The Weekly Hot Spot

A sissy asks if it’s normal for crossdressing urges to disappear after an orgasm. Short answer yes, but there are nuances, reasons and ideas around feminization urges and the cycles of desire to dress.Is crossdressing more of a fetish or kink thing?Why does someone who identifies as male wear women’s lingerie?How important is submission to a Dominant Woman?Is dressing en femme always about sex?Is feminization drop similar to subdrop for a submissive?Does the type of orgasm matter?Will learning to have a sissygasm instead of a traditional stroking orgasm mean that the feminization urges remain?What role does guilt and shame play in crossdressing cycles?How does the woman in charge or Mistress extend your sissy urges?Role of chastity in sissy training Orgasm denial as part of submission via feminization.Do crossdressing urges go away as people age?While the question about feminization, crossdressing and sissy urges inspired this podcast episode, many of the points also apply to other kinks and fetish play. DISCORD:  LDWOlivia and LDWErikaMistress Olivia’s blog:  Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog:  Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Do you like chastity? We have some new ideas for you. Not sure if you want to explore chastity with a Femdom Mistress? Listen and find out why we love chastity.A listener inspired this episode with the following questions:What do women really think of male chastity and being a Keyholder?Are some men meant to be in chastity?What are your favorite chastity devices?Mistress Erika points out that there are different kinds of cages for different kinds of play:A tube style chastity cage that allows for partial erection.Smaller cages can be used for different levels of control.Using the nub for sissy training.Chastity cage with spikes and/or urethral sound so getting an erection is immediately painful.Why would someone want to be in chastity?Submission to the woman that is your keyholder.Freedom from the constant focus on erections and/or jerking off.Refocusing attention on what’s important.Using chastity for sissy training:Silicone cages come in colors including sissy pink!Smaller cages can cause shrinking which reinforces sissy focus.Orgasm denial keeps feminization and submission to Mistress as the sissy life.2 previous episodes mentioned in this podcast:Chastity Interview with William of Mature MetalAndHow do I get my vanilla wife to put me in chastity? Meet Mrs. Mature MetalJOIN the conversation!Our adult social networking site: Enchantrix EmpireDISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErikaMistress Olivia’s blog:  Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Sissy Pageant recap: Questions we love include: What are your greatest challenges of feminization? Role of your Femdom Mistress? Sissy play and your life. Many people answered that self-acceptance can be a challenge and that having a Mistress and a supportive community has made all the difference in the world.Other comments touch on:Motivation for consistent sissy training or being femmeFeminine style and who gets to decide how someone should lookBody hair while crossdressing or dressing en femmeMasculine and feminine sides co-existingHumiliation as part of sissy playSubmission to Mistress or Goddess as part of feminization training.Of course, you’ll hear personal stories, our comments on your quotes and even a couple festive trips on safari including:Ms Erika’s favorite body partMs Olivia’s offer of 5 free minutes on your Discord session if you do a specific something.Our free adult social networking site: Enchantrix EmpireMistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Lainie Speiser is a legend in the adult industry. She’s worked with all the biggest porn stars and knows the industry from a unique point of view. Today, Lainie answers your questions:Do adult entertainers really enjoy what they do?Does sex ever become mundane for a porn star?Do porn stars worry about cock size or other performance issues?Penis size, porn and an unusual issue for huge cocks.Are any performers in gay porn actually straight?Are huge cum shots real?What do production companies use for fake cum?Is lesbian porn made to appeal to men who want to watch it?What do lesbian women like to watch?Does anyone make erotica for crossdressers or men who like wearing lingerie?Transwomen in the adult industry and why this niche is such a popular porn category.And, finally … a joking question about job benefits like health insurance leads to an interesting conversation about mental health and adult entertainers.Lainie has a wealth of knowledge, a great sense of humor and stories galore. We can’t wait until the next time we speak with her.Lainie Speiser:  Twitter X  @MissLainie  Lanie's books on Amazon, including Confessions of 100 of the Hottest Porn Stars.Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyDiscord:LDWOliviaLDWErika

Why does a man want to wear panties? There are a lot of misconceptions around this and it makes for a perfect opportunity for some BDSM or kink education. Topics include:How does panty wearing start? Why would a heterosexual cis man wear panties?Is it always about sex or kink?Can wearing women’s lingerie help a man be more comfortable with expressing his female side?Does wearing panties mean you’re gay, bi or trans?Why does a Femdom Mistress put a man in panties?Feminization or sissificationSending a submissive into subspaceUsing panties to create a certain scene like erotic humiliation or cock controlDoes a panty boi always want to be humiliated?Lots of personal stories, behind the scenes of online Mistress domination, and much more!Mistress Olivia’s blog:  Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog:  Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Today’s episode is about myths about sex work, sex workers and the people who enjoy our company.Both hosts have never done Femdom phone sex or distance domination before coming to LDW Group so this is a perfect opportunity to talk about perception and reality around these fascinating aspects of human behavior.Is phone sex always about sex?Does every session ‘need’ to end with an orgasm?Why does someone call an online Mistress?Your hosts use personal stories to illustrate thoughts on intimacy, vulnerability, sex, sexual exploration, sex health, erotic pleasure and sex work. Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Today’s episode is all about ruined orgasms. What is a ruined orgasm? How is it different from a full orgasm? Why would a Femdom Mistress want to ruin an orgasm? There are so many aspects to discuss.In this episode you’ll hear:The experiences of others who have had ruined orgasms by accident or on purpose.Why does a ruined orgasm leave you crazy horny?How does a Femdom Mistress use a ruined orgasm as part of cock control, tease and delay, tease and denial and even chastity play?Does a Domme consider a ruined orgasm as punishment, funishment or maybe both depending on the BDSM or kink play.The ladies also bring up feminization and sissy training. A ruined orgasm can keep those submissive sissy feelings going and stop the sissy drop or crossdresser purging cycles that are so frustrating (and expensive!).If you’re interested in BDSM, kink, feminization, sissy training or sexy conversations with smart women, get in touch!Olivia@enchantrixempire.comErika@enchantrixempire.comDISCORD:  LDWOlivia and LDWErikaMistress Olivia’s blog:  Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog:  Intelligent Phone FantasyOur adult social networking site:  Enchantrix Empire

Is pain play a hard limit for you? If you say yes, then you might be like the person that inspired today’s episode. Our friend didn’t have any desire to explore pain play until one day he said, well okay maybe we can try it a little bit. Wait until you hear what happened next!You’ll hear from a number of submissives who enjoy BDSM pain play:** Why would someone want to experience pain as part of sexual arousal?** How can a Femdom Mistress or Dominant Woman manipulate someone into pushing their limits of BDSM and kink?** How does pain and pleasure overlap in BDSM?** How are power dynamics between Domme and sub enhanced and expressed through painful sensations?** Why trust and communication in BDSM relationships is essential.** Role of aftercare in BDSM** Does the Domme get sexually aroused or orgasm as she is spanking or ball busting a submissive?The hosts also talk about using pain in feminization and sissy training. You’ll hear from one sissy who says pain helps her to let go and slip into her feminine subspace.BDSM education, personal stories, insight from kinksters, and more.Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyContact us on DISCORD:LDWOliviaLDWErikaOur free, private adult social membership site, Enchantrix Empire.

How much do you know about sex? There won’t be a quiz after this podcast episode, but maybe there should be! Normally, we focus on BDSM education, kink topics, feminization and the role of a Femdom Mistress in the lives of submissives … not today. Today, we highlight sex facts that catch our attention and tickle our funny bones.Does more thrusting automatically equal more fun?Are sex dreams only for horny young men?Who stars in the sex dreams for women versus men?What do most people wear to bed?Is there a link between job satisfaction and sex?The sex facts research is really the springboard for your hosts to talk, laugh and tell stories. You’ll also hear something we think will change the way you think of the word happiness.Mistress Olivia’s blog:  Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog:  Intelligent Phone Fantasy

When we do a Sissy Pageant, we all have tons of fun! This event isn’t JUST for sissies. It’s for anyone into feminization or male submissives under orders from Mistress. We’re calling it a Sissy Pageant simply because we can’t fit this in a title: Trans woman, crossdresser, femmeboi, sissy and some male subs Pageant. See? That title is bulky.This episode is about how to enter the Sissy Pageant, tips for your photos, advice and so much more. Your Femdom hosts go over the: who, what, why, where and when details. You can also read the specifics here on The Daily Cock.  If that site is not available where you live, I’ll post the requirements after our links and contact information.There are a couple of epic ‘safaris’ including Ms Olivia’s funeral story and the hot flirting when Ms Erika casually said, “I stand behind you, Olivia.” You’ll be able to tell that we are both very exciting for the Sissy Pageant and YOUR participation!Our adult social networking site: Enchantrix EmpireMistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistressolivia@enchantrixempire.comMistress Erika’s blog:  Intelligent Phone Fantasyerika@enchantirxempire.comHow to participate in the Sissy Pageant:Join our free adult social networking site: Enchantrix EmpireJoin Discord - it’s also freeQualify to enter by doing a 30 minute call.Have fun with your Mistress or all the other ladies in Enchantrix Empire who are sharing your joy and excitement. Your submission is: 3 photos and the answers to 4 questions.Submission due date July 12thDate of Sissy Pageant:  Saturday, July 17th at 7pm eastern time.Location: the Discord Server for the Sissy Pageant

Imagine that you have three very sexy career counselors who are also Femdoms. The Mistress trio of Mistress Olivia, Mistress Erika and Goddess Demi team up to create The Ultimate Sissy Slut Resume.Today’s episode is all about how we will create your sissy slut resume. Goddess Demi came up with a very pretty sample resume. That is what you will get at the end, and like most things, it’s all about the journey. Our sissy slut resume journey begins with us asking you lots of questions.We send you a sissy questionnaire that helps us to:Find out your current sissy experiencesHelp identify your future desires and slut ambitionsEncourage you to showcase your special sissy skillsWhat are some of the sissy skills that might go on your resume?Submission - how submissive are you?Anal experience - do you need anal training from Mistress?Dildo or cock sucking experience - can you deep throat?Do you have sex toys? What do you have and what do you want to explore?Cuckold fantasies or experiences - are you or do you want to be a sissy cuckold husbandOther - what other skills do you have?You will get emails back and forth with your Sissy Mistress counselors. We send you a total of six emails from us. What’s in the emails? Pretty much anything we want to talk about. We’ll answer your questions, ask you questions, and generally get to know you even better!After the questions and the emails exchange YOU will receive your Sissy Slut resume! You can use the slut resume anywhere you like. We want you to post it on our adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire. You can use it on social media, send it to friends and lovers, or cherish it in private.This sissy slut resume is perfect for any sissy, you don’t have to be slutty. You might be a sissy maid or a sissy secretary. Well now, you need a resume, don’t you? Of course you do!Take a peek at the package on our Phone Sex Assignments store.Act quickly to level up your sissy game and get your resume now! You just might want to use this as part of our Sissy Pageant. We’ll have another episode just on the Sissy Pageant and you can read about it on The Daily Cock.Act now … the price is $89.00 but the SALE PRICE is $69.00 until the end of July.69, get it?Phone Sex Assignments StoreGoddess Demi’s blog:  Sensual Cock TeaseMistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog:  Intelligent Phone FantasyOur free adult social networking site: EnchantrixEmpire

