To Run Or Not To Run with Jesus Christ

Do you know WHY God made you the way He did? And what if the thing you’re best at is already being used for the wrong reason?What if you’ve been working hard, climbing higher… only to realize you’ve been climbing the wrong ladder?My sister, knowing what you’re good at isn’t the same as knowing WHY God gave it to you.In this Bible study and Christian message for women, Patricia Calixte (Patty Pat) continues Daniella’s real-life testimony and looks at the life of Samson to uncover what can happen when you know what you carry… but don’t fully understand what God gave it FOR.Stay until the end for a declaration and prayer as we bring our identity, gifts, direction and purpose back under the leadership of Jesus Christ.CHAPTERS00:00 Intro09:17 Samson22:45 Truth #126:27 Truth #2 33:19 Truth #336:07 Message for You41:40 Declaration43:48 Prayer47:58 ClosingWelcome to To Run or Not To Run with Jesus Christ, where real life meets the Word of God.Website: PattyPatsJourney.comThis is the next chapter of Daniella’s testimony. If you missed Part 1, catch up on the message about recognizing who is really leading your life, then come back here as we go deeper into identity, gifts and God’s purpose.And my sister… we’re not finished yet.Next week, we’re going one step further:What if you KNOW who you are… and you’re STILL headed in the wrong direction?If this message blesses you, share it with a sister who has been asking:“God, what did You create me for?”Links and resources mentioned in this message:3:05 — Are You Letting the Wrong People Lead Your Life? | DANIELLA’S STORY — CHAPTER 1https://youtu.be/irtws0krrmU10:18 — When Pride Blocks Your Blessing: Samson’s Fatal Mistake | PART 1https://youtu.be/IDmxrHJqpVg14:27 — How to Spot Silent Jealousy and Guard Your Peace | You’re Too Blessed and It’s Bugging Them — Joseph Part 1https://youtu.be/PIueOWPPL48Joseph Part 2 — How God Turns Jealousy Into Promotion | What to Do When You’ve Been Betrayedhttps://youtu.be/HZUb_QW53Vo41:08 — What Is Your Purpose? | When More Isn’t Enoughhttps://youtu.be/9O2W1XKC8iMBook mentioned:The Top Five Regrets of the Dying by Bronnie WareNew message every Thursday at 11 a.m. ET, God willing.#GodsPurposeForYourLife #GodsPlanForYourLife #IdentityInChrist #ChristianPurpose #FeelingStuck #PatriciaCalixtePodcast #ToRunOrNotToRunWithJesusChrist

What if someone else has more influence over your life than you realize? And what if that voice belongs to someone you love, trust, respect,or simply don’t want to disappoint?In this honest Bible study and Christian message for women, Patricia Calixte (Patty Pat) shares the first chapter of Daniella’s real-life testimony, a woman who believed she was completely in control of her life… until one heated moment exposed something she hadn’t seen coming.Through Daniella’s story and the biblical account of Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden, we’ll uncover how easily the wrong voice can gain influence, and why recognizing it matters more than you may think.In this message, you’ll discover 3 important truths that can help you recognize when another voice has gained too much influence in your life, and keep Jesus Christ at the center of where you’re headed.Chapters00:00:00 Intro00:07:04 Chapter 1 — Daniella’s Story00:21:41 Back to the Beginning of the Problem00:27:10 Truth #100:32:07 Truth #200:39:22 Truth #300:47:42 Message for You00:52:20 Declaration00:54:37 Prayer00:59:46 ClosingStay until the end for a declaration and prayer asking God to sharpen your discernment and help you recognize His voice above all others.Welcome to To Run or Not To Run with Jesus Christ, where real life meets the Word of God.Website: PattyPatsJourney.comAnd my sister… Daniella’s testimony is far from over. Part 2 goes even deeper.If this message blesses you, share it with a sister who may need to ask herself:Who is really leading me?New message every Thursday at 11 a.m. ET.#AreYouLettingTheWrongPeopleLeadYourLife #WhoIsLeadingYourLife #WhoIsInfluencingYourLife #BiblicalDiscernment #ChristianAdviceForWomen #PatriciaCalixte #ToRunOrNotToRunWithJesusChrist

What does a mature godly man actually look for in a wife? And while you’re wondering where Mr. Right is, could God be preparing you for something deeper than simply being chosen by a man?In this honest Bible study and Christian dating message for women, Patricia Calixte (Patty Pat) shares the final chapter of Stephanie’s testimony—this time from her husband Nathan’s perspective. After decades apart, what made Nathan reach out to Stephanie? What drew him to her? And what eventually made him believe she could be the woman he wanted to marry?Through Stephanie and Nathan’s real-life story and the biblical story of Ruth and Boaz, this message explores 5 important qualities a mature godly man may value in a wife—and why character, faith, loyalty, maturity, and a genuine relationship with God can reveal far more than beauty, status, or appearances ever could.In this message, you’ll discover what Nathan saw in Stephanie before romance even began, why a woman’s relationship with God should become visible in the way she lives, and why becoming “wife material” is not about performing, manipulating, or manufacturing yourself into the woman a man might choose.Chapters00:00 Intro08:13 Final Chapter — Stephanie’s Husband’s Perspective12:57 Ruth and Boaz vs. Stephanie and Nathan17:44 Quality #121:45 Quality #226:58 Quality #331:57 Quality #436:24 Quality #539:33 When Did Nathan Begin to Think She Was the One?41:02 Message for You44:05 Declaration46:19 Prayer51:21 ClosingStay until the end for a powerful declaration and prayer asking God to draw you closer to Him, transform your heart and character, sharpen your discernment, help you guard your heart, and prepare you to walk faithfully in whatever He has planned for your life.Welcome to To Run or Not To Run with Jesus Christ, where real life meets the Word of God and women are encouraged to grow in discernment, stop forcing relationships, recognize godly character, and remain close to Jesus.Website: PattyPatsJourney.comIf you missed the beginning of Stephanie’s story, catch up with the full playlist and follow her journey through Mr. Wrong, deception, painful lessons, surrender, discernment—and finally, Mr. Right.If this message blesses you, share it with a sister who may be wondering whether good men are still out there—or what God may be developing in her while she waits.New message every Thursday at 11 a.m. ET.#ChristianDatingAdvice #GodlyRelationships #GodlyMarriage #ChristianSingleWomen #GodlyWoman #RuthAndBoaz #Proverbs31Woman #WaitingOnGod #BiblicalDating #ChristianRelationships #PatriciaCalixte #ToRunOrNotToRunWithJesusChrist

How can you tell if a man may truly be the right man God has for you? What separates a godly man from someone who simply looks good on paper?In this honest Bible study and Christian dating message for women, Patricia Calixte (Patty Pat) shares Chapter 5 of Stephanie’s testimony and the final chapter of her journey from disappointing relationships, deception, and Mr. Wrongs to discovering the kind of man she had been praying for.Through Stephanie’s testimony and Scripture, this message explores 3 signs that a man may be the right man God has for you.Because a man can be attractive, successful, intelligent, charming, and check a whole lot of boxes... and still not be the man God has for you.Meanwhile, the man who checks fewer boxes may possess the qualities that matter the most.The goal is not simply to find a husband.The goal is to stay so close to God that when the right man appears, you can discern the kind of character God has been teaching you to value all along.Chapters00:00:00 Intro00:08:25 Stephanie’s Story | Chapter 500:26:15 Sign #100:31:18 Sign #200:38:02 Sign #300:43:21 Message for You00:51:04 Declaration00:53:50 Prayer01:00:20 ClosingStay until the end for a declaration and prayer asking God for the wisdom to recognize godly character, the discernment to look beyond appearances, and the faith to trust Him with the timing and the process.Welcome to To Run or Not To Run with Jesus Christ, where real life meets the Word of God and women are encouraged to grow in biblical discernment, stop forcing relationships, recognize godly character, and remain close to Jesus.Website: PattyPatsJourney.comResources Mentioned• Free Bible App I use: YouVersion — search in your app store or Play Store• Testimonies / faith builders: Delafé Testimonies on YouTubeIf this message blesses you, share it with a sister who has lost hope of meeting the man God has for her.New message every Thursday at 11 a.m. ET.#TiredOfBeingSingle #WaitingOnGodsTiming #GodlyRelationships #BiblicalDating #ChristianRelationships #FutureHusband #PatriciaCalixte #GodSentHusband #ChristianDatingAdvice #ChristianSingleWoman #ToRunOrNotToRunWithJesusChrist #PatriciaCalixte

Romance deception, hidden double lives, and repeated dishonesty can leave a woman questioning her judgment, her faith, and everything she believed about the man she trusted.But what happens when you already know something is wrong... and your emotions still make it difficult to let him go?In this honest Bible study and Christian dating message for women, Patricia Calixte (aka Patty Pat) shares the next chapter of Stephanie’s testimony.Stephanie believed she had met a promising man. But as his stories changed, the lies multiplied, and his character became clearer, she found herself emotionally attached to a man she already knew she could not trust.And that is where discernment becomes so important.Emotions can blur reality, but intimacy with God helps you see the man’s true character.In this message, you’ll discover 3 red flags that may indicate he is not the man God has for you. You’ll also learn 3 practical steps you can start applying today.Through Stephanie’s story and the biblical account of Samson and Delilah, we’ll look at what can happen when emotions begin negotiating with warning signs.And most importantly, we’ll talk about why the answer is not simply becoming better at spotting bad men.The goal is becoming so close to God that when He shows you the truth, your emotions don’t get the final vote!Chapters00:00:00 Intro + Stephanie's Story00:09:44 Start of Message00:16:54 Red Flag #100:21:08 Red Flag #200:28:56 Red Flag #300:34:55 Message for you00:38:26 Practical Step #100:41:03 Practical Step #200:43:00 Practical Step #300:49:02 Declaration00:51:54 Prayer00:57:13 ClosingStay until the end for a declaration and prayer asking God to sharpen your discernment, renew your mind, and give you the faith to trust Him when your emotions want something different.Welcome to To Run or Not To Run with Jesus Christ, where real life meets the Word of God and women are encouraged to recognize red flags, grow in discernment, trust the Holy Spirit, and stay close to Jesus through every relationship decision!Website: PattyPatsJourney.comIf this message blesses you, share it with a sister who may be explaining away warning signs, holding onto a man’s potential, or asking God for 1 more confirmation about something He may already be showing her.New message every Thursday at 11 a.m.ET.#WaitingForGodSentHusband #RelationshipRedFlags #ChristianDatingAdvice #ChristianEncouragementForSingleWomen #StillSingleAndTrustingGod #GodlyRelationshipsForWomen #ChristianSingleWomen #PatriciaCalixte #ToRunOrNotToRunWithJesusChrist