In these dark times, where some people are trying to erase history, telling our stories is an act of resistance. “Hello everyone, and welcome to another episode of Things That Matter,” she began with her trademark warmth. “Today, I have the privilege of speaking with Judi Varnai Aronson—artist, entrepreneur, and keeper of a truly remarkable family jewels story.” Judi smiled, her hands resting gently on her lap. “Thank you, Martie. I’m honored to be here and grateful to share this part of my family’s history.” Martie nodded. “We’ve known each other for over 20 years. Our connection runs deep with Brooklyn, but also with the stories of the treasures we carry. You mentioned something recently of Facebook—a ring, and the incredible journey it took that brought it to you. Would you share that with us?” Taking a deep breath, Judi opened her palm to reveal a delicate diamond ring. “This is my grandmother’s engagement ring. She lived in Hungary during the Holocaust, and though I never met her, her legacy is part of who I am.” Her voice was steady, but emotion flickered in her eyes. “She was offered the chance to escape by the brave Wallenberg, but out of fear and uncertainty, she refused. Instead, she boarded a train to Bergen-Belsen, and with unimaginable courage, she managed to hide this ring from the guards—despite their efforts to strip every last bit of gold from their victims.” Martie leaned in, visibly moved. “How did the ring make it out—how did it come to be yours today?” Judi nodded solemnly. “When my grandmother knew she might not survive, she entrusted the ring to a stranger and begged him to give it to her only son, my father, whom she didn’t even know was still alive. Against all odds, the man survived, found my father through refugee agencies after the war, and delivered the ring. My father kept it safe all his life, through liberation, loss, and a new beginning after we fled Hungary during the revolution. About ten years before he died at age 98, he passed it on to me.” Martie’s voice softened. “That’s incredible, Judi. With everything your father endured, to hold on to this one thing—a symbol of love, family, and survival. What do you hope will happen to the ring when you are dead & gone?” Judi smiled. “I want it to stay in our family. I’ve considered passing it to my daughter, or eventually to my three-year-old grandson. But even more important than the ring itself is the story it carries. In a world where there are still people who deny the Holocaust, passing on this story is my way of making sure the truth lives on.” The room was quiet for a moment, the weight of the story settling in. Then Martie gestured to Judi’s surroundings. “You’re also a talented potter and artist. How does your creative work tie into your family’s story and your own healing?” Judi turned her camera to showcase beautiful pieces of pottery—totem poles of raku ware, vases, and more. “For me, working with clay is healing. It’s a way to honor the past, find joy, and keep creating.” Martie closed the conversation with her signature reflection. “Thank you, Judi, for sharing this deeply personal story and for reminding us that it’s not just the objects, but the stories behind them that truly matter. To everyone watching or listening, remember to share your stories and cherish those Things that hold meaning in your own life.” With a final smile & a thank you, the episode ended, having woven together memory, survival, and the art of keeping history alive. It's important for all of us to remember that our stories are always part of our collective history. There is no history without personal history. Keep on sharing your stories of the Things you keep, the Things that matter & the Things you will leave behind. Your stories matter! To learn more about & connect with this amazing artist: Find her on Instagram & Facebook by typing in Judi Varnai Aronson. Check out her gorgeous pottery & jewelry.
Martie McNabb glanced at her screen, a familiar spark of anticipation in her eyes. She loves hosting Things That Matter, a series devoted to the stories held by the objects in our homes aka our personal museums. Today’s guest is someone she’s admired for years: filmmaker Melissa Davey, a woman whose story embodies the very spirit of the show: connection, community & legacy. After a brief greeting, Martie smiled and put her trademark question to Melissa: “So, Melissa, what’s one thing that truly matters to you?” Melissa beamed. “I brought something a little unusual,” she said. She shifted her laptop to reveal a large, richly patterned rug sprawled across her living room floor. “I can’t exactly hold it up, but I hope you can see it. This rug is over a hundred years old and it's been in my family for generations.” Martie leaned in, intrigued. “It looks beautiful! But what makes it special to you?” As Melissa spoke, the rug transformed in Martie’s mind from a simple floor covering to a living archive. Melissa shared how her grandmother had purchased the Iranian rug a century ago, how her mother inherited it, and how it graced every house Melissa lived in since childhood. Melissa’s voice softened with emotion, recalling crawling on its surface as a toddler, the laughter of cousins during family get-togethers, the quiet moments of reflection as the years slipped by. “It’s more than just a rug,” Melissa explained. “It’s a canvas of my family history—every generation has literally stood, walked, and played on it. Even now, my grandchildren and my cat find special spots on it.” As Melissa described the weight of memories bound up in the rug, Martie nodded. She too believed objects held energy—that stories could be woven into fibers, wood, or stone. “Some people say things don’t matter,” Martie reflected, “but clearly, this connects you to everyone who came before.” Melissa agreed. “Exactly. And when my mother passed away at 98, I knew this was the keepsake I wanted—a living legacy. I hope my own children, and their children, keep the tradition alive.” The conversation shifted, and Martie invited Melissa to share more about her recent work. With characteristic humility, Melissa explained how she’d started filmmaking at age 65—a nod to her lifelong love of movies and a realization that, if not now, when? “I made ‘Beyond 60’ about women over sixty doing extraordinary things, and then ‘Climbing Into Life’ about the oldest woman to climb El Capitan,” Melissa explained. “I learned so much—mostly, to never underestimate the stories people have to share, no matter their age.” As the interview wound down, Martie asked Melissa how viewers could keep up with her projects. “Just visit my website, melissadavey.com,” Melissa smiled. When the cameras were off, Martie sat for a moment, reflecting on the stories she’d just heard. She glanced at her own collection of keepsakes—wondering anew what stories they held, and what stories others still longed to tell. Are you looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked "What Things would tell your life story?" What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself .... what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/
