The Weekly Hot Spot

Ever found yourself whispering a desire into the phone, prefacing it with, “You’re probably going to think I’m weird for this…”? If so, you’re far from alone. On this episode of The Weekly Hot Spot, Mistresses Olivia and Erika sit down with a true leader in the world of sexuality and relationships, Dr. Jaime Grant, to dismantle that very notion and explore the empowering landscape of kink.Dr. Grant, a renowned research activist, relationship coach, and author of pivotal works like Great Sex: Mapping Your Desire and Polyamory for Dummies, joins us to discuss her latest essential guide, Kink for Dummies. The conversation immediately delves into one of the most common hurdles for newcomers: the fear of being "weird." Dr. Grant brilliantly reframes kink not as an anomaly but as a deeply rooted part of human history and desire, sharing fascinating insights about "ancient kinksters" that will change how you view your own longings.We focus on a question we hear constantly from listeners and callers alike: How do I talk to my partner about kink? This is where Dr. Grant’s expertise truly shines. She offers compassionate, practical advice for navigating these vulnerable conversations, whether you're in a long-term partnership or a new situationship. She emphasizes the importance of building "faith in yourself" first, suggesting that sometimes the safest initial step is to find community and gather information outside the primary relationship to fortify your own understanding. As Mistress Olivia reflects, this often aligns with why individuals turn to Dommes like us for distance domination – it provides a structured, judgment-free space to explore without the complications of daily life.Other topics include:The ‘desire discordant’ couple and finding a ‘third way’ that honors the needs of both partners.How to realistically create compromise in relationships.The transformative power of kink and how exploring kink can become a radical act of self-reclamation. Dr. Grant says: “We’re dealt a hard hand around sexuality, but we get to play it however we want—for our own gratification.” That’s the promise of kink: not escape, but reclamation.Using safe words in BDSM scenes, including the point that using a safe word isn’t a sign of weakness; it’s an act of profound communication and self-care that strengthens the entire dynamic. This episode is a masterclass in normalizing kinky desire and providing the tools to integrate it into your life with confidence and safety. Dr. Grant’s wisdom, combined with our own experiences from the front lines of phone sex and distance domination, creates a dialogue that is both intellectually stimulating and deeply practical.Ready to explore your desires with more clarity and courage? What’s the one kinky desire you’ve been most nervous to voice? We’d love to hear from you.Books by Dr. Jaime Grant on AmazonKink for DummiesPolyamory for DummiesGreat Sex: Mapping your DesireContact us:Mistress Olivia:  olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.comTwitterX: @MistressOlivia1.    Blue Sky:  @MsOliviaBlog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika:  erika@EnchantrixEmpire.comTwitterX and Blue Sky: @ErikaEnchantrixBlog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy MEET DR. JAIME GRANT Friday, November 21 at Red Emma's Bookstore in BaltimoreDr. Grant and her co-author Jack Harrison-Quintana do exercises from the book and share bits of their kink highlight reels.Wednesday evening, January 21, 8pm at the Washington Hilton Hotel, as part of the Creating Change Conference.  Dr. Grant and her co-author Jack Harrison-Quintana read from Kink for Dummies and share tips.From late January through mid-March, Dr. Grant will be at the SketchPad Artist's residency in Hyannis Mass, offering Desire Mapping open studios every Saturday.  Book readings on the Cape in this period TBD.Friday April 24th @ 7:30pm, at Charis Books in Atlanta, Dr. Grant will talk about Kink for Dummies with Ignacio Rivera, technical editor on the book, and two kink story contributors, Asha Leong and tia marie.Reach out to Dr. Grant for readings or coaching at jaimemgrant@gmail.com and catch her podcast at www.justsexpodcast.com

