Every married entrepreneur knows mistakes come with the territory—but they don't have to derail your marriage or business. In this episode, Robert and Kay Lee pull back the curtain on the top five mistakes they've made as married entrepreneurs—and the lessons learned along the way. From overlooking the "Chief Feelings Officer" to chasing shiny objects, they share candid stories that cost them time, money, and peace (sometimes six figures!). You'll hear how "hiring for convenience" created unnecessary conflict, why building real friendships beats pouring money into funnels, and how perfectionism in business slows down growth. Each mistake is paired with a practical takeaway that will save you frustration and keep your marriage strong while your business thrives. Whether you're just starting out or have been building for years, you'll find yourself nodding along and probably laughing at the similarities to your own journey. Tune in to laugh, learn, and avoid these common pitfalls so you and your spouse can grow your business and your marriage in tandem. These are hard-won lessons you don't need to repeat—so you can build smarter, stronger, and with more joy together. Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs' guide for greater work-life balance. https://www.thetandembook.com/ Find out how well you're building a balanced life and take the Marriage and Business Assessment (MBA) https://robert-456uxzwc.scoreapp.com/ Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. https://marriedentrepreneur.co/lets-talk Key Takeaways: Always listen to your CFO—Chief Feelings Officer. Ignoring your spouse's intuition can cost more than you think. Don't fall for Shiny Object Syndrome—invest in tools and strategies that truly fit your business stage. Never hire for convenience. Assign roles based on strengths, not just availability. Focus on friendships over funnels—real relationships create stronger, lasting growth. Stop trying to build the "perfect" lead magnet. Launch imperfectly, learn quickly, and improve along the way.
With over 10,000 AI tools at our fingertips, it's tempting to think technology will be our golden ticket to efficiency, profits, and free time. The problem? All that "help" can actually lead to tech creep—where one more tool, one more subscription, and one more DIY task sneak onto your plate until your calendar is full and your marriage is on the back burner. Bottom line: Tech can absolutely help you grow your business and free up more time for your marriage—if you use it in moderation and keep your focus on the high-level work only you can do. 🎧 Listen now to learn how to put tech in its place so it serves your business, your marriage, and your life—without creeping into every spare moment. Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs' guide for greater work-life balance. https://www.thetandembook.com/ Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem https://marriedentrepreneur.co/5-daily-habits-download Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. https://marriedentrepreneur.co/lets-talk In this episode of Thriving in Tandem, Robert and Kay Lee unpack: How AI is baked into nearly every tool you already use (Zoom, Gmail, Calendly, Riverside, social media… you name it). Why the promise of "faster and cheaper" can backfire if it tempts you to take on more tasks instead of delegating them. Real-life examples of when tech streamlines work—and when it quietly eats away your time. Why leaders should focus on their zone of genius and resist the guilt of not "being in the trenches." How to use tech to empower your team, not overload yourself.
When roles shift at home and at work, even strong couples can feel the strain. In this episode, returning guests Shay and Phil Bynes (Kingdom Driven Entrepreneur) pull back the curtain on their four-year journey of transitioning Shay out of the CEO seat and Phil in—while raising three kids and continuing to lead a global movement. They share what changed, what didn't, and how they protected connection through it all. You'll hear how they navigated identity, authority, and expectations as spouses and co-leaders—without letting business tension become marital tension. From hearing God's nudge to act, to wrestling with control, to defining new decision rights, Phil and Shay explain the practical guardrails (and plenty of grace) that made the handoff work. We also get tactical about staying close during busy seasons: weekly "marriage board meetings," spontaneous micro-check-ins, and simple, intentional fun that doesn't require a plane ticket. If you're a married entrepreneur aiming to grow your business without shrinking your marriage, this conversation is a masterclass in change done together. 12 Powerful Questions to Connect You with God's Heart & Mind in Business: https://kingdomdrivenentrepreneur.com/usccc Free Chapter of Shae's Book, Grace Under Pressure: A Story About Leadership and the Hidden Cost of Ambition https://shaebynes.com/gupbook Grace over Grind https://kingdomdrivenentrepreneur.com/our-books/ Key Takeaways: Transitions need clarity: Decide who owns which decisions now (vision, people, money, operations) and write it down. Step back—then calibrate: Founders often swing too far away after a handoff; expect to iterate until the advisor/CEO rhythm fits. Protect a weekly marriage meeting: Same time, same day, non-negotiable. Use ground rules so issues get resolved before they fester. Honor design differences: Lead styles will differ by God's design; resist the urge to "correct" your spouse into your style. Let things "sputter" (strategically): Maturity sometimes requires leaders to stop rescuing, so teams learn to think and own outcomes. Friendship fuels connection: Micro-moments (10-minute check-ins, pausing a show to talk) keep intimacy alive during busy stretches. Serve first leadership: Out-serving one another at home creates safety and teamwork that shows up in the business. Plan fun on purpose: Comedy nights, simple dates, and kid-care logistics belong on the calendar like any key meeting. Phil Bynes is CEO of Kingdom Driven Entrepreneur, a global movement equipping entrepreneurs to partner with God in business and create greater Kingdom impact in the marketplace. He is also the owner and lead therapist at Crazy Good Massage, where he has served clients with excellence for over 20 years. Shae Bynes, affectionately known as the Chief Fire Igniter, equips leaders to build grace-empowered cultures where people and results flourish. She has impacted over one million people worldwide through her books, courses, podcasts, and speaking. In her executive advising work, she brings a unique blend of strategic clarity, spiritual intelligence, and transformational insight. High school sweethearts since age 16, Phil and Shae have been married for 26 years and are the proud parents of three daughters. Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs' guide for greater work-life balance. https://www.thetandembook.com/ Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem https://marriedentrepreneur.co/5-daily-habits-download Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. https://marriedentrepreneur.co/lets-talk
