM?How does a Mistress gauge when to push your boundaries?What sorts of questions should a Dominatrix ask you before pain play?BDSM terms:SSC: safe, sane and consensualRACK: risk-aware consensual kinkPRICK:  personal responsibility, informed, consensual kink or personally responsible in consensual kink.AndThe 4 C’s:  caring, communication consent and caution.The importance of aftercare for the submissive and the Mistress.Personal stories, behind the scenes of Distance Domination, and more. You never know what you’ll hear and we appreciate you enjoying the podcast!Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyDISCORD:  LDWOlivia and LDWErika

Popular adult entertainer with multiple accolades from AVN, XBIZ and Transgender Erotica Awards (just to name a few) returns to the podcast to talk about the porn industry, changes in the adult industry and being in control of her career.Topics include:Why being a porn star used to be more glamorous.The role of Only Fans in changing the porn industry.How Only Fans allows adult entertainers to connect directly with fans.Creating custom adult content on demand.Being a trans woman in the adult industry:Exploring sex, sexuality and a variety of partnersDating while being in the adult industryObjectification as a trans womanObjectification as a sex workerComing out to her conservative familyBeing a business woman:Ways in which the adult industry allows for financial freedom Why working for a porn studio is often not worth itBeing part of the all trans cast of the Lily Wachowski’s sci fi film D.O.L.L.SThis conversation is a thoughtful peek behind the scenes of porn, the adult industry, stigma and sex work. Listener questions inspired many of the topics in this interview.Here’s to all of us living life without regrets!Eva Maxim’s Only Fans pageTwitter X: @Eva_Maxim      AdultTime (where to watch D.O.L.L.S)Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyDISCORD:  LDWOlivia and LDWErika

Get to know one of the hottest porn stars in the adult industry, Eva Maxim. This trans woman is the winner of a lot of awards. You know her from her hot sex scenes but today you’ll get a peek behind the scenes.Today’s episode talks about:Adult industry awardsThe business side of pleasureWhy and how Only Fans has changed the adult industry.Why she prefers producing content for Only Fans rather than filming a scene for a traditional porn studio.Eva graciously answers listener questions about:When she fully realized she is a STARPrepping for a porn shootConnection to the sissy communitySpeaking of sissies, since Eva is a Top, it’s natural to ask her about trying some Femdom scenes with a sissy or two.  Ms Olivia and Ms Erika offer to team up with some Domme content.This is the first of a 2 part interview and Eva will be back again!Eva Maxim Only FansTwitter X:  @Eva_MaximMistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistressolivia@enchantrixempire.comMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasyerika@enchantrixempire.comDISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika

Are you curious about threesomes, foursomes and moresomes? This episode has tips on group sex, personal stories and lots of advice.Adult entertainment publicist and author Lainie Speiser joins us to talk about her book: Threesomes: For couples who want to know more.The Weekly Hot Spot podcast listeners sent in lots of questions. How often does a threesome “just happen”?How can you spot someone asking you to be in a threesome?Do you think you’ve ever missed an opportunity for group sex?Should you have a safe word, like in BDSM, for swingers encounters?What happens if you find yourself in a situation where you just aren’t into it and you want to lease?How to negotiate consent with group sex?Who gets to do what?Do men ever get performance anxiety when with two women?What about a couple who want to add another man or, even, a sissy?How to find a threesome if you want to be the third to a couple?How to talk to your partner about exploring non-traditional sex?Hear personal stories, solid advice and so much more.Link to books by Lainie Speiser (get all of them!)Twitter X and Insta:  @MissLainie    Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistressolivia@enchantrixempire.comMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasyerika@enchantrixempire.comDISCORD:  LDWOlivia and LDWErika

Questions about blow jobs? We’ve got answers in this episode with adult entertainment publicist Lainie Speiser.  How do women feel about giving blow jobs?What do these three sexy women like most about giving a blow job?Do porn stars actually enjoy giving blow jobs or do they fake it for the camera?How do porn stars give great blow jobs?Using your hand along with your mouth for blow jobs.Tips for learning to deep throat a big cockHow to control your gag reflex.How to make sure your teeth don’t ruin the blow job.Find out who came up with the term deep throat.What is a fellatio fiesta?Learn about Michael and his blow bros.Find out how many loads of cum Michael the cum junkie has slurped up this year.Freezing cum loadsBDSM, kink and being submissiveDoes a Femdom give a blow job?Can a blow job be part of an elaborate mindfuck?Do porn shoots still use fluffers and how does someone get that job?Listener questions inspire this episode. You’ll learn some sex education, hear intimate behind the scenes stories and so much more!Link to books by Lainie Speiser (get all of them!)Twitter X and Insta:  @MissLainie    Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistressolivia@enchantrixempire.comMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasyerika@enchantrixempire.comDISCORD:  LDWOlivia and LDWErika