“Welcome to this episode of Things That Matter BL,” Martie began. “Today’s conversation is truly special. You reached out after attending a workshop I facilitated for Alexa Bigwarfe's Women In Publishing community — well, technically, after watching the replay — and I was struck by your open embrace of the show and tell method I taught to help authors truly connect with their audience.” BL’s laughter was soft. “I felt the same, Martie. Your advice about storytelling, especially through the objects and memories that define us, really resonated. It’s what I do through my writing—but I’d never thought to show it with something as simple as a photograph.” She held up a picture: herself at a recent conference, arms crossed, the words “I kept dreaming” written boldly on her skin. The image wasn’t just a portrait, BL explained—it was a memory, an artifact from an exercise meant to symbolize lessons learned and dreams held dear. Martie listened, captivated, as BL recounted her young beginnings as a writer—a 13-year-old girl crafting fantasy worlds to escape life’s troubles. The first novel she ever completed, she’d handed to her father, seeking encouragement. His response, honest but perhaps not filtered for a young heart, was that it was good, but not great. The words stung, but they also lit a fire. Blair kept writing, kept dreaming, letting her imaginary worlds provide both escape and empowerment through adversity. The conversation turned to BL’s latest accomplishment: “Heroes of Another Age,” the prequel to her now-sprawling fantasy series. Martie’s eyes sparkled as Blair described magic, brotherhood, and coming-of-age adventures. Now that the show and tell section was complete, Martie turned our attention to legacy: “So, what do you want to happen to that photograph when you’re dead & gone?” BL smiled. She spoke of her two daughters, now 12 and 9, her biggest cheerleaders. “I want them to keep that photo as my final message—never stop dreaming, never stop growing into who you’re meant to be.” Their discussion circled back to connection—how life’s smallest moments and artifacts can spark the most powerful stories. Martie offered her support, inviting Blair to collaborate on future events to help other writers share their own stories through objects and memories. As the interview wound down, BL shared how listeners could stay in touch and find her award-winning book, inviting everyone to step into a world where magic and family intertwine. Martie closed the show with her signature warmth, reminding viewers that it’s not the things that matter most, but the stories attached to them—and that sharing those stories is the real legacy we leave behind. To find out more about my guest, author BL Mostlyn visit: https://blmostyn.com/ To learn more about Alexa Bigwarfe & Women In Publishing: https://alexabigwarfe.com/ https://womeninpublishingsummit.com/ Check out the workshop I offered, via WIP, to authors looking for unique ways to build & connect more deeply with their audience: https://womeninpublishingsummit.com/event/things-that-matter-connections-community-legacy-with-martie-mcnabb/ Are you an author looking to build your audience of readers? Hire me to host unique story-sharing gatherings as an alternative to typical book launches. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked "What Things would tell your life story?" What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself .... what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here: Or Listen here:
Martie McNabb straightened the stack of index cards on her lap, eyes sparkling with anticipation. “Welcome back to Things That Matter,” she greeted the invisible audience, her voice warm with genuine curiosity. “Today, we’re joined by Denny Daniel, the founder of the Museum of Interesting Things, a place where stories quite literally fill every corner.” Denny sat across from her, the afternoon sunlight glancing off one of the peculiar objects he’d brought—a tiny, exquisitely crafted shoe, a souvenir from his late father’s days as a renowned designer. Martie leaned in, sensing the significance. “Denny, let’s start at the very beginning,” she said. “Was there a single spark that set off your love for collecting?” Denny grinned, nostalgic. “Honestly, it began with show and tell in first grade. I would turn my house upside down every week, searching for something—anything—that could kickstart a story. Beetle records, Spider-Man comics, even batteries. I couldn’t get enough of sharing how these things fit into my growing world.” Martie nodded, connecting the dots. “So, in some ways, those early shows and tells shaped everything that came after—right up to your museum’s founding.” “Absolutely,” Denny replied. “Collecting always felt creative to me, a mix of storytelling, art, and honoring history. My dad was a shoe designer, so craftsmanship and narrative were family values. When my creative paths crossed with a desire for something deeper than filmmaking or DJing, the Museum of Interesting Things was almost inevitable.” Martie smiled. She, too, believed in the power of objects to tell stories. “And now your museum has these three lives—you bring history into schools and communities, offer private tours in your New York apartment, and host lively speakeasies even folks across the country can join. Denny, what is it you hope people carry away from these experiences?” “That the things around us aren’t just things—they’re vessels for connection,” Denny said. “When kids, neighbors, or visitors hold these objects, they feel the pulse of invention, creativity, and shared memory. And hopefully, they leave inspired, ready to see the stories in their own treasures.” Martie glanced around at the souvenirs framing Denny’s space, the sense of history tangible in the air. “And what about long-term? What happens to your collection when you’re gone?” Denny’s answer was matter of fact: “I want to donate the entire building and collection to New York. That way, these stories—mine, my family’s, the inventors’ and all the visitors’—become part of the city. They’re not just relics for sale online; they’re a living legacy.” Martie closed the interview with a smile, feeling the resonance of the objects and stories shared. “Thank you, Denny, for keeping history alive—not behind glass, but in our hands, hearts, and conversations.” As the cameras faded, the stories lingered, woven into the fabric of things that truly matter. To learn more about these beautiful interesting (never boring) human check out his website: www.museumthings.org or follow him on facebook.com/museumthings or instagram.com/museumthings And if you live in NYC or will be visiting, reach out to Denny to schedule your private tour of the Museum of Interesting Things at dennydanielx@ gmail.com Are you looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked "What Things would tell your life story?" What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself ....
