Unbothered

A pod for the chronically self-aware & dangerously honest by Chloe Madison with Alexa Losey. From over-explaining to overthinking, it’s easy to get caught up in what doesn’t serve you. But here’s the truth: you don’t have to. Unbothered is where we get brave enough to stop being considerate in situations where we're not considered, unpack the “why” behind our behaviors, rewrite old narratives, and finally say what we wish someone had said sooner—with zero shame, a splash of wit, and maybe a cocktail in hand.

Missionary Mary

Strap in and strap on, because this one is piping hot. In this week’s episode, Emma and Chloe are Unhinging sexuality in every sense of the word. How they communicate their needs, what they’re into, open to, and just when the hell it all began. Chloe reflects on her bi-awakening while Emma shares her real POV on vibrators in the bedroom.

04-23
40:16

I want him, I don't need him (with Sabrina Zohar)

Dating scene got you down? This week the girls are calling in a professional: dating coach and renowned podcast host, Sabrina Zohar. Sabrina is telling it like it is and calling ALL of us out on our bad dating habits (yes, you too), teaching us how to break them, and how to overall better ourselves. We’re talking everything from s*x on the first date to healing your inner child. Grab your notebook (and maybe a fat glass of wine) and let's get into it. Stay in touch with Sabrina: Spotify IG TikTok YouTube FB

11-26
54:35

Where have all the yearners gone???

BRING BACK CHALANT MEN. RIP to the “wyd?” text at 7pm. We want plans, effort, and a little emotional devastation. This week we unpack the lost art of the courting phase, how media shaped our expectations, and why consistency is the real grand gesture.Follow Unbothered on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Chloe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Alexa⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

09-09
36:25

Relationship OCD (ft. therapist Tara Montazeri)

"Do I love them enough? What if I’m making the wrong choice? What if they don't actually love me?" Welcome to the world of Relationship OCD (ROCD). This week, Chloe is joined by therapist + Trust & Thrive podcast host Tara Montazeri to talk about ROCD and the endless loop of doubt it can create. From intrusive thoughts to compulsions, we break down what ROCD looks like, how it impacts love, and tools for riding the wave instead of spiraling.Follow Unbothered on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Chloe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Alexa⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Listen to Tara's podcast Trust & Thrive. Follow Tara on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

08-26
45:28

Codependency, but make it cute (Chloe solo episode)

Hi guys, it’s Chloe. This my first solo episode ever, with just me, a mic, and an easel to keep me company (yes, I Bob Ross'd my way through this). In this ep, I'm talking about co-dependency. I’ve lost myself trying to keep relationships alive, and this is about what happens when you finally decide to hold onto yourself instead. I’m anxious and in my luteal phase, be nice to me!Check out Total Eye Lift from Clarins ❤️Follow Unbothered on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Chloe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Alexa⁠⁠⁠⁠

08-19
33:50

Chloe Cherry: Healing, Euphoria, and Her Real Life Offscreen

She almost deleted the DM that would land her on Euphoria. In this unfiltered conversation, Chloe Cherry opens up about the truth behind her viral Faye character, the misconceptions about her past, and the love story that healed her. Turns out, being unapologetically yourself can take you places you didn’t even know were on the map.

08-12
53:16

What narcissism really looks like in women (with therapist Seana Iwanyk)

If you've ever swallowed your discomfort and ignored your boundaries just to keep the peace, pull up a chair. We talk about narcissistic men all the time. What about the friend who constantly blows up on you, yet you're the one left apologizing? The mom who never takes accountability and makes you question your sanity the second you set a boundary? The sister who made everything a competition, then blamed you for the fallout? Therapist Seana Iwanyk joins us to unpack how narcissism shows up in women, and what happens when you finally stop playing along.Follow Unbothered on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Chloe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Alexa⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Get in touch with licensed marriage & family therapist Seana Diemer Iwanyk (now accepting new clients).

08-05
43:26

Friendship red flags (feat. Anastazia Dupee)

Friends who get weird around guys, never clap when you win, or only hit you up when they need something...yeah, we’ve had them too. Making friends as an adult is weirdly vulnerable and way more complicated than anyone warns you. This week, we’re joined by the wise and wonderful Anastasia Dupee to talk about friendship red flags, low-maintenance lifers, growing out of old dynamics. Follow us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Chloe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Alexa⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow Anastazia on IG & TikTok.

07-29
46:48

Using science to cure a broken heart??

Can understanding the science of heartbreak actually help you heal? Heartbreak feels like you’re dying because your brain literally thinks you are. In this episode, we break down what’s really happening in your body post-breakup. Cortisol spikes, dopamine crashes, withdrawal symptoms, and how love literally mimics addiction in the brain. It’s not just emotional, it’s chemical, and we’re here to help you make it out the other side.

07-22
34:48

Frontal lobe fully cooked

Our frontal lobes are fully cooked, and we’ve got a list. No more situationships, gaslighting, or boyfriends who ruin birthdays. We’re done dating people who “like the idea of us,” done playing therapist for people who won’t get help, and done shrinking to make other people comfortable. This episode is a rapid-fire takedown of everything we’re leaving behind now that our prefrontal cortex finally decided to show up.Follow us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Chloe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Alexa⁠⁠⁠⁠

07-15
19:23

This is not a safe space (smash or pass)

We accidentally booked an extra hour in the studio...so we got drunk and played Smash or Pass. Some of our most insane takes yet in this one lol. Follow us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Chloe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Alexa⁠⁠⁠⁠

07-08
44:37

The heartbreak that teaches you who you are (Q&A)

We cried, we spiraled, we gave sisterly advice. From cheating boyfriends and toxic situationships to Paris flings and dad drama (yep), we’re unpacking the kind of heartbreak that teaches you who you are and how to finally walk away. If you want to submit your own story, fill out the form here. Follow us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Chloe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Alexa⁠⁠⁠⁠

07-01
44:32

Why you can't get over the person you never even dated

Why do situationships hurt more than actual relationships? Because there’s just enough hope to keep you delusional. We’re getting into why they mess with your head, how they keep you stuck, and the wildest stories from our personal archives. Like the guy who “ordered” Chloe a dress for his holiday party and photoshopped a Revolve receipt to gaslight her…or the one guy who asked Alexa if he could be poly… while she stayed monogamous. Let this be the episode to inspire you to dump your situationship. Follow us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Chloe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Alexa⁠⁠⁠⁠

06-24
36:38

Catfished my ex so well, he slid into my DMs first (feat. Brooke Schofield)

Bowl of lore is back!!!! This time we have Brooke Schofield with us to share some truly wild stories. From allegedly stealing Justin Bieber’s fox to catfishing exes and walking in on your best friend in bed with your situationship. We also get into plastic surgery transparency, dating pathological liars, and why some men should be legally required to go to war. Buckle up.Follow Brooke on IG and TikTok + listen to her on Cancelled PodFollow us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Chloe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Alexa⁠⁠⁠⁠

06-17
54:25

Non-negotiables in dating and friendships (feat. Adelaide Kane)

Actress Adelaide Kane joins us to talk about the non-negotiables we wish we had throughout our twenties. From emotional regulation to actual effort, we break down what makes someone worth dating and what makes someone a real friend. If you wouldn’t trust them with your heart or your group chat, it’s probably a no. Let's get into it.Follow Adelaide on IG and TikTok.Follow us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Chloe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Alexa⁠⁠⁠⁠

06-10
45:03

Saturn return survival guide (feat. Meghan Rose)

Everything’s falling apart? Perfect. You’re right on schedule. This week, we’re joined by Glamour Magazine columnist and astrologer Meghan Rose to decode the Saturn Return. The chaotic, karmic, character development era you didn’t ask for but definitely needed. Whether you’re about to enter yours, deep in it, or just trying to make sense of what the hell is happening, this one’s for you. For anyone 27–30: this might hit a little close to home right now.Follow Meghan on IG and TikTok + check out her pod Star-Crossed!!Follow us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Chloe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Alexa⁠⁠⁠⁠

06-03
45:42

Ghosted him and now he's my boss (Q&A feat. Kelli Berglund)

What do ghosting your now-boss, candle rituals, and boy moms with boundary issues have in common? This episode. Actress Kelli Berglund joins the pod for a Q&A that covers ex drama, toxic friend groups, losing yourself in love, and what it really takes to come back to yourself.Follow Kelli on IG and TikTok Follow us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Chloe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Alexa⁠⁠⁠⁠

05-27
32:17

Hot girls are anxiously attached

Ever convinced yourself someone hated you because they didn’t text back right away? Same. We’re continuing our attachment series with a deep dive into anxious attachment style, the one that overthinks, spirals, and still romanticizes the bare minimum. Therapist Aliza Shapiro joins us to unpack where that panic actually comes from, the protest behaviors we pass off as chill, and the difference between love and attachment (yes, there is one). We also get into the attachment style you have with yourself, and it blew our minds.Follow Aliza on ⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠ and learn more about how to book a session with her on her ⁠website⁠Follow us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Chloe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Alexa⁠⁠⁠⁠

05-20
38:26

Congratulations on your breakup feat. Sarah Perl (Hot High Priestess)

Breakups are brutal… until they’re the best thing that ever happened to you. Chloe and Alexa are back with the one and only Sarah Pearl (@hothighpriestess) for a conversation on walking away from “good enough,” manifesting the love you actually want, trusting your gut even when it’s whispering, and using heartbreak to propel you to the next level in life. Follow Sarah on ⁠⁠IG⁠ & ⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠ and ⁠her pod (new ep with us coming out soon!)Follow us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Chloe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Alexa⁠⁠⁠⁠

05-15
27:19

We need to talk about the witch hunts

We’re joined by Patty Pop Culture for a very real conversation about how quickly we can go from pop culture to mob culture. We unpack media literacy, cancel culture, and why parasocial relationships feel so real (because to your brain, they kind of are). From PR spins we saw with Blake Lively/Justin Baldoni to the relentless obsession with figures like Britney, Hailey, Miley, and Monica Lewinsky. We’re taking a deeper look at how connection became consumption, and why the women we idolize are so often the ones we’re quickest to tear apart.Follow Patty on ⁠IG & ⁠TikTok⁠ and YouTubeFollow us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow ⁠⁠⁠⁠Chloe⁠⁠⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠⁠⁠Alexa⁠⁠⁠

05-13
42:51

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