Victoria's Thoughts

<p>my podcast is here in service to Women. by sharing the truths i have come to know, i am able to lead women back home, back to themselves, back to their power. each episode gives women the tools to shed the layers of patriarchal conditioning, pain, trauma, and disconnection they have accumulated throughout their lives while we discuss deep healing, sexuality, relationships, femininity, true embodiment, dating, and all things womanhood. </p><p>xoxox,Victoria</p>

The Imagination Battle: the partnership v. dominance model & fantasy

*note: i did not mean to say that all romantasy was not serious literature - as i would qualify my book itself as a romantasy, and some romantasy books are some of the best stories i've ever read. but overall there's many romantasy books that are not trying to be serious novels but instead just bring joy and fun to our lives, and this is totally wonderful; my point was they, too, have a responsibility to no longer play into the dominator model - not just "serious" works of fiction. Books mentioned (buy second hand or from your local indie bookstore!):The Chalice and The Blade by Riane EislerEmergent Strategy by Adrienne Maree BrownAsk and It Is Given by Esther and Jerry HicksSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations

11-11
26:04

The Key To Security: a primary attachment with God

enjoy :)Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations

10-10
22:27

"I Won't Recognize Myself As I Age" : my response

imagine how many bodies you have had...you have dwelt in thousands and millions. and though you should love them, honor them, and cherish them...just as the wave is not the ocean, they were not you.I am now officially back open for coaching!! book your appointment directly through my website at: https://www.victoriadevall.com/bookacallwithmeif you need a specific time that I'm not offering, send me a message on IG and I'll accommodate you :) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations

09-07
14:16

Seeing the Value in All: moving beyond egocentric viewing and becoming a conduit for liberation

thank you girls so much for listening <3 Book Referenced: https://www.amazon.com/Emergent-Strategy-Shaping-Change-Changing/dp/1849352607Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations

10-03
22:59

Keeping The Heart Open Amidst Mass Suffering: the art of staying in the heart

rambled a little bit on this one but hope u enjoy hehe. love u girls.Making Peace With Aging YT Video: https://youtu.be/4NN1WlRzdNkSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations

07-22
57:14

Remember Our Oneness, Remember The Truth of Love

"the real work you have to do is in the privacy of your own heart...love that which you can love and just keep expanding it" - ram dassthis is my favorite episode to date. lessons from my companion earth angels, tete and lavender.love you.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations

05-27
29:49

The Hunger Games & God: exploring the parallels between the "arena" and earth

Helooo ladies <3 thank you so much for listening to this podcast episode, i hope you enjoyed :’) i am currently running a ~giveaway~ where you can win a free coaching session with me! all you have to do is write a review for my podcast on Apple Podcasts and send me a screenshot of your review to my dms on IG- and then you’re entered! it will be run until we hit 500 reviews, and once we hit 500, i will choose someone at random and tag you on my IG story ! Xoxoxox :***Follow me on IG: Victoria (@victoriadevall) • Instagram photos and videosInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com › victoriadevallWatch my New YOUTUBE VIDEO with a huge thrift/book haul: https://youtu.be/LVk3_P8k144Follow me on Tik Tok: Victoria de Vall (@victoriadevall) | TikTokTikTokhttps://www.tiktok.com › @victoriadevallFollow me on Twitter: Victoria de Vall 🪞🌼 (@victoriadevall) · Twitterhttps://twitter.com/victoriadevallSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations

04-01
36:05

Why Our Society Hates, Craves, and Conditions Us into “The Maiden”

Helooo ladies <3 thank you so much for listening to this podcast episode, i hope you enjoyed :’) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations

01-15
47:41

Women Who Cheer As Their Sisters Burn: pick me girls, the divine feminine, and amber heard

when you crave the validation of weak men so deeply that you will cheer as your innocent sisters burn, you forget that what they are burning is you.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations

06-03
40:48

Stop Using Motherhood to Avoid Your Life: having requirements to carry a child, prioritizing your partner

every woman, deep in her heart, requires emotional and physical safety to feel truly relaxed in the journey of pregnancy and motherhood. throughout the centuries, we have conditioned ourselves to forget that we have requirements for motherhood: having a safe, dedicated, and loving partner, being materially provided for so you can rest during pregnancy and postpartum, having your emotional needs met by your partner, having your unique requirements specific to you stated and met, etc. however, in this day and age now, women have no semblance of understanding that they should have their requirements met to have a child. because of this, mothers live miserable and unfulfilling lives. furthermore, women tend to use motherhood to avoid their lives and themselves. for example, a woman might be unhappy with the level of love she has received in her life, and because of this, she decides to have a child in hopes of receiving unconditional love (manipulative & abusive); or, she might not like the dating prospects she sees or she may not actually like or love her husbands husband or partner, and so she has a child to distract herself. what women are forgetting here, and what this episode aims to remind us, is that children are a small phase of your life: they will leave, you will not be their priority, they will start their own families and have their own spouses, and you will be stuck with the same unfulfilling life and partner, right where you started. don't avoid your life through motherhood. instead, cultivate a life you are excited about and fulfilled in. and when you are ready- if you desire- when you feel safe and secure and supported, choose to be a servant of a child by serving their soul's evolution through their childhood and adolescence. anything less than this is asking for struggle motherhood, and we're not doing that anymore.xoxoVictoriaSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations

06-01
36:52

Trusting a Man is So Healing: why we choose men we can't trust

in today's episode, we talk about the deep healing that occurs when we choose a man who we can truly trust, a man who we can put our guard down 100% with and know we are safer with it down than we ever were with it up. we also discuss why we choose men we cannot trust, and how that strengthens our wounds. if you'd like to dive further, you can book coaching with me at victoriadevall.comfollow my instagram: victoriadevallSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations

05-28
46:33

How to Receive: it feels so good to be provided for

today's episode is all about how to receive from a man and from life. we talk about being provided for by a man, genuine vulnerability, and having standards. there is a certain level of vulnerability that comes with receiving from a man you RESPECT. deeply. and that's what we are discussing today :) love you guys and hope you enjoyxoxoxox,VictoriaSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations

05-21
45:52

Death of the Chill Girl + How to Stop Looking for Male Validation

hi girlies, this was just a quick episode i took when Jeremie went to the store real quick :) i hope you all enjoy, love you!Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations

05-17
26:45

How I Healed My Period: from painful to painless periods

today's episode is all about how I healed my period and my own personal journey with going from extremely painful periods to painless periods. I understand that everyone's experience is different and unique, but I share the way I healed my period in hopes that it gives direction and guidance to others who resonate and are looking to do the same!I also understand that trans-people have their own unique experience with periods and did not touch on this as much in this episode but it is still valid and important. love you guys :* Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations

05-14
38:47

How to Heal Your Inner Child

hi girls, today is the best episode ever on how to heal your inner child. hope you enjoy :') if you'd like to embark on a 3 month coaching journey with me, go to victoriadevall.com to book your free intro call love you all :*Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations

05-07
37:35

Talking Stage Tips For The Embodied Woman

in today's episode, i speak on some tips for women looking to receive a truly safe and masculine king: from not pedestaling him to deciding when to sleep with him, i dive into it all! of course, for any of this to work, you must be at a truly embodied and safe space within yourself.to learn how to do this, you can apply for my 3 month coaching program, and schedule your FREE intro call with me on my website: victoriadevall.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations

05-05
37:15

How To Heal Your Anxious Attachment

in this episode, i tell you everything you need to know about how to heal your anxious attachment. it all comes down to building trust with yourself by feeling your feelings and holding yourself through the emotions that arise. doing this over and over until you have created a new, healthy baseline. another thing i did not mention is that especially right when you meet a possible romantic love interest, it is sooo important to be securely attached. if you are not, you will bypass your own feelings or emotions all because you don't want them to abandon you. when you are unafraid of being abandoned, when you are unafraid of feeling your "uncomfortable" emotions, you can show up to them fully embodied, and fully able to sit in a seat of power that asks "do I like them? do they meet my needs? is anything they are doing making me feel uncomfortable?" you will be willing to look at them evenly, because you are okay if they do not like you or want you. from that space, you can ask yourself if you even like them, or if they are meeting all your standards/boundaries. book coaching with me at: victoriadevall.comsubscribe to my YouTube: victoriadevall Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations

04-23
37:47

How To Heal Your Womb: yoni massage, healing sexual trauma, ancestral work, embodied sexuality

in this episode, i deep dive into everything you need to know about how to heal your relationship with your womb: yoni massage, yoni mapping, vaginal dearmoring, radical reclamation, why we are disempowered, healing sexual trauma, coming into union with your womb, ancestral work...EVERYTHING.another big thing is you cannot eat animals or animal products !!! if you'd like to dive deeper into 1:1 coaching and get to the next level of your life and become the embodied woman your heart yearns to be, you can book coaching with me at : victoriadevall.comif you liked this episode, you can also tip me at the link below!book I referenced: Yoni Massage by Michaela Riedllove you guys! :*Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations

04-16
49:06

Everything You Need To Know About Veganism

hi you guys, this is a comprehensive podcast about veganism: why to go vegan, how to go vegan, the animal environmental and human rights injustices that surround animal agriculture. comment on my last insta any questions you still have about veganism :)Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations

04-09
59:05

How To Set & Hold Boundaries

in today's episode, i speak on how to set boundaries, how to not abandon yourself, and how to allow someone else's reaction to your boundary. hope you guys enjoy :* to book me for coaching: victoriadevall.comto subscribe to my YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yu2O-SD9Gqg&t=1sSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations

03-26
33:06

Recommend Channels