This is Not That Podcast with Shirley Dor and Cirocobama

There is an idea that once you hit 30, dating becomes a challenge or even less satisfying. For whatever reason it’s connected to societal pressure for women and the lack thereof for men. Let’s dig into Dating VS Relationships: And It’s Constructs ! Love the episode? Leave us reivew. Support our⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Get This is Not That Podcast bonus content Share with us in our⁠⁠⁠ ⁠confession booth ⁠⁠⁠⁠— Ask us for advice, share your thoughts on the episode, or tell us a dirty little secret. Follow the hosts — ⁠@shirleydor_ ⁠and @Cirocobama305 ⁠Follow the pod — ⁠Instagram and Threads: @thisisnotthatp

Welcome back! It's your audio besties here. Apparently people are finding love in the club and other people online are not feeling it. Us, DO NOT FIND LOVE IN THE CLUB. Love the episode? Leave us reivew. Support our⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Get This is Not That Podcast bonus content Share with us in our⁠⁠⁠ ⁠confession booth ⁠⁠⁠⁠— Ask us for advice, share your thoughts on the episode, or tell us a dirty little secret. Follow the hosts — ⁠@shirleydor_ ⁠and @Cirocobama305 ⁠Follow the pod — ⁠Instagram and Threads: @thisisnotthatpod

Shirley is currently watching sex in the city and she feels so secure in the conversation that dating in the 90's is not that quite different from dating in 2020's. All that has changed is the access to technology and people. The same issues in love, sex, dating, and relationships explore in Miranda's sex column, are surfacing in today's day age. Support our⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Get This is Not That Podcast bonus content Share with us in our⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠confession booth ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠— Ask us for advice, share your thoughts on the episode, or tell us a dirty little secret. Follow the hosts — ⁠@shirleydor_ ⁠and @Cirocobama305 ⁠Follow the pod — ⁠Instagram and Threads: @thisisnotthatpod

Welcome back! It's your audio besties here. We feel a little passionate today and we really need you guys to leave so much in 2023. From Chrisean and Blueface to baby hairs that touch your eyebrows. This is Part I of Bring it or Leave it into 2024. Support our⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Get This is Not That Podcast bonus content Share with us in our⁠⁠ ⁠confession booth ⁠⁠⁠— Ask us for advice, share your thoughts on the episode, or tell us a dirty little secret. Follow the hosts — ⁠@shirleydor_ ⁠and @Cirocobama305 ⁠Follow the pod — ⁠Instagram and Threads: @thisisnotthatpod

We have two new segments you will love, but first, a bunch of conspiracies' we need to debunk with ConspiracyGate. Hace you ever thought of people you would expeditiously send to jail for heinous crimes? Let's talk about our Citizens Arrests. This is NOT That podcast, we’re opinionated & experts On this episode we talk about: Trolls who talk behind private accounts JP Morgan Chase and Cocaine Ship Terrance J and the McLaren  Scissors with packaging, what's that about? Hidden Gem: Stay protected with your wellness in mind, use Royal Intimacy vegan products when its spicy time. Get vegan latex condoms here: https://collabs.shop/ecradi Subscribe to our ⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠— Weekly uploads Support our ⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠ — Get This is Not That Podcast bonus content Share with us in our ⁠confession booth ⁠— Ask us for advice, share your thoughts on the episode, or tell us a dirty little secret. 

Your audio besties are back and we’re talking about how acting out on delusion will make your dreams come true in the world of entrepreneurship. Businesses owned by Black women earn significantly less than businesses run by other women. This is NOT That podcast, we’re opinionated & experts.  In this episode we discuss: Delusion as a personal growth strategy for entrepreneurs Financial freedom in entrepreneurship The fall of paying for business coaches Gems for this episode Books to help with starting your business The $100 Startup: Reinvent the Way You Make a Living, Do What You Love, and Create a New Future Two Weeks Notice: Find the Courage to Quit Your Job, Make More Money, Work Where You Want, and Change the World Subscribe to our ⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠— Weekly uploads Support our ⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠ — Get This is Not That Podcast bonus content Share with us in our ⁠confession booth ⁠— Ask us for advice, share your thoughts on the episode, or tell us a dirty little secret.  Follow the hosts on Instagram— ⁠@shirleydor_ ⁠and @Cirocobama⁠305 Follow the pod — ⁠Instagram ⁠or ⁠Twitter⁠ Production team: ⁠oitocrew.com⁠ in Orlando

