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Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. 


 


Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.


 


From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!

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Mandii and Weezy are back with a wild, unfiltered episode featuring SK & Mylin. From open relationship debates and cheating scandals to co-parenting struggles, raising kids, and keeping the spark alive after 12 years, this one gets deep, funny, and messy all at once.The conversation dives into love, sex, pronouns, sperm insemination, parenting dynamics, and navigating homophobia, all while keeping the laughs coming with outrageous stories about celebrity encounters, wild birthday drama, and unexpected confessions. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com  Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Paul Pierce and Azar from The Truth After Dark join Mandii B and Weezy WTF for one of the rawest episodes yet. The conversation dives into the controversial clip of Paul Pierce speaking on why athletes date white women, and things only get crazier from there.From Kyrie Irving’s comments about salaries painting a target on athletes, to viral fly-out scandals, to real-life scamming stories from LA, nothing is off-limits in this episode. Mandii and Weezy push the conversation into uncomfortable but necessary territory — from open relationships, cheating statistics, and the blurred lines of consent in today’s dating scene, to the shocking realities women and men face when navigating love, and money in celebrity culture.If you’ve ever wondered what NBA players really go through, what women risk when they say yes to a PJ trip, or how relationships survive (or implode) in the age of Instagram and DMs, this is the episode to watch. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com  Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
KevOnStage joins the crew to talk about his new book, “Successful Failure.” Then Kev tackles  the struggles of being seen as “churchy” while still being human, and how movie theaters can feel a little too sinful. He opens up about meeting his wife back in 2000, their pandemic rough patch, and the hilarious Madden breakup attempt.  The conversation gets wild as they debate wings (blue cheese vs. ranch), pet play, cuckolding, age play, and erotic humiliation—complete with Kev’s unforgettable “Give me them feet, girl” moment. Kev plays some “Hoeatry,” his  wife tries to move another man in, Weezy’s broke-boy dating story, and why good d*ck will keep you from ever being homeless. Kev also shares his first time drinking (at 29!) & his infamous “doo doo” story.  OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com  Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Ep. 433: Captain Hook

Ep. 433: Captain Hook

2025-08-1101:07:50

In this week’s episode, we kick things off with a reminder to grab our New York Times best seller before catching up on life. Mandii doubles back on past stories before she and Weezy get hilariously candid about “counting their bodies” and debating “how big was the thang?” The conversation dives into feeling like a piece of meat, being called “babe,” and whether ghosting is ever okay.We unpack dating men with baggage, strategies for getting what you want, and Mandii’s surprising take on her ex. From not having time to consider others to an “emergency prescription” run that turns into unexpected flirting, the laughs keep coming. We wrap things up with high-energy banter about pulling out the vacuum and the effects of too much caffeine. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com  Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
This week’s episode dives right in as Weezy shares her experience at the Beyoncé concert and the beauty of everyday life in France. Mandii opens up about her newly single status and what it’s like being back in the mix. The duo talks UNC-tions, navigating transactional relationships, and making sure your man is in check.They also react to the viral B. Simone clip about friends asking for too much, unpack the history of pet play and kink culture, and take a deep dive into the world of furries—from TikTok trends to cosplay motivations. And yes, we end with Mandii’s spock ears. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com  Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
This week Mandii & Weezy are going solo again!  Mandii kicks things off with her thoughts on Othello on Broadway. After that, Weezy unpacks the stress of making birthday plans. They also break down “The Fajitas Paradox” (yes, it’s a thing), showing up in a completely different fit, and share a powerful excerpt from their New York Times bestseller No Holes Barred, diving into what a healthy relationship really looks like. Things take a wild historical turn as they explore ancient fertility rituals and ask: were Greek gods actually real? To top it all off, the ladies share their favorite kind of nut — and it’s not what you think. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com  Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
This week these New York Times Bestsellers are going SOLO! Mandii opens up about how things have changed since moving to Atlanta, while Weezy shares her date night plans and gets into a spicy debate on whether it's wrong to recycle date spots. Things take a chaotic turn as Weezy recounts a dramatic choking incident, and the ladies share an exclusive excerpt from their New York Times best-selling book No Holes Barred. The conversation heats up with viral reactions — including being “graced by God” to help a husband cheat, and a wild story of a mistress setup gone up in flames. The duo then reflect on the challenges of cheating, dive into the origins of the Kama Sutra, and wrap with a deep discussion on morals, virtue, and ATL culture. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com  Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Mandii and Weezy are back with a wild new episode featuring Grammy winner and TV powerhouse Kandi Burruss! The duo kicks things off with a hilarious Essence Fest 2025 recap, including Mandii nearly getting robbed by some aggressive studs and the thrill of becomingNew York Times best sellers. Then, it's a live sit-down with Kandi to talk about balancing motherhood, marriage, and the real tea behind the ladies’ new book, No Holes Barred.  OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this week’s episode, the ladies kick things off with some uplifting news about a friend beating cancer, before diving into a candid conversation about IVF and the surprisingly strategic side of choosing a baby daddy with elite genetics. They reflect on bone structure, beauty, and how all of it ties into society’s declining birthrate. A quick political moment featuring Pete Buttigieg sets the stage for a wild ride through toddler drama, social media clapbacks, and an unforgettable reading from No Holes Barred. They also highlight Naomi Campbell’s timeless influence and take a sensual detour into the world of aphrodisiacs — from olives and ancient Indian texts to bizarre Victorian beliefs involving goat testicles. It’s smart, spicy, and a little unhinged — just how we like it.   OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com  Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
This week the ladies are joined by the super booker lover, Traci, from The Stacks podcast! The trio dives into the world of books, moms trying to make mom friends, and what Traci thought the girls would be like versus what their book actually reveals. Traci shares how many books she’s devoured since 2017, opens up about life with her husband Mr. Stacks, and drops a wild OBGYN story that'll have your jaw on the floor. The ladies also explore their steamiest book moments, must-reads for a desert island, and the ongoing debate of reading vs. watching erotica. They unpack the cultural layers of interracial dating, Meghan Markle discourse, and the evolution of romance literature. Last but not least, the ladies get into the history of erotica.    OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com  Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions Help us become a New York Time's Best Seller & make sure you order your copy of Mandii & Weezy’s  upcoming debut book: “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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melvin rollins

name one long-term open relationship it doesn't work long term

Aug 4th
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Marquise Loyd

WeezyWtf you looking good girl😍

Nov 21st
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melvin rollins

wait to you find out he cheated on you he only in it because you let me have sex with others women

Jul 1st
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melvin rollins

funny hot Mandy think it's okay for a woman to do but not a guy oh maybe because she dates guys way younger than her

Mar 18th
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Marta Wiliams

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Feb 5th
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melvin rollins

wow Mandy actually seems like she's maturing some but weezy still talking like she's a 20-year-old girl

Jan 8th
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melvin rollins

i like everything he said

Dec 19th
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Vincent Ruiz

Love Havana Ginger!!!

Jun 14th
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Clarise Johnson

This episode was hard to listen to. I skipped it

Apr 12th
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T Dot 25

this episode felt so pointless with all the bleeps

Mar 10th
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Shysta McNasty

50:00. Real Sh!t

Jan 26th
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阚天石

123456

Nov 8th
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Vincent Ruiz

n

Aug 4th
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Ray Gilmore

weezy you can have fun and have sex after a breakup just make sure you stay in your lane Mandy get out of here with that negative energy

Jun 21st
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Vincent Ruiz

Isn't this ho mail old? Haven't we heard this one before?

Oct 11th
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Vincent Ruiz

We haven't been to the moon!

Sep 24th
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Vincent Ruiz

One guy got him that heated over not taken a staw. It's gonna be a rough ride for ole boy. Lol.

Aug 3rd
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Dr. Raina J. Jackson

Women can pay child support when there is 50/50 custody and she makes more than the man

Jul 27th
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Johnson Mett

Ohh Wow It's Best playlist I ever seen https://www.myloweslife.win/

Jul 22nd
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Clarise Johnson

just started listening and I am hooked!

Jun 7th
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