Thots and Perspectives: A Swinger Lifestyle Podcast

We’re a two-physician couple in the swinger lifestyle and we’d like to share with you our perspectives on lifestyle-related topics. Please join us!

Episode 25: Fun with Friends

Ben and Kae reflect on going to a Nudist Colony and a House Party.

09-10
50:13

Episode 24: Club Privata

Ben and Kae make the trip to Portland to visit Privata and discuss the club scene.

07-19
58:48

Episode 23: April 2025 Bliss Cruise Recap

Ben and Kae recap their eventful April 2025 Bliss Cruise.

05-27
58:04

Episode 22: Dirty Vegas and An Ask Reddit Question

Ben & Kae discuss their visit to Dirty Vegas this is year and a Reddit question about a husband who does not like seeing his wife with other men.

08-31
53:16

Episode 21: Sailing the High Seas

Ben and Kae reflect on their experiences on the April 2024 Bliss Cruise.

06-26
42:19

Episode 20: Temptations Cancun Review and Birthday MFM

Kae and Ben go to Temptations for Kae's 40th Birthday and share their thoughts on the resort.

02-24
57:11

Episode 19: Preferences

Kae and Ben talk about what they've been up to recently and why they disappeared. They also cover a Reddit post about a wife preferring younger men and preferences in partners in the lifestyle.

08-29
35:16

Episode 18: Lessons Learned

Kae and Ben discuss the lessons they've learned while in the lifestyle.

05-16
39:23

Episode 17: Attachment

Ben and Kae talk about fear of attachment in the lifestyle and nerd out a little bit about oxytocin and bonding.

03-03
44:48

Episode 16: The Approach

Ben & Kae discuss approaching other couples in the lifestyle and their hints at successful and stories of abject failure.

02-03
52:34

Episode 15: Orgies and Such

Lifestyle couple Kae and Ben discuss group encounters.

12-28
55:08

Episode 14: Reddit QnA #3

Ben and Kae discuss a variety of topics from /r/swingers. Includes: does being in the lifestyle make vanilla things less fun, a tough first encounter and what a big guy should do to be more appealing.

11-08
51:33

Episode 13: Attractiveness in the Lifestyle

Ben and Kae talk about what they find attractive and what attractiveness means in the swinging lifestyle.

09-30
49:24

Episode 12: Lifestyle Fears

Ben and Kae discuss their relationship fears while engaging in the swinging lifestyle. @thotsandpodcast

09-05
38:35

Episode 11: Threesomes

Kae and Ben talk about the ins-and-outs of threesomes.

08-18
45:52

Episode 10: The Condom Episode

Ben & Kae discuss condoms. Polyurethane versus latex. German and Japanese brands. Particularly, what are the best ever-so-slightly-larger-than-average condoms are the market, in Ben's opinion?

08-08
38:31

Episode 9: Plastic Surgery, Piercings, Periods and Fitness. All things body.

Ben and Kae discussed a variety of body and self-care related topics as they pertain to the lifestyle. We discuss plastic surgery, piercings, managing your period during travel. We also have an extensive discussion on a variety of diets and workout routines we've tried in the past.

07-14
52:20

Episode 8: Porn Addiction

Ben & Kae talk about porn, porn's effect on relationships, and the effect of porn in the swinging lifestyle.

06-28
32:36

Episode 7: Male Performance

Ben & Kae talk about male performance from a lifestyle and medical perspective. Buckle up, it's a long one!

06-12
53:29

Episode 6: Daters, Pods and Poly-quads

Ben & Kae talk about different ways couples approach the swinging lifestyle that they didn't know about in the beginning.

05-30
31:48

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