Jen Allen sat down with Martie McNabb on this episode of Things That Matter to share a deeply personal story about loss and resilience. After unexpectedly losing her son Daniel to suicide, Jen found comfort in the objects he left behind—especially his skateboard(s), a tangible reminder of his passion and spirit. When Hurricane Helene hit Florida just over a year after his death, it destroyed almost all of Jen’s belongings, but miraculously, Daniel’s skateboard and a few treasured items survived. Throughout their conversation, Jen opened up about the unique pain of losing a child suddenly, without warning signs, and the importance of sharing these experiences openly to foster understanding and support. She explained how holding onto Daniel’s skateboard helped her feel connected to him amidst overwhelming grief, and emphasized that it’s the stories behind our possessions that truly matter. Determined to challenge the culture of grief avoidance she encounters, Jen has devoted her life to helping others feel less alone in their grief journey. She launched a YouTube channel, The Ashes We Keep, where she shares her journey, discusses the nonlinear nature of grief, and features conversations with others who have experienced profound loss. Through her voice and her work, Jen is building a new legacy for Daniel—one founded on compassion, honesty, and the power of storytelling. The Ashes We Keep: https://www.youtube.com/@ JenAllenAshes Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ninjanursejen/ Are you looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked "What Things would tell your life story?" What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself .... what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here: Or Listen here:
Tabitha sat across from Martie McNabb, the host of “Things That Matter,” prepared to open up about the small but meaningful keepsake in her hand. On the surface, the keychain looked ordinary—just a collection of trinkets bound together with a zip tie. But to Tabitha, every piece carried the weight of her journey: the travel bug that bit her when she chose French in middle school, leading to study abroad adventures in Paris and eventually to a career as a flight attendant where she discovered the world’s complexity, and met people from all walks of life. Her story took a new turn when Tabitha decided to become a mom—a decision marked by perseverance and hope as she navigated the path to parenthood as a member of the LGBTQ+ community. Within eighteen months, she welcomed three children into her life; all three were later diagnosed with autism. Living in rural Indiana, Tabitha quickly realized that resources for her children were scarce, so she created them herself, founding a nonprofit and a podcast to advocate not just for her kids, but for countless families like hers. At the heart of her journey was the memory of her grandfather, a farmer and the first feminist she ever knew. He encouraged her to do what was right, no matter what, and held onto her travel mementos with pride, hanging them from his rearview mirror as symbols of her adventures. After he passed, the keychain returned to Tabitha as a family heirloom—a simple but powerful reminder that advocacy, love, and courage can ripple outward, transforming not only her own family’s story but also the wider world. To learn more about this multi-passionate woman, check out her autism advocacy podcast by searching for Staring Down the Storm Autism Advocacy in America on Apple podcast, Spotify & YouTube. You can connect with her through most social media platforms by searching for her unusual name. Looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked "What Things would tell your life story?" What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself .... what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here: Or Listen here:
Martie McNabb welcomed listeners to another episode of Things That Matter, a series dedicated to extracting the personal histories embedded in the special objects that fill our lives. This time, her guest was Alyson Wagner, a multi-passionate creative she’d met at the Everything Conference in Minneapolis (Aug 2024) —a gathering that celebrates people who refuse to be boxed into just "one thing." Martie had been invited there to lead her signature show-and-tell experience, helping attendees spark deep conversation & connections through story-sharing about meaningful items they’d brought with them. During the episode, Martie invited Alyson to share her own "thing that matters." Alyson, who’d been actively working to rekindle her creative spark by inviting more art and inspiration into her life, surprised even herself by choosing not a family heirloom, but a recently discovered thrifted treasure. She told the story of how, after a coaching session encouraging her to find a talisman for self-expression, she wandered into the Austin Creative Reuse center (www.austincreativereuse.org). There, her eye fell on a vintage owl locket—complete with turquoise beads, her birthstone color. She loved not just the symbolism of owls as wise creatures, but also the locket’s mysterious, unknowable past. Inside the locket, Alyson began tucking tiny affirmations she'd clipped from her favorite yogi tea bags. One had come to mean a lot: “Be fearless. Know that all will be provided at the right time.” Alyson explained that although the locket didn't have a long history with her yet, it had quickly become a touchstone—something to ground her, help her slow down, and remind her to stay true to herself. Martie encouraged Alyson to consider what she might want to happen to the locket one day. Alyson reflected that while she didn’t have children to pass it on to, maybe her best friend—who’d initially come to mind when she’d found the locket—might one day inherit it. Or perhaps, it would eventually return to a creative reuse shop to await its next chapter with someone new. Either way, the importance was in the story and meaning Alyson now imbued in it, regardless of its origins. Toward the end of the episode, Alyson talked about her "Snail Steps" Substack blog, where she writes about finding meaning, slowing down, and recovering from burnout—a theme perfectly aligned with the gentle journey this little locket represented. Martie wrapped up the session, encouraging listeners to reflect on their own objects and the stories they carry. The episode proved once again that it’s not the monetary value of our possessions, but the stories, growth, and connections they represent, that truly makes them things that matter. Here's a bit more info about my lovely guest Alyson in her own words: I'm a day-jobber who's always exploring something on the side. My current ongoing side project is Snail Steps, a Substack newsletter about creating a meaningful life one step at a time. I started writing this in 2022 as a way to process the mid-life crisis I was experiencing including exhaustion, burnout, and uncertainty about where to go next in my life. I decided I needed to go back to the basics of essential self-care and focus on what it means to be fully human. My hope is that through the writing of this newsletter, not only am I learning how to cultivate deeper connections with myself and the world around me, but also I am encouraging those who read my newsletter to do the same in their own lives. You can read the full archive and subscribe at alysonwagner.substack.com. You can also find me on LinkedIn and Instagram (@alysonimagines). Looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com
