Torrid Souls

Just when you thought you knew us, we give you this!  This Wayback Playback, goes waaay back, to our very first time being interviewed.  Mr. & Mrs. Tango, of the Two Or More To Tango Podcast, were so intrigued by us - this same-sex female couple, new on the scene, and new to the lifestyle podcasting world - that they invited us to be on their show.  At this point we were so new, we didn't even have any episodes! (Only promises.) So with their permission, we are re-releasing their Episode 24:  An Interview with Torrid Souls, from October 2018, sandwiched between the usual Tori and Soul banter.  Enjoy this fusion episode as a cooldown to the last two action-packed episodes of slutty gang banging bad (in a good way) behaviour.  In this episode you'll get to hear a more cerebral side of us, and learn more about us in a way that we haven't really shared on our own podcast.  Interviews have a way of doing that, don't they!?!    Support our podcast at our newest spot, on Only Fans, OnlyFans.com/torridsouls. Our OnlyFans page will be the ONLY place to see the behind-the-scenes pictures of our travels.  It's free to follow us, and we'll also offer some specific (more revealing) posts as paid posts.  Thank you for supporting our podcast!   You can also donate any monetary amount through paypal.me/TorridSouls.   Our Torrid Souls' Sexy Smart Bookshelf, features a book called "Warrior Goddess Training: Become the Woman You Were Meant to Be" by HeatherAsh Amara.  We've partnered with Audible to allow you to download it as an audiobook for free: TorridSouls.com/book   Come discover your own torrid soul with us.  We'd love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments.  Hello@TorridSouls.com 1-647-547-5512 Twitter, Instagram, OnlyFans & Reddit @TorridSouls     Leave us a review, and we will read it in an upcoming episode.   Like Podcasters?  Then you'll LOVE Podcast-a-Palooza in Miami, Florida May 2021.  Podcast-a-palooza.com   Thinking of going to Desire or Temptation?  Consider using our links.  It doesn't cost you any more and helps to support the podcast. TorridSouls.com/desire TorridSouls.com/temptation   Join us and 6000 other open-minded sexies on the biggest swingers cruise ever Nov 14-21 2021 TorridSouls.com/bliss   Find links to the Podcasts and Resources mentioned in this episode by visiting our Show Notes page: TorridSouls.com/27

Ever fantasized about a Gang Bang?  Well, at Club M4 in Toronto, it's a reality...  and it's called Ladies Choice GB Party!  What it is, is a very well organized and very safe event that allows women to choreograph their ultimate multiple-partner fantasies. Some women want several partners all at once.  While others may prefer one at a time (sequentially).  On this Sunday afternoon in the Summer of 2019, 8 women (including Soul) were the special guests for this event.  It starts with a Meet & Greet in the club's Library Lounge, at 3:00 in the afternoon! And much like Speed-Dating,  those interested in participating introduce themselves to the Ladies Choice women to get a chance at earning a wristband. These wristbands are the invitations to play with that women.  Each woman gets her own designated area, with their Spotter (a pleasure Tori took on).  Those chosen must show their matching wristband to the Spotter in order to participate.  And since the rules for each woman vary, the Spotter was to ensure that condoms were used, and rules and boundaries were respected. Couples and singles were also welcomed to attend, voyeur and join in (if selected).  And now that we've set the scene for this episode, strap yourselves in, press play and enjoy this fast-paced full-on recount of a sexy, sensual and slippery cocks-galore event  that ended with a bang!   Support our podcast through our newest spot on Only Fans OnlyFans.com/torridsouls  Our OnlyFans page will be the ONLY place to see our behind the scenes pictures from our travels.  Free to follow us, and some specific, more revealing posts will be paid posts.  Thank you for your support! You can also donate any amount of monetary support through paypal.me/TorridSouls   Our Torrid Souls' Sexy Smart Bookshelf, features a book called "The Highly Sensitive Person's Survival Guide: Essential Skills for Living Well in an Overstimulating World" by Ted Zeff.  We've partnered with Audible to allow you to download it as an audiobook for free: TorridSouls.com/book   Come discover your own torrid soul with us.  We'd love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments.  Hello@TorridSouls.com 1-647-547-5512 Twitter, Instagram, OnlyFans & Reddit @TorridSouls     Leave us a review, and we will read it in an upcoming episode.   Like Podcasters?  Then you'll LOVE Podcast-a-Palooza in Miami, Florida May 2021.  Podcast-a-palooza.com    Thinking of going to Desire or Temptation?  Consider using our links.  It doesn't cost you any more and helps to support the podcast. TorridSouls.com/desire TorridSouls.com/temptation   Join us and 6000 other open-minded sexies on the biggest swingers cruise ever Nov 14-21 2021 TorridSouls.com/bliss   Find links to the Podcasts and Resources mentioned in this episode by visiting our Show Notes page: TorridSouls.com/26

Vegas, Baby! It's Sluts Gone Wild at Fusion and Dirty Vegas - TS25   Las Vegas! It's legendary. It's notorious. It's infamous. It's outrageous.  Yes! and "what happens in Vegas...." well, you're gonna find out! Because when you're Tori & Soul and you have a podcast, what happens in Vegas is definitely going to be outrageous and will surely not stay in Vegas. In this episode we spent 3 weeks DOING Vegas.  We did Fusion Vegas.  We did Dirty Vegas. We did The Strip.  We did the Desert.  We did Old Vegas and Freemont Street and before leaving Las Vegas we confirm that those rumours of debauchery and slutty pleasures in Vegas ARE true!  Let's just say it involved excessive indulgence, getting wicked in a vanilla bar, a Taxi Orgy, Hooters, and leaving 3 worn out football players in our wake.   Support our podcast through our newest spot on Only Fans OnlyFans.com/torridsouls  Our OnlyFans page will be the ONLY place to see our behind the scenes pictures from our travels.  Free to follow us, and some specific, more revealing posts will be paid posts.  Thank you for your support!   Our Torrid Souls' Sexy Smart Bookshelf, features a book called "Who Moved My Cheese" by Dr. Spencer Johnson.  We've partnered with Audible to allow you to download it as an audiobook for free: TorridSouls.com/book   Come discover your own torrid soul with us.  We'd love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments.  Hello@TorridSouls.com 1-647-547-5512 Twitter, Instagram & Reddit @TorridSouls     Leave us a review, and we will read it in an upcoming episode.   Valentine's in Niagara 2021 is now open for registration, so why not join us for a little Canadian indoor tropical weekend at Valentine's in Niagara Feb 5-7, 2021  TorridSouls.com/vin  Just let them know if your registration notes that we sent ya!   Like Podcasters?  Then you'll LOVE Podcast-a-Palooza in Miami, Florida May 2021.  TorridSouls.com/PCAP    Thinking of going to Desire or Temptation?  Consider using our links.  It doesn't cost you any more and helps to support the podcast. TorridSouls.com/desire TorridSouls.com/temptation   Join us and 6000 other open-minded sexies on the biggest swingers cruise ever Nov 14-21 2021 TorridSouls.com/bliss   or through following any of our Recommended Products and Services links at TorridSouls.com/recommend

As promised, here it is... the interview  by The Priory Society Podcast!  We stop by their LA studio and what you'll hear is a candid, boobs-on-the-table interview, by the fun and feisty, Eros and Isis, who try to squeeze us in new ways.  Find out what  they discover and why we're dubbed, The Size Queens!  And since 2020 is a No-Go Zone for travel adventures, it made sense to put this REMIXED episode into our queue as we're filling your ears with all of our 2019 travel adventures.   We've been interviewed by other podcasters before this one (and perhaps we'll release some of those in the future).  For now (if you just can't wait) feel free to go find, and listen to, Normalizing Non-Monogamy EP49, Uncomfortable EP20, Two or More to Tango EP24, and EP31 (Special Edition: Ladies of the Lifestyle LOL PT1 of 3),  Average Swingers EP108, and EP115 (Ladies of the Lifestyle PT2 0f 3), Swinger Diaries Bonus EP78 (Ladies of the Lifestyle LOL Pt3 of 3) and Just Keep Swinging EP25.  Each time we've been interviewed, we get surprised at what they pull out of us.  It's different every time.   To give you the timeline context of this episode, what happened in this one was right after the content we shared in EP19 "Thank You, Next".  In that episode we were just stood-up, and for the first time, by a guy we tried to meet up with from a lifestyle site.  Go ahead and listen to that one, too, if you're curious.  We refer to it, briefly, in this episode.   For this episode, we're chatting over drinks, after earlier, having dinner and drinks at a local restaurant.  We could say that we followed them back to their place. Technically Eros followed us - unable to resist the bootyview of the 3 hot ladies he was spending the evening with.     This is a super playful episode!   Eros and Isis gave us permission to republish this for you, and if you like what you hear check out their podcast at PriorySociety.com.  You'll find a fun and fascination mix of great tips to be successful in the lifestyle...  along with (basically) erotica-type play-by-plays of some of their sexual adventures!   Support our podcast through our Patreon page Patreon.com/torridsouls or our newest spot on Only Fans OnlyFans.com/torridsouls  Our OnlyFans page will be the ONLY place to see our behind the scenes pictures from out travels.  Free to follow us, and some specific, more revealing posts will be paid posts.  Thank you for your support!   Our Torrid Souls' Sexy Smart Bookshelf, features a book called "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life" by Mark Manson.  We've partnered with Audible to allow you to download it as an audiobook for free: TorridSouls.com/book   Come discover your own torrid soul with us.  We'd love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments.  Hello@TorridSouls.com 1-647-547-5512 Twitter, Instagram & Reddit @TorridSouls     Leave us a review, and we will read it in an upcoming episode.   Valentine's in Niagara 2021 is now open for registration, so why not join us for a little Canadian indoor tropical weekend at Valentine's in Niagara Feb 5-7, 2021  TorridSouls.com/vin  Just let them know if your registration notes that we sent ya!   Like Podcasters?  Then you'll LOVE Podcast-a-Palooza in Miami, Florida May 2021.  TorridSouls.com/PCAP    Thinking of going to Desire or Temptation?  Consider using our links.  It doesn't cost you any more and helps to support the podcast. TorridSouls.com/desire TorridSouls.com/temptation   Join us and 6000 other open-minded sexies on the biggest swingers cruise ever Nov 14-21 2021 TorridSouls.com/bliss   or through following any of our Recommended Products and Services links at TorridSouls.com/recommend

Boobies! Boobies! Boobies! Everybody loves boobies... and in this episode we talk all about augmenting them.  Some want bigger than what they already have, while others want to get back what they once had. Those lovable and pesky little creatures (aka kids) can certainly change the landscape of our bodies, and breastfeeding them can literally suck the stuffing right out of those glorious ta-tas. "I want my boobs back!" and there is nothing the gym can do to help. Admittedly, the stigma of the label, "fake boobs", especially in mainstream society, had deterred Soul, from considering making any changes.  But being in the supportive Lifestyle community, changed all that.  So when we surveyed our listeners to find out how they felt about breasts, the consensus was, "whatever makes someone feel sexy is all that matters".  That was the final inspiration, and motivation, for saying, "Let's do it!"    If you've ever considered breast augmentation and wondered what it's like to get this done, this episode is for you! Join us as we talk candidly,  in typical Torrid Souls style, as it's all happening, and literally, as we're feeling it!  We'll share the whole process with you. From way before surgery, with all the thoughts and feelings, excitement and fears, to way after surgery, when things have settled in. Find out how the hands-on research (heh heh) helped, what type of augmentation was the right one for Soul, and why we chose the surgeon that we did. We discuss implant  size and placement - under the muscle versus over the muscle - what it's like just 3 hours after surgery, on Day 3, and then 3 months post-op.    So raise your hand and promise us this:  from now on, if you're curious about someone's breasts, don't ask them if they're real or fake.  All breasts are real!  Some are natural the way they are and some have been augmented!  And if you want to find out for yourself say, "May I ask you about your breasts? They look great! Are they natural or augmented because I'm considering having mine done."  Most women are happy to help.  And guys, never ask a woman if her breasts are real or fake, just because you wanna know.  Truth is, you don't need to know, just enjoy them!    Support our podcast through our Patreon page Patreon.com/torridsouls or our newest spot on Only Fans OnlyFans.com/torridsouls  Our OnlyFans page will be the ONLY place to see Soul's Before and After pics as well as her Boob Celebration posts.  Free to follow us, and these specific posts will be paid posts.  Thank you for your support!   Our Torrid Souls' Sexy Smart Bookshelf, features a book called "The Girl With the Lower Back Tattoo" by Amy Schumer.  We've partnered with Audible to allow you to download it as an audiobook for free: TorridSouls.com/book   Come discover your own torrid soul with us.  We'd love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments.  Hello@TorridSouls.com 1-647-547-5512 Twitter, Instagram & Reddit @TorridSouls     Leave us a review, and we will read it in an upcoming episode.   Valentine's in Niagara 2021 is now open for registration, so why not join us for a little Canadian indoor tropical weekend at Valentine's in Niagara Feb 5-7, 2021  TorridSouls.com/vin  Just let them know if your registration notes that we sent ya!   Like Podcasters?  Then you'll LOVE Podcast-a-Palooza in Miami, Florida May 2021.  TorridSouls.com/PCAP    Thinking of going to Desire or Temptation?  Consider using our links.  It doesn't cost you any more and helps to support the podcast. TorridSouls.com/desire TorridSouls.com/temptation   Join us and 6000 other open-minded sexies on the biggest swingers cruise ever Nov 14-21 2021 TorridSouls.com/bliss   or through following any of our Recommended Products and Services links at TorridSouls.com/recommend

Here's a wayback-playback for you! Recorded about 18 months prior to this, this dose of Torrid Souls is the perfect follow-up to our last episode where we talked about your sexual wiring and how to feed that to have even better sex! In this episode, we recap the spontaneous and completely satisfying playtime we had at a private birthday party in a Victorian Mansion in Toronto. In typical Torrid Souls style, we recap the successes, the morning after. Join us in bed as we recount our encounter with a single guy we nicknamed Mr. Hips.  We met Mr. Hips at the party that night, and several hours of fun and many orgasms later, we were the last people to leave the party (somewhere around 4 am)! What we didn't know then was that we were describing our satisfaction with this play-session through what we now know as our sexual wiring. You'll get to to hear why the whole experience was such a total turn-on for Tori, as an Energetic, and how Soul, as a Sensual & a Sexual, enjoyed one mind-blowing orgasm after another. If you haven't yet listened to EP21- VIN2020: Tell Me What You Want. What You Really, Really Want, go find out what we're talking about.  Knowing your own sexual wiring and how to feed how others are wired is what makes sex for you, and them, even better.   Our Torrid Souls' Sexy Smart Bookshelf, features a book called "White Fragility: Why It's So Hard for White People to Talk About Racism"  We've partnered with Audible to allow you to download it as an audiobook for free: TorridSouls.com/book   Come discover your own torrid soul with us.  We'd love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments.  Hello@TorridSouls.com 1-647-547-5512 Twitter, Instagram & Reddit @TorridSouls     Leave us a review, and we will read it in an upcoming episode.   The workshop we did in Episode 21 was at Valentine's in Niagara 2020.  2021 is now open for registration, so why not join us for a little Canadian indoor tropical weekend at Valentine's in Niagara Feb 5-7, 2021  TorridSouls.com/vin  Just let them know if your registration notes that we sent ya!   Like Podcasters?  Then you'll LOVE Podcast-a-Palooza in Miami, Florida.  This event, that was supposed to happen already, has been postponed due to COVID.  It has been rescheduled for Oct 9-12, 2020.  TorridSouls.com/PCAP    Thinking of going to Desire or Temptation?  Consider using our links.  It doesn't cost you any more and helps to support the podcast. TorridSouls.com/desire TorridSouls.com/temptation   Join us and 6000 other open-minded sexies on the biggest swingers cruise ever Nov 14-21 2021 TorridSouls.com/bliss   Support our podcast through our Patreon page TorridSouls.com/patreon   or through following any of our Recommended Products and Services links at TorridSouls.com/recommend

Our listeners already know that we are pretty clear about finding (and getting) what we want in the lifestyle so join us for this episode, recorded in front of a live audience at Valentine's in Niagara. Have even better sex. Get what you really, really want. Yes!.. Yes!.. Yes! Come and get it - the answer is in this episode. Getting what you want is based on your wiring, and in this episode you'll not only discover what your pattern is (with a quick and easy quiz), you'll also learn how to feed that pattern (and your partner's too).  Wait! there's more.  Good news... once you know what you want, you can get it!  Check us out this VIN2020 episode and learn how to get what you really, really want.  Come get yourself some muy sexy results.   Resources from this episode: Take the online Erotic Blueprint Quiz: TorridSouls.com/blueprint Meet our Cannabis Sensuality Coach, Carli-Jo and sign up for her free mini-course about how to thrive in isolation with your partner: TorridSouls.com/coach   Our new segment is called Torrid Souls' Sexy Smart Bookshelf, and this episode features a book called "Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World that Can't Stop Talking"  We've partnered with Audible to allow you to download it as an audiobook for free: TorridSouls.com/book   Come discover your own torrid soul with us.  We'd love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments.  Hello@TorridSouls.com 1-647-547-5512 Twitter, Instagram & Reddit @TorridSouls     Leave us a review, and we will read it in an upcoming episode.   This episode is a recording we did at Valentine's in Niagara 2020.  2021 is now open for registration, so why not join us for a little Canadian indoor tropical weekend at Valentine's in Niagara Feb 5-7, 2021  TorridSouls.com/vin  Just let them know if your registration notes that we sent ya!   Like Podcasters?  Then you'll LOVE Podcast-a-Palooza in Miami, Florida.  This event, that was supposed to happen already, has been postponed due to COVID.  It has been rescheduled for Oct 9-12, 2020.  TorridSouls.com/PCAP    Thinking of going to Desire or Temptation?  Consider using our links.  It doesn't cost you any more and helps to support the podcast. TorridSouls.com/desire TorridSouls.com/temptation   Join us and 6000 other open-minded sexies on the biggest swingers cruise ever Nov 14-21 2021 TorridSouls.com/bliss   Support our podcast through our Patreon page TorridSouls.com/patreon   or through following any of our Recommended Products and Services TorridSouls.com/recommend

It's our 1st anniversary episode. The 1st anniversary of our podcast, and our 1st wedding anniversary too!  In this episode we're at Temptation Cancun Resort: the one-of-a-kind playground for grown-ups - one of our favourite places to play.  We're booked into the resort for 10 nights, and we spend 3, of the last 4 nights, with the same guy! It's a first for us.  Let's call it a spontaneous repeat-worthy experience.  Yes, he was that good!  So it's the morning after session #3.  We're fuck-drunk and still in bed!  A perfect time to record... right?... Yes!  So we did. This is a feel-good-filled-with-an-insanely-sexy-amount-of-fun episode. Listen in as we tell you all about our spicy and adventurous Temptation Experience!   Come discover your own torrid soul with us.  We'd love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments.  Hello@TorridSouls.com 1-647-547-5512 Twitter, Instagram & Reddit @TorridSouls     Leave us a review, and we will read it in an upcoming episode.   Valentine's will be here before you know it, so why not join us for a little Canadian indoor tropical weekend at Valentine's in Niagara Feb 7-9, 2019  TorridSouls.com/vin  Just let them know if your registration notes that we sent ya!   Like Podcasters?  Then you'll LOVE Podcast-a-Palooza.  There are a whole bunch of us getting together with our fabulous listeners in Miami May 15-18, 2020 to take over a hotel and as Sapphic Swingers like to say "to Fuck Shit Up"  TorridSouls.com/PCAP    Register for Naughty in N'awlins July 8-12, 2020 and come party with us!  TorridSouls.com/nin   Swim the day (who are we kidding -- float and drink) and dance the night away with us at Temptation Cancun Oct 9-19, 2019  TorridSouls.com/temptation   Join us and 6000 other open-minded sexies on the biggest swingers cruise ever Nov 14-21 2021 TorridSouls.com/bliss   Support our podcast through our Patreon page TorridSouls.com/patreon   or through following any of our Recommended Products and Services TorridSouls.com/recommend

In this episode we're in San Diego, California. We make plans to meet up with a hot, single guy. Great profile. Fabulous reviews on Kasidie - the online adult community for sexually adventurous people. We text back and forth for days. Excitement builds. We set the day, the time, the place. "Let's meet for drinks."  We keep in touch, even on that day.  Now we're getting ready. The phone dings. It's him! (It's also 30 minutes before we agreed to meet.) "Sorry, I made other plans."................ WTF!!! Did we just get dumped? Who does this? Why? No one enjoys rejection and Tori is hit hard by this. This time it's Soul to the emotional rescue.  Find out how we still rise from the ashes of rejection by working through the raw emotions it brings up.   Come discover your own torrid soul with us.  We'd love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments.  Hello@TorridSouls.com 1-647-547-5512 Twitter, Instagram & Reddit @TorridSouls     Leave us a review, and we will read it on an upcoming episode.   Valentine's will be here before you know it, so join us for a Canadian (indoor) tropical weekend at Valentine's in Niagara Feb 7-9, 2019  TorridSouls.com/vin  Let them know in your registration notes that we sent ya!   Do ya like Podcasters?  Then you'll LOVE Podcast-a-Palooza.  A whole bunch of us podcasters are getting together with our funky listeners in Miami,May 15-18, 2020. We gonna take over a hotel (as Sapphic Swingers like to say) "To Fuck Shit Up"  TorridSouls.com/PCAP    Register for Naughty in N'awlins July 8-12, 2020 and come party with us!  TorridSouls.com/nin   Swim all day (who are we kidding ...float and drink) and dance the night away with us at Temptation Cancun Oct 9-19, 2019  TorridSouls.com/temptation   Join us and 6000 other open-minded sexies on the biggest swingers cruise ever, on The Bliss Cruise, Nov 14-21 2021 TorridSouls.com/bliss   Support our podcast through our Patreon page TorridSouls.com/patreon   or try any of our Recommended Products and Services at TorridSouls.com/recommend

Toronto, with its 5 lifestyle clubs in the area, is the sex club capital of North America.  In this episode we chose The O Zone as the place to be. The perfect place to go to dance the night away or be sexy (or both). On this night we explore a few "firsts".  It was our debut of taking a date to a club - checking in as a trio - and tune in for a few other more intimate, sexy firsts.   We take you for a tour through our favourite Toronto area nightclub-style lifestyle club, and share our adventures with our repeat-worthy playfriend, Batman! Buckle up, as we share more sexy details than you have normally found in our episodes.  Our discussion that stems from this experience is all about asking for what you want ... 'cause, you just might get it!   To learn more about each club in Toronto, check out the blog post by our very good friends at The Monogamish Marriage   Come discover your own torrid soul with us.  We'd love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments.  Hello@TorridSouls.com 1-647-547-5512 Twitter, Instagram & Reddit @TorridSouls     Leave us a review, and we will read it in an upcoming episode.   Register for Naughty in N'awlins 2020 and come party with us!  TorridSouls.com/nin

Your discovery of the lifestyle likely happened at the intersection of someone in the relationship being curious enough, and brave enough to bring up the topic of exploring sexuality in a new way. They now feel comfortable enough to share their desires. The tricky part is that as individuals, we will also have a list of desires that are as unique as we are. And, if the adage, "opposites attract", is true in your relationships, how easily does this further complicate things? You love your partner, so how do you navigate their interests when what they want may not be of interest to you? How do you support your partner with something that is on the top of their list when it isn't even on your list? In this episode Tori & Soul are having another CarTalk. This time it's about promiscuity and drinking and fantasies, and having your partner support it all. Here goes another emotional discussion, when one person is, clearly, more highly charged, and the other is more rational. We wanted to share this discussion so that others could hear a demonstration of how partners can support one another, in their lifestyle journey, as they open up and uncovering what truly pleases them. Listen and discover how to embrace the understanding that, "what one person does, really has nothing to do the the other person" - which is the opposite of what many people are taught to believe about relationships. Supporting your partner (while having established agreements about behaviours in place) is more likely to bring you closer to each other, rather than weakening your connection - the opposite to what people often fear. Come discover your own torrid soul with us.  We'd love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments.  Hello@TorridSouls.com 1-647-547-5512 Twitter and Instagram @TorridSouls    Register for Naughty in N'awlins 2020 and come party with us!  TorridSouls.com/nin

Here it is!... the everything you didn't know you wanted to know about being bisexual in the lifestyle. Find out what it's really like from the perspective of a bi guy, a bi gal and as a bi couple. Join us for our first-ever interview as we meet up with the intelligent and eloquent Jamal, from The Everything Sexy Show and The 2nd Cuming Show. Jamal is a rarity - an openly bisexual man in the lifestyle. He talks with us about what's so amazing about being a bi guy, as well as his challenges. We talk DP, DVP, consent, and what else to do when you can't get it up. Also, find out just what a bi gal would possibly have as a fantasy. Come discover your own torrid soul with us.  We'd love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments.  Hello@TorridSouls.com 1-647-547-5512 Twitter and Instagram @TorridSouls     Register for Naughty in N'awlins 2020 and come party with us!  TorridSouls.com/nin

The skill of finding play partners, what do you look for?  Is it physical attraction? Is it mental? Emotional? Do need to get to know others?  Do you play and never repeat?  Do you prefer established partners. In the lifestyle, just like in life, there are a variety of vibes and tribes.  It may seem silly, and obvious, to say this... and it is an obvious truth. You may think everyone is in it for the same thing.  We are... aaand we're not.  You will meet some people that you jive with, and just as often, you will encounter those who don't.  People will approach you strictly interested in the physical activity of sex - for them it may be all about getting as much as possible.  Some people will think this is awesome, while others could be offended by the quick assessment and decision to play or not to play.  You will also meet people who take time getting to know you, before getting to the point of having sex.  Being approached by someone who does not match your vibe can be quite discouraging.  In this episode we will chat about the importance of knowing that, even here, in the lifestyle, you will need to find those you resonate with. Listen in and discover how you can be less discouraged and offended, and much more successful when finding others to play with.     Come discover your own torrid soul with us.  We'd love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments.  Hello@TorridSouls.com 1-647-547-5512 Twitter and Instagram @TorridSouls     Register for Naughty in N'awlins 2020 and come party with us!  TorridSouls.com/nin

Some consider "cougar" a derogatory term.  It's ageist. It's sexist and there's just something slightly tacky about it that many women don't want that label attached to them. Typically, a cougar is defined as an older woman who is primarily attracted to, and may have a sexual relationship with, significantly younger men. In general, the woman is 35 years or older, the man is more than eight years her junior. Cougars were most often described as "desperate", "aggressive" and/or "predators". Well all this uneasiness is shifting. Some younger men get a sexual high from a hottie who is independent, experienced, sexually confident, knows herself and what she likes. Some women are interested in the excitement, energy and enthusiasm of a younger guy who is playful and adventurous and can go all night long.  In this episode we challenge ourselves (and the social norms about age and sexuality) as we embrace the new empowered flavour of this term. And since we do play with younger men, we decided to try something new - attending an organized event that specifically pays tribute to the beauty and sex appeal of women, and the younger men who enjoy this dynamic.  Join us as we join in the Cougars & Cubs Event, a special edition of Oasis Agualounge's under 35 Sass After Class themed Monday nights.   WARNING: Avoid operating machinery while listening to this episode. There is a potential safety hazard due to excessive laughter.   Come discover your own torrid soul with us.  We'd love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments.  Hello@TorridSouls.com 1-647-547-5512 Twitter and Instagram @TorridSouls  

Valentines In Niagara aka VIN, is the largest lifestyle event of it's kind in Canada. TABOTA Events has been offering this to couples for over 10 years. Hundreds of couples, all with the same mindset of wanting to explore the naughty side of their sexuality. Picture this: a complete hotel takeover in the romance capital of Canada.  A weekend of socializing, seminars, workshops, themed dances and pool parties.  Oh my!  In this episode we record a live podcast and this is a unique opportunity to hear what happens when podcasters, Penn & Paige, of Swinger Diaries; bloggers, Her & Him (Kate & Mike) from Monogamish Marriage, and a few lucky listeners come up to our hotel room - Room 369 to answer the question, "What surprised you when you entered the lifestyle?" We talk about podcasting, the talents of squirting, surprise compersion, the most common fantasy of hetero men.   Find out why she said, "Yeah. Go baby. Give it to her hard!" and why you'll never think about Niagara Falls the same way ever again. Never! But first, we give you an update on the latest of what happened when we were denied entrance (as a couple) to Desire Resorts, Riviera Maya.   Click play and come discover your own torrid soul with us.  We'd love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments.  Hello@TorridSouls.com 1-647-547-5512 Twitter, Instagram & Reddit @TorridSouls     We have tons of Lifestyle travel planned, and YOU can join us!  Come party with Torrid Souls!  Use this link to see our travel schedule and to join us: TorridSouls.com/travel   Leave us a review, and we will read it in an upcoming episode.