Meet Davina: a straight male who likes to crossdress. What is the reaction of the wife? How does the feminine side coexist with the masculine side? Mistress Olivia reads parts of an email from a listener who describes herself as Davina, “I don't mean just someone who dabbles in panties or lingerie behind closed doors, I’ve developed a full feminine persona named Davina — she’s elegant, expressive, grounded, and very real to me.”Mistress Erika and Ms Olivia talk about feminization, crossdressing, gender presentation and gender identity including:Terms and labels used in gender exploration.What is the difference between a crossdresser and a trans woman?Why does wearing women’s lingerie unlock feminine emotions for many men?What is the reaction of the wife of a crossdresser?Does the wife assume crossdressing means her husband is gay or bisexual?Can a wife be jealous of her feminized husband?Who gets to decide gender norms?Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress   olivia@enchantrixempire.comMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy   erika@enchantrixempire.comDISCORD:  LDWOlivia and LDWErika

A sissy asks if it’s normal for crossdressing urges to disappear after an orgasm. Short answer yes, but there are nuances, reasons and ideas around feminization urges and the cycles of desire to dress.Is crossdressing more of a fetish or kink thing?Why does someone who identifies as male wear women’s lingerie?How important is submission to a Dominant Woman?Is dressing en femme always about sex?Is feminization drop similar to subdrop for a submissive?Does the type of orgasm matter?Will learning to have a sissygasm instead of a traditional stroking orgasm mean that the feminization urges remain?What role does guilt and shame play in crossdressing cycles?How does the woman in charge or Mistress extend your sissy urges?Role of chastity in sissy training Orgasm denial as part of submission via feminization.Do crossdressing urges go away as people age?While the question about feminization, crossdressing and sissy urges inspired this podcast episode, many of the points also apply to other kinks and fetish play. DISCORD:  LDWOlivia and LDWErikaMistress Olivia’s blog:  Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog:  Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Do you like chastity? We have some new ideas for you. Not sure if you want to explore chastity with a Femdom Mistress? Listen and find out why we love chastity.A listener inspired this episode with the following questions:What do women really think of male chastity and being a Keyholder?Are some men meant to be in chastity?What are your favorite chastity devices?Mistress Erika points out that there are different kinds of cages for different kinds of play:A tube style chastity cage that allows for partial erection.Smaller cages can be used for different levels of control.Using the nub for sissy training.Chastity cage with spikes and/or urethral sound so getting an erection is immediately painful.Why would someone want to be in chastity?Submission to the woman that is your keyholder.Freedom from the constant focus on erections and/or jerking off.Refocusing attention on what’s important.Using chastity for sissy training:Silicone cages come in colors including sissy pink!Smaller cages can cause shrinking which reinforces sissy focus.Orgasm denial keeps feminization and submission to Mistress as the sissy life.2 previous episodes mentioned in this podcast:Chastity Interview with William of Mature MetalAndHow do I get my vanilla wife to put me in chastity? Meet Mrs. Mature MetalJOIN the conversation!Our adult social networking site: Enchantrix EmpireDISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErikaMistress Olivia’s blog:  Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Sissy Pageant recap: Questions we love include: What are your greatest challenges of feminization? Role of your Femdom Mistress? Sissy play and your life. Many people answered that self-acceptance can be a challenge and that having a Mistress and a supportive community has made all the difference in the world.Other comments touch on:Motivation for consistent sissy training or being femmeFeminine style and who gets to decide how someone should lookBody hair while crossdressing or dressing en femmeMasculine and feminine sides co-existingHumiliation as part of sissy playSubmission to Mistress or Goddess as part of feminization training.Of course, you’ll hear personal stories, our comments on your quotes and even a couple festive trips on safari including:Ms Erika’s favorite body partMs Olivia’s offer of 5 free minutes on your Discord session if you do a specific something.Our free adult social networking site: Enchantrix EmpireMistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Lainie Speiser is a legend in the adult industry. She’s worked with all the biggest porn stars and knows the industry from a unique point of view. Today, Lainie answers your questions:Do adult entertainers really enjoy what they do?Does sex ever become mundane for a porn star?Do porn stars worry about cock size or other performance issues?Penis size, porn and an unusual issue for huge cocks.Are any performers in gay porn actually straight?Are huge cum shots real?What do production companies use for fake cum?Is lesbian porn made to appeal to men who want to watch it?What do lesbian women like to watch?Does anyone make erotica for crossdressers or men who like wearing lingerie?Transwomen in the adult industry and why this niche is such a popular porn category.And, finally … a joking question about job benefits like health insurance leads to an interesting conversation about mental health and adult entertainers.Lainie has a wealth of knowledge, a great sense of humor and stories galore. We can’t wait until the next time we speak with her.Lainie Speiser:  Twitter X  @MissLainie  Lanie's books on Amazon, including Confessions of 100 of the Hottest Porn Stars.Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyDiscord:LDWOliviaLDWErika

