Thirsty and Thirty

A fun, informative, and 'blind leading the blind' podcast on smarter love and kinder relationships. Follow us on Instagram @thirstyandthiry and check out our website https://thirstyandthirty.club/ so you don't miss a beat. Stay thirsty!

How to get out of toxic relationships and becoming a Filipina on the rise with Krystl Fabella (20 Questions) S3 E12

"Our romantic relationships affect who we are and the places that we go or where we don't go." -Krystl Fabella, founder of Filipina on The Rise, a podcast that spotlights successful Filipinas in different industries. Krystl Fabella is a woman on a mission to create a lasting impact. Join us as she candidly shares her personal journey, starting with her transformative experience of breaking free from a toxic relationship. Throughout our conversation, Krystl unveils the all-too-familiar cycle many women encounter. Moments 01:14 Dating as a recruitment process 07:36 The story of Filipina on The Rise 19:59 Best tip on personal relationships 21:26 Family dynamics 27:53 What was she like in her younger years 32:42 The cycle of toxic relationships Krystl Fabella's platform: https://www.instagram.com/filipinaontherise Newsletter: ⁠https://thirstythirty.substack.com/⁠ Website: ⁠http://thirstyandthirty.club/⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://instagram.com/thirstyandthirty.club⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/thirstyandthirty⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/thirstyandthirty⁠ Become a member: ⁠https://www.patreon.com/thirstyandthirty

05-10
53:59

Going the distance: On finding love again, long distance relationships, timing and marriage with Dr. Honey Vaño-Enriquez S3 E11

After Honey broke up with her long-term boyfriend of eight years, she was ready to give up on love. Here come's Toto, her now husband. This episode is all about their love story and how he made her believe in love again. In this episode, we talk about:  Finding love again Being set-up  Timing and laying out your cards Navigating long distance relationships  Marriage  What's the best and worst love advice you've gotten?  Newsletter: https://thirstythirty.substack.com/ Website: http://thirstyandthirty.club/ Instagram: https://instagram.com/thirstyandthirty.club Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thirstyandthirty YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/thirstyandthirty Donate to smarter love: https://thirstyandthirty.helixpay.ph

02-17
35:31

Should you or can you change a man? With JPaul Hernandez S3 EP10

On women taming men: “We're so astonished by a lion. And the author (John Eldredge, Wild At Heart) was connecting men to lions…the wild lion. A girl would be attracted to a lion. But once she gets the lion, she would tame it and the lion would lose its ferocity. It's what attracted her to him.” JPaul Hernandez is a podcaster and author focused on the self-development of men. In this episode, we talk to him about: Why we love ‘bad boy projects’ His love story Dealing with abuse, vices, and cheating Collectivism in Filipino families Birth order theory and its effect on relationships Micro-habits for healthier relationships. Follow him: https://www.instagram.com/jpaulhernandez/ https://linktr.ee/jpaulhernandez Newsletter: https://thirstythirty.substack.com/ Website: http://thirstyandthirty.club/ Instagram: https://instagram.com/thirstyandthirty.club Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thirstyandthirty YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/thirstyandthirty Donate to smarter love: https://thirstyandthirty.helixpay.ph

01-28
48:09

Single not sayang with Angely Dub S3 EP9

"Dating is like applying for a job. And yourself is your cv. Do you want to submit a boring resume?" - Angely Dub  Angely is a self-made entrepreneur. And she is on an adventure to enjoy her single life! She is also a fellow podcaster with her show, Life in Progress.  This episode is our year-ender special, where we give no BS advice to face your dating life. Our favorite tips: invest in yourself and have a good checklist.  We covered topics like:  How to deal with nosy people  Positive dating mindsets A good checklist for a partner  Share this episode with other single friends who want to enjoy dating this 2023. https://www.angelydub.com https://travelwithaccess.com Instagram: https://instagram.com/thirstyandthirty.club Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thirstyandthirty YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/thirstyandthirty Website: http://thirstyandthirty.club/ Newsletter: https://thirstythirty.substack.com/ Donate to smarter love: https://thirstyandthirty.helixpay.ph Article: If You Can’t Find a Spouse Who Supports Your Career, Stay Single  https://hbr.org/2017/10/if-you-cant-find-a-spouse-who-supports-your-career-stay-single

12-30
51:14

How do you manifest your soulmate? with Sanaiyah Gurnamal S3 EP8

In this epiosode, we dive into manifesting love by loving ourselves. Self-love, soulmates, law of attraction, manifestation are all words we’ve heard before. But the big question is, how do we make these words work for us? Our guest tonight is Sanaiyah Gurnamal, founder and host of the podcast Project Loving Myself. Spotify Philippines #1 Trending and top 50 podcasts. Share this episode with someone who needs to hear this. Instagram: https://instagram.com/thirstyandthirty.club Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thirstyandthirty YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/thirstyandthirty Website: http://thirstyandthirty.club/ Newsletter: https://thirstythirty.substack.com/ Donate to smarter love: https://thirstyandthirty.helixpay.ph

12-07
01:10:29

Infidelity with Lissy Puno S3 Ep7

Lissy Puno, a relationship expert, told us, "86% of couples that are subjected to infidelity can recover." There is hope. We know infidelity is such a timely and evergreen topic. So, we interview her about her best-selling book, Affairs Don't Just Happen.  In this episode, we cover:  The reasons men and women cheat  How to prevent infidelity How to stay attracted to one person for a long time  This is a deep dive on all things infidelity! Share this episode with a friend or partner who needs to hear this conversation.  Instagram  Thirstyandthirty@gmail.com Website  Make a donation so we can continue our smarter love research.

10-07
46:31

A soothing voice to soothe your dating anxieties PLUS more! with Inka S3 Ep6 Part 1

Let's talk about easing your love and dating anxieties. In part one of this conversation, we talk about when to say, "I love you" for the first time and advice you would give your perpetually heartbroken bestie. You need to this very special episode with Inka! Stay Thirsty Instagram  Thirstyandthirty@gmail.com Website  Make a donation so we can continue our smarter love research.

08-11
19:16

Jealousy, Cheating, & Being Relationship Ready with Rex De Guzman S3 EP5 Part 2

"If you are jealous, maybe, you do need to express some sort of boundaries to them." -Rex De Guzman Meet Rex De Guzman, a Filipino chef based in the UK. He is an entrepreneur of Turo Turo, a food business that promotes Filipino cuisine. As we dig deeper after part 1, we talk about: Jealousy  Cheating  How some men compartmentalize sex  Right time, right place, right person Readiness for a relationship  Tell us, what is the most common dating problem you are dealing with?  Guest Quotes: "If you're too rigid, it's not considerate of the other person's feelings."  "Some guys don't wanna get rejected. So they'll say things to get what they want, whether it is just to get you in bed or to, you know, build a relationship." Thirsty and Thirty Resources Our episode with Mo Twister  Stay Thirsty Instagram  Thirstyandthirty@gmail.com Website  Make a donation so we can continue our smarter love research.

07-21
27:07

Dating Paranoia, Self-Awareness, & The Cold Shoulder with Rex De Guzman S3 EP5 Part 1

"For me, have trust and then if the trust is broken, of course it's damaging." -Rex De Guzman  Meet Rex De Guzman, a Filipino chef based in the UK. He is an entrepreneur of Turo Turo, a food business that promotes Filipino cuisine.  As we get to know his dating history, we talk about:  Cooking as a language of love How to support someone with a busy schedule  Compatibility and practicality Cryptic communication  Guest Quotes: "[Cooking] It is a home skill that everyone wants in a a partner." "For me, have trust and then if the trust is broken, of course it's damaging." "Boundaries are good, but I think it comes in waves." Thirsty and Thirty Resources  Engagement Chicken  Thirsty Women Ask Me Anything - Sabayan With Victor  Stay Thirsty Instagram  Thirstyandthirty@gmail.com Website  Make a donation so we can continue our smarter love research. 

07-17
23:42

Ultimatums, Relationship Timelines, & Commitment with Vince Velasco S3 EP4 Part 2

“If he doesn't know what he wants, he won't commit." -Vince Velasco   Meet Vince Velasco, a multifaceted man. He is a host, trainer, geek and sports enthusiast. We start with a little ice breaker but then we dig deeper.  We talk about:   Ultimatums  Relationship timelines  Characteristics to look for before committing  Certainty  Part 1 Guest Quotes:  "When we're in our thirties, we feel like we're wasting our time after a certain point there. So, give the ultimatum. Yes, it works. But only after a certain number of experiences and certain number of time." "You don't necessarily know what your priorities are and you also don't know where you wanna be five or ten years from now, and that's gonna damage the person you're in a relationship with it, because what happens if your priorities change throughout time?"  What's your takeaway from this episode? Let us know by sending us a message on Instagram or email us at thirstyandthirty@gmail.com.  Keep updated at: thirstyandthirty.club Or be a member at thirsty and thirty helix page.  

07-07
31:12

Dating Experience, Determining Your Relationship, & Listening To Your Intuition with Vince Velasco S3 EP4 Part 1

“The chase is still fun. The thrill is still fun. Because if you do end up with that girl, you don't want to end up from zero to hundred, kaagad." -Vince Velasco  Meet Vince Velasco, a multifaceted man. He is a host, trainer, geek and sports enthusiast. We start with a little ice breaker but then we dig deeper. We talk about:  His dating history  Experience as a teacher Determining a relationship  Timelines  What attracts men to women: Clarity, Confidence and Communication  Listening to intuition Mixed signals  Let us know what you think by sending us a message on Instagram or email us at thirstyandthirty@gmail.com. Keep updated at: thirstyandthirty.club Or be a member at thirsty and thirty helix page.  Thirsty & Thirty resources: Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man: What Men Really Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment by Steve Harvey (We reference this briefly!)

06-30
22:54

Evangeligaw and 50 Questions You Can Ask Before Marriage with Justin Quirino S3 EP3 Part 2

"If you're immature, please don't get married yet." - Justin Quirino  Meet Justin Quirino, a high school heartthrob and Candy Cutie in our teen years. He is also a successful podcaster and host today. He is our first guest in Mind of Man. And we thought we would tease him about the good old high school days. But this smooth talker turned out to be a deep talker. Instead, Ciari and I are schooled that men can get vulnerable and that there’s more to learn.  In part 2, we talk about: Praying for a good partner What makes someone relationship worthy or marriage material The 50 questions to ask before getting married How not to romanticize marriage and put the good kind of work Advice he got from church on keeping a marriage alive The innate impulse of men to provide Let us know what you think by sending us a message on Instagram or email us at thirstyandthirty@gmail.com. Keep updated at: thirstyandthirty.club Or be a member at thirsty and thirty helix page.  Thirsty & Thirty resources:  50 questions to ask before marriage  Wild at Heart Revised and Updated: Discovering the Secret of a Man's Soul by John Eldredge The Meaning of Marriage by Timothy Keller  Matthew McConaughey's Best Actor Speech 

06-23
24:31

Young Love, Getting Attention, & First Heartbreak with Justin Quirino S3 EP3 Part 1

Meet Justin Quirino, a high school heartthrob and Candy Cutie in our teen years. He is also a successful podcaster and host today. He is our first guest in Mind of Man. And we thought we would tease him about the good old high school days. But this smooth talker turned out to be a deep talker. Instead, Ciari and I are schooled that men can get vulnerable and that there’s more to learn. We talked about: How our childhood impacts our dating life How we first interact with the opposite sex How to deal with attention If you should stroke your partner's ego How to deal with heartbreak Justin's Origin Story Let us know what you think by sending us a message on Instagram or email us at thirstyandthirty@gmail.com. Keep updated at: thirstyandthirty.club Or be a member at: thirsty and thirty helix page Part 2 will come out this Saturday.

06-09
28:46

S03 EP2: Dating Q&A with Coach Vee (BONUS)

Our IG live was so good with Coach Vee that we decided to publish it as a bonus episode. Here are some common questions we get:  1:00 How do you deal with a perverted text after the first date?   4:32 How can you tell if they like you back?   6:20 Do you believe dating is a numbers game?   9:00 What if you want them to be more proactive on planning dates?   12:45 How do you sustain an LDR?   17:18 Should one go out with a foreigner in the Philippines that may leave soon?  19:46 How do you stop someone from interviewing you for a job position as a future boyfriend or husband?   SUBSCRIBE & FOLLOW US 💌  Membership: https://thirstyandthirty.helixpay.ph  Newsletter: https://thirstythirty.substack.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thirstyandthirty  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thirstyandthirty Spotify: https://spoti.fi/2RkJgYx  Google Podcast: https://bit.ly/3vVz6fY  Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/3o1tvSA  SEND US YOUR LOVE PROBLEMS https://thirstyandthirty.club

06-01
26:36

S03 EP1: 52 First Date Challenge with Ciari and Bea

One of the Thirsty and Thirty cohosts is embarking on a dating journey. Listen in as Bea tells us the lowdown on her 52 date challenge.  SUBSCRIBE & FOLLOW US: 💌 Keep In Touch Newsletter: https://thirstythirty.substack.com/​​​ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thirstyandthirty Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thirstyandthirty Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/thirty_thirsty​​​ Spotify: https://spoti.fi/2RkJgYx Google Podcast: https://bit.ly/3vVz6fY Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/3o1tvSA SEND US YOUR LOVE PROBLEMS https://thirstyandthirty.club

