Unbox Yourself with Samantha Fox®

Keywords   lgbtq, late in life lesbians, LAT, relationship anarchy, personal growth, learning by doing, societal expectations, lesbian relationships, lesbian dating, healthy communication     Summary   In this conversation, Samantha Fox and Trish discuss the complexities of expectation, how its energy can be distancing and the idea that communicating wants and needs to those you are intimate, with whether that be family members or a partner, cultivates more vulnerablity and closeness.   Takeaways   We are often pressured by society to make one right choice in partners. Choosing the right person is not always straightforward and its ok that relationships don't last forever Relationships are about learning through experience. You can't predict what someone will bring to a relationship until you're in it. It often takes at least two years to truly know someone. Emotional intelligence plays a key role in relationship choices. The idea of 'the right choice' can be misleading. Each relationship teaches us something new about ourselves. Personal growth is a continuous journey in relationships. Understanding a partner requires time and shared experiences.   ************************************************* Would you like to join Samantha Fox on Unbox Yourself®? ⁠Click here to find the application to the show⁠   And remember its never too late to Unbox Yourself®!                    

Keywords   lesbian matchmaking, queer dating, monogamy, LGBTQ+, dating apps for lesbians, love stories, personal growth, authenticity, lesbian dating, lesbian relationships     Summary   In this engaging conversation, Samantha Fox reconnects with Sophia Spallino, a luxury lesbian matchmaker, to discuss her journey of self-discovery, the challenges of dating in the LGBTQ+ community, and the unique services offered by the Queer Country Club. They explore themes of monogamy, the importance of self-work in relationships, and the elusive nature of attraction and love. Sophia shares her insights on helping women find meaningful connections while navigating the complexities of modern dating.     Takeaways   Sophia Spallino identifies as a late-in-life lesbian, coming out at 29. She runs the Queer Country Club, a matchmaking service for monogamous women. Sophia believes in the importance of values and lifestyle alignment in relationships. The desire for love is a divine calling, according to Sophia. Both women discuss the prevalence of polyamory in dating apps. The need for self-work in order to have the chance at a successful relationship. The spark in relationships is often elusive and requires nurturing. The importance of reciprocity in relationships. Both women express hope for finding love in the future.     **************************     Ways to work with The Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaker, Sophia Spallino   Ways to work with The Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaker, Sophia Spallino:   Platinum Private Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaking – For the woman who wants her Future Wife® delivered on a silver platter, I do all the screening so you can focus on falling in love. Explore Private Matchmaking: ⁠https://queercountryclub.com/private-lesbian-matchmaking-service⁠    Exclusive Luxury Lesbian™ Retreat at Canyon Ranch – A blissful weekend with an intimate group of extraordinary single queer women… curated to spoil your senses and reignite your belief in love and possibility. Join The Luxury Lesbian™ trip: ⁠https://queercountryclub.com/luxury-lesbian-retreat⁠   The Queer Country Club® – Our premier dating platform for monogamous queer women who are living amazing lives, but missing just one thing… their Future Partner®.   Apply to Join QCC: ⁠https://queercountryclub.com⁠     Private Rising Coaching Session – If you're unsure of your next step but know in your gut you're ready to call in love, deepen self-trust, or design a life you’re proud of, I’m here to guide you. Reserve A Private Coaching Session: ⁠https://queercountryclub.com/private-coaching⁠   Got Qs? DM on Instagram → @sophiaspallino ⁠https://instagram.com/sophiaspallino⁠   ***********************************   Are you tired of constantly spiraling in thought as to whether or not you are gay? Bi? And then wondering if any of it even matters? If the answer is YES, then you are ready to ⁠Unbox Your Sexuality®⁠ In a matter of weeks you will be able to connect your dots as you are guided through sequential lessons that will help you Unpack, Unlearn and Unleash whatever is most authentic to you. You've got one life! What are you waiting for?   ***************************************   🏳️‍🌈Looking for professional guidance on any leg of your later in life journey? Book a coaching call with Samantha ⁠HERE⁠          

