These Things Happen

Alexis Proctor was a sheltered church kid growing up. Like most teenagers, she wanted to explore and date but didn't get to do so until her early 20's. Because Alexis grew up so naive to the world, she had to learn the way men operate on her own as well as typical adulting. From her first time being ghosted, to having sugar daddies, and even losing her mother, listen in as this 27 year old shares groundbreaking insight on her sexual experiences on life and learns a thing or two; or not.

Ep. 41 Applying Pressure

This week the boys and I discuss some casual dating topics as “applying pressure”.

04-17
39:30

Ep. 40 Dating With Children

This week the boys and I sit down and discuss some recent Hinge flings and people dating with children. These Things Happen. @alexisnicholeproctor @podcastadrian @nilestyle

04-10
33:55

Ep. 39 The Consequences of a High Sex Drive

This week the boys and I discuss the result of having a high sex drive along with having sex with the same people. Nile and I also recap our girls day. These Things Happen. @alexisnicholeproctor @podcastadrian @nilestyle

04-03
29:21

Ep. 38 First Impressions and Trauma Dumping [VIDEO]

This week I asked the boys what they first thought of me, we then discuss a number of topics that led to trauma dumping. These Things Happen.

03-27
37:34

Ep. 37 I Showed the Boys my Dating Notes [VIDEO]

In light of my dates I went on towards the end of the year, I decided to take some notes on things I want to try to remember for the nest go around. I review my thoughts with Adrian and Nile and they shed some light on what they think. These Things Happen. @alexisnicholeproctor @podcastadrian @nilestyle

03-21
35:44

Ep. 36 Define Baecation?

This week Nile finally decided to join us and share some insight on what a baecation is and gave us a full breakdown on what happens from start to finish. I guess we won't dock his pay at all. These Things Happen. @alexisnicholeproctor @podcastadrain @nilestyle

03-13
38:48

Ep. 35 Let's Build That Roster

We're back!!! In this week's episode Adrian and I recap what we've been up to the past few weeks. Also Adrian talks breaks down how to build a roster. 

03-06
40:00

Ep. 34 Are Men Living up to their Full Potential

This week I sit with just Adrian and we discuss the topic of men living up to their full potential when dating. I do some more reflecting and begin to recap the sabbatical.

01-16
28:45

Ep. 33 Let's Play A Game w/ Alessa

This week you get to listen to the last episode I recorded in 2022 with the boys and Alessa. We start the episode off by playing a game which then leads into some topics to wrap up the year. These Things Happen. @alexisnicholeproctor @podcastadrian @nilestyle

01-09
40:53

Ep. 32 The Show Must Go On

New Year, New Content! This week Adrian is finally back and we catch up and discuss the coming off of my sabbatical, dating, and I even rap for you guys. A great episode to kick off the new year!  @alexisnicholeproctor @podcastadrian @nilestyle

01-02
37:07

Ep. 31 Slutting out 101 w/ Steph & Star

She's baaaaackkk! This week, after another sad period I have come out of the trenches to bring you all more content. I am finally over past situations and I'm ready to get back out with the advice that was given to me in this episode.

12-05
44:06

Ep. 30 Being on a Sabbatical and Building Up Your Roster

This week I am honestly still pretty sad about my short but very telling dating life. Nile and Arielle shed some light on how I can feel better.

11-07
33:48

Ep. 29 My Vagina Sucks (a hoetation update)

This week, I give you an update on the guys I've recently hung out with and what resulted in my decisions. These Things Happen. @alexisnicholeproctor @thesethingshappenpodcast

10-31
31:45

Ep. 28 Are Women Being Honest With their Friends?

This week Alessa is back and we dive into the topic of women being honest with their friends vs. the way men are honest with their friends. I also set goals for my hoetation. These Things Happen. @alexisnicholeproctor @nilestyle @alessalea

10-17
39:06

Ep. 27 My Hoetation, continued... [VIDEO]

Hi guys this week I am back with a solo episode. I give you an update on what has happened with me these past two weeks and how I am learning not to be as naive as I used to be. I ran into BMW daddy, went on a date, made out with a 40 year old and squirted for the first time all in one week. These Things Happen. @Alexisnicholeproctor @thesethingshappenpodcast

10-10
22:23

Ep. 26 It is What it is w/ Alessa Lea

This week the boys are back and we have a special guest, my friend Alessa. I give you all an update on how my life has been and you hear an update on my "hoetation" that was short lived. These Things Happen. @alexisnicholeproctor @podcastadrian @nilestyle

10-03
41:00

Ep. 25 As a Black Woman w/ Arielle

Your favorite is back! Arielle! This week Arielle came back to give us an update on her current dating life and Adrian has some questions for her that hit deep. Check it out only on @TheseThingsHappen

09-19
50:24

Ep. 24 Lex has a Hoetation! Updates!!

This week I'm back giving you all a solo update on what's been going on with me. I kinda have a dating life at the moment which is nice and I had to share with everyone on my own before we bring in reinforcements to analyze. 

09-12
17:11

Ep. 23 Adrian Humbles My Friend Group

I catch back up with Adrian and Nile, and we also make a few announcements. @alexisnicholeproctor @podcastadrian @nilestyle

09-05
36:08

Ep. 22 Your Moon Matters w/ Tiara Alicea

Why are Gemini's crazy? Are Leo's really that self centered? Are all Aquarius men trash? Questions I always had, but could never understand the answers to them. This week I got to interview an old friend Tiara. Tiara is a superstar at understanding zodiacs, birth charts, and everything beyond. This week, she was able to give us insight on how zodiac signs affect our daily lives and relationships. An episode you don't want to miss. Be sure to check out her podcast, The Wonderverse with Tiara Alicea now on Spotify podcasts.

08-29
50:40

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