Why does a man want to wear panties? There are a lot of misconceptions around this and it makes for a perfect opportunity for some BDSM or kink education. Topics include:How does panty wearing start? Why would a heterosexual cis man wear panties?Is it always about sex or kink?Can wearing women’s lingerie help a man be more comfortable with expressing his female side?Does wearing panties mean you’re gay, bi or trans?Why does a Femdom Mistress put a man in panties?Feminization or sissificationSending a submissive into subspaceUsing panties to create a certain scene like erotic humiliation or cock controlDoes a panty boi always want to be humiliated?Lots of personal stories, behind the scenes of online Mistress domination, and much more!Mistress Olivia’s blog:  Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog:  Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Today’s episode is about myths about sex work, sex workers and the people who enjoy our company.Both hosts have never done Femdom phone sex or distance domination before coming to LDW Group so this is a perfect opportunity to talk about perception and reality around these fascinating aspects of human behavior.Is phone sex always about sex?Does every session ‘need’ to end with an orgasm?Why does someone call an online Mistress?Your hosts use personal stories to illustrate thoughts on intimacy, vulnerability, sex, sexual exploration, sex health, erotic pleasure and sex work. Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Today’s episode is all about ruined orgasms. What is a ruined orgasm? How is it different from a full orgasm? Why would a Femdom Mistress want to ruin an orgasm? There are so many aspects to discuss.In this episode you’ll hear:The experiences of others who have had ruined orgasms by accident or on purpose.Why does a ruined orgasm leave you crazy horny?How does a Femdom Mistress use a ruined orgasm as part of cock control, tease and delay, tease and denial and even chastity play?Does a Domme consider a ruined orgasm as punishment, funishment or maybe both depending on the BDSM or kink play.The ladies also bring up feminization and sissy training. A ruined orgasm can keep those submissive sissy feelings going and stop the sissy drop or crossdresser purging cycles that are so frustrating (and expensive!).If you’re interested in BDSM, kink, feminization, sissy training or sexy conversations with smart women, get in touch!Olivia@enchantrixempire.comErika@enchantrixempire.comDISCORD:  LDWOlivia and LDWErikaMistress Olivia’s blog:  Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog:  Intelligent Phone FantasyOur adult social networking site:  Enchantrix Empire

Is pain play a hard limit for you? If you say yes, then you might be like the person that inspired today’s episode. Our friend didn’t have any desire to explore pain play until one day he said, well okay maybe we can try it a little bit. Wait until you hear what happened next!You’ll hear from a number of submissives who enjoy BDSM pain play:** Why would someone want to experience pain as part of sexual arousal?** How can a Femdom Mistress or Dominant Woman manipulate someone into pushing their limits of BDSM and kink?** How does pain and pleasure overlap in BDSM?** How are power dynamics between Domme and sub enhanced and expressed through painful sensations?** Why trust and communication in BDSM relationships is essential.** Role of aftercare in BDSM** Does the Domme get sexually aroused or orgasm as she is spanking or ball busting a submissive?The hosts also talk about using pain in feminization and sissy training. You’ll hear from one sissy who says pain helps her to let go and slip into her feminine subspace.BDSM education, personal stories, insight from kinksters, and more.Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyContact us on DISCORD:LDWOliviaLDWErikaOur free, private adult social membership site, Enchantrix Empire.

