relax and trust the process towards your purpose. in the last episode of this season i speak about choosing God in a world set up against God. it's so easy to do what's "easy" or what's pleasing to the world, our friends, families, etc. life is about constantly evolving, growing, and learning from your past. sometimes its hard to see beyond our current situation, but that's why its so important to stay in divine alignment with His plan for you. he designed us with all the tools and experiences we would need to step in the fulfillment of blessings... God literally took his time on you.
on this episode i'm talking about love. but not intimate love per say, a more internal and operational version of love. we all want to be loved, but in order to receive it you have to be it. love is a frequency that guides how you show up for yourself and for others. it also helps you to operate in a clear headspace and not get caught up in people words or be controlled by your lust (which i also talk about in this episode). tune in man, you might learn something new.
it always seems that when you feel yourself beginning to level up, something is put in your path to steer you off course. these are the attacks of the enemy; the enemy only bothers you when your answering your calling and his main purpose is to turn you away from it. he knows that would exalt the kingdom of God. understand that these things are meant to slow you down, but when you have the fire of God behind you, you only get stronger and wiser. its crucial that when everything in you is telling you to pursue that gift, you let nothing prevent you from getting what's LITERALLY for you.
it's not a secret that life isn't easy, and anything worth having doesn't come easy. as you begin to elevate you'll face new hardships "new levels, new devils." this can be in the form of losing friends, a job, a relationship, etc. but sometimes your life has to fall apart so that it can fall together. your true power is determined by your mindset during these times. understand that everything is temporary, and that your current situation doesn't define you. adopting this mindset will allow you to realize that as you elevate the only "L" you're gonna take is a lesson. "when you are promoted to a new level everything is made new"
your ego will try to keep you in the past, or it will view the future from the lens of the past. once you are able to come into being which is the "now," you are able to experience the peace and joy that life has to offer. joy does not equal happiness and when you live in the present moment, you are able to adopt a mindset of abundance that will allow you to understand that pain and suffering is temporary. as you become able to "observe" your emotions objectively, you will soon learn that your mind doesn't control you, but YOU control IT.
as we begin to step into this new season, we're taking back everything the enemy tried to and stole from us. in the new year, we're harnessing our energy and making sure that its not donated to people and situations that no longer serve us, and we're doing it shamelessly. regardless if you consider yourself a Christian, the enemy is always working to destroy us. but in 2023, we recognize him and we're not giving him ANY power. listen in as i chat about how i've learned from what i went through in 2022 and how you too can take back ALL of your power. happy new year!
as your light begins to shine brighter, areas of darkness in your life will be exposed. situations, people, relationships, and jobs that no longer serve any purpose in your life will begin to fall away. the parts of your life that begin to break down as you shift your energy and focus were actually never a part of your story; once you decide to fully submit to the process, it'll be clear af what's for you and what's not.
we're all blessed with the ability to seek divine intervention on a daily basis. we're always protected and gently nudged and guided in major decisions. its through our intuition that we are able to hear that divine voice of truth. however, our intuition is like a muscle. the more you use and trust it, the stronger it becomes and the louder you can hear it. join me as i chat about how you can unlock the limitless power of your intuition and truly trust the process.
today i'm chatting about what it takes to raise your vibration to a frequency where you have no choice but to operate in a state of abundance. operating at this frequency is THE way to live, but tbh, its more than just a positive mindset. you have to really know and live in your frame and replace that negative voice in your head with one that pushes you to believe that through harnessing your energy and self-reflection, you literally can co-create your life.
in this first episode of the this new season, i'm chatting about life after your soul awakens. life as you once knew it will slowly begin to fall away as you peel away the layers of conditioning, hurt, pain, and shame. you begin to walk differently, speak with more confidence, and love harder than you ever knew possible. you've already been through the hard part of healing yourself, now its time to step into your soul's REAL purpose.
can't believe we're here... the final episode of this season! as I move into the next chapter of my journey, it only felt right that i summarize what we've learned over the course of these last 10 episodes. i hope that these 10 things will give you the inspiration to begin your journey into self-discovery.
on this episode my bro RJ and I dive into what it means to be a real friend, and what it means to elect your chosen family. tune is as we share our experiences, how we we we're able to protect our energy, and how we have begun to solidify our social circle. we're both goofy af so get ready to laugh, but we also drop some major gems, and showcase that blood genuinely couldn't make us closer.
"high doses of childhood adversity not only affect brain structure & function, but also the developing immune & hormonal systems, even the way our DNA is transcribed." - Dr. Nadine Burke Harris, MDno, we are not defined by our childhood experiences. however, many adults are subconsciously still living under the constraints of them. adverse childhood experiences (ACEs) are far more common than we think, and their not always visible to the naked eye. tune in to hear some crazy statistics as well as some gems that will give you a new understanding and respect for the phrase "childhood trauma." its possible that you may have even experienced an ACE and you don't even know.
plain and simple, the road to emotional healthiness is long and hard. if you try to control every aspect of the journey or continue to ruminate on your past mistakes, trauma, etc., you will never fully achieve your life's mission. listen in as i talk about how I began to enjoy the journey, learn from past mistakes, gain real wisdom and appreciate all that i've accomplished so far.
"if they wanted to they would." sometimes we get stuck because we see people for who we want them to be and not who they are. the sad truth is, some people only have potential and there's only so many times that we can explain our perspectives and/or needs to someone before it becomes insanity. it's at that point that you have to emotionally detach to protect your peace and sometimes your sanity (yeah that sounds dramatic af, but if you know, you know). listen to how you can learn to lean on yourself emotionally and attract what's supposed to be for you.
i went a little more spiritual in this episode. sometimes periods of isolation are required before we can really receive the next blessing meant for us. it is natural for us as humans (especially men) to withdraw when we're off set, but being too withdrawn can hinder the progress being made towards you receiving what's already meant for you. listen in as i talk about my how i "grew through what i went through."
in this episode i dive into the topic of validation. our chronic need for it is not only our demise but it keep us stuck in toxic cycles. I also describe how divisive and disheartening narcissism is, unfortunately so many people are not aware of the damaging effects of narcissistic abuse. once we awaken and we begin to love ourselves in the way we most need, the need for external validation goes down dramatically.
on this episode, I'm dropping gems on how much of our emotional trauma stems from some sort of love wound that was inflicted by someone we trusted and was never properly healed. sit back and relax and listen in on how I realized that my desire to be loved was shaping my existence, and how I finally began to rewire my thought processes and love myself in the way that I most needed.
what exactly does "waking the beast" mean? what happens once your inner "beast" is awakened? sit back, relax and listen to how my inner beast was awakened and hopefully you can skip some of the mistakes i made.
on this episode i'm chatting about hook up culture. everything from intimacy (or lack there of), post-nut clarity, relationships, friends w/ benefits, some of the affects i think hookup culture has had on our generation, and more. this episode is a little different and i had a lot of fun making this one so i hope you enjoy!