Today’s episode isn’t just a podcast about kink or BDSM – it’s a masterclass in emotional courage, vulnerability and redefining power in loving relationships. Author / kink educator, Janet Hardy helps to bridge the chasm between “normalcy” and kink. Listener questions drive this episode and you’re likely to hear your own worries in their questions. You don’t have to be kinky to benefit from these insights - many of these issues are universal challenges in life: how do you be vulnerable enough to speak what you want and is it always a good idea to be blunt?We begin with this question: “What if a woman struggles to own her power because of cultural beliefs?” As Footstool so poignantly puts it, many men fantasize about their vanilla partner becoming their Mistress — but how does she step into dominance when a lifetime of conditioning whispers, “Be nice. Be passive. Don’t lead.”? Janet offers a compassionate, no-nonsense response: Dominance isn’t about dominance — it’s about responsibility, clarity, and self-awareness. You don’t need to be born a Domme. You become one — through practice, reflection, and permission to shed old scripts.Then came Wellspanked’s dilemma: “When negotiating spanking, should we talk technique and intensity beforehand — clinically — or let it unfold in the heat of the moment?” The tension here is real: too much planning kills the spark; too little, and safety frays. Janet reminds us that true eroticism thrives in the space between trust and structure. Yes — talk logistics outside the scene. But leave room for improvisation within it. A safe word isn’t a buzzkill — it’s the foundation of freedom.One of our listeners, Ben, shared a fear so common it aches: “If my partner rejects my kinks, is the relationship irrevocably broken?” Janet’s answer? No — but it might need to evolve. Rejection isn’t always final. Sometimes, it’s the first step toward honest dialogue. What matters isn’t immediate acceptance — it’s willingness to listen, to be curious,and to try. What do you do if you get bad news? Janet has an honest answer - the relationship may need to change form — or end — with dignity.Then came the knife-edge question: “Can a partner ever see you as equal after extreme degradation?” This cuts to the heart of humiliation play — one of the most misunderstood, feared, and exciting dynamics in kink. Janet doesn’t flinch. She explains that the power of degradation lies not in the words, but in the aftercare. It’s not about erasing dignity — it’s about temporarily suspending it, with consent, for shared catharsis. And yes — equality returns, if both partners honor the reintegration. The scene ends. The love remains.Erika then turned to Janet’s latest work — Notes on an Aging Pervert — a book that’s “funny, sad, mind-bending.” She asked: Which essay was a lightbulb moment — for you or someone you love? Janet shared a story about aging, desire, and the myth of the “perfect scene.” The real magic, Janet said, isn’t in the play — it’s in what happens after:How do you come back to each other? How do you integrate the intensity? That’s where connection deepens — not in the whip, but in the whisper that follows.We closed with a truth that resonates through every episode of The Weekly Hot Spot podcast: Kink isn’t an escape from love — it’s a path into it. Deeper. Messier. More honest.If you’ve ever feared being “too much,” or worried you’re “not enough,” this conversation is for you.Tune in. Listen closely. And ask yourself: What would it feel like to be truly seen — kinks and all?Janet Hardy’s websiteWhen Someone You Love is KinkyThe Ethical SlutRadical Ecstasy Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressOlivia@EnchantrixEmpire.comMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyErika@EnchantrixEmpire.comDISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika

What happens when surrender becomes sacred? When boundaries are not barriers—but bridges to deeper intimacy? Meet one of the most influential voices in modern kink culture. Janet Hardy is today’s guest. She’s the co-author of the revolutionary The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures and Radical Ecstasy: SM Journeys to Transcendence … to name just two of her books. She has a wealth of knowledge and experience. Listeners of The Weekly Hot Spot podcast, sent in a lot of questions and inspired this intimate conversation.Topics include:The intersections of power, pain, love and liberation.Myths and fears about ethical non-monogamy in kink spaces.Details about the new Workbook for The Ethical Slut.When Janet shares about how real change begins with honest self-inquiry, not permission from others, all three women talk about claiming their own personal erotic power. What does it mean to really choose who you are in your relationships? And, what is beyond tolerating a relationship. Hint: it’s not always easy or safe to open up to this view of love and pleasure.  Janet talks about building emotional resilience when having these vulnerable conversations.You’ll hear Mistress Olivia’s personal reflection on how Radical Ecstasy transformed her understanding of Dominance and submission — not as control, but as co-created surrender. “Pain is not the goal. Surrender is.” That one line shifted everything. Together, they explore how power exchange is one of the most intimate acts we’re capable of — a dance where trust becomes tangible, and vulnerability becomes strength.We also tackle real listener questions:A trans woman shares her experience of feeling Dominant with male partners and submissive with female ones — is this a known dynamic? Janet offers thoughtful insight into gendered power dynamics and erotic archetypes.For the nervous beginner — especially the "vanilla wife" being asked to step into Dominance — what are the real fears women face? Spoiler: It’s not about lack of interest. It’s about responsibility, judgment, and the weight of expectation.And then… the eternal debate: Who’s really in control — the Domme or the sub? Janet’s answer may surprise you. (Hint: It’s not a power struggle — it’s a paradox.)Finally, for those walking the spiritual edge of kink, we explore how to distinguish emotional overwhelm from authentic spiritual surrender — because not every tear in a scene is transcendence. Some are signals. Learning the difference? That’s where true mastery begins.This episode isn’t just for kinksters. It’s for anyone who’s ever loved deeply, feared openly, or longed to be seen. It’s about coming into power — not over others, but within yourself.Janet Hardy WebsiteThe Ethical SlutRadical EcstasyMistress Olivia’s blog:  Experienced Mistressolivia@enchantrixempire.comMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasyerika@enchantrixempire.comDISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika

Today’s episode is an intimate dive into one of the most misunderstood — yet deeply rewarding — dynamics in the world of Femdom and distance domination: the submissive sissy.Spoiler: It’s not just about lace, lipstick, or humiliation.It’s about surrender, self-discovery, and the quiet power found in your devotion to your Mistress.Have you ever asked yourself:“Why do I feel drawn to this role?”“Is wanting to serve a woman… weak?”“How do I truly become the sissy my Mistress deserves?”…then this episode is your permission slip to lean in.What We Explore:Why not all sissies are submissive — and not all submissives are sissiesThe emotional and psychological journey of embracing feminizationHow a true Femdom Mistress guides, shapes, and transforms her sissyThe paradox of control: giving up power to gain freedomThe sacred art of being of service — beyond just sex or choresWhy communication is the most important part of a D/s relationshipNavigating boundaries, vulnerability, and trust in a D/s dynamicThe myth of “more is better” — and why following her lead beats initiative every timeAnd the big one: How submission changes you… and how the submissive also changes Mistress.Remember, it's not about escaping who you are — it’s about uncovering who you were meant to be under the gaze of a woman who sees you, owns you, and refines you.A skilled Femdom Mistress doesn’t just dominate — she mentors.She holds space for your fears, your shame, and your curiosity.Above all, she rewrites your future whether you are:New to sissy trainingStuck in a cycle of self-sabotage or secret shameOr already serving but craving deeper connection and purpose…this episode will remind you:You’re not broken. You’re becoming.Get in touch:Mistress Olivia: email:  Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.comDiscord: LDWOliviaTwitter X: @MistressOlivia1blog: ExperiencedMistress.comMistress Erika:email:  Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.comDiscord: LDWErikaTwitter X: @ErikaEnchantrixblog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika crack open the candy bowl of taboo for this episode which is inspired by a listener question. Jen Jenn asks about sissy costume suggestions for Halloween and your Femdom hosts decide to talk about all sorts of fun, festive and naughty costumes.First though, we go off on safari about CANDY CORN. This is the perfect holiday for feminization in public. We give some specific ideas how you can be femme and get away with your sissy play at a Halloween party.Costume ideas for sissies:a Hooters Girlslutty costumescomics cosplayand more.Speaking of cosplay, a perfect blend of feminization and humiliation bondage could be a Harley Quinn costume with literal restraints!Hear what each Mistress is thinking about for her Halloween costume. We also talk about blending BDSM, kink and creativity for this fun holiday.Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressOlivia@EnchantrixEmpire.comMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyErika@EnchantrixEmpire.comDISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErikaAvailable for phone or texting sessions800-356-6169 

Ellen Ancui and Sophie Levine, hosts of the new podcast FILTHY MILFS return to have a candid conversation about sex, foreplay, power exchange, kink and more. If you’ve ever seen a group of women having a fun, lively conversation and wondered what they’re talking about then you’re in luck.This is like we’re all sitting around with cocktails and dishing about:Blow JobsHow to make cum taste goodReaction of women to sucking cockSnowballing and cum eatingSharing erotic fantasies with your partnerIntimacy and great sexSexual wellnessAging and keeping sex juicy and excitingNormalizing the conversation around all aspects of sexBeing open minded about different kinds of erotic pleasureSwingers lifestyleTaking viagra for phone sex sessions Sex work and sex workersLuxury lingerie and why it's so fun to dress up.Finally, we have a conversation about women and power. Could either or both of these ladies want to be a Femdom? We talk about myths and misconceptions about BDSM as well as the relaxation and release for the submissive.FILTHY MILFS podcast is available on all podcast platforms, YouTube, Instagram, Facebook and maybe even Linkedin.Here’s the link to FILTHY MILFS on SpotifyMistress Olivia’s blog:  Experienced MistressOlivia@EnchantrixEmpire.comMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyErika@EnchantrixEmpire.comDISCORD:  LDWOlivia and LDWErika

