This Glorious Mess

Toilet training is something every parent has to go through, but there may be a better way to do it.  It's called elimination communication and it's what Cindy Lever used to get her newborn to go without nappies.  Plus, should you blog about your kids?  A Mum in the US has gotten herself in trouble with her 14-year-old daughter after posting a blog post about her as a baby. And how do you get your partner to help with domestic duties?  We tackle a listener dilemma from a mum who's just gone back to work and wants her hubby to pitch in.  CONTACT US Your hosts are Holly Wainwright and Andrew Daddo Share your nail or fail by leaving us a message on 02 8999 9386. Or fling us an e-mail: tgm@mamamia.com.au This podcast was produced by Luca Lavigne & Rachael Hart With special thanks to Cindy Lever  This Glorious Mess is a podcast by Mamamia. Explore more Mamamia podcasts: https://www.mamamia.com.au/podcasts Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today we're diving into a little know concept from the Montessori method called the "7-7-7 Rule" - which outlines 3 phases of your parenting journey. Each lasting 7 years, and each phase with unique perspective on your child's needs and your role as a parent in meeting them. Plus, just for fun we discovered ANOTHER 7-7-7 rule aimed at spicing up your relationship, but is it achievable?  THE END BITS If you’re looking for something else to listen to why not check out our hilarious and seriously unhelpful podcast The Baby Bubble hosted by Clare and Jessie Stephens. We’re listening! Send us a voice message, email us at tgm@mamamia.com.au CREDITS: Hosts: Tegan Natoli, Annaliese Todd  Producer: Thom Lion Audio Production: Jacob Round Gift a Mamamia subscription: Head here to give the best stuff for women. We’ve compiled all the best resources for new mums in a free newsletter. Join the mailing list. Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.  Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We’re barely into the year and already feeling drained... Enter Tegan Natoli, co-founder of Bump Day Spa, Brillo Beauty, and host of This Glorious Mess. Tegan’s the expert on pregnancy skincare and balancing beauty with motherhood. She’s here to share her go-to spa treatments and quick beauty hacks to help us all look and feel a little more put together—even on our busiest days. LINKS TO EVERYTHING MENTIONED:  Skinstitut 10% Niacinamide Power Serum $69 Ultraceuticals Ultra Moisturiser Cream $99 BEAUTY OF JOSEON Relief Sun : Rice + Probiotic SPF50 $28 Alpha-H Beauty Sleep Power Peel $139 Brillo Beauty The Oil $44 L'Occitane Almond Shower Oil $75 Brillo Beauty The Spray $32 SUBSCRIBE:  Watch us on Youtube Subscribe to Mamamia Sign up for our free You Beauty weekly newsletter for our product recommendations, exclusive beauty news, reviews, articles, deals and much more! GET IN TOUCH: Got a beauty question you want answered? Email us at youbeauty@mamamia.com.au or send us a voice message, and one of our Podcast Producers will come back to you ASAP. Join our You Beauty Facebook Group here. You Beauty is a podcast by Mamamia. Listen to more Mamamia podcasts here. CREDITS: Hosts: Erin Docherty Guest: Tegan Natoli Producer: Cassie Merritt  Audio Producer: Leah Porges Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On today's show we hear from a creative mum who found an ingenious solution to tandem breast feeding (involving a juice popper!), discover how an innocent salsa ignited some unfortunate medical appointments, and meet the parent who's innovation cracked the code to sleeping in. You can share your best worst parenting stories by leaving us a voice note, email us at tgm@mamamia.com.au or for super shame super anonymous you can pop them in this form.  THE END BITS  Gift a Mamamia subscription: Head here to give the best stuff for women. Tell us what you really think so we can give you more of what you really want. Fill out this survey and you’ll go in the running to win one of five $100 gift vouchers. We’ve compiled all the best resources for new mums in a free newsletter. Join the mailing list. CREDITS: Host: Annaliese Todd & Stacey Hicks Producer: Thom Lion Audio Producer: Lu Hill Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On today's show, we observe the vast array of species within the 7 different types of lunchbox parents. From the "Meal Prep Maven" to the "Same Sandwich Soldier" and everything in-between. Each carry their own set of belief systems and rituals in how they ensure their child's daily sustenance. Join our "experts" for a peek behind the pantry door and find out if you are indeed a Pintrest Picasso?  THE END BITS If you’re looking for something else to listen to why not check out our hilarious and seriously unhelpful podcast The Baby Bubble hosted by Clare and Jessie Stephens. We’re listening! Send us a voice message, email us at tgm@mamamia.com.au CREDITS: Hosts: Tegan Natoli, Annaliese Todd  Producer: Thom Lion Audio Production: Jacob Round Gift a Mamamia subscription: Head here to give the best stuff for women. We’ve compiled all the best resources for new mums in a free newsletter. Join the mailing list. Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

"When I have a baby, I'm only going to feed them organic, homecooked meals." "I'm just going to potter around this weekend".  And the other hateful things that non-parents say. Also today, something that none of us want to contemplate - raising money to save your child. We talk to a mother who had to do just that. Plus, is it ever okay to spray-paint the kids’ room? And Holly's has a nit warning to all parents.  END BITS Your hosts are Holly Wainwright and Andrew Daddo The website for Rare Cancers Australia is here Angus' crowdfunding campaign reached it's goal, you can read about that here Contact the show via email: podcast@mamamia.com.au This show is produced by Holly Wainwright and Monique Bowley for the Mamamia Podcast NetworkBecome a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today parenting guru and How To Build A Human host Gen Muir shares her expert wisdom on navigating back-to-school transitions, managing after-school meltdowns, and the art of 'love bombing' our kids. Whether you're sending a little one to school for the first time or dealing with teenage brain fog, this episode is packed with practical strategies to help you ride this emotional roller coaster with them like a seasoned pilot. Plus,  we hear some of your conundrums and give our unsolicited thoughts in our new segment "Community Notes". THE END BITS Check out Gen Muir's podcast “Beyond The Chaos” Here ALSO listen to How To Build A Human We’re listening! Send us a voice message, email us at tgm@mamamia.com.au CREDITS: Hosts: Tegan Natoli, Annaliese Todd   Guest: Gen Muir Executive Producer & Audio Production: Thom Lion Gift a Mamamia subscription: Head here to give the best stuff for women. We’ve compiled all the best resources for new mums in a free newsletter. Join the mailing list. Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It’s no secret that as the school holidays draw to a close many parents are preparing to send their kids back to school for another year.  But that reality looks a little different for those families who chose to unschool.  Different from traditional homeschooling, unschooling is an entirely separate frontier of education… and it’s got people divided.  THE END BITS Support independent women's media Check out The Quicky Instagram here And listen to this episode of This Glorious Mess Liked this episode? Mamamia is curating 100 hours of summer listening. Check it out here  GET IN TOUCH Share your story, feedback, or dilemma! Send us a voice note or email us at thequicky@mamamia.com.au CREDITS Host: Claire Murphy With thanks to: Rebecca English, Lecturer at the School Of Teacher Education & Leadership at Queensland University of Technology Hilary Uhr, unschooling parent  Executive Producer: Taylah Strano  Audio Producers: Thom LionBecome a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The best books of our childhood not only entertained us, they shaped the way we see the world. After captivating children and families for 30 years, Alison Lester’s beloved book MAGIC BEACH has been brought to life on screen by director Robert Connolly (Paper Planes) and some of Australia’s leading animators. So today Grace Rouvray sits down with Alison to talk about her own reading rituals, and how they can inspire children to dream. Of course they also unpack why her book adaptation will be a magical moment for Australian families.  THE END BITS  What type of friend are you? Click here to take our free quiz. If you’re looking for something else to listen to why not check out our hilarious and seriously unhelpful podcast The Baby Bubble hosted by Clare and Jessie Stephens. Tell us what you really think so we can give you more of what you really want. Fill out this survey and you’ll go in the running to win one of five $100 gift vouchers. Subscribe to Mamamia We’ve compiled all the best resources for new mums in a free newsletter. Join the mailing list. CREDITS: Host & Producer: Grace Rouvray Guest: Alison Lester  Audio Producer: Jacob Round Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Have you noticed as each year passes your children are paying less attention to your words of wisdom? Do not fear because today we’re delving into a 2000 year old tribal ritual that "magically" has your kids following your words without talking back! Plus we delve into the new Tik Tok trend - "boy mums" and their toxic behaviour.  THE END BITS Gift a Mamamia subscription: Head here to give the best stuff for women. We’ve compiled all the best resources for new mums in a free newsletter. Join the mailing list. CREDITS: Hosts: Tegan Natoli, Annaliese Todd  Producer: Thom Lion Audio Production: Lu Hill We’ve compiled all the best resources for new mums in a free newsletter. Join the mailing list. Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This is a special TGM from the archives when Holly Wainwright and Andrew Daddo were hosts. It made a big splash at the time so we've dusted it off again for you. Summer Wilson is your average Australian 17-year-old, she has a part time job at Woolies, and she likes hanging out with her friends. But unlike most 17-year-olds, she’s already had a cosmetic procedure. Her mum agreed for her to have lip filler injections! Holly and Daddo chat to Summer and her mum, and they have feelings about it. So sit back, relax and be prepare to be floored. HOSTS: Holly Wainwright and Andrew Daddo GUESTS: Lisa and Summer Wilson.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

One of our parents is getting FOMO from the school Whatsapp, but why? Another mum is thinking laterally to entertain her kids at home, and what's the difference between dog chocolate and real chocolate? Does it matter?  You can share your best worst parenting stories by leaving us a voice note, email us at tgm@mamamia.com.au or for super shame super anonymous you can pop them in this form.  THE END BITS  Gift a Mamamia subscription: Head here to give the best stuff for women. Tell us what you really think so we can give you more of what you really want. Fill out this survey and you’ll go in the running to win one of five $100 gift vouchers. We’ve compiled all the best resources for new mums in a free newsletter. Join the mailing list. CREDITS: Host: Annaliese Todd & Stacey Hicks Producer: Thom Lion Audio Producer: Lu Hill Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We all know the challenges of being a mum in 2025 are huge. But how are the dads doing? Do you ever look at a man you love and think “what on earth is going on inside your head?” More and more men are struggling to thrive in today’s hectic world, without saying a word about it - and if our partners are not thriving, then we are not thriving. So what can we do? Today we take a peek behind the male façade, with a vulnerable and at times hilarious conversation with Mamamia’s resident dad Thom Lion. Thom reveals the unspoken pressures and emotional challenges facing the Dads of 2025. Plus, we have practical ways to support the men in your lives, some key signs you can look out for, and tips to help create a healthy and functioning family life. SUPPORT SERVICES: Men’s Shed Mensline Australia: 1300 78 99 78 Beyond Blue: 1300 22 4636 Movember For Dads  Lifeline 13 11 14 THE END BITS CREDITS: Hosts: Tegan Natoli, Annaliese Todd & Thom Lion Producers: Grace Rouvray & Thom Lion Audio Production: Thom Lion Gift a Mamamia subscription: Head here to give the best stuff for women. We’ve compiled all the best resources for new mums in a free newsletter. Join the mailing list. Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Having one baby is hard. Imagine four! This is the incredible story of Taylah Tudehope-Glachan’s pregnancy and birth with her quadruplets.In Part 1 of Taylah’s tale, she details a roller-coaster fertility struggle; think PCOS, endometriosis and IVF.Plus what it was like discovering her successful transfer had resulted in four babies.You’ll hear about high-risk pregnancy, exactly HOW she fell pregnant with quads, and how she handled her hospitalisation at 24 weeksCan’t wait for part two? You don’t need to! Listen to part two of Taylah’s story here.If you’re a soon-to-be mum of multiples, the Australian Multiple Birth Association is a wonderful resource.Diary Of A Birth features mums telling their miraculous stories of bringing life into the world, and we have all medical questions and concerns cleared up by one of Australia’s favourite paediatricians, Dr Golly.If you’d like to share your birth story, we’d love to hear from you at podcast@mamamia.com.au or send us a voice note here.THE END BITS:Support independent women's mediaFollow Diary Of A Birth on InstagramIf you’re looking for something else to listen to, check out our hilarious and seriously unhelpful podcast The Baby Bubble hosted by Clare and Jessie Stephens.Mamamia has a podcast for every stage of parenthood.Our parenting podcast is This Glorious Mess.If you’re pregnant, listen to The Delivery Room and Hello Bump.And if you’re trying or preg-curious, Get Me Pregnant and Before The Bump are for you.CREDITS:Host: Ksenija LukichExpert: Dr GollyExecutive Producer: Georgie PageAudio Producer: Scott Stronach  Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

At this point, you're probably halfway through the school holidays—congrats! As the holidays seem to stretch longer each year, you might find yourself running out of entertainment ideas. Or perhaps you're back at work this week, juggling family life and your professional responsibilities. This episode offers equal parts escapism and practical advice. Sit back, relax (or at least try to), as This Glorious Mess brings you a school holiday survival guide. THE END BITS Gift a Mamamia subscription: Head here to give the best stuff for women. We’ve compiled all the best resources for new mums in a free newsletter. Join the mailing list. CREDITS: Host: Tegan Natoli, Annaliese Todd  Producer: Grace Rouvray and Thom Lion Audio Producer: Lu Hill Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We’ve all had our moments of questionable parenting. Let this podcast ease your guilt. From using your child’s diaper as your own to accidentally calling emergency services or pocket-dialing your mothers’ group while recounting a salaciously sexy story, we’ve found the best parenting confessions for you to enjoy. Have a good laugh while navigating the chaos of the summer holidays! Enjoy!   THE END BITS  Tell us what you really think so we can give you more of what you really want. Fill out this survey and you’ll go in the running to win one of five $100 gift vouchers. We’ve compiled all the best resources for new mums in a free newsletter. Join the mailing list. CREDITS: Host: Annaliese Todd & Stacey Hicks Producer: Grace Rouvray Audio Producer: Lu Hill Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A mum with a birth plan, and a baby with a very different idea…Michelle Battersby’s birth was long, her baby got stuck and she was forced to pivot to a birth she had never considered.The entrepreneur, marketing guru & founder of Sunroom shares her diary of a birth.Diary Of A Birth features mums telling their miraculous stories of bringing life into the world, and we have all medical questions and concerns cleared up by one of Australia’s favourite paediatricians, Dr Golly.If you’d like to share your birth story, we’d love to hear from you at podcast@mamamia.com.au or send us a voice note here. You can listen to more of Diary Of A Birth here.THE END BITS:Support independent women's mediaFollow Diary Of A Birth on Instagram If you’re looking for something else to listen to, check out our hilarious and seriously unhelpful podcast The Baby Bubble hosted by Clare and Jessie Stephens.Mamamia has a podcast for every stage of parenthood.Our parenting podcast is This Glorious Mess.If you’re pregnant, listen to The Delivery Room and Hello Bump.And if you’re trying or preg-curious, Get Me Pregnant and Before The Bump are for you.Join the Month of MOVEGet $30 off a Mamamia subscription and get unlimited access to our feel-good exercise app. Head here to get a yearly subscription for just $39.CREDITS:Host: Ksenija Lukich Expert: Dr GollyExecutive Producer: Georgie PageAudio Producer: Scott Stronach and Lu HillMamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

If there’s one thing that brings us all together—whether for a heartfelt connection or just pure practicality—it’s dinner time. No matter who we are, we all have to eat, and that simple act unites us. Throughout the year, we’ve been gathering stories from parents across Australia about how they navigate the chaos, joy, and challenges of dinner time. Now, we’d love to share those stories with you. This is Dinner Time THE END BITS Gift a Mamamia subscription: Head here to give the best stuff for women. Got a message for Sarah Marie? We’re listening! Send us a voice message, email us at tgm@mamamia.com.au We’ve compiled all the best resources for new mums in a free newsletter. Join the mailing list. CREDITS: Producer: Grace Rouvray Audio Producer: Lu Hill Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Research showa that PND is more likely to occur 4 years after birth than at any point in the first 12 months. In This Glorious Mess From the archives, Leigh Campbell and Tegan Natoli deep dive into Post Natal Depression.  PND affects up 100,000 parents every year in Australia alone. If are experiencing any of the symptoms discussed in this episode please speak to your GP. If are experiencing any of the symptoms discussed in this episode please speak to your GP. PND RESOURCES  Beyond Blue, Lifeline, PANDA,The Gidget Foundation Take the Edinburgh test HERE THE END BITS  Subscribe to Mamamia GET IN TOUCH: Feedback? We’re listening! Call the pod phone on 02 8999 9386 or email us at tgm@mamamia.com.au  CREDITS: Host: Leigh Campbell & Tegan Natoli Producer: Grace Rouvray Audio Producer:  Leah Porges  Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Just by reading our articles or listening to our podcasts, you’re helping to fund girls in schools in some of the most disadvantaged countries in the world - through our partnership with Room to Read. We’re currently funding 300 girls in school every day and we aim to get to 1,000. Find out more on mamamia.com.au Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

'Twas the night before Christmas and there were presents to wrap. But then mum said "I've had enough of this crap!"  In today's very special episode we dive into what YOU truly deserve this Christmas, and find out the helpful ways other parents are wrangling this holiday season. Plus, forget Mariah Carey - our resident Dad Thom Lion has written the ultimate Christmas song that sums up a certain "phenomena" that happens in your home every Christmas day. Consider us your festive friends with ideas to share for the mayhem ahead.   THE END BITS Gift a Mamamia subscription: Head here to give the best stuff for women. We’ve compiled all the best resources for new mums in a free newsletter. Join the mailing list. CREDITS: Host: Tegan Natoli, Annaliese Todd  Guest: Thom Lion Producers: Grace Rouvray and Thom Lion Audio Producer: Lu Hill & Leah Porges Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.