Unacceptable Behavior w/Jsin Graham

Author Jsin Graham dabbles in offering up his perspective on relationships and explaining why men in fact, MEN...when dealing with women.

The List: 1st date location icks

Guess who’s back? In a surprise episode, J.G. returns to the mic to talk about “the list.” #socialmedia finds a way to tell men where not to take women on a first date. Is the list valid or is it a telling sign of something else? | A copy of the list can be found here: https://www.instagram.com/p/CyyhZ4MONjp/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

10-25
31:47

I Know You Hear Me, But Do You See Me

Coming off of a one-week hiatus, we have a jam-packed show. A quick update, leftover Q&A, and a conversation about vulnerability and the duality it creates within men are just a click away. Tap in!

11-02
33:53

Q&A...mailbag time!

We're opening up the mailbag on this episode. Who doesn't love a Q&A session?

10-19
59:58

Dudes Talk Too Much, to be Alphas

Let's talk about the present day overcommunication by wannabe #alphas. What are they really trying to tell you?

10-05
35:42

Divorce Says, Think Again!

F*ck being single! To settle or not to settle, that's the new question. The answer, you should already know but let your boy help you out in a different fashion. In the premiere episode of season three, we're talking about #divorce with a few individuals who have gone through the process firsthand. Come take a listen to those forced to learn the hard way, the ramifications of not listening to that little voice in their heads.

09-28
01:47:33

Y'all Don't Know What You Want

In the season/podcast finale, we wrap up the wants & needs discussion by explaining the genuine reality that single people are getting in their own way. Oh yeah, and social media, as usual, is still the devil.

09-16
56:31

Do we really need what we want?

Is it possible that some of our wants/preferences are blocking us from meeting who we are meant to be with? In this episode, we look at two lists, needs and wants, for a healthy relationship. Liking what we like is understandable, but to what end? What wants do we actually need? 

07-23
41:17

I Don't Want You to Need Me

On this episode, I jump into discussing something that has been on my brain a lot lately--a flaw in how men look at the modern-day woman.

07-14
29:57

Traditional Relationship Ideals...Kill that Notion

In a surprise episode of Unacceptable Behavior, I explain why basing your preferences for mates and relationships on traditional, "old school" ideals is a detrimental notion. Stop that shit! || "LVME4ME" - Kingpen Slim (closing audio)

02-17
25:28

When Does a Guy Know Its Real?

In a follow-up to a question brought to us last episode, we look at the difference between when a guy knows he has encountered a woman to get serious over and when he's ready to actually make it official. The present day ain't making anything easier on that front.

05-18
36:25

WTH is a good guy?

Every woman thinks they want a good guy, until a good guy falls in their lap...then what? On this episode I chat it up with Ant, host of the Off the Wall podcast, to discuss what exactly is a good guy, how they are perceived by women, the single life, and more.

05-11
57:15

(Male) Conservativesexuals...it's a thing!

People exist in varying levels of sexual experience and expression. When it comes to incompatibility, we more normally hear about experienced men and inexperienced women, but rarely do we hear about the reverse...until now. Erotic storyteller Seira Revol joins me on this episode to discuss.

05-04
35:15

Top 5 First Date Tips for Women

Licensed marriage and family wellness therapist, Nicole M. Ward, contributed to an article on therapyforblackgirls.com entitled "5 Tips for Navigating the First Date." On today's episode, we break down these tips from the male perspective to check they're validity.

04-07
37:22

Message Over Messenger

What do Derrick Jaxn, Kevin Samuels, and Steve Harvey have in common? They all owe at least some of their fame to talking to/or at women. But are they right, is the questions? Does a man's entanglements, delivery, and past ruin what he says?

03-30
42:22

We Talkin' About Confidence...not a game, not a game, confidence

Confidence, what is it and why is it important? Hell is it important? Let's take a look at this and the role it plays in the happily ever after, but more importantly the role it plays in getting to that point. #confidence | Music - #AnxiousAF by Mia Ariannaa

02-26
40:21

Ladies, Talk Yo'Shxt

Ladies, speak your truth! In the season finale of the show, I talk to three different women to get their perspectives on what men are doing wrong and need to do better to improve issues in dating and relationships. Music: "Bare Wit Me" - Teyana Taylor x "Outta Time" - Bryson TIller f/Drake

10-21
57:33

W.A.P. (Women Ain't the Problem)

Unless you have been under a rock, you have heard Cardi x Meg's "W.A.P" by now. If you even loosely find yourself on social media, you have seen the faux-outrage over the song. So let's talk about it. ______ Heard/mentioned on the W.A.P. episode: Three Black Chicks   Spotify  Twitter:  @3BlkChicks Instagram:  @tresblackchicks Music:  "W.A.P." - Cardi B x Meg Thee Stallion  |  "Drugs" - Lil Kim

08-14
34:01

Boundaries

Ladies & gentlemen, this is a PSA: boundaries are a necessary evil in all relationships. On this episode of UB, I'm throwing words around with my girl Nikki about the importance and benefits of boundary setting. Why it's important? Why you should do it? And why anything bad that happens when you don't...IS YOUR FAULT! _____________ Follow Nikki (@yourstrulynakia) and break bread with the homie: District Candle and Soap Co. - Washington DC based company producing high-quality handcrafted soaps and candles Instagram | Facebook Yours Truly, Nakia - custom cakes and confections Instagram

04-06
50:41

Do Men Still Like Real Bodies?

This question is the perfect storm between reality, perception, and assumption. With so much access to excess, especially with the increased number of women that go under the knife to alter their physical makeups, the question remains...do men still like and appreciate natural body types.

03-24
42:12

Fellas, We're Winning...What Is Y'all Doing?

Contrary to the popular belief of some, men are still winning at damn near everything. Especially when it comes to non-platonic dealings with women. SO WHY IS IT THAT YOU ALL ARE PROVING THE WOMEN RIGHT, when they say you don't know what you want (cause they ain't talking to me)? We gotta do better. For our ancestors if not for yourselves.

01-24
30:26

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