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Find out why everyone’s talking about Almost Adulting Podcast.


Get read to immerse yourself in the largest self-love podcast and movement - your #1 destination for personal growth and mental health. I'm your host Violet Benson, known as Daddy Issues meme queen, comedian, and motivational speaker, but most importantly, I'm YOUR big sister. 


Each month, we explore a new topic with amazing guests, inspiring conversations, and life-changing solo episodes. Drawing on my own personal experiences (where I learned everything the hard way) and researched expert advice, we'll tackle critical areas like self-improvement, mental health, and relationships with plenty of useful tools, relatable humour and candid advice. Get ready to feel empowered, liberated, and seen like never before! Don't wait another moment to become the best version of yourself - Change your life and subscribe to Almost Adulting!


Welcome to the #AlmostAdulting movement. Your healing journey starts NOW. Podcast drops every Tuesday and Thursday.

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Hey Besties! We're diving headfirst into the complexities of self-sabotage. Why do we often self-sabotage? How do we snap out of the self-defeat funk? Embrace the beauty of failure, kick negative thinking to the curb, and discover 18 tips to boost your spirits. It's all about flipping the script, surrounding yourself with positive vibes, and quitting the blame game. Get ready to transform your perspective and sprinkle some fab into your life! If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month!Today’s Sponsors:CBDistillery - Visit www.cbdistillery.com and use code ADULTING for 20% off.Glamsquad - For a limited time, Glamsquad is giving our listeners $20 odd any service. It's valid whether or not you've booked with them before. Visit https://glamsquad.com/ or the Glamsquad app and use code ADULTING at checkout.Nuuly - Nuuly is a great value at $98 a month for any 6 styles, but right now you can get $20 off your first month of Nuuly when you sign up with the code ADULTING20. Just go to https://www.nuuly.com/What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:20 Why do we self sabotage?04:02 How to stop this cycle of self defeat?07:05 Sometimes, failure is good11:39 When we sink into negative thinking our brain seeks to confirm it14:23 How do you stay motivated during hard times?19:48 How to change your perspective24:20 18 quick advice to cheer you up28:18 Surround yourself with positivity31:08 We often blame our circumstances     Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
When to Have S*x

When to Have S*x

2024-03-2625:04

Hey Besties! Welcome to Benson Book Club! Today, Violetta will be reading a part of Chapter 19: When To Have Sex from the book Men Don’t Love Women Like You! by G.L Lambert, and will be sharing her thoughts on when to take things to the bedroom, decoding men's real dating agendas, and identifying the tell-tale signs of true romantic victory. Ever regretted going too far, too fast? We're breaking it all down and guiding you to date on your own terms. Let's get real about romance, empowerment, and finding what truly clicks for you in the world of love!If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month!Today’s Sponsors:Factor - Head to factormeals.com/ADULTING50 and use code ADULTING50 to get 50% off.What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:53 Chapter 19: When To Have Sex 03:28 “I wish I never had s*x with him.”06:44 Why do men date?09:58 What has he shown you?13:14 Signs you’ve genuinely won a man over16:33 Can you enjoy each others company without s*x?19:19 Focus on what works for you   Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Hey Besties! Welcome to episode TWO of Dating University available ONLY on the PREMIUM podcast.Violetta is going to get real about everything from pimple patches to our 'pick me' girl pasts. It's all about embracing your fabulous self, finding that rock-solid confidence, and saying goodbye to people and habits that just don't spark joy anymore. And let's chat about relationships - why it's crucial to know what you want and how not to fall for those oh-so-tempting but totally empty flatteries. Remember, comparison is the thief of joy, especially when it comes to other women. So, let's believe in our own allure and walk this journey of self-love and empowerment together. This series lives EXCLUSIVELY on my premium channel, so to listen to the FULL episode, make sure to subscribe and catch it here - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Hey Besties! Today, we get to listen to the second half of Violetta’s conversation with Sarah Baldwin. Sarah is a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner and Trauma-informed Life Coach dedicated to supporting individuals in understanding their reactions, feelings, and patterns, emphasizing that these are not indicative of anything wrong, but rather everything being right with the person. Violetta and Sarah will dig deep into what it means to have an anxious or avoidant attachment style, how to overcome it, and how it can potentially affect your current and future relationships. Discover how your nervous system is the puppeteer of your relationships, unravel the mysteries of anxious and avoidant attachments, and get the lowdown on why opposites attract but might not always stick. Learn the golden rules of relationship arguments, decode the dynamic dance between different attachment styles, and embrace the bravest steps towards love. Whether you're anxiously engaged or coolly detached, it's time to understand, set boundaries, and find out why, in the game of love, we're all wonderfully complex.If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month!Today’s Sponsors:Nutrafol - Find out why over 4,000 healthcare professionals recommend Nutrafol for healthier hair. Visit https://nutrafol.com/ and use promo code ADULTINGEpisode Highlights:00:00 Intro00:24 How does your nervous system affect your relationships?02:04 How does Anxious Attachment style develop?03:47 How does Avoidant Attachment style develop?05:18 What should you do if you have avoidant attachment?10:39 What should you do if you have anxious attachment? 12:39 Anxious and avoidant attachment attract each other17:22 The golden rule: Two dysregulated people can’t solve an argument20:41 Most common dynamic between anxious and avoidant people21:37 We can be both avoidant and anxious24:03 Why both avoidantly and anxiously attached people are often misunderstood 28:14 We need to learn to understand each other30:04 A lot of us feel we’re so f*cked up35:46 What is the bravest thing an avoidant person can do in a relationship?37:26 Can an avoidant and anxiously attached person have a relationship?40:56 Fear and excitement have the same somatic sensory response44:32 The people we need to set boundaries will resist those boundaries the most48:12 When to know that the other person is not yet safe for you to be in a relationship with55:16 We all make sense and there’s nothing wrong with usConnect with Sarah on:https://www.sarahbaldwincoaching.com/ https://www.facebook.com/Sarahbaldwincoaching/ https://www.instagram.com/sarahbcoaching/ Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
INTRUSIVE THOUGHTS

INTRUSIVE THOUGHTS

2024-03-2015:55

Hello and welcome to the Violetta's diary series available on my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Where I share my random thoughts with no cuts, no edits, no notes, no pre planning, no nothing. Just the two of us naked and honest with each other.Today we dive into sliding into dm's, my intrusive thoughts and lots more.This series lives EXCLUSIVELY on my premium channel, so to listen to the FULL episode, make sure to subscribe and catch it here - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Hey Besties! Welcome to another Benson Book Club Tuesday! It’s been a favorite so we will discuss another chapter of 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think by Brianna Wiest - a collection of the author’s most beloved pieces of writing. Violetta dives into a heartfelt exploration of the transient nature of relationships, where we ponder the journey from being strangers to becoming lovers, and sometimes, strangers once again. This podcast delves into the gratitude we owe to those who've departed from our lives, the insights gained from lost love, and the realization that every encounter has its purpose, often serving as a lesson in our personal growth. Through stories and reflections, we uncover the essence of our connections, learning to appreciate every moment and person as part of our life's evolving narrative.If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month!Today’s Sponsors:Truly - To find Truly Hard Seltzer near you, go to www.trulyhardseltzer.com/locationsShopify - Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at www.shopify.com/adultingSkims - Shop SKIMS Bras at https://skims.com/. Now available in 62 sizes. Plus, get free shipping on orders over $75!What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:47 How we go from lovers to strangers04:50 We all start as strangers05:59 Why should we be thankful for the people who left?10:48 What do people who have lost love know?19:16 The purpose of our relationships is…22:49 One day, you’ll realize that they were just a lesson Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Hey Besties! Let’s welcome Alex Bennett and Jordyn Woodruff, the duo behind the Mean Girl podcast. In the show, these two come together for honest conversations about sex, friendship, mental health, and living in the big city as outsiders.Violetta, Alex, and Jordyn didn’t hold back as they talked about what makes friendships last, setting boundaries (because, hello, we need space!), and why growing apart might just mean you're growing up. Ever wonder how to navigate friendships when life stages change or how to detox from toxic pals? We've got you covered! Plus, get the scoop on making friends in your fabulous late 20s. Because, let's face it, friends are the family we choose, and it's never too late to add to your tribe!If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month!Today’s Sponsors:Talkspace -  As a listener to this podcast, you'll get $80 off of your first month with Talkspace when you go to https://www.talkspace.com/.Glamsquad - For a limited time, Glamsquad is giving our listeners $20 odd any service. It's valid whether or not you've booked with them before. Visit https://glamsquad.com/ or the Glamsquad app and use code ADULTING at checkout.Episode Highlights:00:00 Intro01:36 How’s LA?03:59 Do you make friends easily?04:21 How has making friends changed over the years?07:44 People who are able to maintain lasting friendships are green flags09:51 Does it matter how long you’ve been friends?15:31 How do you define a good friend?18:07 Scared to rely on friends too much21:29 Create boundaries with your friends23:24 Friendships growing apart as you mature32:36 If you’re not growing apart, you’re not growing up35:20 Do you stay friends with your married friends?39:42 Have you experienced a toxic friendship?43:06 Choose your friends who will say your name in a room full of opportunities44:28 Gossiping is false friendship bonding48:46 If you constantly talk about other people and nothing else54:51 How did you realize it was toxic?59:30 She’s my BFF but she stole my ex01:05:06 What did you learn from a toxic friendship?01:07:31 How to heal from a friendship breakup01:15:11 How to make new friends in your late 20s01:16:43 You will continue to make friends your entire lifeConnect with Mean Girl on:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVGd0eUpf67iwp7K84wTJnQ https://www.instagram.com/meangirlpod https://twitter.com/meangirlpod Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Hey Besties! In today’s Benson Book Club, Violetta will take inspiration from Men Don’t Love Women Like You! by G.L. Lambert - a manual on how to stop manipulation, command attention, and be seen as a must have by any man. Let's take a look into men's true intentions in romance, separating truths from "D*ck Lies," understanding sexual significance, and uncovering why men pursue new conquests. Learn why you might be unknowingly auditioning for a role you didn't choose in the complexity of love and desire.If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get an extra episode every Wednesday and Saturday each week!Today’s Sponsors:Nuuly - Nuuly is a great value at $98 a month for any 6 styles, but right now you can get $20 off your first month of Nuuly when you sign up with the code ADULTING20. Just go to https://www.nuuly.com/What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:49 Chapter 3: Dick Lies 05:52 How will he know if you’re a fling or not08:05 S*x is everything and nothing09:02 What does s*x mean to a man?11:45 Why men chase after new p*ssies15:00 Men claiming it’s not about s*x21:17 Men don’t always pressure you to have s*x25:17 Most women don’t realize the role they are playing26:54 S*xual chemistry doesn’t disappear because you’re only talking27:44 You’re being groomed for a placeholder positionGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Hey Besties! Today, we welcome Sarah Baldwin. Sarah is a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner and Trauma-informed Life Coach dedicated to supporting individuals in understanding their reactions, feelings, and patterns, emphasizing that these are not indicative of anything wrong, but rather everything being right with the person. She focuses on showing individuals that they are safe and can get unstuck, which leads to thriving and living the life they're meant to live. Violetta and Sarah will unpack everything from why your nervous system might be more tangled than your headphone cords, to the truth behind why we sometimes mix up safety with danger. Ever wondered why your relationships feel like a soap opera? We've got the lowdown on that too. And for those moments when you're feeling more 'meh' than magical, we'll guide you through the maze of moods to find your way back to fabulous. So, buckle up and prepare to confront the uncomfortable with a heap of insight - because understanding your inner workings should never be boring!If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month!Today’s Sponsors:Penrose Hill - Firstleaf. Go to www.tryfirstleaf.com/ADULTING  to get your first box.Nuuly - Nuuly is a great value at $98 a month for any 6 styles, but right now you can get $20 off your first month of Nuuly when you sign up with the code ADULTING20. Just go to https://www.nuuly.com/  Episode Highlights:00:00 Intro02:00 How to tell if someone is emotionally regulated / dysregulated?03:57 What is the nervous system & what does it have to do with emotional regulation?10:25 Why is having a dysregulated nervous system so common?12:05 The reason why we sometimes perceive safety as danger17:04 What does dysregulation look like in relationships?20:37 Can I always feel "good"?21:51 The four primary states we go through29:43 Is our nervous system attached to our childhood experiences32:05 You're not your dysregulated reactions, and that's okay35:50 Taking tolerable steps towards the things that scare us36:04 How to confront the uncomfortable39:25 You’re in the right track if you find it difficult to do43:23 How to pull yourself out of unhappiness through regulation46:39 Learning how to have safe confrontations50:04 How to create a list that makes you feel alive53:26 What are the best somatic practices to regulate our nervous system?Connect with Sarah on:https://www.sarahbaldwincoaching.com/ https://www.facebook.com/Sarahbaldwincoaching/ https://www.instagram.com/sarahbcoaching/ Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Hello and welcome to the Violetta's diary series available on my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Where I share my random thoughts with no cuts, no edits, no notes, no pre planning, no nothing. Just the two of us naked and honest with each other.Today we dive into the TEXT that ENDED my toxic friendship, vision board update, and how to be successfully delusional. This series lives EXCLUSIVELY on my premium channel, so to listen to the FULL episode, make sure to subscribe and catch it here - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Hey Besties! Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: The Classic Guide to Understanding the Opposite Sex by John Gray. The book provides a practical and proven way for men and women to improve their communication and relationships by acknowledging the differences between them.  Today, Violetta will talk about the dynamics of motivation and love as she unpacks the secrets to motivating the opposite sex and explores the balance between love, responsibility, and boundaries. From understanding the importance of making a positive difference in someone's life to recognizing the fine line between need and neediness, Violetta dishes out her signature blend of wisdom and wit. So get ready to uncover the keys to fostering meaningful connections and navigating the ups and downs of modern romance. If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month! Today’s Sponsor:Thrive Market - Join in on the savings with Thrive Market today and get 30% off your first order, plus a FREE $60 gift. Go to  https://thrivemarket.com//adulting Glamsquad - For a limited time, Glamsquad is giving our listeners $20 odd any service. It's valid whether or not you've booked with them before. Visit https://glamsquad.com/ or the Glamsquad app and use code ADULTING at checkoutWhat to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:34 How to motivate the opposite s*x09:54 When a man is in love, he’s motivated more11:27 When a man doesn’t feel he’s making a positive difference in someone’s life15:22 Many women today want time off, a time for themselves21:51 A woman needs to recognize her boundaries22:55 Step 1 - Motivation23:56 Step 2 - Taking Responsibility24:45 Step 3 - Practice26:03 As man experiences limits, he is motivated to do more28:38 The difference between needing and neediness31:16 A man appears most caring when he is afraidGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Hello and welcome to the Violetta's diary series available on my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Where I share my random thoughts with no cuts, no edits, no notes, no pre planning, no nothing. Just the two of us naked and honest with each other.Today we dive into how to change your perspective when it comes to goodbyes, people, being ghosted and when he doesn't want you - from the why to the how to the moving on.This series lives EXCLUSIVELY on my premium channel, so to listen to the FULL episode, make sure to subscribe and catch it here - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Hey Besties! For another Benson Book Club session, we’re going to dive deep into Why We Hold On Tightest on the Things That Aren’t Meant for Us from Brianna Wiest’s 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think.  Violet shares her candid insights on navigating the complexities of relationships - from moving on from unrequited love and why we often find ourselves drawn to those who can't reciprocate our feelings to invaluable advice on finding peace and self-love amidst the chaos of modern romance. It's time to empower yourself and begin your journey to emotional freedom.Today’s Sponsors:Factor - Head to factormeals.com/ADULTING50 and use code ADULTING50 to get 50% off.Shopify - Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at www.shopify.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Intro05:07 How to let go of the things that’s killing you inside?10:22 You can't convince someone to love you if they don’t19:21 How do you fall out of love with the idea of someone?24:13 Why do we keep choosing people who can’t love us back? Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Feeling Ungrateful

Feeling Ungrateful

2024-02-2911:46

Hello and welcome to the Violetta's diary series available on my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Where I share my random thoughts with no cuts, no edits, no notes, no pre planning, no nothing. Just the two of us naked and honest with each other.Today we discuss feeling ungrateful, creating a vision board, and large wieners jk maybe.This series lives EXCLUSIVELY on my premium channel, so to listen to the FULL episode, make sure to subscribe and catch it here - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Hey Besties! Today, Vanderpump Rules cast Scheana Shay joins Violetta for an exciting and at the same time heart-tugging conversation. Throughout her time on "Vanderpump Rules," Scheana became known for her outgoing personality, dramatic relationships, and candid portrayal of her personal life on the show. In addition to her work on reality television, she has pursued acting and music endeavors. She has appeared in several television shows and films, as well as releasing her own music singles.Violetta and talk about the complexities of childcare, the challenges of maintaining friendships, and a potential sneak peek of Vanderpump Season 11. Plus the duo spills the tea on lost friendships, potential redemption arcs, and the behind-the-scenes drama you won't hear anywhere else. On a serious note, bravely shares her experiences with postpartum OCD, the healing power of EMDR therapy, and the heartbreaking reality of pregnancy loss. It's a raw and vulnerable exploration of mental health, friendship dynamics, and the bittersweet journey of self-discovery. If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month!What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:27 What’s one thing people misunderstood about you in the show?02:30 How did motherhood change you? 04:13 What’s your biggest fear around getting help with babysitting your child?07:06 Have you had support from other new moms?07:45 What’s a question someone has never asked you?08:30 “I’m never the favorite of this show.” 12:18 Hopes for Season 1113:17 Losing a friendship of 15 years17:09 Is the new season setting the stage for Sandoval’s redemption arc?19:16 Are you the friend that flip-flops?20:38 Figuring out a way to not breakdown in front of your child22:24 Friendship pact with Katie  24:37 What can people look forward to this season?26:05 Is Billie Lee in love with Tom Sandoval?33:31 Postpartum OCD39:39 EMDR Therapy 43:35 Pregnancy loss and traumatic labor45:13 Severe intrusive thoughts47:07 Signs of OCD before pregnancy50:54 Thinking of death everydayConnect with Scheana on:https://www.instagram.com/scheana/ https://twitter.com/scheana https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9jgdbAu8PZMmfYZBj2xnog https://www.tiktok.com/@scheana  Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Hey Besties! Today, Violetta welcomes television host and producer Kamie Crawford. Kamie also hosts her successful podcast, Relationsh*t and MTV’s long-running reality-based documentary series “Catfish: The TV Show”.Get ready to dive into all things fun and fabulous with Violet and Kamie. They chat about everything from what's currently keeping them busy to the importance of staying hydrated (because, let's face it, we need to keep those vibes flowing!). Plus, we'll dish on some seriously spicy topics, like the Stanley cup's wild ride through a car fire and the sinful indulgence of beignets. Oh, and don't worry, Bestie, we’ll let you in on some secrets too—like debunking those silly misconceptions about their social media persona and sharing the biggest lessons learned last year. If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month!Today’s Sponsors:CBDistillery - Visit www.cbdistillery.com and use code ADULTING for 20% off.Penrose Hill - Try something new this year with Firstleaf. Go to www.tryfirstleaf.com/ADULTING to sign up and you'll get your first SIX hand-curated bottles for just $44.95.What to Listen For:00:00 Intro04:04 What are you currently working on?05:48 The importance of staying hydrated all day06:40 The Stanley cup that withstood a car fire09:18 Unhealthy food choices11:48 Have you had a beignet?15:06 What’s something most people don’t know about you?20:05 What’s the most common misconception about you?25:26 How are you when someone gets on your bad side?28:57 What are you currently working to improve?35:24 What’s the hardest lesson you learned last year?37:37 Does your mom have a very thick accent?40:27 What past experience that still resonates with you today?48:15 What’s the worst thing that can happen?54:41 What’s something you don’t want to repeat this year?   01:00:53 My social media is like my house…Connect with Kamie on:https://www.kamiecrawford.com/https://twitter.com/KamieCrawford https://www.tiktok.com/@kamiecrawford https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChpYYY1gnYb-4zbkK9xhpNA https://www.linkedin.com/in/kamiecrawford/ https://www.instagram.com/kamiecrawford https://www.facebook.com/KamieCrawford/ Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Hey Besties! Today, Violetta will give us a quick recap of Love is Blind Season 6. Is Matthew just your average guy, or could he be hiding a dark secret? From navigating the rules of marriage with AD and Clay to exploring the dynamics of religious love with Brittany and Kenneth, we'll delve into the highs and lows of partnership. Buckle up as we dissect the correlation between love and lust with Jimmy and Jessica, and uncover the telltale signs of trouble in relationships. Whether it's recognizing red flags or learning to prioritize self-growth, this episode is packed with insights to navigate the rollercoaster of love and emotions. If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month!Today’s Sponsors:Skims - Believe the hype - SKIMS has over 100,000 five star reviews for a reason. Visit www.skims.com/ Express VPN - Stop missing out on great TV and get thousands of new shows with Express VPN - we got them to give you guys three extra months free when you use our special link www.expressvpn.com/ADULTING.What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:38 Is Matthew a serial killer?07:55 AD and Clay - rules of marriage09:59 Brittany and Kenneth - the religious couple11:06 Jimmy and Jessica - correlating love with lust14:55 When someone rejects you, leave18:30 Jimmy’s red flags24:16 Crying over the consequences of your actions26:44 Chelsea, work on yourself and stop seeking validation from your partner28:19 Who will walk down the aisle?Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Hey Besties! The man behind the Create the Love is back! Mark Groves is a human connection specialist, speaker, writer, motivator, creator, connector and collaborator. As a bridge between the academic and the human, Mark invites people to explore the good, bad, downright ugly, and beautiful sides of connection.What does it truly mean to find liberation in love? How do we reclaim our worth after it's been taken from us? Today, Violetta and Mark explore these questions and more, delving into topics like building self-trust, healing codependency, and navigating the emotional complexities of heartbreak. From learning to communicate our deepest emotions to embracing closure and letting go, each chapter of this episode offers profound insights and empowering strategies for navigating the highs and lows of love. If you’re looking for answers, this one's for you!If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month!What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:43 Liberated Love  06:36 You’ve forgotten yourself in the relationship09:46 They took your worth with them when they left13:36 How do you build a high level of self trust?17:42 How do you heal codependency?19:46 The great disconnect28:04 Learning self-regulation through co-regulation35:14 Creating a space for you and your partner’s pain38:47 The analogy of the burning house42:57 Closing ceremony for an ended relationship51:19 Communicate how to feel 56:16 Emotional triggers actually never go away01:02:21 Does your partner get you?01:04:27 The right person can’t come if you won’t let go of the wrong one01:06:39 What does it mean when love is not enough?01:10:52 Using the ides of love to bypass the pain01:16:03 How do you get your ex back?Connect with Mark on:https://www.instagram.com/createthelove/ https://twitter.com/createthelove https://www.youtube.com/user/markgrovestv https://createthelove.com/ Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Hey Besties! Ready to take a deep dive into the world of love and self-discovery? Today, for another episode of Benson Book Club, Violetta will read and ponder on the 16 Reasons Why You Still Don’t Have The Love That You Want from Brianna Wiest’s 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think. Whether you're relying on others to do the work for you or expecting love to change your life, we've got the insights to help you navigate the twists and turns of the heart. Discover how honoring your inner child, embracing kindness, and aligning your heart and mind can lead to deeper connections and self-fulfillment. Don't miss out on this enlightening journey to finding love within yourself and beyond! If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month!Today’s Sponsors:Truly - To find Truly Hard Seltzer near you, go to https://trulyhardseltzer.com/locations What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:54 16 reasons why you still don’t have the love that you want14:25 The most meaningful relationships are the ones in which we are reflective back to ourselves16:47 Every relationship you have is with yourself19:38 Be your own person and do what you can on your own time  Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
4 Ways To Self Love

4 Ways To Self Love

2024-02-0845:16

And no, not in the way you're thinking! Since this month is all about relationships, Violet decided to talk about the most important relationship you will ever have - the one with yourself. Today Violet gets super vulnerable and upacks some things of her own, while giving you guys her step by step guide she uses to practice self love. Besties, In order for us to have healthy relationships with others, we have to look inward and mend the relationship with ourselves. And remember, never let a person show you twice that they don’t want you. If they want you in their life, they’ll treat you with kindness and love. If they want you to be part of their journey, they will want to spend their time with you and will always appreciate spending time with you. When they love you for who you are, you will never have to change. You will be loved just as you are, flaws and imperfections included.WANT MORE EPISODES? SUBSCRIBE TO MY PREMIUM PODCAST HERE - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction02:37 Dating the male version of me06:55 Set boundaries for yourself10:19 Be self-aware17:04 Know who you are23:49 Change your perspective35:00 My love letter to youAd Timestamps:11:21 - Nutrafol14:21 - Talkspace28:23 - Penrose HillGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Violet Macharia

love from Kenya

Oct 3rd
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Violet Macharia

you're my favourite

Oct 3rd
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Nellie

Hi Violetta! This podcast about womens hormones changed my life - I recommend listening! https://castbox.fm/vd/566824280

May 28th
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Liza Derenchenko

Def agree with the dude that says that your sexual partner should care about your climax. As a rule. If you don't want the other person to make you cum, seems like the exception. So, the assumption should be that you also want to cum. I am a straight woman btw. I do not think you have to demand a person to give you pleasure. That is a turn off. Don't care about gender or orientation. They should want to make you cum. I absolutely agree with the guy on this.

Apr 29th
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Mora Neda

love from IRAN <3 love to hear that you loved persian foods

Nov 14th
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Adel Vas

what a load of crap! then she tried to sell her perfume in the middle of it 😁🤣

Aug 5th
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Mora Neda

this episode was epic! something that i need to be told. thank you violet! please invite patti more! Ima download this episode and play it through my sleep every night😁🤪

Aug 4th
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Shamimeh

I need to listen to this episode again with a notepad, to take notes.

Jul 4th
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Miki Minach

are you familiar with the organized crime called #gangstalking yet?

Apr 5th
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Andres Beltran

what's that song !?

Mar 25th
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Brittney Solis

I'm glad you released the intro. when you were describing you're overall depression and hesitance, confusion about the current covid issues, it felt like we were literally the same person. what you're going through is exactly how I feel.

Oct 11th
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Nahir Torres

love it. so real sarcastic and amazingly honest

Jul 18th
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Nallely Abigail Schrupp

I love your podcast! please keep Gabriel on, he is so easy to listen to very intelligent and just makes the show even better.

Feb 13th
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R

8 minutes in and I've already laughed out loud several times jeez

Aug 23rd
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Shari Urbancic

Did I miss the part where you talked about "getting over someone you've never actually dated?"..... 🙄

May 23rd
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Alicia Tapper

ok, is it thursday yet?

Apr 30th
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