05-25
27:23

S2 E30 Curiosity and Companionate Love: Jesse with Franco and Franz (Love Is Blind Part 3)

Meet Jesse. This is her very first blind date! She meets both Franco and Franz because one guy ghosted us. Tune in for the kilig and dating tips. SUBSCRIBE & FOLLOW US: 💖 Show your love with a tip or become a member: https://thirstyandthirty.helixpay.ph/ 💌 Keep In Touch Newsletter: https://thirstythirty.substack.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thirstyandthirty Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thirstyandthirty Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/thirty_thirsty Spotify: https://spoti.fi/2RkJgYx Google Podcast: https://bit.ly/3vVz6fY Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/3o1tvSA SEND US YOUR LOVE PROBLEMS https://thirstyandthirty.club

05-04
29:24

S2 E30 Love Language & Turnoffs: Franz & Sofia (Love Is Blind Part 2)

Meet Franz and Sofia. Two singles ready to date again. This is their FIRST ever blind date. Tune in for the banter and dating tips. SUBSCRIBE & FOLLOW US: 💖 Show your love with a tip or become a member: https://thirstyandthirty.helixpay.ph/ 💌 Keep In Touch Newsletter: https://thirstythirty.substack.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thirstyandthirty Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thirstyandthirty Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/thirty_thirsty Spotify: https://spoti.fi/2RkJgYx Google Podcast: https://bit.ly/3vVz6fY Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/3o1tvSA SEND US YOUR LOVE PROBLEMS https://thirstyandthirty.club

04-27
16:52

S2 E30 Compatibility: Franco & Marga (Love Is Blind Part 1)

Meet Franco and Marga. Two singles ready to date again. This is their FIRST ever blind date. Tune in for the kilig and dating tips. SUBSCRIBE & FOLLOW US: 💖 Show your love with a tip or become a member: https://thirstyandthirty.helixpay.ph/ 💌 Keep In Touch Newsletter: https://thirstythirty.substack.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thirstyandthirty Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thirstyandthirty Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/thirty_thirsty Spotify: https://spoti.fi/2RkJgYx Google Podcast: https://bit.ly/3vVz6fY Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/3o1tvSA SEND US YOUR LOVE PROBLEMS https://thirstyandthirty.club

04-20
10:09

S2 E29: Behind #BehindRelatinship Goals with Megan Young and Mikael Daez - 5 Stages of Love & Artificial Serendipity

We talk to Megan Young and Mikael Daez on the truth behind relationship goals and why playing games didn't work for them. Also, we learn this new term, "Artificial Serendipity" Ladies and gents, you need to hear this!  Questions we asked:  How did you know he or she is The One?  What are the top qualities you should look for in a partner?  What made you keep your engagement private?  What are your fighting styles?  How can you match your communication styles? #meganyoung #mikaeldaez #relationshipgoals #love #5stagesoflove SUBSCRIBE & FOLLOW US: 💖 Show your love with a tip or become a member: https://thirstyandthirty.helixpay.ph/ 💌 Keep In Touch Newsletter: https://thirstythirty.substack.com/​​​ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thirstyandthirty Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thirstyandthirty Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/thirty_thirsty​​​ Spotify: https://spoti.fi/2RkJgYx Google Podcast: https://bit.ly/3vVz6fY Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/3o1tvSA SEND US YOUR LOVE PROBLEMS https://thirstyandthirty.club

04-08
01:14:06

Janeena Chan on The Instagram Grind, Longterm Relationships, Loving Life & Dealbreakers | Thriving Series

Show your love with a tip or become a member by clicking this link! Meet Janeena Chan, a thriving woman we love. She is a TV host, podcaster, and so much more. This is a light, fun and motivating chat. We talk about: 💖 The grind behind her grid 💖 Falling in love for the right reasons 💖 Dating someone not really your type 💖 Comfort in longterm relationships 💖 Dealbreakers, ghosting and breakups Help us continue our deep dive into the complicated world of modern love https://www.patreon.com/thirstyandthirty SUBSCRIBE & FOLLOW US: 💌 Keep In Touch Newsletter: https://thirstythirty.substack.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thirstyandthirty Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thirstyandthirty Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/thirstyciaribea Spotify: https://spoti.fi/2RkJgYx Google Podcast: https://bit.ly/3vVz6fY Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/3o1tvSA SEND US YOUR LOVE PROBLEMS https://thirstyandthirty.club

03-30
33:36

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