Tough Conversations with David Wood

Our mission is Thriving Companies, Great Leaders. Avoiding Tough Conversations as leaders keeps us stuck and small, and is horrendously expensive. Our teams and companies are less engaged, experiencing conflict, and sometimes even quitting. But having Tough Conversations with courage and skill can become the defining moments of our careers, our relationships, and our lives. And employees become happier, thriving contributors who want to stick around because they love their job. David Wood talks with thought leaders like Byron Katie and Jack Canfield, top CEOs, and even prison inmates, to help you identify your Tough-Conversations Waiting-to-Happen, and to have those conversations with confidence and skill. So instead of the conversations blowing up in your face, you will artfully transform them into landmark events that expand your life, business, career, team and company. Tough Conversations = Extraordinary Work Results + Life Results. "The gold lies just on the other side of those scary interactions." More at http://playforreal.life Key topics: leadership training, team building, engagement, difficult conversations, crucial conversations, team coaching, corporate coaching, executive coaching, team training.

Be The Bad-Ass Leader People Want To Follow

I was recently interviewed about my new book by Kathryn Thompson, host of Be the Sought After Entrepreneur. We had an exciting conversation about my book, Mouse in the Room, and I went over some key points on being the bad-ass leader people want to follow! We discuss: How to have radical personal transformation. The RIGHT way to say what's on your mind so you don't have regrets. Your roadmap to truth. How to take advantage of the 3D Process. Create the space for what's truly meant to come to you. A request for help! If it resonates, we would love for you to be part of the mouse naming revolution! Here's how you can do that: Get the book at Mouse in the Room or Amazon.   (Psst! There are some amazing bonuses for you!) If you think Mouse in the Room deserves 5 stars, please leave a review on Amazon. Post on social media that you got the book. Mouse naming is hard to do in isolation and easier if everyone does it! Let your friends have the opportunity to mouse name as well. We have some awesome promotional content and assets you can use on our site. Kathryn Thompson is an award-winning marketing and communications expert, and the Founder of Creatively Owned. đŸŽ€ For show notes and past guests, please visit http://focus.ceo/podcast 🐭 Become a Better Leader.  Check out my book, Mouse in The Room: http://www.mouseintheroom.com 🚀 Get the Double Your Revenue Samurai Webinar for Free: focus.ceo/doubleyourrevenue 💰 Download the free 6 min video "How to Double Your Revenue by Focusing on Less" at http://focus.ceo/focusvideo âžĄïž Follow David: Twitter: http://twitter.com/_focusceo Instagram: http://instagram.com/_focusceo Facebook: http://facebook.com/extraordinaryfocus YouTube: http://youtube.com/c/ExtraordinaryFocuswithDavidWood LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/focus-ceo/

06-08
41:38

Celebrating Funding of Name That Mouse Book

I'm excited to announce that my latest project - Mouse in the Room Book - has been funded. My co-author, Shaina List, and I thank you for your support! Tune in to this special episode of Tough Conversations, where I'm joined by Zach Kellum and Lauren Rayburn. I cover: What is a mouse? Why naming your mouse (aka feelings) can give you more confidence, connection & leadership. Helpful examples, including naming some mice on the call. How to inspire people to name a mouse. Mirror mice as they relate to the body. Importance of self-awareness and how to cultivate it to know what's happening. How to build rapport by naming what's happening - super helpful for group rapport! Why Zack, Lauren and others backed the book.

04-04
42:59

From Triggered to Tranquil with Dr Susan Campbell

If you feel like your anxiety is getting in the way of life, then this podcast episode might be for you. Join me as I chat with Dr Susan Campbell on a therapy-tested approach that can defuse anger and stress reactions when it comes to dealing with anxiety. Topics covered include: How to get clear on your micro triggers. How asking for what you want can create a trigger situation. Have you got an unrepaired rupture? Do you have a self-protective place? The way you deal with your story about reality. How to notice the trigger signs. The 4 Elements that are present when you are triggered. How to handle your triggers. Why valuing information can tell you what you care about. The exercise you can do to ground your nervous system. How to go from triggered to tranquil. For show notes and past guests, please visit http://focus.ceo/podcast Download the free 6 min video "How to Double Your Revenue by Focusing on Less" at http://focus.ceo/focusvideo Take the free 60 min Double Your Revenue training at http://focus.ceo/training Follow David: Twitter: http://twitter.com/_focusceo Instagram: http://instagram.com/_focusceo Facebook: http://facebook.com/extraordinaryfocus YouTube: http://youtube.com/c/ExtraordinaryFocuswithDavidWood LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/focus-ceo/

11-01
53:18

Conflict = Energy with Jason Digges

Jason is the author of Conflict = Energy, and in this episode with Jason, we cover: Why this book? How does this relate to tough conversations? Welcome conflict! It's a good thing! Learn about our values. Check-in with self-emotional clarity. Curiosity. Connection over content. Naming what's happening.  Jason Digges is the author of the new release Conflict = Energy, The transformative practice of Authentic Relating. Jason is a modern renaissance man: Equal parts artist, philosopher, teacher, and video producer. For the past 4 years, he has been a trainer and facilitator for groups within the authentic relating and circling realm and is obsessed with how humans can live and relate optimally.  You can find out more at: https://authenticrelating.co/ For show notes and past guests, please visit http://focus.ceo/podcast Download the free 6 min video "How to Double Your Revenue by Focusing on Less" at http://focus.ceo/focusvideo Take the free 60 min Double Your Revenue training at http://focus.ceo/training Follow David: Twitter: http://twitter.com/_focusceo Instagram: http://instagram.com/_focusceo Facebook: http://facebook.com/extraordinaryfocus YouTube: http://youtube.com/c/ExtraordinaryFocuswithDavidWood LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/focus-ceo/

08-03
31:13

What Would Your Future Self Have You Do? (Dr. Benjamin Hardy)

Dr. Benjamin Hardy is an organizational psychologist, successful entrepreneur and bestselling author of Willpower Doesn't Work and Personality Isn't Permanent. His blog is read by millions of people monthly and featured on Forbes, Fortune, and CNBC, and helps people break free from the shackles of their personality. In this episode we cover  How personality is NOT permanent. How does our personality limit us. How to break free from the shackles. Why we need to make decisions based on the preferences of our future self versus the preferences of our current self. For show notes and past guests, please visit http://focus.ceo/podcast Download the free 6 min video "How to Double Your Revenue by Focusing on Less" at http://focus.ceo/focusvideo Take the free 60 min Double Your Revenue training at http://focus.ceo/training Follow David: Twitter: http://twitter.com/_focusceo Instagram: http://instagram.com/_focusceo Facebook: http://facebook.com/extraordinaryfocus YouTube: http://youtube.com/c/ExtraordinaryFocuswithDavidWood LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/focus-ceo/

06-22
23:48

John Gray (Mars Venus) on Emotional Nudity, and Tough Conversations Between the Sexes

http://playforreal.life - In this heart-opening dive into man-woman dynamics, learn why John Gray identifies as an emotional nudist, how his deep love for his wife still carries him today, and how to master tough conversations between the sexes. Is there someone you need to have a tough conversation with? *** For show notes and past guests, please visit http://playforreal.life/podcast  Sign up for David's email newsletter and download the 4-Step Tough Conversations blueprint at http://playforreal.life/blueprint  See if you qualify for a free discovery session to explore coaching with David at http://playforreal.life/coaching  70% of employees are avoiding a tough conversation. Learn about Just-in-Time or Spot Coaching for entire teams and companies to master their tough conversations at http://playforreal.life/teamcoaching  Follow David: Twitter: http://twitter.com/_playforreal  Instagram: http://instagram.com/_playforreal  Facebook: http://facebook.com/toughconversationswithdavidwood  YouTube: http://youtube.com/toughconversationswithdavidwood  LinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/in/toughconversations  If you enjoy the podcast, would you please consider leaving a short review on Apple Podcasts/iTunes? It takes less than 60 seconds, and it really makes a difference in helping to convince hard-to-get guests. I also love reading the reviews! http://playforreal.life/itunes 

08-21
27:57

Live Role Play – Be More Interested in Me

http://playforreal.life - This episode got real. I was being interviewed on the Hungry for Happiness podcast recently, when host Samantha Skelly bravely brought up a very real Tough Conversation she needed to have with someone. I love how sweet and vulnerable she was about the issue. Listen in for: -Getting clear on the issue -Identifying her greatest fear and hope for the conversation -We roleplayed the conversation - I pretended to be Samantha! -I introduced the Curiosity Game -How to handle when someone might have charge about you asking for the conversation -Why I need the worksheet, and why you should get it, and more. Is there someone you need to have a tough conversation with? Did this demo help you? Let me know in the comments below! *** For show notes and past guests, please visit http://playforreal.life/podcast  Sign up for David's email newsletter and download the 4-Step Tough Conversations blueprint at http://playforreal.life/blueprint  See if you qualify for a free discovery session to explore coaching with David at http://playforreal.life/coaching  Join the free weekly zoom call to role-play your tough conversations at http://playforreal.life/zoomregister  70% of employees are avoiding a tough conversation. Learn about Just-in-Time or Spot Coaching for entire teams and companies to master their tough conversations at http://playforreal.life/teamcoaching  Follow David: Twitter: http://twitter.com/_playforreal  Instagram: http://instagram.com/_playforreal  Facebook: http://facebook.com/toughconversationswithdavidwood  YouTube: http://youtube.com/toughconversationswithdavidwood  LinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/in/toughconversations  If you enjoy the podcast, would you please consider leaving a short review on Apple Podcasts/iTunes? It takes less than 60 seconds, and it really makes a difference in helping to convince hard-to-get guests. I also love reading the reviews! http://playforreal.life/itunes 

07-19
21:17

How to Make Anything Happen

http://playforreal.life - Do you know anyone that's worked with Sir Elton John or Elon Musk, sent people down to see the wreck of the Titanic on the sea bed or closed museums in Florence for a private dinner party? You do now. Steve Sims is a best selling Author with "BLUEFISHING - the art of making things happen", a sought-after coach and a speaker to audiences which include....Harvard and the Pentagon! We cover: -Your imperfections ARE your perfections - sounds like a Tough Conversation to have with yourself! -Asking for 100% of what you want. (the fear of no) -How to make something extraordinary happen? -I ask Steve how I could land an interview with Alan Alda, and LOVED his advice. This episode was jam packed with actionable advice you can implement today! What was your favorite bit? Let me know in the comments! You can find out more about Steve Sims at http://www.stevedsims.com/ *** For show notes and past guests, please visit http://playforreal.life/podcast Sign up for David's email newsletter and download the 4-Step Tough Conversations blueprint at http://playforreal.life/blueprint See if you qualify for a free discovery session to explore coaching with David at http://playforreal.life/coaching Join the free weekly zoom call to role-play your tough conversations at http://playforreal.life/zoomregister 70% of employees are avoiding a tough conversation. Learn about Just-in-Time or Spot Coaching for entire teams and companies to master their tough conversations at http://playforreal.life/teamcoaching Follow David: Twitter: http://twitter.com/_playforreal Instagram: http://instagram.com/_playforreal Facebook: http://facebook.com/toughconversationswithdavidwood YouTube: http://youtube.com/toughconversationswithdavidwood LinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/in/toughconversations If you enjoy the podcast, would you please consider leaving a short review on Apple Podcasts/iTunes? It takes less than 60 seconds, and it really makes a difference in helping to convince hard-to-get guests. I also love reading the reviews! http://playforreal.life/itunes

07-12
36:55

Speak with Love or Not at All + Shadow Healing with Matthew Mitchell

There's a dark or shadow side to everyone, and often that dark side shows up when we're emotional or have charge with someone. The key is to heal that 'shadow' and communicate with compassion and respect - as difficult as that may be. In this episode, I interview Matthew Mitchell, a transformational speaker and coach I think may be even bolder than I am with speaking his truth. We talk about: -Shadow sides and what shows up in his shadow -What is the shadow and who has one -What made me trust and respect him more -The dangers of not speaking with compassion -Why it's important to speak with love -What I realized was missing from my Tough Conversations model -How to access love, respect and compassion even when you have charge -The importance of knowing where your lines are drawn -The power of modeling behavior -How not to vilify the other person and more. Are you able to speak with love and compassion when you're in disagreement with someone? I'd love to hear about a conversation you had with love - or one that you wish you did! Drop it in the comments below! You can watch Matthew's Provocative Conversations Series here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCAQW4pdb-QT8faJF9DkfpaA/featured *** For show notes and past guests, please visit http://playforreal.life/podcast Sign up for David's email newsletter and download the 4-Step Tough Conversations blueprint at http://playforreal.life/blueprint See if you qualify for a free discovery session to explore coaching with David at http://playforreal.life/coaching Join the free weekly zoom call to role-play your tough conversations at http://playforreal.life/zoomregister 70% of employees are avoiding a tough conversation. Learn about Just-in-Time or Spot Coaching for entire teams and companies to master their tough conversations at http://playforreal.life/teamcoaching Follow David: Twitter: http://twitter.com/_playforreal Instagram: http://instagram.com/_playforreal Facebook: http://facebook.com/toughconversationswithdavidwood YouTube: http://youtube.com/toughconversationswithdavidwood LinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/in/toughconversations If you enjoy the podcast, would you please consider leaving a short review on Apple Podcasts/iTunes? It takes less than 60 seconds, and it really makes a difference in helping to convince hard-to-get guests. I also love reading the reviews! http://playforreal.life/itunes

06-28
10:30

How to Gamify Your Life

http://playforreal.life - Have you ever considered scoring your own life and career? So you can play it better? In this episode I show you how I created my own rules of a great life, and TRACK the good and bad practices using a cool new app. I hope this inspires you to create your OWN rules, and give yourself points - and even tangible rewards - for following practices that support your best life! Listen in to hear: The app I've found and set up to gain and lose points for things I'm already doing and want to do less Why you should choose your own values Setting up your daily practices, habits and vices How to set up your rewards and penalties How to break large tasks into smaller to-do items - and gain more points! Identifying the rules for your game of life The assignment I gave to jumpstart your life-game! How have you gamified your life? Let me know in the comments below! *** For show notes and past guests, please visit http://playforreal.life/podcast Sign up for David's email newsletter and download the 4-Step Tough Conversations blueprint at http://playforreal.life/blueprint See if you qualify for a free discovery session to explore coaching with David at http://playforreal.life/coaching Join the free weekly zoom call to role-play your tough conversations at http://playforreal.life/zoomregister 70% of employees are avoiding a tough conversation. Learn about Just-in-Time or Spot Coaching for entire teams and companies to master their tough conversations at http://playforreal.life/teamcoaching Follow David: Twitter: http://twitter.com/_playforreal Instagram: http://instagram.com/_playforreal Facebook: http://facebook.com/toughconversationswithdavidwood YouTube: http://youtube.com/toughconversationswithdavidwood LinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/in/toughconversations If you enjoy the podcast, would you please consider leaving a short review on Apple Podcasts/iTunes? It takes less than 60 seconds, and it really makes a difference in helping to convince hard-to-get guests. I also love reading the reviews! http://playforreal.life/itunes

06-21
13:48

David's Life Journey – Hitting Rock Bottom and Rising From the Ashes

I got into coaching by accident. This excerpt from my Vroom Vroom Veer podcast appearance tells my personal story – from getting paid to live and work in another country, to my huge crash and burnout, to my more recent comeback. I'll even tell you why I left Bali in a hurry. Listen in for: How I traveled for a whole year – loved it! Questions – How do I live and work in another country? How do I get a transfer? Took a risk – got transferred to New York! Climbed the corporate ladder How unhappy I was in my marriage The judgments I had about people who did self-help, and how those people cracked my cynicism How I got into coaching – by accident! The marriage I helped save The big sacrifice I made to pursue coaching Spent years diving into the coaching world How I built the world's largest coaching business How I hit rock bottom; my burnout experience The golden handcuffs I had built for myself "What if I had 6 months to live?" What got me to Bali, and the life I built Teaching myself a programming language so I could write the Get Real app Why I got kicked out of Bali – the scary consequences of something I did there What got me back into coaching Who I serve now and why I love it, and more! *** For show notes and past guests, please visit http://playforreal.life/podcast Sign up for David's email newsletter and download the 4-Step Tough Conversations blueprint at http://playforreal.life/blueprint See if you qualify for a free discovery session to explore coaching with David at http://playforreal.life/coaching Join the free weekly zoom call to role-play your tough conversations at http://playforreal.life/zoomregister 70% of employees are avoiding a tough conversation. Learn about Just-in-Time or Spot Coaching for entire teams and companies to master their tough conversations at http://playforreal.life/teamcoaching Follow David: Twitter: http://twitter.com/_playforreal Instagram: http://instagram.com/_playforreal Facebook: http://facebook.com/toughconversationswithdavidwood YouTube: http://youtube.com/toughconversationswithdavidwood LinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/in/toughconversations If you enjoy the podcast, would you please consider leaving a short review on Apple Podcasts/iTunes? It takes less than 60 seconds, and it really makes a difference in helping to convince hard-to-get guests. I also love reading the reviews! 

06-15
18:08

When You're Tempted to Stay Silent...Speak Up! (w/ Adam Lewis Walker)

What do you do when someone stands you up? Do you address it? Or... Don't rock the boat. Don't make waves. Don't bring up something that might be awkward for both people and could go horribly wrong. Do these seem like familiar strategies? Unfortunately, staying silent can harm the relationship. In this episode, Adam Lewis Walker and I talk about a real life tough conversation I decided to have with him, and what it was like for him to be on the other side of it. *** For show notes and past guests, please visit http://playforreal.life/podcast Sign up for David's email newsletter and download the 4-Step Tough Conversations blueprint at http://playforreal.life/blueprint See if you qualify for a free discovery session to explore coaching with David at http://playforreal.life/coaching Join the free weekly zoom call to role-play your tough conversations at http://playforreal.life/zoomregister 70% of employees are avoiding a tough conversation. Learn about Just-in-Time or Spot Coaching for entire teams and companies to master their tough conversations at http://playforreal.life/teamcoaching Follow David: Twitter: http://twitter.com/_playforreal Instagram: http://instagram.com/_playforreal Facebook: http://facebook.com/toughconversationswithdavidwood YouTube: http://youtube.com/toughconversationswithdavidwood LinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/in/toughconversations If you enjoy the podcast, would you please consider leaving a short review on Apple Podcasts/iTunes? It takes less than 60 seconds, and it really makes a difference in helping to convince hard-to-get guests. I also love reading the reviews! http://playforreal.life/itunes

06-14
23:33

Unconventional Speaking and Leading - with David Wood and Derek Loudermilk

Derek Loudermilk, host of The Art of Adventure podcast, interviewed me on a book he's writing, and I recorded it for my own records. But as I listened to the playback I realized that there was so much good content in it about what makes a great leader and leadership as a practice, and more, that I couldn't not share it with you. The audio is lower quality, but if you can get past the typing sounds, I think you'll be glad you listened to this one. We cover: -How can we develop as leaders given today's challenges? -Inside out leadership: to lead others you, first lead yourself -Why personal growth is crucial -You'll be a terrible speaker if who you are is a terrible person -How speaking is leading -How to be watchable on stage -How to lead a team for real -Why you can't lead from a manual -The importance of acknowledging and praising yourself first -How can you expect your team to do something you won't do? -Mastering Tough Conversations is an unconventional path to leadership -How David's speaking radically changed, almost overnight. -Being natural and authentic in front of 1000 people -How I was able to sell $337,000 worth of product in 15 minutes -How to begin developing yourself as a leader -The concept of vulnerability and knowing yourself -The manager I coached to be able to receive feedback -Why you should confront your soft spots NOW, before you get into a leadership position -The Fly on the Wall leadership exercise: you should try it! What is your biggest takeaway from this conversation on unconventional leadership? Leave a comment below. *** For show notes and past guests, please visit http://playforreal.life/podcast Sign up for David's email newsletter and download the 4-Step Tough Conversations blueprint at http://playforreal.life/blueprint See if you qualify for a free discovery session to explore coaching with David at http://playforreal.life/coaching Join the free weekly zoom call to role-play your tough conversations at http://playforreal.life/zoomregister 70% of employees are avoiding a tough conversation. Learn about Just-in-Time or Spot Coaching for entire teams and companies to master their tough conversations at http://playforreal.life/teamcoaching Follow David: Twitter: http://twitter.com/_playforreal Instagram: http://instagram.com/_playforreal Facebook: http://facebook.com/toughconversationswithdavidwood YouTube: http://youtube.com/toughconversationswithdavidwood LinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/in/toughconversations If you enjoy the podcast, would you please consider leaving a short review on Apple Podcasts/iTunes? It takes less than 60 seconds, and it really makes a difference in helping to convince hard-to-get guests. I also love reading the reviews! http://playforreal.life/itunes

05-31
13:31

#MeToo: Should men be castrated, or cultivate their inner delicious beast? with Saida Desilets

It can be a pretty scary world right now for men with the "Me Too" movement hanging over our heads. And it can be challenging for women to set boundaries and still express all of who they are. Saida and I talk about how we can navigate arousal and the masculine and feminine energies in the workplace with truth, openness and dignity on both sides. We also talked about: -Increase safety by INCREASING arousal -Welcoming your own arousal without requiring reciprocity -I talk about pain from my youth, feeling excluded from the feminine. -How a woman can redirect masculine energy from predator to protector -How men need to speak up and educate their brothers Dr. Saida DĂ©silets wants to live in a world filled with audacious, sexually sovereign women, living life on their own terms. Saida is renowned for being the founder of the modern Jade Egg movement and visionary spokesperson for sexual Sovereignty, and has created The Daring Project—assisting women to audaciously move from being a victim to confidently thriving in life. You can find out more about Dr. Saida Desilets at her website www.DareYourDesire.com. Take a listen and let me know what you think in the comments. *** For show notes and past guests, please visit http://playforreal.life/podcast Sign up for David's email newsletter and download the 4-Step Tough Conversations blueprint at http://playforreal.life/blueprint See if you qualify for a free discovery session to explore coaching with David at http://playforreal.life/coaching Join the free weekly zoom call to role-play your tough conversations at http://playforreal.life/zoomregister 70% of employees are avoiding a tough conversation. Learn about Just-in-Time or Spot Coaching for entire teams and companies to master their tough conversations at http://playforreal.life/teamcoaching Follow David: Twitter: http://twitter.com/_playforreal Instagram: http://instagram.com/_playforreal Facebook: http://facebook.com/toughconversationswithdavidwood YouTube: http://youtube.com/toughconversationswithdavidwood LinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/in/toughconversations If you enjoy the podcast, would you please consider leaving a short review on Apple Podcasts/iTunes? It takes less than 60 seconds, and it really makes a difference in helping to convince hard-to-get guests. I also love reading the reviews! http://playforreal.life/itunes

05-24
35:16

Fall in Love With Your Business, Job or Message with Lisa Cherney

This time, we're talking about "getting on your soapbox", and giving the phrase a bit of a PR makeover! We cover: How do you want to change the world? What is your mission? If you have a job, what's your secret mission to impact the world, through your job? Are you shy about getting on your soapbox? How many of us have fallen out of love with our business or jobs How to get up on your soapbox! Three Practical steps to fall back in love with your business, job or message Lisa learned that just because something is successful and people like it, doesn't mean you have to keep doing it. She always knew she had a low tolerance for not being happy (after all she left a "successful" corporate career, with companies like AT&T and Lipton at age 28), but now she knows her mission is to help soulful entrepreneurs GFR so they can get out of their own way, help more people and make more money! *** For show notes and past guests, please visit http://playforreal.life/podcast Sign up for David's email newsletter and download the 4-Step Tough Conversations blueprint at http://playforreal.life/blueprint See if you qualify for a free discovery session to explore coaching with David at http://playforreal.life/coaching Join the free weekly zoom call to role-play your tough conversations at http://playforreal.life/zoomregister 70% of employees are avoiding a tough conversation. Learn about Just-in-Time or Spot Coaching for entire teams and companies to master their tough conversations at http://playforreal.life/teamcoaching Follow David:  Twitter: http://twitter.com/_playforreal  Instagram: http://instagram.com/_playforreal  Facebook: http://facebook.com/toughconversationswithdavidwood  YouTube: http://youtube.com/toughconversationswithdavidwood  LinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/in/toughconversations   If you enjoy the podcast, would you please consider leaving a short review on Apple Podcasts/iTunes? It takes less than 60 seconds, and it really makes a difference in helping to convince hard-to-get guests. I also love reading the reviews! http://playforreal.life/itunes

05-17
22:05

Mastermind Speech – Action, Truth and Daring

How can you double your productivity with a few simple steps? How can you increase your Truth-telling by 30%, and what would happen? How can you increase your Daring by 30%, and what might happen? I address these questions in my speech to Ezra Firestone's mastermind for successful e-commerce entrepreneurs. *** For show notes and past guests, please visit http://playforreal.life/podcast Sign up for David's email newsletter and download the 4-Step Tough Conversations blueprint at http://playforreal.life/blueprint See if you qualify for a free discovery session to explore coaching with David at http://playforreal.life/coaching Join the free weekly zoom call to role-play your tough conversations at http://playforreal.life/zoomregister 70% of employees are avoiding a tough conversation. Learn about Just-in-Time or Spot Coaching for entire teams and companies to master their tough conversations at http://playforreal.life/teamcoaching Follow David: Twitter: http://twitter.com/_playforreal Instagram: http://instagram.com/_playforreal Facebook: http://facebook.com/toughconversationswithdavidwood YouTube: http://youtube.com/toughconversationswithdavidwood LinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/in/toughconversations If you enjoy the podcast, would you please consider leaving a short review on Apple Podcasts/iTunes? It takes less than 60 seconds, and it really makes a difference in helping to convince hard-to-get guests. I also love reading the reviews! http://playforreal.life/itunes

05-10
23:53

The Woman Who Got me Into Prison - Live Demo with Laurie Lazar

Laurie Lazar , the director of Authentic Relating International, is the reason I've been to prison several times to train prison inmates in authentic relating. We cover: What to do if you haven't found your mission yet How Laurie discovered her mission The scariness, and power, of eye contact Teaching the power of vulnerability to prison inmates (who can be beaten or killed if they say the wrong thing) Some inmates haven't looked into the eyes of a woman in years The courage to sell yourself (Laurie's experience of cold-calling prisons) Laurie and I have a tough conversation right here on the podcast (and I get a little teary) Support the awesome prison work of Authentic Relating International with a small subscription donation: http://authenticrelating.org *** For show notes and past guests, please visit http://playforreal.life/podcast Sign up for David's email newsletter and download the 4-Step Tough Conversations blueprint at http://playforreal.life/blueprint See if you qualify for a free discovery session to explore coaching with David at http://playforreal.life/coaching Join the free weekly zoom call to role-play your tough conversations at http://playforreal.life/zoomregister 70% of employees are avoiding a tough conversation. Learn about Just-in-Time or Spot Coaching for entire teams and companies to master their tough conversations at http://playforreal.life/teamcoaching Follow David: Twitter: http://twitter.com/_playforreal Instagram: http://instagram.com/_playforreal Facebook: http://facebook.com/toughconversationswithdavidwood YouTube: http://youtube.com/toughconversationswithdavidwood LinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/in/toughconversations If you enjoy the podcast, would you please consider leaving a short review on Apple Podcasts/iTunes? It takes less than 60 seconds, and it really makes a difference in helping to convince hard-to-get guests. I also love reading the reviews! http://playforreal.life/itunes

05-03
30:37

Live Roleplay - How Do I Tell My Boss He's Abrasive?

An HR manager was worried about a potentially nerve-wracking conversation: how to tell her CEO he's abrasive! Listen in to hear: The 4 Step CASE model to having a Tough Conversation The importance of asking permission to have the conversation - and how! A great way to engage someone who could be dismissive How to manage the other person's defensiveness Do you have a boss or authority figure you need to have a Tough Conversation with? What part of this call do you think could be the most impactful for you? Let me know in the comments below! ***  For show notes and past guests, please visit http://playforreal.life/podcast Sign up for David's email newsletter and download the 4-Step Tough Conversations blueprint at http://playforreal.life/blueprint See if you qualify for a free discovery session to explore coaching with David at http://playforreal.life/coaching Join the free weekly zoom call to role-play your tough conversations at http://playforreal.life/zoomregister 70% of employees are avoiding a tough conversation. Learn about Just-in-Time or Spot Coaching for entire teams and companies to master their tough conversations at http://playforreal.life/teamcoaching  Follow David: Twitter: http://twitter.com/_playforreal Instagram: http://instagram.com/_playforreal Facebook: http://facebook.com/toughconversationswithdavidwood YouTube: http://youtube.com/toughconversationswithdavidwood LinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/in/toughconversations If you enjoy the podcast, would you please consider leaving a short review on Apple Podcasts/iTunes? It takes less than 60 seconds, and it really makes a difference in helping to convince hard-to-get guests. I also love reading the reviews! http://playforreal.life/itunes

04-26
11:58

The How-to-Enjoy-Anything Experiment!

I deliberately recorded this episode while very sick in bed; barely moving. Many spiritual paths teach us to practice gratitude and appreciation. My teacher always said "What is the maximum potential of this moment?" Byron Katie might say "Love what is". Well that seems all fine and dandy for minor annoyances in life, but what about when you're truly suffering? Well I hit record and then gave it by best attempt – to truly enjoy my experience of being incredibly sick. How did I do? *** For show notes and past guests, please visit http://playforreal.life/podcast Sign up for David's email newsletter and download the 4-Step Tough Conversations blueprint at http://playforreal.life/blueprint See if you qualify for a free discovery session to explore coaching with David at http://playforreal.life/coaching Join the free weekly zoom call to role-play your tough conversations at http://playforreal.life/zoomregister 70% of employees are avoiding a tough conversation. Learn about Just-in-Time or Spot Coaching for entire teams and companies to master their tough conversations at http://playforreal.life/teamcoaching Follow David: Twitter: http://twitter.com/_playforreal Instagram: http://instagram.com/_playforreal Facebook: http://facebook.com/toughconversationswithdavidwood YouTube: http://youtube.com/toughconversationswithdavidwood LinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/in/toughconversations If you enjoy the podcast, would you please consider leaving a short review on Apple Podcasts/iTunes? It takes less than 60 seconds, and it really makes a difference in helping to convince hard-to-get guests. I also love reading the reviews! http://playforreal.life/itunes

04-19
09:01

Rape, Death and Work Insults - From Victim to Sovereign with Saida Desilets

Everyone may have a victimization experience in their life. It's something you can't control, is usually scary, but it isn't the same as victimhood. Dr. Saida Desilets tells her powerful story of not only overcoming a traumatic rape and possible death, but also the power of choosing to not be a victim. How can you apply this to your own life? We also talked about: -What are some common ways we show up as victim? -Do we have a choice to be a victim, or is it choice-less? -What about in the work environment? -What are some subtle ways we slip into victim-hood? -Learn a simple yet powerful way to shift from victim to leader. -How embodied leadership can change everything for you -The power of sitting with who you really are Dr. Saida DĂ©silets wants to live in a world filled with audacious, sexually sovereign women, living life on their own terms. Saida is renowned for being the founder of the modern Jade Egg movement and visionary spokesperson for sexual Sovereignty, and has created The Daring Project—assisting women to audaciously move from being a victim to confidently thriving in life. When she's not dancing with her husband, you can find Saida leading Wilderness Safaris for women in South Africa or writing deliciously sensual poetry. Take a listen and let me know what you think in the comments. You can find out more about Dr. Saida Desilets at her website www.DareYourDesire.com. *** For show notes and past guests, please visit http://playforreal.life/podcast Sign up for David's email newsletter and download the 4-Step Tough Conversations blueprint at http://playforreal.life/blueprint See if you qualify for a free discovery session to explore coaching with David at http://playforreal.life/coaching Join the free weekly zoom call to role-play your tough conversations at http://playforreal.life/zoomregister 70% of employees are avoiding a tough conversation. Learn about Just-in-Time or Spot Coaching for entire teams and companies to master their tough conversations at http://playforreal.life/teamcoaching Follow David: Twitter: http://twitter.com/_playforreal Instagram: http://instagram.com/_playforreal Facebook: http://facebook.com/toughconversationswithdavidwood YouTube: http://youtube.com/toughconversationswithdavidwood LinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/in/toughconversations If you enjoy the podcast, would you please consider leaving a short review on Apple Podcasts/iTunes? It takes less than 60 seconds, and it really makes a difference in helping to convince hard-to-get guests. I also love reading the reviews! http://playforreal.life/itunes

04-12
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