How much do you know about sex? There won’t be a quiz after this podcast episode, but maybe there should be! Normally, we focus on BDSM education, kink topics, feminization and the role of a Femdom Mistress in the lives of submissives … not today. Today, we highlight sex facts that catch our attention and tickle our funny bones.Does more thrusting automatically equal more fun?Are sex dreams only for horny young men?Who stars in the sex dreams for women versus men?What do most people wear to bed?Is there a link between job satisfaction and sex?The sex facts research is really the springboard for your hosts to talk, laugh and tell stories. You’ll also hear something we think will change the way you think of the word happiness.Mistress Olivia’s blog:  Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog:  Intelligent Phone Fantasy

When we do a Sissy Pageant, we all have tons of fun! This event isn’t JUST for sissies. It’s for anyone into feminization or male submissives under orders from Mistress. We’re calling it a Sissy Pageant simply because we can’t fit this in a title: Trans woman, crossdresser, femmeboi, sissy and some male subs Pageant. See? That title is bulky.This episode is about how to enter the Sissy Pageant, tips for your photos, advice and so much more. Your Femdom hosts go over the: who, what, why, where and when details. You can also read the specifics here on The Daily Cock.  If that site is not available where you live, I’ll post the requirements after our links and contact information.There are a couple of epic ‘safaris’ including Ms Olivia’s funeral story and the hot flirting when Ms Erika casually said, “I stand behind you, Olivia.” You’ll be able to tell that we are both very exciting for the Sissy Pageant and YOUR participation!Our adult social networking site: Enchantrix EmpireMistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistressolivia@enchantrixempire.comMistress Erika’s blog:  Intelligent Phone Fantasyerika@enchantirxempire.comHow to participate in the Sissy Pageant:Join our free adult social networking site: Enchantrix EmpireJoin Discord - it’s also freeQualify to enter by doing a 30 minute call.Have fun with your Mistress or all the other ladies in Enchantrix Empire who are sharing your joy and excitement. Your submission is: 3 photos and the answers to 4 questions.Submission due date July 12thDate of Sissy Pageant:  Saturday, July 17th at 7pm eastern time.Location: the Discord Server for the Sissy Pageant

Imagine that you have three very sexy career counselors who are also Femdoms. The Mistress trio of Mistress Olivia, Mistress Erika and Goddess Demi team up to create The Ultimate Sissy Slut Resume.Today’s episode is all about how we will create your sissy slut resume. Goddess Demi came up with a very pretty sample resume. That is what you will get at the end, and like most things, it’s all about the journey. Our sissy slut resume journey begins with us asking you lots of questions.We send you a sissy questionnaire that helps us to:Find out your current sissy experiencesHelp identify your future desires and slut ambitionsEncourage you to showcase your special sissy skillsWhat are some of the sissy skills that might go on your resume?Submission - how submissive are you?Anal experience - do you need anal training from Mistress?Dildo or cock sucking experience - can you deep throat?Do you have sex toys? What do you have and what do you want to explore?Cuckold fantasies or experiences - are you or do you want to be a sissy cuckold husbandOther - what other skills do you have?You will get emails back and forth with your Sissy Mistress counselors. We send you a total of six emails from us. What’s in the emails? Pretty much anything we want to talk about. We’ll answer your questions, ask you questions, and generally get to know you even better!After the questions and the emails exchange YOU will receive your Sissy Slut resume! You can use the slut resume anywhere you like. We want you to post it on our adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire. You can use it on social media, send it to friends and lovers, or cherish it in private.This sissy slut resume is perfect for any sissy, you don’t have to be slutty. You might be a sissy maid or a sissy secretary. Well now, you need a resume, don’t you? Of course you do!Take a peek at the package on our Phone Sex Assignments store.Act quickly to level up your sissy game and get your resume now! You just might want to use this as part of our Sissy Pageant. We’ll have another episode just on the Sissy Pageant and you can read about it on The Daily Cock.Act now … the price is $89.00 but the SALE PRICE is $69.00 until the end of July.69, get it?Phone Sex Assignments StoreGoddess Demi’s blog:  Sensual Cock TeaseMistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog:  Intelligent Phone FantasyOur free adult social networking site: EnchantrixEmpire