Tookes Takes

38: This week, I’m covering the shocking allegations against Real Housewives of Potomac stars Wendy and Eddie Osefo. Like a lot of you, I was stunned when the news broke. I’ve always seen them as Bravo’s picture of Black excellence, so I’m unpacking how something like this could happen and what it means for their image, their family, and the show. I’ll also get into this week’s episode of RHOP…from Stacey standing up to Gizelle and Ashley, to Angel and Tia bringing new energy to the cast. Plus, I’m talking about how we celebrate successful women on Bravo, why people love to call them “pretentious,” and how to play the Housewives game without losing yourself (or ending up in court). Topics Discussed: → Wendy + Eddie Osefo insurance fraud allegations explained → Stacey vs Gizelle and Ashley feud breakdown → Why Bravo fans label successful women “pretentious” → How Housewives stars lose money + fame to bad decisions On This Episode We Cover:  → 00:00:00 - Why watch housewives → 00:03:33 - Insurance fraud  → 00:06:52 - Wendy Osefo fraud scandal → 00:10:38 - "Pretentious" & microaggressions  → 00:17:04 - RHOP: Second Bloom Ball  → 00:19:53 - Stacey, TJ Jones, & the gardening business  → 00:25:58 - New housewives & The White House  → 00:32:08 - Miss Cookie  → 00:34:32 - RHOM Reunion Part 2  → 00:42:46 - Tookes Takeaway: Be Who You Are  Check Out LaKendra: → LaKendra's Instagram  → Tookes Takes Instagram → X → LaKendra’s TikTok → YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

37: This week I'm going in on Potomac. I'm celebrating Dr. Wendy and Eddie as true Black excellence, welcoming newbies Angel and Tia, and side-eyeing Giselle and Ashley for stirring the pot. Over in Salt Lake City, I break down Lisa Barlow’s “dismissed, dismissed, dismissed” receipts, Bronwyn’s messy mom, and Whitney’s business heartbreak. Then in Miami, I get into Alexia leaving Todd, Julia’s drama, and the shocking hookup bombshell with Adriana. On top of all that, I’m opening up about my own tough week, leaning on faith, and reminding myself the real meaning of BYOB.  Topics Discussed: → Real Housewives of Potomac season premiere drama → Lisa Barlow lawsuits on Real Housewives of Salt Lake City → Miami Housewives reunion hookup bombshell → Giselle Bryant and Ashley Darby stirring controversy → Dr. Wendy Osefo and Eddie showcase Black excellence On This Episode We Cover:  → 00:00:00 - Introduction  → 00:02:28 - Karen Huger’s DUI  → 00:06:08 - Fashion on RHOP → 00:08:28 - RHOP: Last season summary  → 00:13:04 - Who’s missing from RHOP  → 00:15:13 - The Black Hollywood Luncheon  → 00:19:02 - Keiarna & the new girls  → 00:26:40 - RHOSLC: Lawsuit Lisa → 00:30:30 - Bad weeks & having faith  → 00:34:09 - RHOM: Reunion highlights  → 00:37:51 - Adriana & Julia bombshell  → 00:39:42 - Tookes Takeaway: BYOB  Check Out LaKendra: → LaKendra's Instagram  → Tookes Takes Instagram → X → LaKendra’s TikTok → YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

36: This week I’m talking housewives, dating, and my weekend adventures. I share my solo date experience, Taco Bell indulgences, and setting boundaries with men. On Real Housewives of Salt Lake City, I break down Heather, Bronwyn, Mary, Whitney, and Lisa Barlow’s drama…plus the hilarious Barlow vs Bronwyn showdown. Over on Real Housewives of Miami, I weigh in on Adriana calling Kiki “ratchet” and why charity events always go sideways. Topics Discussed: → Real Housewives of Salt Lake City drama: Heather, Bronwyn, Mary, Whitney, Lisa Barlow → Real Housewives of Miami finale: Adriana, Marisol, and the charity event chaos → Thoughts on addiction, parenting, and Robert Jr.’s journey → Solo dating adventures and setting boundaries with men On This Episode We Cover:  → 00:00:00 - Introduction → 00:01:22 - RHOSLC: Gout & Sucking D → 00:07:36 - Housewife Motherhood & Family Struggles → 00:11:37 - Jeff Lewis Live & Miss Beverly D’Angelo → 00:15:37 - Ex-Mormon Drama & Whitney Rose Update → 00:19:31 - RV Fails & Lisa Barlow Lawsuits → 00:25:17 - Bronwyn & Heather Lunch Showdown → 00:27:18 - Mormon Mansion Party Highlights → 00:30:42 - RHOM: Ice Skating Funeral Moment → 00:35:35 - Jami Rice & Girls’ Night Out → 00:37:43 - Boring Dates & Solo Adventures → 00:43:06 - Tookes Takeaway: James Baldwin Quote Check Out LaKendra: → LaKendra's Instagram  → Tookes Takes Instagram → X → LaKendra’s TikTok → YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

