This Thing Called Grief: Navigating Life After Loss

If you're looking for gentle yet frank and authentic conversations about the ins and outs of grief, loss and life in the aftermath, then this is your place. I'm Lori Peters, a veteran griever and licensed grief counselor. I use my personal and professional knowledge to talk about grief in all its messy aspects. I'm far from being an expert, but I'll share what I do know to help you navigate one of the hardest moments of life, when you've lost something or someone. Loss is universal but grief is unique for each of us. I feel honored and blessed to serve in this way as your guide and supporter.

An Update & A Pause

In this brief episode, I explain what's been going on for me and why I need to take a hiatus. Contact: lori@starfishcounseling.biz **NOT ACCEPTING THERAPY CLIENTS CURRENTLY**

12-13
01:57

Prepping for the Holidays

This year, I'm only devoting one episode to the holidays at they relate to grief. I offer five gentle suggestions to help you navigate this time of year. Contact: lori@starfishcounseling.biz For Therapy Inquiries: www.starfishcounseling.biz (PA residents only) Grief to Gratitude Retreat from May 16-20: https://tri.ps/6bh6g

11-01
07:52

Multiple Losses within a Short Period of Time

I talk about a dynamic that a lot of people face - incurring losses within a short amount of time. I also give a few pointers on how to start dealing with the overwhelming grief. Contact: lori@starfishcounseling.biz Therapy Inquiries (PA residents only): www.starfishcounseling.biz Grief to Gratitude Retreat: https://tri.ps//6bh6g

10-11
07:19

Grief to Gratitude Retreat

I talk about a retreat I'm hosting May 16-20, 2025 at the Retreat Ranch in Marble Falls, TX. To learn more or to reserve your spot: https://tri.ps/6bh6g or theretreatranch.com Contact: lori@starfishcounseling.biz or starfishcounselingforgl@gmail.com For therapy inquiries (PA residents only): www.starfishcounseling.biz

09-20
07:59

Some Considerations Before Establishing a Daily Routine

Getting back to your life after a loss can be hard, so in this episode, I go over a few considerations you may want to think about if you're ready to resume or start a daily routine. I also share some exciting news about upcoming events. Contact: lori@starfishcounseling.biz For therapy inquiries (Pennsylvania residents only): www.starfishcounseling.biz

09-06
05:44

When You Want to Rush the Healing Process

A lot of my clients and I have struggled with the urge to ignore our feelings and rush through the grieving process. Pain can do that to you. I talk about why that is in this episode. Contact: lori@starfishcounseling.biz or starfishcounselingforgl@gmail.com For Therapy Inquiries (PA residents only): www.starfishcounseling.biz

08-16
06:22

Writing Prompt for 8/2/24

This episode contains a writing prompt. I periodically offer such prompts to help you navigate your grief process. Contact: lori@starfishcounseling.biz or starfishcounselingforgl@gmail.com For Therapy Inquiries (PA residents only): www.starfishcounseling.biz

08-02
02:05

Checking In

In this episode, I give you a few questions to use for a self-check-in, which is a valuable activity to do to help you in your grief. Contact: lori@starfishcounseling.biz or starfishcounselingforgl@gmail.com For therapy inquiries (PA residents only): www.starfishcounseling.biz

07-19
04:26

Writing Prompt - 6/28/24

It's time for another writing prompt. Be sure to create space and time to do the writing and then plan on doing a reset before reintegrating. Contact: lori@starfishcounseling.biz or starfishcounselingforgl@gmail.com For therapy inquiries (PA residents only): www.starfishcounseling.biz

06-28
01:51

Spiritual Bypassing

A hot topic on tap for this episode - spiritual bypassing. I define it, provide examples of it and give you some tips on what to do when confronted by it and how to prevent you from doing it to someone else. Contact: lori@starfishcounseling.biz or starfishcounselingforgl@gmail.com Therapy Inquiries (Pennsylvania residents only): www.starfishcounseling.biz

06-21
08:33

Signs You're Doing Okay

"How do I know I'm doing okay?" This is a common question I get from clients and others as they go through the grief process. I go over a list of six signs I look out for. Contact: lori@starfishcounseling.biz or starfishcounselingforgl@gmail.com For Therapy Inquiries, visit www.starfishcounseling.biz (Pennsylvania residents only)

06-07
08:36

Writing Prompt - 5/24/24

This is a writing prompt related to grief. Contact: lori@starfishcounseling.biz or starfishcounselingforgl@gmail.com For therapy inquiries (Pennsylvania residents only), go to www.starfishcounseling.biz

05-24
01:58

Different Levels of Grief

I talk about how the level of grief experienced can vary among losses, depending upon a few factors. Contact: lori@starfishcounseling.biz or starfishcounselingforgl@gmail.com For therapy inquiries, visit www.starfishcounseling.biz (PA residents only).

05-17
05:39

Doing the Bare Minimum in Grief

Have you ever felt like you need to do something with your grief? I talk about that in this episode, suggesting a different way to approach grief. Contact: lori@starfishcounseling.biz or starfishcounselingforgl@gmail.com Visit www.starfishcounseling.biz for therapy inquiries (PA residents only).

05-03
06:50

Writing Prompt - 4/26/24

I have another writing prompt for you in this episode. Be sure to save time and space to do the activity and then to reset. Contact: lori@starfishcounseling.biz or starfishcounselingforgl@gmail.com Go to: www.starfishcounseling.biz for therapy inquiries (PA residents only)

04-26
01:58

The Grief Associated with Transitions

I go over some common and not-so-common transitions that generate grief and explain why acknowledging the grief process inside of these changes is so important. Contact: lori@starfishcounseling.biz or starfishcounselingforgl@gmail.com For therapy inquiries (PA residents only), go to www.starfishcounseling.biz .

04-19
06:21

What To Do When You Don't Have Support

I talk about support systems in this episode and what to do if you don't have one. Contact: lori@starfishcounseling.biz or starfishcounselingforgl@gmail.com For therapy inquiries (PA residents only), visit www.starfishcounseling.biz

04-05
06:52

Bonus Episode: Writing Prompt #2

It's the 4th Friday of the month and so I have another writing prompt for you. Be sure you're in the proper space to complete the prompt and don't forget to ask your questions to reset - How do I reset? What self-care action do I need to take? What self-care thought do I have? Contact: lori@starfishcounseling.biz or starfishcounselingforgl@gmail.com

03-22
02:15

The Juggling Act of Grief

Sometimes in grief, it feels like we have lives in two separate worlds and it becomes a juggling act. I talk more about this strange dynamic in this episode. Contact: lori@starfishcounseling.biz or starfishcounselingforgl@gmail.com For therapy inquiries (PA residents only), go to www.starfishcounseling.biz .

03-15
08:05

Handling Grief When You're Depressed

TW: mentions of suicide and trauma I share a bit of my story about how I navigated grief and depression and I offer some gentle suggestions. If you're struggling with thoughts of suicide, please reach out for support. Call 988, the national crisis hotline, or 911 or your local crisis hotline. Contact: lori@starfishcounseling.biz For therapy inquiries (PA residents only), go to www.starfishcounseling.biz .

03-01
14:27

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