Today’s episode was inspired by someone who called Mistress Erika asking for “discipline.”  That person was talking about spanking and while paddling a bare bottom certainly can be part of BDSM correction protocols, the term discipline means a lot more than spanking or punishment. In fact, BDSM is a general term that encompasses a wide range of behaviors and mindsets for both the Femdom and the submissive. Today’s episode includes:General definitions with BDSMPower exchange: The Domme is in charge and the submissive obeys her.Corporal punishment by a Dominant WomanImpact play as part of BDSM cultureVarious kinds of pain used as a way to correct misbehavior by a submissive.Different styles of domination for a submissive male versus someone who is feminized and submissive either as a sissy or a sub.A Femdom Mistress uses discipline to change, enhance, correct, or motivate behaviors that she wants from the sub. There are various ways to discipline a wayward subby:Physical: put in a stress position, bondage, impact play, etc.Mental: verbal humiliation, degrading tasks, embarrassing activities.Tasks and assignments used to enhance the control of the Domme.A Mistress could also take a fun activity away from the sub - for example, making a sissy slut stare at but not suck a dildo, or not allowing the sub to contact Mistress for a set amount of time.Remember, as we talk about anything with BDSM, kink, feminization, or sissy training …These definitions are guideposts, as long as the people involved are on the same page and communicating, we can create pretty much anything!Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog:  Intelligent Phone FantasyEmail:olivia@enchantrixempire.comerika@enchantrixempire.comDiscord:LDWOliviaLDWErika

Where or how did you get your female or sissy name?”That’s the question posed by Veronica in Lipstick to the members of our adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire.Today’s episode is all about gender, identity, feminine names and what those names represent.Topics include:Does a sissy Mistress always choose the femme name?How does a Femdom feel about being asked to pick the feminine name for a submissive?How does feminization change someone’s outlook on labels?You’ll hear how a variety of ladies and sissies got a name that better represents who they are now. Dive into the origin stories of femme names and so much more.Our free adult social networking site: Enchantrix EmpireMistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Our celebration of Masturbation Month continues with questions from listeners who want to know about our Mistress masturbation. Yes, your lovely Femdom hosts thoroughly enjoy self-love all the time, not just in Masturbation May. Duh! In this episode we answer questions like:What are your favorite topics or themes you get off to?        Dominating men? Women? Straight sex? Prior hot encounters? Switching?FOLLOW UP to that question: Is there anything new and exciting that gets you going these days that’s different from the usual?Do you ever fantasize/think about members of the Enchantrix Empire, Mistresses or subs? Do you ever masturbate thinking about famous people? What media, if any - do you prefer? Porn? Audio Porn? Books or erotica? Still images or thoughts and the throbbing buzz of a toy?   What’s your favorite way to enjoy yourself when you have unlimited time? Setting? How about when you need to rub out a quickie? Do you ever like to be watched or listened to while masturbating - could be face-to-face or long distance?When do you get the urge the most to masturbate?Does Ms. Olivia ever masturbate while watching baseball?How frequently do you masturbate? Did you ever limit or test yourself? Female edging? Number of consecutive orgasms?Or maybe it works completely differently? Squirting experience? Ever got caught?What or who do you think of most frequently/regularly, like a famous person, significant other, sexual activity / something different every time?Favorite place to masturbate? You’ll hear personal stories, lots of laughter and surprises galore!Our free adult social networking site: Enchantrix EmpireHow to get a private session with your sexy Femdom podcast hosts.Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Have you had a sissygasm? If you haven’t, then let’s make having a sissygasm your goal for this Masturbation May. In this episode, your Femdom hosts talk about self-love while feminized or en femme:What is a sissygasm?How does a p-spot, prostate, or anal orgasm feel and how do you know you’re having one?Topics include:Subspace aka femme-spaceRole of submission in your feminine journeyMistress guidance or control to enhance your sissy trainingTrying to have a sissygasm on your own versus with guidance from your MistressWhy experts say to have patience when learning how to sissygasmMedical issues that might change your ability to have a sissygasmRole of chastity in sissy playImportance of getting into the right sissy mindsetHow the ritual of dressing in sexy lingerie sets the moodSpecific tips to move from stroking to feminine masturbation styles:Hand positionsBody positionsLube suggestionsSex toys like butt plugs, prostate massangers, dildos and vibratorsFinding the best angle to stimulate your prostateHappy Masturbation May — what a fun month!Mistress Olivia’s blog:  Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy