Tissues of the Day

Featuring Sacha Rockliffe (Masters of Counseling & Psychology Student)! Sacha shares an excellent introduction to attachment theory, the main attachment styles, and some of the ups and downs of intimacy while healing insecurities. She can be followed on instagram @sacha.rockliffe where she often shares wellness content! 0:00 - intro / when did attachment theory enter your life? 6:20 - attachment styles in childhood 11:48 - attachment styles in adult relationships 16:35 - activating and deactivating strategies 19:20 - the anxious-avoidant trap 36:25 - book recommendations 38:01 - game: two truths and a lie! 43:30 - takeaways / outro support queer content :D https://patreon.com/bitbutton​ books Attached (https://amz.run/5CkO) Addiction Attachment Trauma and Recovery (Google Books) subscribe google http://bit.ly/totdgg​ itunes http://bit.ly/tissuesotd​ spotify http://spoti.fi/3uSfcmu​ follow bit button https://instagram.com/bitbutton​ https://twitter.com/bitbutton​ hosted by David Borja https://instagram.com/davidborja​ Robert MacKie https://instagram.com/robertfmackie

Robert and David discuss avoidance! How can thoughts, words, and behaviors be avoidant? What role does externalizing play in avoidance? How can we be vulnerable? 0:00 intro 11:25 avoidant words, behaviors, thoughts 24:09 externalizing 39:47 vulnerability 1:09:20 surprise karaoke 1:15:05 mystery sound 1:19:01 hey guys! welcome to my channel! 1:26:02 outro books Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents https://amz.run/5CkP Attached https://amz.run/5CkO Burnout https://amz.run/5CkN Irritating the Ones You Love https://amz.run/5CkM support queer content :D https://patreon.com/bitbutton​ subscribe google http://bit.ly/totdgg​ itunes http://bit.ly/tissuesotd​ spotify http://spoti.fi/3uSfcmu​ follow bit button https://instagram.com/bitbutton​ https://twitter.com/bitbutton​ hosted by Robert Mackie https://instagram.com/robertfmackie David Borja https://instagram.com/davidborja​

Robert and David discuss avoidance! How can thoughts, words, and behaviors be avoidant? What role does externalizing play in avoidance? How can we be vulnerable? 0:00 intro 11:25 avoidant words, behaviors, thoughts 24:09 externalizing 39:47 vulnerability 1:09:20 surprise karaoke 1:15:05 mystery sound 1:19:01 hey guys! welcome to my channel! 1:26:02 outro books Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents https://amz.run/5CkP Attached https://amz.run/5CkO Burnout https://amz.run/5CkN Irritating the Ones You Love https://amz.run/5CkM support queer content :D https://patreon.com/bitbutton​ subscribe google http://bit.ly/totdgg​ itunes http://bit.ly/tissuesotd​ spotify http://spoti.fi/3uSfcmu​ follow bit button https://instagram.com/bitbutton​ https://twitter.com/bitbutton​ hosted by Robert Mackie https://instagram.com/robertfmackie David Borja https://instagram.com/davidborja​

Feat. Cassidy Anhorn (@cassidya on ig)! We discuss all the beautiful stresses of the holidays and ponder our favorite Christmas films (what's up Carol? oh hi Jim Carrey as The Grinch? how r u The Last Holiday? who's Frozen? I don't know her). We talk favourite and least favourite holiday memories, and finally answer, once and for all, the real reason holidays are stressful. Spoiler: it's capitalism. support queer content :D https://patreon.com/bitbutton​ subscribe google http://bit.ly/totdgg​ itunes http://bit.ly/tissuesotd​ spotify http://spoti.fi/3uSfcmu​ follow bit button https://instagram.com/bitbutton​ https://twitter.com/bitbutton​ hosted by Robert Mackie https://instagram.com/robertfmackie David Borja https://instagram.com/davidborja​

Robert and David discuss Dave Chapelle's special "The Closer". They have many deep questions related to empathy and the crisis of "not listening" today. Read Dahlia Belle's response to the special. We then reflect on these questions and more, designed to try to grow our self knowledge and ability to empathize with others. Starting at 35:15. Is it possible to empathize with someone who is criticizing you? How do you build curiosity about people who are different from you? Do you have negative associations from earlier in your life, are those fears reasonable? Who helped you with your successes in life? Who do you surround yourself with, do you always agree? Do you actively look for information to challenge your worldviewer? Do you understand your own values? Are you trying to be mature, or are you trying to win? Do you try to cultivate love for the human race? Why or why not? support queer content :) https://patreon.com/bitbutton​ subscrob to the pod google http://bit.ly/totdgg​ itunes http://bit.ly/tissuesotd​ spotify http://spoti.fi/3uSfcmu​ follow bit button plz https://instagram.com/bitbutton​ https://twitter.com/bitbutton​ Tissues of the Day is hosted by Robert Mackie https://instagram.com/robertfmackie David Borja https://instagram.com/davidborja​

Robert and David return with silly news! An Alabama sheriff leaves a positive review of a jail he used to run, while imprisoned there himself. Elephants play an adorable game of pumpkin squashing. A police officer mistakes a large fish for a shark. Sexy Bernie Sanders outfits are in Halloween stores. North Korea's "Rocket Man" steals the show at a normal and democratic public display of force. support queer content :) https://patreon.com/bitbutton​ subscrob to the pod google http://bit.ly/totdgg​ itunes http://bit.ly/tissuesotd​ spotify http://spoti.fi/3uSfcmu​ follow bit button plz https://instagram.com/bitbutton​ https://twitter.com/bitbutton​ Tissues of the Day is hosted by Robert Mackie https://instagram.com/robertfmackie David Borja https://instagram.com/davidborja​

Robert and David talk about inner child work, drawing on The Journey From Abandonment to Healing by Susan Anderson. How do we make peace with our past, and our parents? How does avoidance in a family system affect ones ability to form secure attachments? How do we meet our needs? It's vulnerable, it's deep, and we hope it's helpful! support queer content :) https://patreon.com/bitbutton​ subscroob to the pod google http://bit.ly/totdgg​ itunes http://bit.ly/tissuesotd​ spotify http://spoti.fi/3uSfcmu​ follow bit button plz https://instagram.com/bitbutton​ https://twitter.com/bitbutton​ Tissues of the Day is hosted by Robert Mackie https://instagram.com/robertfmackie David Borja https://instagram.com/davidborja​

Robert and David talk ghosting "etiquette", hundreds of thousands of bees, a couple's poorly timed pregnancy announcement, a joyful rubber duck, airlifted cows, and a washington man on a rogue bus driving spree. Then, an intimate report of a photographer with a... spiderlike number of appendages; and an interview with one of the founders of the internet. support queer content :) https://patreon.com/bitbutton​ subscroob to the pod google http://bit.ly/totdgg​ itunes http://bit.ly/tissuesotd​ spotify http://spoti.fi/3uSfcmu​ follow bit button plz https://instagram.com/bitbutton​ https://twitter.com/bitbutton​ Tissues of the Day is hosted by Robert Mackie https://instagram.com/robertfmackie David Borja https://instagram.com/davidborja​

Duo show with Robert and David! Casual sex, one night stands, and how to get more out of them. Or how to get more into them! What are your desires, motivations, rituals, safety rules? We also talk jealousy, and the emotional needs that creep their way into sex. We then close the show playing "Tinder surprise"! support queer content :) https://patreon.com/bitbutton​ subscroob to the pod google http://bit.ly/totdgg​ itunes http://bit.ly/tissuesotd​ spotify http://spoti.fi/3uSfcmu​ follow bit button plz https://instagram.com/bitbutton​ https://twitter.com/bitbutton​ Tissues of the Day is hosted by Robert Mackie https://instagram.com/robertfmackie David Borja https://instagram.com/davidborja​

With Jamie Smith (Certified Law of Attraction Facilitator)! Jamie brings wisdom, clarity, and charm to this episode where we answer: Can we have complete positivity in life? Where can too much positivity get us into trouble? Why does positivity take so much work? We close playing one of our favorite games: Hey Guys, Welcome to My/Our/Your Channel and David's internet shits the bed. support queer content :) https://patreon.com/bitbutton​ subscroob to the pod google http://bit.ly/totdgg​ itunes http://bit.ly/tissuesotd​ spotify http://spoti.fi/3uSfcmu​ follow bit button plz https://instagram.com/bitbutton​ https://twitter.com/bitbutton​ Tissues of the Day is hosted by Robert Mackie https://instagram.com/robertfmackie David Borja https://instagram.com/davidborja​

With Rachel Kent (@raych.kent on instagram)! Your yes's, your no's and how this knowledge helps you flourish. How do you know when a boundary is crossed? How do you set them and still grow? We then offer some enouragement for people who struggle to maintain boundaries and close with a chaotic sound effects game >:) Attached by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller Irritating the Ones You Love by Jeff Auerbach support queer content :) https://patreon.com/bitbutton​ google http://bit.ly/totdgg​ itunes http://bit.ly/tissuesotd​ spotify http://spoti.fi/3uSfcmu​ Follow Bit Button! https://instagram.com/bitbutton​ https://twitter.com/bitbutton​ Tissues of the Day is hosted by Robert Mackie https://instagram.com/robertfmackie David Borja https://instagram.com/davidborja​

With Ryan Steele (@ryanandamyshow on instagram and tiktok)! Bulking up, slimming down. Getting toned, getting trim. We talk relationships to fitness and food, and the pleasures and pain that all entails. Then we close playing two truths and lies about seducing teachers, winning reality TV shows, car crashes, and more! support queer content :) https://patreon.com/bitbutton​ youtube http://bit.ly/totdYT google http://bit.ly/totdgg​ itunes http://bit.ly/tissuesotd​ spotify http://spoti.fi/3uSfcmu​ Follow Bit Button! https://instagram.com/bitbutton​ https://twitter.com/bitbutton​ Tissues of the Day is hosted by Robert Mackie https://instagram.com/robertfmackie David Borja https://instagram.com/davidborja​

Job applications, hot distanced summer, photosensitivity, skinny dipping in Punta Gorda, perenium factoids, dolphins addicted to urchins, bonobo estrus s*x ratios, the boring intersection in Jackson Hole that became an internet sensation, cockatoos learning to dumpster dive, bird names, and then we close with karaoke! support queer content :) https://patreon.com/bitbutton​ Listen to the pod on: youtube http://bit.ly/totdYT google http://bit.ly/totdgg​ itunes http://bit.ly/tissuesotd​ spotify http://spoti.fi/3uSfcmu​ Follow Bit Button! https://instagram.com/bitbutton​ https://twitter.com/bitbutton​ Tissues of the Day is hosted by Robert Mackie https://instagram.com/robertfmackie David Borja https://instagram.com/davidborja​

Today we look at silly news: including a traffic stop gone wrong, pickle recipes, Wiscon's cheese obsession, the CDC being way too graphic, and pigeons. Then we play surprise karaoke and do an open scene about 5th graders meeting a creepy janitor. support queer content :) https://patreon.com/bitbutton​ Listen to the pod on: youtube http://bit.ly/totdYT google http://bit.ly/totdgg​ itunes http://bit.ly/tissuesotd​ spotify http://spoti.fi/3uSfcmu​ Follow Bit Button! https://instagram.com/bitbutton​ https://twitter.com/bitbutton​ Tissues of the Day is hosted by Robert Mackie https://instagram.com/robertfmackie David Borja https://instagram.com/davidborja​

Sometimes the best start in life is a new one. How has it impacted us and what did we learn along the way? What was a big lesson you learned through your new beginning? What was unfounded or unexpected? What advice would you give to someone else starting something new? support queer content :D https://patreon.com/bitbutton​ Listen to the pod on: youtube http://bit.ly/totdYT google http://bit.ly/totdgg​ itunes http://bit.ly/tissuesotd​ spotify http://spoti.fi/3uSfcmu​ Follow Bit Button! https://instagram.com/bitbutton​ https://twitter.com/bitbutton​ Tissues of the Day is hosted by Robert Mackie https://instagram.com/robertfmackie David Borja https://instagram.com/davidborja​

Featuring MBA (@mba.hair)! Use it up, wear it out, make a change, do without - fashion! What are your personal style goals? Who are your style inspirations, or favorite designers? Plus we play a fashion quiz because David had no idea what else to contribute to the conversation :D support queer content :) https://patreon.com/bitbutton​ Listen to the pod on: youtube http://bit.ly/totdYT google http://bit.ly/totdgg​ itunes http://bit.ly/tissuesotd​ spotify http://spoti.fi/3uSfcmu​ Follow Bit Button! https://instagram.com/bitbutton​ https://twitter.com/bitbutton​ Tissues of the Day is hosted by Robert Mackie https://instagram.com/robertfmackie David Borja https://instagram.com/davidborja​

Featuring Amy Wilding (@theamywildingshow on ig)! Binaries vs. Spectrums. The impact on our culture, behaviours and mindsets when we see things as A and B or black and white with no middle ground. What are the pros of binary thinking? What are the cons? How do we look for the grey areas? support queer content :D https://patreon.com/bitbutton​ Listen to the pod on: youtube http://bit.ly/totdYT google http://bit.ly/totdgg​ itunes http://bit.ly/tissuesotd​ spotify http://spoti.fi/3uSfcmu​ Follow Bit Button! https://instagram.com/bitbutton​ https://twitter.com/bitbutton​ Tissues of the Day is hosted by Robert Mackie https://instagram.com/robertfmackie David Borja https://instagram.com/davidborja​

Featuring gaydadbod AKA Clark Strom! How to navigate "giving campers the best week of their lives" while struggling with gay urges. We ask about homoeroticism at camp, the ethics of preaching to youth, and whether we would send our own kids in the future! Follow Clark on tiktok! https://www.tiktok.com/@johnqueertractorco? support queer content :) https://patreon.com/bitbutton​ Listen to the pod on: youtube http://bit.ly/totdYT google http://bit.ly/totdgg​ itunes http://bit.ly/tissuesotd​ spotify http://spoti.fi/3uSfcmu​ Follow Bit Button! https://instagram.com/bitbutton​ https://twitter.com/bitbutton​ Tissues of the Day is hosted by Robert Mackie https://instagram.com/robertfmackie David Borja https://instagram.com/davidborja​

Let's talk HIGH CONCEPT ROMANCE! We discuss the relationships in Her (2013 Spike Jonze film), Star Trek (The Next Generation), and The One (2021 Netflix series). Featuring Deb Brisson (@debbrission on insta)! support queer content :) https://patreon.com/bitbutton​ Listen to the pod on: youtube http://bit.ly/totdYT google http://bit.ly/totdgg​ itunes http://bit.ly/tissuesotd​ spotify http://spoti.fi/3uSfcmu​ Follow Bit Button! https://instagram.com/bitbutton​ https://twitter.com/bitbutton​ Tissues of the Day is hosted by Robert Mackie https://instagram.com/robertfmackie David Borja https://instagram.com/davidborja​

Featuring Mau Mercado (@maumercado on insta)! We talk the impact of internet connectivity on our relationships and the internet of things. Questions include: What are rules of engagement online? How has the increase in connectivity impacted our relationships? What's the most toxic part of digital life? support queer content :) https://patreon.com/bitbutton​ Listen to the pod on: youtube http://bit.ly/totdYT google http://bit.ly/totdgg​ itunes http://bit.ly/tissuesotd​ spotify http://spoti.fi/3uSfcmu​ Follow Bit Button! https://instagram.com/bitbutton​ https://twitter.com/bitbutton​ Tissues of the Day is hosted by Robert Mackie https://instagram.com/robertfmackie David Borja https://instagram.com/davidborja​