🔹 Want personalized support? Book a free discovery call with Jeremy: JeremyLipkowitz.com/intro Join me in this transformative episode where I appeared on Sam Tieleman's podcast, 'Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction.' I share my journey of overcoming pornography addiction and discovering a deeply fulfilling life through mindfulness. We discuss the critical moments of rock bottom, the power of mindfulness in cultivating awareness and equanimity, and the importance of building a life fill...
🔹 Want personalized support? Book a free discovery call with Jeremy: JeremyLipkowitz.com/intro In this episode of Unhooked, I am joined by Sam Webster Harris, host of the Growth Mindset Psychology and How To Change The World Podcast. We dive deep into the concept of a growth mindset, dispelling common myths, and discussing its vital role in recovery and overcoming compulsive behaviors. We explore the evolution and significance of shame, as well as the powerful influence of neuroscience and ne...
🔹 Want personalized support in your recovery? Book a FREE discovery call with Jeremy to see if coaching is right for you at JeremyLipkowitz.com/intro 🔹 In this episode of Unhooked, I'm joined by Intimacy Expert Allana Pratt. Allana shares powerful insights into building and maintaining deep emotional and physical intimacy within relationships. The conversation covers strategies for overcoming challenges such as disconnection, rejection, and past trauma. Allana discusses the importance o...
In this episode of the Unhooked Podcast, I'm joined once again by Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Sam Tielemans, who has dedicated over 15 years to helping men break free from porn addiction and rebuild emotional intimacy. We delve into practical strategies for creating emotional safety and rebuilding trust in relationships following betrayal or secrecy. Sam and I discuss the importance of collaborative healing as a couple, effective ways to communicate, and how to validate and support...
Join me as I celebrate 150 episodes of the Unhooked Podcast! In this special episode, I share 10 transformative lessons I've learned from over 300,000 downloads and years of experience helping people recover from porn addiction. These lessons cover essential topics like battling shame, the importance of community, the power of mindfulness, and much more. This episode is a must-listen for anyone on a journey to recovery or personal growth. Don't miss out on these invaluable insights! -------- ...
In this episode of Unhooked, I'm joined by Tyson Adams, a trauma-informed IFS men's coach, somatic bodyworker, and psychedelic facilitator who overcame a 20-year porn addiction. We discuss the profound impact of outgrowing porn, the importance of retaining life force energy, and how it can make life more joyful and abundant. Tyson shares his journey and offers insights into embracing semen retention, the importance of somatic practices, and how to achieve a loving relationship with oneself. W...
In this episode of Unhooked, we delve into the complex topic of betrayal with Lora Cheadle, a betrayal recovery coach and attorney. After discovering her husband's 15-year affair, Lora rebuilt her life and now empowers others to navigate betrayal, addiction, and relational healing. Learn about the true meaning of betrayal, how it impacts identity, and effective ways to rebuild trust. Lora shares tangible practices for both the betrayed and the betrayer, offering insights into handling shame a...
In this insightful episode of the Unhooked Podcast, I'm joined by Sam Tielemans, a licensed marriage and family therapist with over 15 years of experience. Sam shares his expertise in helping men overcome pornography addiction by addressing the deeper emotional pain driving their behavior. We discuss how to identify and heal the real reasons behind one's urges, the importance of understanding the 'first domino', and the three types of urges. Sam also highlights the significance of effective a...
In this episode of Unhooked, we delve deep into the often overlooked topic of porn addiction with Dr. Trish Leigh, a renowned cognitive neuroscientist and brain performance coach. Dr. Leigh shares her compelling journey into the field of porn addiction recovery, sparked by a powerful personal experience. We explore the brain-based mechanisms behind compulsive porn use, the harmful effects on relationships, and the ways social media further exacerbates the issue. Dr. Leigh reveals her five-tie...
In this episode of the Unhooked Podcast, I engage in a profound conversation with James Routledge, the writer behind the Substack publication 'Jack,' which focuses on men's mental health and modern masculinity. We discuss topics including men's mental health, porn addiction, the stigma surrounding masculinity, and societal pressures. James opens up about his personal journey, his motivations for starting 'Jack,' and the impact of social conditioning on men. This episode is designed to challen...