They say they’re FILTHY and MILFY and this is a new podcast you will thoroughly enjoy! Ellen Ancui and Sophie Levine are the FILTHY MILFS. Sophie says, “We’re just a couple of randy, curious, highly intelligent horny ladies.”  What a fun conversation!Topics include:The power of female sexualityEmbracing the SLUT labelSocial standards for the sexual behavior of womenSelf empowerment that comes with BDSM, kink, Femdom, and sex work.Sexual pleasure and agingExploring the popularity of MILFSSexually experienced women and confidence.What did family and friends think of the name of the podcast?Join us for this uncensored and intimate conversation with the FILTHY MILFS.Look for the FILTHY MILFS podcast on all the podcast platforms and Youtube!Here’s the FILTHY MILFS on SpotifyMistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressOlivia@EnchantrixEmpire.comMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyErika@EnchantrixEmpire.comDISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika

What is rough kink or BDSM pain play? What makes that different from other kinds of rough sex?  Why does a Femdom enjoy delivering pain? This episode explores pleasure and pain to answer listener questions about BDSM.Topics include:What is rough kink in the framework of BDSM pain play?How rough does it need to be to be considered BDSM?Who gets to define it?What are some of the items used in rough kink?Does someone need a spanking or CBT to be considered pain play?How do you know you’re ready to explore rough kink?How do you communicate with your partner?The role of BDSM negotiation in safe scenes.What is a safe word and how does it apply in BDSM?How does a Mistress gauge when to push your boundaries?What sorts of questions should a Dominatrix ask you before pain play?BDSM terms:SSC: safe, sane and consensualRACK: risk-aware consensual kinkPRICK:  personal responsibility, informed, consensual kink or personally responsible in consensual kink.AndThe 4 C’s:  caring, communication consent and caution.The importance of aftercare for the submissive and the Mistress.Personal stories, behind the scenes of Distance Domination, and more. You never know what you’ll hear and we appreciate you enjoying the podcast!Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyDISCORD:  LDWOlivia and LDWErika

Popular adult entertainer with multiple accolades from AVN, XBIZ and Transgender Erotica Awards (just to name a few) returns to the podcast to talk about the porn industry, changes in the adult industry and being in control of her career.Topics include:Why being a porn star used to be more glamorous.The role of Only Fans in changing the porn industry.How Only Fans allows adult entertainers to connect directly with fans.Creating custom adult content on demand.Being a trans woman in the adult industry:Exploring sex, sexuality and a variety of partnersDating while being in the adult industryObjectification as a trans womanObjectification as a sex workerComing out to her conservative familyBeing a business woman:Ways in which the adult industry allows for financial freedom Why working for a porn studio is often not worth itBeing part of the all trans cast of the Lily Wachowski’s sci fi film D.O.L.L.SThis conversation is a thoughtful peek behind the scenes of porn, the adult industry, stigma and sex work. Listener questions inspired many of the topics in this interview.Here’s to all of us living life without regrets!Eva Maxim’s Only Fans pageTwitter X: @Eva_Maxim      AdultTime (where to watch D.O.L.L.S)Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyDISCORD:  LDWOlivia and LDWErika

Get to know one of the hottest porn stars in the adult industry, Eva Maxim. This trans woman is the winner of a lot of awards. You know her from her hot sex scenes but today you’ll get a peek behind the scenes.Today’s episode talks about:Adult industry awardsThe business side of pleasureWhy and how Only Fans has changed the adult industry.Why she prefers producing content for Only Fans rather than filming a scene for a traditional porn studio.Eva graciously answers listener questions about:When she fully realized she is a STARPrepping for a porn shootConnection to the sissy communitySpeaking of sissies, since Eva is a Top, it’s natural to ask her about trying some Femdom scenes with a sissy or two.  Ms Olivia and Ms Erika offer to team up with some Domme content.This is the first of a 2 part interview and Eva will be back again!Eva Maxim Only FansTwitter X:  @Eva_MaximMistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistressolivia@enchantrixempire.comMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasyerika@enchantrixempire.comDISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika

Are you curious about threesomes, foursomes and moresomes? This episode has tips on group sex, personal stories and lots of advice.Adult entertainment publicist and author Lainie Speiser joins us to talk about her book: Threesomes: For couples who want to know more.The Weekly Hot Spot podcast listeners sent in lots of questions. How often does a threesome “just happen”?How can you spot someone asking you to be in a threesome?Do you think you’ve ever missed an opportunity for group sex?Should you have a safe word, like in BDSM, for swingers encounters?What happens if you find yourself in a situation where you just aren’t into it and you want to lease?How to negotiate consent with group sex?Who gets to do what?Do men ever get performance anxiety when with two women?What about a couple who want to add another man or, even, a sissy?How to find a threesome if you want to be the third to a couple?How to talk to your partner about exploring non-traditional sex?Hear personal stories, solid advice and so much more.Link to books by Lainie Speiser (get all of them!)Twitter X and Insta:  @MissLainie    Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistressolivia@enchantrixempire.comMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasyerika@enchantrixempire.comDISCORD:  LDWOlivia and LDWErika

Questions about blow jobs? We’ve got answers in this episode with adult entertainment publicist Lainie Speiser.  How do women feel about giving blow jobs?What do these three sexy women like most about giving a blow job?Do porn stars actually enjoy giving blow jobs or do they fake it for the camera?How do porn stars give great blow jobs?Using your hand along with your mouth for blow jobs.Tips for learning to deep throat a big cockHow to control your gag reflex.How to make sure your teeth don’t ruin the blow job.Find out who came up with the term deep throat.What is a fellatio fiesta?Learn about Michael and his blow bros.Find out how many loads of cum Michael the cum junkie has slurped up this year.Freezing cum loadsBDSM, kink and being submissiveDoes a Femdom give a blow job?Can a blow job be part of an elaborate mindfuck?Do porn shoots still use fluffers and how does someone get that job?Listener questions inspire this episode. You’ll learn some sex education, hear intimate behind the scenes stories and so much more!Link to books by Lainie Speiser (get all of them!)Twitter X and Insta:  @MissLainie    Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistressolivia@enchantrixempire.comMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasyerika@enchantrixempire.comDISCORD:  LDWOlivia and LDWErika

Meet Davina: a straight male who likes to crossdress. What is the reaction of the wife? How does the feminine side coexist with the masculine side? Mistress Olivia reads parts of an email from a listener who describes herself as Davina, “I don't mean just someone who dabbles in panties or lingerie behind closed doors, I’ve developed a full feminine persona named Davina — she’s elegant, expressive, grounded, and very real to me.”Mistress Erika and Ms Olivia talk about feminization, crossdressing, gender presentation and gender identity including:Terms and labels used in gender exploration.What is the difference between a crossdresser and a trans woman?Why does wearing women’s lingerie unlock feminine emotions for many men?What is the reaction of the wife of a crossdresser?Does the wife assume crossdressing means her husband is gay or bisexual?Can a wife be jealous of her feminized husband?Who gets to decide gender norms?Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress   olivia@enchantrixempire.comMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy   erika@enchantrixempire.comDISCORD:  LDWOlivia and LDWErika

A sissy asks if it’s normal for crossdressing urges to disappear after an orgasm. Short answer yes, but there are nuances, reasons and ideas around feminization urges and the cycles of desire to dress.Is crossdressing more of a fetish or kink thing?Why does someone who identifies as male wear women’s lingerie?How important is submission to a Dominant Woman?Is dressing en femme always about sex?Is feminization drop similar to subdrop for a submissive?Does the type of orgasm matter?Will learning to have a sissygasm instead of a traditional stroking orgasm mean that the feminization urges remain?What role does guilt and shame play in crossdressing cycles?How does the woman in charge or Mistress extend your sissy urges?Role of chastity in sissy training Orgasm denial as part of submission via feminization.Do crossdressing urges go away as people age?While the question about feminization, crossdressing and sissy urges inspired this podcast episode, many of the points also apply to other kinks and fetish play. DISCORD:  LDWOlivia and LDWErikaMistress Olivia’s blog:  Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog:  Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Do you like chastity? We have some new ideas for you. Not sure if you want to explore chastity with a Femdom Mistress? Listen and find out why we love chastity.A listener inspired this episode with the following questions:What do women really think of male chastity and being a Keyholder?Are some men meant to be in chastity?What are your favorite chastity devices?Mistress Erika points out that there are different kinds of cages for different kinds of play:A tube style chastity cage that allows for partial erection.Smaller cages can be used for different levels of control.Using the nub for sissy training.Chastity cage with spikes and/or urethral sound so getting an erection is immediately painful.Why would someone want to be in chastity?Submission to the woman that is your keyholder.Freedom from the constant focus on erections and/or jerking off.Refocusing attention on what’s important.Using chastity for sissy training:Silicone cages come in colors including sissy pink!Smaller cages can cause shrinking which reinforces sissy focus.Orgasm denial keeps feminization and submission to Mistress as the sissy life.2 previous episodes mentioned in this podcast:Chastity Interview with William of Mature MetalAndHow do I get my vanilla wife to put me in chastity? Meet Mrs. Mature MetalJOIN the conversation!Our adult social networking site: Enchantrix EmpireDISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErikaMistress Olivia’s blog:  Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Sissy Pageant recap: Questions we love include: What are your greatest challenges of feminization? Role of your Femdom Mistress? Sissy play and your life. Many people answered that self-acceptance can be a challenge and that having a Mistress and a supportive community has made all the difference in the world.Other comments touch on:Motivation for consistent sissy training or being femmeFeminine style and who gets to decide how someone should lookBody hair while crossdressing or dressing en femmeMasculine and feminine sides co-existingHumiliation as part of sissy playSubmission to Mistress or Goddess as part of feminization training.Of course, you’ll hear personal stories, our comments on your quotes and even a couple festive trips on safari including:Ms Erika’s favorite body partMs Olivia’s offer of 5 free minutes on your Discord session if you do a specific something.Our free adult social networking site: Enchantrix EmpireMistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Lainie Speiser is a legend in the adult industry. She’s worked with all the biggest porn stars and knows the industry from a unique point of view. Today, Lainie answers your questions:Do adult entertainers really enjoy what they do?Does sex ever become mundane for a porn star?Do porn stars worry about cock size or other performance issues?Penis size, porn and an unusual issue for huge cocks.Are any performers in gay porn actually straight?Are huge cum shots real?What do production companies use for fake cum?Is lesbian porn made to appeal to men who want to watch it?What do lesbian women like to watch?Does anyone make erotica for crossdressers or men who like wearing lingerie?Transwomen in the adult industry and why this niche is such a popular porn category.And, finally … a joking question about job benefits like health insurance leads to an interesting conversation about mental health and adult entertainers.Lainie has a wealth of knowledge, a great sense of humor and stories galore. We can’t wait until the next time we speak with her.Lainie Speiser:  Twitter X  @MissLainie  Lanie's books on Amazon, including Confessions of 100 of the Hottest Porn Stars.Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyDiscord:LDWOliviaLDWErika

Why does a man want to wear panties? There are a lot of misconceptions around this and it makes for a perfect opportunity for some BDSM or kink education. Topics include:How does panty wearing start? Why would a heterosexual cis man wear panties?Is it always about sex or kink?Can wearing women’s lingerie help a man be more comfortable with expressing his female side?Does wearing panties mean you’re gay, bi or trans?Why does a Femdom Mistress put a man in panties?Feminization or sissificationSending a submissive into subspaceUsing panties to create a certain scene like erotic humiliation or cock controlDoes a panty boi always want to be humiliated?Lots of personal stories, behind the scenes of online Mistress domination, and much more!Mistress Olivia’s blog:  Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog:  Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Today’s episode is about myths about sex work, sex workers and the people who enjoy our company.Both hosts have never done Femdom phone sex or distance domination before coming to LDW Group so this is a perfect opportunity to talk about perception and reality around these fascinating aspects of human behavior.Is phone sex always about sex?Does every session ‘need’ to end with an orgasm?Why does someone call an online Mistress?Your hosts use personal stories to illustrate thoughts on intimacy, vulnerability, sex, sexual exploration, sex health, erotic pleasure and sex work. Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Today’s episode is all about ruined orgasms. What is a ruined orgasm? How is it different from a full orgasm? Why would a Femdom Mistress want to ruin an orgasm? There are so many aspects to discuss.In this episode you’ll hear:The experiences of others who have had ruined orgasms by accident or on purpose.Why does a ruined orgasm leave you crazy horny?How does a Femdom Mistress use a ruined orgasm as part of cock control, tease and delay, tease and denial and even chastity play?Does a Domme consider a ruined orgasm as punishment, funishment or maybe both depending on the BDSM or kink play.The ladies also bring up feminization and sissy training. A ruined orgasm can keep those submissive sissy feelings going and stop the sissy drop or crossdresser purging cycles that are so frustrating (and expensive!).If you’re interested in BDSM, kink, feminization, sissy training or sexy conversations with smart women, get in touch!Olivia@enchantrixempire.comErika@enchantrixempire.comDISCORD:  LDWOlivia and LDWErikaMistress Olivia’s blog:  Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog:  Intelligent Phone FantasyOur adult social networking site:  Enchantrix Empire