Your audio besties are back and with a new segment, Anime Banter. Listen to us nerd out about our favorite Anime movies and shows and fully dissect what may or may not be your favorite Anime. This is NOT That podcast, we’re opinionated & experts. In this episode we discuss: The difference between being a Blerd, Dweeb, and Geek One Piece is not the superior anime Get to know us, Anime edition. Gems for this episode Want more anime podcast: here is a list of 100 Enjoy the wonderful world of pleasure with VUSH see what the buzz is about ⁠here Stay protected with your wellness in mind, use Royal Intimacy vegan products when its spicy time. Get vegan latex condoms here Subscribe to our ⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠— Weekly uploads Support our ⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠ — Get This is Not That Podcast bonus content Share with us in our ⁠confession booth ⁠— Ask us for advice, share your thoughts on the episode, or tell us a dirty little secret. Follow the hosts — ⁠Shirley Dor ⁠and ⁠Cirocobama⁠ Follow the pod — ⁠Instagram ⁠or ⁠Twitter⁠ Production team: ⁠oitocrew.com⁠ in Orlando

Wonder what it’s like for someone to not be into you.? Yeah? We got you covered. Shirley Dor and Cirocobama share the true signs that she’s just not that into you.  This is NOT That podcast, we’re opinionated & experts.  In this episode we discuss: Signs that a woman simply isn't into you The red flag date of Shirley getting flewed out by escape room guy The story of Cirocobama date that's favorite wings is Wing Stop Gems for this episode Enjoy the wonderful world of pleasure with VUSH see what the buzz is about here Get the best RAZORS for the cleaniest shave with KITSCH here Subscribe to our ⁠YouTube⁠— Weekly uploads Support our ⁠Patreon⁠ — Get This is Not That Podcast bonus content Share with us in our confession booth — Ask us for advice, share your thoughts on the episode, or tell us a dirty little secret. Follow the hosts — Shirley Dor and Cirocobama Follow the pod — Instagram or Twitter Production team: oitocrew.com in Orlando

Welcome back! We missed you a lot and we are so excited to be back. We decided this season return would be best to address some ignant sh*t we found around the interest. Shirley Dor and Cirocobama talk new segments and more.  Subscribe to our ⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠— Weekly uploads Support our ⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠ — Get This is Not That Podcast bonus content Share with us in our ⁠confession booth ⁠— Ask us for advice, share your thoughts on the episode, or tell us a dirty little secret. Follow the hosts — ⁠Shirley Dor ⁠and ⁠Cirocobama⁠ Follow the pod — ⁠Instagram ⁠or ⁠Twitter⁠ Production team: ⁠oitocrew.com⁠ in Orlando

By embracing sexual well-being you are nurturing wholeness in your life // Lè w anbrase byennèt seksyèl w ap pran swen sante w nan lavi w. Join hosts Shirley Dor and CirocObama on an engaging episode of This is Not That Podcast, as they delve into the multifaceted world of sexuality in the Haitian community. Together with special guests, they navigate attitudes, beliefs, and societal factors that shape discussions about sex. With a focus on fostering understanding and promoting comprehensive sexual health education, this episode sheds light on important topics including education, awareness, cultural norms, gender roles, parenting strategies, and challenging taboos and stigmas. By addressing these areas, we aim to improve sexual well-being among the Haitian diaspora and natives. Tune in for an enlightening conversation that celebrates diverse perspectives while advocating for a healthier and more informed approach to sexuality in the Haitian community. Let's foster positive change together! Follow our co-host for this episode: Christina: Christy: https://www.instagram.com/joyofchristy/ Fabiola: https://www.instagram.com/fabiolacoupet/ Ciroc: https://www.instagram.com/cirocobama305/ Shirley: https://www.instagram.com/shirleydor_/ We extend our gratitude to our partner, Talk Test Treat, for their invaluable support in fostering open discussions about sex in the Haitian community. Together, we encourage you to take ownership of your sexual health by knowing your status. Visit https://talktestcfl.com/ to discover a network of providers, explore testing options, and even order your free at-home testing kit. Let's prioritize our well-being and promote a healthier future. This is NOT That podcast, we’re opinionated & experts. Follow us https://instagram.com/thisisnotthatpod https://tiktok.com/@thisisnotthatpod For more great content, check of This is Not That Pod YouTube—new videos every Thursday: https://youtube.com/@thisisnotthatpod