** ***TRIGGER WARNING-CSA*****   Are you ready to claim your power and Unbox Your Sexuality®? This Self-led program will help you peel back early learning and belief systems that no long align with you today. ⁠CLICK HERE⁠ to learn more ✨   Are you tired of doubting your feelings of same-sex attraction and wish you had a safe space to talk about what is coming up? The Bi Life Community is for women exploring all stages of their sexuality whether its Bi, Pan or Lesbian. Join this lively group and feel seen and supported by like minded women while having guided exploration and support from Samantha. ⁠CLICK HERE⁠ to learn more.   Keywords   conditioning, authenticity, male gaze, internalized misogyny, women's value, aging, beauty standards, self-worth, empowerment, societal constructs     Summary   In this episode, Samantha Fox delves into the themes of conditioning, authenticity, and the societal constructs that shape women's perceptions of their value and beauty. She discusses the impact of the male gaze, internalized misogyny, and the pressures of aging and appearance. Through personal anecdotes and insights, Samantha encourages listeners to reclaim their power, challenge societal narratives, and engage in self-reflection to foster growth and self-acceptance.     Takeaways   Conditioning affects women's power and self-worth. The male gaze influences how women perceive themselves. Societal constructs strip women of their value beyond appearance. Aging brings unique challenges to self-acceptance. Women often compete based on physical attractiveness. Self-worth should not be tied to societal beauty standards. Reclaiming power involves questioning internalized beliefs. Curiosity about self can lead to personal growth. Value comes from what the body can do, not how it looks. Engaging with supportive communities can aid in self-discovery.           Chapters   00:00 Exploring the Male Gaze and Its Impact 03:30 Conditioning and Internalized Misogyny 08:50 Aging, Youth, and Societal Expectations 13:42 Reclaiming Power and Value Beyond Appearance 21:22 Encouragement for Self-Reflection and Growth 22:23 Early Awareness of Family Dynamics 24:31 Understanding Gender Roles and Conditioning  

Are you realizing you are bisexual or gay and asking yourself "Now What?🤷‍♀️" LOOK NO FURTHER! ⬇️ ⁠Unbox Your Sexuality®: A Sexuality Liberation Program⁠ will break everything down for you so step by step and help you access the authentic you that is underneath all of the conditioning.   Looking for a like-minded community with women who are curious, questioning and/or coming out as bi or gay? Come join the guided exploration and community in ⁠The Bi Life! ⁠     Keywords   compulsory heterosexuality, comphet, self-discovery, relationships, identity, LGBTQ, societal expectations, lesbian community, authenticity, personal growth, bisexual, late in life lesbian, late blooming lesbian, societal conditioning     Takeaways   Compulsory heterosexuality can shape one's identity and relationships. Understanding early life experiences is crucial for self-discovery. Navigating relationships often involves unlearning societal expectations. Grieving past relationships is a necessary part of healing. Finding community is essential for support and connection. Self-care is vital for emotional well-being and growth. Embracing authenticity can lead to a more fulfilling life. It's important to unpack emotions and understand their origins. Conditioning affects how we perceive relationships and ourselves. It's never too late to explore one's identity and desires.     Summary   In this conversation, Samantha Fox and Jen Rosenstein, a member of The Bi Life community, delve into the complexities of identity, relationships, and the impact of societal expectations, particularly focusing on the concept of compulsory heterosexuality. Jen shares her personal journey of self-discovery, reflecting on her early life experiences, the challenges of navigating relationships, and the importance of finding community. They discuss the significance of grieving past relationships, unpacking emotions, and the journey towards authenticity and self-acceptance. The conversation emphasizes the need for self-care and the importance of embracing one's true identity, regardless of age or societal pressures.  

Keywords: LGBTQ, compulsory heterosexuality, self-discovery, relationships, coming out, authenticity, personal journey, comphet, societal conditioning, internalized misogyny   Summary:   In this episode of Unbox Yourself, Samantha Fox interviews Mandy, who shares her journey of self-discovery and acceptance as a member of the LGBTQ community. Mandy discusses her early experiences with attraction to women, her relationships with men, and the challenges of navigating her identity in a society that often promotes compulsory heterosexuality. She reflects on her marriage, the turning point that led her to embrace her true self, and her excitement about her engagement to the love of her life. Mandy also talks about her passion for writing and how her newfound authenticity has inspired her creative endeavors.     Takeaways:   Mandy reached out to Samantha after discovering the term 'comphet'. She realized her attraction to women very early in life, during her teenage years. Mandy's experiences in college helped her explore her sexuality, yet comphet won. She felt validation through her interactions with women. Mandy's marriage was a turning point in her self-discovery. She found a supportive community in her pole dancing group. Mandy's journey reflects the struggle with the brutal regime of compulsory heterosexuality. She now feels more settled and authentic in her identity.   You can learn more about Mandy and her upcoming Sapphic Novel on TikTok and IG @mandyaspey            

Are you ready to lean into exploration in a supportive community? Join us for the next round of The Bi Life HERE   If you'd like to chat with me about where you are on your journey, set up your 15 minute FREE call HERE   Keywords:   bisexuality, community, identity, relationships, LGBTQ+, self-discovery, support, safe space, societal norms, exploration, coming out later, queer,    Summary:   In this episode of Unbox Yourself, Samantha Fox discusses the launch of her community, The Bi Life, aimed at supporting women who identify as bisexual or are looking for a safe space to explore their sexuality later in life. She shares insights from her experiences with the community, highlighting the feelings of isolation many women face and the importance of creating safe spaces for exploration and support. The conversation delves into the complexities of navigating relationships, societal norms, and the journey of self-discovery.   Takeaways:   The Bi Life community was created to support bisexual women, as well as women at all stages of realizing they are not straight.  Many women feel isolated when they realize they are not straight. Coming out later in life involves both gaining and losing. Societal norms can create pressure and confusion around identity. Creating safe spaces is essential for exploration. The community fosters open conversations about sexuality. Support from like-minded individuals is crucial. Living authentically is a journey worth pursuing.

THE BI LIFE ⬇️ Looking for a safe supportive community where you can explore what is coming up for you as you are 'coming out'? Check out ⁠THE BI LIFE⁠, a community for folks in all stages of exploring their sexuality.   Keywords: coming out, sexuality, healing, relationships, LGBTQ+, self-discovery, support, community, personal growth, parenting, time to heal Summary: In this episode of Unbox Yourself, Samantha Fox discusses the complexities of coming out later in life, the healing process that follows, and the importance of taking time before making significant relationship decisions. She emphasizes that while healing takes time, individuals can find hope and transformation in their journeys. Samantha also highlights the significance of understanding oneself and one's partner before rushing into new relationships, especially after a divorce. The conversation touches on co-parenting and the emotional challenges that come with it, ultimately encouraging listeners to embrace their authentic selves and seek supportive communities.   Takeaways: It takes two years to really heal after coming out. Healing is a process that varies for everyone. Don't rush into new relationships after a divorce. Understanding your partner's daily life is crucial. Marriage is a legal contract, not just a romantic notion. You can find freedom in co-parenting after separation. Time will change your feelings about past pain. It's important to explore your sexuality in a safe space. You are not alone in your journey of self-discovery. Community support can be invaluable during transitions.

In today's episode of Unbox Yourself™ with Samantha Fox® I share my early experiences of dating as a later in life lesbian when the partnership that I exited my marriage with came to a sudden end.    For any of you out there that are trying to figure out how to start dating and who you might be attracted to, this episode is for you.    Looking for support on any leg of your later in life journey?  I'd love to hear from you! Book a 15 minute exploratory conversation with me for FREE HERE     Keywords:   Late blooming lesbian, lesbian dating, LGBTQ+, coming out, relationships, attraction, identity, dating, lesbian, self-discovery, sexuality   Summary:   In this episode of Unbox Yourself™, Samantha shares her personal journey of self-discovery as a single lesbian. She discusses her experiences with relationships, attraction, and the challenges of navigating the dating world. Samantha introduces the 'Samantha Scale' to categorize her attraction to women, exploring the complexities of identity, attraction and connection when you are newly out in the LGBTQ+ community.   Takeaways: Samantha shares her journey of becoming a single lesbian. She reflects on societal expectations and personal identity. The importance of self-discovery in understanding attraction. Samantha introduces her unique 'Samantha Scale' for attraction. Samantha emphasizes the significance of energy in attraction. The scale helps her and her friends navigate their preferences. She explores the fluidity of attraction and identity. Samantha encourages open conversations about types and attraction. The episode invites listeners to share their experiences and insights.

Keywords   sexual identity, bisexuality, lesbian, queer, self-discovery, relationships, sexual desire, community, LGBTQ, personal growth, same-sex desire, sexuality coach, questioning     Summary   In this conversation, Samantha Fox delves into the complexities of sexual identity, particularly focusing on the experiences of women questioning their sexuality. She discusses the societal pressures and rigid definitions surrounding labels like 'lesbian' and 'bisexual,' emphasizing the importance of personal exploration and self-acceptance. Through her work, she encourages individuals to connect with their true selves and find community support in their journeys of self-discovery.     Takeaways   Rigid definitions of sexuality can hinder self-discovery. Many women feel pressured to conform to societal norms. Exploring one's sexuality can be a brave journey. Community support is vital for those questioning their identity. Labels like 'lesbian' and 'bisexual' can be limiting. Self-acceptance is key to understanding one's desires. Experiences with partners can inform but not define identity. Curiosity about one's sexuality is a healthy pursuit. Finding pleasure and connection is a personal journey.   Set up a Free 15-minute call with me ⁠HERE⁠   Join the community here...⁠The Bi Life ⁠

Keywords:   sexuality, bisexuality, self-discovery, women's empowerment, relationships, emotional connection, sexual attraction, same sex attraction, societal norms, intimacy, LGBTQ+, strap-on-sex   Summary:   In this episode of Unbox Yourself, Samantha Fox explores the complexities of sexuality, particularly bisexuality, through a personal story about her daughter's friend, Sarah. The conversation delves into societal expectations, the importance of emotional connections, and the multifaceted nature of women's identities beyond just their sexual experiences. Samantha encourages listeners to reflect on their perceptions of women and the deeper qualities that make them attractive, urging a shift away from the male gaze and towards a more holistic understanding of femininity.   Takeaways: Society often dictates who we should be before we discover ourselves. Experiences can shape our understanding of our sexuality, but they don't define it. Sexuality is complex and can be influenced by emotional connections. Women have much more to offer than just their sexuality. The male gaze can distort how we view women's worth. It's important to explore and understand our desires beyond societal norms. Bisexuality can encompass more than just sexual experiences with women. Women should be valued for their emotional and intellectual qualities, not just physical attributes. Self-acceptance is a journey that requires introspection and honesty. Community support is vital for those questioning their sexuality.

Keywords loss, friendship, sexuality, identity, relationships, self-acceptance, attraction, societal norms, personal growth, authenticity Takeaways Samantha discusses the impact of losing her father and the journey of self-discovery that followed. Charlotte shares her experience of navigating friendships with different sexual orientations. The conversation highlights the importance of open communication in friendships. Both speakers reflect on the complexities of identity and societal expectations. Samantha emphasizes the significance of self-acceptance in personal growth. Charlotte discusses the challenges of being a straight woman in a friendship with a lesbian. The speakers explore the nuances of attraction and desire in their friendship. They acknowledge the role of socialization in shaping their perspectives on relationships. The conversation touches on the therapeutic insights gained from their experiences. Both speakers celebrate the beauty of their friendship and the learning that comes from it.   Summary In this episode of Unbox Yourself, Samantha Fox and her guest Charlotte explore themes of loss, identity, and the complexities of friendships across different sexual orientations. They discuss personal experiences, societal expectations, and the importance of open communication in building connections. The conversation highlights the journey of self-acceptance and the beauty of authentic relationships, celebrating the unique dynamics of their friendship as they navigate these themes together.                                      ************************ Learn more about the Unbox Your Sexuality® Programs and/or apply to be a guest on the Unbox Yourself with Samantha Fox® Podcast ⁠HERE⁠  

queerphobia, internalized homophobia, religious conditioning, coming out, sexuality, sobriety, relationships, shame, self-acceptance, LGBTQ+ Summary In this conversation, Samantha Fox and Heather Rosendahl explore the complexities of queerphobic conditioning, internalized homophobia, and the impact of religious upbringing on sexual identity. Heather shares her personal journey of coming out, navigating relationships, and the challenges of sobriety, while discussing the shame often associated with sexuality. The dialogue emphasizes the importance of self-acceptance and the healing process in reclaiming one's identity and pleasure. Takeaways Internalized homophobia can stem from religious conditioning. Sobriety can complicate the exploration of sexuality. Shame around sexuality is a common experience because of our religious and societal conditioning. Relationships can be deeply affected by past conditioning. Finding connection requires vulnerability and honesty. Healing from queerphobic conditioning is possible. Pleasure should not be viewed as taboo or dirty.Support systems are crucial for navigating identity. Self-acceptance is a vital part of the healing process.   Cllick here to join the waitlist ⁠UNBOX YOUR QUEER PHOBIC CONDITIONING⁠ ************************* You can find Heather on TikTok and IG @handsomeheather And via email HeatherRosendahlcoaching@gmail.com ************************* Ready to come chat with me on the show? Drop me an email at Samantha@unboxyoursexuality.com

Keywords sexual identity, self-discovery, bisexuality, relationships, trauma, health challenges, communication, community, authenticity, fluidity Takeaways Curiosity about one's sexuality can emerge at any age. Health challenges can significantly impact sexual identity and relationships. Feeling safe is important when coming out. Fear of rejection can hinder self-acceptance and honesty in relationships. Exploring one's identity is a gradual and personal journey. Coming out feels vulnerable and scary when you are fully dependent on the person you are coming out to. Supportive communities can provide validation and understanding. Labels can be helpful but are not necessary for self-identity. Connecting the dots of past experiences can aid in current self-discovery. Embracing authenticity is key to personal happiness.   Summary: In this conversation, Samantha Fox and Cali explore the complexities of sexual identity, particularly in the context of coming out later in life. Cali shares her journey of self-discovery, navigating her feelings of attraction towards women while being married to a man. The discussion delves into the impact of health challenges on sexuality, the importance of communication in relationships, and the fear of rejection. Throughout the conversation, they emphasize the significance of finding community and support, embracing authenticity, and the gradual process of understanding one's identity.   Would you like to come on the show? Email Samantha at Samantha@unboxyoursexuality.com today! Look for support on any leg of your journey? Check out my offerings at https://www.unboxyoursexuailty.com  

Keywords: evangelical christianity, religion, trauma, identity, purity culture, sexuality, coming out, LGBTQ, self-discovery, relationships, personal growth   Summary: In this conversation, Emily Rich shares her journey of self-discovery, navigating the complexities of growing up in a conservative Christian environment. In this environment her emotional system created protective parts that worked to keep her from knowing herself and her truth by self-gaslighting. Emily's diligent work through her trauma and ability to over time soften these gaslighing parts helped her to ultimately embrace her true identity as a queer woman. She discusses the impact of purity culture, the challenges of coming out, and the importance of finding community. Through her experiences, Emily highlights the significance of self-acceptance and the ongoing journey of living authentically. Takeaways: Emily grew up in a conservative Christian environment that shaped her identity. She experienced trauma that was compounded by religious teachings. Purity culture had a significant impact on her understanding of relationships. Emily struggled with her sexuality due to societal and religious pressures. The journey of coming out was filled with challenges and self-discovery. She found love after embracing her true self and leaving her past behind. Emily emphasizes the importance of self-acceptance and authenticity. Her experiences highlight the complexities of navigating faith and sexuality. She acknowledges the role of therapy in her healing process. Emily's story is a testament to the power of community and support in personal growth.   ⁠Click here for more information about community, programs and courses to aid in the journey to Unbox Your Sexuality⁠   To learn more about Emily find her on IG at ⁠https://www.instagram.com/emilyofftheclock/

Keywords LGBTQ, internalized homophobia, pride, community, self-acceptance, family dynamics, visibility, authenticity, personal growth, conversations Summary In this episode of Unbox Yourself, Samantha Fox and Trish delve into Trish's transformative journey during her big gay solo adventure. They explore themes of internalized homophobia, the importance of community, and the challenges of visibility and vulnerability. Trish shares her experiences at a Pride event, her interactions with supportive individuals, and her reflections on family dynamics and acceptance. The conversation emphasizes the significance of embracing authenticity and the ongoing journey of self-acceptance, highlighting the healing power of community and open conversations. Takeaways Trish's journey involved confronting internalized homophobia. Community plays a crucial role in healing and acceptance. Visibility can be both empowering and vulnerable. Conversations about acceptance can strengthen family bonds. Embracing authenticity is a continuous process. Trish's experiences at Pride highlighted the importance of support. Navigating family dynamics requires open communication. Self-acceptance is a journey that takes time. Building community can foster connection and support. Healing often comes from sharing stories and experiences.   **Trish received approval to share the stories from each of the people she names in these two episodes.    Here is the link that Trish mentions in the Podcast about Angela Cooper https://www.huckmag.com/article/invisible-women-documentary-angela-cooper-luchia-fitzgerald   Are you struggling with Internalized Homophobia? Add your name to the waitlist and be the first to be notified when Unbox Your Internalized Homophobia - A Self-Led Course becomes available  

Keywords:   self-discovery, LGBTQ+, community, healing, identity, belonging, personal growth, relationships, empowerment, travel   Summary:   In this conversation, Trish shares her transformative journey of self-discovery and empowerment as she navigates her identity as a lesbian. Through her experiences at the Out in Wild festival and her subsequent solo travels, she reflects on the importance of community, connection, and embracing one's true self. The discussion highlights the healing power of relationships, the challenges of internalized beliefs, and the joy of finding belonging in a supportive environment.   Takeaways: The journey of self-discovery is ongoing and requires vulnerability. Building relationships is essential for personal growth. Community provides a safe space for sharing experiences. Traveling can be a way to explore one's identity. Meeting diverse individuals can challenge preconceived notions. Internalized beliefs can hinder self-acceptance. Compassion for oneself is crucial in the healing process. Embracing one's identity leads to a sense of belonging. Solo adventures can foster independence and self-trust. Nature and movement can facilitate deep reflection and healing. Have you recently realized you may not be as straight as you thought?  Check out the UNBOX Your Sexuality® Programs at https://www.unboxyoursexuality.com  

Keywords:   coming out, self-acceptance, relationships, parenting, blended families, LGBTQ+, dating, expectations, communication, friendship   Summary:   In this episode of 'Unbox Yourself,' Samantha Fox and her friend Kim discuss their journeys of coming out later in life, the complexities of relationships and parenting, and the importance of self-acceptance. They share personal stories about navigating love, expectations, and the challenges of blended families, emphasizing the need for open communication and understanding in relationships. Their candid conversation highlights the significance of friendship and support in the journey of self-discovery and acceptance.   Takeaways: Coming out is a personal journey that varies for everyone. Self-acceptance is crucial for living authentically. Relationships can be complicated, especially with children involved. Expectations in dating can lead to misunderstandings. Open communication is key to successful relationships. Friendship provides essential support during challenging times. Past experiences shape our present relationship choices. It's okay to prioritize personal needs in relationships. Blended families require patience and understanding. Navigating love and family dynamics is a continuous process. Are you coming out later in life and looking for community, exploration and support? Check out the Unbox Your Sexuality® programs at https://www.unboxyoursexuality.com   Ready to Unbox Yourself with Samantha Fox on the podcast? Email Samantha at samantha@unboxyoursexuality.com  

Keywords:   gender identity, gender expression, personal growth, femininity, queer experiences, self-discovery, societal expectations, emotional healing, LGBTQ+, genderqueer, non-binary, gender-fluid   Summary:   In this episode, Samantha Fox and El Murray engage in a deep conversation about gender identity, personal experiences, and the journey of self-discovery. They explore the complexities of gender expression, societal expectations, and the emotional landscape surrounding these topics. El shares their personal journey of navigating gender, the impact of family and societal pressures, and the joy of embracing their authentic self. The discussion highlights the importance of compassion, healing, and the celebration of individuality in the context of gender identity.   Takeaways: Gender is a unique experience for each individual. Childhood experiences can shape our understanding of gender. Societal expectations often pressure individuals to conform. Navigating professional environments can challenge personal expression. Family dynamics play a significant role in gender identity. Self-discovery is a continuous journey that evolves over time. Embracing one's authentic self can lead to joy and fulfillment. Grief can accompany the process of understanding one's gender identity. Celebrating personal growth is essential in the journey of self-acceptance. Creating space for experimentation in gender expression is vital. For those of you interested in the Program El mentions in this episode, you can find more information here....Unbox Your Sexuality: A Sexuality Liberation Program    Are you a bisexual woman who is in a hetero-passing monogamous relationship and wish you had someplace safe to talk about your bisexuality? Learn more about THE BI LIFE and should you have any questions for me, you can reach me at samantha@unboxyoursexuality.com   Thanks for being here!!

Keywords: relationships, identity, breakups, motherhood, family dynamics, love, healing, self-discovery, validation, twin flames Summary: In this conversation, Michele shares her journey of self-discovery, relationships, and the complexities of love and motherhood. From coming out and navigating breakups to the challenges of starting a family, Michele reflects on her experiences and the lessons learned along the way. The discussion also touches on the importance of validation in friendships and the spiritual journey of finding true love and connection. Takeaways: Michele realized her sexual identity through experiences with her college softball team. The relationship with Eve was profound and taught Michele a lot about love and family. Michele prioritized her desire to become a mother, leading to a difficult breakup with Eve. The journey of motherhood is filled with challenges, especially for same-sex couples. Michele's relationship with Carrie was marked by red flags that she initially overlooked. Healing and self-discovery are ongoing processes that require intentionality and effort. Validation in friendships is crucial for emotional support and growth. Michele's spiritual journey led her to understand the concept of twin flames and soulmates. The importance of being authentic and true to oneself in relationships. It's never too late to pursue happiness and make changes in life.   The Bi Life, a Community for bisexual women in hetero-passing monogamous relationships opens its doors on 7/1/25. Click ⁠HERE⁠ to learn more!   The Trauma Syndrome, by Tia Dayton is the book we refer to in this episode. Its a must read for anyone who grew up in a highly dysfunctional family, with addiction or mental illness, or is partnered with someone who grew up in this type of family.

Keywords:   bisexuality, polyamory, relationships, identity, community, internalized homophobia, queer, support, self-discovery, belonging   Summary:   In this conversation, Samantha Fox and Heidi Savell explore the complexities of bisexuality, relationships, and identity. They discuss their personal experiences with internalized homophobia, the journey of self-discovery, and the challenges of navigating relationships in a heteronormative society. The conversation highlights the importance of community, support, and celebrating one's identity, especially for those who identify as bisexual and are in monogamous relationships. They also touch on the significance of professional guidance when opening up relationships and the need for spaces where bisexual individuals can feel accepted and understood.   Takeaways:   Heidi's early experiences with bisexuality began in her teens. Internalized homophobia can manifest early in life. Heidi's journey of self-discovery included dating both men and women. Compulsory heterosexuality influenced Heidi's marriage decisions. Opening up relationships can reveal underlying issues. Authenticity in relationships is crucial for personal happiness. Cis men often dominate dating dynamics, affecting women's desires. Creating space for personal desires is essential in relationships. Community support is vital for those navigating bisexuality. Click here to learn more about The Bi Life , A Community for Bisexual Women in Hetero Monogamous Relationships Find Heidi on IG @steadypolyamory and the program she runs for those new to ENM Steady Your Poly Wobbles