Uncovering The Aviation Mindset Podcast

🛫 Uncovering The Aviation Mindset - Episode  19 With Felicity Ashley 🛬 I’m delighted to be welcoming mother of three Felicity as my first non-directly related aviation guest to talk about her experiences of rowing across the Atlantic with her sister and two other mums aboard ‘The Mothership’, only to find that she was carrying stage three cancer at that time. As the podcast centres on unravelling the mindset needed to thrive and battle the inevitable thunderstorms, Felicity is here to remind us of the importance of having a purpose and focus to keep going through those struggles. The conversation explores the connected concepts of resilience and wellness when facing life's challenges. Felicity emphasises the power of choice and surrounding oneself with a supportive network. The discussion also touches on the role of imagination, dreams, and the ability to withstand boredom, highlighting the boat crew's teamwork and the balance between competitiveness and enjoyment. We delve into my hot topic of the moment, discussing masculine and feminine qualities and the importance of developing both sides within each individual. We also emphasise the need to focus on the experience, not just the end goal, and the significance of having a solid support network. Felicity encourages individuals to look within themselves for strength and to surround themselves with people who can lift them up. The conclusion from this fascinating discussion is that ordinary people can achieve extraordinary things with the right mindset and ambition. Takeaways The power of choice: We can choose our environment and the people we surround ourselves with. Imagination and dreams are essential: They preview life's coming attractions and help us overcome challenges. The importance of mindset and resilience: Building mental and emotional strength can help us face and overcome adversity. Teamwork and support: Surrounding ourselves with a supportive network and working together can make a significant difference in achieving goals. Balancing competitiveness and enjoyment: It's essential to set goals and push ourselves, but also to prioritise the experience and enjoyment of the journey. Developing masculine and feminine qualities: Embracing assertiveness and empathy can lead to personal growth and stronger relationships. Embrace the journey and focus on the experience, not just the end goal. Surround yourself with a strong support network. Look within yourself for strength and harness your power to achieve incredible things. Ordinary people can do extraordinary things with the right mindset and ambition. Chapters 00:00 The Power of Choice: Creating a Supportive Environment 05:14 Imagination and Dreams: Overcoming Challenges 09:28 Mindset and Resilience: Building Strength 14:45 Teamwork and Support: Achieving Goals Together 33:29 Developing Masculine and Feminine Qualities: Personal Growth and Relationships 39:33 Embracing the Journey 53:55 The Power of Mindset 56:32 Facing Challenges Head-On 01:01:33 Overcoming Limiting Beliefs 01:09:09 Finding Purpose Through Adversity 01:13:00 Ordinary People, Extraordinary Achievements   I hope you enjoy the podcast. I’d love to hear your comments and reviews, so please leave them in the comments box. 🙏. In the meantime, I wish you all the best, and please remember to: Keep It In The Greens 😊   ✈ Join my monthly newsletter https://lnkd.in/eWkRpAiS   ✈ Book your free discovery call with me https://lnkd.in/e2AB9qW7   ✈ Discover my coaching offers https://lnkd.in/e7anbzPf     #Imagination #teamwork #masculine #feminine #determination #ordinarypeople #extraordinarypeople #wellness  #emotionalintelligence #airlinepilot #mindsetpodcast #aviationpodcast #gratitudepractice #emotionalconnection #spiritualconnection #leadership #lifecoaching #resilience #fun #gratitude #joy #peace #mindfullness #adventure #opportunity #positivemindset #confidence #empowerment #mindset #courage #selfbelief #pilotlife #pilot #pilotlifestyle #gulfstream #aviation #teamwork #mentalhealth #humility #fear #choice

🛫 Uncovering The Aviation Mindset - Episode 18 With Matty Wohlers 🛬   Matty Wohlers returns for part two of our conversation in which we discuss the importance of self-awareness, setting goals, and knowing one's limitations. We emphasise the need for resilience, persistence, and discipline in achieving goals and explore the role of leadership in creating a harmonious and productive team environment. The conversation touches on the value of making mistakes, having courage, and embracing imagination and creativity, highlighting the importance of learning from mistakes and being open to changing opinions. The conversation concludes with a reminder to focus on self-development and supporting others. Takeaways ✈ Self-awareness is crucial in achieving goals and knowing one's limitations. ✈ Resilience, persistence, and discipline are necessary for success. ✈ Leadership involves creating a harmonious and productive team environment. ✈ Mistakes are opportunities for learning and growth. ✈ Courage and imagination are essential for pushing beyond limitations. ✈ Changing opinions and embracing creativity are important for progress. ✈ Self-development and supporting others contribute to a fulfilling life. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Setting Goals 03:33 Self-Awareness and Achieving Goals 10:38 Knowing Limitations and Persistence 24:08 Embracing Mistakes and Courage 29:28 Imagination, Creativity, and Learning 31:22 Self-Development and Supporting Others   I hope you enjoy the podcast. I’d love to hear your comments and reviews, so please leave them in the comments box. 🙏.   In the meantime, I wish you all the best, and please remember to:   Keep It In The Greens 😊   ✈ Join my monthly newsletter https://lnkd.in/eWkRpAiS   ✈ Book your free discovery call with me https://lnkd.in/e2AB9qW7   ✈ Discover my coaching offers https://lnkd.in/e7anbzPf   #crm #psychologicalsafety #emotionalintelligence #humanresources #airlinepilot #mindsetpodcast #aviationpodcast #gratitudepractice #emotionalconnection #spiritualconnection #leadership #lifecoaching #resilience #fun #gratitude #joy #peace #mindfullness #adventure #opportunity #positivemindset #confidence #empowerment #mindset #courage #selfbelief #pilotlife #pilot #pilotlifestyle #gulfstream #aviation #teamwork #mentalhealth #humility #fear #choice #freediving

  "The Power of Leadership" 🛫 Uncovering The Aviation Mindset - Episode 17 With Matty Wohlers Today, I launch with my good mate Matty on a journey discussing the importance of self-awareness, mindfulness, and confidence in leadership. Matty was my captain on a 2-month Boeing 767 detachment to Indonesia, flying pilgrims to Saudi Arabia for the annual Hajj celebrations. It was the most wonderful experience, in and out of the flight deck. I put Matty down as one of the people I have learnt a lot about in terms of leadership and creating an environment that allows people to discover the best in themselves. On one occasion, departing Jeddah in Saudi Arabia, we were radioed and informed that an aircraft had crashed on the side of the runway at our destination, Ujung Pandang in Indonesia. We had to decide whether to complete the landing there or choose another destination and decided to continue.   It was a strange scene as we approached the airfield to see the stricken aircraft as a clear reminder of what happens when things go wrong. That picture is a good metaphor for life: if we choose to embrace our mistakes and those of others with a creative mindset, the harsh lessons are invaluable. They give us a much greater chance of launching again off the runway of possibility with an even better chance of completing a safe, efficient and enjoyable journey. Apart from sharing our experiences in aviation, Matty talks about his love of freediving to highlight the value of admitting mistakes, embracing limitations, and working as a team.   We emphasise the need to break free from societal conditioning and selfconsciousness to reach our full potential. The conversation also touches on the value of role models, the impact of fear of judgment, and the importance of resilience.   YouTube: https://youtu.be/UUi0ZYHeBIs Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/7jqQrRTwZf7VjbNjLTshxd? si=c890b21e26c54ba5 Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/uncovering-the-aviationmindset- podcast/id1725570994?i=1000653169929 Podbean: https://www.podbean.com/eas/pb-xz3ti-15ee29a   Key Takeaways ✈ Self-awareness and mindfulness are key to developing confidence and effective leadership. ✈ Admitting mistakes and embracing limitations are essential for personal growth and learning. ✈ Working as a team and utilising all available resources leads to better outcomes. ✈ Societal conditioning and fear of judgment can hinder personal and professional development. ✈ Resilience and the ability to overcome challenges are crucial in highpressure environments. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background 03:41 Leadership and Utilising Resources 07:24 The Importance of Trust and Openness 11:38 Inner Work and Self-Discovery 23:34 Breaking Free from Societal Conditioning 26:19 Resilience and Overcoming Challenges 31:00 The Role of Teamwork and Collaboration 35:09 Embracing Mistakes and Limitations 38:07 Unleashing Potential and Imagining Beyond Limits I hope you enjoy the podcast. I’d love to hear your comments and reviews, so please leave them in the comments box.   In the meantime, I wish you all the best, and please remember to: Keep It In The Greens ✈ Join my monthly newsletter https://lnkd.in/eWkRpAiS ✈ Book your free discovery call with me https://lnkd.in/e2AB9qW7 ✈ Discover my coaching offers https://lnkd.in/e7anbzPf Keywords leadership, self-awareness, mindfulness, confidence, aviation, freediving, admitting mistakes, limitations, teamwork, societal conditioning, fear of judgment, resilience   #crm #psychologicalsafety #emotionalintelligence #humanresources #airlinepilot #mindsetpodcast #aviationpodcast #gratitudepractice #emotionalconnection #spiritualconnection #leadership #lifecoaching #resilience #fun #gratitude #joy #peace #mindfullness #adventure #opportunity #positivemindset #confidence #empowerment #mindset #courage #selfbelief #pilotlife #pilot #pilotlifestyle #gulfstream #aviation #teamwork #mentalhealth #humility #fear

My mate David Robinson joins me again for the second of this two-parter. Today, we launch with the story of when we found our G650 swarming with an army of prosecutors from the Japanese government following the arrest of Carlos Ghosn on landing in Tokyo. We discuss our experience of being emotionally hijacked by the situation and share our thoughts and feelings during the incident and how we coped with the uncertainty and stress. We also discuss the importance of therapy and counselling in managing emotions and building stronger relationships. The conversation highlights the need for self-awareness, emotional regulation, and finding tools to navigate challenging situations. Takeaways Recognising and managing emotions is crucial in stressful situations. Therapy and counselling can provide valuable support and help in navigating difficult emotions and relationships. Self-awareness is key to understanding and regulating our own emotions. Finding tools and strategies to cope with stress and uncertainty is important for personal growth and resilience. Chapters 00:00 Emotional Hijack in Tokyo 08:20 The Power of Therapy and Counselling 25:49 Tools and Strategies for Coping with Stress   I hope you enjoy the podcast. I’d love to hear your comments and reviews, so please leave them in the comments box. 🙏. In the meantime, I wish you all the best, and please remember to: Keep It In The Greens 😊   ✈ Join my monthly newsletter https://lnkd.in/eWkRpAiS ✈ Book your free discovery call with me https://lnkd.in/e2AB9qW7 ✈ Discover my coaching offers https://lnkd.in/e7anbzPf #crm #psychologicalsafety #emotionalintelligence #humanresources #airlinepilot #mindsetpodcast #aviationpodcast #gratitudepractice #spiritual #emotionalconnection #spiritualconnection #leadership #lifecoaching #resilience #fun #gratitude #joy #peace #mindfullness #adventure #opportunity #positivemindset #confidence #empowerment #mindset #courage #selfbelief #pilotlife #pilot #pilotlifestyle #gulfstream #aviation #teamwork #Nissan #CarlosGhosn #mentalhealth #humility #fear #choice

Summary Today, another fab mate from the US joined me for part one of this fascinating conversation on mindset, confidence, and well-being.   Captain David Robinson and I worked together for Nissan North America on a Gulfstream 650 a few years back, and he is currently flying a Gulfstream 450 for a private owner in the USA. Although David is over ten years younger than me, he seems at least that much smarter than me, so I have always looked up to him for his intellectual, humorous, and emotionally aware comments in our conversations. We discuss our experiences working together at Nissan and the importance of mindset, confidence, and teamwork in aviation. We reflect on our time as co-captains during the infamous flight from Beirut to Tokyo when Carlos Ghosn was arrested and how that event affected us mentally. We emphasise the value of humility, being proactive, and filling the pool of shared meaning in a team. We also touch on emotional intelligence, fear, and the power of choice in shaping our responses.   Takeaways ✈ The importance of humility and teamwork in aviation ✈ The value of being proactive and filling the pool of shared meaning in a team ✈ The impact of mindset and confidence on performance ✈ The role of emotional intelligence in navigating challenges ✈ The power of choice in shaping our responses to stimuli   I hope you enjoy the podcast. I’d love to hear your comments and reviews, so please leave them in the comments box. 🙏. In the meantime, I wish you all the best, and please remember to:   Keep It In The Greens 😊   ✈ Join my monthly newsletter https://www.benlefleming.com/monthly-flightpath ✈ Book your free discovery call with me https://calendly.com/benlefleming/discovery-call?month=2023-12 ✈ Discover my coaching offers https://www.benlefleming.com/coaching #crm #psychologicalsafety #emotionalintelligence #humanresources  #airlinepilot #mindsetpodcast #aviationpodcast #gratitudepractice #spiritual #emotionalconnection #spiritualconnection  #leadership #lifecoaching #resilience #fun #gratitude #joy #peace #mindfullness #adventure #opportunity #positivemindset #confidence #empowerment #mindset #courage #selfbelief #pilotlife #pilot #pilotlifestyle #gulfstream #aviation #teamwork #Nissan #CarlosGhosn #mentalhealth #humility #fear #choice #wellbeing

🛫 Episode 14 with Captain & TRI Mark Blois-Brooke  🛬 My ex-chief Pilot at Tag Aviation, Mark, joins me for another fascinating chat on today’s podcast. Mark has a CV as long as you can imagine, having started flying in the 1970’s.  His first commercial roles were In the corporate/air-taxi environment, flying all types of characters to far-flung places around Europe, some of them highly dodgy. He went on to fly commercially for cargo operators such as DHL on Boeing aircraft before returning to the corporate world on Gulfstream, Challenger, and Falcon aircraft. With well over 40 years under his belt, he still flies the Falcon 7x for a private family under Tag Aviation management. I had the unenviable position of going to Mark with my tail between my legs, having had a ramp check in Vienna a few years back. I had come up short in some paperwork representing the correct amount of fuel on board the aircraft and had to take the need for more professionalism on the chin. As always, the emotional discomfort of that taught me a lesson.  Not living with shame but choosing to see it as a gain is one of my mottos for success in life.  After the emotional feeling faded, that’s precisely what happened. Mark is one of those characters who has so many fascinating stories to relate that he has put them to pen in the form of a book that is well worth reading. ‘Life In A Tin: Stories From A Flying Life’ https://lifeinatin.com/ Mark shares his impressive aviation career and insights on human factors and CRM in the podcast. Mark emphasises the importance of passion and variety in the aviation industry and the challenges and rewards of flying in the corporate world. He discusses the evolution of CRM and the need for effective communication and emotional intelligence in the cockpit. Mark also highlights the value of being friends on the flight deck and creating a supportive and inclusive environment. Mark and I talk about the importance of resilience, learning from mistakes, and finding purpose in life. We discuss the need for professionals to work together and respect each other's ideas, even if they don't always agree. We also touch on the evolution of safety practices in the aviation and medical industries, emphasising the importance of analysing mistakes and learning from them. The conversation concludes with a discussion on the value of stepping out of one's comfort zone and embracing challenges as opportunities for personal growth. Keywords aviation, career, human factors, CRM, passion, variety, corporate aviation, communication, emotional intelligence, flight deck, resilience, learning from mistakes, purpose, teamwork, safety practices, comfort zone, personal growth Takeaways Passion and variety are critical in the aviation industry Effective communication and emotional intelligence are crucial in the cockpit Creating a supportive and inclusive environment on the flight deck is important Being friends with your co-pilot can enhance safety and performance Resilience is essential in both professional and personal life. It allows individuals to overcome challenges and learn from mistakes. Even if you disagree, working together and respecting others’ ideas is crucial for achieving common goals. Analysing mistakes and learning from them is crucial to improving safety practices in industries like aviation and medicine. Stepping out of one's comfort zone and embracing challenges is an opportunity for personal growth and development. Finding purpose in life and being grateful for our opportunities can lead to a more fulfilling and resilient mindset. Titles The Benefits of Being Friends with Your Co-Pilot The Importance of Passion and Variety in Aviation Finding Purpose and Gratitude in Life Working Together: Respect and Teamwork Sound Bites "I love the industry. It's funny, I think in the corporate world, you find guys who are quite happy to go on because it's a fantastic job, but it's a very privileged job." "The gradients are not as vertical as they used to be. I know some guys used to fly BOAC, the old guys who were long retired now, but they said that when they were flying in the 60s and 70s, a lot of the pilots then wouldn't speak to anybody on the flight deck." "You may really dislike somebody's idea, but at the end of the day, your life is in their hands. So you have to respect them." "It's just a level of professionalism, isn't it? That you just cut above that and just get the job done based on a temporary understanding and liking." "Encouraging people to think making mistakes is absolutely normal. Let's work out how we can learn from something."   Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background 09:08 The Love for the Aviation Industry 27:51 Breaking Down Barriers and Building Inclusive Flight Deck Environments 37:45 Improving Safety Practices 46:47 Teamwork and Communication 58:38 Stepping Out of the Comfort Zone   I hope you enjoy the podcast. I’d love to hear your comments and reviews, so please leave them in the comments box. 🙏. In the meantime, I wish you all the best, and please remember to: Keep It In The Greens 😊   ✈ Join my monthly newsletter https://www.benlefleming.com/monthly-flightpath ✈ Book your free discovery call with me https://calendly.com/benlefleming/discovery-call?month=2023-12 ✈ Discover my coaching offers https://www.benlefleming.com/coaching #crm #psychologicalsafety #emotionalintelligence #humanresources  #airlinepilot #mindsetpodcast #aviationpodcast #gratitudepractice #spiritual #emotionalconnection #spiritualconnection  #leadership #lifecoaching #resilience #fun #gratitude #joy #peace #mindfullness #adventure #opportunity #positivemindset #confidence #empowerment #mindset #courage #selfbelief #pilotlife #pilot #pilotlifestyle #gulfstream

‘Find Your Passion In Life’   🛫 Uncovering The Aviation Mindset - Episode 13 with Hook Hookassian🛬   Another American buddy joins me for this open chat on life in and out of the flight deck. Hook and I became mates when we flew a Gulfstream 650 together during my secondment to Nissan North America. He is a real giggle, and his laugh is very infectious. I have always admired his zest for life and finding passion and purpose.  He is one the most sociable people I know, and that particular type of skill and intelligence is invaluable for making the most of life’s incredible opportunities. His background is fascinating.  His family emigrated to the US from Armenia when he was a young boy, and that sense of adventure inspired him to pursue his boyhood dream of becoming a pilot in the US Air Force.  Hook humbly talks about his experiences, notably his feeling of inadequacy when he was not accepted as a fighter pilot. However, he recognised it was a key moment in his development that led to another adventure and renewed sense of purpose. Hook flew the KC 135 Stratotanker in the Air Force before moving on to Gulfstreams and taking up a role with Netjets.  We were operating as a crew together on a flight from Beirut to Tokyo, which resulted in the arrest of our CEO, Carlos Ghosn, for financial irregularities.  It was a bizarre experience, with about 18 people from the state prosecution department searching every nook and cranny of the aircraft, including our crew bags.  Sadly, it led to the winding up of the flight department, and most of us lost our jobs. However, we both look back on that time with fond memories, aside from the challenges.  Hook now works for a private family flying a Gulfstream 450 in the USA. (If you are interested in discovering more of the Carlos Ghosn story, it is the feature of a four part Apple TV+ documentary, as well as other film documentaries.  Wanted: The Escape of Carlos Ghosn is available on Apple TV+) Summary In the conversation, we discuss our pilot experiences and the lessons we have learned throughout our careers. We talk about the importance of humility, adaptability, and setting goals and also explore the challenges of parenting and the need for effective communication and mentoring. Our conversation emphasises the value of self-reflection and continuous learning, and we reflect on our experiences and discuss the importance of emotional and spiritual maturity in navigating unexpected situations. We share stories from our time working together at Nissan and discuss the need for open communication and dialogue. We also emphasise the importance of being prepared, maintaining control, analysing the situation, and taking appropriate action. The conversation concludes with a discussion on the value of reviewing and reflecting on experiences to continue learning and growing. Keywords pilots, flying, experiences, humility, adaptability, goals, parenting, communication, mentoring, self-reflection, learning, emotional maturity, spiritual maturity, unexpected situations, open communication, dialogue, preparation, maintaining control, analysing the situation, taking appropriate action, reviewing and reflecting Key Takeaways Humility and effective communication are important in personal growth. Adaptability is key in navigating challenges and changing circumstances. Setting clear goals helps provide direction and motivation. Effective parenting involves guiding and mentoring rather than telling and controlling. Self-reflection and continuous learning are essential for personal and professional development. Emotional and spiritual maturity are important in navigating unexpected situations. Open communication and dialogue are essential for personal and professional growth. Being prepared and maintaining control are key in handling challenging situations. Analysing the situation and taking appropriate action are crucial for success. Reviewing and reflecting on experiences helps in learning and growing. Titles Effective Parenting: Guiding and Mentoring Setting Goals for Success: A Pilot's Perspective Navigating Unexpected Situations Being Prepared and Maintaining Control Sound Bites "Life never goes in the direction that we've planned." "If I had more humility, I think I would have been a better person." "Imagination is very childlike. It's very open. It's very clear. It's very unprejudiced." "I always knew what I wanted to do" "Go back to that feeling of excitement" "Not being afraid to go out and ask"   Chapters   Chapters   00:00 Introduction and Shared Flying Experience 03:00 Lessons in Humility and Adaptability 08:11 The Importance of Setting Goals 12:43 Effective Parenting: Guiding and Mentoring 16:01 The Power of Self-Reflection and Continuous Learning 35:23 The Importance of Open Communication and Dialogue 39:13 Challenges of Distractions and Finding Social Interaction 40:55 The Unexpected Arrest of Carlos Ghosn 44:13 Dealing with Unexpected Situations and Reflecting on Decisions 49:58 Emotional and Spiritual Maturity in Overcoming Doubts 53:23 The Importance of Being Prepared and Taking Appropriate Action 55:49 Reflecting on Experiences and Looking Ahead   I hope you enjoy the podcast. I’d love to hear your comments and reviews, so please leave them in the comments box. 🙏.   In the meantime, I wish you all the best, and please remember to:   Keep It In The Greens 😊   ✈ Join my monthly newsletter https://www.benlefleming.com/monthly-flightpath   ✈ Book your free discovery call with me https://calendly.com/benlefleming/discovery-call?month=2023-12   ✈ Discover my coaching offers https://www.benlefleming.com/coaching   #crm #psychologicalsafety #emotionalintelligence #humanresources  #airlinepilot #mindsetpodcast #aviationpodcast #gratitudepractice #spiritual #emotionalconnection #spiritualconnection  #leadership #lifecoaching #resilience #fun #gratitude #joy #peace #mindfullness #adventure #opportunity #positivemindset #confidence #empowerment #mindset #courage #selfbelief #pilotlife #pilot #pilotlifestyle #gulfstream

‘The Isolation Of Aviation’   🛫 Uncovering The Aviation Mindset - Episode 12 With CFA & Concierge Bree Sheehan 🛬   Summary My good Ozzie buddy Brie joins me for another fascinating conversation about living a healthy lifestyle in and out of the aviation environment. We explore many topics aside from the potential to feel isolated in our aviation roles as we travel worldwide.  Bree and I became mates when we worked for Nissan North America, endlessly exploring this topic at 45,000 and over many enjoyable worldwide adventures.  She always makes me smile with her humour, energy, and interest in all she puts her mind to, including the human beings around her. Bree is committed to personal development and always impresses me with her enthusiasm for finding the next chapter in her life.  Her antipodean thirst for travel and adventure has taken her worldwide, working in various fields, including airlines and private/corporate aviation. She studied for a degree whilst working full-time and continues to add to her self-education CV. With her enviable communication skills, she has now branched out from her role as a corporate flight attendant to provide concierge services for global flight departments. As I always maintain in our niche world of private aviation, Bree’s CFA role provides the linchpin between the demanding passengers in the back of the jet and the demanding flight deck crew in the front. Emotional and social intelligence is vital in this role, which Bree has in abundance.    Key Takeaways ✈ Building relationships in a male-dominated industry can be challenging, but conflict resolution and emotional intelligence are key to creating better relationships. ✈ Learning to say no and prioritise personal time is essential for maintaining mental and emotional well-being. ✈ Complaining and negativity can have a detrimental effect on personal and professional relationships. ✈ Maintaining personal health through proper sleep, nutrition, and self-care is crucial in a high-pressure industry like aviation. ✈ Raising awareness of mental health and well-being is essential in the aviation industry, and there is a need for more conversations and support in this area. ✈ Gender equality and emotional intelligence are essential for creating a more inclusive and supportive environment in aviation. Feeling isolated in the aviation industry can be challenging, especially when lacking diversity and inclusion. ✈ Isolation can harm mental health, and it is crucial to address this issue in the industry. ✈ Effective leadership and emotional intelligence are crucial for creating a supportive work environment. ✈ There is a need for better training and development opportunities for aviation professionals and mentoring programs.   Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background 01:36 Challenges of Building Relationships 03:30 Managing Expectations and Saying No 05:27 Balancing Personal Time and Socialising 06:27 The Difficulty of Saying No 08:18 Managing Personal Time on the Road 09:16 The Challenge of Managing Crew Dynamics 10:10 The Complexities of Crew Relationships 11:04 The Importance of Self-Interest and Personal Development 12:01 The Negative Effects of Complaining and Negativity 13:21 Maintaining Personal Health and Well-being 15:13 Dealing with Exhaustion and Fatigue 16:31 The Importance of Health and Discipline 20:34 The Impact of Diet on Mental and Emotional Health 22:29 The Need for Gender Equality and Emotional Intelligence in Aviation 24:08 Challenges Faced by Female Flight Attendants 25:04 Challenging Behavior and Feeling Isolated 27:01 Isolation and Mental Health 29:00 Isolation and Personal Choices 30:28 Choosing Social Connections 34:40 Leadership and Emotional Intelligence 38:11 Improving Leadership and Training 43:01 Nurturing Human Potential 45:50 Open Communication and Safety 47:13 The Need for Dialogue   Bree can be found at the following links: Linkedin Instagram Facebook   I hope you enjoy the podcast. I’d love to hear your comments and reviews, so please leave them in the comments box. 🙏.   In the meantime, I wish you all the best, and please remember to:   Keep It In The Greens 😊   ✈ Join my monthly newsletter https://www.benlefleming.com/monthly-flightpath   ✈ Book your free discovery call with me https://calendly.com/benlefleming/discovery-call?month=2023-12   ✈ Discover my coaching offers https://www.benlefleming.com/coaching   #crm #psychologicalsafety #emotionalintelligence #humanresources  #airlinepilot #mindsetpodcast #aviationpodcast #gratitudepractice #spiritual #emotionalconnection #spiritualconnection  #leadership #lifecoaching #resilience #fun #gratitude #joy #peace #mindfullness #adventure #opportunity #positivemindset #confidence #empowerment #mindset #courage #selfbelief #pilotlife #pilot #pilotlifestyle #gulfstream

‘The Power of Emotional Intelligence’ 🛫 Uncovering The Aviation Mindset - Episode 11 With Captain Oskar Maliszewski 🛬   Summary Another great aviation friend joins me today in this fascinating conversation. I first met Oskar when I did freelance cover for him on a Gulfstream 650 while he was the Director Of Flight Ops at a private jet operation in Warsaw, Poland. Oskar is another one of those tremendously humble individuals who set the bar high in our industry with his commitment to a high level of emotional intelligence, warmth and inclusivity. I was fortunate to fly with Oskar a few years after meeting.  We took off from London Luton airport in a Gulfstream 650 only to be faced with a main hydraulic failure, which required us to return to the airport immediately.  I was proud of how we both worked together on that occasion, and it was an excellent example of how effectively human beings can operate in unison when employing a healthy mixture of professional skill and emotional intelligence. In the podcast, we discuss leadership, confidence, and mindset in the aviation industry, and explore the importance of creating a diverse and inclusive environment, particularly in a male-dominated industry. We also discuss the challenges of rebalancing gender representation and the need for empathy and emotional intelligence in leadership. The conversation highlights the significance of humility, vulnerability, and creating a safe and supportive work environment, as well as the importance of curiosity, reflection, and building trust in fostering effective teamwork and successful outcomes.   Key Takeaways ✈ Creating a diverse and inclusive environment is crucial in the aviation industry. ✈ Rebalancing gender representation requires efforts to attract and support women in aviation. ✈ Humility and emotional intelligence are essential qualities for effective leadership. ✈ Creating a safe and supportive work environment fosters trust and enhances performance. ✈ Curiosity and reflection are key to personal and professional growth in leadership roles.   Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background 06:21 Creating a Diverse and Inclusive Environment 28:16 The Importance of Humility and Emotional Intelligence 36:00 Creating a Safe and Supportive Work Environment 40:09 The Role of Curiosity and Reflection in Leadership 46:00 Building Trust and Bonding in the Cockpit 47:27 Summary and Conclusion   If you are interested in making contact with Oskar, he can be found on Linkedin at: Oskar Maliszewski   I hope you enjoy the podcast, and I’d love to hear your comments and reviews, so please do leave them in the comments box. 🙏. In the meantime, I wish you all the best, and please remember to: Keep It In The Greens 😊   ✈ Join my monthly newsletter https://www.benlefleming.com/monthly-flightpath ✈ Book your free discovery call with me https://calendly.com/benlefleming/discovery-call?month=2023-12 ✈ Discover my coaching offers https://www.benlefleming.com/coaching #crm #psychologicalsafety #emotionalintelligence #humanresources  #airlinepilot #mindsetpodcast #aviationpodcast #gratitudepractice #spiritual #emotionalconnection #spiritualconnection  #leadership #lifecoaching #resilience #fun #gratitude #joy #peace #mindfullness #adventure #opportunity #positivemindset #confidence #empowerment #mindset #courage #selfbelief #pilotlife #pilot #pilotlifestyle #gulfstream

‘The Secret To Confidence’ 🛫 Uncovering The Aviation Mindset - Episode 10 With Heidi Cole 🛬   Summary The lovely Heidi Cole is back for round 2 of our conversation! In the conversation, we discuss the importance of confidence and authenticity in various aspects of life, including professional settings and personal relationships. We explore the fight or flight response in high-stakes situations and the impact of stress on our ability to connect with ourselves and others. We emphasise the power of emotional resilience and the need to trust our inner guidance and intuition. We discuss the importance of balancing our feminine and masculine energies and the journey of personal growth and self-discovery. Overall, the conversation highlights the importance of trusting and embracing our true selves to create fulfilling and meaningful lives.   Key Takeaways 🛫 We are born confident and capable, but as we grow older, we often pick up limiting beliefs and self-doubt that hinder our confidence. 🛫 In high-stakes situations, such as job interviews or important meetings, the fight or flight response can cause us to disconnect from ourselves and rely on external expectations, leading to a lack of authenticity. 🛫 Authenticity and trust in ourselves create a sense of calm and safety, which are essential in building strong relationships and making a positive impact. 🛫 Trusting our intuition and inner guidance is crucial in making decisions and navigating challenges. It is important to strip away the layers of identity and connect with our true selves. 🛫 Balancing our feminine and masculine energies allows for a more harmonious and inclusive approach to life, leading to greater fulfilment and growth.   Chapters 00:00 The Confidence We're Born With 00:36 The Fight or Flight Response in High-Stake Situations 03:00 The Importance of Authenticity and Trusting Ourselves 04:25 The Impact of Being Ourselves in Professional Settings 05:47 Creating a Feeling of Home, Calm, and Safety 06:45 The Power of Emotional Resilience 07:43 The Law of Sympathetic Resonance 08:12 Stripping Away Identity and Being Honest with Ourselves 09:10 Going with the Flow and Trusting Ourselves 10:31 Counteracting Stress and Connecting Authentically 11:27 Peeling Off Layers and Connecting to Our True Selves 12:55 Trusting Our Inner Guidance and Intuition 14:53 The Journey of Growth and Overcoming Challenges 20:10 The Practice of Confidence and Trusting Ourselves 23:05 The Importance of Freedom and Inclusivity 24:36 Trusting the Process and Enjoying Life 28:06 The Power of Innate Intelligence and Intuition 29:01 Balancing the Feminine and Masculine Energies 30:53 Trusting Ourselves and Following Our Inner Guidance 33:22 Closing Remarks and Contact Information   Heidi would love to help you build confidence as a corporate flight attendant, so please get in touch with her using the following links:   Website: https://www.confidenceintheair.com/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/coleheidi/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/heidi.cole.1044 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_heidicole_confidenceintheair_/   I hope you enjoy the podcast, and I’d love to hear your comments and reviews 🙏. In the meantime, I wish you all the best, and please remember to:   Keep It In The Greens 😊   ✈ Join my monthly newsletter https://www.benlefleming.com/monthly-flightpath ✈ Book your free discovery call with me https://calendly.com/benlefleming/discovery-call?month=2023-12 ✈ Discover my coaching offers https://www.benlefleming.com/coaching   #crm #psychologicalsafety #emotionalintelligence #humanresources  #airlinepilot #mindsetpodcast #aviationpodcast #gratitudepractice #spiritual #emotionalconnection #spiritualconnection  #leadership #lifecoaching #resilience #fun #gratitude #joy #peace #mindfullness #adventure #opportunity #positivemindset #confidence #empowerment #mindset #courage #selfbelief #pilotlife #pilot #pilotlifestyle #gulfstream  

Summary I’m joined today by the gorgeous Heidi Cole, Corporate Flight Attendant, Mentor & Coach (www.confidenceintheair.com) Heidi Cole shares her journey from modelling to becoming a TV presenter, a corporate flight attendant and eventually transitioning into coaching and personal development. We discuss the importance of finding confidence and acceptance, especially during challenging times like the COVID-19 pandemic. Heidi emphasises the need to align with our true selves and peel off the layers of negativity to uncover our innate confidence. She also highlights the power of listening and the healing that comes from being fully present. Overall, the conversation explores the themes of self-discovery, personal growth, and building confidence.   Key Takeaways ✈ Our experiences in life help us discover what we want and don't want, leading us to understand ourselves better. ✈ Confidence is not something we lack; it is always present within us. We must peel off the layers of negativity and self-doubt to uncover it. ✈ Desperation and lack of trust hinder our ability to attract what we desire. Letting go of despair and aligning with confidence opens up opportunities. ✈ Coaching and personal development provide valuable support and guidance in uncovering our strengths, building confidence, and creating a fulfilling life. ✈ Listening and being fully present in conversations can be healing and transformative for both the listener and the speaker.   Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background 01:03 Starting a Career in Modeling and Traveling 02:59 Moving into Corporate Aviation 04:51 Becoming a TV Presenter 06:20 Overcoming Rejections and Pursuing Opportunities 07:47 Finding Confidence and Acceptance 10:37 Transitioning to Coaching and Personal Development 16:27 Navigating a Turbulent Time During COVID-19 32:31 Unleashing Unique Strengths and Building Confidence 39:14 Overcoming Desperation and Aligning with Confidence 42:25 Summary and Conclusion   If you want to build confidence in your corporate flight attendant role, Heidi would love to support you at the following links.   Website: https://www.confidenceintheair.com/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/coleheidi/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/heidi.cole.1044 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_heidicole_confidenceintheair_/   I hope you enjoy the podcast, and I’d love to hear your comments and reviews 🙏. In the meantime, I wish you all the best, and please remember to: Keep It In The Greens 😊   ✈ Join my monthly newsletter https://www.benlefleming.com/monthly-flightpath ✈ Book your free discovery call with me https://calendly.com/benlefleming/discovery-call?month=2023-12 ✈ Discover my coaching offers https://www.benlefleming.com/coaching #crm #psychologicalsafety #emotionalintelligence #humanresources  #airlinepilot #mindsetpodcast #aviationpodcast #gratitudepractice #spiritual #emotionalconnection #spiritualconnection  #leadership #lifecoaching #resilience #fun #gratitude #joy #peace #mindfullness #adventure #opportunity #positivemindset #confidence #empowerment #mindset #courage #selfbelief #pilotlife #pilot #pilotlifestyle #gulfstream

Summary Emma, founder of the Wingman Project, returns for part 2 of our conversation, where she shares her ideas on mental wellbeing through her fascinating journey and the importance of compassion and connection. The Wingman Project was born in a desire to support NHS staff during the COVID-19 pandemic, providing peer support and distraction therapy. Emma emphasises the need for men to open up and talk about their struggles, breaking down gender stereotypes. She also highlights the power of touch and the importance of human connection in combating loneliness and mental health issues. Emma's upcoming book, 'Unfurling My Wings,' chronicles her journey and the lessons she has learned along the way. Key Takeaways ✈ Compassion and empathy are qualities that everyone, especially men, should strive to develop. ✈ Parenting should prioritise human connection and limit reliance on technology. ✈ The Wingman Project provides peer support and distraction therapy to NHS staff during the COVID-19 pandemic. ✈ Creating safe spaces for both men and women to talk about their struggles is crucial in addressing mental health issues.   Chapters 00:00 The Wingman Project 01:04 Changing Parenting 03:23 The Impact of COVID-19 04:20 Opening the First Lounge 06:15 Expansion of Wingman 08:09 Creating a Supportive Environment 09:06 The Power of Human Connection 10:30 Building an Aircrew Community 11:24 Breaking Gender Stereotypes 13:19 The Importance of Connection 14:48 The Limitations of Social Media 20:08 The Power of Touch 22:59 The Book: Unfurling My Wings 25:21 Breaking Down Gender Stereotypes 28:17 Being True to Yourself 30:36 Addressing Mental Health 33:00 Upcoming Book Release   I hope you enjoy the podcast, and I’d love to hear your comments and reviews 🙏. In the meantime, I wish you all the best, and please remember to: Keep It In The Greens 😊   ✈ Join my monthly newsletter https://www.benlefleming.com/monthly-flightpath ✈ Book your free discovery call with me https://calendly.com/benlefleming/discovery-call?month=2023-12 ✈ Discover my coaching offers https://www.benlefleming.com/coaching   #crm #psychologicalsafety #emotionalintelligence #humanresources  #airlinepilot #mindsetpodcast #aviationpodcast #gratitudepractice #spiritual #emotionalconnection #spiritualconnection  #leadership #lifecoaching #resilience #fun #gratitude #joy #peace #mindfullness #adventure #opportunity #positivemindset #confidence #empowerment #mindset #courage #selfbelief #pilotlife #pilot #pilotlifestyle #gulfstream

Summary This is part one of my fascinating conversation with the delightful Emma Henderson MBE, an airline captain and founder of Project Wingman. Emma’s energy, enthusiasm, and humility in all she does are thoroughly infectious.  Among her many achievements, gaining her private and professional pilot’s licences only came after her three children arrived!  Emma became an EasyJet captain and a company flight ambassador, appearing on their television series.   Whilst on furlough during the Covid pandemic, she started the charity Project Wingman, rallying 6,500 airline staff to support the NHS (for which she was awarded an MBE). We discuss Emma's career journey, the importance of mindset and confidence, and the lessons she learned from failure. Emma emphasises the need to embrace new opportunities and maintain humility and humour. She also highlights the importance of admitting failure and increasing emotional intelligence. The conversation explores breaking gender stereotypes and promoting equality in the aviation industry. Key Takeaways Maintaining a positive and creative mindset is crucial for personal growth and success. Failure is an opportunity for learning and personal development. Taking ownership of mistakes and using them as motivation to improve is essential. Humility and humour are valuable traits that can help navigate challenges and build strong relationships. Embracing new opportunities and taking risks can lead to personal and professional growth. Admitting failure and increasing emotional intelligence are essential for personal and professional development. Breaking gender stereotypes and promoting equality in the workplace is vital for creating a supportive and inclusive environment. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Positive Mindset 00:31 Introduction of Emma Henderson and Project Wingman 01:28 Emma's Career Journey 05:21 Career with EasyJet 06:21 Mindset and Confidence 08:16 Learning from Failure 10:21 Exploring New Opportunities 13:41 Humility and Humor 16:05 Dealing with Setbacks 21:35 Taking Ownership and Moving Forward 24:29 Increasing Capacity and Embracing Failure 27:18 Breaking Gender Stereotypes 29:15 Admitting Failure and Increasing Capacity 31:12 Creating a Safe Space for Failure 33:09 Overcoming Male Egos 38:19 Equality and Emotional Intelligence   I hope you enjoy the podcast and I’d love to hear your comments and reviews 🙏. In the meantime, I wish you all the best, and please remember to: Keep It In The Greens 😊  ✈ Join my monthly newsletter https://www.benlefleming.com/monthly-flightpath ✈ Book your free discovery call with me https://calendly.com/benlefleming/discovery-call?month=2023-12 ✈ Discover my coaching offers https://www.benlefleming.com/coaching   #crm #psychologicalsafety #emotionalintelligence #humanresources  #airlinepilot #mindsetpodcast #aviationpodcast #gratitudepractice #spiritual #emotionalconnection #spiritualconnection  #leadership #lifecoaching #resilience #fun #gratitude #joy #peace #mindfullness #adventure #opportunity #positivemindset #confidence #empowerment #mindset #courage #selfbelief #pilotlife #pilot #pilotlifestyle #gulfstream  

“The 5C’s Of Success ”   🛫 Uncovering The Aviation Mindset - Episode 6 with Ed Chitren 🛬   Summary   I am delighted to be joined by another old mate of mine, Ed Chitren.   Ed and I worked together for the Nissan North America Flight Department, where he was the Gulfstream and Hawker fleet maintenance director.   Ed now heads the team at a US West Coast-based corporate flight department.   In this conversation, we discuss Ed's 5C’s model for approaching maintenance inputs and other challenges in life.   The 5C model consists of staying calm, being conscious of the ripple effects of an operational interruption, effective communication, cooperation, and coordination.   Ed and I emphasise the importance of teamwork, trust, and avoiding blame in resolving issues.   We also discuss the significance of remaining calm, gathering information, and working together to find solutions.   The 5C model can be applied to various situations in aviation and life.   The conversation explores multiple themes related to managing change, utilising resources, teamwork, healthy competition, admitting mistakes, and finding solutions to problems.   Key Takeaways   ✈ Staying calm and avoiding immediate emotional reactions is crucial in resolving operational interruptions. ✈ Being conscious of the ripple effects and understanding the perspectives of all parties involved helps in finding common ground. ✈ Effective communication, without blame or implication, is essential for teamwork and problem-solving. ✈ Cooperation and coordination among team members lead to successful resolution of issues. ✈ Continuously reviewing and reflecting on the process helps in learning and improving for future challenges. ✈ Change and dynamic flux can be effectively managed by utilising resources and teamwork. ✈ Surrounding oneself with brilliant people can lead to success and personal growth. ✈ Healthy competition and confidence are essential for personal and professional development. ✈ Admitting mistakes and fostering a just culture is crucial for safety and improvement. ✈ Collaboration and utilising the expertise of others can lead to success. ✈ Temporary problems should not be met with permanent solutions.   Chapters   00:00 Introduction and Background 03:00 The 5C Model: Calm 11:04 The 5C Model: Conscious 18:43 The 5C Model: Communicate 27:47 The 5C Model: Cooperate 35:39 The 5C Model: Coordinate 44:53 Managing Change and Dynamic Flux 45:48 Utilizing Resources and Teamwork 48:10 Healthy Competition and Confidence 49:08 Admitting Mistakes and Just Culture 50:04 Success through Collaboration 51:33 Finding Solutions to Temporary Problems   If you enjoy the podcast. I'd love to hear your comments! 🙏.   In the meantime, I wish you all the best, and please remember to:   Keep It In The Greens 😊    ✈ Join my monthly newsletter https://www.benlefleming.com/monthly-flightpath ✈ Book your free discovery call with me https://calendly.com/benlefleming/discovery-call?month=2023-12 ✈ Discover my coaching offers https://www.benlefleming.com/coaching ✈ Listen to my podcast "Uncovering The Aviation Mindset" https://open.spotify.com/show/6EIJqnx4uk2HwTJyeKu9kP?si=48d778a817944a9e (available on all podcast platforms)   #crm #psychologicalsafety #emotionalintelligence #humanresources  #airlinepilot #mindsetpodcast #aviationpodcast #gratitudepractice #spiritual #emotionalconnection #spiritualconnection  #leadership #lifecoaching #resilience #fun #gratitude #joy #peace #mindfullness #adventure #opportunity #positivemindset #confidence #empowerment #mindset #courage #selfbelief #pilotlife #pilot #pilotlifestyle #gulfstream  

🛫 Uncovering The Aviation Mindset - Episode 5 with Martin Hunt 🛬 In this episode, another old mate, Martin Hunt, joins me. Martin flies a Gulfstream 600 for a UK operator after many years with Easyjet as a training and examining captain on the Boing 737. Martin and I played in the same cricket team at school many years ago.  I hadn’t seen him for decades until he sat in the examining seat when I was in for my final simulator test on the Boeing 737. In the conversation, we explore the themes of resilience, confidence, and emotional intelligence in aviation training.  We discuss our personal experiences and the importance of building confidence through positive feedback and support.  We emphasise the value of humility and the ability to laugh at oneself to create a positive learning environment.  The conversation also highlights the role of coaching and collaboration in training and the impact of emotional connection and enjoyment in flying.  Overall, we stress the importance of resilience and the ability to learn from mistakes to become a better pilot. Key Takeaways ✈ Building resilience and confidence is crucial in aviation training. ✈ Positive feedback and support from others can significantly enhance confidence. ✈ Humility and the ability to laugh at oneself create a positive learning environment. ✈ Emotional intelligence and connection are key to effective training and leadership.   Chapters 00:00 Reconnecting with an Old Friend 00:59 Career Summary 02:26 Joining EasyJet 03:55 Transition to Corporate Aviation 04:23 Overcoming Disappointment and Doubt 06:13 Building Confidence Through Perseverance 07:42 The Importance of Resilience in Training 08:40 The Role of Confidence in Pilot Training 09:38 The Evolution of Training Methods 10:36 The Power of Emotional Intelligence in Training 11:34 The Impact of Positive Training Experiences 12:34 The Importance of Fun and Enjoyment in Flying 13:59 Using Unconventional Training Methods 15:28 The Connection Between Confidence and Performance 17:12 The Pitfalls of Alpha Male Mentality in Aviation 18:09 The Role of Coaching in Training 19:37 The Dynamics of Flying with Captains 21:31 The Importance of Openness and Collaboration 22:24 The Value of Learning from Others 23:23 The Power of Humility in Leadership 24:20 The Benefits of Laughing at Ourselves 25:42 The Impact of Emotional Hijack in Training 27:35 The Importance of Admitting Mistakes 28:32 The Value of Emotional Connection 29:25 The Power of Being Interested in Others 30:49 The Role of Doubt and Confidence in Flying 32:16 The Importance of Positive Feedback 33:42 Finding Joy and Fun in Flying 35:05 Building Resilience and Confidence 36:34 The Power of Support and Connection 38:00 The Value of Seeking Positive Feedback 39:24 The Importance of Humility and Learning     Please consider leaving a review if you enjoy the podcast 🙏.   In the meantime, I wish you all the best, and please remember to:   Keep It In The Greens 😊    ✈ Join my monthly newsletter https://www.benlefleming.com/monthly-flightpath ✈ Book your free discovery call with me https://calendly.com/benlefleming/discovery-call?month=2023-12 ✈ Discover my coaching offers https://www.benlefleming.com/coaching ✈ Listen to my podcast "Uncovering The Aviation Mindset" https://open.spotify.com/show/6EIJqnx4uk2HwTJyeKu9kP?si=48d778a817944a9e (available on all podcast platforms)   #crm #psychologicalsafety #emotionalintelligence #humanresources  #airlinepilot #mindsetpodcast #aviationpodcast #gratitudepractice #spiritual #emotionalconnection #spiritualconnection  #leadership #lifecoaching #resilience #fun #gratitude #joy #peace #mindfullness #adventure #opportunity #positivemindset #confidence #empowerment #mindset #courage #selfbelief #pilotlife #pilot #pilotlifestyle #gulfstream  

Summary   Today, I am joined by my old friend Leo Nugent. Leo is a training captain on the Boeing 737 for a major airline in the UK, as well as the BALPA (British Airline Pilots Association) representing the pilots he works with at the company.   Leo and I met on our commercial training course at Oxford Aviation Academy about 24 years ago. Our paths crossed professionally about eight years later when I joined the same airline as Leo. Leo was by then a captain on the Boeing 737 when I joined as a First Officer, so we had the interesting dynamic of flying together with different levels of authority.  I remember performing the worst of my landings in a jet aircraft with him into Kos one night - it was a very humbling experience! Leo’s experience as a union representative offers immense value for all who are committed to developing healthy mindsets and emotional and spiritual connections.   We discuss the importance of teamwork, emotional understanding, and authenticity in aviation.  We emphasise the need for pilots to establish a flow state in the cockpit and develop strong communication and trust with our team members.  We also highlight the value of learning from mistakes, embracing feedback, and continuously improving.  The conversation touches on the challenges of leadership, the pressure of perfection, and the superficiality of social media.  Overall, the conversation emphasises the importance of connection, resilience, and personal growth in the aviation industry, which as always, can be applied to any stage in life, be it professionally or personally.    Takeaways   Teamwork and effective communication are crucial in aviation, contributing to safety and efficiency. Establishing a flow state in the cockpit helps pilots perform at their best and enhances teamwork. Emotional understanding and authenticity are essential for building strong relationships and trust in the aviation industry. Learning from mistakes and embracing feedback is essential for personal and professional growth. The pressure of perfection and the superficiality of social media can hinder personal development and connection.   Chapters   00:00 Introduction and Background 03:18 The Importance of Teamwork in Aviation 06:05 Establishing a Flow State in the Cockpit 08:27 The Role of Emotional Understanding in Aviation 10:19 The Importance of Fairness and Authenticity 12:15 Standing Up Against Corruption and Injustice 13:14 Seeing the Universe as a Beautiful Place 14:44 The Value of Emotional Connection in the Cockpit 17:36 Learning from Mistakes and Embracing Feedback 19:30 Deliberate Practice and Continuous Improvement 23:18 Balancing Operational Excellence and Communication 24:46 The Importance of People Skills in Leadership 26:44 Preparation and Teamwork in Challenging Operations 30:04 Overcoming Challenges and Building Confidence 32:58 The Pressure of Perfection and Authenticity 35:54 The Superficiality of Social Media and the Importance of Connection 39:17 Navigating Difficult Situations and Overcoming Challenges 46:00 Trusting the Process and Embracing the Journey   Keep It In The Greens 😊    How about clicking on the links below to:   ✈ Join my monthly newsletter https://www.benlefleming.com/monthly-flightpath ✈ Book your free discovery call with me https://calendly.com/benlefleming/discovery-call?month=2023-12 ✈ Discover my coaching offers https://www.benlefleming.com/coaching   You can also find me at:   https://www.instagram.com/benlefleming_/ https://www.facebook.com/ben.l.fleming.7 https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552792154354 https://www.linkedin.com/in/ben-le-fleming-2a623710/    

Summary Today I am joined by another great friend, Veeraj Mewasingh. Veeraj currently flies Gulfstream 550 and 650’s for an operation in South Korea. We have similar backgrounds in coming to our piloting profession as second careers in our mid to late twenties. Veeraj qualified as an optometrist before overcoming his doubts as to his abilities, and, with the encouragement of his mother, finally followed his dreams of becoming a professional pilot.  We flew a Gulfstream 550 together a few years back.  On one flight from Tokyo to Jakarta, we unexpectedly encountered severe turbulence and the aircraft was hit by lightning a total of four times.  It was one of the most emotionally charged times I have had in my life, and I have spent long periods of time thinking about the existential nature of the incident. The training that we had been through in our professional lives, and our personal interest in emotional and spiritual health supported us in that dramatic incident, and it forms the basis of everything I now approach in life. In the conversation, we discuss our aviation careers and share stories of our experiences.  We talk about dealing with undermining people, the importance of self-confidence in aviation, surviving turbulence and lightning strikes, emotional and spiritual resilience, the power of compassion and connection, and supporting and understanding others.  We emphasise the importance of training, self-reflection, and understanding one's emotions to navigate challenging situations.  The conversation ends with a discussion about future topics to explore. Key Takeaways Self-confidence is crucial in aviation as it gives pilots and others a greater capacity for situational awareness and decision-making. Dealing with underconfident individuals requires compassion and understanding, as they may be struggling with their own insecurities. Emotional and spiritual resilience can help pilots and the wider community to navigate challenging situations and maintain a sense of calm and focus. Supporting and understanding others in the aviation industry is essential for creating a positive and effective team dynamic. Training, self-reflection, and continuous learning are key to developing the skills and mindset needed to thrive in aviation and our lives in general.   Chapters   00:00 Introduction and Career Background 03:16 Dealing with Undermining and Lack of Confidence 11:39 The Importance of Self-Confidence in Aviation 20:31 Surviving Turbulence and Lightning Strikes 25:15 Emotional and Spiritual Resilience 30:02 The Power of Compassion and Connection 38:47 Supporting and Understanding Others 40:39 Conclusion and Future Discussions

Welcome aboard to episode 2 of the Uncovering The Aviation Mindset podcast. Today, I am joined by my friend Grady Montgomery, a full-time US-based Gulfstream contractor, entrepreneur, ex-firefighter, and self-confessed dreamer.   Grady and I met over ten years ago on the Gulfstream 650 type rating course in Savannah, USA, and have been great friends since.  Grady inspires me as he has always had the confidence to go it alone and not rely on employment to make his living.  He is also a successful businessman, running his property and t-shirt retailing businesses.  In his spare time he enjoys spending time with his daughter, flying his light aricraft, and motoring around on his boat.   In this conversation, Grady and I discuss his journey in aviation, starting from his late entry into flying and progressing to becoming a Gulfstream pilot.  We explore topics such as taking risks, overcoming the fear of failure, dealing with challenging situations, teamwork, decision-making, leadership, and supporting others.  Grady emphasises the importance of confidence, believing in oneself, and empowering others.  He also highlights the role of mentors and the responsibility to help the next generation of pilots.   Takeaways   Taking risks and investing in one's passion can lead to fulfilling careers. Overcoming fear of failure is essential for personal and professional growth. Teamwork and effective decision-making are crucial in aviation. Leadership involves empowering others and supporting their growth. Mentoring and helping the next generation is a responsibility for experienced professionals.   Chapters   00:00 Introduction and Background 02:23 Starting Flying and Career Progression 06:05 Taking Risks and Investing in the Future 10:25 Overcoming Fear of Failure 13:19 Dealing with Challenging Situations 17:34 Teamwork and Decision-Making 25:10 Gaining Confidence and Empowering Others 29:59 Saying No and Making Difficult Decisions 38:49 Leadership and Supporting Others 42:35 Mentoring and Helping the Next Generation If you are interested in exploring how to develop your mindset and confidence with me, why not click the link to my website and book a FREE 30-minute discovery call during which we will discuss whether I am able to support you with my coaching program? You will also find a link to sign up for my monthly newsletter, where I share some inspirational stories, some tips and tricks, and book and social media posts to help you set the goals you would like to achieve and navigate around the thunderstorms of life towards the destination of your dreams. www.benlefleming.com   You can also find me at:   https://www.instagram.com/benlefleming_/ https://www.facebook.com/ben.l.fleming.7 https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552792154354 https://www.linkedin.com/in/ben-le-fleming-2a623710/   Transcript Ben le Fleming (00:00.322) think that's right we all have our intrinsic fears actually one of my fears is heights I've got a real fear of heights so we can because that's quite an interesting one you know I know for a pilot and I know other pilots that are afraid of heights too so I always find that just a little ironic but it is what it is yeah I'm here I'm here today with my lovely friend Grady and I've known each other for about 10 years we did our Goldstream 650 course together   month in July, we both got some experience on the 550. We made friends immediately, went out, socialized together and just really became great friends. And we've seen each other all around the world now for nearly 10 years. So welcome Grady. Thank you, Ben. Pleasure to be here. Thanks for having me on your podcast. Lovely to have you. Grady's got a really interesting background because he didn't actually start flying until he was 34. And you came, as you...   Talked about, as I well know, we've talked plenty of times about as you came from not a privileged family in terms of finances. So you've had to work all through your life and you went through and did the business and finance degree, set up a t-shirt business, worked really as an entrepreneur. You didn't start flying until 34. That's all correct, Ben. You know, being a pilot had been a childhood dream.   So, you know, I wanted to do it, just didn't have the financial resources to pursue it through college, out of college. You know, I started a different company, a t-shirt company. And before that, you know, I had done various jobs. I was a DJ, a lifeguard, a bartender, just a lot of different things. And the t-shirt company provided the financial wherewithal to get my pilot's license. And I'm pretty much a goal already in person. So I decided, well, I know nothing about flying. I know nothing about aviation. So.   I'm going to stick with until I solo. And if I don't like it, then I'll drop out then. But I actually loved it. And I went on and got my private pilot's license and then just kept moving forward. Like everybody else, Instrument Commercial, ATP, started a little aerial tour company, which I turned into a 135 charter, which led into me becoming a co-pilot on a Citation II that was based on the local field where I lived and did my flying. And that's kind of how I got into aviation.   Ben le Fleming (02:23.246) Yes, that's such a brilliant story. But I can't actually remember, I've asked you this specifically. When you got into flying, did you do it to become a commercial pilot or was it just literally to get to that first stage of sailing and seeing what happens after that? It was, there was no goal to become a commercial pilot. It was strictly to get a private pilot's license. Like I mentioned, my goal was to solo. And then once I reached that, then I wanted to get my private pilot's license. And you know, what...   I did it for multiple reasons. I've always had a travel bug. I've always liked to travel and I've always had a sense of adventure. And, you know, weekend trips, when you have a small airplane, take on a whole new meaning because three and a half hours in an airplane can take you a lot further than three and a half hours in an automobile. So, that's how I got into it. And then, like I said, it was my passion. So, even though I was later in life, I just kept pursuing it. And, you know, this brought me to where I am today. Yeah, such a good story. The thing that I...   I'm really impressed about we talked about this back in 2014 because I've got that sort of basic mindset. What I think I'm pushing through it now about the idea, well, let's stick with the safety thing and get a job so that you've got a guaranteed income and you've got a bit of a pension and things like that. But you went against that grain. I know being an entrepreneur, you have that mindset and I think I'm very much developing that in my later years now. Very it's wonderful. It's very liberating, very empowering. But you.   You did that early, because you've been a contractor. We call it freelance over here. But you've been a freelancer for the last 14 years. And to go from... I mean, you had your first job, I think, on citations and Falcons, but to actually go and decide... That's just such a good story, the way you went from chief pilot on the citations to the Falcons to the next stage of becoming a Gulfstream pilot. I mean, I love that. It's such an impact. Tell us that story.   Sure. Well, it's not a great story, but it's, I was chief pilot for a great part 91 flight department. And, you know, the financial downturn, they got behind it. They couldn't get ahead of it. So that department closed. And I was just starting, trying to figure out what I wanted to do. This is in 2009, 2010. And, you know, the aviation market wasn't great. So I was looking at everything. I was doing contract work in the Citations and the XL.   Ben le Fleming (04:43.094) And I'm going like, if I want to do this, you've got to go large cabin. You got to go global or Gulf Stream. And I've lived near Savannah. I have friends at Gulf Stream. I have other acquaintances that flew Gulf Stream. So I chose to do that route. So I did, I paid for my own 550 type, my G5 type, which was a 550 to 450 of the G5. And it took me a couple of years to become successful at that because   You know, it's like any other business. When you've got to go out and you market yourself, you've got to go to the event, you've got to let everybody know who you are and what you're doing and that you're available. And you just got to meet and greet people. So I was a, it took me a couple years, but I turned into a successful G5 contract pilot. The G650 was announced and I told a buddy of mine that like, oh, that's, I'm going to school on that. And he kind of chuckled and said, okay, yeah, sure. And when it came out,   I was in one of the earlier classes with you on the 650. And, you know, I paid for all my own training. So I had paid for my G5 initial. I paid for all my recurrence. And I bought and paid for my G650 type. And, you know, it's a leap of faith is all it is. You know, my goal was just to hopefully get enough work in it starting out to, you know, recoup my investment and to move forward. But what I kept telling everybody is, you know, that's just an investment in my future.   And I did the exact same thing when I went to G7 school. But going back to the 650, you know, I hit the ground running and it's a long range aircraft. There weren't a lot of pilots typed on it. And it was just, I just hit a home run. I really did. So I became a successful G650 contract pilot. I did that for a few years. And then when Gulfstream announced the G7 series, you know, with the side stick and the symmetry flight deck, I realized at that time that Gulfstream would never put a yoke back into another aircraft.   So that is the future. And if you want to make an investment in your future, that's a plane to go to school on because it doesn't have the range of a 650. It doesn't do the same missions, but that's going to be a start. And that's where I'm at now. I'm a ful

Welcome aboard, everyone, to the first episode of the Uncovering The Aviation Mindset Podcast!    I am delighted to be joined by my friend Gav Scott as my first guest 🙂    Gav is a Captain with a UK-based commercial VIP operation on the Gulfstream 650.  Before that, he served in the military as a C17 Captain.   In this conversation, we discuss the importance of mindset, confidence, and emotional well-being in high-stress environments.    Gav shares his experiences as a pilot in the military and the challenges he faced in maintaining a positive mindset.    We discuss the dangers of mission creep and the need for self-reflection and objective advice.    We also emphasise the importance of recognising imposter syndrome and building confidence.    The conversation highlights the value of positive reinforcement and mentoring and the power of communication and empathy in creating a supportive environment.    The key takeaway is to believe in oneself and seek help when needed.   Takeaways   Maintaining a positive mindset and emotional well-being is crucial in high-stress environments. Self-reflection and seeking objective advice are essential for personal growth and overcoming challenges. Recognising imposter syndrome and building confidence is important for success. Positive reinforcement and mentoring play a significant role in supporting others and fostering growth. Effective communication and empathy create a supportive environment and enhance teamwork.   Chapters   00:00 Introduction and Background 01:30 The Importance of Mindset in Stressful Situations 04:24 Dealing with Stress in High-Intensity Environments 07:46 Recognizing the Dangers of Mission Creep 09:13 The Value of Self-Reflection and Seeking Objective Advice 11:09 Developing Self-Awareness and Overcoming Ego 13:33 The Power of Clarity and Taking a Step Back 16:54 Overcoming Imposter Syndrome and Building Confidence 19:18 The Need for Positive Reinforcement and Support 20:14 Recognizing the Importance of Mentoring 22:38 Dealing with Self-Sabotage and Overcoming Doubt 24:35 The Impact of External Validation and Belief in Oneself 27:02 The Role of Mentors and Supportive Instructors 29:23 The Importance of Empowerment and Speaking Up 35:29 The Broad Impact of Human Factors in Aviation 39:00 The Power of Communication and Empathy 40:38 Advice to Younger Self: Believe in Yourself and Seek Help   If you are interested in exploring how to develop your mindset and confidence with me, why not click the link to my website and book a FREE 30-minute discovery call during which we will discuss if my coaching program will support you?  You will also find a link to sign up for my monthly newsletter, where I share some inspirational stories, some tips and tricks, and book and social media posts to help you set the goals you would like to achieve and navigate around the thunderstorms of life towards the destination of your dreams. www.benlefleming.com You can also find me at: https://www.instagram.com/benlefleming_/ https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552792154354 https://www.facebook.com/ben.l.fleming.7 https://www.linkedin.com/in/ben-le-fleming-2a623710/   Until the next episode, I wish you all the best in your journey of self-discovery and self-development, and please remember to:    Keep It In The Greens 😊   

🛫 Mark Evers: Airline Start-up Consultant & Boeing Training Captain🛬   An old friend joins me again today.  I came across Mark for the first time while sitting in the right-hand seat as a First Officer on the Boeing 737 in 2008.  Mark was one of my training captains, and I consider at the top of the tree.  His ability to make me feel comfortable and confident in that high workload role as a newly type-rated pilot was exceptional. We discuss the importance of stripping away any need to prove oneself to promote others. By developing our emotional intelligence to understand ourselves, we build the capacity to make it all about promoting others. As a by-product, we can immensely improve ourselves and our lives.  Mark’s skills have extended far beyond the flight deck. He has successfully helped six airlines launch in the intense and risky aviation business through his company Aviatica Group.  His knowledge of compliance and procedures, as well as his mindset, is second to none. Mark shares his strategies for dealing with intense pressure and criticism, including taking accountability and learning from failures. The conversation explores the themes of personal growth, leadership, risk-taking, and creating a positive work environment. Key Takeaways ✈ Mistakes and failures can be valuable learning opportunities for personal growth and improvement. ✈ Creating a positive work environment involves focusing on others' potential and promoting an inclusive and supportive culture. ✈ Situational awareness and adaptability are crucial in aviation and life to navigate challenges and obstacles effectively. ✈ Avoiding blame and shame and promoting a learning and growth culture is essential for personal and professional development. Create a positive and inclusive environment for personal and professional development. ✈ Take responsibility for your actions and focus on promoting the well-being and growth of others. ✈ Consider the interconnectedness of different departments and stakeholders when making decisions. ✈ Deal with intense pressure and criticism by taking accountability and learning from failures. ✈ Embrace music, exercise, laughter, and continuous learning to maintain a positive mindset.   Chapters 00:00 Embracing Mistakes as Learning Opportunities 08:33 Creating an Inclusive and Supportive Work Environment 13:11 The Importance of Situational Awareness and Adaptability 23:30 Avoiding Blame and Shame: Promoting a Culture of Learning and Growth 45:15 Creating an Environment for Growth and Development 47:42 The Impact of Human Behavior on the Environment 51:24 The Black Box Approach: Considering Interconnectedness 52:50 The Importance of Honest Feedback and Self-Reflection 56:14 Challenging Yourself to Improve Continuously 01:02:19 Creating a Positive Learning Environment 01:09:46 Taking Accountability for Mistakes and Failures 01:16:18 Avoiding Silo Thinking and Focusing on the Greater Good 01:21:00 The Importance of Music, Exercise, Laughter, and Learning   To find out more about how Mark can support you in your aviation needs, contact him through the following links: Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mark-evers-28a1b775/ Website: https://www.aviatica-group.com/   I hope you enjoy the episode. Please share your thoughts - dialogue is massively important!   In the meantime, I wish you all the best, and please remember to:   Keep It In The Greens 😊