Get on the waitlist for a Thriving in Tandem event near you. https://marriedentrepreneur.co/marriage-and-business-events Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs' guide for greater work-life balance. https://www.thetandembook.com/ Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem https://marriedentrepreneur.co/5-daily-habits-download Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. https://marriedentrepreneur.co/lets-talk Every married entrepreneur knows the challenge of managing different energy levels—especially when one spouse is ready to go full throttle and the other needs to pace themselves. In this episode, Robert and Kay Lee get real about how this dynamic plays out in their own relationship, from social events and vacations to business strategy sessions and conferences. They reflect on their early frustrations and how intentional communication helped them transform energy differences from a source of conflict into a strength. They share practical tips for managing expectations, planning ahead, and respecting each other's rhythms—whether you're attending a networking event, hosting a retreat, or simply planning your weekend. From code words to separate cars, from downtime gaps on vacation to avoiding heavy convos at bedtime, this episode offers insight into how married couples can honor each other's needs while still pursuing shared goals. Plus, they announce new in-person events—like their upcoming wine pairing dinner, concerts in the park, and even a ski trip in 2026. If you've ever wished your spouse could just keep up (or slow down), this is the episode that will help you find peace, pace, and partnership. Key Takeaways: Don't assume your spouse should match your energy—discuss your needs and make a plan ahead of time. Rest isn't always about sleep; it can also mean freedom from rigid schedules or overstimulation. Schedule important conversations when you're both alert—avoid conflict-heavy talks late at night or during busy moments. Protect the bedroom as a place of intimacy and peace, not stress or business talk. Even high-energy spouses benefit from margin; intentional rest improves clarity, focus, and connection.
When was the last time you and your spouse really laughed together? In this week's episode of Thriving in Tandem, Robert and Kay Lee dive deep into a topic too many married entrepreneurs overlook—fun. After returning from an 18-day dream vacation in Italy and hosting their first "Thriving in Tandem Date Night," they realized just how many couples have stopped making space for joy. Between business demands, family responsibilities, and endless to-do lists, fun often gets pushed aside. Robert and Kay Lee share creative, budget-friendly ways to bring fun back into your marriage without waiting for the "perfect" time or a big trip. From driveway date nights to free concerts in the park, they remind us that joy isn't about extravagance—it's about intentionality. They also reveal how planning events for their married entrepreneur community has given them built-in reasons to prioritize their own date nights and adventures. This episode is full of practical ideas, relatable laughs, and a powerful reminder that fun is essential for a thriving marriage and business. Whether it's putting date nights on the calendar, joining in-person gatherings, or even "forcing" fun through memberships or pre-paid trips, Robert and Kay Lee challenge you to stop waiting and start creating shared memories now. Join our Thriving in Tandem event waitlist https://marriedentrepreneur.co/event-waitlist Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs' guide for greater work-life balance. https://www.thetandembook.com/ Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem https://marriedentrepreneur.co/5-daily-habits-download Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. https://marriedentrepreneur.co/lets-talk Key Takeaways: Fun fuels connection – Laughter and shared experiences lower stress, boost creativity, and strengthen your bond. Intentionality is everything – If it's not on the calendar, it probably won't happen. Fun doesn't have to be expensive – Explore free and local activities; creativity counts more than cost. Community matters – Being around other married entrepreneurs creates instant understanding and encouragement. Sometimes you have to "force" fun – Pre-committing with reservations, memberships, or events helps ensure you follow through.
In this episode of Thriving in Tandem, Robert and Kay Lee unpack the dangers of making impulsive business or investment decisions based on hype, emotion, or pressure. Whether it's a flashy marketing strategy, a "can't miss" real estate deal, or a new business venture, many married entrepreneurs get swept up in the excitement without counting the cost. Drawing from real-life lessons—some painful—they discuss how couples can safeguard their finances and their marriage by slowing down, asking the right questions, and aligning their risk tolerance. Together, they walk through key decision-making pitfalls: FOMO, emotional buying, and lack of due diligence. You'll learn how to avoid being manipulated by urgency or scarcity tactics and how to test business ideas in small ways before investing big. Most importantly, Robert and Kay Lee show how couples can communicate through their differences in risk tolerance and move forward in unity—because your business should grow your wealth, not blow up your relationship. Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs' guide for greater work-life balance. https://www.thetandembook.com/ Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem https://marriedentrepreneur.co/5-daily-habits-download Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. https://marriedentrepreneur.co/lets-talk Key Takeaways: Risk tolerance matters—especially in marriage. Know yours, know your spouse's, and talk about it before you're faced with a big decision. Don't let hype override wisdom. Watch out for pressure tactics like limited-time offers or guaranteed returns—they're red flags. Test before you invest. Whether it's marketing or real estate, start small. Use low-cost or no-cost methods to gauge results first. Emotions + speed = danger. Fast decisions made under emotional pressure are more likely to backfire. Take time to assess the risk. Do your due diligence. Ask hard questions. Get wise counsel. Research independently. Don't rely solely on what a salesperson says. 💡 Bonus Tip: Discuss hypothetical investment decisions when you're not under pressure. It helps you understand each other better and prepares you to make wiser choices when it counts.
In this special live-audience episode of Thriving in Tandem, Robert and Kay Lee welcome back long-time friends and returning guests, Jim and Martha Brangenberg. From running a real estate development project to revitalizing their small town, serving as volunteer firefighters and chaplains, caring for aging parents, hosting their radio show I Work for Him, and spearheading community events — Jim and Martha live a full, fast-paced life. Yet, despite the chaos, they've learned the value of slowing down, setting boundaries, and keeping God at the center of their marriage. Together, we unpack the disciplines, decisions, and daily habits that help them work as a team in both life and business. They share how prayer has been their "secret sauce" for 43 years, why listening to each other's God-given instincts matters, and how choosing connection over conflict has kept their relationship strong. From avoiding "hangry" arguments to navigating seasons where traditional date nights are impossible, Jim and Martha offer practical, real-life strategies for staying close in the busiest of seasons. Whether you're building a business, leading in your community, or simply juggling the everyday demands of marriage and family, this episode will encourage you to protect your partnership, prioritize your quiet time with God, and let go of the small stuff that doesn't matter in the long run. Jim and Martha's story is a reminder that thriving in tandem isn't about perfection — it's about intention, grace, and staying on the same team no matter what. Listen to them on https://www.iwork4him.com/ Listen to episode 82 https://marriedentrepreneur.co/blog/dance-business-spous https://www.iwork4him.com/ Key Takeaways: Prayer is a powerful anchor — begin and end your day with it, even if everything else falls apart. Listen to and respect your spouse's instincts, especially when they feel prompted by God. Protect your marriage from unnecessary tension by "letting go" of minor irritations. Seasons of busyness may require redefining date nights — connection matters more than formality. Set boundaries with your time, use your calendar intentionally, and be willing to say no to protect your priorities. True teamwork means surrendering your agenda to God's direction and committing to run the race together. Bio: Jim Brangenberg An entrepreneur for life, Jim has grown several start-ups and mentored many business owners. His God-gifted ability to ask the right questions lends itself well to his role as host of the iWork4Him program, the Faith and Work mouthpiece founded in 2013. Martha Brangenberg Born into an entrepreneurial family, Martha has been involved in small business her entire life. Gifted with an attention to detail and a sweet sensitive spirit, Martha is a servant leader with a deep faith in Jesus. Together, Jim and Martha are passionate about living out faith at work, building strong marriages and regularly offer marriage retreats. They have three grown children and six grandchildren. Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs' guide for greater work-life balance. https://www.thetandembook.com/ Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem https://marriedentrepreneur.co/5-daily-habits-download Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. https://marriedentrepreneur.co/lets-talk
Join Robert and Kay Lee Fukui as they draw surprising yet powerful parallels between crafting a fine bottle of wine and building a strong, lasting marriage. Fresh off their dream vacation to Italy and inspired by the care, patience, and intentionality they witnessed at the wineries, the Fukuis unpack four key principles that apply both to wine-making and thriving in tandem with your spouse: patience, environment, oxygen (aka communication and emotional safety), and blend. Through personal stories—from the early days of their relationship to navigating conflict and collaboration in business—they share how patience creates room for growth, how cultivating the right environment fosters trust, how healthy communication lets go of toxic buildup, and how honoring each other's differences creates the perfect blend in marriage and business. Whether you're a wine lover or just looking for a fresh way to strengthen your relationship, this episode will challenge and encourage you to be more intentional in your marriage and business. Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs' guide for greater work-life balance. https://www.thetandembook.com/ Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem https://marriedentrepreneur.co/5-daily-habits-download Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. https://marriedentrepreneur.co/lets-talk Key Takeaways: Patience pays off: Just like wine matures under the right conditions, great marriages require time, grace, and room to process emotions and decisions. Environment matters: Creating a safe, supportive space—both emotionally and physically—allows your spouse (and your team) to thrive. Let it breathe: Addressing conflict and giving each other space to communicate reduces relational toxicity and builds emotional intimacy. Blended is better: Embrace your spouse's strengths, differences, and gifts—together, you're far more powerful and approachable as a team.
In this powerful and transparent episode, we're joined by leadership coaches Mark and Christine Jewell, a dynamic couple leading the Momentum Company and Warriors of the Heart. What started as a business-focused meetup evolved into a candid conversation about marriage, money, calling, and the cost of doing life in parallel instead of in partnership. They share the raw truth of how merging their businesses and finances wasn't easy—but it was the key to unlocking a whole new level of peace, purpose, and profit in their home and company. Christine and Mark get vulnerable about their journey from individual success to shared purpose. They reveal how a word from God—"supernatural unification"—set them on a course that exposed hidden money habits, relational misalignment, and the danger of running side-by-side without real connection. By aligning their financial systems and embracing their God-given roles in life and business, they not only paid off nearly $300K in debt in 18 months, but also experienced explosive growth and deeper family unity. You'll walk away from this conversation with practical frameworks, spiritual encouragement, and renewed hope that you can build a life and business that thrives—together. Websites: https://www.thechristinejewell.com/ https://www.themomentumcompany.com/ Free Resource: Grab the Communication Cheat Sheet for deeper connection → https://www.thechristinejewell.com/communication-cheat-sheet For Christine's Book: Get the Book: Drop the Armor! Order direct for $200+ in bonus resources → https://www.thechristinejewell.com/drop-the-armor Ready for breakthrough? Apply for coaching and learn more about working with Christine here: https://www.thechristinejewell.com/apply Key Takeaways: Unification multiplies everything: When couples stop building separately and unite around a shared vision, momentum multiplies in marriage, business, and family. Money is a heart issue: Transparency, tithing, and structure helped them overcome shame and conflict, leading to financial breakthrough and joy in giving. Roles create freedom: Letting go of control and trusting each other's God-given strengths allowed them to operate in their genius without competition or burnout. Mark Bio: Mark Jewell is an internationally renowned leadership speaker and coach. As the co-founder and Chief Evangelist of The Momentum Company, an agribusiness focused leadership development company, Mark has worked with countless industry leaders around the globe. Over the past 20 years, Mark has partnered with major organizations like The Andersons, Verdesian Life Sciences, Purina, Cargill and more to facilitate training and help build high-performing teams. In addition to his speaking and coaching work, Mark hosts "The Intentional Agribusiness Leader Podcast"" where he shares actionable leadership insights with his growing audience. His conversations with industry leaders like Mike Borel, Colin Steen, Kip Pendelton, Hollie Bunn, Stephanie Liska and more provide listeners with tools and strategies to lead with more intention. Mark's insightful style has resonated with professionals across various industries. Mark is passionate about equipping the next generation of leaders. Through his keynote addresses, programs, and popular podcast, Mark is on a mission to impact ten million leaders. His goal is to spread his message of intentional leadership far and wide, helping both new and experienced professionals maximize their potential and achieve success on their own terms. Mark's expertise and experience have made him one of the most sought-after agribusiness leadership voices today. Christine Bio: Christine Jewell is an author, keynote speaker, and faith based executive coach with over 25 years of experience in the fields of Health + Peak Performance, Entrepreneurship + Human Behaviour . She is also the host of the Breaking Chains Podcast. As the Founder of Warriors Of The Heart, she specializes in guiding highly successful CEO's and Impact driven leaders to break out of the superficial "life" they've built, redefine success and step into a whole new playing field grounded in eternal, life giving principles. Christine bridges the gap between the heart, fueled by faith & logic, fueled by practicality - to help people receive more than they could ever imagine and claim the rich life they were created for. As a mother of 6, ages 9-23, through a blended family, a wife, high level athlete, multiple business owner and entrepreneur since her 20's, she is intimately familiar with the overwhelm and burnout that can come when building a 'dream' life, as well as what's possible on the other side. Through years of trials, burning things down and rebuilding from the ashes of her past, she has ditched the rules of this world, following the calling on her heart to cultivate a life of total alignment - where there is more than enough time for her most meaningful work, extraordinary relationships, a legacy of impact - and plenty of rest! Her vision is to create a community of Kingdom Minded Men and Women who are rising together as powerful co-creators rather than competitors - and are redefining the way we lead at work, in relationships, and every arena of life! Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs' guide for greater work-life balance. https://www.thetandembook.com/ Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem https://marriedentrepreneur.co/5-daily-habits-download Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. https://marriedentrepreneur.co/lets-talk
In this heartfelt and adventurous episode of Thriving in Tandem, Robert and Kay Lee Fukui take you behind the scenes of their dream trip through Italy—from Cinque Terre to Florence, Tuscany to Lake Garda. While the landmarks and landscapes were stunning, it was the lessons learned along the way that left the deepest impression. From learning to ask for help, to the value of simplicity, to taking the time to just be, the trip served as a powerful reminder of what truly matters—both in life and in business. They share stories of free Michelin-starred meals, ancient wine cellars, hiking coastal towns with just a carry-on, and why going slow created the richest experiences. But it wasn't just about sightseeing; it was about practicing margin, enjoying the moment, and bringing that same intentionality into their marriage and entrepreneurial journey. Whether you're dreaming of your next vacation or trying to find a better rhythm between business and family, this episode offers practical and soulful takeaways to help you thrive in tandem. Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs' guide for greater work-life balance. https://www.thetandembook.com/ Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem https://marriedentrepreneur.co/5-daily-habits-download Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. https://marriedentrepreneur.co/lets-talk Key Takeaways: Ask Boldly, Expect Lightly: Robert shares how simply asking opened doors to unforgettable (and surprisingly free) experiences, reminding us that relationships matter in business and life. Pack Light, Live Light: Traveling with only carry-ons for 18 days taught the power of simplicity—and how less really can be more, even in the way we run our homes and businesses. Build in Margin: Whether on vacation or in your calendar, creating space to just be allows for connection, spontaneity, and soul-level rest that recharges you far beyond a to-do list. 👉 P.S. Want their full Italian itinerary? DM them on Instagram @thrivingintandem for the Google Doc with all the details! Chapters 00:00 Dream Vacation in Italy 04:39 Lessons Learned from the Trip 10:20 The Importance of Asking for Help 11:41 Traveling Light: The Carry-On Experience 15:32 Simplicity in Travel and Life 19:47 Enjoying the Moment: Taking Time to Savor 24:30 Intentional Living: Appreciating Your Surroundings 29:51 Relaxation vs. Adventure: Finding Balance 33:15 Going with the Flow: Embracing the Unexpected
In this action packed episode of Thriving in Tandem, we're joined by Raymond and Leslie Funk—ordained ministers, firearms instructors, and founders of Three Cord Marriage. With raw honesty and humility, they share their journey of rebuilding their marriage after infidelity, addiction, and emotional trauma. From living broken, worldly lives to leading a Kingdom-centered marriage ministry, their story is one of redemption, intentionality, and purpose. Raymond and Leslie pull back the curtain on how unhealed wounds and selfish expectations nearly destroyed their relationship—and how God met them at rock bottom. Through pastoral counseling, personal accountability, and a commitment to healing as individuals before fixing the marriage, they discovered how to reconnect, forgive, and thrive again. Now, they equip other high-performing couples with tactical tools—both spiritual and practical—to protect and strengthen their marriage. Listen in as we discuss the real work of rebuilding trust, the power of daily disciplines like prayer and shared vision, and how even firearms training became an unlikely but transformational way to reconnect. Whether your marriage is in crisis or simply needs a refresh, you'll walk away with hope and actionable strategies to protect what matters most. 👉 Learn more at ThreeCordMarriage.com and consider attending one of their unique tactical marriage events. Tactical Marriage Training Day Saturday, September 27 https://www.threecordmarriage.com/tactical-marriage-training-day/ Married for A Purpose Marriage Reboot Openings Available 3rd & 4th Weekend of the Month https://www.threecordmarriage.com/married-for-a-purpose-marriage-reboot/ To join us live on the first Thursday of each month as we interview our guests, click this link https://business.uschristianchamber.com/events and look for the "USCCC Presents Thriving in Tandem". You'll have the opportunity to ask questions from our guests and meet other married entrepreneurs in the journey of balancing business and relationship. Key Takeaways: Healing starts with individual accountability. True restoration begins when both spouses are willing to examine their own brokenness—not just blame each other. Forgiveness is a process, not a moment. Leslie shares how God's grace and a deep understanding of her identity in Christ helped her forgive—even when it happened more than once. Shared vision strengthens unity. Through the Marriage Reboot framework, the Funks learned to align their goals across eight key areas of life and ministry, giving their marriage direction and momentum. Connection requires intentionality. Daily prayer, studying scripture together, and honest check-ins are non-negotiables in maintaining emotional and spiritual intimacy. Marriage is worth defending. Their Tactical Marriage Training Day merges spiritual growth with real-world application—using tools and training to symbolize the commitment to build and protect your relationship with intentionality. Biography: Raymond and Leslie Funk are ordained ministers, entrepreneurs, certified NRA and USCCA (firearm) instructors, and the founders of the non-profit Three Cord Marriage. They are known for creating a safe space for couples with high-stakes callings in Kingdom and Country. Having overcome infidelity, addiction, and emotional trauma in their own marriage, they now equip couples with battle-tested tools, biblical strategy, and tactical insight to break strongholds, reclaim unity, and walk in the purpose God designed for their relationship. Their strategy? Train couples to fight (shot) for unity so they can lead with greater authority from the overflow of a thriving marriage. Their mission: Strengthen Marriage. Defend the Family. Transform the Nations. Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs' guide for greater work-life balance. https://www.thetandembook.com/ Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem https://marriedentrepreneur.co/5-daily-habits-download Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. https://marriedentrepreneur.co/lets-talk
In this eye-opening episode of Thriving in Tandem, Robert and Kay Lee share the single most common money mistake keeping countless married entrepreneurs from building real wealth: debt. Fresh off the facilitation of a financial stewardship workshop, they dig into how everyday debt—often justified or ignored—is quietly stealing your financial future. But here's the good news: the solution is simpler than you think. Spoiler alert: You have to listen til the end. You'll learn how debt is not just a financial burden, but a barrier to freedom, peace of mind, and legacy-building. Whether it's credit cards, car loans, or payday advances, this conversation explores the hidden costs of "buy now, pay later" culture and how breaking that cycle can unlock wealth potential that most couples never realize. They even run the numbers—showing how just $500/month invested wisely could grow into $1 million over time. If you've ever said, "We don't have enough to invest," this episode will challenge that belief—and show you exactly how to create margin, eliminate debt, and finally start building long-term wealth together. Practical tips, real-life examples, biblical wisdom, and a strong dose of encouragement await. Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs' guide for greater work-life balance. https://www.thetandembook.com/ Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem https://marriedentrepreneur.co/5-daily-habits-download Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. https://marriedentrepreneur.co/lets-talk Debt Repayment Calculator https://www.crown.org/all-resources/debt-snowball-calculator/ Investment/Retirement Calculator https://www.crown.org/all-resources/?cat=economy-investing&type=calculator Key Takeaways: Debt is the true wealth killer. The average American carries over $20,000 in consumer debt, costing $1,500/month—money that could be building your future. Delayed gratification wins. Saving and paying cash—especially for big-ticket items like cars—can save you thousands and put you on the fast track to financial freedom. Simple strategy, massive results. The debt snowball method helps you eliminate debt faster than you think, freeing up cash for giving, investing, and enjoying life. Building wealth is more doable than you think. Just $500/month invested at 10% can become $1 million over 30 years—yes, really. Freedom from debt brings peace. No matter the economy, having no payments gives you breathing room, confidence, and options.
Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs' guide for greater work-life balance. https://www.thetandembook.com/ Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem https://marriedentrepreneur.co/5-daily-habits-download Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. https://marriedentrepreneur.co/lets-talk In this deeply vulnerable and inspiring episode of Thriving in Tandem, we're joined by Krystal Parker, President of the U.S. Christian Chamber of Commerce. Krystal shares her raw journey from corporate executive climbing the ranks of a Fortune 200 oil and gas company to discovering the devastating cost of success when it came at the expense of her marriage and family. What looked like professional triumph on the outside masked a crumbling home life and personal disconnection from what mattered most. As Krystal takes us back to the peak of her corporate climb—fueled by power, ambition, and external validation—she candidly reveals the blind spots that hurt her marriage ending and relationship with her young daughter. But in the aftermath of that breaking point, Krystal discovered what true leadership and intentional living looked like. From restructuring her work-life rhythms to raising up her team, and ultimately placing God and family at the center, her story offers hope and a powerful reminder that redemption is possible. Whether you're in a season of hustle or navigating growing pains in business and marriage, Krystal's testimony is a call to evaluate where your time and heart are going. She shares practical boundaries she and her husband now implement, how she keeps her daughter a priority, and the critical difference between using work as worship instead of worshiping work. This is a must-listen for married entrepreneurs who don't want to succeed in business only to lose what truly matters most. Key Takeaways: Success without alignment can destroy what matters most. Krystal's corporate rise came with sacrifices she didn't fully see until her marriage and family unraveled. You are irreplaceable at work but you not at home. Delegating empowered Krystal's team and freed her to re-engage with her daughter and home life. Boundaries and intention create lasting connection. Krystal and her husband carve out intentional moments—even in busy seasons—to stay united and keep God at the center of their marriage. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Thriving in Tandem Podcast 02:01 Crystal Parker's Journey in the Oil and Gas Industry 10:11 Challenges of Balancing Career and Family Life 12:00 The Turning Point: Becoming a Solo Parent 18:07 Finding Balance in a New Marriage and Career 23:53 Lessons Learned and Final Thoughts
In this deeply personal episode, Robert and Kay Lee invite you into their real-time decision-making process as they consider a cross-country move from California to North Carolina. Fresh off a month-long stay in Lake Norman, they share candid reflections on the conversations, emotions, and logistical considerations that come with such a significant transition. From the practical realities of moving and renting to the emotional weight of leaving behind familiarity and friendships, this episode reveals how they approach big decisions as a married couple and entrepreneurial team. Whether you're facing a business pivot, relocation, or other major life decision, you'll gain valuable insights on how to navigate change without unnecessary conflict. Robert and Kay Lee walk through the importance of "baby steps" in decision-making, how to test the waters before diving in, and how differing emotional responses between spouses can actually work together to bring clarity and peace. They also reflect on the value of community, intentionality, and leaning into God's guidance when the future feels uncertain. This episode is not just about moving houses—it's about building a life with intention, staying united through change, and creating space for wise, thoughtful decisions that serve both your marriage and business. Tune in for a behind-the-scenes look at how real-life married entrepreneurs process transition without growing apart. Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs' guide for greater work-life balance. https://www.thetandembook.com/ Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem https://marriedentrepreneur.co/5-daily-habits-download Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. https://marriedentrepreneur.co/lets-talk Key Takeaways: Big transitions—whether in life or business—are best navigated in small, intentional steps. Differing emotional responses between spouses are normal and can be leveraged for better communication and mutual understanding. Creating a plan B and "testing the waters" reduces anxiety and sets you up for more confident decision-making. Don't rush into big changes—whether it's a move, business shift, or investment—without first confirming peace and unity as a couple. Community, intentional planning, and faith-driven discernment are key to thriving in tandem through seasons of change. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background on the Move 02:52 Exploring Lake Norman and Decision-Making Process 06:09 Testing the Waters: A Month in Lake Norman 08:54 Building Relationships and Community Connections 12:13 Emotional Aspects of Major Life Transitions 15:03 Decision-Making Styles in Relationships 17:56 Taking Baby Steps in Major Changes 20:48 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
In this episode, we welcome Dr. Justin and Dr. Courtney Mosley, a powerhouse chiropractic couple and owners of Music City Health Center, one of the largest natural health clinics in Middle Tennessee. They share their journey of building a business and marriage together, from their serendipitous meeting to navigating the challenges of working side by side. The Mosleys reveal how they learned to honor each other's strengths, set clear business boundaries, and scale their practice to achieve both professional success and personal balance. Dr. Justin, known as the Mindset Doctor, also takes us through his near-death experience and how it reshaped his purpose, leading him to impact lives beyond the clinic through speaking, coaching, and masterminds. Meanwhile, Dr. Courtney discusses the importance of prioritizing health, setting boundaries, and creating a sustainable business model that allows them to serve their community without sacrificing their well-being. They provide invaluable insights for married entrepreneurs on building a thriving business without burnout, leading by example, and making faith-driven decisions. Podcast: The Mindset Doctor https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-mindset-doctor-podcast/id1676852153 Follow Dr. Justin on Instagram at @drjustinmosley and Dr. Courtney at @doccourtney Watch Dr. Justin's TED Talk on overcoming fear of public speaking: https://youtu.be/aImrjNPrh30?feature=shared Need chiropractic care in Nashville? Visit https://www.musiccityhealthcenter.com/ Key Takeaways: The power of aligning your business and marriage vision before starting a venture together. How learning from other entrepreneurial couples helped them navigate working as spouses. The importance of setting business boundaries to prevent burnout and maintain work-life balance. How Dr. Justin's near-death experience led to a mission shift and greater impact. The significance of honoring each other's strengths and hiring strategically to scale a business. Why faith and intuition should play a role in major business and life decisions. Bio Dr. Justin and Dr. Courtney Moseley are the owners of Music City Health Center, one of the largest natural health clinics in Middle Tennessee. Dr. Justin Moseley, known as The Mindset Doctor, is a 2-time TEDx speaker, international keynote speaker, and host of The Mindset Doctor Podcast. After surviving a near-death accident in 2018, he shifted his mission from transforming lives in his clinic to inspiring audiences worldwide. Dr. Justin empowers others to unlock their full potential, create next-level success, and leave a lasting legacy. Dr. Courtney is on a mission to empower women to reclaim their energy, balance their hormones, and rediscover the joy of living. Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs' guide for greater work-life balance. https://www.thetandembook.com/ Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem https://marriedentrepreneur.co/5-daily-habits-download Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. https://marriedentrepreneur.co/lets-talk
In this episode of Thriving in Tandem, Robert and Kay Lee Fukui break down five essential strategies to grow your business without sacrificing your marriage. From setting clear boundaries between work and home to increasing profit margins, they discuss how to work smarter, not harder, so you can scale your business while staying connected to your spouse. They also share personal insights from their time at Lake Norman, reflecting on how intentional rest fuels creativity and productivity. The couple emphasizes the importance of managing work hours, prioritizing high-impact tasks, and delegating effectively to reclaim time for what matters most. They explain how improving profit margins allows you to reduce stress and avoid the endless hustle, making room for both business growth and a thriving relationship. Finally, they highlight the often-overlooked key to success: listening to your spouse's perspective, which can provide valuable insights and prevent costly blind spots in your business. Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs' guide for greater work-life balance. https://www.thetandembook.com/ Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem https://marriedentrepreneur.co/5-daily-habits-download Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. https://marriedentrepreneur.co/lets-talk Key Takeaways: ✅ Set Clear Boundaries – Establish firm work-life boundaries to protect quality time with your spouse and family. ✅ Manage Your Work Hours – More hours don't always mean more productivity; focus on efficiency over effort. ✅ Prioritize High-Value Tasks – Spend time on revenue-generating activities and delegate or automate busywork. ✅ Increase Profit Margins – Raise prices strategically and cut inefficiencies to work less while earning more. ✅ Listen to Your Spouse – Their outside perspective can reveal blind spots and help you make better business decisions.
In this episode, we welcome Kent and Gina Murawski, a dynamic couple with a rich history in both ministry and business. Having led Journey Church in Cambridge, MA, for over a decade, Kent now coaches high-achieving leaders while Gina works as a holistic nutritionist. Together, they share their journey of balancing leadership, family, and personal well-being—offering insights on overcoming burnout, managing expectations, and living intentionally. Kent and Gina open up about the pressures they faced in ministry, the weight of unspoken expectations, and the personal toll of trying to meet everyone's needs. From Kent's early burnout experience to Gina's struggle with people-pleasing, they reveal the challenges they encountered and the strategies they now use to help others avoid the same pitfalls. Through their Rhythms of Rest framework, they provide practical steps to help entrepreneurs and leaders prevent burnout and create a sustainable life plan. If you're a married entrepreneur striving to succeed in business without sacrificing your family or well-being, this episode is packed with wisdom on setting boundaries, embracing self-awareness, and making space for true rest. Learn how to align your business, marriage, and personal life for long-term success. Resources Mentioned: Rest Assured by Kent Murawski https://kentmurawski.com/rest-assured The Purpose & Clarity Guide (Available at KentMurawski.com) Kent's upcoming book The Life Plan (Sign up for updates at KentMurawski.com/catalyst) Key Takeaways: The Weight of Expectations Can Lead to Burnout – Whether from others or self-imposed, unrealistic expectations can create unhealthy stress and exhaustion. Learning to set boundaries and say "no" is crucial. Rest and Intentional Living Are Non-Negotiables – The Rhythms of Rest framework (relational, emotional, spiritual, and tangible rhythms) helps leaders build a sustainable life plan that prioritizes well-being. Marriage Requires Communication and Growth – Differences in personalities and leadership styles can cause tension, but they can also be strengths. Learning to communicate openly and embrace each other's strengths leads to a healthier partnership. Prioritizing Rest is a Radical Act of Faith – Taking a 24-hour Sabbath from work and technology can transform your mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being, leading to greater productivity and peace. Self-Awareness is Key to Long-Term Success – Understanding personal limits, values, and strengths allows leaders to build a business and marriage that thrive together rather than compete. Share this episode with another married entrepreneur who needs to hear this message! Stay tuned for more strategies to thrive in both business and marriage. Biography Kent and Gina Murawski are living proof that the best partnerships start with a head-over-heels moment. Nearly 25 years ago, Gina took one look at Kent and decided he was the one (at least according to Kent's version of the story). Together, they've built a family and a legacy of service, having planted and led Journey Church in Cambridge, Massachusetts from 2009 to 2023. While Kent coaches high-achieving leaders and writes books in his signature uniform of plain tees and dark jeans, Gina transforms lives as a certified holistic nutritionist and supplements specialist. Her journey with celiac disease sparked a passion for helping others navigate life without gluten, all while sporting her distinctive boho style and newest coffee mug acquisition (yes, the collection is still growing). Parents to three kids aged 21, 18, and 12, they're "experts" at navigating both family dynamics and professional transitions. Their household remains stubbornly pet-free—not because they don't love animals, but because Kent (who works from home) knows exactly who would end up being the full-time dog walker. As he puts it, "you can have all the pets you want when you have your own house!" These days, you'll find them walking side by side in life and business, sharing their complementary wisdom about sustainable success, holistic wellness, and authentic leadership—always with a cup of coffee in hand. Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs' guide for greater work-life balance. https://www.thetandembook.com/ Need to create more time to dedicate to your marriage? Download this free guide. https://build.marriedentrepreneur.co/balance-business-marriage-better Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. https://marriedentrepreneur.co/lets-talk
Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs' guide for greater work-life balance. https://www.thetandembook.com/ Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem https://marriedentrepreneur.co/5-daily-habits-download Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. https://marriedentrepreneur.co/lets-talk Source: Medical News Today https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/can-overwork-kill-you#Preventing-overwork In this episode, Robert and Kay Lee Fukui dive into the seven major health risks associated with the relentless hustle and grind mentality that many entrepreneurs embrace. While working hard is often celebrated, they uncover how excessive stress, burnout, and overworking can silently deteriorate your health, relationships, and overall well-being. They discuss research-backed insights on how long hours correlate with increased risks of stroke, heart disease, depression, and even cancer. The conversation highlights the warning signs of stress-related health issues, how they often go unnoticed until it's too late, and why managing stress is critical for longevity in both business and marriage. They also break down the importance of daily habits that promote better health—such as sleep, nutrition, and intentional rest—and how the A.D.E. method (Automate, Delegate, Eliminate) can help entrepreneurs work smarter, not harder. This episode is a must-listen for married entrepreneurs who feel the pressure of balancing business success with personal well-being. Robert and Kay Lee provide practical strategies to reclaim time, prioritize health, and prevent burnout, ensuring you can thrive in both your business and your marriage for years to come. Key Takeaways: ✅ Hustle culture has serious health risks – Stress, burnout, and overwork contribute to heart disease, high blood pressure, diabetes, and even early death. ✅ Success isn't tied to working more hours – Research shows no direct correlation between hours worked and financial success, but there is a strong link between overworking and declining health. ✅ Burnout is a medical condition – The World Health Organization classifies burnout as a workplace phenomenon with real physical and mental consequences. ✅ Women entrepreneurs face added stress – Juggling business, home responsibilities, and family increases burnout risks for women more than men. ✅ Better daily habits lead to better health – Small adjustments like morning routines, healthy eating, and better sleep can drastically improve well-being. ✅ Work smarter, not harder – The ADE Method (Automate, Delegate, Eliminate) helps entrepreneurs reduce workload without sacrificing success. 🎧 Tune in now and share with a fellow entrepreneur who needs to hear this!
Join Robert and Kay Lee Fukui as they sit down with Evan and Susan Money for a lively and insightful conversation about balancing marriage and entrepreneurship. The couples dive into the unique challenges of running a business together while keeping their relationship strong, with lots of laughs, personal stories, and practical tips along the way. Evan and Susan open up about their journey of growth—both as partners in marriage and business—and how they've made intentionality, mentorship, and communication the foundation of their success. They share how simple things, like playing pickleball together, can strengthen a relationship and bring much-needed fun into a busy life. You'll hear them talk about the power of understanding each other's love languages, managing different energy levels and processing styles, and taking responsibility for your own actions in both work and marriage. They also dig into the importance of setting boundaries and clear expectations to avoid those all-too-common conflicts that can arise when life and business overlap. Whether you're building a business with your spouse or just looking to create a more connected marriage, this episode is packed with real talk, relatable stories, and actionable advice you can use right away. Bio: Evan & Susan Money have been married for over 30 years. But more importantly they've had over 30 weddings within that span…to each other. They're entrepreneurs, bestselling authors and podcasters where they are focused on restoring the flow of love in your marriage. Evan and Susan lead workshops, group sessions and even pickleball marriage retreats for growth-minded couples that want to go from GOOD TO GREAT in their marriages….. https://evanmoney.com/our-story/ https://evanlovessusan.com/ Download the FREE "The Vow Renewal Handbook" https://www.marriageofgreatness.com/opt-in-6fd42fb3-cf71-4dae-8bf2-e53fc4b0b09c Linkedin https://www.linkedin.com/in/evan-money-25508519/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/evan.money Books The One Day Diet: How to live a cancer prevention life Take Action Now: How to live your dreams in less than 3 weeks #1 Money Talks, Negativity Walks #1 Happily Ever After: Discover reedom & true love in your marriage https://evanmoney.com/moviesbooks/ Takeaways: Marriage and business often come with unexpected challenges. Intentionality is key to maintaining a strong relationship. Engaging in playful activities can enhance communication. Mentorship plays a crucial role in personal and professional growth. Understanding love languages can improve relationship dynamics. Continuous improvement is essential for long-term success. Rejecting busyness allows for deeper connections. Couch dates can be a simple yet effective way to connect. Couples should focus on one activity at a time to avoid overwhelm. Creating a supportive environment fosters growth in both marriage and business. When you understand your partner's love language, it simplifies communication. Creating a lifestyle of love requires intentionality and daily effort. Understanding processing styles can prevent misunderstandings in communication. Managing energy levels is crucial for harmony in a relationship. Wearing different 'hats' helps clarify roles in marriage and business. Clear communication is essential to avoid assumptions and expectations. Taking responsibility is key to personal growth and relationship success. It's important to embrace each other's differences rather than trying to change one another. Setting boundaries helps maintain balance between work and personal life. Tools and resources can help couples navigate their journey together. Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs' guide for greater work-life balance. https://www.thetandembook.com/ Need to create more time to dedicate to your marriage? Download this free guide. https://marriedentrepreneur.co/boundaries Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. https://marriedentrepreneur.co/lets-talk
Many entrepreneurs and couples dream big but struggle to turn their visions into reality. In this episode, Robert and Kay Lee Fukui share their personal journey of setting and achieving long-term goals—both in business and life. Broadcasting from their temporary studio in beautiful Lake Norman, North Carolina, they reflect on the small, intentional steps they took to build the life they envisioned. They discuss why only 8% of people actually achieve their goals, the power of revisiting your vision regularly, and why progress matters more than perfection. Through their experiences—from climbing the corporate ladder to building a thriving business together—they reveal the key mindset shifts and practical actions that helped them make their dreams attainable. Whether it's growing your business, reaching financial freedom, or designing a lifestyle that truly aligns with your priorities, they break down how to take small, strategic steps toward your big goals. Plus, they offer insights on overcoming the fear of making the "perfect" decision and how to avoid common pitfalls that keep people stuck in the planning phase. If you're ready to move from "maybe someday" to making real progress toward your vision, this episode is for you. Tune in as Robert and Kay Lee encourage you to dream boldly, take action, and create the life and business you truly desire—one step at a time. Key Takeaways: ✅ Speak or Write Your Vision – Articulating your goals helps bring them to life. Keep them visible and revisit them often. ✅ Progress Over Perfection – Focus on taking consistent small steps rather than waiting for the perfect moment. ✅ Physically Immerse Yourself in Your Vision – Visit places or connect with people aligned with your dreams to make them feel more real. ✅ Revisit and Adjust Your Goals Regularly – Reviewing your vision often helps you stay on track and make necessary adjustments. ✅ Take Action, Even If It's Small – Success doesn't happen overnight; it's the result of steady, incremental progress. 👉 Share this episode with a fellow married entrepreneur who needs encouragement! And let us know your vision—email us at info@PowerCouplesByDesign.com. Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs' guide for greater work-life balance. https://www.thetandembook.com/ Are you looking for help to better your health, productivity, and marriage? Download this free guide. https://marriedentrepreneur.co/5-daily-habits-download Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. https://marriedentrepreneur.co/lets-talk