As Shirley Dor and Cirocobama close out this season of This is Not That Podcast, we reflect on previous season while doing a mukbang. Topics we explored: Relationships dynamics Dating partnered men Interests in finding a romantic partner Dating blue collar men Dating as an entrepreneur What makes a woman masculine Prioritizing mental wellness and preventing burnout, we will see you next season in the thick of summer. Follow the podcast: ⁠https://instagram.com/thisisnotthatpod⁠ ⁠https://tiktok.com/@thisisnotthatpod ⁠ For more great content, check of This is Not That Pod YouTube—new videos every Thursday: ⁠https://youtube.com/@thisisnotthatpod⁠ Follow us: https://www.instagram.com/shirleydor_/ https://www.tiktok.com/@shirleydor_ https://www.instagram.com/cirocobama305/ https://www.tiktok.com/@cirocobama305 Connect with our partners for this season. Own your sex life by knowing your status. Visit https://talktestcfl.com/ to explore providers, testing centers, prevention options, and order your free at-home testing kit.  Looking to become a content creator but you do not have the space? Check out Labrousse-Paul Media Group, a content creator Peerspace located in Kissimmee. Its perfect for brand shoots, photoshoots, mobile podcast recording, and intimate events. https://www.instagram.com/labroussepaulmediagroup/ Check out Create Studio & Co, a content creator and curated event space located in Orlando, Florida. Its perfect for brand shoots, photoshoots, special events, and creative events. Check it out to book today: ⁠https://www.createandcoorlando.com/

Entrepreneurship often requires a constant hustle that can easily lead to neglecting one's own well-being and suffering from burnout and stress. We decided to practice what we preach and get facials at Talia V Skincare. In this episode, we share our personal experiences and discuss tips for taking care of yourself and being mindful of your busy schedule. We had the pleasure of interviewing Talia, a esthetician based in Orlando who makes your skin her expertise. We talk about our entrepreneurial struggles and how we make self care a priority in their lives. Tune in to gain inspiration and insight on how you can prioritize self care and improve your overall well-being This is NOT That podcast, we’re opinionated & experts. As an entrepreneur, it's important to prioritize self care for your overall well-being. One great way to indulge in self care is by treating yourself to a facial. Talia V Skincare offers a range of services to help you look and feel your best. Visit their website to learn more about her service and book an appointment to experience the benefits of self care firsthand: ⁠https://taliavskincare.com/ Follow us https://instagram.com/thisisnotthatpod https://tiktok.com/@thisisnotthatpod For more great content, check of This is Not That Pod YouTube—new videos every Thursday: https://youtube.com/@thisisnotthatpod This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.

This is obviously NOT the podcast you thought it was. Romantic friendships, in contrast to sneaky links, involve the development of deeper intimacy and a form of platonic love, while avoiding sexual politics and crossing traditional boundaries. As professional conversationalists who does this for the views, Shirley Dor and Cirocobama dives into Sneaky links vs Friends With Benefits vs Romantic Friendships. We open the door to the discussion of how to talk to your sneaky link/friend with benefits/situationship about sexual responsibility, unwanted pregnancy, HIV/AIDS and other Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STD's)? Thanks to our partner for this episode, Talk Test Treat. Own your sex life by knowing your status. Visit https://talktestcfl.com/ to explore providers, testing options, and order your free at-home testing kit.  This is NOT That podcast, we’re opinionated & experts. Follow us https://instagram.com/thisisnotthatpod https://tiktok.com/@thisisnotthatpod For more great content, check of This is Not That Pod YouTube—new videos every Thursday: https://youtube.com/@thisisnotthatpod This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.

Why do Haitian men have the reputation of being unfaithful? Shirley Dor and Cirocobama dig into research to determine the why behind infidelity. From trauma during slavery to increased likelihoods of Black men cheating. This is NOT That podcast, we’re opinionated & experts. Follow us https://instagram.com/thisisnotthatpod https://tiktok.com/@thisisnotthatpod For more great content, check of This is Not That Pod YouTube—new videos every Thursday: https://youtube.com/@thisisnotthatpod ad inquiries, guest speaker requests, any questions: thisisnotthatpod@gmail.com