Zhu Shen grew up in China, where food has always been at the heart of family and tradition. Years later, living in the U.S., she found herself caring for her beloved husband, a Stanford-trained biotech founder and the family’s home chef, as he battled a tragic and ironic fight with cancer. One day, as Zhu prepared roasted red bell peppers—a dish he adored—she noticed a dark spot spreading on one of the peppers. The slow decay mirrored the painful changes she saw in her husband. As she cut away the rotten parts, she was overcome with emotion, realizing how closely food and grief had become linked in her life. During this difficult time, their twelve-year-old son Perry decided to process his sorrow by creating an animated film about his father. Inspired by Perry’s gesture of love and determined to honor her husband’s legacy, Zhu stepped out of her biotech career and fully supported her son's creative journey, becoming the film’s producer. As she documented Perry’s growth as both an artist and a young man, Zhu found herself changing too—moving from the strict “tiger mom” she once was to a more collaborative and supportive “Zen mom.” Through this journey, Zhu learned that even in the shadow of devastating loss, there is still hope and inspiration to be found. Embracing family connections, creativity, and gratitude, she discovered new meaning in both grief and joy, proving that it’s never too late to begin a new chapter or make a cherished family dream come true. To learn more & connect with this amazing woman (& her son): Journey of a Thousand Miles: https://www.journeyof1000milesfilm.com/ Link with her on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/zhushen/ This minisode was clipped from a LIVE virtual Show & Tale: My Favorite Thing (Kitchen Edition) for the Historic Green-Wood Cemetery. I'm a regular host of events for G-W for the purpose of building deeper connections, community & legacy one story of stuff at a time. Looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked "What Things would tell your life story?" What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself .... what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here: Or Listen here:
As the clock ticked into a quiet afternoon, I, Martie McNabb, welcomed my guest, Risa Zenno, to "Things That Matter." From the moment we connected—prompted by a chance encounter at the Everything Conference in Minneapolis—I sensed our conversation would reveal something special. When I invited Risa, pronounced Lisa, to share her story, she smiled and held up a handful of colorful pens. “It’s hard to pick just one thing,” she laughed, echoing the multi-potentialite ethos of the conference where we first met. But behind her lighthearted tone was something deeper, and she began to explain. “These pens remind me of my grandmother,” Risa said softly. She grew up between countries—born in Japan, moving through Brazil, Seattle, New York, and Mexico City—and whenever she felt far from home, her grandmother bridged the distance through handwritten letters. “Before email,” she recalled, “writing letters was how we stayed connected. We shared stories, and pens became our bond.” Risa described her grandmother’s role as an English teacher in Japan, a fixture at her local stationery store, always offering discounts and bringing Risa the newest pens and erasers. “Japanese stationery is the best,” she insisted, with fond memories of mechanical pencils and mono erasers. “It wasn’t just about having nice pens. Every letter we wrote, every page I edited for her with our shared initials, was a thread between us.” As Risa spoke, I could feel the weight of memory in her words. She explained how sharing stories, as part of my Things That Matter playshop, at the conference unexpectedly triggered grief for her grandmother’s loss, but also gave her a chance to process it in a healing way. “Listening to others’ stories brought her back,” said Risa, “and now, telling mine helps me keep her close.” I asked Risa what she hoped would become of these treasured pens and memories after she was gone. She smiled, eyes shining, and spoke of legacy. Someday, she hopes to write her own story—maybe under their shared initials, RZ—so that the impact of her grandmother’s love, and the pens that linked their lives, will live on through words. Before we closed, we joked about the unique joys of Japanese stationery and how the right pen or eraser can change everything, even the way you remember someone you love. “I used every excuse for new pens as a kid,” Risa chuckled. “Funny how what we love when we’re young finds its way into our stories.” As we wrapped up, I invited listeners to connect with Risa—whose tangents, stories, and warmth leave an impression long after the last word is spoken. And I realized, once again, that the things that matter are rarely about the objects themselves, but about the bonds and memories they hold. To learn more about Risa connect with her on LinkedIn: / risazenno or reach out to her via email tcklisa @ gmail.com Looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked "What Things would tell your life story?" What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself .... what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here: Or Listen here:
Jamie Brickhouse didn’t realize he was walking into a 9/11-themed storytelling event—he’d been preoccupied, already scheduled to perform elsewhere that day with a completely different story. But as the realization dawned, Jamie remembered he did, in fact, have a story connected to that date, rooted in both personal memory and collective tragedy. He began by sharing an object from his childhood: a unique “one way puzzle.” The puzzle, often thought of as resembling a skyscraper, had always been his favorite toy at his great aunts’ house—a house eventually destroyed by a hurricane. Years later, as Jamie sifted through the ruined remains with his father, he recovered the puzzle, holding back tears as memories of childhood flooded back. The act of finding this prized possession amid devastation echoed the heartbreaking scenes of people searching the wreckage of the World Trade Center. Shifting to 9/11 itself, Jamie recalled living in New York for over 30 years with his partner (now husband), Michael, an architect. That morning, Michael returned to work after a bad back kept him home—his first day back, and coincidentally the day he avoided a regular client meeting at the World Trade Center by sending a colleague instead. The colleague survived, witnessing the disaster firsthand and returning covered in ash. As the tragedy unfolded, Jamie was at his Midtown office, glued to the TV with colleagues. His mother called from Texas—hers was the only call he received all day, a small comfort amid chaos and isolation. He walked home through a sea of stunned New Yorkers, united in shock and seeking updates wherever they could. In the weeks that followed, as many left the city, Jamie and Michael stayed. They even considered moving downtown, tempted by apartments with outdoor space and affordable rents. One, with a spectacular terrace, overlooked the empty skyline where the towers had stood—a bittersweet view they ultimately couldn’t bear to call home. While Jamie didn’t lose anyone close, he witnessed the city’s resilience firsthand. He and Martie reflected on the powerful sense of community, the survivor’s guilt some friends still felt, and the ways objects like his childhood puzzle can hold complicated, healing memories. Through storytelling and shared remembrance, Jamie found connection and meaning—proof that even in trauma’s shadow, there are stories of hope and belonging. To learn more about this beautiful human, author & comedic storyteller visit: https://www.jamiebrickhouse.com/index.htm This minisode was clipped from a LIVE virtual Show & Tale: Passed & Present (9/11 Edition) to build connections, community & legacy one story of stuff at a time. Looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked "What Things would tell your life story?" What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself .... what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here: Or Listen here: Looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales d...
Join us in this captivating episode where I, Martie McNabb, had the pleasure of welcoming the incredibly talented artist, Karin Edgett, to explore the intersection of art, energy, and the symbols that truly matter. Karin takes us on a journey through her fascinating transition from the world of advertising to embracing her true passion—art. Watch here: Or Listen here: Karin opens up about her lifelong interest in communication graphics and how it eventually led her to explore the deeper realm of symbols and energy within her artwork. She shares how her art has become a medium to unleash the potential energy of symbols, like the infinity shapes and ankhs, which are recurrent themes in her creations. Each piece is not just an artwork but a story of life, movement, and transformation. We dive into Karin's creative process, beginning with her unique necklace. This piece was crafted by a friend and serves as a personal totem representing an ankh that's alive and in motion, symbolizing a blend of life and infinite possibilities. Karin's painting of infinities, which she proudly displays, encapsulates the idea of creation, recreation, and limitless potential—an artistic expression of quantum physics' principles. As we explore further, Karin discusses the delicate balance between structure and freedom. Her art encourages this dance, a balance that perhaps reflects our own life's journey between maintaining structure and embracing creativity. She posits that true creation is born from the heart, driving the shifts and transformations we experience. This, she believes, is her living legacy—one already in motion, impacting those who engage with her work. Karin's relationship with nature is another profound aspect of her artistry. She shares the story of a baroque black pearl from Moorea, incorporating the essence of wisdom and memory from her aquatic encounters. This connection to nature is also evident in her fascination with flowers. For Karin, flowers symbolize a pure form of energy—free from historical weight, offering fresh, vibrant messages from Earth. During our conversation, Karin reflects on the essence of legacy. She envisions her art not just as personal expression but as a conduit for transformation and expansion. Her work, she hopes, will continue to inspire and facilitate change, possibly even rendering itself unnecessary as society shifts towards an energized, freer existence. In conclusion, my talk with Karin Edgett serves as a reminder of the profound stories and energy encapsulated in the things we cherish. I encourage listeners to reflect on their surroundings and the stories they tell, much like the rich narratives Karin Edgett weaves through her art. Thank you for joining us on this introspective journey into the world of art, energy, and legacy on Things That Matter. To learn more about & to connect with Karin visit: New Botanical Vision Cards: https://www.karinedgett.art/new-earth-flowers-shop/botanical-vision-oracle-cards Karin Edgett Visionary Artist: https://KarinEdgett.com Instagram: / edgempress Looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked "What Things would tell your life story?" What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself .... what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/
Once upon a time in the picturesque lakeside town of Grand Haven, Michigan, Jodi Bandy spent her childhood surrounded by the serene beauty of the water. As I sat down with Jodi on my podcast, I was captivated by her tales of those early years. She painted a picture of days filled with her father's exhilarating adventures on the water, recounting how he was always at the helm of a boat, skimming across the waves. One of the standout stories she shared was about her father's daring feat of towing an 18-year-old in a kite across the expanse of Lake Michigan to Milwaukee—a world record attempt that certainly left a mark. Though Jodi was too young to fully grasp the magnitude of these adventures at the time, the spirit of adventure undoubtedly took root in her, shaping her outlook on life. During our conversation, Jodi spoke passionately about her quest to gather pieces of her family's history, especially after her father's passing. She shared how she unearthed old photographs and reached out to those who had been part of her father's thrilling escapades, piecing together a narrative that not only highlighted his daring deeds but also revealed his role as a silent partner in the local thrill show. Jodi's insights were profound as she emphasized the importance of capturing family stories before they fade away. She shared her personal challenges in gathering stories from her mother's side of the family, where fewer photographs existed. This only fueled her desire to preserve the memories she could, recognizing that each photograph and object held the potential to unlock a wealth of stories. As we wrapped up our conversation, Jodi's passion for preserving family legacies was palpable. She encouraged listeners to view personal artifacts as keys to igniting storytelling and preserving cherished narratives, even after our loved ones are gone. Through her journey, Jodi reminded us all that every picture tells a story worth sharing. You can find more info about Jodi's legacy work here: https://www.hoosierphotoorganizer.com/ And to find out more about The Photo Managers &/or to hire a photo manager near you go to: https://thephotomanagers.com/ Found on YouTube Whitey White Water Thrill Show: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wc427XhWlzA This minisode was clipped from a LIVE virtual Show & Tales hosted for The Photo Managers to build connections, community & legacy one story of stuff at a time. Watch here: Or Listen here: Looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked "What Things would tell your life story?" What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself .... what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/
In this episode of Things That Matter, I had the pleasure of sharing my story of solo travel and exploration. I'm Annie Sisson, a traveler and explorer, and I embarked on a journey that truly changed my life. Back in 2015, I decided to leave my teaching job and travel to Europe alone, something I had dreamed of since flipping through National Geographic as a kid. With just a few nights of hostel bookings at either end of the trip, a rental car, and a backpack full of camping gear, I let inspiration and serendipity guide my path. Along the way, I picked up a little mountain man figurine named Krakonas in the Czech Republic. He became a symbol of my journey, reminding me of the mountains I climbed—both literal and figurative—and the strength I discovered within myself. That trip taught me so much about our shared humanity and how, despite our different cultures and backgrounds, we all seek the same fundamental things in life. Finally, I share my future plans, including writing a memoir about this specific trip and helping others create their own travel experiences devoid of big bus tours and cruise ships. My multi-faceted career, which I juggle with coaching and freelance writing, allows me to remain connected to my passion for exploration and living authentically. To find out more about this beautiful human, check out her website: https://intothebold.com/ Looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked "What Things would tell your life story?" What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself .... what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here: Or Listen here:
In this poignant video, Philip Griffith takes us on a journey that spans across continents and decades, revealing a personal story that intertwines fate, love, and cherished memorabilia. Philip begins by showcasing a unique water buffalo bookend he acquired during his trip to South Africa. He shares how this sculpture, though seemingly simple, holds profound meaning in his life. The journey to acquiring it started with his participation in two conferences in South Africa, a trip that also included a thrilling safari where he encountered water buffalo in the wild. However, Philip's story isn’t just about his adventures abroad. He candidly reveals the true purpose of his trip: his quest to find a wife. With a hopeful heart, he had even considered rekindling a connection with an acquaintance he knew from years past, only to discover upon arrival that she was already engaged. This twist of fate led Philip to an unexpected realization. After returning home, he met Susan, his future wife, right in his own neighborhood. Their meeting was serendipitous, facilitated by mutual friends who thought they should connect as she had just moved to the Boston area, only a block and a half away from Philip's house. Philip regards the bookends as a symbol of this journey. It's a reminder that sometimes, we must travel far and wide to recognize what’s been close to us all along. In his words, Susan is his “bookend”—a steadfast companion in his life story. As Philip reflects on this heartfelt journey, he emphasizes the importance of sharing personal stories and the cherished memories that bind us. The video concludes with reflections on love, mutual support, and the simple yet powerful artifacts that represent our deepest connections. This minisode was clipped from a LIVE virtual Show & Tales hosted for The Photo Managers to build connections, community & legacy one story of stuff at a time. To learn more about Philip & his photo management company that he runs with his wife Susan visit: https://psgphotosolutions.com/ Watch here: Or Listen here: Looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked "What Things would tell your life story?" What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself .... what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/
In the latest episode of "Things That Matter," I invite you into a conversation with Ellerie Fuller, where the significance of everyday objects takes the spotlight. During their chat, Ellerie reveals the heartfelt narrative behind a simple, painted rock she received from her niece during the trying times of the pandemic. This rock, inscribed with the word 'happy', wasn't just a token gift; it became a beacon of gratitude and connection, serving as a daily reminder of positivity and the bonds that keep us strong. Ellerie shares how this small rock has influenced her nightly reflections, encouraging her to end each day with thoughts of gratitude. This practice aligns with the philosophy of the Gratitude Rock, offering a tangible method to focus on the positive aspects of life. As the conversation unfolds, Ellerie expresses her vision for the rock's legacy. She hopes its journey will continue with future generations, carrying its loving energy along. Her story transitions into her personal journey from a robust military career to embracing a new path in mindset coaching. Ellerie's enthusiasm for her current work shines through as she discusses the potential of implementing coaching mindsets within federal government agencies, envisioning a future where positive leadership flourishes. Through her story, we see how one small object can encapsulate not only personal connection but also a broader mission of transforming lives and systems for the better. To learn more &/or to connect with this amazing woman: Courageous Whisper - Mindset Coaching: courageouswhisper@gmail.com Looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked "What Things would tell your life story?" What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself .... what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here: Or Listen here:
In the heart of New York City, as the world grappled with the onset of the pandemic, Jessica Lavoie, a seasoned model, found herself with an early understanding of the unfolding crisis. Her connection to overseas factories through her fit modeling work gave her an insider's view as news slowly trickled in. Amidst the uncertainty, a new nightly tradition began that many New Yorkers embraced—clapping at 7 PM to honor essential workers. For Jessica, her husband, and their five-year-old son, this ritual took on special significance. As they joyfully banged pots and released bubbles from their one-bedroom apartment's window, a friendship blossomed with their neighbors across the street, Flo and Jim. The couple, in their studio apartment, became their unseen companions, encouraging more bubbles and blasting cheerful tunes. Unknown to Jessica then, this connection would transcend the physical barriers, leading to an unexpected legacy. Jessica shared a photo of her view during a clapping session with a Facebook group, which later featured her picture prominently in a book that united global perspectives from windows worldwide. This moment captured not just a view, but a symbol of hope and human connection during trying times. As the story of her view crossed borders and reached an art exhibit in Brussels, it highlighted how even the simplest acts of kindness forge bonds that last. Back home, Jessica's tale became a centerpiece at a local street fair, bringing her community together and transforming an extraordinary experience into a timeless story of resilience and friendship. I met Jessica LaVoie when I was in my early twenties and she was a teen! She always wanted to be a model! We lost touch after the ending of my partnership with her cousin, but reconnected when she moved to NYC a decade later. She still models, but in addition she's a professional photographer. Her non-professional photograph was chosen as the front cover of a book that was inspired by a Facebook group, View from my window, that was created on 23 March 2020 by the Belgian Barbara Duriau during the lockdown of the Covid-19 pandemic with the aim of connecting people from all over the world. Thanks to the photos taken from their homes and shared on the group, members were able to travel and break out of their isolation. Find out more about VIEW FROM MY WINDOW here: https://viewfrommywindow.world/? This minisode was clipped from a LIVE virtual Show & Tale: Artifacts & Totems (Pandemic Edition) to build connections, community & legacy one story of stuff at a time. _______________________________________________________________________ Looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked "What Things would tell your life story?" What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself .... what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here: Or Listen here:
Hi everyone, Martie McNabb here, and I’m thrilled to share my conversation with the incredibly talented Noemi Beres on "Things That Matter." Our paths crossed thanks to Keith McNally, the question guy on LinkedIn, who always connects with fascinating people through his deep, interesting questions. From our initial interaction, I knew Noemi had stories and insights worth sharing, and I couldn't wait to dive into her world. Noemi joined me from Cyprus, though her journey started in Hungary and took her through Denmark and Ireland before she settled on that beautiful Mediterranean island. Her love for travel and adventure is evident in her art, particularly in the mixed media collage she shared with us. "I made this collage about the Canterbury Cathedral," she began, showing a vibrant piece that captured the essence of autumn. She visited this iconic place at fourteen, on her first solo trip to London for a language school. It was a time of self-discovery and unforgettable experiences, which she beautifully encapsulated in her artwork with rich colors and textures, evoking the fall season she loves so much. Her passion for travel didn’t just stop there. "Since then, I just couldn't stop traveling and I still love it," she confessed with a smile. This love for travel is a gift she also passed on to her son, hoping he would hold onto the curiosity and wonder of the world as he grows. When I asked Noemi about the future of her meaningful collage, she envisioned it as a cherished piece for her son, a testament to their shared adventures and her creative spirit. "I would love to give it to him... and he will carry it along to his kids as well." Beyond art, Noemi's life is a blend of creativity and entrepreneurship. She runs Podcast Connections, a podcast booking agency that helps entrepreneurs and business owners share their stories. Her dedication to connecting people and her love for storytelling shines through in every project. Our conversation was a delightful exploration of Noemi's multifaceted life—a world where art, travel, and business intersect seamlessly. I encourage you all to check out her work on LinkedIn, her mixed media art on Instagram, and explore her agency, Podcast Connections, for more inspiring stories. Thank you for tuning in and remember to always be curious about the things that surround you. They tell the stories of your life, the things that matter, and the legacy you leave behind. To learn more about this amazing woman check out ways to connect below: https://www.podcastconnections.co/ LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/noemiberes/ Facebook: www.facebook.com/noemi.beres Email: noemi@podcastconnections.co Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/noemi_beres_ ____________________________________________________________________________ Looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked "What Things would tell your life story?" What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself .... what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here: Or Listen here:
When I look back on my life, one of the most pivotal moments was when I decided to embark on a journey across the United States on my bicycle. At the time, I was working a full-time engineering job in Connecticut, feeling stifled and yearning for something more. In the summer of 2017, I made a bold decision—I quit my job, packed my belongings, and set off on a bicycle trip that would span from Connecticut to Los Angeles, covering some 7,000 miles. The bike I rode, which I fondly think of as my trusty steed, became more than just a mode of transportation; it was my companion and lifeline. From two broken spokes to a cracked frame that needed to be replaced in North Carolina, this bike certainly went through its own set of trials and tribulations. But just like my bike, I too was put to the test. Each challenge, be it a steep mountain climb or a mechanical failure, was a lesson in resilience and resourcefulness. One of the highlights of my journey was dipping my front wheel in the Atlantic Ocean at the start and then in the Pacific Ocean upon completing my trip. There’s something surreal about realizing you've traversed an entire continent using nothing but pedal power. Along the way, I met countless generous and kind-hearted people. In places like Portal, Arizona, strangers offered me a place to stay and food to eat, their unwavering generosity making the long, arduous days on the road bearable. Though technically I wasn't homeless, the open road and the kindness of strangers often made it feel like I was temporarily part of a larger, transient community. This trip was more than just a physical journey; it was a transformative experience that reshaped who I am. Riding that bike across the country showed me the best of humanity and the immense beauty of our nation, one pedal at a time. Now, as I look back, I've even thought about what I’d like to happen to my beloved bike when I’m gone. Ideally, I'd love for it to be passed down to someone in my family—someone who can appreciate it and perhaps find their own adventures on this trusty steed. If you're curious about my adventures and want to see more, you can find detailed blog posts and daily recaps from my journey on my website, Try For Travel, or check out the videos I posted on YouTube. It's a way for me to share my story and, hopefully, inspire others to seek out their own life-changing adventures. _____________________________________________________________________________ Looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked "What Things would tell your life story?" What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself .... what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here: Or Listen here:
On today's minisode my story-sharer, Wendy Green, shares her story of reinvention through the THING that matters to her, a microphone she asked her children to gift her for Mother's Day. This is Wendy's story: During the pandemic, my life took an unexpected turn. I was working as a center director at a Sylvan learning center, but as the world started to shut down, I knew my job was in jeopardy. By March 20th, my boss called to say we were closing, and just like that, I found myself unemployed at 66. It was a tough pill to swallow, but I wanted to stay relevant and find a way to make a difference. That's when I decided to launch a Facebook Live show called "Hey, Boomer." I had some experience from my Rotary Club days, but I still felt like I was diving into the deep end. Thankfully, a few friends agreed to be my first guests, and on April 13, 2020, we went live for the first time. My kids thought I was a bit crazy, but they supported me and even bought me a microphone for Mother's Day. Since then, it's been a whirlwind. I've learned how to simulcast to Facebook, LinkedIn, and YouTube, and I edit the audio into podcast episodes. I've had the privilege of meeting amazing people from all over the world, people I never would've met otherwise. Even though I haven't made much money from it yet, the connections and community I've built are what matters most to me. On every show, I remind my audience that "you are never too old to set another goal or dream a new dream." The journey has been incredible, and I feel more fulfilled than ever. And as a cherry on top, my one sponsor, Rhodes Scholar, even asked me to host a trip as an influencer. Who knew that losing my job would open so many doors? To learn more about this inspiring women visit Boomer Banter at https://heyboomer.biz/ This minisode was clipped from a LIVE virtual Show & Tale: Artifacts & Totems (Pandemic Edition) to build connections, community & legacy one story of stuff at a time. _____________________________________________________________________________ Looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked "What Things would tell your life story?" What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself .... what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here: Or Listen here:
I'm Martie McNabb, and today I had the immense pleasure of sitting down with Deb Krier for an episode of Things That Matter. As many of you know, I am fascinated by the stories attached to the Things that matter in our lives and the legacy they create. Deb's story is a remarkable mixture of resilience, humor, and inspiration. Deb brought something incredibly unique to our show-and-tell: a lavender-colored knitted pillow. At first glance, it might seem like a cute little cushion, but it represents something much deeper. It's one of her "knitted knockers," a prosthetic boob she affectionately named Lucy or Ethel. Deb was diagnosed with breast cancer and chose to undergo a double mastectomy without reconstructive surgery. Rather than wallowing in what she lost, she embraced her new reality with humor and grace, even naming her prosthetics. We delved into the reactions she encountered after her diagnosis. Surprisingly, some long-time friends disappeared, unable to confront her new reality, while others she barely knew stepped up as her biggest supporters. Her best friend needed time to process the news but came around and flew out to help her on multiple occasions. Deb's infectious sense of humor became evident when she shared more about her journey. She has another pair of prosthetics named Thelma and Louise, the "fancier" ones covered by insurance. Her lighthearted approach not only helps her cope but also puts others at ease. For instance, in her medical records, her "other" name is Anastasia Beaverhausen, a moniker that lifted spirits even in the infusion room, where the staff started treating her like royalty. Deb's initiative, "Trying Not to Die Live," embodies her mission to help others in their cancer journey live life to its fullest. She encourages people to embrace their inner warrior, build a supportive tribe, and cherish every moment, whether they have five hours or fifty years left. Deb's story reminded me of the power of humor and resilience in the face of life's most challenging moments. Her knitted knockers, the stories they carry, and her positive outlook on life inspired me tremendously. Her journey is a testament to living life fully and joyfully, no matter the circumstances. As we wrapped up our conversation, I couldn't help but think about the things that matter in my own life and the stories attached to them. Deb's journey reaffirmed my belief in the importance of sharing these stories with our loved ones, creating a legacy of not just things, but the memories and emotions they encapsulate. Thank you, Deb, for sharing your story and reminding us all to laugh, live, and cherish every precious moment we have. Deb is not only a seasoned entrepreneur with a background in communications, marketing, and public relations but also a cancer advocate whose personal journey through Stage 4 triple-positive breast cancer and thyroid cancer has been truly transformative. In 2022, she founded tryingnottodie.LIVE is a commendable initiative empowering those navigating the complexities of cancer. Her unwavering commitment to turning struggles into strengths, fostering hope in the cancer community, and promoting resilience aligns seamlessly with the values of your podcast as the founder of tryingnottodie.LIVE and the host of "The Business Power Hour" podcast, Deb brings profound insights into holistic health, wellness, and spirituality. Watch here: Or Listen here: