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Too Tired To Be Crazy with Violet Benson

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How do you get over someone you never dated and when did dating become so 50 shades of complicated?! I’m getting anxiety just thinking about it. If he likes my picture is he flirting? Why is he ghosting me but watching my stories? Whats the meaning of life? And why can’t I sleep?! I don’t know about you guys, but I’d listen to me talk each week about dating and LA and life and whatever else comes to mind. So here we are and welcome to Too Tired To Be Crazy - a hilarious podcast brought to you by me, Violet Benson (creator of @daddyissues_ ). Don’t forget to subscribe!!
68 Episodes
Bad B*tch Bootcamp

Bad B*tch Bootcamp


CONGRATULATION BADDIES!!! YOU'VE OFFICIALLY GRADUATED FROM DUMB BISH TO BAD BISH!!!! I'M PROUD OF YOU. I start this episode with the first 20 minutes discussing, my booty hole, anal bleaching, I reminisce on how I started Daddyissues, how I was able to turn the lowest point in my life to one of the best, and how I worked through my daddy issues and changed my whole family's dynamic. The other half of the episode is all about BOYZZZZ. I give you the 12 rules to follow after the first date so you don’t self sabotage yourself, how to be a game changer versus a place holder, and what to do when a man takes a step back. Lastly, I close the episode with checking in with your mental health. Be good Baddies and I'll see you next Thursday!
On this episode we discuss friendship breakup, why we struggle with them, and how to cope with losing a friend. We start with a Q&A on feeling lost, letting go, and a weird habit of mine that no one knows about. We then dive into how to spot a ride or die BFF, why friendship breakups are so painful, tips on moving on, and a recent experience of mine. New episode every Thursday. Pls rate & subscribe and don’t forget to follow me on IG at @violetbenson & @tootiredtobecrazy
Say hello to your last dumb b*tch bootcamp because after today, you have graduated to BAD B*TCH BOOTCAMP!!! hello 2021! Now let's get you some confidence and a man! :) 0:00 - 27:00 - I address some thoughts from CHD to anal bleaching and then answer some listeners questions. 27:05 - 51:30 - Congratulations you've now officially graduated into Bad B*tch Bootcamp. Don't forget to write me a five star review, send me a screenshot, and I will venmo you $5! Happy new year! see you next Thursday Baddies!
On this episode we start with getting to know Corey Rae and her journey as the world’s first transgender prom queen, the movie she’s working on, the one thing you should NEVER ask a transgender person, and horror dating stories before and after transition, Corey then goes into a detailed explanation of her transition from her childhood to her transition physically and emotionally, (including hormone blockers, hormone replacement therapy, body dysphoria, sex therapy, gender dysphoria, surgery, voice and facial feminization, tracheal shave, and more). We end the podcast with all questions you ever wanted to know, from sex, to orgasms, to when she finally felt like herself, being stealth, pronouns, finding herself, and learning how to love yourself inside and out. For more information:
On this episode, Sofia Frankly, host of Sofia With An F podcast joins me as one of the most requested guests! We cover reverse cow girl, and a "how to" guide to cum when on top and in the "cat" position. We get into the do's and dont's of dating apps, our daddy issues, thoughts on f*cking on the first date, fetishes, and the gluck gluck 9000. We end the episode with tips on eating the p$ssy, Jay Alvarez, bleaching our butth0le, biggest boner killer, and friendship breakups! Make sure to catch me on Sofia's podcast "Sofia With An F"! Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review!!  Need a gift idea? Check out my great sponsors! BetterHelp: Go to to get 10% off your first month with the discount code TOOTIRED Honey: Get Honey for free at  StoryWorth: Get started right away with no shipping required by going to to get $10 off your first purchase! WooMorePlay: Head over to WOO More Play and use code VIOLET for 20 % OFF your order of WOO Vibez today.
Today we're going back to the episode that started it all! But first I give you a pep talk about that F8ckboy in YOUR life and remind you to be the BO$$ ass betch you were meant to be!  Then I have Alex Papiccio joins me to talk about my insane dating life... and even crazier mind. We discuss our own f*ckboy experience, answer your questions, and give advice on how to end a toxic cycle and love yourself! Check out my amazing sponsors! Mrs Fields: Get 20% off site-wide with promo code VIOLET at - Click on the microphone at the top and enter promo code VIOLET for 20% off your order. Better Help: Get 10% off your first month with the discount code "TOOTIRED" at 
On today's episode, Netflix's Too Hot To Handle, Francesca Farago joins me as we spill the TEA addressing the lies told by Call Her Daddy's host Alexandra Cooper, living together, hooking up, sex stories - including me maybe... masturbating in Frankie's bed, Miami, team Sofia Franklyn, and last but not least, we answer ALL of your dating questions!!! Trust me, this is one episode you don't want to miss!! Don't forget to subscribe, and check out my solo series, Dumb B*tch Bootcamp, if you're looking for some empowering tips from dating to confidence, I got you. See you next Thursday Baddies!! Check out my amazing sponsors! Headspace: Go to for a FREE ONE-MONTH TRIAL with access to Headspace’s full library of meditations for every situation! Psychic Source: Go to Apple or Google Play and Download the Psychic Source App. Be sure to use Promo Code ‘VIOLET” when you sign up. Or call 1.800.355.9214 and mention promo code VIOLET for your first discount! Better Help: Get 10% off your first month with the discount code "TOOTIRED" - Get started today at 
Dumb B*tch Bootcamp 3

Dumb B*tch Bootcamp 3


Welcome to the Dumb B*tch Bootcamp series!!! On today's episode # 3 we cover why it's important to be selfish from dating to work, becoming more confident and staying that way, forgiving yourself for your past and the old you, and letting go of "the right guy wrong time" mind set. Don't forget to subscribe and write a review and I will see you next Thursday b*tches!
Comedian / Influencer / YouTuber ALEX PAPICCIO shares how to get ALL the sugar without the daddy - dating older vs younger men - ignoring red flags - dumb things guys do on first dates - why liquid courage doesn't always help - and the craziest things we've ever done to impress a guy! Check out my amazing sponsors! Psychic Source: Go to Apple or Google Play and Download the Psychic Source App. Be sure to use Promo Code ‘VIOLET” when you sign up. Or call 1.800.355.9214 and mention promo code VIOLET for your first discount! Better Help: Get 10% off your first month with the discount code "TOOTIRED" - Get started today at 
Sex therapist / author / friend of the podcast EMILY MORSE returns to answer all of Violet's hard hitting questions LIKE: Do some guys cause UTIs? How do you awaken your vulva? Is not giving oral a deal breaker? Can anyone become a deep-throater? How do you reduce your gag reflex? Should you taste yourself before sex? AND How many orgasms can you have in one sitting??? Check out my amazing sponsors! Honey: Get Honey for free today at  Better Help: Get 10% off your first month with the discount code "TOOTIRED" - Get started today at  Candid: Save $76 on Candid’s starter kit at - and use code VIOLET!  
Are you a verbal slut? Do you ever cry on a hike? Does having a huge following get you laid? Do you ever send nudes to your best friends? What are all the rules of dating in Los Angeles?? YouTuber Brennen Taylor and his co-host / brother Jake Taylor talk about their new scary stories podcast SUS: SHARE UR SCARE... and what it's like to be an influencer dating in LA during a pandemic! Check out my amazing sponsors! Better Help: Get 10% off your first month with the discount code "TOOTIRED" - Get started today at  Candid: Save $76 on Candid’s starter kit at - and use code VIOLET!  Woo More Play: Head over to for 20% OFF your order of WOO! OR use code ‘VIOLET’ at checkout for 20% off!
Dumb B*tch Bootcamp 2

Dumb B*tch Bootcamp 2


We start the episode with a roomate edition where Francesca Farago and I spill the tea on all the questions you guys asked!!! like whether we've ever hooked up, how we became roomates, if we're dating, and more!!!! this is one episode where we did kiss and tell he he. I then continue the episode with another DUMB B*TCH BOOTCAMP and its a good one!! by the time you finish this episode you will walk out a brand new b*tch, I guarantee it!
Joining me today is award-winning plastic surgeon and star of Skin Decision on Netflix. Dr. Sheila Nazarian! We discuss it all from who’s getting work done and lying to you about it, one procedure you shouldn’t get done, self esteem all the way to escaping Iran and anti semitism in the US. TIME CODES: 0 - 39:28 - She's here to tell us all about plastic surgery including procedures she recommends, what people are getting the most done right now, she confirms celebs are lying about being natural and calls them out, the current unrealistic beauty standards, what a vagina is supposed to look like, getting lipo done, types of butt surgeries, the most current most trending procedure that you should STAY AWAY FROM, the importance of loving yourself before going under the knife, and why you should NEVER get cheap plastic surgery! 39:28 - 1:14:00 - We then have an in depth conversation about our shared faith and religion. Sheila tells the story of her family being smuggled into Pakistan from Iran and later moving to the US to escape anti-Semitism. How she met the man who saved her family’s life, the holocaust, the reason I legally changed my jewish last name, how anti-Semitism is still very much an issue all over the world even within the US, including personal stories.
My guest this week is a standup comedian, cast member on Summer House on Bravo AND host of her podcast Berning in Hell, Hannah Berner! We kickoff the episode by talking about d*ck. Curved d*ck to be exact. She shares her experience with different d*ck sizes and why bigger isn't ALWAYS better! We discuss what marriage d*ck means, my wide set vageen, the one lie every man has told you that you fell for, and tips on dating an athlete. We then get into scorpios and Leos, why older men are the move, signs you’re about to get ghosted by the nice f*ckboy, how to have that X factor that will get all the boys coming back. We end the podcast with normalizing STD’s and Hannah shares a bunch of embarrassing drunken sex stories with the class like the time she farted on a man while he was eating her out… and that’s not all! Tune in and don’t forget to leave a review when you’re done. <3 Follow Hannah on IG at @BeingBernz and check out her Berning In Hell podcast.
You might know my guest from David Dobrik's crazy vlogs, She is part of the vlog squad, also known as David's assistant and has made a name for herself on social media, Natalie Noel! Timestamps: 0:00 - 23:00 - We talk about how watching your parents go through a divorce as a child can carry over into our adulthood and cause us to blame ourselves for failed relationships. Natalie talks about why the boys in the Vlog Squad are drawn to her, dealing with haters, body image and advice on OWNING IT. 23:00 - 42:15 - We then get into her party girl days, doing Molly and shrooms, throuples, craziest thing a guy did for her, why shell never chase a man, getting out of the friend zone, and thoughts on dating during quarantine. 42:15-1:04:00 - We end the podcast with thought on David Dobrik and being his assistant, how to become a vlog squad member, who the funniest member is vs who the most annoying one is, her relationship with Todd Smith, the real reason David stopped vlogging and what to expect from them next! Follow Natalie Noel on Instagram @NatalinaNoel and follow our podcast @Tootiredtobecrazy Don't forget to subscribe and I'll see you next Thursday! <3
I start the podcast in tears but quickly remember that I can be a sad bitch n still being a bad bitch. I CAN DO BOTH and then give you some killer advice. From why I'm single, the proper sext that will leave him jizzing his pants, how to tell if he's into you, and what to do if he's not. I then get into EXACTLY, step by step, of what you need to do to win a breakup and get him to beg you back. I end the podcast with why you've been ghosted and how to get over it. Thank you so much for listening! Don't forget to subscribe, and follow me on IG at @TooTiredToBeCrazy See you next Thursday!
Keltie Knight of the LadyGang comes on to give us a guidebook, if you will, to train your man to be the man YOU need. She gives us her cunning advice on the power of asking, why you should always have an escape plan, putting yourself first, and why having no friends is the best. We also get into DAP.. I said DAP!! using lube, keeping it spicy in the bedroom, what it takes to have a successful relationship, and the reason you're not able to keep a man. We then end the episode with answering fan dating questions from porn, to cheating, to confronting the other girl. Check out LadyGang podcast on every Wednesday and give them a follow! Follow @TooTiredToBeCrazy on Instagram and I'll see you next Thursday <3
“I know that you're superwoman but even superwoman is only one person. You need people sometimes… and that’s okay." On this episode, the talented Kiana Ledé joins me to discuss our zodiac signs, growing up mixed, her music and what inspires her, losing our virginity, sex, second chances, the harm in dating potential. We also address, what we look for in a man, masturbating, feelings, boys, payback on a cheating ex, and our first time opening up on our experience with sexual assault. We then get into love, how your thoughts become reality, learning to love yourself and changing your perspective on dating, boundaries, and how to get what you want. We end the podcast with a discussion about mental health, Kiana's battle with bipolar disorder, her recent depressive suicidal episode, and how she got better. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 800-273-8255 Check out Kiana's album Kiki and follow her on Instagram at @Kianalede Don't forget to subscribe and @TooTiredToBeCrazy on Instagram and I'll see you next Thursday!! <3
Today's guest is the beautiful and talented singer, JoJo!! We start the episode with the weirdest thing sbout us, my hookup with a girl this weekend, and her 3some experience, She relays an important message about the ugly side of the music industry that involves 'grooming' young girls and the importance of knowing the boundaries of consent. She then addresses why she cheated on her ex, the damage of cheating, why we cheat, and forgiving yourself. We end the podcast with, why the hell we sometimes feel the need to bring up our EXES in CURRENT relationships, why we self sabotage, and the benefits of wellness, therapy and self-care. Check out Jojo's newest album "Good To Know" and follow her on Instagram @iamjojo Don't forget to subscribe and leave me a review with your dating questions!! and I'll see you next Thursday! Resources: SAMHSA’s National Helpline – 1-800-662-HELP (4357) 1-800-662-4357
Dumb B*tch Bootcamp

Dumb B*tch Bootcamp


Today I present to you the dumb b*itch bootcamp part 1!!! I used to be the ceo of dumb bish club, but I've changed and now Im here to teach you how to go from dumb bish to boss bish. On today's solo episode, I cover, a fan's sex story, tb to me getting fingered and ending up in the hospital, girls with nipple piercings are superior, and being a dumb bish no more. We also cover, why you're dating the same men, changing your perspective, becoming the leading role in your movie, start acting like a prize, why he's not choosing you, and getting your power back. I end with a powerful message and hope that by the end of this, you're one step closer to a boss bish. Don't forget to subscribe to my podcast. :) New Episode every Thursday! follow us on IG at @TooTiredToBeCrazy and write your dating questions/sex stories on the podcast app reviews for a chance to be featured!!!
Comments (8)

Pragati Chavan

i saw one sneakpeak of your podcast on Instagram and immediately i came and searched your podcast, i about loved this episode and i am hoping to more of these episodes, i will be active listening to this podcast.

Jan 18th

Brittney Solis

I'm glad you released the intro. when you were describing you're overall depression and hesitance, confusion about the current covid issues, it felt like we were literally the same person. what you're going through is exactly how I feel.

Oct 11th

Nahir Torres

love it. so real sarcastic and amazingly honest

Jul 18th

Robert Zalunardo

Only my fist episode @daddyissuesla with @violetbenson explaining she likes older men and he is only one year older lol amazing making this a good listen on drives in will be continuing

Feb 21st

Nallely Abigail Schrupp

I love your podcast! please keep Gabriel on, he is so easy to listen to very intelligent and just makes the show even better.

Feb 13th

Anika Rahman

8 minutes in and I've already laughed out loud several times jeez

Aug 23rd

Shari Urbancic

Did I miss the part where you talked about "getting over someone you've never actually dated?"..... 🙄

May 23rd

Alicia Tapper

ok, is it thursday yet?

Apr 30th
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