Send us a text Have you ever noticed how one “no” can drown out a hundred “yeses”? In this episode of Thoughts of a Dreamer, Terri unpacks the psychology of negativity bias—the mental habit that makes us fixate on rejection and overlook support. Whether you’re a creator, entrepreneur, or someone trying to bring a dream to life, this episode explores how that single voice of doubt can become louder than every cheer in the room. Terri shares personal stories and relatable moments that reveal ho...
Send us a text They say the richest place on earth is the graveyard—where the unwritten books, unsung songs, and unstarted businesses are buried. In this episode of Thoughts of a Dreamer, I share a story that changed how I think about fear, timing, and taking action on my dreams. During a flight back from Amsterdam, I met a music executive who turned a midnight idea into a next-day mission. No waiting. No overthinking. Just execution. That conversation made me realize how easily we confuse pr...
Send us a text In a world where algorithms dictate what we see and opinions flood every corner of the internet, authenticity can feel like an uphill battle. In this episode of Thoughts of a Dreamer, I dig into what it costs when we trade our true voice for popularity, approval, or fleeting trends. I share my own story of bending to feedback, chasing what “works,” and burning out—only to realize that being authentic is the only way to build something real and lasting. What you’ll hear: Why you...
Send us a text In this episode of Thoughts of a Dreamer: Out My Mind, Terri Nikki dives into one of the biggest dream-killers of all time: failure. We’ve all been there—hesitating to post, launch, or pitch because of the shame and embarrassment tied to getting it wrong. But what if failure isn’t a dead end? What if every misstep is actually data, timing, refinement, or wisdom in disguise? From childhood lessons that taught us to avoid the red “F,” to watching others push through “cringe” and ...
Send us a text Hey Y'all! :) Terri here... Are you stuck in your own head? Do the “voices in your head” keep telling you to wait, play it safe, or hold off until you feel ready? You’re not alone. In this episode of Thoughts of a Dreamer, Terri Nikki gets real about the mental mind games every dreamer faces when it’s time to stop dreaming and start doing. We’ll break down what happens in your brain when you chase a dream: how the amygdala sets off alarm bells, why fear disguises itself a...
Send us a text Fear isn’t just a feeling—it’s a setting. In this episode of Thoughts of a Dreamer: Out of My Mind, we break down how fear programs your mind, filters your choices, and shapes your reality. From the Dunning-Kruger effect to the pit of despair, inner critics to outside voices, I’m unpacking how fear sneaks in, where it hides, and how you can reset your relationship with it. If you’ve ever felt stuck, second-guessed yourself, or wondered why confidence and clarity feel out of rea...
Send us a text In this first episode of Thoughts of a Dreamer: Out My Mind, I’m unpacking what it means to shrink yourself mentally, emotionally, and energetically. If you’ve ever second-guessed your light, quieted your voice, or made yourself smaller to fit in… this one's for you. This episode is real, raw, and mindset-first. We’re talking self-sabotage, overthinking, emotional shrinking, and the moment I finally decided to reclaim my space. ✨ Listen in if you’re ready to: – Shift your minds...
Send us a text I FINALLY DID IT! I ADDED A VIDEO TO THE PODCAST! Whew. Took long enough. Not exactly what I wanted, but it couldn't wait. I had to get this out. Wanna see me? Click the link below to the pod and subscribe!!! https://youtu.be/02DZc6p-Mq4 Welcome to Season 2 of Thoughts of a Dreamer — Out My Mind. After over 100 episodes and a long-awaited visual relaunch, I’m back with stories that cut deep, insights that heal, and words that push you toward the version of yourself you’ve be...
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Send us a text Thank y'all for the fun. Follow me on my NEW podcast - Thoughts of a Creative Its be real. Be yourself.
Send us a text Surprise surprise... :D Am I back? nah... but I'm here. I am transitioning and still getting used to this new new and I need time to adjust. However, I wanted to get this oldie out! When creating part time, those juices are flowing! No pressure. All passion. When creating full time, you have to wrangle your ever allusive, ambiguous creativity on a deadline. Its completely different... and I didn't know. Creativity ebbs and flows... work with it or you'll be in a world of hurt....
Send us a text You have a special creative in your life... they're screaming that you don't support them... what do they mean? They probably don't know either... so... just listen. :) If you're dating an entrepreneur, creative, or dreamer... you need to hear this. We are DIFFERENT... hopefully you'll understand. Much love! T
Send us a text Confidence... you gotta have it. I'm sorry. All these low vibration... low confidence decisions??? bad for your health. :D not really, but really... It's time to be delusional. Say it until you believe it. Eff what they say. Delulu. Feed into those delusions... safely.
Send us a text I might be afraid of the big rooms... I think I may be skeptical. Whenever we get new opportunities, most of us look like… 👀 is this for real?? It looks too good to be true… I can’t do that!! I don’t have the experience!!! Etc.. Well, I hate to tell you, if you keep waiting for your emotions to give you the warm and fuzzies, chances are… you’re not gonna move. Take a listen! Oprah & TD Jakes Lifeclass The transition is HAPPENING!!! Let’s get it!! Stay t...
Send us a text I hate feeling like I can't do something, but it's easy for me to feel better about my decision NOT to do it. Howsoever... are you being HONEST with you? or... are you just following your internal script? Are you used to saying you can't do something so you pull from your "can't" bag? Well, whenever you feel you can't... take a listen! :)
Send us a text Man... stop. If I had kept goin... I'd be in a different space. thats it. thats the description.
Send us a text Dream big, they say... Just do it, they say... PUH-LEEEZE! How do I get these dreams out my head?!? I wanna see them in real life, but their soooo big my head and not so big in reality. What ta dooooo??? I'm Afraid To Dream Big - Mel Robbins
Send us a text I promise this was crazy how this happened. I can't make this up!! Just listen. I'm learning about this self sabotage thing... The Mountain is You - Briana Wiest
Send us a text its been months. why leave something you enjoy doing? two words. self sabotage. I've been reading The Mountain is You by Briana Weist and I had to take a hard reset. This book has been everything for me and the kickstart back into this podcast. Y'all had some self sabatoge too? well, come on in... the water is nice. :D https://positivepsychology.com/self-sabotage/ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-everyday-unconscious/202303/the-real-reason-we-self-sabotage-a...
Send us a text Ok. I'm emotional. like... SUPER emotional. It gets a little difficult to regulate these emotions, but I HAVE to find a way to funnel these emotions into my creativity. sheesh. Need a great life coach? Business coach? Check out the coach who help kickstart this podcast and all my other business ventures - Mr. Bricesin Scott. Tell him Terri Nikki sent you! :) Journals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There are only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link f...