If you’re just starting your journey toward breaking free from porn, this episode is for you. In this solo episode, I share the 6 simple, powerful steps I would take if I had to start my recovery from scratch—based on my personal journey and my experience coaching others through their first 30 days porn-free. From identifying triggers to building accountability and cultivating self-care, this episode gives you the practical structure you need to finally make it stick. 🎯 In this episode, you’l...
In this episode of Unhooked, I share an insightful conversation with Coach Frank Rich from The Rebuilt Man Podcast. As Frank’s first guest in his new Coach's Corner series, I discuss my personal journey from addiction to freedom, the establishment of Unhooked Academy, and the unique challenges men face in breaking free from porn addiction. We dive into the importance of community, the role of healthy shame, and the power of vulnerability. I also highlight my secular, mindfulness-based approac...
Join me on this episode of Unhooked as I welcome Kevin English, founder of Alpha Edge, who is on a mission to redefine aging for men as a rise into strength and authenticity. Kevin and I dive deep into what real masculinity means in today's world, discussing the five key pillars of holistic strength: physical, mental, emotional, moral, and spiritual. Learn about the importance of community, accountability, knowing your values, and the power of stepping out of your comfort zone. This conversat...
In this powerful episode of the Unhooked Podcast, I interview Coach Frank Rich, he shares the raw truth behind his 20-year struggle with porn addiction—and what finally helped him break free. From destroying the laptop he secretly used to watch porn, to opening up about his addiction for the first time, Frank walks us through the turning points that changed his life. We talk about the importance of telling the truth (even when it’s terrifying), building identity through fitness, and why real...
In this episode of the Unhooked Podcast, I interview Geoff Steurer, a licensed marriage and family therapist with over 25 years of experience in dealing with sexual betrayal, compulsive sexual behavior, and addiction. Geoff is the creator of the Courageous Together program and the co-author of 'Love You, Hate the Porn.' We delve into the intricacies of overcoming betrayal trauma induced by pornography, the importance of full disclosure, and why traditional marriage counseling often fails in t...
In this episode of Unhooked, I share a podcast conversation I had with Roland Cochran, originally aired on The Successful Addict Podcast. We dive into practical approaches to self-mastery, focusing on overcoming compulsive behaviors and the pursuit of external validation, and explore what it takes to truly feel fulfilled. Our discussion covers topics like mindfulness, neuroplasticity, integrity, and finding genuine happiness. Roland and I share our personal journeys and insights to help high ...
In this episode of the Unhooked podcast, I dive deep into the science of dopamine and addiction with special guest Mike Long, co-author of 'The Molecule of More.' Mike explains how dopamine drives addictive behaviors such as porn addiction and serial dating, and stresses the importance of finding pleasure and meaning in the present moment. Our conversation also covers practical tools and steps grounded in neuroscience to help break free from the cycle of craving and dissatisfaction. Mike shar...
In this episode, join my conversation originally aired on Read Between The Signs podcast. We delve into the misconceptions around porn addiction, its subtle yet profound impacts on relationships, intimacy, mental clarity, and physical health. I share my personal journey of overcoming a problematic relationship with porn and emphasizes the importance of community, mindfulness, and vulnerability in the recovery process. We also discuss the societal normalization of porn, the three A's of porn a...
In this episode, join my conversation originally aired on The George Peterson podcast. I share my journey of addiction and recovery, from childhood coping mechanisms to achieving inner peace. We dive into the psychology and neuroscience of porn addiction, the impact of trauma, and the Buddhist concept of the Hungry Ghost. I discuss techniques to break free from shame, rewire the brain, and cultivate equanimity for lasting emotional resilience. Join us as we explore the nature of craving, cont...
In this episode of Unhooked, I am joined by Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith, a couple with extensive experience in helping couples heal from sexual addiction and betrayal. The Raabsmiths share their personal journey, practical advice for both individuals and couples, and how trauma manifests in relationships. We discuss the importance of honesty, the long-term commitment to recovery, and the roles of personal and relational healing. They'll also discuss their framework for rebuilding intimacy an...