It’s common for all genders to masturbate? Is masturbation healthy? 7 tips on how to masturbate with Shirley Dor and Cirocobama. This is NOT That podcast, we’re opinionated & experts. Follow us https://instagram.com/thisisnotthatpod https://tiktok.com/@thisisnotthatpod For more great content, check of This is Not That Pod YouTube—new videos every Thursday: https://youtube.com/@thisisnotthatpod. Looking to become a content creator or have events you want to host but you do not have the space? Check out Create Studio & Co, a content creator and curated event space located in Orlando, Florida. Its perfect for brand shoots, photoshoots, special events, and creative events. Check it out to book today: https://www.createandcoorlando.com/ ad inquiries, guest speaker requests, any questions: thisisnotthatpod@gmail.com

Drama follows those who struggle with conflict resolution. From passiveness to aggressiveness, it takes a toll on all relationships in your life. Ciroc challenges Shirley to explore how she would handle specific conflict in her life. Ciroc specifically deals with issues as they come and Shirley needs time to process her thoughts. They balance out ways you can manage if you are romantically involved with someone who has a different conflict resolution style from you. This is NOT That podcast, we’re opinionated & experts. Follow us https://instagram.com/thisisnotthatpod https://tiktok.com/@thisisnotthatpod For more great content, check of This is Not That Pod YouTube—new videos every Thursday: https://youtube.com/@thisisnotthatpod ad inquiries, guest speaker requests, any questions: thisisnotthatpod@gmail.com

Today is National Women and Girls HIV/AIDS Awareness Day. Being alone is scary and uncomfortable in a society that tells you that you have to be partnered. In retaliating against bitter and single, here’s how to date yourself from Happily Single people. Shirley Dor and Ciroc includes a discussion on sexual responsibility that analyzes how HIV impacts Women and Girls. This is NOT That podcast, we’re opinionated & experts. Follow us https://instagram.com/thisisnotthatpod https://tiktok.com/@thisisnotthatpod For more great content, check of This is Not That Pod YouTube—new videos every Thursday: https://youtube.com/@thisisnotthatpod ad inquiries, guest speaker requests, any questions: thisisnotthatpod@gmail.com Thanks to our partner for this episode, Talk Test Treat. Own your sex life, get tested. Visit https://talktestcfl.com/ to explore providers, testing options, and order your free at-home testing kit. This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.

Self-love is not just showing up for yourself. Self-love is a state of appreciation for oneself that grows from actions that support our physical, psychological and spiritual growth. Black women have to practice self-love through the lenses of healing abandonment issues, rejection, self-esteem, and other wounds. How? Ciroc and Shirley weigh in on their self-love journey starting from high-school into adulthood. Topics explored: how family impacts self-love, developing self-love in relationships, combating naysayers, and more... This is NOT That podcast, we’re opinionated & experts. Follow us https://instagram.com/thisisnotthatpod https://tiktok.com/@thisisnotthatpod For more great content, check of This is Not That Pod YouTube—new videos every Thursday: https://youtube.com/@thisisnotthatpod ad inquiries, guest speaker requests, any questions: thisisnotthatpod@gmail.com

Let's settle this now, RIP C/O Uncut.  Shirley and Ciroc addresses the elephant in to room and why we're started podding again but a brand new face. Every Tuesday, let’s have soul-provoking conversations with Shirley Dor and Cirocobama. Shirley, a sex educator and therapist merges her expertise and raunchy personal stories in open conversations with Ciroc, a raw conversationalist. They’ll provide a safe space to explore love, dating, all kinds of relationships, and pleasure. This is NOT That podcast, we’re opinionated & experts. Hotline: (407) 801-7556 Follow us https://instagram.com/thisisnotthatpod https://tiktok.com/@thisisnotthatpod https://youtube.com/@thisisnotthatpod thisisnotthatpod@gmail.com This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.

You have no friends or can not keep a friend and you wonder why. This episode we are exploring subtle signs you may not be interested in making friends as much as you think you are. Shirley compares her personality and habits from a time where she was team small circle of friends to who she is today; outgoing, friendly, and open. Ciroc shares gems on how to get out of that "I don't need friends" mindset. Get bonus content from Shirley Dor and Cirocobama, support our⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Patreon: ⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/ThisisNotThatPodcastPatreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Ask us for advice, share your thoughts on an episode, or tell us a dirty little secret in our confession booth⁠: https://forms.gle/apQnshx4QBNTX2UC8 Follow the hosts — ⁠@shirleydor_ ⁠and @Cirocobama305 ⁠Follow the pod — ⁠Instagram and Threads: @thisisnotthatpod