35: This week on Tookes Takes I’m breaking down the Real Housewives of Miami…from Kiki’s shady birthday cake to Alexia and Marisol being my “barracudas.” I share thoughts on Lisa and Jody’s relationship, Adriana’s art career, and Julia & Martina’s new additions. Plus, I get real about family, acceptance, and a surprising exchange I had at a Bravo-adjacent mixer.  Topics Discussed: → Kiki’s cake & RHOM drama → Lisa & Jody’s relationship → Adriana’s art career & independence → Family, acceptance & LGBTQ+ lessons → My Bravo-adjacent mixer exchange On This Episode We Cover:  → 00:00:00 - Introduction → 00:00:45 - Message to the FCC → 00:05:42 - OnlyFans & Larsa’s house → 00:09:02 - Shady birthday cake → 00:13:32 - Larsa’s house & RHOA throwback → 00:16:28 - Julia & Martina’s adoption → 00:18:50 - The original aunties → 00:24:36 - Stephanie, Marisol & the plane → 00:28:33 - My Chump Mixer & Jimmy Kimmel → 00:34:07 - Tookes Takeaway: Harmful beliefs Check Out LaKendra: → LaKendra's Instagram  → Tookes Takes Instagram → X → LaKendra’s TikTok → YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

34: I’m back with Real Housewives of Miami and Salt Lake City recaps plus some wedding joy! From celebrating my friend Kelly’s big day and tearing up over the sweetest tribute, to cracking up at Adriana’s birthday math on RHOM, I’ve got plenty to share. I cover Alexia’s messy Spain trip, her complicated family dynamics, and why some of her choices had me side-eyeing. Then we head over to Salt Lake City, where I break down all the chaos of the RV adventure, the diva drama, and the friendships being tested. Topics Discussed: → Wedding chaos, addiction + hoarders → Adriana’s birthday math + Art Basel show (RHOM) → Alexia’s Spain trip + family drama (RHOM) → Salt Lake City RV trip antics + diva dynamics (RHOSLC) On This Episode We Cover:  → 00:00:00 - Introduction  → 00:02:22 - LOVE IS IN AIR  → 00:09:52 - Wedding dates?  → 00:12:02 - Addiction & hoarders  → 00:14:36 - RHOM: Marisol + Adriana’s Birthday → 00:21:02 - RHOSLC: RV life + SWAT raid  → 00:27:08 - RHOSLC: Engagements, Gym Dates, + Polygamy   → 00:29:53 - Tookes Takeaway: Racism & hatred has to end  Check Out LaKendra: → LaKendra's Instagram  → Tookes Takes Instagram → X → LaKendra’s TikTok → YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

33: This week I’m catching you up on everything from Housewives drama to real life lessons. I break down my guest spot on So Bad It’s Good with Ryan Bailey, share some behind-the-scenes SNL stories, and open up about chasing dreams and celebrating achievements. Then it’s Housewives time: we’re talking RHOM, Stephanie’s baby dilemma, Adriana and ageism, Lisa vs Larsa, and Julia’s family drama.  Topics Discussed: → Anastasia Beverly Hills Cameo → Dating Advice Over 30 → SNL Behind the Scenes → RHOM Stephanie Baby Dilemma → RHOM Lisa vs Larsa Feud On This Episode We Cover: → 00:00:00 - Welcome and life updates → 00:01:26 - Ranking the best Housewives franchises → 00:02:28 - So Bad It’s Good & SNL stories → 00:08:35 - Lakendra Lore → 00:12:36 - Milestones, faith, and future goals → 00:17:15 - RHOM Anastasia Beverly Hills cameo → 00:22:31 - Ageism, Adriana, & insecure men → 00:28:21 - Lisa vs. Larsa, Jody, and Julia’s family tension → 00:32:34 - Dating rules: if he wanted to, he would → 00:35:09 - Tooks Takeaway: You deserve to be chosen Check Out LaKendra: → LaKendra's Instagram  → Tookes Takes Instagram → X → LaKendra’s TikTok → YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

32: I’m coming at you fresh off a Labor Day full of naps talking Real Housewives of Miami and Orange County. I’m covering Stephanie’s private jet antics in Spain to Julia’s godfather drama, Marysol’s flamingo dresses, and the Barracuda stirring up trouble. Then we hit OC, where lie detectors, Persian New Year parties, and lingering “naked wasted” scandals have everyone talking…race, lies, and drama included.  Topics Discussed: → Real Housewives of Miami Spain trip drama and private jet etiquette → Real Housewives of Orange County lie detector party and controversies → “Naked Wasted” scandal recap and truth behind the rumors → Race, prejudice, and optics in reality TV interactions → Weekend adventures, socializing tips, and meeting new people at parties On This Episode We Cover:  → 00:00:00 - Introduction  → 00:01:27 - RHOM: Spain Trip → 00:05:47 - Stephanie the fun killer  → 00:06:40 - White lotus & gay godfathers  → 00:08:32 - Marysol’s facetime  → 00:10:47 - Unpacking “Ratchet”  → 00:15:02 - RHOC: Naked Wasted  → 00:17:13 - Shannon’s dad, racism, & lies  → 00:23:53 - Are the housewives racist?  → 00:25:46 - The lie detector test → 00:32:01 - Jenn & “Race Crap” → 00:34:13 - I’m done with RHOC  → 00:34:38 - Tookes Takeaway: GET OUTSIDE!  Check Out LaKendra: → LaKendra's Instagram  → Tookes Takes Instagram → X → LaKendra’s TikTok → YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

31: This week I’m covering the chaos of Housewives parenting, clout-chasing scandals, and fashion flops that only Bravo could deliver. From Tamra’s messy Instagram antics to Julia and Martina juggling their new adoptees, the drama is nonstop. Katie Janela’s suspicious dinner party behavior has everyone side-eyeing, and with a lie detector test on the horizon, reputations are about to be tested. Topics Discussed: → Housewives parenting struggles and family drama → Tamra Judge Instagram antics → Emily Simpson interview looks → Marbella trip & Adriana’s art tour  On This Episode We Cover:  → 00:00:00 - Introduction  → 00:00:55 - RHOC: Is Tamra Quitting The Show? → 00:02:44 - Revisiting Reality Checked  → 00:05:16 - RHOC: Highlights  → 00:09:15 - Tamra’s Therapy Session  → 00:13:54 - Emily, New Orleans, & Mom Guilt  → 00:17:01 - Naked Wasted  → 00:23:24 - RHOM: Spain trip → 00:31:37 - Lisa’s Notes & Unfollowing Marcus  → 00:34:56 - Tookes Takeaway: Sobriety  Check Out LaKendra: → LaKendra's Instagram  → Tookes Takes Instagram → X → LaKendra’s TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

30: The OC reunion brought chaos, contradictions, and plenty of receipts. I break down Shannon refusing to forgive Katie while giving Tamara a pass, Heather caught in her own denial, and Tamara stirring the pot again. We also dive into the Real Housewives of Miami episodes, complete with the wild “Ay Dios Mío” moments, and revisit the infamous “Naked Wasted” scandal.  Topics Discussed: → Shannon vs. Katie: selective forgiveness drama → Tamara’s lies and manipulations exposed → Real Housewives of Miami “Ay Dios Mío” moments → Revisiting the “Naked Wasted” scandal → Life lesson: focus on yourself, not validation On This Episode We Cover:  → 00:00:00 - Introduction  → 00:01:03 - Kensday & The Chumps  → 00:03:05 - Baby showers, drag shows, & weekend fun  → 00:05:41 - RHOM: Ay Dios Mio moments 16:17 -  → 00:17:36 - RHOC: Highlights → 00:21:40 - Racial differences in Real Housewives → 00:24:34 - Shannon vs Tamara  → 00:27:31 - Naked wasted revisited  → 00:30:11 - Tookes Takeaway: Focus on yourself! Check Out LaKendra: → LaKendra's Instagram  → Tookes Takes Instagram → X → LaKendra’s TikTok → YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

29: This week, I’m joined by Rebecca Lieb from Ghost Town and Vanderpodcalypse Rules to break down The Valley reunion and the messiest drama of the season. We get into Jax Taylor’s abusive behavior toward Brittany Cartwright, the missing ring camera footage and the domestic violence disclaimer Bravo ran at the end of episodes. We talk about Janet’s meddling, her hypocrisy around substance use, and why she might be more concerned with her own image than justice.  → Domestic Violence Hotline | 1-800-799-SAFE  → Sexual Assault Hotline | | 1-800-656-HOPE  Topics Discussed: → Jax Taylor’s abusive behavior and Bravo’s domestic violence disclaimer → Janet’s hypocrisy, meddling, and substance use accusations → Reunion fashion critique, including Kristen Doute and Nia Moore → Danny’s drinking, SA allegations, and reality TV boundaries On This Episode We Cover:  → 00:00:00 - Introduction  → 00:02:10 - Worst of The Valley cast  → 00:03:06 - Jax and Brittany  → 00:05:09 - Bravo & DV → 00:12:24 - Karens vs Janets  → 00:14:54 - Jax ringcam footage  → 00:22:22 - Men only get worse  → 00:26:50 - Jax’s fake rehab → 00:30:37 - Danny & Nia → 00:37:10 - Defining SA → 00:42:37 - Next season predictions  Check Out Rebecca: → Instagram → Vanderpodcalypse Now Podcast  Check Out LaKendra: → LaKendra's Instagram  → Tookes Takes Instagram → X → LaKendra’s TikTok → YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

28: In this episode of Tookes Takes, I unpack the latest drama from Real Housewives of Miami and Orange County. From tense friendships and fake tears to social media fights and messy double dates, I call out who’s being real and who’s playing the victim. Plus, I talk about the cancer diagnosis controversy and why kindness might be the only way forward. Topics Discussed: → Heather vs Tamara feud → Tamara’s fake tears over friend’s cancer → Jen’s “single white female” callout of Tamara → Gina’s housewarming and Brady Bunch kids → Tamara’s New Orleans meltdown and apology drama On This Episode We Cover:  → 00:00:00 - Introduction  → 00:03:38 - Icing Guerdy out?  → 00:01:57 - RHOM: Divorce trip,  → 00:04:54 - The elderly double date  → 00:13:13 - The reunion seating chart  → 00:15:47 - Adriana vs Julia & more  → 00:18:10 - RHOC: Gina’s housewarming → 00:23:44 - All about the children  → 00:28:51 - The New Orleans trip  → 00:30:36 - Tooke’s Takeaway: Don’t Be Evil Check Out LaKendra: → LaKendra's Instagram  → Tookes Takes Instagram → X → LaKendra’s TikTok → YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

27: In this episode, I’m back with the latest Housewives drama, and trust me, it’s messy. From Tamra’s shady antics to Jen’s glow-up and the truth about her therapy sessions, we’re talking about a yacht, and some shade thrown (and caught). Plus, I'm sharing how I conquered a big fear of mine… And let’s just say, it wasn’t a smooth ride, but it was a hell of a journey.  Topics Discussed: → Tamra’s lies exposed on RHOC → Jen calls out Tamra’s therapy and surgery → Stephanie vs. Alexia yacht drama → Overcoming stage fright in standup comedy → Trolling with the Homies: Using dating apps for comedy On This Episode We Cover:  → 00:00:00 - Introduction  → 00:01:48 - Mom jeans & fitness era  → 00:05:14 - BBLs  → 00:05:48 - Sex and The City → 00:11:01 - Kim Cattrall’s texts → 00:11:05 - RHOM: Loca Lesbians  → 00:14:49 - Stephanie Shojaee’s ALLEGED tea → 00:23:47 - Yacht battle → 00:34:31 - RHOM: Mid season trailer  → 00:36:11 - Jen vs Tamra  → 00:49:18 - Tookes Takeaway: Stand Up!  Check Out LaKendra: → LaKendra's Instagram  → Tookes Takes Instagram → X → LaKendra’s TikTok → YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

26: This week, I’m breaking down everything from my latest Jeff Lewis Live moment…yes, I drank breast milk on air…to why I'm staying on this dating strike (for now). I’m sounding off on Real Housewives of Miami and why I’m riding hard for Guerdy. Over in the OC, I’ve got thoughts on Jen and Ryan, that student loan drama, and why I might need to move to Orange County and become an honorary auntie. Plus, a recap of a night out that reminded me why I don’t date bartenders anymore. Topics Discussed: → Breast milk on Jeff Lewis Live → Dating strike update → Team Guerdy on RHOM → Jen and the student loan drama (RHOC) → Manifesting a Housewives husband On This Episode We Cover:  → 00:00:00 - I drank breast milk  → 00:05:07 - Patti & Jeff Lewis Live  → 00:09:15 - Girls night, barbacks, & niece advice   → 00:16:31 - Dating phases  → 00:19:25 - RHOM Karma - Julia & Martina adoption  → 00:21:22 - Egg freezing, donation & surrogacy  → 00:24:51 - Team Guerdy  → 00:29:51 - Julia is LYING  → 00:32:20 - Marisol’s double standards  → 00:36:23 - Tamra’s gofundme thoughts  → 00:39:07 - Heather’s party  → 00:47:38 - Shannon vs Katie  → 00:48:55 - Apology 101  → 00:52:01 - The therapy is NOT working  → 00:53:40 - Tooke’s Takeaway: THE LORD WILL FIGHT YOUR BATTLES  Check Out LaKendra: → LaKendra's Instagram  → Tookes Takes Instagram → X → LaKendra’s TikTok → YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

25: This week I break down the messiest moments from RHOM and RHOC, from the Lar/Lisa feud finally cooling off to Julia prepping for adoption while acting absolutely unhinged. Over in the OC, lymphatic massages get weird, Katie’s secret recording stirs the pot, and Tamra keeps proving she's the villain.  Topics Discussed: → Did Katie Really Record Shannon's Meltdown on RHOC? → Julia’s Adoption Journey on RHOM Raises Concerns → Tamra Judge vs. Gretchen Rossi: Podcast Drama and Family Tension → Kandi Burruss Housewife Achievement Award On This Episode We Cover:  → 00:00:00 - Introduction  → 00:00:23 - Coldplay kiss cam → 00:04:08 - This week’s craziest RHOM moments  → 00:20:42 - RHOC: Golden Door fallout  → 00:35:35 - THE voicenote  → 00:36:58 - Tookes Takeaway: Kandi Burress  Check Out LaKendra: → LaKendra's Instagram  → Tookes Takes Instagram → X → LaKendra’s TikTok → YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

24: This week I’m breaking down the latest from RHOM and RHOC. From Stephanie’s suspicious luxury dog condo to Julia’s weak apology and Lisa’s two-hour bus delay, I’ve got thoughts. Plus, Alexia’s toga party?  Then over in the OC, I’m talking Emily’s yelling, Katie’s receipts, and why Heather Dubrow still isn’t giving what she thinks she is. Oh, and I’m officially on a dating strike... unless a cute yogi changes my mind.  Topics Discussed: → Stephanie RHOM dog condo controversy → Julia and Guerdy ’s confrontation on Real Housewives of Miami → Lisa Hochstein’s chronic lateness and luxury lifestyle → Emily Simpson’s parenting and RHOC family drama → Katie’s RHOC reunion receipts and Heather Dubrow critique On This Episode We Cover:  → 00:00:00 - Introduction  → 00:00:35 - Love Island Finale!  → 00:05:51 - My Good Side by Scheana Shay → 00:09:56 - Top 10 The Real Housewives of Miami moments  → 00:20:36 - The latest feud  → 00:27:51 - Kelly Dodd & chump con  → 00:31:16 - RHOC’s Emily Simpson  → 00:39:07 - Emily, Gina , & Katie → 00:43:50 - The Golden Door retreat   → 00:47:35 - Tooke’s Takeaway - DATING STRIKE  Check Out LaKendra: → LaKendra's Instagram  → Tookes Takes Instagram → X → LaKendra’s TikTok → YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices