Truly Pivotal Moments

Pivotal moments... those moments in life when something or someone causes you to alter your course of direction. Life experiences, lessons, and perspectives shared in a brief but powerful way. We welcome comments, questions, and suggestions for discussion topics! Send us an audio message or email us at Trulypivotalmoments@gmail.com

Managing Work / Life Balance

Life-work balance, often referred to as work-life balance, is the equilibrium or harmony that individuals strive to achieve between their personal life (which includes activities such as family, leisure, hobbies, and personal well-being) and their professional or work-related responsibilities and commitments. In essence, work-life balance is about finding the right blend between one's career and personal life to ensure that neither aspect overwhelms or negatively impacts the other. It involves managing time, energy, and attention effectively so that individuals can meet their work obligations while also enjoying a fulfilling personal life. Maintaining a healthy work-life balance is important for several reasons: Health and Well-being: Excessive work-related stress and long hours can lead to burnout, mental health issues, and physical health problems. A balanced approach helps reduce stress and promotes overall well-being. Relationships: Spending quality time with family, friends, and loved ones is essential for building and maintaining strong relationships. Personal Growth: Pursuing hobbies, interests, and self-care activities outside of work contributes to personal development and a sense of fulfillment. Job Satisfaction: When individuals have time for both work and personal pursuits, they tend to be more satisfied with their jobs, leading to increased motivation and productivity. Creativity and Innovation: Taking breaks and engaging in activities unrelated to work can lead to improved creativity and fresh perspectives. Long-Term Sustainability: Sustainable work habits are crucial for long-term career success and avoiding burnout that could lead to a decline in overall performance. Achieving work-life balance can be challenging, especially in today's fast-paced and demanding work environments. Strategies to improve work-life balance may include setting boundaries, prioritizing tasks, effective time management, delegating when possible, and practicing self-care. It's important for individuals to assess their own needs, values, and priorities and make adjustments accordingly to strike the right balance for themselves. Join us as we share the steps in evaluating and developing Work / Life balance.

08-18
20:06

Grief Coping Tips

Loss is a part of life, but we all need help when it comes to grieving. Family, friends, and even professionals can help us to navigate these difficult waters in life. Here are some tips for helping you along the way...

04-05
16:25

3 Steps to Recover from Trust Issues

3 Steps To Recover Trust 1. Identifying the source: The first step towards recovery from trust issues is to identify the source or cause of these issues. This could be a past traumatic experience, a pattern of negative experiences, or other underlying factors such as childhood experiences or mental health conditions. 2. Communication and Self-reflection: Open communication with trusted friends, family, or a therapist can help in gaining insights and understanding of one's trust issues. 3. Self-reflection and introspection can also help in identifying patterns and triggers of distrust. Building trust gradually: Re-building trust takes time and effort. It involves small, consistent actions that demonstrate reliability and transparency. Building new relationships, practicing forgiveness and letting go of past experiences, and engaging in activities that promote self-care and self-esteem can also help in the process of regaining trust.

02-02
11:44

What we can learn from our pets about relationships.

Simba and Nala are not perfect. But they are perfect for each other. What once looked like it wouldn't work out became something laden with valuable examples. They are truly endeared to one another, and we can learn a lot from this adorable couple.

01-24
10:41

Recognizing Toxic Relationships

Whether at work or at home - with a friend or a family member, relationships can become toxic. What does that look like? Well, listen to this podcast and then ask questions😊

12-18
50:59

Messy Room, Messy Life?

People tend to say that if our room or home is messy, then we have some problems. These problems can simply be a lack of organization or they could be as serious as depression. But is this true? Is it possible that it's a form of "normal" to be messy? Can it even indicate "genius"? Let's discuss this today on Truly Pivotal Moments 😊

12-10
18:23

How to say, "No" politely.

What are your challenges in saying, "No"? We also livestream daily on a language learning/practicing app called Hello Talk. johnathan_live

07-22
11:14

Dealing with Potholes in Life

Another episode to see how to navigate through life's circumstances and situations. You may be steering yourself into these things over and over again. 🤔

07-21
11:07

Rusty Relationships?

Will the decay go away? Why does it keep coming back? Is it me? How can I remove it and prevent it from returning? Let's talk about it today on Truly Pivotal Moments.

06-06
10:38

Using Your Friends

What is the first thing that you think about when you read the title of this podcast?  Exactly the opposite of what we will talk about (only for some of you, I know).  Not "using" like abusing, but "using" like utilizing the benefits of a real and proven friendship.  The intentional friendships you build are to be used.  This is a benefit, not the sole purpose for investing in a friendship.  We will break this all down today and even challenge the relationships in our lives.  Are they friends? Or maybe they are actually acquaintances.  Today on Truly Pivotal Moments.

05-03
13:33

Discovering Your Partner's Past

Ok, so the relationship is going unbelievably well.  You've had a bit of time together, faced some challenges, grew through some experiences.  But then THAT comes up.  Either it is revealed or "discovered" by your own research or a caring "friend" mentions it.  You're torn.  What do you do?  It is so hard to believe and so opposite of who you believe this person to be.  It's decision time.  This is a very pivotal moment.  Let's talk about this today and consider some things on Truly Pivotal Moments.

04-30
19:53

Things You Don't Know...

Have you ever behaved emotionally during a very challenging situation at work?  Have you ever "told someone off" because they had it coming?  Ever act out of character while driving and become some Road Warrior?  Well, I'm sure we have all experienced these things, but afterward, we feel embarrassed or ashamed.  Or we discover something about the personal life of the individual we have been gossiping about and we realize why they act the way they act...   Have you ever experienced the forgiveness of others when you have acted in an unusual way? Well, there's always more information than we know about:  Their history, their current situations, or just their inability to build relationships or handle pressure. During this podcast, we will talk about these things and about some real examples in my life.  There will be a lot to consider well and, hopefully, you will be able to respond to these common circumstances in a respectful and responsible way.

04-26
19:05

Are you CAUSING failed relationships?

It is often an outburst during a very tense and emotional time, "You are causing this relationship to fail!"  Very painful words to hear and of course, we know that both people in the relationship need to shoulder some of the responsibility for failure.  However, there could be things that you ARE doing that could actually cause failure in your relationships.  I know, I know...  you keep picking the wrong type of woman or the wrong type of man.. etc., etc..  but YOU are the common factor... Uh oh, right?   In reality, we spend more time researching our next vehicle than our next partner!  In a vehicle, we look for things like reliability, warranty, reviews, and history of that particular make/model.  We ask our friends and coworkers for their opinion and we have to even consider the cost.  Shouldn't we at least consider these things before getting into a serious relationship?  Well, we will talk about these things and much more, today, on Truly Pivotal Moments.

04-12
22:31

The Most Valuable Thing You Can Give

What is the most valuable thing you can give?  Jewelry? Fine Clothes? A Car? A House?   No, there's something so much greater, and you don't have to be rich or famous to share it with those around you! 

03-30
15:16

Increasing the Success Experience in Your Life

Well, this is not a unique topic at all.  But I believe that your perspective might be refreshed by listening to this episode.  Perception is reality and what many perceive as "success" is either unachievable or you will be exhausted and unsatisfied when you finally do achieve it.  Of course, there are some in-between experiences...  So, the goal of this podcast is not to supercharge you with the formula for success.  Rather, the goal is to help you to change your perspective to a MACRO perspective so that you can enjoy the many victories along the way and relieve the stress from incredible expectations in a way that makes you more productive and allows you to actually experience success much more often.  Take a listen and let me know what you think:  Instagram: Trulypivotalmoments.  gmail: Trulypivotalmoments@gmail.com

03-30
19:35

Celebrating Failure

I know, right? But it's true! In the proper context, we can rejoice when we fall down. There is so much to learn and, actually, we often learn other things in the pursuit of something else. We have more "failures" than victories in life. It's time to make trying something a "win-win" situation! Join me today and let's talk about this on Truly Pivotal Moments.

03-25
19:31

Bringing Stability Back into Your Life

With so much instability in the world today, it makes it harder and harder to feel stable in our own lives.  Whether it be in the workplace or at home, we all need more than the theory of stability, more than the sense of stability, we need the REALITY of stability.  But, how do you get there?  There's definitely a way and you can start TODAY! We're going to talk about that next on Truly Pivotal Moments.

03-21
24:28

Pushing Through the Hard Part

Like exercise at a gym, many people fail to push through the challenges in their relationships. They would rather give up or settle than to develop and grow by pressing into the moment. Often that final push is where all of the transformation happens. By practicing this principle in our daily interactions, we can develop better friendships and go to new levels in our intimate relationships as well. Join me today and let's discuss this a bit on Truly Pivotal Moments.

03-12
20:34

Why Truly Pivotal Moments?

Where did I get the name? What does it mean to me? What does it mean to you?

03-08
07:43

Sensing Unstable Relationships

Have you ever had a flat tire?  Well, you can't really feel it on your car until it's too late.. but on a bicycle or a scooter, you can feel it early before it's a serious problem.  Do you have a plan?  Do have what you need to fix it?   What are the wobbles in your life/relationship?  Do you keep going and ignore them?  On bikes and scooters this can be serious and even lead to a wreck!  Well, in your relationships it's the same way.  Early detection is key.  Prevention is preferred.  But what's the plan when you get a flat in life?  Are you equipped to handle it and continue on the journey?  Or will it devastate you?  Let's talk about this today on Truly Pivotal Moments.

02-09
11:54

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