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The Writer Mum Podcast - Episode 072 - Realising Vulnerability
Today I talk about how an experience being followed home from the shops made me realise how vulnerable I actually am, and how much I hate it.
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The Writer Mum Podcast - Episode 071 - Polyamory Or Everything From One?
Today I discuss the appeal of polyamorous relationships, where your different needs are met by different people, and discuss whether you could ever get all your needs fulfilled by one person, or if something you desire will always have to be put aside for the sake of monogamy.
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The Writer Mum Podcast - Episode 70 - Slag
I talk about an experience I had when called a slag for wearing a short skirt. I discuss how it impacted me on a rare night out without my children, and how verbal abuse of women is far too readily accepted in society.
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The Writer Mum Podcast - Episode 069 - The Illogicality Of Rape Victim Blaming
In this episode I talk about why people blame rape victims, asking what they were wearing and if they had flirted with their rapist, and discuss the reasons why it makes absolutely no sense.
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The Writer Mum Podcast - Episode 068 - When I'm 83
In the latest episode I apologise for the break between podcasts due to my children being unwell. I then talk about when my daughter asked where I'll be when she turns 83, and how it brought about a realisation of my own mortality. I discuss trying to explain death to my children when I struggle with the concept myself.
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The Writer Mum Podcast - Episode 067 - Apologies To My Second Born
Today I make apologies to my second born daughter. My new baby who isn't my only priority like my first born was, is left to cry whilst I look after my other children, and will never experience the intensely close bond of living alone with just me.
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The Writer Mum Podcast - Episode 066 - Cuddle Your Children
In this episode I talk about how important it is to cuddle your children, and how even when others are telling you to put your baby down when she cries, hold her. I talk about how just because your baby is clean and not in pain, their emotional and psychological needs still need meeting.
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The Writer Mum Podcast - Episode 065 - I Love You
In this episode I talk about how I want to teach my daughter how to love, and about the different kinds of love, and how her first proclamation of love was to cheese... a love that holds strong to this day.
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The Writer Mum Podcast - Episode 064 - Sex Beyond Biology
Tonight I talk about schools only teaching the technical facts about sex leaves the humanity and fun of sex education being left to pornography. I discuss that girls are being expected to do things far more extreme than they are comfortable with, and boys don't learn how to make sex pleasurable for both partners.
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The Writer Mum Podcast - Episode 063 - Responses To Kim Kardashian's Robbery
In the days and weeks after Kim Kardashian was held at gun point in Paris, the internet responded. I look at some of the responses on Twitter and discuss them.
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The Writer Mum Podcast - Episode 062 - Hands Up, Who's Struggling?
In tonight's episode I talk about how important it is that we talk about it when we're finding it hard. How sharing your fears and vulnerabilities will ensure we don't feel alone and can welcome the help we need from others around us, and how we weren't supposed to go through the stress and worry of child rearing alone.
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The Writer Mum Podcast - Episode 061 - The Doers, The Deniers, The Apologisers
I talk about men and the sexual abuse of women. How the men who rape and abuse are the worst, but how the men who deny it is a problem are making it harder and harder for the women in their lives to come forward when they've been assaulted.
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The Writer Mum Podcast - Episode 060 - Why Gender Stereotyping Kids Matters
Tonight I talk about the negative impact gender stereotyping has on children, and why it's important we try to move forward as society to allow children to be children. Let toys be toys, let clothes by clothes, let kids be kids.
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The Writer Mum Podcast - Episode 059 - I'm Not A Disappointment
Tonight I talk about how my life got derailed and left me as a single mum on benefits, and how I was seen as a failure and a disappointment, but how my love of writing and my motivation to give my daughter a better life has started to turn things around as I work hard to achieve my goals.
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The Writer Mum Podcast - Episode 058 - 10 Mistakes You've Made During Pregnancy
In tonight's episode I talk about ten things you've been told you've done wrong during pregnancy, including; finding out the sex, not finding out the sex, exercising, and not exercising.
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The Writer Mum Podcast - Episode 057 - Mistakes Before Motherhood
In tonight's episode I talk about how we all do things in our youth that we wouldn't do as adults, yet some condemn us as unfit mothers based on who we were, rather than who we are now.
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The Writer Mum Podcast - Episode 056 - A Question Of Loyalty
Tonight I talk about the negative side of loyalty and how it can be used to manipulate and control people into staying in toxic relationships.
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The Writer Mum Podcast - Episode 055 - Hateful Responses To Rejection
This episode I talk about the worst ways people can respond to the rejection of sexual advances, and why they're particularly unpleasant.
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The Writer Mum Podcast - Episode 054 - Shame Them Whilst They're Young
Today I talk about schools banning girls from wearing skirts or fitted clothes because it's distracting for male pupils and staff. I discuss how this pattern of blaming girls for the behaviour of men starts at such a young age, and how it's time to put an end to it.
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The Writer Mum Podcast - Episode 053 - Needing Alone Time
Tonight I talk about how I am teaching my daughter coping mechanisms for anxiety by encouraging her to vocalise her need for time alone, and how much it helps both her and me.
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